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1

Getting high together is probably a good date. Plus some people can get false confidence and charm while high.
/r/seduction01/10/22 10:02 AM
-1

She's not living her life, she's doing things to make OP jealous.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:18 PM
3

Texting random people seems like a lot at the end of the day. 9/10 it's going to be draining and dry af. When I had IG, I just followed people who had similar interests who were doing cool things. Ain't nobody got time to answer every message on IG, that's a job.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:16 PM
1

A follow isn't that deep. Strangers usually aren't doing things out of spite, they are carrying on with their lives as usual. A lot of people go through a lot of random stories when bored in bed or on the toilet, it doesn't mean they want to talk to anyone.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:10 PM
3

It probably means that talking to you or being with you feels like a chore.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:52 PM
1

Anything above 50. I don't look down on those people, I just don't think that we'd need compatible.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:29 PM
-1

Honestly, I don't really care unless I consider the number to be ridiculous. With the studies, correlation doesn't equal causation.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:24 PM
1

There are people that enjoy things that are typically tied to relationships without the commitment and the emotional intimacy/availability of a relationship. It's not just women who do things like that, it's people who are emotionally unavailable.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:16 AM
7

It's sort of like how it is more difficult to get a job when you're unemployed vs. when you already have a job. You're less desperate, you're obviously capable of being in a certain position, someone else has vetted you, etc. That is more desirable than someone who is unemployed, especially if they have no experience. I hope that I'm making sense. It's also possible that women see you as someone 'safe' to show attention to. Sometimes a woman may have interest in dancing with a man (this also app…
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:48 PM
1

Yeah, that makes sense. You make judgements based on profile photos on most OLD sites. Most of what you can see is how they look. For the OLD sites that foces more on the profile text, many people struggle to accurately and succinctly describe themselves. Personally, I think IRL speed dating would be more successful and less of a waste of everyone's time. You get so much more info about someone when you talk to them IRL. People are also more likely to give someone a chance if they like interacti…
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:19 PM
1

Agreed. Knowing their political leaning is important. I'm just a bit hesitant to date someone else that is super political. I used to date a woman that was super political, nearly every conversation would drift back to something political. We agreed on most things but I found her activism to be a bit exhausting sometimes. It would have been a perfect relationship if she could have learned to chill sometimes.
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:03 AM
4

More like, they take on the thoughts or opinions of whoever they're around. Their opinion is super malleable. Edit: An example would be someone that changes their mind depending on which news station they watch.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:48 AM
2

Or overly impressionable which is also an issue.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:43 AM
1

I don't see it as dishonest if they actually seemed to think about it. It would still be odd if their new stance is the complete opposite of what they started out with at the beginning of the conversation.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:40 AM
6

I'm a sucker for a nice smile. I really dislike when people change their opinions or statements to agree with me. It's dishonest and causes me to not trust what they're saying
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:02 AM
3

Gaining confidence in who you actually are is also a technique.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:58 AM
3

Personally, talking about serious issues is fine. It's annoying when someone is an extremist and can't look at different issues with nuance. There are also people who will only date someone who agrees with all of their political ideas.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:57 AM
2

Have you approached women or men before?
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:03 AM
2

I'm saying that it doesn't influence a person's ability to talk to women for romance. Sure, having an extreme relationship with one's mother where they see her as a sinner or a saint can be negative. Having a good relationship with one's mother seems neutral though, not necessarily an indication of how they see women their own age.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:48 AM
3

Maybe she was a bad parent, Idk. I don't get along with my mother (there is love, we just aren't close), that doesn't have a bearing on me dating women. I guess that I have good rapport with her when we do talk though. Many people view their moms as saints, unlike normal women. I've seen dudes who are super close to their mother remain single because they solely take her advice on dating.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:40 AM
1

The issue is that those nerdy guys and girls are in their house. Good luck meeting one of them out in the wild, outside of nerdy conventions.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:30 AM
3

Nah. I'd say a guy that can generally have good rapport with women around his age is someone who knows how to act. Who doesn't have good rapport with close family? Edit: To a lot of people their mother or sister are special. Dudes can talk shit about women and think that their mother (or sister) is the exception.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:26 AM
1

Social anxiety, no guidance, looking at women as a monolith (if 5 people reject you, those are 5 individual people not 'women'), shutting down after rejection, basing their confidence on reactions from women, watching weird PUA online that are selling some bs course, tons of low effort online approaching (it may eventually work but there are better ways to spend your efforts), and just hyping up rejection in their mind before they even approach.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:23 AM
2

