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I honestly don't believe she was being prostituted out. I just don't think she wants to deal with and accept the fact that is how he has sex. As if he's watched years of porn. He wasn't trying to prostitute her out in my opinion. He was talking to her like it was a sick pornography that he was making
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:49 PM
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Sex is not work and I will keep repeating it until I die. Being a drug dealer is not work Being a paid murderer is not work Being a thief is not work Being a pimp is not work Being a prostitute is not work Being a porn actor is not work. Nor are they stars even though they use that misnomer Being a gang member is not work although you may hear them on TV the news and movies say they're putting in work. Just because you throw the word work behind something doesn't make it work. Just because you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:44 PM
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I don't go to concerts with men that I've just met as a date. I've never had it happen but I am too smart and I can foresee. I had a man to try to take me to a concert that I hadn't known long. R&b group lots of slow songs. I'm not stupid. Slow songs lead to him acting as if I'm his partner putting hands on me trying to kiss and being romantic. Maybe if it was a orchestra yes. But you got to be careful with that concert date. There are ice skating rinks. They're a skating rinks. You can go to a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:38 PM
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The free meal line is so old and ridiculous. I don't even acknowledge stupidity like that. It's illogical. We are not in the 3rd world country. This is not Brazil where men go to prey on poverty stricken women who might earn a few dollars a day If they are lucky. It ain't a free meal. No woman needs a man to pay for her meal. It's a date. I don't know why it's so damn hard for them to understand that. They're not keeping us from starvation. No one is seeking out men so they can just have food. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:29 PM
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She's asking if she's picky? She's dirty. She says it keeps happening but she keeps having sex with him. Wow, this girl is tripping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:22 PM
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I don't even understand that line. He checked out off relationship a long time ago. You are in a relationship. All that double-talk is insulting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:19 PM
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What the hell is her problem? She didn't go on a date she went to hang out with a man. Why would she pay for his meal? She should have left him there. She paid for her Uber there. She's paying for the entire thing and she chooses to stay there and fun this fake date. It makes no sense. I'm just saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:14 PM
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That's because you're not his friends. They are his sex partners whether currently, in the past or he's seeking in the future. They aren't his friend he's openly dating while talking to other women. It's emotional, they talk suggestively, they flirt. Men don't have women friends. If they did then they would talk to them the same way they do their men friends. They would call them to go to sports bars to watch sports. They would sit around and just talk and laugh. Heterosexual men don't have sex …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:09 PM
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Jusy another porn sick fool and another who's giving themself a self-diagnosis of social anxiety and lying. Omg, that's why I ask people sometimes when they keep telling me that they have mental illness or depression or ADD or OCD. I get tired of it because I know they're full of it and are seeking attention. I sometimes straight out ask have you been diagnosed by a doctor with it? That stops them in their tracks and they stare at you because they're lying. It's either a no or they just meet you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:03 PM
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The moment I got to the paragraph when it said I met up with this guy that I had a situation ship a few years ago. Then I knew that she had issues. That's all I got to say. I can't even give people sympathy for just not giving up damn about themselves anymore. This is just ridiculous at this point. Walking to the door and someone going to your purse and dumping it out. Like come on... You got to help your own self. This is just crazy. This is the number one reason why I judge everyone And I neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:53 AM
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She's writing like a juvenile and not using appropriate words That's why it's confusing. When she says she doesn't mind if she doesn't finish,she's talking like a male and using male verbiage. She's speaking unclearly and a bit cloudy and not using the appropriate word. What she really is saying is she doesn't mind if she doesn't have an orgasm, every time that they have sex. I honestly hate when people will not finish their thoughts and sentences with all the words that you need, lol to be unde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:59 PM
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Maybe they're frivolous with money? There really is no reason to go to counseling with someone you're not married to. You're not married and you're not going to be married anyway. Seems like just a waste to me. It's over anyway so there is no sense in prolonging it and wasting money and hurting yourself more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:50 PM
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Yes, of course men know what they're doing. They are normal functioning adults just like us and have brains. Which is what I was saying yesterday. Cut no slack to normal functioning adults just because of their gender. FYI, these men are not your friends by the way. You are their next option and are being kept around on the back burner. Men are only friends with men. They respect men and take other men's advice. They're sucking you dry with all that free therapy and seeking pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:43 PM
