CrimsonCupp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
79	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game..	mental health	CrimsonCupp	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 04:20 AM
28	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men?	Social Issues	CrimsonCupp	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 01:11 AM
11	How to moderately pull back on a girl I’m romantically talking to?	Escalation & Calibration	CrimsonCupp	/r/seduction	27/06/24 06:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s type You are his type, or he wouldn’t be with you. People have many types, my sexy pale gf thought I had a type for tan girls cause all my exes were tan, but mmm that pale skin of hers is so yum, I wouldn’t trade it for anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 06:20 AM
1	What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s type The top 30% of men definitely don’t settle, even men in the bottom 20% have some strong stubborn traits and will hold out for what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 06:17 AM
1	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women I think it comes down to the individual and isn’t gender specific	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 11:37 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men Cause it’s not about upvotes or appeasing men.. People like to see themselves as decent and fair, especially women because they’re more considerate than men generally. So they’ll think of what they would do in hypothetical situations as a best case scenario. Which is why the saying “Do as I say, not as I do” exists. How people think they would act in situations or what they say regarding a hypothetical situation is very often much different from reality. It’s not for brownie points it’s just psy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:59 AM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men I don’t think it’s for brownie points. People like to see themselves as decent and fair, especially women because they’re more considerate than men generally. So they’ll think of what they would do in hypothetical situations as a best case scenario. Which is why the saying “Do as I say, not as I do” exists. How people think they would act in situations or what they say regarding a hypothetical situation is very often much different from reality. It’s not for brownie points it’s just psychology o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:58 AM
–	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Most girls make the choice to sleep with a guy before seeing his dick, so a woman can’t control that, it’s luck of the draw. I’m happy with my 6in dick and I’ve literally heard my gf say the exact line of “I love yours the exes big one hurt”😂 & honestly it doesn’t effect my ego at all bc her saying that really was the truth, im the one making her squirt and making her cum when the ex couldn’t. I say all this to say: girls aren’t always trying to protect your ego, sometimes when they say somethin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 12:57 AM
2	If you're 'lonely' purely due to a lack of sex, you're not 'lonely', you're just horny. Men romantically connect through sex though and women mainly connect through emotional rapport. You can be surrounded by 100 friends and still feel lonely if you don’t have a romantic partner. I’ve had times in life where I had no sex drive and was lonely because this lead to lack of sex, I would force myself to sleep with women to not feel lonely, and to have that deeper connection with someone. I believe most women probably just can’t understand this because the differences between the genders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 12:50 PM
–	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Eh with shoes on I look pretty much average height, have a better built then most men, and a CK model face, charismatic, confident, homeowner, modest job. The overwhelming majority of women do double takes when I walk by lmao. The other commenter is right, you need to get outside more, where people see you as a whole cohesive package and judge that versus judging numbers like height & weight on Reddit or Tinder (even though I absolutely eat on dating apps lol) Anyways my take is correct regardle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 12:17 AM
2	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Myself and some of my friends have been the hot guy sleeping with average women lol, I’ve done that many times over until reaching my mid 20s and maturing enough + sex drive decreasing enough for me to only purse the type of girls I’d date. But I’ve been close with many girls throughout my life and getting played was pretty common for girls lol young guys sleep with girls knowing they don’t have intention for anything else. I’ve had my tires slashed, a girl parked in my driveway refusing to move…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 04:24 PM
1	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy I cant speak for all men, but many don’t see the illusion of optionality like that. It doesn’t mean women have unlimited options any normal socialized man knows there’s many girls who can’t tie down just any guy, esp average girls I know they have dating problems like many other people. illusion of optionality doesn’t mean 50 likes = 50 men she could date. Most men aren’t that delusional to hypothesize that’s how women would think bc common sense. What it means to many men is that girls overesti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 03:57 PM
