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Yup!! Got banned from askwomen for posting the steps a victim can take to hold her abuser accountable after someone commented that “there was nothing they can do”. They were literally supporting someone staying in contact with their abuser 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:40 AM
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If not permanently, then the majority of their life. I’m mostly talking about women who were pickmes during their teen/early 20s and stay that way until they are well into their 50s or 60s. A lot of these posts and attitudes are sadly perpetuated by women in their 30s and 40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:15 AM
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If all the “my husband/boyfriend crossed my boundaries, downloaded rape porn, secretly messaged his ex, plays videos games instead of helping me raise our child, makes me do all the cooking and cleaning even though I pay half the bills and work full time, and I don’t hold my son accountable for anything because he’s my precious baby boy” posts didn’t show you that then idk what to tell you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:01 PM
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Some women permanently stay in that phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:18 PM
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Yep this is how pickmeishas really screw the rest of us over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:45 PM
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😂😂 she skewered him. This could be on murderedbywords as well hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:52 PM
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Is this post still up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:41 AM
8

And also to moms of girls. So many girls don’t feel safe telling their moms what happened to them, so they keep it to themselves and the rapist goes on to create more victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:09 PM
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“Traditional” is just a scrote’s way of saying “bangmaid”. If they say they want a traditional woman, run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:22 AM
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Same, I don’t see anything wrong with helping a partner who actually wants the help. I felt like a pickme because I was the one pushing him to dress better instead of just dumping him and finding a guy who either already dresses better or is interested in dressing better. Lessons learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:05 AM
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Report that “therapist” to whatever licensing board is in your area. That is ridiculously unethical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:12 PM
69

