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I agree with the consensus here about text game. Use texts sparingly and use them to get them to organize a date. Be direct, leave the ball in their court, if they seem flaky then its time to move on. Interest should be obvious. Even if you got a number, K closed or whatever, if they don't want to fit you into their schedule, they're not worth it. A wise woman once said, "Ain't no'body got time for this!"
/r/seduction20/03/13 06:19 PM
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From what I've experienced, its in many cases their interest isnt that high, they're busy, or theyre purposefully delaying. Even if they read your message, they may not feel like responding, which has happened to me sometimes. I just don't feel like spending time in a convo, even over text. Nothing against that person. Funny thing I have noticed though, is that when I'm hanging out with girls that are my friends, and they are texting a guy theyre EXTREMELY interested in, their reply time is almo…
/r/seduction20/03/13 01:10 PM
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You don't jump through hoops for random girls, why would you do it for your gf? This would really upset me.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:35 PM
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For me, letting things flow naturally vs trying too hard is key. Sometimes the conversation doesnt come up, or shes not qualifying herself enough to help things along, and it just means shes not into you in that case. Sometimes when things get stagnant, the girl will say or do something you can pick up on and continue the interaction, and if you run out of steam yourself, don't get worried about it. Just continue having a good time within your situation and pick up where you left off if you can …
/r/seduction15/06/12 04:18 PM
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I appreciate the information, I think that this kinda stuff is definitely related to this subreddit.
/r/seduction13/06/12 02:21 PM
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I dont' know how any woman can refute this, should a man really need positive reinforcement at this age? The author makes a great point. I feel invigorated when I'm challenged, especially by a woman, or when she can make me question myself or my own beliefs and even more points for getting me to see something differently. I think there is a time and a place to bring things up, and if I happened to forget milk 3 times after work, I'd expect to get hen pecked no matter what the circumstances.
/r/seduction04/05/12 08:39 PM
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here's another good one, you can start pointing at really hot women in the room..."her, and her, annnnd lets see, her...yeah Ive got a few"
/r/seduction27/04/12 05:21 PM
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start counting on your fingers, move onto pointing to toes if you wanna drag out the gag. name fake names too.
/r/seduction27/04/12 02:06 PM
1