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Well seems like you know the answer. That you need to go to therapy. You also said you are a low-income mother of three. You shouldn't be dating you're doing nothing but setting up yourself to be taken advantage of. However, the fact that you are a low-income mother of three means and taking care of only parents, shows that you know you qualify for free insurance from our government. If you're not already on it sign up for it and if you are on it you go make yourself an appointment with a mental…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:36 PM
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I had to LVM for several years that was probably a bit jealous of me in areas of my life. I'm not well off however like you I've got some skills. I am not fluent in Spanish but I can definitely have conversations with people. I can say I speak Spanish. I can go to another country and converse with people, conversationally. If I get stuck, I look up a missing verb or word I need. No matter how many times he would see me converse with someone in Spanish or talk or translate something he would stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:31 PM
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It looks like a dried up and petrified insect and that little black thing looks like his eyeball from a worm or a maggot. Between the se 50 cent silicone rings that people are wearing now and everyone wearing these cheap ass black bands that you can get for $10 and $20. It's just getting even more pitiful. Please stop being this desperate :-(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:12 PM
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It doesn't bother me at all. Society is changing in my opinion and a lot of people only want to hear what makes them feel better and things that are PC and often not true. Sometimes I think some of the commenters might be men. I had another person in the forum that was really angry at me calling me out of my names because I have standards and refuse to make up lies to men when I was a rideshare driver and answer questions about where I'm from, do I have a boyfriend am I single, etc She was tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:05 PM
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I would not be her friend. I used to have a low value friend. I'm not her friend anymore. All she's going to do is bring you down. I would run and run fast. She seems more like a project you're trying to fix and then a friend. Move on. Besides friendship and the word friend is the serious word It takes a long time to be someone's friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:36 PM
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No of course you didn't say he's mentally retarded And you knew that before you wrote that. I never claimed that you did. But I wrote exactly what I wrote so I won't continue repeating myself. You can reread it if you feel like it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:31 PM
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I also treat lesbians just like I treat men. I don't form friendships with them. Their advice is just as sinister as a heterosexual men. A lesbian wants a woman so therefore a lesbian is not my friend just like a heterosexual male is not my friend. If a heterosexual man is only friends with women they want to sleep with what the hell you think a lesbian is thinking lol. I'm just saying. You'll get bad advice and they're waiting for that weak moment when you were down so they can dive in. It's no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:26 PM
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Agreed! I can't get into why some women are into taking off their clothes and showing their body to any stranger who wants to look at it and touch it, Just because they have a penis. That's weird to me. I don't want everyone knowing what I look like underneath my clothes. Or numerous people being able to tell people that they've had me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:23 PM
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Well if he wanted partial ownership he could have put down half the down payment. I don't know what world he lives in that he believes that any human being lives for rent free. He is not a woman who is birthing babies and at home raising them. He's a man who goes out everyday and goes to school and he could even work. Why is he whining like a little toddler and expecting to be taken care of like a baby by his wife. She's smart and did the right thing because it seems to me that he would definite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:14 PM
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That's embarrassing she is actually hyping herself up through self-talk to do something that she knows is BS because she's making her excuses and rationalizations for it in her post. How can you propose to a man? You can't even share that you're getting married because it's embarrassing. You can't say he proposed to me. You can't tell anyone how shocked or surprised you were or how lovely it was or how beautiful the proposal was. You would literally have to keep all that a secret otherwise it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:06 PM
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You really should have an issue with him texting her. She is the backup she is the next and often women are sitting there keeping the place warm for the next woman. She is his next option. She is the opposite sex. He is not homosexual so he is interested in her. He has no male friends. Men are friends with men. That's not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:54 PM
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Exactly! That is weird as hell to let someone treat you like that. Or to not want to be dated. So before she was an actress would she seems to be implying is she was a insecure, easy a pickme and down for whatever and whenever? I'm not quite sure because she says she meets someone at work and either married to them or gets pregnant and she's never been out in the proper date. So does that mean she meets them at work and every day they just go to each other's place and have sex and stay inside ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:48 PM
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Okay, here's the thing. Adults who are working and can support themselves and live in society are not mentally retarded. I know you think I'm giving men too much credit. But I believe you are not allowing them to be accountable for their words and actions. I don't make excuses for adults actions. Probably because I work in education and healthcare. You may have heard conversations from men, that who were not your friends but giving you the facade of friendship. They want you to hear it obviously…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:36 PM
