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| 55 | What have you been spending your money on since you’re no longer wasting it on a terrible relationship/dating?I’m not spending money. I’m frugal and living minimally and low-waste, and I no longer have to deal with any criticism on this, or argue over purchasing things I consider worthwhile because they bring me joy. I don’t have to scrimp and save only to be blindsided by some idiotic purchase they made, or the sickening realisation of how much they were spending on beer and takeaways. I may be objectively less well off now, but my long term earning and potential has increased because I’m not depressed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:54 AM |
| -1 | Beware of friendships with women that crave male attention and need male validation to thrive. They will stop at nothing and drain your energy.Mepp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:02 AM |
| 39 | Queen energyBecause I agree with most of it, but like all philosophy or methods you must always remain flexible enough so that it doesn’t become dogma, and you can account for necessarily flexibility to accommodate and apply it more broadly. The handbook is a fantastic resource. At the crux of this entire approach to dating and life is the need to love and accept yourself at whatever stage you’re at in your journey. Love isn’t something reserved for those who’ve “levelled up”, it’s something we’re all worth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:37 PM |
| 21 | Queen energyIf that works for you great. I think as long as your self esteem is solid and you’re able to easily walk away from red flags you’re good to go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 41 | Queen energyQueens don’t accept conditional love, from men or from themselves. Self care and growth is a unique path for every woman. We’re not all aiming for the same end state, whether that be weight, education level, job or family dynamic. Yes, we all want to improve, but that can mean many things. Even if weight loss is a goal, you still need to level up your self esteem so that you love yourself and appreciate your body through all it’s stages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 24 | How to break a trauma bond?Also, I found writing a list of all the awful things they said or did VERY useful to refer to in the initial months. Helps a ton when your resolve wavers, and acts as a (frightening) reminder of why you need sky high standards for men and for how you treat yourself. You’ll get there and it will be beautiful and liberating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | DO NOT SHARE YOUR TRAUMA: Men will turn your pain into entertainment, or a way to get another woman.I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’ve been through the same and I remember feeling actual RAGE that they could betray my trust like that. At least he showed his true colours, now it’s time to move on and keep it to yourself xox | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:17 AM |
| 27 | "if you don't meet my sexual needs I'll find someone else who will"Hahaha oh lawd those stories actually give me LIFE, it’s so satisfying when they realise the realities of their lack of attractiveness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:12 PM |
| 17 | How to avoid being used by a guy while he prepares to date a woman he desires more?I think Sheera and Deborah are bang on CORRECT! A man who will let you help him build his career, his money, achieve his goals, motivate him etc will likely grow to resent you and your value in his eyes will diminish because you settled for a version of himself that even HE thought wasn’t good enough (hence wanting to improve himself and take any help he can). He will quite happily benefit from your help, your emotional support, your sex, your cleaning and cooking, your boosting of his ego, your… | /r/askFDS | 22/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 7 | “The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her” -Bob MarleyShe ain’t holding NOTHING back and I’m here for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 34 | My man has stopped trying to impress me. He’s still pretty much a HVM but he is lazy now.Mirror his energy. | /r/askFDS | 16/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 30 | Is honesty and respect really that much more difficult than manipulation and lying? SMHI also love you mom! What a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:00 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with a man who texts constantly?How do I address them being clingy? Just directly? | /r/askFDS | 07/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this enough reason for me to leave?Dump. His. Ass. You’re clouded by your brain chemistry, he brings nothing to your table, you’re 1000% settling for someone who lacks drive, direction, and a desire to see actively show you he adores you and wants to marry you. | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 10:54 AM |
| 13 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasBecause HVM love things of high value, and this especially applies to someone they’d consider as a life partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What if you slipped up and slept with a guy on your rotation?The drinking was his idea...and you’re right, it might indicate that’s all he was after. But I don’t care, because I’ve got three other men who seem kind and are treating me well - I wish I’d discovered proper dating so so so much earlier in my life. The old me would have been obsessing but instead I’m too busy and if it doesn’t work I’ll be fine. | /r/askFDS | 22/12/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | What if you slipped up and slept with a guy on your rotation?Thank you for this! I’ll definitely keep dating others, and will just relax and let it be. I certainly didn’t act embarrassed fortunately | /r/askFDS | 21/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 30 | Who wants to guess the gender of the higher earning spouse? (Hypothetically) The audacity... 🤭Savage, and I love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 14 | I'm reading through the FDS handbook and I love this nugget of wisdom:.As someone who is naturally friendly and outgoing, I wanted to find a way to do this without changing my personality. What’s worked for me is being myself but sitting back a bit, figuratively. Let them lead the conversation, see where they take things, let your reactions be genuine but always be observant. Stop saying things like “I’m xyz” or “I like men who do xyz”, ask more questions than the answers you give. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | This absolute QUEEN on r/askwomen, tip on how not to crush/over-romanticise a guy 🙌🏽https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/jaff56/has_anyone_ever_struggled_with_overromanticizing/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:34 PM |