Do women really buy men clothes with their own money? I mean I’ve helped exes fix their wardrobes but with his credit card, not mine lol And I still felt like a pickme because I was spending my time and energy dressing a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:10 PM
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It’s hard to give advice without knowing your country’s laws. If you’re in a place where the police won’t do anything then arm yourselves with whatever your country allows you to have. Killing him in self defense is better than being murdered by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:34 AM
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I don’t mean to be negative because your comment is great 😂. But I need to point out that the 1st one is rape. Any guy who has ever done that is a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:32 AM
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I can’t stand all the “casual” sexual harassment/assault in his movies. Even in the one where he tried to champion gay rights, he manages to include insane levels of sexism in the same breath. He’s gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:47 PM
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Exactly! I shared a bathroom with my brother AND my dad because my mom claimed the master bathroom for herself. I still never saw urine, the seat up, pee on the floor, or hair until I saw how other guys my age lived in college
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:47 PM
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I’ve honestly never had a rape fantasy in my life either, but I was also raised in a healthy environment where my autonomy was/is respected. It’s also important to note that while there are some women that do have these problematic fantasies, what random people say on the internet doesn’t represent most women. A lot of “women” that say things like that online are just incels larping as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:04 AM
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Wow what a pornsick freak, if there’s a way to contact that girl and let her know then please do so because that’s so vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:44 PM
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I always hated cory’s character. He’s just this painfully average guy surrounded by all these good looking, charismatic, and/or intelligent people who carry him through life just for existing. Topanga was always thousands of leagues above him in every way. This episode is a far cry from the “chick like me” episode where they actually call out sexual harassment/assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:21 PM
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Lol this river of bullshit is coming from an old, bald scrote. Old, bald scrotes have no business giving advice to teenage girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:26 PM
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I’m not sure because if that were the case then every victim of a crime would be obligated to report it, and many don’t because they don’t have faith in police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:42 AM
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Yup. Rapist men should go to prison for life, and the pickmes who enable them should spend years behind bars for aiding and abetting their sick crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:05 AM
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Wow I would’ve called them rapists and rape apologists directly to all their faces before cutting them off permanently. I don’t know how you do it 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:03 AM
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Why on earth was she paying his mortgage if she wasn’t living there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:40 AM
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Yeah I never took it when my brother tried pulling that crap, I’d shoot it back at him every time, so eventually he just gave up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:55 PM
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You can’t dump a LV brother? Guess I never got that memo because I cut mine out years ago, and yes I’m still close with my parents. The few times I’m forced to be in the same room as him, I treat him the way you would treat a distant 3rd cousin you barely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:29 AM
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That’s doesn’t mean he has to live with her where she’s cooking and cleaning up after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:59 PM
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A good person isn’t the same as being a doormat. It’s possible to care for the kid and throw the lvm out at the same time. In fact, it tends to make life easier because the woman now only has one baby to take care of instead of two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:00 PM
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Yep, he literally says further down in the comments he thought her “motherly instinct” would kick in during the pregnancy and she’d change her mind 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:55 PM
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Exactly this. Gen X came of age during the major conservative pushback that was the 80s. They are also currently raising gen Z, so it’s not that surprising how many of them are raising lvm. I’m just glad gen z has way better access to information so more of them can be turned away from this line of thinking and fight back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:09 PM
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Pickmes are not the reason why those men are so awful, thats on the men, but they are part of the reason why those men get away with being awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:59 PM
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Preach. And tell your friends because I seriously worry about how passive zen z girls are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:51 AM
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Exactly this. I refuse to live my life in fear of men, I won’t give them that power over me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:11 PM
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This!!!! 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:08 PM
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Nope, I love my moonlit strolls and I won’t have any scrotes ruin that for me. I do carry weapons though just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:06 PM
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If they were truly sorry then they would turn themselves into police and plead guilty to sexual assault. Anything less is bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:37 AM
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Female is an adjective, not a noun. It’s really not a hard concept to grasp yet scrotes and their pickmes can’t seem to manage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:59 PM
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What an idiot. That’s what being a pickme gets you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:27 PM
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And that’s still ignoring all the brilliant women who were inventors, scientists, an innovators despite being barred from a formal higher education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:42 AM
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I have never in my life had sex with a man just to please him, and if I don’t finish, that’s the last time he has sex with me. In my current relationship, sex does end when I orgasm, not him. You’re dating a lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:07 AM
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You can add blatantmisogyny to that list. Got permabanned for saying girls shouldn’t have to see unsolicited male genitalia, as it can be triggering for abuse victims. The men who run that sub went apeshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:40 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:00 AM
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Omg what a moron
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:59 AM
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Call the school and find out the details, then call the local media and expose them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:51 PM
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This was talked about extensively when I was in school and that was in the 00s. I couldn’t believe that my experience growing up was the rare one when I moved away after college. It’s crazy how we can live in the same country and have vastly different experiences solely based on which region we grew up in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:36 PM
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Yup, wound up here after blatantmisogyny started banning people for saying abuse victims might find the sight of an unsolicited penis traumatizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:06 AM
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It’s definitely my last remaining female-only space after being banned from blatantmisogyny for saying girls shouldn’t have to see unsolicited male genitalia. You’d think that’s a basic statement every feminist would agree with but nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:04 AM
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I couldn’t see the Imgur, but probably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:55 AM
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Lol nah I’m happy with my boyfriend, he hates scrotes almost as much as I do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:46 AM
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Fuck those scrotes, I’m done tiptoeing around their fragile egos. I’d rather potentially fight a scrote than cater to misogynists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:04 PM
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Yes but it still passed the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:11 AM
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The fact that 172 representatives voted against the violence against women act right after 8 women were murdered shows we still need feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:30 PM
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This is such an insightful post. As a 90s/00s kid, I grew up with so much “girl power” influence. Between the rebellious riotgrrrl trend, spice girls phase, media like mulan/motocrossed/a league of their own/she’s the man/degrassi/million dollar baby/etc. coming out, and that the girls who were good at sports/outspoken (and even a little mean) were the popular ones in school made me feel like I grew up in such a progressive time. Instances of groping shown were followed by the woman instantly be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:24 AM
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And their sob stories are “I was rejected”, not “a felonious, traumatizing crime was committed against me by multiple women multiple times throughout my life”. Pickmes, scrotes, and any other manosphere dwelling lurkers creeping around here, stop fucking comparing normal yet unpleasant human experiences (such as rejection) to literal human rights violations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:13 PM
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Those dumb knobs don’t even know that the incel movement was founded by a woman. Then depraved scrotes do what they do best, took over, pushed women out, and turned it into the vile hate group we all know and loathe today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:34 AM
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Wtf is this misogynistic garbage. Women are not objects that men have a right to access to. Since when is rejection and the lack of a guaranteed career handed right to them (which literally every human experiences) an excuse to join a hate group. Sex is owed to no one so if they really cared about solving the incel problem, they’d send them to extensive therapy to work on their bigotry/entitlement issues (or incarcerate them if they’ve committed a crime). Why doesn’t the author write an article …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:22 AM
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Lolllll look at this little fuckboy trying to use pseudoscience to defend his nasty community dick. Throw the manho back to the streets where he belongs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:16 PM
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If you have long term disability from his physical abuse then you probably have documentation to show the harm he caused in court. A civil case requires a lower burden of proof than a criminal case, I highly suggest pursuing a civil case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:08 AM
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I did too, but I still get the notification and I can’t get rid of the notification without opening the message, and I can’t see the message because I set my settings to no messages 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:17 PM
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Report them using “threats of violence” on the main website (the app doesn’t really seem to work for some reason).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:14 PM
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I want to report the sub but I can’t find it. Is there a way to say what it is without breaking “brigading” rules?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:47 AM
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Yeah red’s old fashioned sexism was cringe. I love when she just leaves him there when she makes breakfast for bob and Donna after midge left though. “I didn’t leave you, eat a pop tart” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:54 PM
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Yeah that was awful, and red of all people is the one who calls her out. That never made sense to me when in the earlier seasons she takes donna’s side during their break up and lectures him on how dumb he is for letting her go when she wanted him back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:03 PM
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Yeah I really didn’t like that season at all, it felt like the writing for all the characters was lazy and disingenuous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:57 PM
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Mine was kitty lol (except for how she babied her grown son)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:46 PM
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Yup like that episode where Donna finds Eric’s porn mags, he seems to learn that it’s hurtful to her so his conscious gets the better of him and he throws them out, and then she “understands” why he needs them later absolving him of guilt so he can go back to being pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:44 PM
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While she was married to someone else? Just doesn’t really seem plausible in this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:32 AM
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They met, not dated, when she was 22. They didn’t start dating until she was 31 (after her divorce from a previous marriage) and she married him at 34. Most 30 year olds do have the presence of mind to see bs coming, especially from old scrotes. This seems more like a pickme situation than a grooming situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:29 AM
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She was 22 when they met, at 22 I had already graduated college, traveled, started my career, and threw up at the thought of 30 year olds hitting on me, let alone someone old enough to be my grandfather. I doubt she was groomed. Marrying someone 30 years older than you under an iron clad prenup is really stupid. Bringing kids into it is not only stupid, but incredibly irresponsible. These two set the worst example and I’m disgusted with both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:39 AM
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Gross. That’s not only a recipe for autism, but she’ll be taking care of his geriatric ass AND a young, rambunctious child in about 5 years. By the time she potty trains the kid, she’ll be changing her husbands diapers. After about a solid decade of that, she and her still growing child will probably be burying him. How incredibly gross and selfish, they make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:30 AM
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At least the psych didn’t fall for the insanity bullshit and he’s facing the death penalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:28 PM
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It’s rape. I grew up in the northeast and this was talked about during sex Ed. Coercing someone into sex is rape, and we need to start calling it what it is. Watering down the language only helps abusers and keeps victims ignorant as to what’s happening to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:27 PM
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I figured, I just wasn’t sure if we’re allowed to name it without linking it. Either way better safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:45 PM
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One hurts individual women and girls for their own sick pleasure. The other is actively spreading hatred, actively indoctrinating young boys to hate women, actively advocating against women’s rights in general, and they’re also hurting individual women and girls for their own sick pleasure. Both are horrific, the latter is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:31 PM
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This!! 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:59 PM
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I disagree. Most red pillers are open online with the cloak of anonymity, not in real life. They share tactics on how to manipulate women into relationships with them and they actively recruit teenaged boys influencing them to hate girls. While male feminists are dangerous, red pillers are more damaging to society as a whole because they are organized and actively recruiting people to hate women in hopes of reversing all the process the women’s rights movement has made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:53 PM
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Where is this thread? Can’t seem to find it anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:31 PM
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That’s ridiculous. Was this local pd or a dedicated sex crimes unit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:34 PM
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Seems like more of a reminder to not have sex when you’re ovulating, which is an extremely outdated and unreliable way of preventing pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:36 PM
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It’s 2021, birth control exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:26 PM
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Feeeeeemales 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:16 AM
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Screen shot everything and send it to his fiancé. Then block them both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:08 PM
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Thank you. I scrolled WAYYY too far to see this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:26 PM
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🙌 exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:15 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:13 PM
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Just stop talking to them. They’ll either get it or they’ll leave you alone and either is better than being badgered with sexist bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:12 PM
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Yep, that’s why I stopped speaking to mine when we were teenagers. Still have zero regrets with that decision 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:11 PM
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28 and I still get catcalled and hit on by nvm ranging from 22 to 50 (in what world men over 35???) just about every damn time I leave my house..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:02 PM
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😂😂 yeah sure incel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:30 PM
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Hahahahaha all the incels say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:22 PM
4

