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Question For WomenCrystalMethMyBFF/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:37 AM
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Daylight savings goes against most humans natural circadian rhythm stop trying to make it permanent you fkn jagaloons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:24 AM
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Whenever someone says they "saw something" it means they saw it on an internet post. And when you call them out for taking internet posts too seriously they get in their feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:19 AM
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Account created 4 days ago (and is referencing comments I made over a week ago) trying to get me banned for having an alt account lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:18 AM
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half the guys here are legimately mentally ill. Meteorness used to talk about how he was a prophet getting visions from God and acts like that never happened 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:40 AM
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It's fun to pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:30 AM
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i dont get what the purpose of this comment was
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:29 AM
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Over 50% of american men are fat bro. Just by not being fat Im in the upper half. You can def surpass another 25% and place yourself in the 75th percentile just by doing other shit like skincare, fashion etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:27 AM
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Bruh none of yall geezers are even attracting hot 18 year olds why are you so obsessed with them 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:23 AM
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People who are frustrated by dating are so cringe. It's just a meat stick and a slimy hole bro it aint that serious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:00 AM
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What do you mean in spite of? Women's hypergamy is great, all I gotta do is weightlfit and take of my appearance and I'm instantly more attractive than 80% of men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:54 AM
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The Clippers are about to be 5-5 Paul George ain't a Chad lmfao But srs, I dont see how thats "having your cake and eating it too" tho? That implies someone who has a high-n shouldn't be able to have a good LTR for whatever reason. The fact of the matter is some ppl dont give a shit about promiscuity, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:50 AM
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how do you have the energy to be this unhappy every. single. day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:47 PM
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Holy shit youre actually not capable of getting the point. NO ONE ASKED FOR YOU TO GIVE SYMPATHY. They were simply explaining why abused women stay with their abusers and you drew a parallel for no reason. If you dont understand why that is irrelevant to the discussion then your brain is malfunctioning. Not even saying that as an ad hominem, there's something wrong if you're not trolling and genuinely dont get the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:44 PM
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Yes but the whole thing was WHY you drew that parallel in the first place, what was your point in doing so? Because lonely men dont receive empathy, abused women shouldn't either? They were explaining why women stay in abusive relationships and you responded with "but lonely men don't receive empathy"... do you not see how random that parallel is? I usually agree with your comments because it seems we have similar philosophy but you kind of made an ass of yourself here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:15 PM
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Dude do you seriously not understand what they're saying? They're asking why you diverted the conversation and made it about lonely men when it was about abused women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:04 PM
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yea i have no idea wtf youre on about bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:03 AM
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Speak for yourself. I enjoy helping people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:02 AM
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Feel free to explain why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:37 AM
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Lol right "i dont have time to deal with that" when studies have shown the average american spends over 7 hours a day staring at a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:34 AM
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It's a two way street though. If it weren't for the internet how many ppl would believe in things like the black pill in the first place? There's a reason it wasn't a thing until social media and the internet took control of everyone's live and completely wrecked human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:31 AM
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Are you calling me a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:21 AM
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All you have to do is listen and talk with them not be their counselor lol. How many women do you come across who want anything more than someone to vent to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:21 AM
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Why not? You don't have deep conversations with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:04 AM
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People need to stop using "prioritizing my mental health" as an excuse to be selfish and care about no one else's
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:58 AM
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Why do people act like it's a chore or a burden to help someone recover from their trauma and or manage their anxieties in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:36 AM
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haha no fkn way. thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:31 AM
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I still have yet to see a better dating profile than this one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:23 AM
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Modern asshole obsession will never make sense to me... hope you enjoy it ig lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:21 AM
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why the fuck would you pay someone money to lick your ass man wtf. Just fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:18 AM
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Lol at say the wrong thing. What's the worst thing a guy's said in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:15 AM
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haha damn. I guess the trade off for us to cum easier means you guys get the better orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:11 AM
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Oh im sorry i confused myself lol. I thought you were reiterating my question when you said "Female ejaculation?", not answering it. Yea i doubt thats possible to fake. Nothing else though? Id figure that some of the spams or shaking is hard to replicate due to how rapid fire it can seem but maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:05 AM
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lol no i use orgasm and cum interchangeably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:46 AM
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Nope. I'm in my early 20's and its still not representative of reality. People say shit on the internet all the time that deep down they dont really think or believe, its just to get a reaction and be inflammatory. Like I see feminists saying the craziest shit about men online and ive never come across someone like that in real life. Maybe once or twice at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:45 AM
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what does he have to do to fuck it up? I'd assume as long as he keeps doing the same thing it'll happen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:43 AM
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Is there anything y'all do when cumming that you can't easily fake? The only reason I knew when my exes orgasms were real is because we had the type of relationship where they would just tell me straight up if i wasnt hitting it right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:41 AM
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The Bible literally has verses about how men shouldn't look at other women when in a marriage. People fuckin 2000 years ago had the ability to control their lizard brains stop with this BS narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:28 AM
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You're replying to me like I disagree lol. Yes, women get attached stronger and more often then men on average. I kind of get tired of the evolutionary biology/psychology because it's 2022 and we aren't ruled by our lizard brains anymore. It can still be a significant influence, sure. But me and other men usually get attached because we... like her as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:22 AM
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Oh for sure, I know girls get attached like crazy, and still more likely to. I just think there's more men than some realize do as well but deny it or don't want to admit it. Thing is, a lot of guys just feel like pansies or sissies if they admit they fall in love lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:59 PM
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holy shit same. If you both have that burning desire for each other why tf would you want to suppress it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:44 PM
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You're actually a jackass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:43 PM
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Nah I definitely get attached if the sex is intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:41 PM
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Jfc thats not my point man learn to fuckin read
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:20 PM
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Agreed on all points. The fact that our biology dictates older men will still want to shag a far young woman doesn't mean acting it is an expedient thing to do lmao. This point seems lost on many men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:13 PM
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I know you're talking about the anglosphere. My entire point is that all you have to do is look toward other countries to prove that men can control the dating game if they want Even in the anlgosphere men control the culture, we allowed dating to become this awful. "Victim blaming"? As a grown ass man? Are you serious? Men aren't helpless, we literally built the world. Explain how men are not validating women's poor behavior and character when they can get everything they want by just looking g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:01 PM
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If someone can't talk about religion or politics with others then either you or the other person is just too emotional to have a highly charged conversation without it devolving into a cantankerous back-and-forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:47 PM
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the point of prostitution is that its fuckin paid what are these ppl talking about. thats like saying your office job is just paid slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:34 PM
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Most women's issue is when they're forced into that role, not that it exists. The foaming at the mouth feminazi's you see on twitter are a loud internet minority and not representative of the women you'll actually meet in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:26 PM
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I mean you can just communicate and ask them if they are seeing anyone else instead of assuming. Not many women will straight lie to your face unless they flat out don't respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:19 PM
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Women are the reactive sex. Evolutionarily, they're wired to want to follow an attractive male's lead for the most part. They have the power in the dating world but men have the power in society and culture, which is what influences the dating game the most. Look at muslim and arab countries that have a culture where the man rules with an iron fist, as a result those women have no iron fist to rule with in dating. Men are the one's who rule the household (well, at least they used to be) and lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:13 PM
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These critiques does mean anything when many men are having more success applying red pill principles than when they were still blue pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:04 PM
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Women can't "change" the rules of dating all by themselves on a whim, it takes two to tango. The modern feminist landscape of dating is equally on men's shoulders as it is modern feminists. Men aren't these helpless creatures being subject to a woman's whimsicality as you're making it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:56 PM
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If your dick is good and your vibe is right then the other guys are getting dropped pretty quick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:52 PM
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I used think similar to OP's post in that the type of women I wanted would have traits I'd hate for a daughter of mine to have, and once I realized that had to change my philosophy a bit. I think it makes sense why men think like this, but ppl who are made aware of how hypocritical it is and still try to justify that outlook are weird to me. You want another man's daughters to be dependent, mentally weaker, submissive to a fault, and sometimes overtly sexual but would never want your own daughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:23 PM
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Ha sounds almost exactly like me. It's exciting though once you get back into it, hopefully you meet someone good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:10 PM
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Yea that's pretty much my point worded in a different way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:49 PM
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murdering someone actively trying to help you. that's some evil shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:11 AM