| 4 | I just wanna say THANK YOU FOR FREEING MEGirrrrl you’ll be too busy levelling up to have your feet anywhere near LVM, they’re beneath you. Stay strong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 5 | I just wanna say THANK YOU FOR FREEING MEYou’re so much stronger than you even realise! And this is a pivotal point for you and your daughter’s future, you will definitely be an example to her of how you can change, grow and build a future you deserve. It seems like this man was physically abusive, so I want you to be very careful about your safety. Women are at most danger of being beaten and killed once they’ve left their abuser, so make sure you lock your doors, you reach out to a women’s shelter or service, and call the police to n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 29 | NYC woman finds love on OkCupid - confirms what we already know about OnlineDating (OLD). OLD is one of the most effective tools you have in your "2020 dating toolbox". It WORKS, ladies. Be selective, be RUTHLESS, be persistent, and TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN, WHO ARE A PENNY A DOZEN ON OLD APPS.Yeah no thanks. Meeting men in real life versus online is the difference between a photo taken with a pinhole camera in the early 1900s and a nano-capable colour enriched magazine spread. I want the details, and none of the obfuscation. I can see more of what they try to hide in real life. We have enough disadvantages in the dating world as it is, and I’m not making OLD another one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 194 | Hearing ‘ILYBINILWY’ speechThis is absolute QUEEN energy. I’m so proud of you. Being strong doesn’t mean you don’t feel dejected, it’s means that you continue to be guided by your moral compass even in the lows. Men who say these things have low emotional maturity, high impulsiveness, and will never make you happy. How awesome you know that you can trust yourself to uphold boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Hot sex without BDSM/violence?Good luck! It’s really a life changer, and I’m sure you can do it! Without being too explicit...I’ve found a spike in libido and the...errr...intensity of my ‘me’ time haha 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Hot sex without BDSM/violence?I stopped seeking it out when I was having intimate time with myself. I read and educated myself about how incredibly exploitative the porn industry is, inclusive of porn sites, and how even ‘ethical’ porn is problematic. I slipped up in the first few weeks, but felt guilty, and knew I didn’t want to be doing that. I wanted to learn to control my actions around sex and arousal, because I’m not willing to make poor choices with sex and men anymore (been there, done that). It’s been part of an all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 26 | Hot sex without BDSM/violence?Sexual arousal combined with repeated actions can cause neurological pathways in your brain, leading to the idea/situation where you “need” something to become aroused. But it’s not fixed. One thing I did after ending an unhealthy relationship is I stopped watching porn. I was with someone who was very selfish and unsatisfying sexually, and was barely intimate in any way, to the point that he’d just tell me to watch porn and sort myself out (am I glad the trash took itself out!). So for me, porn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 7 | So whats the right way to ask a guy where he is in the relationship?Read the handbook 😊 Assume he’s seeing other people if he hasn’t asked to be exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 7 | So whats the right way to ask a guy where he is in the relationship?You’re panicking because you’re trying to change ingrained behaviours based on the lie that men are scarce and you need to lock him down. Don’t. You date and get to know him. You don’t rush making an assessment, you meet him halfway or just shy of halfway, you give what you get always. He’s not raising the “what are we” convo? Then YOU’RE not raising it either. A diamond doesn’t beg to be bought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 9 | I feel like OLD is not for me, & I think I'm honestly okay with that.Absolutely agree! Part of my journey has included improving my taste in men, and realising I want a man who is confident and comfortable in his masculinity, someone with the drive and motivation to go for what he wants at the risk of failing and rejection, true failing and rejection that happens in REAL life. Online dating did not provide this, and the quality of men clearly reflected this. Now that my confidence is at its peak, and I take care of my appearance and health, I get approached by th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | I feel like OLD is not for me, & I think I'm honestly okay with that.Absolutely agree! Part of my journey has included improving my taste in men, and realising I was a man who is confident and comfortable in his masculinity, someone with the drive and motivation to go for what he wants at the risk of failing and rejection, true failing and rejection that happens in REAL life. Online dating did not provide this, and the quality of men clearly reflected this. Now that my confidence is at its peak, and I take care of my appearance and health, I get approached by the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Sweetheart vs dickTHIS. Your attraction to someone isn’t a favour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:20 AM |
