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1

She admitted she cheated. Nuff said. The act of trying to find out "how much" cheating happened is the epitome of beta
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:59 PM
7

The girl has provided the important information. This poor, distraught guy is obsessing over irrelevant details in an effort to bargain his way out of dealing with the cold truth.
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:39 PM
1

Don't look back in anger
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:00 PM
20

100% this. It has nothing to do with the guy. The guy made no commitment with you, he owes you nothing. This is between you and "your" girl.
/r/seduction13/02/19 11:57 AM
1

Hence my suggestion 🙂
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:39 AM
19

I'd say it's better to focus on the process rather than the outcome. E.g. approach 100 girls is a better idea because it's dependent on factors largely within your control. Also, if you approach a girl, get her Instagram, you have sex, that counts as zero on your challenge? Your intent is commendable, but I recommend re-evaluating your success criteria and approach to attaining it.
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:45 PM
2

Either: 1) indifference or, 2) agree and amplify Keep in mind that girls only shit test guys the guys that they consider could be attractive (remember girls'attraction is less black and white than men). So shit tests mean you're on the right track. Todd V has good videos on this.
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:14 PM
2

Text book oneitis
/r/seduction02/02/19 10:46 AM
3

Leave it. She's not interested and it's really awkward to convey it at work. There's millions of girls out there who you don't work with. Go for them
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:48 AM
1

All g brother
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:14 PM
1

Why are you on this sub? It's about trying to seduce women, and learning how to be the guy they want...
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:13 PM
3

Give it some time. Send value giving text. Spark conversation, when mood is light and elevated then ask what night she's free.
/r/seduction01/02/19 10:37 AM
6

Could be shit test (good) or they could just be parasites that can't afford their own drinks (bad)
/r/seduction01/02/19 12:53 AM
1

Maybe it's harder. I still approach either way
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:14 AM
0

Actually Mr. condescending douche, I don't use it anymore 😊
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:55 AM
1

They get 100s of matches. I've agreed dates previously and they just forget. Remember the experience for guys and girls is completely different. 66% of users are men. Men swipe yes more. This should help you understand why it's different
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:51 AM
3

This is fkn genius! I can't believe I didn't think of this. Well done sir. Hopefully this catches on and that will be the end of this horrible platform
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:19 AM
1

Winning 😎
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:03 PM
1

Tbh, I didn't either. I was semi trolling because I get annoyed at 'War & Peace' length posts without a TL;dr
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:40 PM
1

You fkd up
/r/seduction29/01/19 11:56 AM
3

Avoid dates with friends
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:18 AM
3

The good thing about insta is it's easy to comment on stories or posts hence it's very casual compared to text or FB message. Honestly I'd rather it didn't exist, but it does so the reality is you can date waaaay more by using it effectively
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:03 AM
1

Haha! True, it's a terrible city for day game due to the fact it's not a walking city. I personally hated it because of this and the homeless tent towns scattered throughout the city. I'm sure the night game is great as everyone seems to go on about the beautiful women there.
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:54 AM
1

Commenting/teasing on a story pic/video is super chill. It's worked for me and is less try hard than pure DM
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:38 AM
1

Lol. Although I agree that talking to girls IRL is the best way meet new people, I feel that in 2019, having a decent Instagram is fundamental. In fact this is the sole reason I created an IG, because girls kept asking me for it. You don't need an IG, but not having one makes it harder because it comes off creepy. Conversely, having an IG makes generating attraction/rapport way easier if you use it correctly. Good or bad, the fact is IG skill is now an important part of game
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:36 AM
2

Nice. I've done that before. She became my gf for a year 😊
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:21 AM
2

Just hang out with her. Make sure you set the time and place
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:33 AM
2

Why not? It's not harrassment to ask someone for a coffee and, pending it goes well, Netflix and chill. This is my standard routine.
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:28 AM
5

Assuming you're asking because you actually want a particular girl or girls... I'd say be low key af in class or work. Avoid basically all kino in the classroom/work place. I'd ask for coffee (or any one to one activity) which is easy because it's normal at university, and when it's just the two of you throw out feelers like dropping you think she's cute and guage reactions from there. When I say "dropping" I mean like "I'm surprised someone attractive/cute like you would X/y/z". Hope that made …
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:39 PM
2

