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| 1 | How many cold approaches until your first success?He's clearly trolling. Just look at his post from r/amiugly where he posted his face. I'd honestly say that he's atlest above average looking | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How many cold approaches until your first success?There is a german youtuber that does 1 out of 3-5 regulary. Even though he started with 1 out of 500 when he began cold approaching 10 years ago | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 4 | How many cold approaches until your first success?Most likely some security stuff. Cryptology, Data security or something like that I assume. Or blockchain engineer. First I thought about ai researcher because they can earn easily 300-500k at the beginning of a carrer but probably not at his age and without a phd | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 21 | why doesn't game translate well within america?It is just the fact that you are a foreigner. That means you are something special at the moment. A lot of women actually want to experience men from many different cultures in a sexual way. (Learn something bout other countries/culture, How people from other nationalities behave, How good they are in bed, Are they good lovers,...). I do way better in every Single other country compared to my own lol | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?I don't know. I would rather do a fun hobby or side hustle compared to getting rejected by girls every single time | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching girls even worth it?Dont you think that getting rich early on in your life is way harder than getting girls? Even later on it's still very hard. In addition it's also no guarantee for getting girls | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Height is a killer for collegeLooks >>>>>>>>>>> Height | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"Maybe it works maybe not. The main problem I have with this is that if it works out then you could made a move way earlier most of the time and it would be the same result without wasting any time and if it doesn't work out then you straight up wasted your time. So what's the point? Also it could be bad because she can lose interest when the time passes by. Women are a little bit unpredictable in that regard. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!Ok don't get me wrong it is somewhat important but money alone is far from enough to have sucess. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!I disagree. Your top 5% STEM degree with 200K salary in your early 20s do not matter if you cant pull any girl. Just take a look at the silicon valley. 500K+ tech guys everywhere without any girlfriend. Career/salary is massively overrated in dating. It does not matter at all. Looks are way more important. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!It is actually the opposite for me. Im also in STEM, i barely learn for exams whilst being in the top 10% GPA and having sponsors plus already a great Job oppurtunity after college. I have time to do sports, travel, socialize, meeting girls. But my problem is that i cant pull any girl no matter what i do. Nothing seems to work for me. :( | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?Can you teach me? Id like to start aswell? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?You are so god damn right with this one | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?But only 3s and 4s in terms of looks right? They are at least in the top 10% of income/wealth | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How do dumb guys turn women on mentally?I disagree. Every smart person that ive met overthinks. If not then you are not smart | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?Silicon Valley ;) | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Thanks. From what I did read I can imagine that you 're a geniously nice person and you will get what you deserve | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...The problem is that most people (men and women) nowadays assume that difficulty = quality. That's the reason why there are so many games played nowadays. I permanently have to think about what I need to do in order to make it harder for a girl to get me. Even if im really attracted to her. Because I know that it won't work if I play the easy to get game. I wish it was different but it isnt | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...So you know what’s funny about this…guys want virgins or girls with low body count I couldnt care lese about the bodycount of a women to be honest Even if it isn’t a ‘mind game’, but they truly care and just want to make sure the man isn’t around to get in her pants then leave I know men who tried for 6 months just to have sex with a girl and then leave. Do you really think that sorts the fuckboys out? Maybe if you wait for 2 years. still you get pissed and think she’s a fool for protecting hers… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.I'm not so sure about that. Why would they hook up with a men that's is average/below average if they can just hook up with a men that is good looking I actually think that the bar for a relationship is lower (only looks) because there are way more factors besides looks in a partner but for hookups that's not the case | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I'd say for most of the women that let you fuck them, you are actually the price. You still gotta "pursue" a bit, but its just formality. Opposite to the women that have no interest. But some guys struggle to see the difference.If thats what you say is really the case you would have literally proven the existence of blackpill | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.slightly above average looking There we go. Im not blackpilled or something but if you are below average looking you have it way harder from the get go. You also could be very good looking and just downplay yourself like a lot of men do. I literally saw so many objectively attractive males who said that they are average looking. If