Yeah, a shitty movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:35 PM
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He put the money on top of the sandwich. Does no one know just how disgustingly dirty money is?? Gross. All of this is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:23 PM
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This. I’ve seen, and personally been a part of, too many solid friendships between men and women for me to believe in that Oscar Wilde quote. I had a couple fwb in my early 20s and I wouldn’t have done anything differently. I didn’t want to jump into another serious relationship, knowing I wouldn’t even consider marriage until 28, so the fwb worked perfectly for me. It’s not like they’d just pump, dump and leave (as if I’d ever allow a lvm like that to have sex with me). The benefit for me was h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:47 AM
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This 100%. It’s never the “gawking” that waitresses are complaining about, literally everyone expects that from that type of place. It’s the harassment and assault (groping is sexual assault for any lurkers who consider it harassment).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:53 PM
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Dongers would go out of business in a heart beat because no one wants to pay to see male bodies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:45 PM
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Yes I always recommend this as a way to help shatter those love goggles. Write down every. single. thing. he did to hurt you over the course of that relationship. Whenever you find yourself missing him or wanting him back, read that list over and over again every time you get those intrusive thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:33 PM
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😂😂 I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:23 PM
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HVM take women on dates for company, to get to know her to see if she would make a good partner, NOT for sex. Fuck this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:22 PM
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Exactly. They only like that when they’re the ones doing the using on their terms. The waterworks start like clockwork the second you take control and treat him like the dildo he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:05 PM
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What sub is that? Because that’s harassment and it violates general site rules (not that Reddit admins actually care, more like they want to avoid bad press if it’s brought to the general public’s attention).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:20 PM
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Fuck that scrote. I wouldn’t touch some lvm who only wants one thing from me anyway. I want the hvm who wants a real partner and actually appreciates who I am, what I do, and everything I bring to the table, not some troglodyte who never evolved beyond our most basic functions. They are few and far between but they exist and I have no problem holding out for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:03 AM
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Now this is what a real man looks like, wonder if he has a son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:42 PM
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If there is a rape crisis center in your vicinity, they can help a lot. They help with getting therapy, getting you medical services, and assigning a victims advocate to help you if you want to press charges against the monsters who sexually assaulted you. Good luck on your journey towards healing and I hope you get the justice you so rightfully deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:24 PM
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And I assume this “realistic view on monogamy” only applies to half of the population 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:16 PM
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There are many different types of intelligence and acumen is one of them. She is fully aware of what he’s done, she knows his current behavior is wrong, and yet she still chooses to swallow his bullshit. That alone wouldn’t necessarily mean she’s a lost cause, but she’s been actively fighting the overwhelming amount of people telling her how wrong this is for months. So yes, someone who is that stubborn and unwilling to listen to reason appears to be a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:07 PM
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This has been my general rule since I was a teenager. He is not allowed inside me until I’ve had my first orgasm. If a dude tries to argue, he’s thrown out instantly. It’s been nothing but upsides for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:00 PM
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Sorry, but after going through her post history it’s clear that she isn’t the brightest tool in the shed. The man has cheated, lied, changed nothing about his behavior, yet she still lashes out at anyone suggesting she do anything that would show just a semblance of dignity. This one sounds like a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:24 PM
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Yep that’d be the end of my relationship with my parents. My mom was exactly like this, luckily my dad wasn’t and treated me and my brother equally. I went no contact (other than the occasional phone pass when I’d call my dad) with my mother at 18, and I intended on never really speaking to her again. She ended up admitting she was wrong and apologizing for it (didn’t see that coming since she always fought that idea when I’d explain to her why I’m not talking to her) when I was 22 and we have a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:32 PM
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Anddd that’s when you say “no, ask the son you blatantly favored your whole life”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:10 PM
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Please tell me the comments are full of people telling her to leave the chode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:43 PM
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So it turns out they did update their sexual harassment policy as well. From the article: “Twitch’s policy also includes more particular acts of sexual harassment, including privately messaging a user with unwanted compliments about their appearance, stating a person is sexually immoral because of their clothing or physical appearance, and the aforementioned use of the word “virgin” as well as “whore.” Other notable inclusions are: Degrading another person by accusing them of having a sexually t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:09 AM
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Exactly. Posting nudes hurts no one other than potentially themselves, and that’s only because of how our patriarchal society automatically dehumanizes naked women (but male strippers/porn actors/firefighters who pose for calendars are still worthy of respect as humans 🙄). How men point their fingers at women with one hand while jerking off with the other is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:02 AM
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Jennifer Anniston’s family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:44 AM
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Exactly this. Nothing will change until sexual assault is treated like the serious crime it is instead of just a dark part of life. A complete overhaul of the justice system is needed with more women in leadership positions. Once there’s an adequate legal system, more victims will have the confidence to press charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:40 AM
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How vile to even suggest that your mom was somehow responsible for her sexual assault (not harassment). I hope you were able to report the creep that sexually assaulted you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:48 PM
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There’s no use caring about a NVM like that. Just say you don’t talk to piece of shit misogynists and leave whenever he tries to engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:36 AM
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Don’t be afraid to cut him off completely! Sexists don’t deserve women in their lives in any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:32 AM
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Victims need to organize and file a lawsuit against tinder for knowingly endangering their users. Nothing will change until this happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:35 PM
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Sure and not all 14 century rats, and yet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:06 AM
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When he’s really just an abuser masquerading as a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:35 PM
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You didn’t even hit first, you pushed. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:15 PM
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“Stupid youthful invincibility” is a hell of a drug. I remember going toe to toe with boys my age in my teen years and thinking it was no problem because I ended up overpowering most of them. In retrospect, these were skinny teen boys who played video games all day, not fully grown 30 year old men. There is a difference and you definitely see it as you age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:13 PM
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I’d love to hear anyone try to argue that women are “too emotional to be President” after the fiasco that was the debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:19 AM
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I would like to read them :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:54 PM
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Yesss 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:18 AM
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I remember when she actually called out Eminem on his bullshit, and she did it at a time when he was aggressively verbally abusing everyone and being worshipped for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:04 AM
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The scene with Phil and the nymphs and meg’s “no means yes” line comes to mind. It’s been years, so I’d have to re-watch it to remember more but I don’t really want to lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:48 AM
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Hercules was my first introduction to what we now call rape culture as a child. Thanks Disney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:22 AM
8

