Hi seddit, I need some advice with this particular girl. I have no experience with this kind of girl, so I'm receiving a lot of mixed signals and am having trouble proceeding. She's very high-energy, sort of crazy, always doing things. I'm having trouble escalating because it seems like she never slows down enough for me to get a move in. When we hang out (she initiates most of the time, which is a good sign right?) we are constantly doing something (driving or walking somewhere, cooking food, watching a movie, etc) so there is barely any face to face conversation (there is conversation just not face to face) or times when I could even begin escalating. The few times I've tried to setup a moment where I could slow things down it seems like she tries to get out of the situation as fast as she can. For example, we watched a movie at my house one day. During the movie she sat lengthwise on the couch and on top of me, but I couldn't really get too close (my couch is small, I would have had to climb on top of her). When the movie ended I was going to make a move, but within a minute she was like "okay I had a great time I'll see you another day" and leaving. I get the feeling she is in to me but something is making her freeze up when she senses something is going to happen. How can I get past this? I'm a bit confused on the whole kino escalation ladder thing because I can put my hands on her arms or legs and she's even asked me to feel her hair or touch her face but doesn't seem to change much. Advice?