–	Men need to stop with their revenge fantasy Many girls have what’s called the illusion of optionality, they have so many guys hitting them up, flirting, pursuing so they believe they have all these options but the reality is they don’t. Most of those men are pursuing sex and will not actually see the girl as a viable partner but they’ll still pursue in an effort to hit, maybe even hit a couple times and girls will confuse this being on the same level as a guy pursing commitment with her. You say she was with a tall attractive lawyer, I sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:36 PM
11	My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time job He needs to wake up and come to the real world. It doesn’t have anything to do with being shallow, it comes down to reality and biological hardwiring. He sounds like such a loser lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/25 04:43 PM
1	Modern relationships don’t benefit women No to every single one of those except facially handsome :) I have a ridiculous amount of casual sex with hot hot 19-25 yr old girls lol, when I say hot I mean top 1% of females and the girls I regularly turn down would make most guys sick😂 sometimes I’ll say to myself damn I can’t believe I’m not gunna say yes to going over there lol but I’m at an age where I won’t budge on my standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 01:11 AM
2	Modern relationships don’t benefit women I can have consistent sex whenever I want with whoever I want so I get to have variety ontop of having consistency, plus I can forever sleep with hot 21 year old females where if I get into a relationship my gf will age continuously. So who’s really benefiting here? The woman is. She gets to live in my house, gets security, and reliable love. But the fact is both people benefit while in addition both people are giving things up for those benefits, there’s always compromise in life. You don’t get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:02 PM
2	The false idea that your spouse has to be your "best friend" makes many people prioritize finding an "interesting" spouse over other potentially good qualities and this likely leads to many broken marriages Men speak about chemistry all the time this is crazy talk lol. Sure maybe they speak about it less because so many men have pathetically low standards but it’s definitely a component of dating for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:26 PM
1	Male sexuality is beautiful and as important as emotional bonding is A man that lacks experience in dating obviously	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 05:26 PM
-1	Male sexuality is beautiful and as important as emotional bonding is You’re only seeing things from your female perspective, and it shows you don’t understand how we operate. We don’t put sex first at the cost of emotional bonding lol you have it all backwards. We emotionally bond THROUGH sex, that’s how I, and most men, romantically connect with a girl initially. Before sex or sexual intimacy I only feel platonic feelings towards a girl so when im vibing with a girl, think she’s really cool and im attracted to her I want to get sexual with her so I CAN emotional…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 12:29 PM
–	Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seem Yeah virgin girls are a big turn off for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 12:08 PM
2	Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”. All guys don’t think like girls, most guys are attracted and value different things than women. We’re less hypergamous so when you say “Oh if dude becomes more successful he’ll just upgrade his chick”. That’s crazyyy to me, I believe women are moreso directed by emotions and how something may feel to them and guys lean more logical where you think on something which leads to your decision. Like “wow this girl stayed with me for 10 years of struggle, yes I have access to this hotter woman now but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 08:40 AM
1	How to moderately pull back on a girl I’m romantically talking to? Youre doing so much mirroring right now😂 I hope life gets better for ya bud lol	/r/seduction	28/06/24 03:06 AM
2	Why does a woman feel uncomfortable while leaving a toxic man she knew only for 2 months? This. She’s only uncomfortable with OP, if it’s that big of a deal to her after only 2 months it’s bc she’s gunna miss bouncing on his cock	/r/seduction	27/06/24 10:11 PM
6	How to moderately pull back on a girl I’m romantically talking to? That’s not moderate lol	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:51 PM
5	How to moderately pull back on a girl I’m romantically talking to? I already do that, I’m single.. we’re in the talking stage so I’m still dating around	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:44 PM
9	How to moderately pull back on a girl I’m romantically talking to? Well that’s already how I talk to her, so I’m asking what can I do to moderately pullback in addition to that	/r/seduction	27/06/24 06:49 PM
3	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. But intimate in the worst ways, like the type of imitate an interrogator gets with a criminal lmao. One summer I was running through tinder like a mad man and every 1st date of mine was at drive-in movies in the back of my SUV which put us in a very close intimate environment automatically and I seriously didn’t have one date that summer where I didn’t get laid on 1st date. It was every single time.	/r/seduction	26/06/24 04:39 PM