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8 inch bad dragon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:08 AM
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Sounds like outside of the physical stuff he just needs to be a good friend/companion and tries his best to make you feel good about yourself and the relationship? And that can come or be expressed in a variety of ways. I think that's a good mindset to have. I feel even the ppl who have these rigid requirements or fixed expectations would be happier if they just relaxed them and focused more on appreciating the underlying qualities, traits, principles, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:04 AM
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I hate that every time this convo gets brought up ppl insist its jealousy or envy. If an older dates a significantly younger women theres guys who give him the same shit. Some ppl just think it's nasty wth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:56 AM
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Eh why not both. You and how most women you know feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:46 AM
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Yea there's less super devout or overtly religious ppl nowadays, so ig that makes me think there's few in general, but there's still a decent chunk, they're just a lot more tame and softer with it now. As you said many non-religious ppl, knowingly or not, hare lingering onto beliefs their religious parents had as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:46 AM
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I'd say that's the main reason why. Most ppl who prioritize marrying their first partner are religious and every Abrahamic religion highly discourages divorce. Even then though I think it's been proven that virgins and low-n count ppl are inherently less likely to hop out of relationships as easily as someone who's high-n does, so there's a little credence to that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:27 AM
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So what would be the main things you're wanting from a man since modern women already got a lot of those things covered? Other than good dick :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:20 AM
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Haha fair enough. I can def see how it can be more preferable to go at it alone than try to make it work with a poor partner. What would say is the reason in cases like this? The husband just gets too comfortable and lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:09 AM
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Not sure if those women are happy tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:52 AM
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I think the 1950's idea where the woman is the homemaker got twisted somewhere along the way and now modern men thinks that means you can be a man child lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:43 AM
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Lol women do communicate well, you just suck at understanding them. Just because they communicate differently doesn't mean it's a poorer way to communicate. It is to you, but not to them. That's the whole point of what im saying, you've been spending all this time attacking a strawman. I dont tell women shit, tf are you on about. I say what i think until someone disputes it adequately and gives me reason to believe otherwise. Don't accuse me of some shit like that idc how women feel about what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:37 AM
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What do women provide men more than men provide women? There's many relationships where the girl can get by despite doing nothing other than fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:21 AM
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Yea but I've found what youre describing is an excpetion so i didnt mention it. If you want to get into outliers then this discussion is pointless. And the way you're describing it sounds a little off putting my man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:11 AM
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Why is that? Why do so many men struggle with being single compared to women, even if the timeframes are similar? I wonder if it's because we tend to base too much of our own value and self-worth on being sexually validated by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:05 AM
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Women who are 18 or 19 are comparing the 35 year old guy to other 18 or 19 year olds as that's all she knows, their perception is skewed and the older guy knows that. He can get away with being a bad lover, being lazy, treating her like shit etc. because she's simply too inexperienced and thinks that's normal. That's how. Her perception of a good relationship is now negatively warped. Let her date someone who's the same age going through the same things as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:00 AM
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I find it hilarious when men call women cruel and immoral when we would be doing the same shit if we had the power in the dating world lel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:51 AM
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You're just not interacting with enough older women if you can only find those qualities in people who are barely out of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:49 AM
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Not sure if I said if it's immoral, I think it's more inexpedient and gross. I struggle to imagination a scenario where the older guy isn't taking advantage of the younger woman, at best it's just a sugar baby relationship which I think is vain and pathetic but ig there's nothing "wrong" with that if both parties want it. Like, just fuck women your own age who you actually have things in common with you. There's a lot of attractive women who aren't still children mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:47 AM
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Why not. I've been with women who had unreasonably high standards and I have low standards for women myself. I'm sure there's a lot of women who have low standards for a guy and managed to meet a guy who had high standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:43 AM
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Our biology tells us to do a lot of dumb and weird shit. Our biology tells us that we should distrust and dislike people of other races who look different than us. Thankfully we have a conscious and can use our brains to control or manage our urges and instincts and not do everything our biology tells us like were fuckin monkeys with no higher thought. Humans are inherently corrupt and imperfect, just because our biology says something doesnt mean it's right or moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:34 AM
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Your scenario implies that the reason the relationship didnt work is because she was 25 or something, that doesnt make sense to me. If your only successful relationships are with very young women then that's a tell-tale sign you're taking advantage of her in a way you couldn't with women who are more mature and experienced. That's my issue with it, older men who date very young women are usually doing it for less than pure reasons, intentionally or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:28 AM
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Online dating is a fucking terrible way to meet women. It's designed to devalue everything except how you look. Your title is extremely ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:23 AM
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I think men know OLD doesnt work for them and it only serves to crush their self esteem, but talking to women IRL is a lot harder than swiping so its easier to just rant about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:22 AM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:19 AM
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I dont disagree with anything you wrote. Not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:18 AM
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Im not gonna tell another man what age range he "should" date, but I think the proper and righteous thing to do is to date another woman near his age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:17 AM
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I would toss her, mainly because thats something you should be open with during the first date. I caught feelings for a girl early during the dating phase and learned she was getting piped out by another guy the whole time and it left a pretty bad taste in my mouth. If you're gonna sleep with other people while we're still in the limbo "seeing each other" phase then thats one thing but to not disclose it is pretty nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:11 AM
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i agree girth matters more to women but like i said, i know personally there's a non-insignificant amount of women who legit wont give a guy with a very short length a chance. Its a mental/visual thing, because they can still be a good fuck but it doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:40 AM
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David didn't beat Goliath by trying to fight him fist-to-fist 🤷 If you're not tall you have to neutralize it by getting women to overlook your height by becoming attractive in other areas. Men who act like their height is a death sentence are just putting themselves in that prison. You have to be built like Wee-Man to actually have a good reason to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:30 AM
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Yea thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:21 AM
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That's definitely true but I think that size is when you will start to encounter women who will turn a guy down regardless of how well he tries to use it. Men who think a girl is gonna leave them cuz they have 5 inches are overreacting, but smaller than that is when there's a non-insignificant amount of women who will legit never give them a chance, even if they use it well. Its just too much of a turn off to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:20 AM
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Yea its just a way for guys to stop themselves from falling in love with a hoe by assuming all women are sluts, when really they could just use their thinking skills to deduce whether she is one or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:00 AM
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5 inches isnt "dead to me" territory for women quite yet. Try 3 or 4, thats when youre probably getting ghosted after sex. If 5 isnt gettin the job done then they just need a better stroke game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:57 AM
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Yea i dont get the point of the post lol. Rejecting OF girls "doesn't count" for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:55 AM
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AWALT is a myth for people who are mentally lazy and want life to be easier by lumping everyone into a large group instead of seeing them as individuals. It's the gendered version of white people saying all black people look the same. There's a difference between trends in specific instances and straight up saying AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:48 AM
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Probably because you're focused on it so you see it more. Also the fact that many women will prefer a "bad boy" who's a dick than someone who's "nice" but also seems like they don't have a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:38 AM
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lol right. sometimes I think myself retarded and end up with daydreams where I think "what if im in a coma or something and my life is just taking place in my head" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:24 AM
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Why'd you take such a long break?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:07 AM
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you ever wake up from a dream in a dream 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:31 AM
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yea its like how the red pill went from being a specific and defined philosophy to "exercise is red pilled" "having a good paying job is red pilled" :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:11 AM
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the fact you ppl simps when nothing i said had anything to do with protecting or worshiping women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:09 AM
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this just seems like an "are you a good and hard working person" test lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:02 AM
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cuz you act goofy asl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:01 AM
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yall dont have the standing to be callin ppl simps like shut the fuck up lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:50 AM
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And men call women bitch and slut out the blue. Im sure if I went to the comments you were called an incel that you were being belligerent and obnoxious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:25 AM
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oh boy if its a grown man writing this then he better be prepared to never meet that virgin he wants lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:23 AM
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Grown ass men addicted to pornography aren't getting taken advantage of, stop victimizing them. They need to turn off the computer, stop being pathetic and discipline themselves. Since when did men become so helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:21 AM
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I was as certain as you. "Im gonna stick by this principle until I die" and all that goofy shit. As long as you're attractive enough to receive attention from women then you'll grow out of it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:15 AM
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If you keep getting called an incel often enough to complain about it then you're probably acting like an asshole and dont deserve an actual proper retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:12 AM
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Its the lonely men that create the onlyfans sluts brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:10 AM
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thats fuckin soul crushing lmao. Why even be in such a relationship at that point, just break up with them if you dont have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:07 AM
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Yea. Most guys who emphasize virginity in 2022 aren't likely to also be someone a woman would want to be in a relationship with, let alone get married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:05 AM