that's the case than it's obvious that this works for you. But yeah for most guys (me included) the basic fundamentals that every guy should have is missing and that'… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Using social circle as main way to find dates feels like a fucking prison !Social circle game is THE definition of luck | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Its an extroverted introvert. You can thank me later :) | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Why not just talk with girls that you are attracted to? | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Well now we speak, that's way better written and explained compared to the first paragraph you wrote. I agree with you in basically everything Just like women, if you’re chasing a man it literally means he does.not.want.you.but.might.have.sex … there is too much risk for a woman to initiate in that manner. Literally because if the man liked you, it’s obvious!!! Interesting. I got told by a few women that they are not approaching men they like to save some ego in case they get rejected. But I gue… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yeah the most important part is to be real and don't lie about your intentions. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 10 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I don't think they are manipulative. They are just confident and have a "I don't care if it doesn't work I'll just keep continue" mindset | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Love is very simple. It’s either there or it is not. I don't think so, you need to build it first. Or do you believe in love at the first sight? If we speak about physical attraction then yes? If you can’t play the game then stay out and be alone. That's literally the worst thing you can do. Just accept how the game is played and try to improve at it as much as possible. Giving up doesn't make you happy Otherwise I agree with you Another thing to add. Maybe I'm just built different then most men… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?But why are the PUA men you mentioned sucessful and the others aren't? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.True that. But I feel like balding at 17 is not that great if more than 90% of the male population at that age have hair. But yeah it is what it is | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 66 | I feel as if men now a days have it all wrong.Haircut Cries in balding :( | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:43 AM |
| 13 | do you think being tall actually gets you girls?Yeah I actually think height is very overrated. I'm 6'4 and it doesn't help me at all. Maybe the combination of tall and muscular is what makes girls attracted but im not really sure. Being good looking and average height is for sure better imo | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with direct competition?Ok but if you do nothing than nothing happens no? So for example not writing/going on dates/making a move. If thats what you wrote is really the case then men wouldn't need a dating coach because they dont make sense. But they make perfectly sense imo. You don't think that a professional and sucessful dating coach has lower chances than a virgin who don't know what he does even if the women is more attracted to the unexperienced guy at the beginning. Let me tell you something, that's exactly wha… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How can an introverted/shy guy approach ladies?Yes you are right, that's what I am saying aswell. But having a better life helps you indirectly and makes you a better and healthier person. Also if you can gain high status through it (for example very good in sports, a phd, a team leader, working in a high status company like google) then it's really good for attraction. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Is Learning To Pick Up Women Morally Sound?Yes i agree with you. The problem is that those guys literally have 0 chance with women because 1.) they just aren't socially talented with women and 2.) because they aren't naturally good with women they don't improve because they see other man having sucess while they dont. Therefore the big depression is coming and they just give up. It's like playing sports, if you aren't naturally then the likehood of giving that sport up is way higher. So the gap between those gifted and non gifted rises w… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Yeah and then there are this nerd guys who work in big tech companies as software engineers that are in the top 10-1% of income and still cant get women because they don't get out of there comfort zone to find a girlfriend. So I think they actually don't have options | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Any of you guys with foreign accent here in the US, do you find it very difficult to talk to women, especially around others? I feel it makes you sound like a creep right away.Yes i sink sat se german accent from karl-günther is making a lot of pussys wet | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | You Cannot Convince Her to Like YouYou are underestimating it. There are a lot of people who are at least aware of seduction. And yes a lot of men can still get dates and girlfriends but they surely don't have that much options aswell. Seduction is for the beginners but also for guys who are advanced/pro and just want more dates compared to what they have right now. It's literally for everyone at every level. :) | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Will working a code monkey job for 8 hours a day fuck up my abilities with women? Should I try to get a more social job instead, with less pay?Yeah same, im an engeneer aswell. Me and all of my colleagues are struggling really hard no matter what we are doing. One even turned from being a Chad in school to someone who get no girls (he even is 6'3, muscular and pretty handsome). There are a few reasons for that imo: The time you have to spend for college is exceptionally high compared to other degrees (not really much time to socialize/meeting girls) You are way to logical and analytical. That makes you pretty boring to be around. Imagi… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:25 AM |