Two schools of argument. As it can look try hard but girls may like it... I'm 193cm and personally decided to add a physical description sentence. It seemed to get me more matches. (I'm off tinder now however as the quality I can get compared with day game is deplorable)
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:39 AM
2

If you want a relationship then ask her to hang out. If you want it to remain casual, then keep doing what you're doing. Anything else is overthinking it. You've already seduced and sexed her.
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:50 AM
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Hello brother, the way I see it you have two options: A) take the black pill: blame your lack of happiness or success on factors outside your control such as looks, upbringing, the government, haters etc. Believe that effort is futile because conquering these set backs is impossible B) accept that you suck but are capable of bettering yourself through toil and perseverance. Accept that you've been dealt your hand but that doesn't mean you can't be better, be humble, learn, set goals and take act…
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:42 AM
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The whole part is good advice. Focus on point A and everything will fall into place for you. Stop analysing the symptoms and look at the big picture
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:25 PM
1

It depends. You need to consider all possible variables
/r/seduction26/01/19 09:31 PM
1

Depends, is your heart truly in it?
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:34 PM
1

Erm, be respectful?
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:33 PM
13

I never meet girls when they suggest bringing a friend. Because if either doesn't like you the interaction is dead. It's hard enough forming a connection with one person let alone two at once
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:24 PM
27

*physically attractive
/r/seduction26/01/19 07:59 PM
1

I heard that in South America girls teach you to dance if you're not good
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:36 AM
6

Confidence comes with reference experience. You'll need to push the boundaries of what you're comfortable doing until it becomes natural to you. Eg. If a girl grinds on you, grind back. It may feel weird the first time because you're not used to it. As you accumulate positive feedback reference experiences for doing more daring things you'll become more confident.
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:42 PM
2

That's gross dude. Get with people because you want to FFS
/r/seduction25/01/19 09:24 AM
2

Again, how is this helping you or anyone else with seduction?
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:33 AM
2

What's this got to do with seduction?
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:45 AM
3

This should be in small dick sub bruz
/r/seduction24/01/19 12:32 PM
3

Two things: A) charming the girl AKA generating attraction is achieved during the initial interaction. If she's not keen to see you then, it will be near impossible to change her mind. B) Tom torero says 'don't hide your dick'. It's a man to woman interaction. If you want to fuck her, don't pretend to want to be her BFF.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:33 AM
2

The biggest player I ever met in my life was pudgy, average face, terrible fashion, AND had a form torets where his right eye twitched hard every few seconds. He would get girls by just being obnoxiously flirty to everyone. I haven't seen him in years but that always stuck with me
/r/seduction24/01/19 06:53 AM
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Lol @only positive comments. Good luck homie
/r/seduction24/01/19 06:43 AM
10

RSDjeffy always says the sole purpose of texting is to arrange meeting. I tend to agree
/r/seduction24/01/19 06:35 AM
3

Definitely use a condom
/r/seduction22/01/19 10:12 AM
0

I admit I only read the title so apologies if I'm way off. Reference experiences are key. Learning that you won't die if you say what you think, do what you want etc re-trains your brain to be a more authentic version of yourself. RSD Tyler is a big believer on reference experiences to really internalise concepts
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:42 PM
1

Good luck then
/r/seduction20/01/19 01:36 PM
3

Tl;dr?
/r/seduction20/01/19 12:10 PM
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Any NPC (95% of people) will shame a guy for trying to improve their dating skills outside of the commonly accepted paradigm of: meet girl through work or friends, get to know her over a long period of time, naturally chemisty will develop and somehow you'll end up together - it will "just happen". Look at the Gillette ad, approaching a woman you don't know is seen as harrassment by the mainstream. Therefore, you need to live in accordance with your own values whether or not they conflict with t…
/r/seduction18/01/19 10:44 PM
1

You really need to tighten up your question. It's incredibly rambling and super specific to just you. Be succinct, what is your question? What do you want to know that will improve your game?
/r/seduction18/01/19 12:53 PM
1

