Hey guys, in need of some desperate urgent help. So I’m about to start college after just finishing school. I’m a decent looking guy and feel as though I’m quite sociable but i came out of school feeling as if I don’t offer any value to people as I’m always the one making efforts with friends and not having much effort made back my way. To top that off, I’ve only kissed a girl once so I’m seen as like less than others. I feel I’m always the target in my social group and now don’t feel like seeing them Much now . I’m starting to feel really low on confidence. My college I’m going to will not have any of my school mates there but new faces all together. I want to be seen differently here, I want to be the one people wanna hang out with and there the one that girls find more attractive. How do I offer value?