That's clever.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:26 PM
2

lol!
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:02 PM
61

Y'all using coke before approaching? I guess that is a way to feel confident and energetic while approaching.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:58 AM
2

That's fucked up. I'm sorry that happened to you, that wasn't your fault.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:46 AM
4

I've seen women call dudes gay or some other insult.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:45 AM
3

Being a mirror is not the same as going off on a woman that said 'no thank you'.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:44 AM
28

Wow, that's insane. I can't believe he did that at the workplace where people know his name. Normally I've seen and heard of stories of weird dudes doing that on the street.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:42 AM
8

Yeah, I can see that ending up in death threats.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:27 AM
9

I think most people don't realize how it is for others.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:20 AM
12

It's crazy that you got death threats. When I had a phone job they'd usually just hang up on me or talk shit. After a few of those, it is difficult to maintain the same level of nervousness. Congrats on your tougher skin. I hope your new job is a lot better.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:14 AM
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Her response says more about her than about you. Cold approaching is like cold calling (for sales), it has a low close rate and a lot of rejection. It's important to maintain your confidence in your product (yourself) and to understand that someone would want what you're selling. You can try to feel things out before approaching by making eye contact across the room and seeing how she responds. It takes a lot of confidence to approach someone, you did what a lot of people are afraid to do.
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:55 AM
1

I don't know much about hypnosis, especially self-hypnosis. I only have experience with what I mentioned before. I used to have really bad anxiety, social interactions (especially romantic social interactions) felt like a quiz. I have a slight speech impediment which drove a lot of my fear. I spent so much time trying to say the 'correct' thing that I ended up isolating myself and avoiding socializing. Once I was able to socialize without most of my negative thoughts, everything changed. lol, I …
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:16 AM
3

This is not easy at all, it takes a bit of practice, but changing your initial thoughts helps a lot. Negative thoughts can lead to negative feedback loops. You think you're going to fail, the anticipation for failure starts, you begin to have nervous body language which self sabotages your desired result, you get rejected, then that strengthens your initial thought that you'll fail when you approach. Trying to actively think more positive or neutral thoughts before approaching may help a bit. "I…
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:49 AM
5

What negative thoughts do you have when you're fearful of approaching?
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:21 AM
1

Do what you normally do. She may have an open relationship.
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:07 PM
1

What's the point of someone telling you that they rejected someone on their nose? Are dudes going to change their nose? Why not listen to both? Wouldn't that give you the most information? Advice can be about what to do as well as what not to do. I'd prefer to listen the interviewer for tips on what not to do.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:27 PM
1

Wouldn't it be the same the other way around as well? Advice based on why people tend to reject the opposite sex wouldn't factor into less efficient advice.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:16 PM
1

Yeah, men and women are different socially.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:49 PM
1

People online often give general, basic advice. A couple of messages ago. People will assume negative things about someone's personal hygiene (including showering) if they don't look after their appearance. I've stated that general 'take pride in your appearance' could be switched out with the shower advice for those who don't need that advice.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:47 PM
1

It's ridiculous for people to make judgements on someone's personal hygiene based on personal appearance?
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:35 PM
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Women are telling each other stories about how they almost slept with a guy and couldn't due to them having smelly dick. Some people who don't take care in their appearance may be assumed to have bad hygiene without someone actually going over to smell them.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:03 PM
1

When did I say anything about 90% of women? A small percentage of men that smell like garbage. Other dudes, don't have good genital hygiene. You typically don't smell that when you walk next to someone but you will smell that when you try to get intimate with someone.
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:53 PM
1

Did you just disregard everything else I've said? Also how do you know how low the numbers are? You're own personal experience? It's not low enough to not be considered. Online you'll encounter a lot more of those people than IRL, since they don't leave the house. Bro, did you not read the second sentence about basic Excel knowledge versus advanced Excel knowledge? Did I say that 90% of people don't have Excel knowledge?
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:44 PM
1

There isn't a stereotype of smelly women that live in their mother's basement. Women are also typically socialized with a higher expectation of cleanliness. I've met dudes who didn't know why they struggled in dating. Typically they didn't take any care in their appearance, were only able to engage on limited topics, they had some type of mental illness diagnosis, they weren't in shape, they struggled to be social to the point that they often didn't have friends, etc. Those are all things that t…
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:04 PM
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That's common when trying to explain things that don't make sense.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:47 PM
1