| 7 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.He is not | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 4 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.Yeah thats true, social circle game actually needs way more luck to get maybe 1 girl because the girls naturally are turned on to your better looking/more sucessful (higher value )friends and there are far less approachable girls for you (married, relationship, not your type, bad personality, ...). He really belives that you won't have any kind of "fight" for this one approachable women with your male friends and they just let you fuck her. This guy is living in a dream world. Social circle game… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateTry that out | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 10:47 PM |
| 2 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Than approach the women that are better looking compared what you get from online dating and not the worse looking ones. That's literally the reason guys are cold approaching instead of doing online dating | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateYou did have a romantic dinner with her straight after sex? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateHave sex at the first date but after having sex, keep continue the date and eat something with her. In that way it gives her the feeling that you are interested in something serious with her, not only sex. This is from one of the best pickup coaches in Germany "Donjon" in how to get in a relationship with a girl. So keep continue doing what you are doing but with that little addition at the end. P. S.: Pls write an update if you tried this out. I'm sure you will be very satisfied :) | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?A 6'4 average looking guy needs at least more game than a very hot guy with average height. Height is overrated imo. It only matters if you dont have it (5'8 and below for example). At average height and above it doesnt give you a significant amount of help getting girls compared to other things (At least most girls without an tall guy fetish). In conclusion it's bad if you are short and its normal if you are tall | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | For the hatersYeah ofc you need to approach 100s of women to get good results. And that's basically a part time job (~20 hours per week) at the beginning. As you get better with time, you can reduce the approaching time because you will get more results. And in terms of compatibility, it's even better because you have the chance to meet way more women compared to your friend circle. So therefore a higher chance of women you find attractive (physically and personality wise). | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | I feel like everything I do is meaningless and a waste of time.Same | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 4 | The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends houseIf im 100% honest with you. This girl isnt relationship material and he showed it to you. Better not having her as a friend/girlfriend will save you some nerves trust me. She will keep continue hooking up with random guys regardless of relationship status. If she would've had any kind of respect to you she would not have done that. Seriously why are so many men letting that do to themselves. Have some respect for yourself and call her out on this bs. For your friend, if he knows that you are int… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?Idk social status is everywhere and there is only a weak correlation with age imo. If girls are involved in this life areas they immediately respect you and therefore there is a higher chance they are attracted to you. Being a good/the best player in your local sports club or university for example helps alot. Or getting a popular job after college. Also having a lot of platonic male/female friends who respect you is also status. Living an interesting life with travelling around the world count … | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsIt's more like 1/5 for the very best | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 5 | So I went to 2 bars (for the first time)I don't want to sound negative but it's way better to do that alone. I only had bad experiences being with friends since the good looking women went for my better looking friends most of the time. So I was stuck with unattractive ones. 95% of the time, nothing even happened. You still need to compete with your friends if you do that and the you may take the shorter end of the stick. You were born alone You will die alone So you might get girls alone | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too!And what do i do if im balding at my early 20s. That shit is pretty unattractive most of the time | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Playing the game long termHe is the only big PUA that killed himself I believe. The reason was not his lifestyle, it was because he got cancelled by a women named hajjaji. Before all of that happening Tom was already in a bad financial state. Later on she (hajjaji) took his website, books on Amazon, PayPal account down. She also tried to get his WhatsApp and stripe account. Which basically means he had nothing left in his life and decided to kill himself because of that. So the reason for the sucide was clearly not the p… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | How to get relationship instead of situationship/FWB/etcDont do online dating. Its a very bad experience for both men and women most of the time. Try to meet people in real life. But if you really want to make OLD work then go for the average looking men (4-7) instead of the good looking ones. They get far less dates than the good looking men and because of that, chances that this men are fuckboys are way less because they have no chance to get every women they want. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | about to graduate college. i feel like i wasted my yearsYou said parties were a sausage fest, university was hard as hell and you are going to get paid very well later on in your Job. Let me guess you studied engeneering | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:28 AM |
