CruelAutumn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Learn any skill in 20 hours dat fedora	/r/seduction	31/01/14 01:04 AM
3	2 Chainz on relationships. The last tip is golden. Hahaha church. Hilarious and very tru.	/r/seduction	08/12/13 10:12 PM
2	How to escalate when on a date? The DENNIS system! Haha flawless.	/r/seduction	01/12/13 12:47 AM
3	When women turn the conversation sexual... what the hell does it mean (I'm dense.) See I would have PM'd that to you for your cake-day. Just sayin'	/r/seduction	29/10/13 02:25 AM
2	10 Commandments of Pick up Number seven shoulda been number one to me.	/r/seduction	16/10/13 01:10 AM
1	Where do I meet interesting women besides bars and clubs? Yoga.	/r/seduction	12/10/13 06:07 PM
1	Can't get comfortable around girls! Any good life hacks or advice? Yeah, I know how you feel. In my case, I blame public education for all my limiting beliefs haha. When I say middle-school sucked, I mean middle school sucked. However in all reality, I don't really remember hardly any of it (21 y/o now), just the feelings and behaviors that came with a shitty experience (especially with women). The brain works in mysterious ways, and the biggest thing I figured out a bit ago was anyone with limiting beliefs is literally their own (and worst) enemy when it comes…	/r/seduction	09/10/13 02:43 PM
3	Beginner. how do you initiate Kino within the first 10 seconds use of hand gestures is a good way. Since you're most likely within arms reach, use conversational hand gestures to sort of gauge how comfortable she'd be to your touch (gesturing your hands in her 'personal space'). Honestly I'd say just go ahead and touch her arm/shoulder within seconds of meeting her, but if you're unsure that's a good way to start.	/r/seduction	09/10/13 01:35 AM
2	Faking smiles vs natural smiles Cool, I'll give that a look. Thanks.	/r/seduction	07/10/13 09:36 PM
6	Can't get comfortable around girls! Any good life hacks or advice? As far as perspective goes, realize that women will more often than not follow your emotions in a 1-on-1 setting. Think of it like this, she's going to read that your nervous and she'll most likely react by being nervous/uncomfortable as well (it's not like she knows exactly why you're nervous). Anytime you feel nervous just know that you're not doing either of you justice when it comes to comfort. Breath. I've been in your shoes; and still deal with neuroticism from time to time. The one big th…	/r/seduction	07/10/13 06:21 PM
7	Faking smiles vs natural smiles Yes, and a big thing at that. (Good) Eye contact is the utmost importance when it comes to seduction imo. Also, I don't want sedditers to go and think I mean that Tyra Banks shit when I say 'smiling with your eyes' lol. It's simply a sense of amusement through your eyes (which for me, actually makes me feel happy and amused). Try it in a mirror -- place your hand over your mouth and see if you can notice your own different emotions. The eyes are the window to the soul. :)	/r/seduction	07/10/13 05:31 PM
61	Faking smiles vs natural smiles Personally I believe real smiles are determined so much more from your eyes than your mouth.	/r/seduction	07/10/13 05:15 PM
6	The poorer we are inwardly, the more we try to enrich ourselves outwardly. ~ Bruce Lee I mean we all have to make a living somehow.	/r/seduction	03/10/13 06:48 PM
1	Know how to smile A good smile actually come from your eyes, not your mouth. Fake smiles are easily detected that way. Edit:grammar	/r/seduction	02/10/13 02:25 PM
1	2 years and 276 days of going out and I still have not approached a single girl. Please help. Start being able to emotionally accept 'failure'. That's where the real problem lies in approaching -- the fear of rejection. The moment you can accept rejection/'failure' as something other than a negative occurrence (maybe a learning experience, a joke, etc.) the easier it'll be to approach. Obviously you should approach with confidence and the belief that you'll succeed, but fear will definitely overshadow confidence; as confidence is nothing but the lack of fear. Embrace failure, seek out wh…	/r/seduction	01/10/13 10:12 PM
2	How do you hug people? My rule of thumb is, always have your arms under hers. (unless of course you're too tall)	/r/seduction	01/10/13 09:49 PM
1	Long time lurker who finally might have a break through, I just need some advice... I'd just ask her out. You don't want to be framed as that guy she just always sees at class. I mean that's fine but if you wanna get to know her, go do something outside of class. I'm assuming you're at a uni so I'm sure there's an almost infinite amount of things to do.	/r/seduction	25/09/13 02:50 AM
11	What do you say to "my eyes up here"? Most people undermine the importance of eye-contact.. I'm not saying there's no way to recover from this but if I were you I'd rather practice a little self-control.	/r/seduction	25/09/13 02:44 AM
4	How to deal with The Question... First of all, I wouldn't take the question too seriously. This is a question that you can easily joke/banter on about.	/r/seduction	25/09/13 12:24 AM
1	Whats a good date if I want to f-close? Vaginal intercourse	/r/seduction	23/09/13 11:21 PM
2	How does one go about being more outcome independent? I usually go out with the intention of becoming more attractive through experience. I try to put most of my focus on my sticking points, being pretty self aware of what I'm doing; 'right and wrong'. The way I see it, it helps being outcome independent and self improvement at the same time -- since you're not looking for a close, you're looking to get better at closing.	/r/seduction	23/09/13 04:01 PM
1	I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet and I have taught pick up & dating all around the world to all sorts of people over 7 years. This isn't a question, I just appreciate how you're a dating coach with the last name 'Shepherd'.	/r/seduction	19/09/13 06:52 PM
1	I am Chris Shepherd, AKA Tenmagnet and I have taught pick up & dating all around the world to all sorts of people over 7 years. Or you could say my favorite -- "(pause, squint and stare) Why do you wanna know where my dick has been?"	/r/seduction	19/09/13 06:45 PM
81	FR: Solo at the bar You may have given someone hope. Have my upvote.	/r/seduction	19/09/13 06:27 PM
4	How to appear confident in front of others guys? I love how your name is just be real	/r/seduction	18/09/13 06:54 PM
2	Does anyone remember their first ever day approach? You make courage by fighting away the fear. Yes..	/r/seduction	18/09/13 02:08 AM
1	First ever approach, and she commended my confidence. (lol little does she know I was nervous inside) whether or not OP is actually pulling 20/20 like it's magic. I think we should stop focusing on the numbers and outside factors regardless of how good or not they are for OP. Also, congrats!	/r/seduction	18/09/13 01:55 AM
4	Recently outer game advice on seddit is almost nonexistent A lot of Joshua Pellicer's stuff really resonated with me in terms of outer-game.	/r/seduction	14/09/13 06:56 PM
3	Struggle with eye contact while talking, but I can hold it when listening. Forcing it is a good first step. Understanding framing really helped me with eye-contact. Since you're posting this I can assume you frame making eye contact as bad in some way or that you believe you'll make bad eyecontact while speaking. Before and/or while making eyecontact, try to really imagine and picture what it would look and feel like to make good (or even sexual) eyecontact. If you can't really imagine it, find a model or example like (Edit: pressed sumit too quick lol) James bond (I'm…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 08:49 PM