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James... get some help
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:04 AM
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I thought like this when i was a teen too. You'll find a reason to say fuck it eventually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 03:03 AM
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cuz thats the image that came to my mind when i read that so i said it 🤷 Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:31 AM
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Sucking the dick of someone theyre attracted to is normal for them not a strangers. Hell i know girls who'd be more comfortable fucking a guy before sucking his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:16 AM
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I love how authoritative the person writing that wiki is when when they probably looks like honey boo-boos dad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:13 AM
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explain how I think youre underestimating the number of women that find a large majority of men grossly unnatractive. Just because theyre straight doesnt mean anything. Im not gonna fuck a fat ugly bitch with a pussy that smells like peopeyes for anything less than 5 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:09 AM
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Yea and most women arent attracted to the average man so it still works 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:58 AM
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How much money would it take for you to suck a random person's dick? Many women will have a similar answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:42 AM
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Alright fam i can already tell youre one of those ppl who like to argue to just argue. Have a good day ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:41 AM
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That's not the only example I can give though so the fact you're focusing on that part is silly and just diverting the conversation. It's just an anecdote to follow the main point, not the main point itself. The main point is that once we become aware of biases that sort of "meta knowledge" means we can lessen how strongly it affects our thinking. This is written about by professors like David Buss and Robert Sapolsky in "Behave".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:34 AM
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Don't you reflect tho and think of how vain that thinking is? You can easily say the guy who chose an ugly wife isn't afraid of how others think of him and is more of an independent thinker. As long as he think shes beautiful who cares. But that sounds stupid too because factoring how a mans wife looks gives me no valuable information or insight about his decision making, I can't find a way to rationalize it without it just sounding like you'd be looking for reasons to justify an unfair bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:30 AM
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There's studies that directly contradict this. Such is science and why most studies cant be repeated. Either way thats not really my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:28 AM
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Converse are classics. My red high tops with black jeans and a white tee are probably the outfit I feel the nicest in. Basic af but it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:26 AM
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What if he just loved her character and they had the same interests? Why is not caring about a girls looks suspect but not caring about her morals or personality acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:18 AM
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Wrong because once you become aware of it then the bias lessens its grip on you. Like evolutionarily I'm supposed to be attracted to my own race more than others but once i learned of that fact it doesn't play a much of a factor, if at all anymore. Ultimately, we have the ability of top-down motor control that no other animal has, which allows us to suppress cognitive biases, and people who act like we dont have that control and submit to your lizard brain are either mentally lazy or looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:18 AM
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the funniest part is that a lot of them werent pulling like that until AFTER they get the clout and money from their podcast or channel or whatever. Its like those self help authors who have the "secrets" to make millions but didn't make millions until a bunch of ppl bought their BS books lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:35 PM
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It doesnt even have to be in other latin countries. I used to live in a majority mexican neighborhood and my height was practically never acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:25 PM
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Youre mindset is making your more unattractive than your height, I'm 5'6" and like the other guy said, my experience says women only care that youre taller than them, not that you're 6ft. Just own it instead of whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:22 PM
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The grifting is so bad. Dante Nero is the only "manosphere" figure I semi-listen to. Everyone else selling $50 courses and MLM schemes to young men is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:15 PM
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A lot of the posts here are ppl taking isolated instances from their life and stating them as if they're widespread phenomenons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:13 PM
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why not just be clear and both verbalise the communication? Because theyre women not men. Go fuck a guy if you want women to act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:06 PM
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Thats the vibe i get to. Theyre not thinking of their own daughters or nieces. I dont have a daughter but im old enough to have young nieces and just imagining them as teenagers dating middle aged men makes me throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:58 PM
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The harsh truth is humans are not meant for long term monogamy This is something that's still heavily disputed in evolutionary psychology, and there's some evidence that says not true for women but its true for men. there's not clear enough evidence one way or another to state something that absolute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:04 AM
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Half the posts are already that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:51 AM
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yeah if u get ghosted after sex you either fuck like a manatee or had a small dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:49 AM
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because they're projecting and assume i have the same end goals as them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:09 AM
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oh god the friends who try to peek their head in is the most annoying shit. my ex had friends who would talk shit about me without us even having any extended interactions. you made the right choice cuz a girl who really likes you is gonna choose you over her friends if it came down to it and yea when you have a backbone and nip things in the bud quick they arent gonna leave without a fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:03 AM
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it was a pretty ballin McD's, maybe cuz it was in a higher class neighborhood but the downside is you get old white women yelling at you for not wiping their ass with each order lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:55 AM
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i worked at mcdonalds as a teen and would sneak into the freezer downstairs and jack boxes of spicy mcchicken after my shift was over lmao oh and their chocolate chip cookies, holy shit those were good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:47 AM
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what'd she do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:46 AM
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lmao everyone has a different definition of what the "true" red pill is and its just basic life wisdom. Self-improvement is red pilled. Taking out the trash is red pilled. Leaving your dog's shit on the grass is red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:31 AM
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Its for sure a dude haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:30 AM
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Its that you're so obviously projecting that I'm not gonna take any argument you put forth serious. Genuinely not even trying to diss you or do typical "YoUrE aN IncEl" rhetoric, but dont come up pretending with the "its clear you dudes dont get much", or tell me I have a scarcity mindset when nothing Ive said express scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:33 AM
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can already tell youre projecting off rip
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:00 AM
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No, you've misinterpreted what I said. Why would I ever want someone I love to fear being replaced, it's about making her aware that I'm not gonna stick around if you she's not treating me as well as I expect a girlfriend to treat me. Many men can't afford to do this unless they're willing to risk losing her because she's used to him being a doormat or browbeat, as you said. There should always be a sense of fear with getting to comfortable in a relationship. I should fear as a man that my girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:31 AM
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youre assuming shes not the one thats moving on for some new dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:07 AM
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Because they put up pics with a paper and handwritten note. If you ever went on 4chan youd know what im talking abt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:06 AM
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lol what? what a reddit ass reply. use google mf, literally "bible verses harlotry/promiscuity/whoredom". Go find the dozen of posts on here that have studies saying high-n count correlates with impulsive behavior. Im not askin you to do shit for me, if you're acting in good faith and not talking just to talk then you'd be eager to seek the knowledge for yourself since it's easily accessible. You for real could've found what you were looking for in the between the time you replied to this commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:05 AM
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its not hard to tell if someone really enjoys fucking your or not regardless of experience but i get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:59 AM
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lol right hes already pulling out the "but thats what she wants to do" without even meeting her. his mindset is already unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:56 AM
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last questions answers it youre prob the hottest guy shes talked to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:55 AM
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This might be my least favorite PPD It's just so blatantly false and incorrect from what I've learned firsthand. Even Dante Nero (Patrice O Neal's friend and probably the only legit and credible chad in the manosphere) has women on his show to illuminate men about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:54 AM
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This is def false. I used to go on 4chan and there was literally no lifers who were fuckin supermodels. Internet is accessible to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:46 AM
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read what the bible says about harlots and whoredom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:31 AM
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The idea that high-n women are more impulsive is literally a thing that dates back to ancient religious texts lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:23 AM
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Someone could want a low n count because they tend to be less impulsive and better fit a less "exciting" lifestyle than a high n typically would. Trends exist within people who sleep around a lot and those who dont. Acting like they dont exist is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:20 AM
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The reverse would probably be chicks at work who think theyre hot shit but are 4's or 5's everywhere else lol. i think its called "office hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:16 AM
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Most dudes in their circle probably dont get any play so of course if they fuck a dozen ugly fat girls they're gonna feel like king trash picker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:13 AM
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Im in my early 20's im not having trouble get with women in my age range lol. I can fuck an 18 yo and not feel guilty, but if you're 30 or older you're a fuckin weirdo. ​ You're insistent on finding why i might be jealous or envious instead of just accepting not everyone thinks old dudes fucking little girls is cool. Its really a really cringe and goofy argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:10 AM
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Seems like it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:07 AM
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it is dope that he tooks days off work tho, my favorite relationships are the one where you recklessly (perhaps stupidly lol) push aside responsibilities to get lost in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:05 AM
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There's guys who prefer high n count women because theyre more experienced. Thats not shaming or devaluing low n count women, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:04 AM
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Youre not reading in between the lines, you're inserting falsehoods, which is why you didnt answer my initial question that refutes your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:02 AM
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Eh from what i could tell it was just less distributed. More virgins and more guys who fucked a lot, less in between. Not sure if the data follows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:59 AM
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There's guys who prefer high n count women because theyre more experienced. Thats not shaming low n count women, is it? Youre trying to force a narrative here when there isnt one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:57 AM