Don't spin plates with a gf dude, leave them better than you found them.
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:22 PM
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Do some searches on qualifying, the term is in the glossary, and is very important. If you don't qualify them, or they dont qualify themselves, then you can immediately move on, and not worry about it.
/r/seduction17/04/12 07:40 PM
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Actual appearance means less to women than you might think. They speak the truth when they say it. The issue is that many men who might see themselves as less attractive actually ARE because they do not develop their personality and confidence.
/r/seduction12/04/12 08:29 PM
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I didn't even realize it, I dont think I'm doing enough of that. Or I'm putting too much effort in women that don't qualify themselves.
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:31 PM
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That's my gripe, is the spending of effort. I suppose though if I'm attempting to build attraction properly, attempt a K close and get turned down, then I know. I think my problem is not escalating fast enough. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction10/04/12 06:03 PM
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First thing you do after she says "You're my straight gay friend" is get up and walk out. Hopefully it just doesn't get to that point though.
/r/seduction07/02/12 04:41 PM
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I noticed something else, most of the girls seemed oblivious to even being hit on. If it was a guy, they would automatically assume he was interested.
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:29 PM
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I noticed this as well, I tried picturing a man saying and behaving the same exact way, he wouldnt get half as far as she did.
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:23 PM
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In my opinion she's genuinely interested, and she wants to wait. If she just wanted to fuck, she would have. Plain and simple. If all you're looking for is a fuck, and she isn't you gotta move on, dont make another scorned woman.
/r/seduction29/12/11 09:52 PM
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I just tell them that this is the reality of what dating is. It is the stage at which you get to know someone before you decide you want to actually be in a relationship with them. "I don't know you yet from a hole in the wall, I don't think its fair for either of us to limit our ability to get to know other people, its in our best interest. Now, lets get to know each other better shall we?"
/r/seduction27/12/11 02:21 PM
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This is obvious. She wants feelings involved first, you should just move on if all you want is to hook up with girls. If she said something like, "I don't wanna be a slut." Then that would have made more sense. You said you genuinely like this girl, so if you do, then wait a little bit longer, show her how you really feel if you have serious intent, and then live happily ever after.
/r/seduction28/11/11 09:06 PM
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Out organizing an event at a club, dancing, and socializing. I've got my eye on this girl I met out at a party last weekend. Got her digits, told her I wanted a dance this time. Let's see what happens.
/r/seduction09/11/11 03:11 PM
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/r/relationship_advice /r/sex /r/kink
/r/seduction08/09/11 02:54 PM
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Interesting, I'll give that a shot.
/r/seduction12/08/11 02:04 PM
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The northeast seems to be notorious for this. Not that I have anything against well read, intelligent women, but all they seem to be interested in, well really no social activities. The ones that enjoy going out, I have nothing in common with.
/r/seduction11/08/11 05:27 PM
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The hard part is getting them to answer in OKC, IMO. I've been through all of the info abotu what to say, have tried all difference scenarios, and it simply comes down to whether they like your profile and your looks. You could say shit like, "Hey, you seem cool, hit me up sometime." Those are the sort of messages I get from women without any messaging them first.
/r/seduction10/08/11 08:05 PM
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"Its like a tic tac with a bite taken out of it."
/r/seduction24/06/11 02:26 PM
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you need to have the talk. like yesterday. the more you hang around the more hope she's going to have.
/r/seduction05/04/11 01:12 PM
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In that case, I'd be honest with her, if thats all your looking for. If you F closed on the first date (which is probably what happened), you have every right to say that you didn't expect anything serious to be going on. "Look, I'm not looking to be tied down right now, if you're looking for something more serious, I think you should look elsewhere." If she flips out, just get up, get dressed and leave. That's what I'd do.
/r/seduction04/04/11 07:14 PM
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I think you had an opportunity to whip this girl into shape, but I understand the willingness to not play "daddy" with this girl.
/r/seduction04/04/11 06:18 PM
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Called her mom by her first name? Hmmmm maybe shes a step daughter...I think you should go for the 3some.
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:26 PM
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This really made me think, kinda made me emotional too. Great video. Were all only human after all. Were all going through this same shit trying to make life work, I'm sure theres more in common with the person next to you than you know.
/r/seduction23/03/11 08:48 PM
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lol
/r/seduction18/03/11 01:07 PM
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Agreed. Everyone in the youtube comments said he was wrong for focusing on the married one, but that's just the point, keep the target hungry.
/r/seduction17/03/11 04:30 PM
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I interpreted being seduced as sex, but I understand your point.
/r/seduction10/03/11 02:41 PM
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Further proof women don't really mean what they say.
/r/seduction09/03/11 03:09 PM
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I see your point, but what happened to not needing validation? I enjoy the attention and am very flattered when someone pays me a compliment, but I don't go fishing for them because I feel like its something thats missing.
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:42 PM
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I stopped viewing gw because all of the women on there were incredibly hot, and sounded like they were looking for ego stroking, stop trying to be modest, you know you're hot.
/r/seduction08/02/11 04:25 PM
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Most people I've seen on this reddit recommend either not playing the dance floor game, or working silent game on the dance floor. If you come upon a girl with a huge friend shield up, dont bother.
/r/seduction24/01/11 09:58 PM
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You have a point there. At that point I don't think she deserves another option.
/r/seduction18/01/11 04:38 PM
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"We can do this another time if you'd rather talk on the phone."
/r/seduction14/01/11 08:16 PM
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I'd love to hear some FRs from that place. Glad you liked it.
/r/seduction28/12/10 01:36 PM
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Room 960 in Hartford, CT if you're into dance music, sometimes they play top 40, good selection of women there. Elevate Lounge in New Haven also plays dance music and top 40, but haven't been there in a while, so I'm not sure what its like.
/r/seduction21/12/10 08:31 PM
2

I always thought you attack, WHILE talking up everyone else around you to DHV.
/r/seduction15/12/10 05:14 PM
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My personal experience with smileys is all over the place, some girls dig it, some dont.
/r/seduction10/12/10 09:33 PM
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Sometimes I feel like using smileys are sort of a beta behavior because it conotates looking for some sort of acceptance, or a more sure fire way to convey emotion, where as you may want to be more vague...any tips on this?
/r/seduction10/12/10 09:32 PM
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I usually find it appropriate to bring it up if any sort of sexual habit conversation comes up. Favorite positions, or tendencies, I'll just eloquently segue into it. Speakin of bedroom habits...etc etc... I figure, if sex doesn't come up in conversation in some way before we hit the bedroom, then we probably aren't gonna get there in the first place.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:29 PM
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In other threads, Ive seen something like this IS in fact a shit test. She could have been BS'ing about having to cover a shift, and wanted to see if he would jump if she snapped her fingers. He did and look what happened.
/r/seduction26/10/10 07:53 PM
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I'd say if he got her that far, then she was mildly interested, and should have at least noticed the girls being really rude.
/r/seduction26/10/10 04:38 PM
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In that case, I'd grab the Hb7 by the hand and bring her somewhere where it would be really awkward for the 3 girls to follow. Maybe a back hallway or something...somewhere a bit more intimate...where it would be rude for the girls to lurk. If they DO follow for some reason, I'd stand parallel to them and be polite yet firm, "Excuse me, I'm trying to have a private conversation with a friend here, would you mind?" Or if that doesn't seem viable, say something like, "It looks like it would be muc…
/r/seduction25/10/10 08:23 PM
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Stick to regular game, imo. Guys are going to be oogling over half dressed women, the one who doesn't act like a complete neanderthal will probably do well. If this party is sort of inferred to become a more sexual intimate party at anytime, well then you can work angles a bit differently, but if this is just a house party with more risque dress, then I would stick to normal game.
/r/seduction01/10/10 04:13 PM
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Let the pussy marinate.
/r/seduction03/09/10 03:08 PM
1