Great post
/r/seduction18/01/19 05:25 AM
2

Starting college is an awesome opportunity for you to create a new identity for yourself. When I moved cities I decided I wanted to be known as an outgoing, sociable guy. Because nobody knew me, I could just be this person and people would accept it at face value. I'm naturally extremely introverted, but when I moved cities I forced myself to be outgoing and engage new people. Before I new it I had a new social circle. Tl;dr think about what identity you want and be that person
/r/seduction17/01/19 10:40 PM
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This. There's subtle ways to start e.g. say "cool nail polish" while you take her hand to examine nails. Stuff like this also gives you a feel for how open she is to being touched.
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:07 AM
0

Cool. So post value giving content too, balance it out
/r/seduction17/01/19 05:27 AM
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This is what /seduction should be. That is sharing information and experiences as opposed to "a girl text me 'x', what should I reply?". This "feed me! Feed me!" posts culture needs to stop. For every "help me!" post, try to do one post giving value. Peace brothers. I love you all
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:37 PM
5

Funny I've had the same fears. I pull out at the point of ejaculation even with a condom just to make sure. After sex I flush the condom thus mitigating that risk. (there's a funny scene in the movie 'the square' about this scenario) Regarding rape allegations, the sad truth is men are condemned at an accusation whether it's true or not. Therefore you need to ensure the person you copulate with is stable and secure. Usually unstable people give off red flags. Make note of any unusual behaviour. …
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:29 PM
1

You've already fucked her and are now sexting. You want to keep it casual. What is the problem again? Just go with the flow. If you specifically want information on how to maintain casual relationships, there's several posts on this
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:51 PM
1

If you want to sext her because you actually enjoy it and think it's fun, I don't see a problem. If you're doing it to keep her happy/supplicate, then don't.
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:44 PM
8

Don't be desperate. You should be prepared to walk away if she doesn't measure up to your standards. The frame you want is she is the seller, you're the buyer. Challenge her to sell herself to you. But do it in a playful rather than serious way. Keep in mind that she's nervous too. She'll probably spend an hour choosing a dress for the date
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:17 AM
1

It's all in your head. When you walk around in public, people will look at you, sit next to you. Stop making excuses and approach
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:10 AM
26

Matthew Hussey has an excellent YouTube channel on how to manifest a committed relationship. He has content on meeting guys as well as what behaviours will ensure initial attraction evolves into mutual investment in a relationship. Good luck sister!
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:28 PM
2

Never said she's a bad person. Just said that blocking you means something
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:50 AM
2

Lol, if blocking you isn't obvious she doesn't want any interaction with you then seriously, good luck
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:08 AM
3

Isn't the blocking move self evident? Avoid scarcity mindset, you can get others
/r/seduction13/01/19 04:46 AM
2

Tl;dr?
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:15 AM
2

I don't understand, what does "take it slow" mean exactly?
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:40 AM
1

Brad Pitt rule
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:56 AM
6

You said you want to be with her. So you've broken up. Likely she wants to be with other guys. You know what you need to do as you said you don't want to be just "friends". Thus, remaining friends merely gives you a denial safety blanket from having to accept it's over. You need to allow yourself to grieve. Google "stages of grief" and work towards accepting it's over. She may contact you in future when she feels lonely, in these moments remember she dumped you. Stay strong buddy. Also you might…
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:41 AM
1

Oh yeah, I believe you. I meant to say the Todd V stuff was for OP. Todd V is the seduction scientist
/r/seduction12/01/19 01:34 PM
5

Ignore the downvotes, I think your advice is correct generally speaking. Todd V talks a lot about the difference between "premise" and "intent". Also the concept of levelling is at play in OP's FR. See Todd V on premise: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=A1Mwr1pDusQ#menu See Todd V on levelling: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bTn7xMXq054
/r/seduction12/01/19 07:13 AM
2

I just thought I'd reply
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:57 AM
1

Saw this exact question a couple of days ago lol
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:28 AM
1

I mean, just talking to you now you sound like you have low empathy which is a problem in seduction of girls. I say this because I went out of my way to help you and you showed no gratitude. I'm not sure how to help you and frankly I cbf anyway.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:07 AM
1

It's more than that. Those are the easy bits. Real confidence comes from vocalising what you're actually thinking, allowing yourself to be vulnerable to the possibility of being rejected for the real you. If you don't understand what I'm saying, watch this.
/r/seduction12/01/19 04:36 AM
2

you assume being "interesting" is what attracts girls... i think interesting plays a very minor role in attraction
/r/seduction11/01/19 11:09 PM
20