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Who said anything about marrying them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:50 AM
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I was extremely shy and quiet and was able to get close to that in high school just because I was good looking and charming. Late millennial/Gen Z is a different game bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:46 AM
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Lol more like I dont care if a girl has had a meat stick inside her before. I take more pride in being the best she's had than the first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:44 AM
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ehhh... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:41 AM
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Thats sad, IIRC there's even a love poem in the Bible that has a bunch sexual euphemisms in it that's celebrating the act. I was raised a JW and it takes a lot to loosen that guilt or repulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:41 AM
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Newsflash bro every woman you come across has been fucked before
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:39 AM
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lol it was a joke relax. ive had those all day fuck sessions too im just sayin that my dick gets sore after about the 3rd time, anymore and its legit painful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:33 AM
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Im not a woman tf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 AM
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It says they have good pussy 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:30 AM
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Not at all. Virgin girls typically have different values and personalities than girls who sleep around a lot. If a man cares about those differences then its just a preference not misogynistic. This isnt world changing information.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:28 AM
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breaking news here everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:23 AM
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It's not unless your reasons are misogynistic in principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:21 AM
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The way your sentence was written I thought were implying her catholic guilt or whatever was just an excuse for him being bad at bed. my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:16 AM
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"If women can do it so can we" is such a goofy mindset lol. I'm good with making independent decisions for my life, I dont need to point toward the actions of a woman to justify it. Like if you wanna fuck teenagers go ahead but at least own that shit like a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:07 AM
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The day a woman walks to me with a proof of ethernal love I can't refute This doesn't exist. No one has ever gotten married 100% sure the other will love them forever. That's the risk of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:03 AM
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Not all religious ppl believe in premartial sex. You can make a legit case the Bible doesn't prohibit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:01 AM
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Your bf sounds like a nerd tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:56 AM
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There's no reason a woman can't maintain here attractiveness at 31. Late 30's is a different story and when the "wall" is potentially relevant. I'm picking the younger one regardless because she's closer to my age. If I was in my 30's I'd pick the older one assuming she's similarly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:52 AM
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Because how well a girl treats you is dependent on how much you're willing to drop her if you're unsatisfied not how well you treat her. Many women treat their BF's like shit but the guy is too afraid to leave the relationship because she's his only source of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:40 AM
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Is he just ass at sex? I dont get this, if he was someone worth marrying in the first place he'd work at getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:37 AM
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If they're not attractive then yes. If they are then no. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:28 AM
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God yall are weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:26 AM
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The average american spend 7.5 hours looking at a screen. Most of the time it's spent alone. Ppl literally have SIGNIFICANTLY less time to meet each other and form relationships. Most people don't do online dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:24 AM
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Intimacy is better when your time together is limited though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:22 AM
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nahhh he definitely injects hgh in is his dick or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:21 AM
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In 2022 the difference between a low quality woman and a high quality woman aint much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:19 AM
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I was raised a JW and i notice this a lot with ex JW's. The religion controls them still because their lives revolve around being an "ex-JW" and their actions are preceded with "how does this go against the religion?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:18 AM
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Doesnt mean theres gender wars it just means people dont go outside anymore lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:14 AM
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I think gay sex is wrong actually
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:12 AM
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There's no gender wars IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:50 AM
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wait until you guys find out the earth is hollow and its being guarded by ice giants
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:48 AM
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Different crowds i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:41 AM
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Alright bro have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:40 AM
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What are you talking about? 1) You can get a girl without giving her everything she wants. 2) Men can get everything they want to, we just have to work harder for it. Call it unfair, but there's a lot of benefits we get for being men that women don't get. I don't bleed every month, I don't need to experience the pains of child birth. I don't need to be the weaker vessel. I rather be a man than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:31 AM
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It's odd to place more responsibility on the kid and not the middle aged adult in such a scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:24 AM
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Why do you keep focusing on jail? I've never once said people who date teens should get sent to prison, nor did I say that jail would accomplish anything. My whole thing is that it's weird and gross as fuck, not that it's illegal. If my hypothetical son brought home a 45 year old women I'd think she's weird and creepy and wonder why a 17 year old is her best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:05 AM
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If your solution is for me to masturbate eternally or deny women from my life then just say you're sped. The real solution is to stop complaining about women and level up. As long as you're one of the highest value males showing her interest then you can afford to play your own game instead of theirs. If not, then yea it's celibacy or simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:00 AM
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You realize that's ultimately the men's fault, right? They request all those things because men will give it to them bro. They don't desire the world from men while they just have to look hot and have a pussy because that's the way they are, but because there's endless amounts of men who will give them the world even if she has nothing else to offer. They're not picky and unfairly demanding just because woman bad, but because men acquiesce to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:02 PM
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Huh. What's the main marker tho? what are the things you find out as you wait that eventually makes you feel more comfortable for the next step? Kissing, sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:59 PM
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Women can't love as deeply as men can. What's the reasoning behind this? I've experienced firsthand a girl obsessed with me because of my humor, charisma, values, interests, etc. I was broke, wasn't really near the top of the social hierarchy, none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:56 PM
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Do YOU wait for other acts, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:53 PM
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That's because women can afford to be picky. If those guys in that study were millionaires athletes, all the sudden they'd rate a lot more women as unattractive or average too when they're surround by 10/10 IG models. The only difference is that women were born with something valuable to the other sex, men have to go obtain it (and that doesnt just mean money or status, character, virtue, charimsa, etc. are all things most men have to obtain and develop).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:37 PM
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I see. Would you say you give sex a special type of treatment from say, holding hands or making out in that sense, then? In that there's no "waiting" for those acts but there is for sex? Because if that's the case, what boxes are you checking in your mind until you feel you're ready? What makes you comfortable and ready for other romantic acts but not sex? Is it just the intensity of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:23 PM
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So whats your solution though? No age of consent? It's always gonna be an arbitrary rule because there's always gonna be scenarios where a 16 yo can be more mature than a 20yo women, but society is better when there is a line drawn in the sand somewhere. Do you really want grown ass men pursuing 14 year old girls because some appear physically mature?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:14 PM
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That's fair, many women are encouraged to pretty much do nothing substantial because there's always gonna be high value man who will pick them up and elevate them regardless, just because they have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:04 PM
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You're describing yourself. You're the minority in this case. There's women just like you, who don't care about money, but you know they're a minority too which is why we dismiss them. I'm talking about the large number of guys who are pursuing vanity merely because they want a hot girl to fuck whenever they want, not because they're hopeless romantics yearning for a Shakespearean love. Seems like you're underestimating how many are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:02 PM
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Lol i dont mean it like its a chore, more like why are we delaying something that we can easily do now? I agree attraction can grow without it but I think it can grow faster with it. I don't get this idea that something as intimate as sex can hinder or corrupt your ability to build an authentic emotional and romantic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:55 PM
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Eh you're interacting with different accounts than I am. I can tell the regular ppl from the golums you're speaking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:54 PM
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I think the difference is men who specifically fetishize and seek out mid to late teen girls, not just men who find them attractive, along with any other women who they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:47 PM
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It entirely depends on how much people think you're scum. Like if it's 50% then I can live with that lol. Anymore and the money kinda becomes pointless if most people don't want to interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:50 PM
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Eh you kinda overexaggerated what I was saying. It's not some "dark cloud" lol more like I rather it be something we get out the way if we're both attracted to each other. And I recognize its a "me problem", most things are when it comes to dating once it breaks it down, thats why you date other people who have the same "me problems" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:48 PM
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So you're likely to get attached in a way that clouds your judgement of him after sex? That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:44 PM
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What? I dont think older men should be fucking 16 year olds, but I recognize that legally there's no real reason the age of consent is specifically 18. Like there's other western nations where 16yo can hook up with older men, legally. Whats even your position? You think the age of consent should be lowered? Im not sure what youre arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:25 PM
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I think men have a hard time understanding that direct communication isn't the objective "best" way to communicate for humans. There isn't one. Like in our minds, we just go "wouldn't it be easier for everyone if women were direct and verbal?", because some men truly can't grasp that from the women's perspective there's actual reasons and advantages for communicating they way you guys do. I agree that it's a struggle or qualm for many men because they likely don't really interact with women outs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:10 PM
