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"Luck is what happens when preparedness meets opportunity," is the paraphrased way I originally heard that sentiment put.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 03:42 PM
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This brings to mind a tweet I saw which succinctly put this as: You don't need motivation. You need discipline.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/21 11:55 AM
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Money is a big stack of bonus points in avoiding automatic disqualification. Money gets you sharp clothes that fit you properly and are appropriate to the environment but just a bit better than those around you. As Polonius advised, "Costly thy habit as thy purse can buy but not expressed in fancy. Rich not gaudy for clothes oft make the man." Money gets you into the "nice" places the best looking girls go. Money gets you there in a hot car or a cab or from the short walk around the corner from …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:41 PM
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Who she'll feed the leftovers of the meal you paid for but she hardly touched.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:17 PM
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The single best dating advice I ever received was to stop asking listening to dating advice from women. It is bad practice and useless noise. Someone has touched on it already but women don't really understand that there are two things at work. There is what women will say they are attracted to (Beta Bucks.) There is also what women are aroused by (Alpha Fucks.) These are not the same thing. Women do not understand the difference nor can they particularly articulate the aroused by aspect. What t…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 12:14 PM
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If she sees you as a "Fuck, yeah" you can get it wrong. It is easier to get it right. The margins get wider with a "Fuck, yeah" girl but you still need enough Game to know how to avoid fouling it up.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 05:51 PM
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I try to think of game as informing you of the certain paths to defeat. Game doesn't not work which is a subtle difference than game does work. The first thing to take from game is how it teaches you what doesn't work. For example how to do amused mastery is going to some extent be context dependent. Where are you, who are you with, and so on. Whether that amused mastery will "work" is uncertain. What comes across from you as amused mastery will be different than what does for a different guy. D…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/21 05:46 PM
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Most men don't. That's one of the things that makes it worth learning.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:02 PM
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Never let them lead when you're dancing. Dancing is a made to order excuse to escalate physically and to see if she will follow your lead. If you're dancing and she tries to lead, you stop and tell her that's not how this works. If she won't follow you on the dance floor she won't follow you anywhere. If you're dancing with a girl and she's got to touch you first you're doing it wrong or you're not that interested. Taking a ballroom dance class or salsa dance class is worth it even if you don't …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 01:11 PM
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Precisely. OP needs to get over the idea that he has to have all the answers.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 06:33 PM
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I do not disagree with any of that. As guys we just have to remember what she is attracted to, especially what she says she is attracted to, is not necessarily what she is aroused by. Largely as you say she probably is not aware of the difference herself.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 11:54 PM
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There was/is a Rule Zero podcast about this stuff quite recently. It was about female dating advice. Women don't tell you how to be Alpha because if they have to tell you how to be Alpha that means you're not Alpha. Women want men who "just get it." If you don't "just get it," then you're not the guy for her or any other girl. See:https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/ That's why girls don't like the idea of men learning game. They don't want "fake Alphas" who had to learn this stuf…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 06:51 PM
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All pick-up is Game. Not all of Game is pick-up. The squares and rectangles thing. Game is rectangles. Pick-up is squares. The other way I look at it is that Game is the "science" and pick-up is the "engineering," the application of the science. The concept of maintaining Frame is important in Game. Ways to demonstrate it is your Frame and keep the Frame and pull her into your Frame is the "pick-up." Frame as concept and Frame as applied concept.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 06:22 PM
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She'll choose the attractive man who arouses her whether he is the "good" one or not. Women don't decide that they will have sex with you in 10 seconds or whatever but they'll decide they won't have sex with you in that short span of time. Being attractive is just the first step in avoiding automatic disqualification.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:05 PM
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Best dating advice I ever got was to not take dating advice from women. Following that was at least as valuable as any red pill advice I got. Women tell you what they are supposed to be or what they think they are attracted to i.e. Beta Bucks. What they are attracted to is not the same as what they are aroused by i.e. Alpha Fucks. Women will not tell you that there is a difference if the woman in question even understands that there is one. This does not make their advice useless. It does mean i…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:59 PM
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It isn't just what you say but how you say it. "Nice clothes, are they second-hand?" can be delivered in dozens of ways all coming across differently. And saying it the same way in different locations will come across differently in each. The same delivery will come across differently to different girls. Even your version can range from fun to mean depending on the delivery and the target.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 02:17 PM
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Tools are not dumb. Neither are they "Good" or "Evil." Tools simply exist. "Negging" is a tool for interacting with a woman you're considering for sex. The "art" in Pick-up Artist comes from knowing which tool is the right tool for the girl you're hitting on. Yes, one has to approach a great number of girls. And talking to a lot of girls improves one's confidence. But knowing one has a complete kit of tools also improves one's confidence. Also "negging" isn't insults. That is a mis-characterizat…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 12:29 PM
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Nothing that isn't real exists. If it exists, it is real. Whether or not something is real is not a measure of its usefulness in any particular application.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 12:13 PM
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Your appearance which comes from lifting/exercise and diet and how you dress which is easier if you're fit and your posture which is helped by being fit (nothing will fix your posture like core strength will) and being confident in how you dress will allow you to avoid automatic disqualification with women. Avoiding automatic disqualification allows you a chance to approach and begin your game. Game is the techniques. Social Calibration is the "art" in Pick-up-artist. Social Calibration is knowi…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 11:54 AM
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"The Myth of Male Power" is terrific at illustrating how society treats men as disposable. Farrell gets fairly run down for some things but if you want to understand Red Pill in a broader context than how to get laid his books are the pharmacy for a different kind of Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 01:10 PM
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I tend to go to the US Bureau of Labor Statistics website and search/find the "Census of Workplace Fatalities." You can find years and years of these documents. They will consistently show that 92% of those killed at work are men. 5147 total deaths with 4761 of those being male for 92.5% in 2017. 5250 total deaths with 4837 of those being male for 92.1% in 2018. https://www.bls.gov/iif/oshcfoi1.htm That's a pretty clear picture of disposable.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:56 PM
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We all hold a notion of how the world is and a notion of how the world is supposed to be. These things rarely match one another and they are entangled with each other until we take "The Red Pill." "The Blue Pill" is the lie that how the world is supposed to be is how the world is. We take "The Red Pill" and understand how we're being lied to. When we see the lie and finally know what is we can use that to see the costs of the things we want. We can decide if we'll pay the costs or if we'll chang…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:31 PM
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In his time a woman was married or she wasn't and she was married to the top of the heap or she wasn't. If her husband was a nobody she was a nobody. If she was with the best man she had "won." The other wives did not have to pay her any mind. Women conduct their violence by proxy and their chief proxy is their husband.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 06:42 PM
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I always tell them I'm a quality-element sign. In astrology each sign has a quality and an element. Then when they can't guess you've got a push/pull/neg and if they guess right/know you've got a push/pull/neg.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 04:34 PM
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Knowing something about astrology can give you a good toolbox or system for negs and disqualifiers and push/pull and spinning stories of "destined by the stars" and such. Learn the Zodiac know all the signs and the birthdays, know the element and the quality for each sign, know the main positive and negative attributes each sign is likely to think of themselves, and you've got a whole pile of stuff to improv "lines" and "scripts" with. The other thing is that girls while interested in astrology …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 04:25 PM
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This is the essential conundrum isn't it? What do you want? What are you willing to pay for it? Can your current investment (the price you're willing to pay) keep up with inflation in the cost of what you want?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 03:45 PM
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