You're focusing too much on generalizing half the population and on bathing/showering which could generally be replaced by taking price in one's appearance and hygiene. Taking a bath and taking a good bath are different things. While in the Navy, there are procedures for forced bathing for people who don't practice good hygiene. The people that had to be forced to bathe were typically dudes. A lot of people don't shower daily or skip washing certain areas. Some people 'let the water get certain …
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:33 PM
1

Nah, they think that not actively smelling like arse is enough. They do the bare minimum then are shocked that they aren't successful. You don't have to use perfume to smell good, there are tons of soaps and body washes that can make someone smell amazing. Most men that I meet don't stick. Whenever I have encountered a rank smelling person, 95% of the time it was dudes. They are probably thinking about the other dudes they know who are struggling when they give that advice.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:18 PM
1

Men who smell good are also a small niche. They should probably use different shower products.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:08 PM
1

Don't people in general give general advice? Especially if they don't really know the person or if they don't have much context about the situation?
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:39 PM
1

The advice should fit the person. Whenever I've given that advice, it was because the dudes either smelled bad or smelled like stale sweat. Generally, taking good care of oneself covers a lot and a lot of dudes don't do it. Looking one's best and having good grooming is not a feminine thing.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:11 PM
1

Same here. I said there was a niche group of men that have issues, including smelling bad. Edit: The barely taking pride in their appearance by barely grooming or staying in shape is much more prevalent though.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:05 PM
1

I haven't experienced many women smelling funky. It has usually been men. When I look around and see young families and couples. The guys usually look average, the notion that you have to be some super attractive man to get into a relationship is a bit much. It can definitely help, especially on dating apps but dating apps aren't the end all be all of getting into romantic relationships. Dating apps have people confused about what is truly important.
/r/seduction19/07/22 01:30 PM
1

There really are some dudes that smell like garbage, barely groom themselves, aren't in shape, and are a bit rude who are absolutely shocked that they are having issues though. That's a very specific niche of dudes though.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:33 PM
1

I kind of get it. I broke my own rule about not dating religious people. I met a really attractive woman that I got along well with, it was a great relationship but we ended up breaking up for religious reasons. I learned the hard way that I should not waste my time.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:22 PM
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I didn't say that it was a high number. People letting attractive people slide and giving them better treatment is universal. Bro, what advice have I given? I basically said that it's a good idea to listen to people and hear what they like or dislike. It is odd for women to only get dating advice from other women (if they're trying to date men), since they are going to miss an important perspective. Same with men who only listen to men (when trying to date women).
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:06 PM
3

I've seen many people do that. "I'd never pay for sex, I want a woman that loves me for me." Then you see them on sugar baby sites offering to pay for it all. Some people not standing on their values doesn't mean that no one stands on their values.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:43 PM
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What does the male experience have to do with women talking about what they like and dislike? Wouldn't it also work the other way around? That men don't understand the female experience so they may be limited to understanding their prospective in dating? What is wrong with listening to people on their perspectives and seeing if you can detect a consensus or find patterns?
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:18 PM
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I disagree, heavily. Good advice is good advice, regardless of who it comes from. Women can have valuable input about dating, at least in regard to what they don't like. They, like men, aren't a monolith. I agree that listening to someone who is actually in a healthy, long-term relationship is generally wise. It is on the individual to try out the advice and see if it works for them. Otherwise you're more susceptible to getting caught up paying for some bs dating course from some dude that proba…
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:05 PM
4

They as a group don't know themselves? That's a ridiculous generalization. Everyone who dates learns what they like, what they dislike, their boundaries and expectations.
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:46 PM
7

Fish can talk? If they could talk, they'd probably tell you what bait they prefer. Having an idea of the general preferred bait would help you catch more fish. I always thought that was a terrible analogy. Why wouldn't women at least have the capability of saying what they don't like or reasons they've rejected dudes?
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:39 PM
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In the 'getting to know you' phase. It's good to spread your attention out so you aren't staring at your phone, counting the minutes that they'll reply back. It allows you to not need so much time and attention from people in the beginning. It also allows you to explore your likes, dislikes, boundaries, and expectations. There are so many people that end to chasing others away because they are too clingy early on or they are trying to rush the dating process. Don't invest too much, early on with…
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:43 PM
2

Needed is more of a thing for a long-term committed relationship. It is insane to need someone you barely know, imo.
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:34 PM
3