Patients have always had the right to refuse care from anyone, which is why him solely complaining about women’s autonomy in that regard is telling to what a misogynistic creep he really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:07 AM
26

It’s in my comment history if you want to take a look. It gets worse and it’s way too long to post here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:43 PM
3

I’ve thought Gerard Butler was ugly since I saw him with his painted on abs in 300 lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:53 AM
5

That’s awful and I can’t believe those people for discouraging you from reporting. I would suggest visiting a local rape crisis center or victims services to get a victim advocate and share your concerns about safety, but please report him. You are not the first woman he’s done this to and you won’t be the last. The only way to stop him is to report him and hope the cop takes you seriously (if not, at least there’s a record of the report if another victim decides to report him). The victims serv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:58 AM
8

Yess 🙌. I’m so tired of the narrative that merely suggesting you know your rights and take control of your life is “victim-blaming”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:43 PM
-2

You will never convince me that a girl/woman publicly humiliating herself by posting degrading pictures for male affection is a sign of self-respect, which is the “hill I’m dying on”. I don’t know why that’s even an argument. 17 year olds are emotional and naive, not completely unaware of how the world works around them. Being so far gone that she thinks posting literal bitch pictures is perfectly fine is not normal for 17 year olds because they do functionally know better than that at that age.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:22 PM
1

She’s 17, not 13. She needs serious therapy and support to rebuild her self esteem and gain self respect. Idk how long it’s been since you were 17, but most well-adjusted 17 year olds can pick up on blatant misogyny. Most are also disgusted by 40 year olds so clearly something is seriously wrong mentally. That’s what abusers do, they take advantage of girls with mental issues, or he creates them by manipulating girls into thinking they have mental issues. Either way, the result is a lack of self…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:25 PM
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Anyone willing to publicly humiliate themselves for the affection of an old scrote does not have self respect. How is this even an argument. I simply said she lacks self-respect because it’s true. She’s being a pickmeisha because she’s willing to post degrading pictures with serious social implications for women as a whole just for a man’s attention. Most 17 year olds understand these implications, so yes clearly she isn’t well adjusted. Regardless, I never said it was her fault, I never said sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:50 PM
-15

Oh I have, and I’ve also experienced childhood abuse at an age where I was still too small to defend myself. I am in my late 20s now and I remember what it was like to be 17. At 17, I was visiting different countries on my own and fully aware of how I deserve to be treated. That’s not to say master manipulators using all the psychological tricks in the book couldn’t have tricked me. But a dog collar is so obviously blatant that this girl is definitely lacking self esteem and self respect. It’s a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:43 AM
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Pointing out the fact that she is doing blatantly dehumanizing things at an age where she’s practically a legal adult is not victim blaming. I like FDS because it is the only place on reddit which actually recognizes that calling out pickmeisha behavior isn’t victim blaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:36 AM
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That’s because you are watching her make a gigantic mistake, the same mistake you say you’ve made which probably makes it hit home more. Watching a loved one throw their life away because of stupid decisions is very difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:15 AM
11

Yup, she caught my attention when she called out Eminem in “obsessed” 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:22 AM
3

Don’t let scrotes ever stop you from doing what you want to do in life. Harassment happens in every field (and in public spaces in general), there will never be a “safe space” from it. Might as well enter the field you love. The choice is to do what you want to do and shut down any scrote who crosses a line, or waste your life hiding at home. As more women enter these fields, more will rise to leadership positions to change that environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:21 PM
8

LOLLLLLL thanks for this comment, I’m actually laughing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:10 PM
16

Women lose either way. I had small breasts in high school and experienced everything you did. Then I went from an A to a D in college. Now I wish I had B cups because the world makes you feel like you’re a whore for showing slight cleavage (which literally can’t be helped unless I only wear crew necks). Everyone stares at them in public, no matter how covered they are and there are so many cute shirts/bras that don’t fit me right. I’d get a reduction, but I don’t want the scarring 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:52 PM
20

Yup, and this applies no matter how long you’ve been with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:47 AM
5

Your father is doing nothing but bringing you down in the long run. Misogynists do not deserve the love of the women they do not respect. You need to work on being financially independent so you can set real boundaries: start respecting women or live without them (and actually follow through and cut contact if he refuses to).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:27 PM
4