| 0 | Competing against another guy in her friend group.I think its also alot about being better. The Problem is that getting better is usually not changeable in such a short amount of time. So its about presenting the best version of you and hopefully that is enough. Life is always a competition in every way and you will never be the best | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Your Looks Will Catch Her, Your Game Will Keep Her.You wrote exactly what toddv was saying in one of his videos about game 1. Access (Step 2) 2. Attraction (Step 1 and 3) 3. Follow through (Step 4 and 5) However iam struggling with basically everything. Thats the reason why i cant get girls :( | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Rejection making me suicidal.Dont kiss if you are planning to not have sex with her the same day :) That makes her want you more | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsThank you | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsOk can you please give me an advice how to get a lot of first dates with beautiful women sir? | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected by more than 5 girls in a clubs, what am I doing wrongIt was meant to be a joke because of your name "ur_notmytype" xD Im actually pretty picky when it comes to choosing women | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected by more than 5 girls in a clubs, what am I doing wrongSo for example dont want me because your body tells you that "ur_notmytype". I see i see :) | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | I need some help…Its so crazy that so many people think money is the problem. Women dont even know how much you make/have if you dont tell them. Literally almost everything is more important when it comes to dating than money. Unless you are a super rich guy but thats maybe 0.1 percent of the population. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?I actually belive that introverts are better at game/seduction but because they are introvertet, chances that they get to that point are way worse compared to an extrovert. Therefore extroverts are more sucessful with women. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually that hard for short guys?It really is just confidence. A story: My crush (a 10 out of 10) said by the question what the most important part of a man is without any hesitation confidence earlier on before she was my crush. Unfortunately given to my past that was kinda my weak point. Tried to fake it but at multiple points I failed to do so and lost my chances with her unfortunately because there was a men more confident than me (hesitation on asking her on a date as well as showing real interest and moving things forward… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out todayBut then its not a rejection. Just no time this time around | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl out todayNext time dont ask "I would like to drink something tonight, do you wannt to go out?". Say instead "Lets go out tonight and grab some drinks. I am free at ...pm". That shows way more confidence and therefore rise your chance to get her on a date with you by 20-30% imo. Especially helpful for the girls who aren't really 100% sure yet. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys know what I might be doing wrong, since I cannot get a second date with any girl I go on a date with?Yeah true that's pretty weird. He is trying to kiss a girl at the first date and then not going to have sex with her immediately. It makes not so much sense. Either wait for more dates to come or go all in on the first date and have sex with her (even thought the not having sex at the first date rule). That might work pretty well because the attraction is already build up and op doesn't need to worry so much about a second date which is his weak point. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?Yes but you need to randomly approach them, otherwise thats not possible. My sex life before this time was pretty good but after i started getting into engeneering it went worse. Iam not the only one, apparently way more then 50% of men in STEM majors are virgins. Makes you wonder why. Not even my friend who was the biggest women magbet before managed getting laid in college by doing engeneering. Its so easy to get female friends/laid if you dont do engeneering/science, but I chose my major for … | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | What are some places that are meant for hooking up?But what if you dont have female friends. For example i am an engeneer and for the last 7 years I had little to no women in my class (2 to 3 out of 100). I have quite a few hobbies but they are mostly male dominated and not that popular aswell. In my place where iam starting to work are no females as well (with no connection to people because its computer work) and my male friends of course dont have female Friends either (They are also engeneers btw). So the only possible solotion is to approac… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?MGK had an hair transplant btw. After that megan started dating him. Makes me wonder if he could do the same even if he would be balding | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Something I learned, You send yourself to the FriendZone.I mean thats pretty obvious no? Frendzone can never happen if you dont let it happen. In that case either you get her as a girlfriend or you just never see her again. Which of this 2 cases happen highly depends in your looks/social skill/confidence/... (your value as a person) and the value of the girl you are talking to. Its a numbers game with odds in that case. At the other hand i dont know much about friendzone. Maybe it isnt as bad as people seem to make it. You can learn to know more girls… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 08:57 PM |
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