5	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. Girls secretly think dinner dates are lame as fuk, no wonder why you aren’t getting laid	/r/seduction	26/06/24 02:03 AM
6	What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys) Yep any guy who refutes this is just admitting he’s inexperienced	/r/seduction	19/06/24 04:46 AM
5	What have you learned so far and why are you here? (Guys) This is so wildly true, it was hard for me to believe for such a long time.. I’ve been a ladies man since I was 15 years old and I’m 28 now. I recently accepted this fact about a year ago, after having slept with over 100 different attractive wemon and 4 LTRs I still didn’t understand this and I finally have after being burned so many times by believe one of them must be different in this regard, but none of them are. Now that I understand this I’m prepared for my next relationship but because m…	/r/seduction	19/06/24 04:44 AM
1	LJBF after 2 months of exclusivity + sex Say I’m cool on friends, I have my bros for that and I have a busy life with important pursuits so right now I don’t have room for a platonic female friendship, if you want to hookup no strings attached I’m down, if you want to hookup and see where it leads I’m down, but anything else I’m going to have to politely decline, thx babe	/r/seduction	11/06/24 10:07 PM
6	We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl. This. As a guy who knows what he’s doing when it comes to getting pvssy, I can recognize another who knows what he’s doing aha!	/r/seduction	11/06/24 09:33 PM
0	UK: Maths teacher, 30, got pregnant by pupil while awaiting trial for 'grooming' another schoolboy, 15, who she took back to her luxury apartment for sex It seems a lot of these dudes on here would rather their 15 yr old get mauled by a bear😂 This demographic on here must be old as hell bc they act like they don’t remember being 15 lol	/r/MensRights	08/05/24 07:48 AM
1	Another woman teacher RAPIST You don’t remember being 17 lol? I definitely wasn’t a child	/r/MensRights	16/04/24 03:14 AM
4	Another woman teacher RAPIST Cause they’re horny lmao why else?	/r/MensRights	16/04/24 03:13 AM
-13	Another woman teacher RAPIST Wow! Humans have sex drives, who woulda thought?	/r/MensRights	16/04/24 03:10 AM
1	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? Um no? We’re huMAN beings. Men aren’t going to cry about someone crying lol we think logically and know life happens/emotions happen.	/r/MensRights	27/03/24 06:33 AM
4	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? It’s crazy how much it does this. I made this mistake years back and the girl started distancing herself afterwards😂🙃	/r/MensRights	26/03/24 02:16 PM
56	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? True but they really do believe it’s fine until they actually see it and their evolutionary biology takes over and believe your a pussy after seeing you cry	/r/MensRights	25/03/24 06:04 PM
19	Does anyone else get negative reactions to crying in front of women? It’s a HUGE girl ick, they’ll see you as less than	/r/MensRights	25/03/24 06:02 PM
3	Cop-gone-wild, 28, will get $500,000 PAYDAY after suing city claiming she was sexually groomed by her 'predator' superiors - after she was fired for sex romps with seven officers If she was sexually groomed by these officers why do the taxpayers have to foot the bill? Obviously she’s just a whore but I’m tired of our taxes paying for officer misconduct while our schools keep having budget cuts.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 12:08 AM
2	Looks wont keep the girl. Money wont keep the girl. The holy Trinity good lord😂 We need to bring back the ‘rule of thumb’. “The community expected a husband to keep good order and the law allowing him correction with physical punishment, provided that any stick used in beating was no thicker than a man’s finger at its thickest end.” 😂	/r/seduction	15/03/24 07:06 AM
1	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. Try re-reading it, slower maybe? Because I’ve been very happy before! When I “was” (was is a past tense word) making 40K a year, had friends and a good girlfriend. Nowadays present tense I make more money. The last w2 everyone has received is for 2023 and on that my YTD earning were 6 figures. I’m saying that as I’m money doesn’t make me happy. You said your kids and money make you happy except everyone isn’t a clone of you nor is the world population a hive mind. Kids and money don’t make me ha…	/r/MensRights	09/03/24 04:14 AM
2	How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well? Having confidence, having your anxiety under control and wine.	/r/seduction	03/03/24 09:18 PM
1	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Idk who Tyler RSD is or the crew lol, I’m just talking about life experience of what works & the natural way I’ve always had success in my personal and professional life before ever listening to ‘dating coaches’ or online stuff. It’s just kind of common sense, at least for me.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 10:30 PM
2	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Well no shit, but that doesn’t make it less of a numbers game lol. Of course you incorporate strategy & experience, just like sales. Not only have I slept with over 100 girls but I’ve closed 2MM in sales over my lifetime, it’s a number game.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 08:19 PM