Thank you for posting this!! Talking about the victim mentality pretty much gets you banned everywhere else because you’re automatically accused of victim-blaming by a wave of pickmeishas. This is an important truth that very much needs to be talked about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:07 PM
5

I still see more women accepting bullshit from men than men from women because of this mentality. Most men will not stay with a cheating woman, a lazy woman, or a controlling woman, and yet I see so many women staying with men who have those traits while they do nothing about it except complain about said men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:00 PM
3

How do you know he’s telling the truth? Is there a picture of them together or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:17 PM
3

I can’t avoid males without avoiding the spaces and activities I like as well. I have the same right to freedom of movement/free speech as they do and I refuse to let them intimidate me out of living my life. Fighting isn’t all about being huge. We are more flexible, we are quicker, we have a lower center of gravity, and we handle weapons better. You don’t need a gym membership or equipment to do strength workouts, just an internet connection and some space. An in shape woman who knows how to fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:42 PM
13

Sue the school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:40 PM
16

Yes that’s true, that’s why we women do not have the “luxury” of being weak anymore in this day and age (we never really did, but this generation of males is a whole new level of depraved). We have to protect ourselves. We have to hit the gym and lift weights to get stronger. We have to take years of martial arts. We have to learn how to handle weapons. We have to learn how to fight so we can stand up for ourselves. It shouldn’t be that way, but that’s our reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:15 PM
9

Love this. I’m so tired of women being afraid of men. Don’t get me wrong, women’s fear of men is very valid so I don’t fault women for being afraid, I’m just tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:11 PM
7

LOL trying to help women get a clue is how I got banned from askwomen. Apparently, they just wanted a victimhood echo chamber 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:20 PM
34

He is so grotesque. I don’t understand how such beautiful women end up with old ugly scrotes like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:47 AM
3

😂 the audacity. Like how do you not laugh in their face when they pull this ridiculous bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:49 PM
3

LOL im guessing this is unpopular opinion since that sub is the first misogynistic cesspool that came to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:33 PM
28

Holy shit, if you can screenshot it and send the evidence to the ex then she may be able to press charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:18 PM
32

Yup askwomen is such a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:14 PM
0

So “my daddy won’t let me come out and play” is your solution? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:10 PM
15

What do you mean “not allowed”? How is anyone actually stopping them from doing these things? What are the men going to do about it, whine incessantly? I genuinely cannot understand this concept unless it’s an abusive situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:05 PM
4

Wow I can’t believe you have it in you to still keep her as an acquaintance after that. I’d have told her to fuck off permanently for defending a sexual abuser. I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:55 PM
3

Uhh no offense but if being sexually assaulted wasn’t enough to stop speaking to them, then honestly what is??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:45 PM
3

Women were disempowered and diminished right when agricultural communities were formed. Agricultural communities brought the concept of “property ownership”, which is where patriarchy began. “1000” was just an arbitrary number to show this is a very old, made-up concept, but yeah “thousands” is more accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:56 PM
4

Thank you!! Yes, the problem has never been about sex but about the patriarchal weaponizing of it to control women. There’s a reason why many women know next to nothing about their sexuality, and it’s because that information is practically censored in schools. I think so many of us have been taught that sex is inherently “bad” or “shameful” for women and only benefits the male that some confuse that for “nature” because it’s all they’ve known. There is nothing “natural” about this completely ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:14 PM
1

They’ve deciphered male nature to a T. They spend 99.999% of the time talking about trading up, so I see why that’d upset a male like you. TRP says nothing that a 60s playboy magazine doesn’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:20 AM
1

Ugh don’t fucking quote sunny, it’s not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:15 AM
25

There’s polite and then there’s straight up lying to the man, “to no fault of your own”?? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:04 PM
17

It might be different now. Current revenge-porn laws are only a few years old. Whether the scrote cops actually do something or not is a different story, but you’d certainly have a case now in most jurisdictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:56 PM
1

Yeah and then they go and post shit like this
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/20 07:35 PM
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Women lose friendships, employment, and family over the societal notion that women, and women only, are somehow bad people for having multiple sex partners. Pretty entitled of you to think that two humans should be held to different standards solely based on what’s between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 06:00 PM
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I didn’t say you, this isn’t about you. Society in general shames women for having sex at the same rate men do. They expect women to remain virgins, or close to, even though they are also human and have the same primal desires as men do. There shouldn’t be any more adverse social consequences for women having sex than men, and yet there are. The consequence for the simple act of having consensual sex with multiple single partners shouldn’t ever be the loss of respect as a human being. Therefore,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 05:12 PM
1

No, just stop getting emotionally invested in worthless men. What do you want from them that you can’t get yourself? The literal only thing in this day and age is simply companionship. Find the types of men who are also looking for familial companionship and won’t risk losing that family through cheating, they exist. Until you find one actually worth caring about, either have fun with the rest or act like they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:54 PM
3

Of course women lie more when it comes to sex. Did you think socially shaming women for having sex would make them be more forthcoming about it? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:54 PM
2

So according to you, the woman uses the beta for his resources while she cheats on him with the alpha for sex...and this is acceptable to you “because biology” (which you obviously have no understanding of, but teaching you that is someone else’s problem). Sounds like she’s got the best of both worlds here, so how exactly do you come out on top?😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:50 PM
1

Uhh there is a group that has “decoded” men. Youve probably heard of it since it’s the thing that makes males like you drown the internet in your tears. I wouldn’t have ever even found it if it wasn’t for MRAs constantly posting and whining about it across all platforms. It’s called femaledatingstrategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:45 PM
1

Well yeah, how else is he going to support his narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:29 PM
2

The majority of the comments on this sub are nothing but disparaging remarks about women as a whole. The ones you speak of are not only few and far between, but downvoted to hell on here so that’s what I’m basing my judgement on.
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/20 03:07 AM
0