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I don't really care if women are making more videos or whatever, the internet hardly ever represents reality. Women don't care about fancy cars or big houses in of themselves either, they're just status signals that he's a provider. If Leonardo DicAprio lived in a one bedroom apartment and drove a Kia Ultima, he'd still be fuckin supermodels. Guys care about it because girls care about it, yes, but that's almost an even worse excuse than the reasons women care about money. Like I said, both gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:54 PM
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Its better for both of us if the conversation ends here, have a good day :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:43 PM
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Because its an anonymous forum and you're not encouraged or discouraged to be for/against certain narratives or ideas as much as bigger subs or IRL. I think women are much more likely to be honest here, whether their opinions or views are true or represent reality is a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:41 PM
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What's the line between basic male biology and ephebophilia? I have been attracted to girls who were 18 too. Some men seem oddly obsessed with teenage women. Maybe I'm the one that's weird then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:52 PM
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Of course its arbitrary, but the line has to be put somewhere. Send it to 16 and youll have guys wondering why they can fuck 15 year olds. Thats kinda my point. Men who are so eager to date teens seem like they just have a fetish for very young women, and its more than just a natural biological urge to have sex with youthful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:49 PM
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...that's what you got out of that? Alright you're just pulling my dick at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:43 PM
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I think both of those age gaps are weird. I dont really care which is grosser, dating people who essentially grew up in different worlds that you did is weird and makes me assume their lives outside of using each other for sex or money are dull and lifeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:41 PM
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These virgin chasers are like if zookeeper steve irwin was traveling across the world looking for a animal that doesnt exist :P The idea of some chaste virgin girl who's also smoking hot and is gonna fuck him within a month of meeting him is a male ego fantasy that doesn't exist, it's bigfoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:35 PM
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It's in their nature to communicate indirectly. Anyone who's had extended interaction with women knows this. I have no idea why you guys keep expecting, or even desire women to let their balls hang and express all their emotions the same way men do, we aren't the same. If you establish a certain type of trust and comfort with a woman you'll find they communicate as open as you are describing. "Reading the room" and awareness of her body language aren't esoteric ideas, there's just a lot of men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:32 PM
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care more about money than men Eh, more like they care about for different reasons. There's just as much vain men who care just as much about money and reaching the top of the social hierarchy as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:26 PM
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I think it's weird to expect or desire a woman to pay your bills as a man. And there's hella broke girls with goals, I would know cuz I used to be broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:15 PM
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Guys who say this are usually just shit at empathizing with people, reading situations, or avoid confrontative communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:12 PM
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I want this to be truer than it is. I think women are far more likely to entertain a man who isn't a "6 figure provider" type nowadays for sure, but even in my personal experience, after the initial love high starts to relax they start peeking at other options. Honor and virtue start to mean a lot less when she starts wondering what it'd be like being with a guy who regularly spends money on her. Even if she's the type of woman who really valued those things early on. There's still a genetic dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:03 PM
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modern men are like Steve Irwin if he was looking for bigfoot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:54 PM
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you go first :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:30 AM
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I dont not see more DILFS than MILFS bro. i mean both genders in general age like shit in the US cuz we dont take care of ourselves but even then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:30 AM
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Exact same reasons for me. Everyone in my social circles, both male and female, seem to be like 90% doggy style or reverse cowgirl but that eye contact and intimacy in missionary or regular cowgirl is unbeatable👌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:23 AM
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Thats why this literally is the only dating/relationship/sex sub that I use, since everyone is welcome, no one is really trying too hard to act out a TRP/FDS/TwoX persona and its just honest opinions (for the most part). Even if a lot of the perspective here is dumb af its better than scrolling past the same echo chamber outrage bait every day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:59 AM
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yea I hate to admit but I used to be pretty ignorant about women's experiences and as I've made a lot more female friends I couldn't believe how prevalent and common it was for them to get sexually harassed or assaulted. Like I thought I was more aware than most men when it came to that stuff and I still kinda got caught off guard how much they dealt with, and how it clearly still stuck with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:52 AM
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oh yea i never got that with reddit. its insane to me the visceral hate and seethe ppl get for someone they never met, adoring a celebrity sure, but actively sending unbridled hatred? weird af
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:41 AM
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her ass looks like a goomba head lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:40 AM
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ass looks like a waterbed, waaaay too much. my dick would get lost at sea lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:37 AM
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👏👏 I dont use the clapping emoji but felt compelled to lol. A lot of my girl friends disagree with me on that but I always could tell the best way to keep that spark burning for the longest is to keep some level of independence in the relationship. The idea of completely intermingling and conjoining your lives seems good but in reality people end up losing what made them unique and you literally morph into the same person. Ppl dont realize when they slowly drop the hobbies, interests, and person…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:35 AM
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thats some real life patrick bateman shit lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:22 AM
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oh its pretty much a visual thing for ppl who are into that im sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:21 AM
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thats so gross. sorry that happened to you. It's sad to think how many "regular" people walk around and can just slip into behavior like this and then keep pushing like nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:20 AM
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You can def tell the regular people from the Golums for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:17 AM
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amazon is some shit where the guy is on his back in a chair and the girl is fuckin standing so it looks like the girl is penetrating the guy lol saw it in Mike and Dave Need Wedding Dates with Aubrey Plaza and Adam Devine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:14 AM
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my present reality is being shattered rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:12 AM
1

Missionary? Amazon? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:10 AM
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It is more fun that way i suppose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:07 AM
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am i wrong or is every girl's fav position doggystyle 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:05 AM
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alright bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:54 AM
1

I literally dont disagree at all. I dont believe in modern marriage and the idea never made sense to me. It's just an LTR with a ring and unnecessary expectations. Im just arguing the idea that ppl shouldnt ever feel obligated to make marriages work, when thats the whole point of gettin married, you vow to stay together and work extra hard to fix shit that most would call it quits over. Otherwise why are you gettin married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:52 AM
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bro thats and obviously fake story and the chick is just looking for a come up by going viral. Im not denying these girls tryna baby trap cuz obv thats a thing, but like the girl who said she baby trapped offset and was lying the whole time. This girl with Drake didnt fear incrimination herself cuz its an obviously fake story and nothing legal would come of it, and it not cuz shes female and would get away with it or whatever mens right ppl tryna say. Just look at how the manosphere latched onto…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:47 AM
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Im talkin about all a girl has to say is "lets fuck raw" and they're going raw. That type of manipulation. These celebrities aren't disciplined at all and half of the shit is on them being reckless and idiotic. Women gonna do what they do regardless. Whatever dumbass hot sauce condom thing that gossip site is talking about is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:38 AM
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This shit aint happening with these guys, lets get real. The truth is they are careless and don't give a fuck about going raw into a strange woman, and are clearly easily manipulated by a chick with a fat ass and tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:35 AM
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Men gotta be stronger, faster, smarter, funnier, richer, taller, more confident, and women just gotta have a vagina. And it's a fair fight cuz we're genetically driven to use all of our strengths and capabilities to attract pussy lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:32 AM
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That's the internet in general. I'm on Prince-levels of shy and reserved IRL until I warm up to you. But here I let my balls hang no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:28 AM
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He's pretty cringe. I liked JP back when he first came out in 2015 and think his first book is great, but he's a self-parody at this point. The fact he's touted as like the #1 conservative intellectual is kinda embarrassing. And yes I acknowledge the left don't have anyone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:26 AM
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I admittedly dip back in every few months then ghost again, so it might've been better a couple months ago. But yea I just noticed that the few posts that seem to have good discussion potential get like 30 comments and are nudged aside for another "why do women like assholes" post or something that ends up with 300
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:21 AM
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Is my stance hard to comprehend too? That's such a reductionist worldview. For example, I knew a friend who married his gf of 1 year right after he graduated. No shit that's a bad decision, but the vibe you're giving me is that when they get a divorce, your response would be "that's marriage, shit happens" when the obvious take to me is "why the fuck are you getting married at 19". Like yea, obviously I know why, it's because he made a bad decision to get married, but that's such a kindergarten …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:11 AM
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I think so many ppl are paranoid of online censorship and suppression these days that I don't really care enough to go there tbh. Like maybe? But I doubt it. I think it's just the natural fate of this sub, it's not like it's growing much bigger than it already is at this point, so after a while ppl just come for the inflammatory circlejerk-y stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:03 AM
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Then what are you even arguing with me for? What do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:00 AM
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I get that shit happens, you've made that clear lol. I'm not against ppl divorcing if the relationship is irreparable or unsavable. Though the type of "shit happens" excuses many marriages succumb to aren't necessarily do to strictly outside circumstances. It can usually be traced back to shit vetting, impatience, selfishness, unwillingness to change. AKA things entirely within the couples' control. Something that ignored or overlooked because in America a lot of people get married when they cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:56 AM
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Yea I think you're really misinterpreting my view. Or Im just just shit at explaining myself. Oh well, such is communicating via text :P. Don't you think shit happens is a bad excuse though when there are different time periods and different cultures (even to this day) that have tons of happy marriages with low divorce rates? The issue isn't marriage but the people getting married and the culture it takes place in, I still stand by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:43 AM
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I wasn't insinuating you were one but if you insist :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:39 AM
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This is a common scenario and I have two main thoughts on it. 1) I gotta be able genuinely believe her story, that she was just foolin around and eventually matured, instead of what I'd assume is the case, which is I'm just less attractive than the other guys, which is why she's not eager to jump on my bones, and I'll eventually get burnt once she's bored of me. I need to sense SOME empathy or understanding from her as to why a man would be made wary or even turned off by being promiscuous with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:31 AM