| 8 | First date - field reportReminding myself too! Hha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 59 | First date - field reportYou’re just showing your hand way too early, and now he knows how to act to trick you into a sense of trust and intimacy, so he can get what he wants. There’s no need to say you don’t have casual sex, the way you carry yourself should SCREAM that you’re exclusive with your time and body, and have high self esteem that doesn’t require male sexual validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:47 AM |
| 68 | First date - field reportTalking about sex in any capacity on a first date is a no no. Even if it’s to assert boundaries, it still comes across as potentially tacky. You don’t lay your heart and rules on the table, you make them work for it and slowly reveal things in time once HE has raised it. Otherwise what you do is tell a man exactly how to act and what to say to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:09 AM |
| 8 | Thank you to all you FDS Queens for checking me every time I start veering back towards PickmeishastanIt’s a scary place, luring ya with easy sex, instant validation, and propaganda about liberal feminism...but the leader is always a despot crazy guy with fragile masculinity, and he starts wars and starves people of attention, and gets overthrown every 2-3 years. 0/10 not a great travel destination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Thank you to all you FDS Queens for checking me every time I start veering back towards PickmeishastanThank you! I still have days where I really doubt myself, but rather than post every time this happens I’m also just going to read these affirmations and let those old feelings pass. Change is hard, but we women are so tough and resilient! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | When and how do you tell a guy you’re a mom?Before the first date. My preference is before he even asks you on a first date. This is because a man who attaches negative connotations to a single mother, or who doesn’t like children, might not cancel once he finds out even if it is a dealbreaker, because he’ll still take a hook up if he can get it. However, it will definitely change how he views your value/what role you’ll play in his life. Essentially it gives him more leverage or a sense of power over the dynamic i.e months down the road … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:30 AM |
| 17 | When and how do you tell a guy you’re a mom?From day dot. Mention it in conversation, have someone else mention it, do it casually, not like you have the plague! It’s a great way to instantly weed out people who have this as a dealbreaker. My child is not part of my dating life, but she’s a massive part of my life and would be for anyone I married. It also shows I’m responsible, loyal, take care of my own, and I’m strong and independent, parts of my character that I’m proud of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | My partner is very smart and he has potential... But he's not going to go to college. And in our country, starting your own business isn't really an option. What do I do..?It is not your job to motivate him to change. If you do he will resent you, and end up leaving you once he’s successful for a woman who didn’t settle for him when he had so little to offer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:21 AM |
| 11 | My partner is very smart and he has potential... But he's not going to go to college. And in our country, starting your own business isn't really an option. What do I do..?Read the handbook. It’s not your job to ‘help him’ achieve some theoretical potential. Deal with the reality of who he is right now. You say you’re young, so maybe this is why you think this is not that big a deal. Lack of drive or stable finances and career can absolutely destroy you as an adult with children and expenses. You won’t be a college student forever, and then what will you make of his unmet potential? The fact he’s met your family etc is neither here nor there, don’t fall for the su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 8 | Summary of “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry ArgosWould you recommend reading it then? Or is there a better book out there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 18 | Man cheats on woman, publishes it in a pathetic attempt to get her back & scrotes in the comments going “You REAL for that bro! Get her back!” If it was the other way around, theyd call her a hoe & the man a simp. double standards on display right here, folks.Even with half her face hidden by his phone and his hand and his smug face she STILL outshines this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Recently started dating again (I explain why I'm dating during COVID-19 in post), and I'm having trouble narrowing guys down. Besides being kind, handsome, and having a good job, what do you look for?Why can’t you go on dates with them all? I don’t understand, that’s the whole point of dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | I can see through your bullshit *No about me or looking for on his profile*I say “I’ll know when I find him”. Works well for me, tells them I’m after something serious and at the same time gives them no information to help them play the part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 4 | Porn and vetting as you dateThis one is an tough one...because obviously I’d want them to be into what I looked like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Porn and vetting as you datePerfect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:17 AM |
| 4 | Porn and vetting as you dateThanks you!! So many good tips | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:17 AM |
| 4 | Porn and vetting as you dateThank you for such a thoughtful response! I particularly like 6 and 7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Porn and vetting as you dateI really like this approach...sit back and observe it come to the surface. This way they can’t get at you for being antagonistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:10 AM |