Lmao and now you know why you males aren’t taken seriously. This thread is a perfect example of how the majority of you just want to be assholes and have no interest is actually achieving an egalitarian society.
/r/AntiFeminists07/09/20 02:56 AM
2

I’m surprised they even want to call the male anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:50 AM
35

Gross, I’d ask how the hell that cop still has a job but we all know the answer to that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:10 PM
41

This should be posted on dataisbeautiful just to raise awareness and shut the “but muh emotional logic” scrotes up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:53 AM
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What the fuck. Genuinely curious, not trying to shame you or anything, what made you want to have sex with him again after that? If I don’t have an orgasm during sex, that’s the last time he has sex with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:28 PM
4

Same! I’m so grateful that I wasn’t raised to take shit from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:27 PM
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Oh for sure, that’s why I say martial arts and not self defense. There is a whole mind/spiritual aspect to it, but I figured they’d learn all about that if they decide to look into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:30 PM
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How schools handle bullying is atrocious, it’s all about saving face and not the actual issue at hand. I was thinking more along the lines of the martial arts background giving him the confidence to say “leave her alone” vs swooping in and fighting them off. If they start attacking him just for saying that, he’s in self-defense mode again. Unfortunately it’s not just schools, assault laws also make it so it’s almost never a good idea to throw the first punch at any age. Yes, having the wisdom to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:28 PM
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When you said that little girls imitating older women’s clothing choices is the reason for their sexualization. That puts the blame on the older women’s “revealing clothing” choices instead of male behavior and their problematic views on women in revealing clothing in general. The point is that women shouldn’t have to choose between their sexuality and being taken seriously, they shouldn’t have to choose between being sexy and smart/driven, and they sure as hell shouldn’t be seen as inherently s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:16 PM
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Getting him into some form of martial arts might help. I recommend this for all girls, but your son could benefit from learning how to physically stand up for himself and others (especially girls who are afraid to stand up to boys harassing them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:12 PM
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Sexual assault and abuse is a risk whether you’ve properly vetted a casual hookup or youre married to the man. I understand the caution some women take, nothing wrong with being safe especially if casual sex isnt particularly enjoyable to them. However, I don’t want to let lvm/nvm and their behavior stop me from doing anything I enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:45 AM
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It’s also nice in real life so long as you’re actually in control. The reason why it doesn’t work is because too many women just let the guy do whatever they want with their body and I’ll never get that. Casual sex is for me, not him. No guy is allowed to even enter me before I’ve had my first orgasm. If the guy isn’t willing to pleasure you during casual sex, its not hard just to throw his ass out with his dick in his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:36 AM
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She should have left him when she caught him texting other women. This is a pickmeisha and a half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:05 PM
29

Yup, chances of developmental defects are increased with 40+ year old sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:12 PM
24

I like my (justifiable) anger, its what makes it easy for me to not accept shit behavior from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:53 PM
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“You might think you are being kind, loving, and patient when you do nice things for your man. The LVM probably just thinks you're a dumbass and a sucker. In that moment, the woman thinks she is being patient, or understanding, or that she is helping him "improve". The man just sees her as a sucker.” 🙌 thanks for calling out one of the oldest manipulation tactics out there, convincing women that they’re good people if they eat shit with a smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:29 PM
35

“I’m sorting through trash” 😂😂 I’m going to have to borrow that line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:39 AM
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My ex was a jealous, insecure, control freak. Constantly tried to control me and implement double standards (I say try because I never listened to him and we’d fight constantly instead). My current bf wouldn’t dream of telling me what to do about anything. He treats me with respect and has never once crossed my boundaries. He always goes out of his way to make sure I’m completely satisfied in bed. He pays for most of everything and does most of the deep cleaning/trash removal. We cook food and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:07 AM
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I’m new here and I’m not a mod so that’s up to them. It’s either the inability or the unwillingness to cook because he believes that’s inherently your role. Men like that usually also believe that cleaning and child rearing is solely your job as well, which will lead to you just taking care of two children. If you want a set up where he pays and you primarily do homemaking, there’s nothing wrong with that so long as there’s mutual respect as equal partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:23 AM
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It’s bad if he thinks it’s your automatic obligation because you’re a woman. However you want to split responsibilities is your business, but if he doesn’t even have the ability to cook whenever you can’t, that’s pretty low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:11 AM
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Literally every other post in relationship advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:35 AM
3

Yeah but watching them short circuit because they don’t know what to do when presented with actual verifiable facts can be entertaining for a minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:29 AM
4

Not me, if I’m ever cursed with a son who turns out that way he’s getting the boot at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:34 PM
8

Came here to say what several others have already said, so I’ll address something I haven’t seen yet. “What does she have that I don’t”, you ask? Sounds like she commands respect. You served him, you loved him, but you did not command respect from him. I bet you anything he’s driving to see her because she won’t drive to him. If he threatens to leave her for not changing something about herself, she can say “there’s the door” because her life clearly does not revolve around him. If he acts up, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:55 PM
3

Choosing to put up with a situation and quietly resenting him is essentially eating all his shit. I can see why people would look down on that. But you didn’t do that, you put him in his place. With a situation like this there are two options, leave or fight back. It’s the ones who do neither but still complain about their lvm who get their intelligence questioned. You fought back, you’re prepared to throw him out if he crosses the line again. You’re good, he’s a sack of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:10 AM
3

Awesome, thanks for sharing 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:20 PM
34

How is no one calling that rape?? He ignored her boundaries. It’s rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:06 PM
6

Thank you! I think it’s way too overlooked just how mentally ill someone must be to allow themselves to be treated that way. They are not of sound mind and they need outside help to get them out, even if it’s kicking and screaming. The ability to take bullshit is not “strong”, “loving” or “being the bigger person”. It’s not an admirable quality whatsoever, it’s being a doormat who has been conditioned to take abuse with a smile. The fact that he’s manipulated her so bad to the point that she say…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:54 PM
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Some of them do actually give a shit (I know, they’re few and far between), and even when they don’t (which is the majority), just having a record of his behavior logged in your report is enough to put him on the radar if the next victim reports. It’s worth it to try. Don’t ever let a scrote convince you to not even bother fighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:00 PM
2