13	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Yeah you really don’t have any other choice but too move forward. It can be draining but you just have to always keep in mind that every NO is one step closer to a yes. Humans are very rejection adverse because 10,000 years ago rejection (from your tribe) = death (bc you’d be alone in the elements)	/r/seduction	01/03/24 11:02 PM
3	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? Do you recommend a male or female wingman?	/r/seduction	01/03/24 07:55 PM
76	average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do? It’s really is just a numbers game just like sales. The rejection can be so discouraging in sales, it’s a beat down and just when you think nobody will ever buy the next person you talk with buys. Same with dating lol!	/r/seduction	01/03/24 07:55 PM
5	What to Do If a Woman Starts To Lose Interest Are you a female?	/r/seduction	25/02/24 01:28 AM
0	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. Different things make different people happy. I have enough awareness and past experience to know what makes me happy, how? Because I’ve been very happy before! When I was making 40K a year, had friends and a good girlfriend. In 2023 pre-tax I made 6 figures, I own 2 houses and drive a luxury sedan. None of that makes me happy, having a partner and an intimate connection does make me happy but that’s me. Everyone is different.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 07:36 PM
2	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. I know you say being in relationship isn’t in your top 3 things that make you happy, but that’s a common phenomenon. I think if you lost him and couldn’t find love again you would find that need quickly move to the top of your list. I’ve been in the same position, 3 year LTR and didn’t think it was that needed for me to feel happy because I was so used to it. I compare it to eyesight for a girl and for some guys too, it’s something youre used to having, and you don’t think about its significance…	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 07:24 PM
1	Please help! 20[M] why is my dick not acting up? Did you end up starting test or no?	/r/seduction	24/02/24 08:11 AM
2	Does the idea of a village/clan ever appeal to anyone? It’s pretty cool that you have these viewpoints. Congrats to that guy you like, hopefully he appreciates that aspect of you cause damn it’s rare and hot😂 I’m curious were you raised in a 2 parent household with your father being the breadwinner and mother a homemaker? I feel like more traditional parent gender roles growing up leads to a woman having empathy towards men. Just my guess though.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 06:38 AM
3	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. I have been for the past 1.5 years. It’s not that easy. I have bills, student loans, mortgage, etc so because of those financial responsibilities I can’t accept a position that pays less than $65,000. Which isn’t entry level pay so I need to look at jobs with transferable skills plus something I wouldn’t hate, something that’s near me, something with good healthcare, something with growth opportunities. These jobs are competitive and if selected require 3-5 rounds of interviewing. I’ve been stea…	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 06:27 AM
2	Does the idea of a village/clan ever appeal to anyone? Maybe it wasn’t you and I’m just seeing things lol. There was a comment supporting/protecting men’s rights and also this comment here saying it’s your dream, well mine too, so I find that attractive!	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 06:18 AM
2	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. I’ve never tried therapy but I would be open to it. Not sure if I need it though because I know what I need and want to be happy. It’s just not happening for me right now and I just have to keep trying which sucks but what else is there to do? The therapist isn’t gunna go out and make friends for me or find me my future GF. I wish lol.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 05:53 AM
1	Does the idea of a village/clan ever appeal to anyone? Swear I’ve seen you comment other attractive things on this subreddit too lol.. are you single or what??😂🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 05:48 AM
6	Being a man = Life on difficulty mode? And I’m losing the game.. I’m pretty good at not being thirsty, maybe even too good. Sometimes I don’t show enough interest in people because secretly I’m not as confident as I portray in the real world. Idk seems like I just suck at everything right now. I am interviewing for 2 different positions currently that would be tolerable /maybe even enjoyable. But I’m tired of my life only being about work also.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 04:45 AM
1	Being a man in this generation is tired OP is talking about the technology generation. Those who grew up with and in social media. It’s led to isolation, less friendship and harder dating. In 1990 a survey shown 18% of Americans had less than 3 close friends. Now it’s half of Americans. 60% of young men 18-35 are single, compared to only 22% being single in 1950. Suicide in youth and young adults has increased 61% since 2003… There has been MASSIVE changes in modern society. Unless you grew up with social media you just wouldn’t under…	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 03:23 AM
0	Being a man in this generation is tired Mob as in like mafia? Maybe I should join. Right now I hate my job and all my friends have moved away. Seems like joining the mob could solve both.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 03:18 AM