Substitute "tiny dick" with height, ethnicity, body fat %, hairline, face etc. etc. and still true
/r/seduction11/01/19 11:08 PM
2

Word
/r/seduction10/01/19 04:16 AM
2

I agree they matter. If you look like the elephant man, you'll need more sophisticated game than if you're Chris Hemsworth. I don't think anyone would debate that. However there's nuance to it which Tyler (Owen Cook) covers.
/r/seduction10/01/19 12:00 AM
1

Rsdtyler has an excellent video on the 'do looks matter' debate where he shares some insights on how "looks" impact game style etc.
/r/seduction09/01/19 11:41 PM
2

I think you hit the nail on the head. With his overt style you're forcing the woman to decide immediately whether they want him or not. You can see it worked on Scarlett, and if she wasn't there he would've simply been blown out by the brunette. As you said, he's a well dressed, masculine, confident man who had been socially proofed by the mother before the approach. Scarlett's character is an adventurous traveller open to possibilities. Therefore the sequence of events is entirely realistic
/r/seduction09/01/19 11:18 PM
5

Lol, why would you interpret that as an insult? Anyway good luck homie
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:18 PM
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Lol, at Bardem's character being a "nerd" caricature! Funny description, but I strongly disagree. It's just one style of pick up of being purely honest and lavishing your crush with praise. Should get Todd V to do an analysis of the scene where Javier initially meets Scarlett and the sister.
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:17 PM
5

I think that quote was congruent to the character.
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:12 PM
6

Embrace the awkwardness, laugh about it like a man. Don't run from it like a boy
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:31 PM
32

Vicky Cristina Barcelona Excellent and real film. Woody Allen gets it. If you want to be the seducer, be Javier Bardem's character.
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:28 PM
3

Would be awesome if you had a tl;dr
/r/seduction09/01/19 04:59 AM
2

Depends on context. Potentially patronising but could be overt IOI. Either way, I wouldn't get hung up on something so small
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:17 AM
1

That's what she'll say
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:16 AM
0

"Thanks. Would you like to have intercourse with me?"
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:05 AM
1

Sometimes features a guest. Also rsdderek is okay but higher level, less practicable concepts
/r/seduction08/01/19 09:50 PM
1

https://youtu.be/JzVxzE8OBPw
/r/seduction08/01/19 09:27 PM
1

Nailed it
/r/seduction08/01/19 10:51 AM
2

If you really don't have friends to rely on, buy a tripod, a phone mount, and a Bluetooth controller. You can travel anywhere you want, take 100s of pics, alter them on apps like Facetune, meitu, Photoshop express and then you're golden. I did this when I first started my Instagram and got instant results on tinder. Tonnes of YouTube content on how to take hot selfies too.
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:59 AM
2

Anecdotal. I'm not sure why you care so much. Believe what you want homie
/r/seduction08/01/19 07:47 AM
2

Fake it til you make it. Also search rsdtyler. He has many videos and how to be authentic
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:32 AM
1

Yeah. Dating is a sad, dog eat dog world. Definitely not for people with a heart/emotions. If you do have a heart, I highly recommend going the girlfriend route
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:25 AM
2

Basically I do exactly the same thing I'd do with a potential girlfriend the first and second meet-up (99% of the time meaning until you have sex). Now, the difference in how I treat the potential gf vs fb is that I'll be vague about making plans with a FB. Thing is, to have a fb, no MUST be totally ambivalent to the prospect of losing them otherwise they'll expect you to chase. If you care whether they stay or leave, this will manifest in bf like behaviour. Rsdjeffy has content on this too.
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:23 AM
2

All I know is they love Aussies from my experience there.
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:13 AM
1

Yes, a couple times a while ago. But in that case I finish my lovely coffee, then make an excuse and leave. I won't meet anyone these days without photos from several angles including full body. Even doing this however there's a risk
/r/seduction08/01/19 05:06 AM
3

I'm with you unless you live within 10 minutes walk to a bar or cafe. I prefer to just meet at my local cafe and evaluate chemistry from there. I have been played by overweight girls taking misleading pictures and I've found this is a satisfactory safety net.
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:16 AM
1