I don't think it's that deep. Empathy is hard to muster for an online picture, being judged by people that know nothing about you besides your looks (and maybe a short profile bio) is going to lead to snap judgements. Plus there are a lot more guys than women on those apps so the competition is very high. Much higher than in person. The rating system itself is limited. I'm a certain race, not everyone is into my physical features. A person's rating on me partly depends on how they view my physic…
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:29 AM
2

It seems like you were doing fine. Don't stress yourself out thinking about the perfect thing to say. Being bold and just saying what you want to say is underrated. Trust yourself to be able to carry on stimulating conversation.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:23 AM
1

100% true. It's all relative. I am a certain race, some people really aren't into that and may give me a lower rating since they aren't into my physical features. People who are neutral or find my features attractive will rate me higher. Personal preference plays a massive role so an objective rating is often difficult. I know of one couple where the guy is super fit and tall while the woman is chubby. He likes chubby women so he rates his wife higher than people who aren't into big women. All r…
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:15 AM
2

I think people just have different standards and are looking for different things.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:09 AM
2

That makes sense. If you think someone won't be attracted to you and has better options, why bother?
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:05 AM
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Bro, I have a friend that is on a dating app and she is constantly showing me pictures of 'hot' dudes. I never see it and I'm actually attracted to some dudes. She isn't into the dudes that I find attractive either. I guess there's a lot of genetic diversity, so it wouldn't make sense for people to all like a specific thing (besides health and survival markers).
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:01 AM
3

Supposedly she is not a 5-6 to him. Also, it is possible to grow attraction to someone when you develop feelings. The more you like someone's personality, the more slack can be given on their appearance. There are probably acquaintances that people would give a chance faster than a random photo of someone on a dating site.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:58 AM
3

Dating apps are pretty shit though the number system doesn't work, it doesn't take into account the variety of people's preferences. People can swipe however they want without any audacity being involved. Personally, there are some celebs that some people swear are super attractive and I just don't see it. I am into some people that cause others to look at me like I'm crazy.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:55 AM
10

This is the most spot-on list that I've ever seen.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:23 PM
1

She hits you up when she's horny and ghosts when you want to hang out. She may think that you'll leave if she tells you 'I'm just here for safe and reliable peen, please stop inviting me to do non-peen related activities'.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:13 PM
2

She found some good, safe peen and she is trying to keep it.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:23 AM
1

What people like in their day-to-day life is different than what they like in bed. It's a different context. Plus one person calling you something in bed is not the same as having a bad reputation.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:16 AM
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She missed that peen, she wasn't lying. She is keeping you on the line for peen, and not rejecting your dates in order to not lose access to said peen. She is basically running game on you and treating you like a booty call.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:28 AM
2

You're trying to meet up and date, she's trying to have sex. Usually dudes do this to women. Just hit her up for sex, if you don't mind continuously hooking up.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:25 AM
1

The not giving a fuck thing is real.
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:23 AM
2

I could see that for hookups. Actually dating two women takes way more than just looks/body imo.
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:22 AM
1

How do you keep two women happy?
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:21 AM
1

It could mean interest, it could also mean a lot of other things. It's hard to tell.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:38 AM
3

Bro, read his username.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:36 AM
1

Same. It makes some people super uncomfortable. Some people like it though.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:32 AM
2

I 100% agree. I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:40 AM
28

Often if people are just there for sex, they don't want the cuddles. Cuddling seems more like a intimate thing to do with someone you care about.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:43 AM
1

That's how it goes sometimes.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:09 PM
1

It's impossible, especially if she's very attractive. What is possible is her liking you and bonding with you, wanting to be in a monogamous relationship with you. Then competition is irrelevant. Talk to her, seek to understand her, be a reliable confidant.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:59 PM
2

Are you religious at all?
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:30 AM
1

I'm not white but lol.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:32 AM
12

Lol, is there a special cheat code for all women of a particular race? Is it 'X,O,∆,∆,X,X,X'? Does that spawn a random white woman?
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:27 AM
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They may just assume that you aren't interested. Most people date within their own race so ot may take someone longer to realize interracial attractions. Just do what you normally do and DO NOT try to do relate to them, it is likely to come off as cringe and pandering.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:04 PM
1

It depends on if she updates you with a new available date or not.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:11 AM
1