0	Does anyone here ask their girlfriend or potential girlfriend about who they have slept with? Nah that’s weird, # of bodies eventually can be discussed, but who? Hell no I wouldn’t want to know and I wouldn’t want her to have to think of each one to tell me. Weird weird weird.	/r/MensRights	20/02/24 05:52 AM
8	What would your response to “not all men, but always men” be? Women like you need protected at all costs 🔒	/r/MensRights	20/02/24 03:24 AM
2	"Men rape women to show their masculinity" how logical is this saying? Doubtful. I think the masculine drive is about protecting girls, at least it is for me. People are very similar so I’m sure this is the case for most guys. Rapists rape because they’re sexual deviants with sick and twisted desires they can’t control. Feminists will always try to make men in general or masculinity evil. They’re sexist plain and simple.	/r/MensRights	13/02/24 02:51 AM
15	Anyone not get a job because of being a man Yep, just happened to me recently with my candidacy for a gov public health position. They literally hate white males with a passion and didn’t hide that fact. I’m glad though because I don’t want to be somewhere I’m not valued.	/r/MensRights	12/02/24 08:47 AM
1	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? Lie about what lol? & posting a few subreddit links doesn’t help your case bc like I said it must be one of those things that only people in their moms basement care about online yet doesn’t translate to the real world. I’m telling you normal people in the real world have not heard of this and wouldn’t care regardless of gender. And for your question I don’t have an answer for you, I didn’t purposely use either or for any reason it’s just words that came out of my brain while I was writing.	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 11:34 PM
2	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? From end of HS to end of college I studied nursing and was around hundreds of girls throughout my education; female dominated classes(& that’s the term they used), labs, clinical, study groups, externships and volunteering. Plus hundreds of dates throughout my life and that’s not an exaggeration. I 100% know and have known more girls than you. Not once have I ever heard a girl say the word female is negative🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 09:43 PM
2	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? I’m friends with many girls, women, females whatever you want to call the opposite sex and I’ve never once heard them mind or care. This must be one of those internet things that doesn’t translate into real life. Have never once encountered someone thinking that has a negative connotation until this post .. In my mind girls= really young & women= older & females= general term for the opposite sex. Guess that’s wrong then lol?	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 08:49 PM
2	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? I’m so confused on what’s bad about saying females😂🤦🏻‍♂️ Is this something new?	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 07:44 PM
2	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? That doesn’t fully make sense to me though, how would that get anything under control? The top 10% of men can still bang all of the top 80% of women that want them. A guy can bust unlimited nuts, a girl can only get pregnant once at a time.	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 09:04 AM
5	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? Eh I’m going to have to disagree, I’ve done a lot of research on this also and when asking anthropologists if humans are naturally monogamous the consensus is kinda. Many people are, but if put in the wrong situation at the right time many people would also cheat. Not all, and the ones who do, doesn’t mean they would leave their partner. I don’t think this has changed in centuries. & trust me in the 1950s guys cheated all the time, attractive or not lol Modern dating problems are due to a power …	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 05:18 AM
1	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? Yeah everything about this era sucks, I wish I was born in Paris in the mid 1800s lol. Crossing my fingers a solar flare takes out our internet network	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 03:43 AM
3	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? This concept is actually newer to me. I never had trouble dating and everything was great. Well around 2 years ago I lost my hot high quality GF and ever since then I’ve began to realize just how hard dating has gotten in recent years. I started researching why and it all makes so much sense it’s crazy. There’s a connection crisis going on, for mostly men. Not only are a majority of men losing out on sex and dating females but also losing friends and brotherhood, according to statistics. Yeah It…	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 01:39 AM
8	Have modern times distorted relationship dynamics creating inequality for men? 63% of men are single, while only around 30% of women are single(2022), in the 1950s that number was around 22% for both genders. Modern society has disproportionately effected men when it comes to relationships and I believe it’s even worse now in 2024. 1/3 of young men reported they had no sex in the last year(2019) Men commit suicide 4x more often than women. Women are 3x more likely to be romantically involved than men from ages 18-35 Women collect 60% of bachelor degrees “Women across all s…	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 01:13 AM