| 5 | Porn and vetting as you dateUgh this makes me sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 19 | Why do guys call you ugly? And then compliment you afterwards? I blocked him after my reply and reported him he looks 16 😂 I also should delete tinder I feel like it makes my self esteem worse these scrotes don’t know how to behave they’re like caged animals being released into the wildClassic negging, a really terrible pick up artists strategy. Ignore. Block. Delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Virtual "date" tomorrow. Give me the 411 ladies!Oh boy I feel ya on that one. Now I tell myself I’m not a therapist, and certainly not for free! So many guys are looking for an emotional caregiver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 7 | Virtual "date" tomorrow. Give me the 411 ladies!It was about not wanting him to come to my house, I don’t know him well enough. And let them be suspicious. Don’t moderate your choices based on your assumption of their response. Just do what works for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Virtual "date" tomorrow. Give me the 411 ladies!I’m in the same boat as you just learning how to date this way. Recently a guy asked me something I didn’t want to give details about, so I just said “I don’t do that, I have my reasons”. He respected it and is still initiating and keeping in touch. Good guys aren’t scared off by boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...Don’t be too hard on yourself, you’re clearly making progress in having recognised the behaviour (both yours and his) which is incredible! Give yourself credit for that, and keep moving, leave that man behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 47 | In need of some support/advice for wishy washy new guy...You aren’t ready to date if you’re falling back into unhealthy emotional habits, or having thoughts like ‘he’s the one’ after one date. You’re also not ready to date when you’re expending energy trying to rationalise his shortcomings and poor treatment of you. Mixed signals are not mixed, it’s a clear indicator that he’s not invested. That’s all you need to know. Find time to work on yourself, build up some resilient and substantial self confidence, and once you feel like you could walk away fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:09 AM |
| 3 | If he asks for your body count...Definitely bring home the liberties some of us have now. Most of us would have been burnt as witches for being independent thinkers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | If he asks for your body count...You’re welcome - She’s talented, check out her other songs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 5 | If he asks for your body count...Omg thank you for this, I don’t know how I missed this song of hers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:16 PM |
| 49 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...Fair enough. Even so, I see a bias here with the scoring of younger looking women higher. As if whoever did this even speaks to women this glamorous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:22 PM |
| 256 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...That picture of Natalie Portman is from when she was about 14 years old. What. The. Actual.... These paedophiles not even hiding any more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Female genital mutilation being inflicted on girls stuck at home due to COVID19 as circumcisers go door to doorThat’s something I didn’t know. Gosh that’s sad 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 10:25 AM |
| 10 | Female genital mutilation being inflicted on girls stuck at home due to COVID19 as circumcisers go door to doorIt’s driven by patriarchal perceptions of what make a woman a good wife, and while it has been ingrained to the point of being encouraged by female elders and mothers, they do so because they want their daughters to find a husband rather than be destitute. Men do not marry women who haven’t gone through FGM, as women who have are viewed as more loyal (the procedure removes chunks of the clitoris which raps around the whole vaginal opening, and affects libido and normal sexual development), and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | A recent hook-up asked me my body count.“I haven’t killed anyone yet, but you might be the first one after asking a question like that” giggle giggle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 12 | 5 ways to spot emotional immaturityThe School of Life on youtube is amazing 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 33 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8You are my people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 67 | Unbelievable, next-level Pickmeisha whose husband only chose her after he became paraplegicBut she gets to be a forever saviour/saint/angel for looking after him #blessed #truelove. It sort of reminds me of when women date convicted murderers and rapists who are in jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:58 AM |
| 23 | That's a rough 41 😬More like 41 leap years... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:58 AM |
| 53 | Does anyone actually believe this is an accident when this happens?Fuck no. I’ve had a guy describe it feeling different - receptive versus not receptive. Consensual anal takes time and is slow at the beginning. Fuck these arseholes. I won’t do anal anymore in future relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Leveled up to a Ph.D. today.This is incredible!!! I hope you’re celebrating somehow, and bursting with pride! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 09:36 AM |
| 7 | You can never convince a man to love youThis could have been written by me, thank you for your sincerity! I’m also a former pickmeisha, and I’m drinking up this whole subreddit 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:26 PM |
| 5 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinE“ Pasty, doughy LARPers with smudgy glasses and wispy beards who only bathe every 4 days at best.” This killed me. I ded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 49 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Who TF is Skylar? 😂 He’s just jealous we’re filling something and he isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 111 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏Fucking QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:56 PM |