It depends on where you live. Since I moved to Belgium, I really prefer not driving. The cities are walkable, you can bike or take the train most places as well. Now, the car is only really used for groceries and camping. The gas prices have been getting ridiculous and it hasn't largely impacted me, which I like. I have a friend that drives to work everyday, he is now paying a lot more money a week to get to work. It's to the point that he demanded to work from home. I've been in some bad car ac…
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:54 AM
1

Ok. I just responded to the post.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:56 AM
3

Yeah, people having different mindsets are easily seen as picky, or making a fuss, or too sensitive. Picky has a negative connotation, I don't see someone knowing what they don't want (especially if it's not superficial) as negative. What did you want them to do? Date you then bitch about the distance, then eventually break up with you over it? Be glad they know what they want and stood on it, too many people accept everything then end up falling out for preventable reasons. Idk, I just see inco…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:55 AM
2

That's ridiculous. Not everyone is built for that type of traffic. If a burger up the street is an hour, maybe you really are too far if you are further than up the street. In NYC or LA. The GPS will say that you're 20 minutes away, that doesn't factor in traffic and finding parking.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:45 AM
1

They don't have to be literally next door. No one said that. They probably have closer options, why wouldn't they go with them instead if distance is an issue?
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:43 AM
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Why? It's a practical reason, not at all superficial. Maybe it's not a big deal to you but they may feel differently. Imo, picky is making a fuss about a bunch of small stuff. If distance is important to them (perhaps they want to see a bf everyday) then I don't see how that's picky. Everyone is going to have deal breakers and things that are important to them.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:40 AM
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Perhaps they hate driving, who knows? Distance can really end up being annoying, especially if you want to date someone and see them very often. I dated a woman that was only 30 minutes away. After work, that seemed like a long time. An hour just traveling there and back, we hang out for maybe an hour so that's 2 hours and I still have shit to do at home. I also had to get up early for my job. It got annoying after a while. Dating someone in your city is far preferable if you have that option. Y…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:34 AM
3

That makes sense. The public transport can be terrible in many places in the US. If you don't have a car you can really be stranded.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:29 AM
1

Is that picky though? They just want someone closer.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:26 AM
2

Maybe talking about your own personal values concerning loyalty in relationships.
/r/seduction04/07/22 06:06 AM
6

They want a highly desirable partner that also won't cheat on them if better options are around. A person can be highly desirable and faithful depending on their personal values. Some people used to sleep around a lot until they get tired of randoms and want a long-term partner. A highly desirable person has options yet still chooses you specifically, a less desirable person may really be with you because they are desperate.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:28 AM
2

Someone who is comfortable with themselves and has a secure attachment style. The number of people who look to others for all of their validation is too high. The number of people who are afraid to tell the sandwich maker at Subway what they want on their sandwich is too high. The number of people who make their issues and past hurt other people's problem is too high. You can skip so much bs by getting with someone who has confidence.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:06 PM
4

Good looking guys are bad people who break hearts?
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:00 PM
6

Oh ok. That makes sense. Some people really need some sort of emotional connection in order to enjoy sex. Personally, FWB is the most casual sex that is remotely appealing to me. I don't like hugging strangers, the idea of having sex with them isn't interesting for me. Imo, the best sex is when there is hot sex, a cuddle session, sex again, snacks while having out and laughing, then more sex. Idk if I'd want to spend that much time with a random, it would likely be awkward.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:17 AM
2

Sure, yet the inability to enjoy casual sex is not universal. Some people won't even pursue casual sex, no matter hot attractive the other person is.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:12 AM
1

Wait, you don't like the girls you're hooking up with?
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:46 AM
2

Nothing but amazing advice. 10 out of 10.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:17 PM
3

Putting effort into grooming is so underrated. It can make people so much more attractive. I recall Tom Ford doing a series where he have regular men makeovers. Small changes in haircut and clothing (so many dudes were wearing old, ill-fitting jeans and t-shirts) often made the average men look more like models. Some of the guys also felt a lot more confident after their makeover, they couldn't stop smiling and posing. There were attractive men buried underneath the dudes who never thought to pu…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:09 AM
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I think it is so easy to get fixated on chasing after someone who is hot and cold. That is time that is not being spent looking for others who would be interested from jump. It reminds me of sales, some leads are hot (the buyer wants what you're selling). Some buyers are just unsure and sellers will waste time waiting on them to become sure.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:12 AM
21

That's amazing. I'm glad that you found out what it's like to have someone reciprocate from the beginning.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:58 PM
14

