| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 50 | Remember this …. | Corpus1965 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 03:44 PM | |
| 11 | Roller Coaster | Corpus1965 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/25 01:24 PM | |
| 6 | Waiting | Corpus1965 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 10:01 PM | |
| 3 | Thinking merry go round | Corpus1965 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 02:18 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | "Making" her get a job was the best decision I had ever made.Thank God you are getting away from her. You are my hero 🦸 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Joy of a divorced manNot us. 🏋️♀️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Mediation experiencesGet your OWN attorney. Hers is acting in her best interests. My attorney said they have to represent the ONE who hires them by law. That may or may not be true, but it makes since. They do not want to be sued on a regular basis. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Thinking merry go roundNo. I am not saying marriage is easy. And no my marriage didn’t end 33 years ago. I am going thru it now. Your reply is appreciated though. Made me think about the whole situation clearer. Thx | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Struggling with divorce, I want to kill myselfGod has someone else for you. We have to suffer and learn now. Believe me. We are all suffering bro. Just keep breathing and live one day at a time. I feel the pain and sometimes think it would be easier to check out, but that would be disrespectful to the One who gave you life. Keep reading this sub and talking to your brothers moving along this tributary of life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Stay strongNice. 👍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 10:23 PM |
| 16 | The trap waiting for you 3 years from nowJust stick with girlfriends | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Tough timesAwesome! Thank you from all of us. This post was 100% spot on and covered the bases. I am going to reread a couple times. Stay strong and take it one day at a time. The war is not won in a day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Tough timesNot a good idea. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Tough timesMoving out is abandonment and would be disastrous in divorce from what I have heard. My divorce realization happened three weeks ago. She wanted to wait until after the holidays and my son’s birthday on the 28th. We cannot live this way. Under the same roof. Even though I do not want the divorce, I told her yesterday we need to work on the separation agreement NOW. It hurts, but we need to move forward as there is no going back. So far she says she is committed to being civil and fair. We will s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Talking to ex wifeCompletely agree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 6 | 4 Years UpdateThank you for your post. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 11:43 PM |
| 6 | The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the court2nd | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 10:58 PM |
| 13 | The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the courtSo true that women only care about “happy.” My ex has now been married 4 times and is fixing to divorce again. She has a madters degree in psychology. She told me “when the negatives outweigh the positives, she is ready to leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the courtI’m sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 09:54 PM |
| 6 | The moment I realized my "Duty" meant nothing to the courtVery helpful post. Thank you. “They just looked at the numbers”. That is what my attorney said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 09:45 PM |
| 2 | I don’t fight for relationships anymoreGrowth and self respect 🫡 Congrats 🍾 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 01:58 PM |
| 8 | Gentleman- when did you know “I don’t love her anymore”Everyone is different, but one thing I personally cannot and will not tolerate under any circumstance, is another man. I divorced my first wife for that exact reason. Stay strong bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Remember this ….Plz eat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/25 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Remember this ….Rely on God. He WILL pull you thru. I know this sucks. Today is my son’s 20th birthday we are all sharing together. She does not reply all the time when I talk to her. Oh well, helps kill the thoughts of reconciliation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 09:43 PM |
| 24 | She wanted to prove she could do it without me 🤣I may be wrong here, but I would tell the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | It’s Christmas Eve and I’m sitting downstairs, drinking a Guinness, and dreading tomorrowAre you married to my wife? Same no effort. 30 years. Keep coming back to this sub to help you thru. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/25 11:04 PM |
| 3 | WarExpedite the divorce brothet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Help me understand whyNo. You are not in my opinion. I liked “I enjoy my freedom.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/25 02:06 AM |
| 8 | Glad there is some support hereSob brother. Those of us starting this painful journey are here with you. I am saying good bye to 30 years. I will not drink a drop of alcohol. I walk away from her in the house when feeling down because we plan to remain in the house until the divorce and sale of the house. This is hard, but I visit this site to keep me going. Remember, we did not quit. We are survivors. It hurts and is lonely, but the sooner the papers are signed the sooner healing and recovery begins. God has something better… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/25 01:52 AM |
| 7 | Literally floored by sadness.Moved away with your baby? Not allowed in family law I believe. Check with lawyer. You need to protect and love yourself now. Today will be spent with my Dad and my soon to be ex. We still are in the same house. This will be the last “normal” time spent as a family. I intend to distance my self while still being squeaky clean until divorced. Hang in there. You are not alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 06:57 PM |
| 2 | First Christmas withoutEnjoy the mountains and the company. We will get trhu this! I have a few friends who have gone thru this in the last two or three years. I have asked them if they are happy. The reply “GOD YES.” One day at time. Merry Christmas 🎄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Do i tell her the truth or sugarcoat it?I divorced my first wife for her affair. No need to sugar coat it. Just tell her that it ruined the marriage and and it isn’t something you can just “forgive.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/25 12:11 PM |
| 6 | Merry Christmas you glorious bastards!Thank you 🙏. Thirty year marriage ending and age discrimination took my career. Not in the best place, but this sub is helping me. Merry Christmas to everyone!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Waiting“Why live like that”. You are very correct. I stayed the last 15 years because I wanted to have a part in raising and seeing my kids grow up. They are now 20 and 15 and both firmly committed to their mother. I have heard this will change with time. Thank you for responding. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:20 PM |
| 1 | WaitingTrue. Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | WaitingThank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | WaitingThanks. Yes, I have to be “squeaky clean.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | WaitingThank you brother. Unfortunately I am retired navy and know she will get half of that for life. This situation is awful, but I know it is common. I am 60 and she 55. She has only been making 4 times as much for three years. She was making twice as much for about ten. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 12:02 PM |
| 1 | WaitingWow! Awesome and thank you soo much! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file.True!! Worse with age. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file.Talk to a lawyer and see what post marriage will look like. It will be hard to go thru, but when it is over you will be born again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file.File for divorce. I have been married 30 years to a sneaky passive aggressive. The marriage is dead. No intamacy for two years and no sign of love for 15 years. Filing is hard. She said she wants it, but true to her sneaky self is waiting for me to put my cards on the table FIRST. Nope. She will finally have to show her hand. She has NEVER “picked up the pieces” after an argument or fight. NEVER. I arranged counseling 4 times. I learned a good bit, but she was not even engaged. She now makes 4 t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 12:45 PM |
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