Sounds like she was just a cramp in his style, but I see what you mean. Having a gf doesn't mean close yourself off from everyone else, but had it been early in the relationship for me, I still would have wanted to at least spend some time at home fucking, and THEN go out.
/r/seduction03/09/10 03:07 PM
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If you give others a reason to shoot you down before they even consider you, you're doing it wrong. Yes, statistically its harder for shorter guys to pick up women, but, you should be acting like that statistic doesn't exist.
/r/seduction24/08/10 02:30 PM
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Wow, thats great, I love it when stuff pans out like that. Real natural flow you have going there, and it worked. I know that sometimes when I'm out with a girl that is just stunning, I always have to remind myself not to look down and just be that alpha. Over time it has become more natural and the advice here has really helped my confidence. She DOES sound like gf material, and happy that you realized that too. Good luck with the rest of things :)
/r/seduction20/08/10 05:57 PM
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Not sure if it was because you didn't have enough time in the morning, but you should have gotten a number instead of FB. "Hey I've seen you around here before, we should hang out sometime, let me get your number." I would try making conversation with her about how you have seen her around recently, but not before that, and find out if she's new to the area. Then ask to hang out and get a number. I used to be all about online correspondence, but real time communication makes it more difficult fo…
/r/seduction22/04/10 06:17 PM
2

Zeitlos: can we get some examples of the rejections? If she's outright rejecting you, read: "No, I don't want to go out with you." or "No, I'm not interested in going out with you." Then what's the use in continuing to try? If its a scheduling conflict, then yeah keep trying, but flat out rejection, shes sending you mixed signals.
/r/seduction19/04/10 08:45 PM
2

If she's honestly busy, then fine, you cant account for that. But if she rejects you without reason, wtf is he supposed to do?
/r/seduction19/04/10 08:04 PM
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Why was it a bad idea? She clearly would make time for you if she could somehow. I was faced with this once, and I'm tired of footing 100% of the effort while she sits back and waits for a time thats most opportune for her, fuck that. You can do better.
/r/seduction19/04/10 06:49 PM
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I agree, he's predictable, stable, boring...i.e "TOO Perfect". He friendzoned himself by giving up the farm and not escalating at all. Made himself completely available all the time, and now she's ready to give up something because theres no magnetism. "You gotta let the pussy marinate."
/r/seduction16/04/10 08:48 PM
1

You could say "I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours, and ask her first." Naturally she'll probably lie, and lowball it, and you can say something more than her within an acceptable range. But honestly, its none of her business, I like "Please, allow a guy some modesty," the best. What matters more is that you're clean and have been tested. If she asks about that, tell her the truth, I think in that case, she has a right to know.
/r/seduction09/04/10 08:47 PM
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I don't think its cruel at all. If you value the friendship of these girls go for it, and use the advice to your advantage. I think it seems to have the similar effect as if the roles were switched. She knows you have a gf, will see how you behave in your relationship with you as her friend, and that should get some notice. If she starts to come onto you for any reason while your in your relationship, make it very clear that was not your intention. Girls do this ALL the time, with the guy just w…
/r/seduction09/04/10 03:04 PM
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Hahaha, no, but thats funny though I did read that article yesterday. That's scary shit.
/r/seduction26/03/10 02:57 PM
2

I agree, and the fact is, is that you don't deserve being taken for a ride if she doesn't meet your expectations. The only way to find out is to try.
/r/seduction25/03/10 04:05 PM
5

Show her to the door, pull her in for a hug (which seems completely reasonable), on the pull away, make a move to kiss her on the lips if you can, if she seems resistant to being that close or turns her head, you know where you stand, and don't call her anymore.
/r/seduction25/03/10 02:16 PM
2

I've never run into this before, but it sounds like they're looking for rationalization. They feel self conscious, that people will judge them, that their "number" is going up, honestly its all BS. I would simply tell her that if she wants to have fun, then she should have fun, if she's more concerned about what other people think, and other people knowing her business then she'll never get to do what she wants in life, and will always have to answer to others. Personally, as long as you're safe…
/r/seduction18/03/10 04:59 PM
1

I like the idea of avoiding the question, making up a silly answer and moving on to something else. However, if you're caught off guard, I would simply say something like, "I'll tell you who's the most attractive to me instead." Sidestep the question, you now have an opportunity to score brownie points with the girl you've had your eye on, or to start with the girl you WANT to work on, and then you can continue from there. If they continue to press, point off to the side to a woman who is notica…
/r/seduction12/02/10 05:38 PM
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It took me a long time to realize this. If you can vibe with someone, everything else is workable. If your communication is open, you get a long like buddies, but still have a spark and attraction, that kind of thing is priceless.
/r/seduction08/02/10 05:38 PM
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