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I know but im saying that there's gotta be some weird psychology addiction or craving to young women that some of these celebrities have to specifically target them. Like true, most men would fuck a hot 18 year old girl no question, but to exclusively date them and seek them out? Nah, that's odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:09 AM
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Damn it's impressive how much you fucked up my whole life in one hypothetical. That's such a Book of Job ass scenario that I think the only reaction is just "tough shit". Like if all that happened in a regular LTR does it really change much? Lol. I think I'm not making myself clear. I don't think any relationship, nor marriage, should feel like an obligation, they should all be carried by the love you have for one another. What I'm saying is that: why is someone getting married if you can imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:06 AM
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Eh i think it's worse because the main reason I go on this sub is because it's one of the few spaces to have real, genuine, open discussions about sexual and intergender dynamics and shit. But the most popular posts are just cycles of the same few topics, and the discussions are just ppl being coaxing each other strawman arguments. Those can be fun and entertaining but happens too much imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:51 AM
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Ha. I think there are men like that actually, but realistically in our modern culture, any guy who's not insecure or lame just accepts that he's not gonna be his girl's 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th and however many more after that. So the next best thing is to just make sure you're her last, since you're not gonna be her first. But it takes a whole 'nother kind of man to go all the way in the other direction of the virgin-chasers and to make it his mission to dominate the gigasluts of the world lol. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:43 AM
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my issue is that anyone who dates a girl who is 18 gives the vibe of "if I was legally allowed to go lower I would". Just nasty af.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:37 AM
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Yea for sure, I understand that fully. If a woman is legit uncomfortable to have sex on the first few dates or whatever, then that's different. I was referring to the scenario where a girl is purposely staving things off because "if you really like me you'll wait". Feels a little game-y and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:31 AM
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I see what you're saying. I feel like it should common sense that ppl should only get married if they can take everything you mentioned into account, and after all that consideration and reflecting, if it's still an "i do", then at that point you deserve to feel an obligation to stay together, otherwise you're just an idiot for making such a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:29 AM
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Honestly "making him wait" isn't a good strategy for either person but as long as there's dudes stringing women along just to pump n dump them then its gonna keep fuckin it up for most other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:18 AM
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Probably cuz their game is weak as hell an the only way they can keep a woman is if she never gets to experience other dick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:14 AM
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And that's why we lose. Because at the end of the day there's too horny ass men who give women the pussy power y'all have :P
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:11 AM
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I just dont get why marriage has to be an obligation if both parties are willingly, voluntarily, and (hopefully) eager to enter into it. Like, are you not still choosing to go into marriage? Arranged marriages aren't a thing in the US, so where's the obligation coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:57 AM
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what other active subs do y'all follow that are similar/adjacent to this one. Only other one I know is RPW but I'ma dude so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:54 AM
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That's fair cuz that's one thing I stray away when it comes to TRP theory, I tend to be more inclined to believe what women, and people in general say about themselves until they give me strong reason to doubt otherwise. Because tbh if youre paying attention ppl are gonna reveal the truth eventually. Like a dude has to be head over heels to convince yourself a girl who's clearly had dick before is a virgin lol. And likewise he has to be very insecure to auto add numbers to her n-count despite he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:42 AM
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There is a bit of a two way street going on there. Yea there's men who worship it so women run with that, but there's also many women where their vagina is the only thing y'all got to offer, so naturally that will be the only thing men care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:36 AM
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It's also that we all pretty much know what we should or shouldn't be doing to improve our mental health, but we just don't do it because our environments are so conducive toward propagating monotonous and time wasting behavior. Like I know I would be happier if I used social media less but it's just too easy to sit down and scroll this dumb sub whenever Im bored lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:33 AM
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that's a lil too bulky. i think the ideal is the middle ground between both y'all pics. Slim but defined muscles, but still look skinny with a shirt on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:28 AM
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ong I know men in real life who are neck deep in the "manosphere" content and im like bruh you would fall in love with the next chick that showed you any romantic interest lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:21 AM
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The weirdest shit about reddit for me is that a post or comment I'm already taking far too seriously can very easily be written by a 14 year old trying to like an adult or some shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:20 AM
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Oh god I feel molested by the cringe. I typically am really playful, borderline immature/childish with my flirting, but guys totally misreading nonreciprocating shit like that makes me wince. It's like when I sued to see guys measure their hand up against a chick and subtly try to turn them on by pointing out how their hands bigger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:16 AM
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Expecting loyalty from a woman is pretty much a fool's errand before entering the relationship. She's not gonna have loyalty toward you, it's something that gets drawn out over the course of the relationship if she takes you serious and you're the right type of guy. Men's natural state is to be loyal but I feel woman have more of a veiled hesitancy until you prove to be a man worth sticking with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:11 AM
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I mean it's weird to a lot of people, both men and women, so I don't feel it should be a source of insecurity. There's even more depressing things about dating and relationships that are downright encouraged anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:06 AM
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Sub in general is dying, only so much conversations you can have. If you pay attnetion, you'll notice the only posts that really pop and gain major traction anymore (think 100+ comments) are just outrage bait, like someone misinterpreting a study to make a bold claim about women, or a woman saying women have it worse than men in dating or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:00 AM
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Can someone explain to me why people seem to be conjoining marriage with obligation, as if they're a package deal. Like I don't advocate for marriage but it seems to me the problem is the people getting married who end up letting the relationship lose its warmth and let it get to that point where things feel obligatory, not the fact that they just took their LTR and added some paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:48 AM
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Fuckin everyone I know considers themselves as chronically depressed, lonely, anxious, etc. Like when was the last time you heard someone say "yea i don't really get depressed often, i like my life" lol. So much of modern western society is cold, transactional, and fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:43 AM
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Emotional connections matter a lot less when you factor in the genetic drives women and men have to value vain things in relationships. Women I felt I had soul-touching connections with, that went deeper than money, have left because I used to be broke. And of course there's men who leave or cheat on the love of their lives because he got seduced by a girl that was hotter than anyone else he ated. It is what it is. When you crack relationships open to see the gears and parts, it is a lot more ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:38 AM
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I don't ever plan on getting married myself but I think the value in marriage would not that you'd be bound together legally (that's kinda a new thing that became important), but that you almost had a duty, or responsibility, to make things work and stick together. That you can;t just get up and leave and break-up like it's nothing whenever a bump in the road comes up. But that's been so destroyed by divorce rates that it doesn't matter at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:31 AM
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Literally everything meaningful about marriage can be done in any serious LTR, nowadays it just serves a purpose for people to pretend they're more tied and connected, but marriage unions have been so desecrated in the past couple generations that it doesn't really matter at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:29 AM
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If a girl really likes you then that feminist shit is gonna drop quick I'm telling u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:25 AM
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Oh for sure, I mean everyone involved in casual sex is pretty much objectifying the other to an extent, I just think it's interesting how each gender seems to have their own MO when it comes to the different types of relationship structures. I think men are worse when it comes to casual in that they are more likely to treat the girl like shit in casual than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:23 AM
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I said that the man, broadly speaking, needs to be willing to pay the full price for getting a brand new doll of a girl, and he needs to pay it before getting the asset. Why do women act like their pussies are the ark of the covenant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:18 AM
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It seems men tends to objectify women by reducing them to their bodies for casual relationships and women tend to objectify men by reducing them to their financial potential (ATM's) for LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:14 AM
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I dont get why this is so hard to understand. Its not that we refuse to wait for sex under all circumstances. It's that there's an inherent repulsion to the idea of me waiting for you to be ready when there were 4, 5, 6 or however many other guys who you were ready for off the jump. There are some men who are the hypocritical type OP is talking about, but those are a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
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I swear half the posts on this sub just sound like homeless person ramblings. Why are people so insistent on declaring these made up rules and pseudo-principles about "what women like" and "what men want"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:06 AM
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My brother in Christ I can assure you that's not happening. There's enough well off men in their 20's that they don't need to. You guys talk about young women like they're batman or some shit, "student by day, sugar baby by night" lmao. Lotta RP dudes take outliers and act like they're widespread phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:25 AM
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But the fact your example has to be that extreme is what kinda ruins your argument. Most people more or less like the same things in bed, and aren't as unique as they might think. Like yea a girl can like having her clit rubbed a different way than the next, but the core principles of dominance, passion, variety, etc. is pretty universal, at least for me. Everyone usually has at least one specific kink or fetish but its not like porn where thats the only thing that can get them off. Like I knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:58 AM
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Makes sense. One thing I picked up is that owning your shit can often matter more than what your shit actually is. That carrying yourself in an attractive way can make whatever it is you're carrying appear way more attractive compared to someone who's trying to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:50 AM
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anything specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:44 AM
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But what I've come to figure out is that women want someone capable, fun, and who makes her feel special. Idk what pill that is. LOL exactly. I feel like the pill stuff tends to over complicate things so it can look like it has more depth than it really does. So many questions men have when it comes to dating and relationships can be answered with one or more of: authenticity, assertiveness, and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:04 AM
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bro you dont have the experience because youre not going after it tf lol.What youre avoiding will give you those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:48 PM
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because its like youre just the one she ran out of steam on, not really the one she chose. like the slut bus dropped her off and you just happened to be the dude at the bustop bench😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:37 PM