THIS!! Fight back any way you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:23 AM
2

Yep. So tired of pickmeishas worshipping men who just act like normal, decent people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:14 AM
1

They still are in many parts of the US. Idk what magical part of the US you live in where women have all the power and are free to do whatever they want without judgement, but you clearly haven’t met any Mormons, evangelical Christians, Pentecostals, Amish, or really anyone from rural America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:49 PM
1

Mexican women literally protested for days and then went on strike from society on March 9th of this year to protest the rampant violence against them. Angry Mexican men are actually killing women out of revenge. There have been massive protests in Argentina, Brasil, el Salvador, and Chile as well. You have no idea what the hell youre talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:43 PM
20

That’s more than reasonable. If a father can’t be with his own child two nights a week then you might want to get him into counseling.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 03:16 PM
16

She’d been saying she will not be a stay at home mom from day 1, he already had accepted it. He never voiced concerns about it until now. So no, it is not her job to read his mind. This is on him for not communicating his wants properly.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:25 PM
12

I’m assuming that means pitching in when he’s back from work instead of relaxing and re-charging for his next work day.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:23 PM
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This is more of a he assumed she’d change versus them both doing it. She is actually being consistent to the conversations they’ve had about this while he was secretly hoping she’d change her mind after having the baby and got upset when she didn’t. They definitely need a couples therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 02:21 PM
2

I still can’t make sense of that in a field where women are in leadership positions. How is a woman going to fast track a man but leave other women to be practically glorified (and underpaid) techs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:05 PM
0

Uhh what kind of place do you live in where rats and roaches appear after a few days of dirty dishes?? No one is blaming women for initiating 70% of divorce except for salty red pillers. Most people understand exactly why women are leaving their low quality husbands. The genuinely clueless men will do their share when women straight up put their foot down. It’s ridiculous to have to tell them to begin with, it’s even more ridiculous to be “gentle” instead of assertive about something that’s lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:04 PM
1

Again, clean what you need to use, feed yourself and your child (not your husband, do not make enough food for him), and then leave the kitchen the way you found it. This is temporary to get him to start pitching in. If he still refuses to, take the child, LEAVE HIM, and collect child support. Women who are already working full time have no reason to stay. In fact, once they leave it tends to be a relief because now they only have one child to take care of instead of two. What I realize is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 02:42 PM
-1

Men don’t love, period. They don’t have the emotional capacity for it. They feel temporary affection, and maybe even a strong likeness at best, for things they perceive will help them achieve their goals, but they are entirely goal oriented. Realizing that is the key to making relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:57 AM
-1

Because they divorce their shit husbands. Women initiate the majority of divorces, and there are more single US men than women. Only a moron with zero understanding of female anatomy would equate women having sex to being “pumped and dumped” . In fact, men are the ones with the increased mental health issues and subsequent increased suicide rates..a common red pill talking point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:46 AM
1

What’s so hard about refusing to do his share of the unpaid labor? Wash only your clothes, clean only what you need to use and then leave it how you found it, and cook only enough food for yourself until he gets it. If he doesn’t get it then LEAVE HIM.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:38 AM
1

“To be in control” 😂 what a load of shit. No one wants to be with some controlling asshole who starts fights every time he feels like he’s losing “control” over the type of relationship that’s only sustainable as a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:51 PM
1

He gets to be the boss, and more importantly stay the boss, by EARNING the respect and loyalty of his fellow wolves. Those are the true alphas, the leaders that last. Little manchildren playing alpha during their natural peak-strength years with no regard towards the pack they lead get replaced very quickly. Feigning respect out of fear isn’t actually respect, so their followers abandon them the second they can. Leaders of organized crime are practically shunned in today’s society. CEOs/leaders …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:24 PM
1

You just described a psychopath, not an alpha 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:50 PM
1

Yeah sure women are the dumb ones r/whywomenlivelonger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:48 PM
9

Right because men never start fights for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:17 PM
1

Uhh getting to the point where he’s sticking his dick in someone else takes a series of choices, it is not an “idiotic mistake”. He still wanted and got with other women after being with you because what you have to offer wasn’t enough for him. But of course you’re the type to blame the “sluts” lol. Then he went out and couldn’t find better so he settled for you knowing you’d sit there forever waiting with open arms like a moron. You’re not “the best” you’re “the best so far” in his eyes, otherw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:04 PM
1

Alphas also have dignity, self-control, and self-respect. They don’t compromise their values to be a cheating fuckboy just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:51 PM
3

LOL your narrative just shot itself in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:23 PM
1

Pretty much. Those type of older men either aren’t serious or they are low quality men who good women like you wouldn’t settle for anyway so they try to take advantage of the age gap.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 11:23 PM
1

Yup (kind of piggy backing off your comment here) and instead blame women for their misery. That’s what turns so many women off red pill, there’s too many of these guys there so they give the impression thats how red pilled men are in general.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 10:23 PM
1

How you do balance not allowing a husband to speak to you or treat you in a certain way with being submissive?
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 10:05 PM
1

That a pretty interesting perspective. Do you think those differences mean that women should be submissive/subservient and that there should be different opportunities for men and women in society?
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 09:27 PM
1

Certainly not her lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:15 AM
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Their existence throughout human history still refutes your statement about men being licentious because of women’s liberation. As proven, men have always been licentious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 04:48 AM
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Yes, you finding out you aren’t her sole number 1 prospect is due any day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 04:47 AM
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If it’s nope for the latter, then you are not her number 1. You won’t believe me though, you’ll find that out on your own eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:15 AM
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Lol your LTR doesn’t see you as her number 1 unless you’re lying to her and she thinks you’re sexually faithful to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:23 AM
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All that article says is that women would rather wait for someone who meets their standards instead of settling for some asshat because their clock is ticking. It says nothing about how happy or unhappy they are. Being nice is the bare minimum expected of anyone in a civilized society. Both parties need to bring much more to the table for a romantic relationship than simply being nice. Men want a woman who isn’t a “slut” but she’s supposed to not care about his body count or other children he’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:18 AM
1