As much as I can reasonably afford and no more.
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:14 AM
8

My buddies last up to a couple of months of once a week hook ups. At around 2 months I get the "where's this going?" ultimatum. At this point I always say "if you want a bf I wish you luck". About 2 weeks to a month after this about 80% message something like "hey, how have you been?" At this point hooking up recommences for about a month - at this point they get tired of the casual thing and crave someone who'll commit. They move on again to meet someone who'll be the full time bf. I know it so…
/r/seduction08/01/19 03:11 AM
1

Any large coastal town between Sydney and Brisbane. Aussie girls are very sexually open and there's heaps of European backpackers in travel mode (aka very open to holiday flings)
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:38 AM
2

Paris has amazing nightlife every night of the week if you're into low key bars. And it's great that everyone speaks a little English. I found they love Australians too if that helps y'all
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:36 AM
2

Tom torero regularly podcasts. He's an excellent instructional teacher imo
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:29 AM
2

I think you already know the answer to your question
/r/seduction08/01/19 01:35 AM
2

Bitch is hood as fk. Delete her number
/r/seduction07/01/19 11:20 PM
2

If you believe becoming "alpha" is a choice (as opposed to biological inherited), then it's moot. Be alpha, get bitches. Anecdotally I've hung out with short, ugly looking guys that slept with a lot of hot girls. Anyway worry about what you can control, ditch tinder and watch some Tom Torero London daygame videos
/r/seduction07/01/19 09:36 AM
2

There's a good rsdtyler video on this. I can't remember the name of the upload, but the gyst is: "what you can't fix, you feature". Search"rsd insecurities" on YouTube. Those should give you the kick you need.
/r/seduction07/01/19 04:34 AM
2

I the first time I saw my last girlfriend she was walking ahead of me. If I was waiting for an IOI before approaching I'd never have met her and subsequently had an amazing 2 year relationship. Remember good game should look and feel natural. Rsdmax just posted a great video on YouTube on how to be authentic. I highly recommend giving it a watch.
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:46 PM
0

Cool. My experience has been different.
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:28 AM
1

Thing is, girls rarely overtly approach guys, their usual tactic is to preen themselves to make themselves approachABLE. Currently, in the west, guys usually don't approach girls. Therefore your advantage is that by simply approaching, you're ahead of 90% of guys.
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:27 AM
2

Fair. I'd like to see more Sartain content too.
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:22 AM
1

A decently attractive girl that goes clubbing (from 18 outside of USA), my guess is average of 10.
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:48 AM
3

I think this is future of game. I hate posting to social media (unless I'm specifically organising an event). However, I found that girls I'd meet constantly asked for my Instagram soon after meeting them or early into texting. Texting I've found is dead (unless you're messaging your parents). I started an Instagram specifically to show I'm not a total loser. This involved simply remaining cognisant of when I was doing something fun or cool and and taking a pic. It's been painful but instantly y…
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:41 AM
2

Well you're so obsessed with a girl that you've resorted to considering getting a massage from her (regardless if she wants to) just to experience intimacy with her and created a Reddit post about it. If you felt she was on your level, you wouldn't be thinking about the situation this much. You would've moved on to the next girl after she ignored your text. Again, not attacking you, just trying to offer the outside perspective you asked for
/r/seduction05/01/19 09:35 PM
10

Women can have sex easily, yes. That's a surprise to you?
/r/seduction05/01/19 07:33 AM
2

There's no harm in trying, however I don't rate your chances - even if you get her on a date - because you've put this girl on such a ridiculously high pedestal. Google "oneitis". I promise you'll find the answers you need there. What you're dealing with is not a unique problem. You'll be fine but at the moment you're being a huge creeper. I've been a creeper before, nothing to be ashamed of at all. Just keep learning and gaining experience like you're doing now and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction04/01/19 10:30 PM
1

Also, any votes for - Rookie of the Year/newcomer - most improved - comeback of the year (My vote is Sasha Daygame for most improved)
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:13 AM
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Todd V. Putting out killer content while simultaneously dealing with RSD seperation legal BS (no doubt instigated by Papa).
/r/seduction03/01/19 06:11 AM
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