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im ngl i barely read posts on this site i just read the first couple sentences and go straight to the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:34 PM
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Guys who think like this never get laid bro it's counter productive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:33 PM
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I mean yea at 35 its time to get out the club and go raise your step kids or sum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:32 PM
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99% of these dudes who talk about pump and dumping would shit stockings if a woman actually showed them serious romantic attraction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:07 PM
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we meet again lookin ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:04 PM
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brah i said you made an incel statement because you did. if thats a common thing with you then its not cuz this sub throws out a lot of ad hominem but because you say a lot of incel ass things then lol. At least take pride in it and hold your ground if thats the case. and please dont act like you were making these astute logically sound arguments 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:59 PM
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No one asked, I made declaration
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:49 PM
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I get why you see it like that. I'm a heavy introvert, honestly to a fault when it comes to relationships, so I've never felt much desire to intermingle much with a partner. I get many women don't want that but I don't think it should be considered half assed and uncommitted though, I think you can maintain a high level of independence and still be as loving, caring, and as supportive as any other couple, it just takes the right type of girl tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:46 PM
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You right, Ill take the L on this one :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:42 PM
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That sucks. I'm in my early 20's and noticed with my generation how much harder many of the women work and how lazy a lot of the guys are. Especially in the poorer neighborhoods I lived in, it's kinda crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:41 PM
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dorky as hell bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:30 PM
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Because I think it's actually rape. If I shit on your car I dont get to say youre emotionally damaging me once you tell people i shit on your car. Swear you just be sayin some goofy shit just to say it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:28 PM
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People who drink and drive know they're gonna get behind a wheel when theyre done so theyre still responsible. Otherwise the would've scheduled a ride. Why the fuck do you keep ignoring the fact there's another lucid person involved in the situation fucking said drunk woman? Do you genuinely not find it unnerving for a sober person to fuck someone who is wasted? Like if you're both drunk then fine, but the former is weird as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:25 PM
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Yes it is you're financially hurting whoever owns what you're stealing. You could also be emotionally damaging them depending on what it is. Stealing a car can fuck up someone's life. ​ I swear the more you reply the less your argument holds up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:21 PM
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I think they should be charged for putting themselves in a situation where they can easily harm others due to their intoxication. How is she harming the sober dude thats fuckin her? Terrible analogy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:18 PM
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Either way, if you're in a committed relationship and getting wasted with other men that aren't your partner, and then hanging out with them in a room while your partner is absent, that's irresponsible enough to be bordering on emotional cheating imo, and certainly is if you actually end up engaging in sex. I didn't think this would be contested. Like drinking with platonic friends is one thing but to hang out with them after in a private space without your partner there is a lil inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:16 PM
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A drunk girl practically reverts back to being a child mentally, so I just cant understand how she can meaningfully consent in such a state. Like a buzz, sure, but Im assuming she's wasted in this scenario. Is it not obvious to you that the dude is taking advantage of her, in one degree or another?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:11 PM
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Lol no, how did you get that out of it. A girl getting drunk with a guy in a room in an intimate setting is different than getting drunk out in public, being that the former is extremely irresponsible and uncaring and will obviously lead to something sexual, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:08 PM
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Yes, but the cheating is the fact that she's responsible for putting herself in a situation where she got drunk around a guy in an intimate situation. I wouldn't consider the sex itself act cheating per se because that situation is being driven and/or controlled by the person who is sober and lucid, which is the guy who's sleeping with an intoxicated woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:03 PM
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He doesnt teach guys anything lol how many people watch his videos and actually go out and pull chicks after. It's crazy how these coaches are all about self improvement and almost none of their fanbase is actually improving, its still just a bunch of virgins and awkward ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:59 PM
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im speaking generally not really accusing you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:58 PM
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We know that the courts are biased toward women. Im not refuting that, shits fucked up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:57 PM
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Defining rape as just forced sex is the most incel shit ive read in a while and i dont even use that word lol. It sounds like your sole view of rape is a girl getting pulled into an alley way, held down and penetrated. Its odd to me how comfortable you are with the idea of a guy wanting to fuck someone who's clearly intoxicated. At worst its rape, at best he's weird as hell and should not be trusted by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:55 PM
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I respect the hell out of that tbh. Why do you struggle as badly as you do? Obviously I have no idea what you look like but in my experience women care more about how you own your shit than what your shit actually is. Like im a pretty quiet, reserved, and introverted person which is the opposite of the stereotypical boisterous, extroverted dude ppl think you need to be, but once I stopped trying to be that person and just owned who I already was and took pride in it instead of letting things fes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:43 PM
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Yea its literally just their purgatory where they can not feel like shit by acting like they're improving themselves without doing the actual work. When I used to browse the red pill subs it was hilarious seeing people go on and on about how alpha they became after discovering TRP and im just thinking "ok, but are you actually attracting any women yet cuz thats the whole point" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:26 PM
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Yes. Why do you guys always assume that if you reverse it then it wouldn't be the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:23 PM
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Issue with this is that the men who get around arent getting thrown away
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:22 PM
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Im sorry but if i was a woman and read this comment my pussy would dry up so damn fast. Part of the reason men are so lonely is because when you guys talk about romance and companionship it sounds like a damsel in distress lol. Women can sense that type of energy and its very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:17 PM
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my b
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:11 PM
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The "why would you even want that anyway" sums it up for me. Ppl can argue over whether it's legally rape or not but regardless I think any guy who would fuck a visibly drunk woman while he's sober is a piece of shit. Like do you really need to smash that bad? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:09 PM
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fucking a girl when she's drunk and you're sober is a lil too rapey bro. Like you gotta be really desperate to feel comfortable doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:03 PM
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that never made sense to me because how tf is a dick like a key and a vagina like a lock lmao. like i get the point but the analogy was always dumb as hell to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:00 PM
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Can already tell you're some fat dude typing from his mom's closet or some shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:45 PM
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No shit i dont get how red pill dudes talk about being alphas and stoic and then shit tears out their ass cuz no one cares about the problems in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:39 PM
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Thats literally been a thing for millennia but for some reason only modern men throw pity parties over it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:25 PM
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Leo every time y'all talk about his gf's ages
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:16 PM
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Im 20 and i fuckin hope im not gonna be out here tryna bang women my age 20 years from now 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:10 PM
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lol they wouldnt need to follow them anymore if that were the case
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:07 PM
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im talkin about how he's now your ex :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:29 PM
1

fuck bitches get money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:27 PM
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ah i see what youre saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:26 PM
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I think cuz its like a form of mental masturbation honestly. Deep down, they really care more about "feeling" like they're picking up on game when in reality they're just the same person they always were. Truth is, the only real way to get better with women is to get out there yourself, interact with them, and take your lumps. But it's nerve wracking and embarrassing when you dont have experience so its easier to just sit on your phone and feel like you're improving each time you watch a new vid…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:13 PM
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What they gotta be like suave or smthn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:02 PM
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lmfaoooo based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:54 PM
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whats the reasoning being ghosting them, its just hella awkward to tell them the real reason you're moving on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:51 PM
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are you askin why they keep watching the content but never really act on the information/knowledge they're being fed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:48 PM
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damn what do you do when youre getting ready to do it and it ends up being too small. i feel bad for women cuz yall dont get to find out what someone's packing until you're staring down the barrel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:40 PM
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yall be taking these sayings way too seriously sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:35 PM
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yea he got the job done but did he get a raise tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:27 PM
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nah i've literally disagreed with liberal women about abortion before lol, idk if i date a liberal girl its like yea we got different views but unless y'all are starting a family neither of us really care to the point that it fractures the friendship/relationship. I very rarely meet anyone who's really impassioned about politics to the point that it overshadows the qualities we do have in common. I think as long as you are genuinely respectful and understanding with their viewpoint ppl appreciat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:20 PM
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i think its the opposite, everyone i know who boxes or does mma is the most calm and composed person in the room during adverse situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:15 PM
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i've never met a couple that actually give that much of a shit about each others political views to that extent. like you gotta be boring as hell if your partner's views on voting is a strain on relationship lol, just fishing for things to be unhappy about at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:03 PM
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Ppl who ghost are so weird to me lol. i got ghosted by this girl and blocked on IG cuz i didnt see her DM until like a day later. like damn thanks for makin it easy i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:55 PM
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of course it is those women are batshit insane lol but that wasnt really the point i was making
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:49 PM