Yes because women no longer have to deal with men who fail to hold up their end of the contract. Instead of putting up with double standards, they can and do leave. Women also have zero control regarding the birth of children if they live in a red state. Republicans will soon overturn roe vs wade and then the rest of the women will also have no control so voting for the pro-lifers also means the fathers will be legally responsible for every woman he impregnates. All that attention and visibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:34 PM
5

Yeah? All 68.5 million? 😂 Do tell
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:04 PM
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“The limitations put on women were attempts to prevent them women from cheating the contract”. You cannot successfully put limitations on women without also applying them to men. The sexual revolution was a direct consequence of that mistake. No one is forcing fathers to leave their children nowadays, another outcome was making it difficult to deny the father partial custody/visitation if he isn’t abusive. Most (non-abusive) fathers who have no contact with their children are doing so voluntaril…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:57 PM
5

Says you, which is why I again say that sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:41 PM
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Right that’s why divorce rates sky rocketed right after the equal pay act and title IX were passed. There are no current reputable studies showing that women are ok with cheating/polygamy. DNA studies have confirmed that neither sex is wired for monogamy. Switching mates was of evolutionary value to ancestral women and may predispose heterosexual women to seek alternate partners. "Breaking up with one partner and mating with another may more accurately characterize the common, perhaps the primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:39 PM
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Sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:59 PM
4

Cherry picking involves ignoring evidence that contradicts the individual statement in favor of evidence that does. In order for that statement to be “cherry picked” as you say, there would have to be evidence that 99% of men were faithful. Where is this evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:58 PM
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It was much too common an occurrence for it to be considered an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:50 PM
5

That’s real convenient for the side that has. When you’re dealing with two human beings, restricting one over the other will have its consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:48 PM
5

Lol sure mistresses and brothels never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:45 PM
2

Lol keep crying about how women no longer have to revolve their lives around what you view as valuable. Yes, you are powerless to stop it being than you can no longer financially coerce a woman into submission. They can and will ignore you, dump you, or divorce you for not respecting them as the equals they are. Don’t worry though, there are plenty of high quality men willing to treat women right. Maybe you can go away and build a mgtow community so everyone’s happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:18 PM
5

And yet upper class men had mistresses and lower class men visited brothels 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:03 PM
4

Part of that truce was men also remaining monogamous with their wives. The second they cheated on their marriage contract, they violated the truce. Men still impregnated women at brothels and left their offspring uncared for, which was detrimental to society. Therefore the checks on men had failed and continued to fail until women got fed up. Why should they be checked when men weren’t. Cue the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:02 PM
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Yup except it’s also human nature so women eventually got tired of putting up with the double standard, hence the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:49 PM
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You stated that sex was viewed as only for babies and it was all about monogamy. The existence of mistresses absolutely proves that statement wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:45 PM
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Lol women are absolutely opposed to sharing a high quality man, what are you even on about. Only gold diggers are satisfied with being number one for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:43 PM
3

If she bounces as soon as the affair seems viable then she wasn’t a happy wife. Happy wives don’t leave their husbands either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:41 PM
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You spelled it as two separate words, each word having it’s own syllable. I was essentially calling you an idiot for misspelling it, but of course that went over your head like everything else in this thread (and I presume your life) which is why you only spew unfounded, false information based on nothing other than your biased opinions. But sure, the one who can actually back up their claims with reputable sources is the one who needs to learn 😂😂. Bye
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/20 08:23 PM
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Blah blah blah same empty regurgitated basal insult, much like your personality. It’s stuck-up dumb shit. You’d think your mid grade elementary school education would’ve taught you that much at least, but that was giving you way too much credit. And you wonder why no one of worth takes males like you seriously 😂
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/20 07:13 AM
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Not the way you spelled it you uneducated, provincial bumpkin. But what else could I expect from someone who relies on simple insults, logical fallacies, and derailment as a pathetic attempt to cover up your blatant ignorance, which anyone with half a brain can see through. You’re embarrassing.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/20 11:40 PM
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“Stuck, up”. Holy fuck you prove yourself to be more and more retarded every time you comment.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/20 05:24 PM
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Hahahahaha and now it lashes out with the one syllable insults because that’s all a retard can do when proven wrong with factual information, how pathetic.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/20 04:56 PM
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Lmao it’s not good money. 50,000 is considered lower middle class. I made more than that starting right out of college. It’s a very average salary. Most dangerous jobs are working class jobs with average salaries. Even nurses make more than that lol. But good I’m glad in response to my factual article (which touched on multiple global issues) you gave me a source full of theories based on self reports and no mention of any relevance to the workplace, so that stretch you made from your article to…
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/20 02:23 PM
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You and I are from two different worlds if you think 50,000 a year is good money. Do you have any idea how difficult it is to prove that in court? Retaliation is also illegal, yet it happens all the time in the work place. You’re being willfully obtuse. The article I linked is about the global gender index gap, not the wage gap, which is how I know you didn’t read it. And you wonder why I’m condescending 😂😂
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 10:39 PM
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Right because everyone always follows the law, what kind of fairy tale do you think you live in? You think the dangerous jobs are the high paying jobs? 😂😂 Dont tell me you’re that dense.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 10:43 AM
0

What the fuck are you talking about? These are facts and you’re yammering on about fucking tweets.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:58 AM
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You clearly didn’t read the article 🙄
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:48 AM
1

Dude there are 5 year old girls getting gang raped in India with impunity. There’s been riots about it because police aren’t doing shit. You can’t deny those facts.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:39 AM
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Because rape is fucked for anyone. You have to be a real piece of shit to wish that on someone.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:37 AM
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False “The United States is 53rd in the ranking”
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:27 AM
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That’s why
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:19 AM
4

Yea they can though, by aborting right after they find out it’s a male.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/20 07:12 AM
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