| 15 | Do you have a general rule for age range and dating?I’m in my mid 30’s. I have and would date up to 10 yrs younger, in the past I have also dated 10 years older but not anymore, the oldest would be maybe 5 yrs older. Why? I’ve no interest in dealing with some 40year old guys ingrained bad habits, or the fact that he has no idea how to present himself, and has skin drier than our conversation. Not saying there aren’t older guys who are awesome...but a quick look at OLD proved dudes my age and older look dusty AF, and it honestly completely scared … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:17 AM |
| 36 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?Is someone cutting onions?? ...thank you, this actually had me tearing up. And you are right, I am insecure right now, I want to look into some counselling once quarantine is over. I’ve made the mistake of attracting LVM for just that reason in the past, so I’m trying to drown myself in FDS and actually experience dating when I feel confident and secure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:46 AM |
| 7 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?I’m completely independent, so I have that going for me! I guess if I am being truthful I’m not quite ready to date, and maybe that’s the source of the insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:35 AM |
| 5 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?Thank you, I really like your outlook, and I don’t disagree with you. I guess I know for my own self I stopped caring about things I used to care about because I was sad and being taken for granted, so investing in my health and my outlook and identity is a way of gaining back control over my life and preventing my self esteem from wavering in a relationship again. I certainly don’t think I’m a product, but I am aware that a lot of men consider me/women just that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?Oh, how so? I’ve found it really empowering personally, but everyone’s goals are different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 8 | FDS and dating when you might be considered LV?Maxing is just the theory of making the most of your looks/personality/finances etc. Essentially becoming the best version of yourself, not buying into the victim mentality. I feel more confident and happier when this is the case, and attract better people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Success Story Places?? :)I would also love to hear about any resources like this! Great question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Oh lord this was a hilarious great watch!!!I just stumbled upon her videos, she’s like the grandma I never knew I needed 🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Every relationship complaint on reddit be likeA few I’ve noticed were active on MGTOW and MRA forums | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:10 PM |
| 22 | Every relationship complaint on reddit be likeIt’s honestly depressing to read. I also feel like MGTOW etc have overrun it and are commenting and reporting in a really spiteful manner. I second moving to dming women instead of posting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:00 AM |
| 22 | The Femme Fatale Trope, Explained...takes notes on how to be more of a femme fatale 🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 80 | “Don’t listen to what men say, watch what they do” - my mom, who passed away two weeks agoStanding on the shoulders of giants! She sounds so incredible, so sorry for your loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:36 AM |
| 74 | Damn... 1,500 dudes fell for itYuck At least when they eventually call her a bitch they won’t be wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Interesting video as to why women shouldn’t have sex with a man too early with the science to back it!Thank you. This is amazing, and you are so so so so right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:40 PM |
| 20 | Finally met the HVM who will listen to me talk without interrupting!And no risk that he’ll drink your wine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:05 AM |
| 26 | CringeGross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:22 AM |
| 38 | Found some HVM in r/LifeProTips and it gave me a little hope.Jesus...is this how low the bar is? Buying someone tampons is worthy of HVM praise? This is on par with buying someone Panadol when they’re in pain. Nice, decent, BARE MINIMUM decent behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 23 | Letting your man check out other women's body's is NOT how to keep him faithful.I’m stealing your steak anecdote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 11 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherThis is so spot on. This is NOT a zero sum game. We can all be Bomb women amazing and confident in our own right, the boys better catch up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:39 PM |
| 5 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂You BOSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 28 | What an awesome husbandI used to use it, but can’t say I liked the taste. I’ve since learned to make buttercream and it’s so yum! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:16 AM |
| 145 | What an awesome husbandAdorable...but r/fondanthate would hate this haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:22 AM |
| 31 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂“Listen to my dulchit tones feeemale, be awed by my talent” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:14 AM |
| 33 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂Hahaha this is fantastic! Should of responded that you did alchapella 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | You will not need to enforce your boundaries with HVMThis hit hard. I’ve seen this in other relationships. But I’ve always experience the unbalance love-bombing...and fell for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 10:14 AM |
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