100%. If one sees women as just holes, Idk how they're going to form any type of connection with a woman (even a short-term romantic relationship).
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:53 PM
1

You do all of that just for women? I think doing all of that will cause one to get very angry if they don't get a return on investment (success with dating). That may lead to people going off on women when rejected 'Do you know all that I've done to make this work?!'. Take good care of yourself for yourself and stop giving a fuck about outcomes (have fun getting to know new people, if something evolves then it evolves). Almost every time that I've tried hard, things didn't work out. Getting to k…
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:43 PM
2

There's just a lot of competition, there are usually a lot more men than women on those apps. I wouldn't take it personally.
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:49 PM
1

What would a coach do for you? Give you confidence and social skills?
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:39 AM
1

Almost everyone would do better offline, unless they have some sort of social issue offline.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:33 AM
1

Good for you. It seems like you're bragging instead of actually giving constructive advice. Your age helps a lot. A lot of women like older men.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:31 AM
1

If people aren't already doing well, they may have much better luck offline.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:28 AM
1

Then what are you on about?
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:25 AM
2

Just get off of dating sites. You don't have to be on there to meet women.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:15 AM
1

Obviously. The profile pic is at the center of a lot of online dating. Those that have better profile picks will have more success.
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:59 AM
2

Late is late if you value your time.
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:03 AM
1

Then why feel bad?
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:59 PM
2

She could have just been flakey. Idk if you can report that.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:58 PM
2

They probably don't want to text you back. Stop talking to them.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:57 PM
2

Lol, the number of times that I have regretted making eye contact with someone in NYC is too high! Many see it as a license to rope you into some nonsense.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:01 AM
9

I would maybe hesitate for a second before continuing walking and avoiding eye contact.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:34 AM
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Whenever someone in NYC has approached me it has always been for money, some charity petition, a religious tract, or because they were generally off. There is nothing in the world that would make me stop for a stranger in the streets of NYC, nothing. Ain't nobody got time to hear a sales pitch or risk being stabbed. You'd have better success in a bar or some other social area. The aforementioned people usually don't frequent those places so people will be less guarded.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:30 AM
2

Your worth doesn't depend on women wanting you or rejecting you. No one is everyone's cup of tea, getting rejected is just part of dating (for everyone). Start again, you'll get rejected again and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:53 AM
2

Right? Many people fall in love and settle down with regular looking people. Dating sites really seem to cause some people to only see super models.
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:25 AM
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I find that good sex comes from being sexually compatible and having good communication skills. For women, the orgasm rate for hookups is low. So I doubt that one is going to gain skill or the confidence that comes from blowing someone's mind. It could actually hurt your confidence if you sleep with one of those women and they ghost or block you afterwards. It's not good (it's quite shitty actually) but some women talk to their friends about how good or trash some guys are. Your performance coul…
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:23 AM
3

I suppose that staying in a shitty relationship is the path is least resistance. They may also have fathers who were similar to their bf, so that relationship dynamic seems normal to them. They could also just have low self-esteem and believe that they deserve such treatment. Could be a lot of reasons.
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:52 AM
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Honestly, I think those people just put themselves out there more. They seem to thrive on attention from others so they're more extroverted. A bigger social circle is key for getting opportunities for dates or even jobs. Introverts generally have a harder time with finding someone as they may have a smaller social circle. Also, there is a difference between being 'nice' and being someone who is desperate for approval. I've had guys twist themselves into pretzels to agree with me on everything, e…
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:31 AM
1

Keep your tongue relaxed, start with kissing and/or rubbing around the area before focusing on the clitoris, pay attention to her body language, I've found that inserting the fingers and making a "come hither" motion while performing oral is a generally well recieved move.
/r/seduction17/07/19 07:59 PM
2

It's like being a salesman. Some people will love what your selling but most people will avoid you like the plague (because they just aren't looking for what you're offering). Good look on your journey bro.
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:10 AM
1

I think the cold look was just a way for her to show that she was definitely not interested.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:58 AM
2

"I had stuff to do."
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:54 AM
2

You may have to take the lead, from my experience women are not very "aggressive" when it comes to initiating dates and sex. It's a good idea for you to become comfortable with her and to initially make out with her without the expectation of sex. Many women are super insecure about their body during sex, make sure to tell her how beautiful parts of her body are to put her at ease. I'm not sure whether or not you want advice on giving oral to a girl but I can give that if you want.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:52 AM
2

Tinder is indeed a waste of time.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:42 AM
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