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They literally just pump out content and regurgitate the same conversations and arguments with different women. I caught F&F early as they blew up and thought the first couple vids I watched were entertaining and different, but once you realize every episode is the same thing the shit gets old hella quick. It's just a modern day Jerry Springer except ppl are really trying to extract life values from it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:46 PM
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I mean thats literally what it is, i know cuz i came across the red pill a few years ago when i was in still in high school. Especially being apart of a generation that has such a general lack of social interaction due to social media and such, things guys typically just learned through experience isnt happening at all for many young men. If you're a guy who never really grew up being taught about attracting a women and you lacked the social skills or experience to learn it yourself, then hearin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:42 PM
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Your judgement is wrong in this case. You're projecting one experience onto the world. Im a guy but youre gonna need to elaborate more on this sexual incompatibility thing. I feel like anything past your dick literally not fitting in her vagina is kinda easily fixable. Like if a girl is bad in bed or has different fantasies, its pretty easy to just tell her what I like and help her get good at it. Fucking isnt like some type of skill that needs 10,000 hours of practice to get get at, its a prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:12 PM
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I guess we're saying the same thing, when I read the word enable it makes it seem like women are to blame ig
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:54 AM
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Honestly bro I was in a similar position and that shits just an excuse to keep avoiding women. Like I would barely talk to girls and then act like stuff like this is why, when really i just had no game and didn't want to confront it lol. In reality, shit like this isn't a regular occurrence and isn't gonna happen to you unless you allow it to.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 11:42 AM
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how many men do you know that desire to rape or kill people lol. You're using exceptions. That'd be like me saying I don't think more men than women desire hiring hit men to kill their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:37 AM
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ay hook me up with the resources
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 11:34 AM
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For sure but isn't there a context to why men are more violent too? Like biologically we have hormones and genetics that lend itself toward that. It's not like women are less cruel because they're just nicer, they literally don't have the capacity or means to inflict the type of pain or violence that men can. Kinda like when Jung says that someone who is capable of evil but restrains it is truly "kinder" than someone who doesn't even have the capability of doing something evil. I think in the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:26 AM
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I suppose. I guess my point is that women kind of should be that way so it's kinda weird to say they enable it. That implies it's a negative thing. They're supposed to prioritize aggressiveness and hostility over kindness when it comes to sexual attraction because evolutionary, that emotional maturity isn't gonna do jack shit if her or their family was under attack by a physical threat. Even if there's financial or emotional turmoil, the guy who's aggressive is gonna be more trusted to get shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:14 AM
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You can easily use this logic to justify some very racist beliefs if thats the argument youre going with lol. "black ppl are more cruel than white ppl just look at crime statistics"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:08 AM
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not really, so many young men would literally be better off if they just turned off their phones and went outside instead of listening to a self proclaimed internet guru has the SeCrEtS that will get you laid. You can tell by the comments that like 99% of ppl who follow these channels still dont get laid, they just now have a community of like minded men who they can whine with. Its not even a "its the best we got situation", it's just social media personalities being very addictive and ubiquito…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:01 AM
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yea but ppl aint lookin up to leonardo da vinci or alexander the great, theyre lookin up to YouTubers who push MLM schemes and shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:28 AM
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Not really. I read that boring ass book by Daniel Goleman and half the women I hear talking about emotional intelligence are describing something thats nothing like what he was talking about lol. Some ppl talk about EQ like it's about being a mind reader and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:23 AM
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Im ngl I have no idea why the expected thing to do is to move in together, comingle your finances, and all that extra shit. Like I had a girl talk about moving in before and that shit never even crossed my mind lol. Not even because I didnt take her or the relationship serious, I just cant imagine not living by myself. Like as long s we can link up once a week to chill im good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:19 AM
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You're conflating being nice with being a pussy. Women prefer assholes over pussies because they already got one. If a guy is nice but dominant It's not a contradiction of traits its just rarer cuz most guys are dumb af and slide too far in one direction on the scale, whether it's toward asshole or timid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:05 AM
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I mean i was joking, i think both sexes are cruel in different ways. Guys will string along a girl for months as long as it keeps him a steady stream of pussy, and a girl will constantly and subtly attack a mans confidence if Like yea girls can be more petty but guys can be more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:02 AM
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I still don't know what emotional intelligence is. I've looked it up and there's like a dozen definitions and they're all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:59 AM
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I mean you still do know what you're missing out on when you're single unless you've been a virgin your entire life. But even then I'm not sure what your overall point is. If you are so averse to risk and pain in your life then don't get in a relationship. There's always a potential risk you get hurt at anything in life, it's just a matter of deciding how comfortable you are with taking that risk. In your scenario, you're just taking the risk that you might be on your death bed one day and end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:53 AM
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I dont even think the solution it to mock them because all that really does is empower and embolden them more. It makes guys feel good to do so but it doesn't really accomplish anything. Anytime a chick is saying some shit you just gotta be like "lol no, stop it". Deep down even most women know the stuff they be preaching is nonsense, it's almost like a shit test by them to see how much you care about their little make believe ideology. When you give them too much energy it's it's like that Shak…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:47 AM
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Guys do things that will make a girl cry for a couple days. Girls do shit that will eat at your soul lol. Honestly though both genders often do cruel things, just in different ways. Like yea women can be deceptive and disloyal but my female friends have told me endless stories about men being and acting dishonest as long as it gets them some pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:36 AM
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I guess. I just remember there was a post a while ago where guys compiled a bunch of photos of women on FDS to prove everyone there is ugly when they were all just more or less average or slightly above average looking women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:30 AM
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If you're happy being alone, then you shouldn't risk getting into a relationship. How is there a risk, if you are becoming less happy then just break up and go back to being alone again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:25 AM
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most women do lack accountability and responsibility but most people in general do these days tbh. idk i just dont take the type of women you're describing serious, they're like a kid who screams and throws tantrums but the second the parent checks them all the sudden they're quiet again. I feel like when men give energy and attention to these types of girls it only fuels and validates them, deep down they know they're silly and talking nonsense but they crave the interaction and engagement they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:20 AM
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What? You can just be in a relationship where you see each other less than usual so you have more alone time. People who like being alone still aren't Shaolin monks you want no romantic interaction with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:12 AM
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lmaooooo right. like these dudes got way worse issues to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:59 AM
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ngl uncut dicks looks like ant eaters lol im glad my parents got me cut. i'll take the loss of sensitivity if it means my dick doesnt look like it has a breathing problem 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:56 AM
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yea but like we get it theres hella girls online with a victim mentality complaining about the patriarchy. I dont even really know ppl like that in real life tbh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:40 AM
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you gotta work at el pollo loco bro its insane how many baddies were there greasing chicken and shit when i was a cashier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:10 AM
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This is such a 2016 ass talking point, subs gettin stale lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:08 AM
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I stopped following a lot of these channels after like 6 months of really reading into the red pill. There's really not that much to be saidafter a certain point but gurus and coaches just gotta tack on a bunch of extra bullshit to keep the river flowing. Most of their fanbases are just young dudes who get pulled in cuz they're desperate for some magic pill the will make them good with women, and they stay for the entertainment value, the female bashing, and the endless amount of advice they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:07 AM
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True. Thats like every red pill channel tho. They all have their moments where they make a point but its usually something common sense like women want men who are assertive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:01 AM
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Bro my doctor fucked up and cut my shit hella tight and even im tired of hearing this conversation. ppl really be consumed with the topic of dick skin, like go watch the sunset or something like damn. ive never met anyone in real life be as passionate about circumcision as much as the ppl i see on reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:53 AM
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I swear the guys who say that really just mean their crush liking them back lmao. They not thinking of some old hag hitting on them aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:50 AM
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i think zendaya is mid as hell but millie bobbie brown is legit attractive when she doesnt have the eminem haircut. And im young enough to say that so dont trip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:36 AM
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Lol right. they're thinkin of a guy who is playful but can be serious when it stops being funny and cute, OP just sounds like the gay friend stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:34 AM
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i get it tho so many takes here would be explained away when you see how some of these ppl look lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:24 AM
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yall gotta let these ppl fade bruh so tired of hearing about these cartoon characters, they're not real people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:21 AM
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dumbass idea lol. like i get where youre comin from but its just gonna lead to a bunch of dudes here shittin on how the women look because they don't look like the OF models they jerk off to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 07:19 AM
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Ive never got this shit. Youre members of the opposite sex in the same environment every day. You're gonna develop attraction. Maybe its cuz ive never worked stereotypical office jobs or something but fuckin with a coworker has never been a hard situation to navigate for me. Its weird to me how much people hold their boring ass career in such high esteem that wouldn't be that hard to repplace if you really needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:54 AM
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must look like they can give me orgasms Can you see an upward curve through his pants or something tf???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 06:42 AM
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Sounds exactly like me when I have a crush so I'm pretty confident he likes you lol. The best thing you can do to better gauge interest is try to strike up a conversation with him when you have the opportunity (a real one, not "how's the weather" small talk) and be a lil playful. If you can't get him to warm up or joke around at all then he probably isn't attracted, unless he's just cripplingly shy and reserved.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:17 AM
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I'm curious to see what the women here think because in my experience, even if you can pull it off, it's very polarizing. The ones who like it, love it, and the ones who don't, hate it. Which I think is the goal anyway lol.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/22 03:37 AM
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