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Well, I will say this. You are a woman. If you are born one then that is a scientific fact. I refuse to put "real" in front of man and woman because there is no such thing as a certain action makes you a real man or real woman. The only thing that makes you a woman is your DNA and your chromosomes. It's just a scientific fact that if you're born a woman then you are a woman and if you're born a male then you're a male. I think that people put the word "real' in front of things. They're doing it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:28 PM
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That's the first time I've heard of that. That's pretty sad. Why marry the person then. They are obviously going to leave you when something better comes along. It is a lot behind that statement and the person who agrees to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:24 PM
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Oh you are much too nice, lol. Am I opinion and from what I believe I have seen. They are not delusional especially not in this aspect when we're talking about going to the bathroom. A lot of men are liars because they are humans and are just spewing BS. It's not logical. Because they do the same thing. Never believe a liar or their logic is my motto. Everything out of their mouth is a lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:21 PM
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No I don't see the prosecutor as blaming her. It is true what the prosecutor said. What this is is called criticism it's called constructive criticism. I know the society doesn't like that word anymore and we now call it things like hating or being unkind or we choose to be PC. Yes her family her friends her father told her. Yet she would not heed the warning. I heeded so many warnings from my mother and father and because of it I just haven't had all these horrible things happen to me and that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:16 PM
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I've never got that & I thought it was stupid. First of all you don't put soap inside of your body anyway so "down there" is specifically talking about washing the skin between your legs in your thigh area and your crotch. You can have odor or more odor down there because there is no space between your body parts and there's a lot of rubbing together so it doesn't get to breathe like other areas of our skin. Like a fat person who has roles that overlap They are funky between those rolls because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:07 PM
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Why do I need Summer's Eve anything. Let alone some summers Eve Brand wetwipes and soap. As if bar soap which cost a dollar or my bottle of castiles soap which lasts a whole damn year isn't good enough. I hope no women are falling for this stupid and insecure advertising. It's soap in a pretty bottle and spread over a cloth too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:59 PM
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It may not even be heard and maybe thrown out when they arrived at court. Filing papers with the court is a lawsuit. Which anyone can do. But once it's evaluated by experts in the law and you come to court and are before the judge. That's what matters. People can file all the lawsuits they want. But it doesn't even mean that they even get to plead their case or it will ever be heard if it's not valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:41 PM
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It wouldn't work. Because it was a lie. It was just a control tactic to shut her up and control the conversation and control her speech. He truly cannot feel that way and pretends he cannot stomach knowing and hearing that women pee. Because all human beings pee. He's not an imbecile but he wants women to think he is and he is trying to make her walk on eggshells over normal things. There she is being a pickme trying to please him by obliging. That's neurotic But it's simply BS. All human beings…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:29 PM
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Please don't forget the title said, inspired by. The Netflix series was really good & I enjoyed it. I thought it was very hilarious in parts. But a lot of the things that we saw about her life and relationships And what happened in her daily life, was all fictionalized. Even about the other woman who made the hair product and their relationship was to each other. All that was fictionalized and never happened but it made great TV! But it was a very good and funny inspired by CJ Walker series/nove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:23 PM
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I have a high sex drive too... When I'm in a relationship. Otherwise I am celibate. I knew a woman who said she had a high sex drive and had lots of sex and was very promiscuous. One day we were talking and she asked me how I was able to not have sex constantly with people. So I told her it was because I like myself. She mentioned that she could not help herself and could not stop having sex and couldn't stop herself. She also stated she had been raped or molested when she was younger. I believe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:22 PM
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No it sounds very believable to me. I dated someone who broke their back. We lived in a rural area. Was due to the type of work They were doing if that is not normal to be done in other parts of the country. They did recover. Not all back fractures prevent people from walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:16 PM
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Seems like he's fishing for people to say that it's okay to bail out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:47 AM
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Next time someone isn't into you and then block and delete. I don't really understand why you were talking to him and it seems like you were over his place if you said you end up sleeping with him in his bed on a low-value date which wasn't a date anyway It was a hang out with one of his friends there. He doesn't talk to you, he ignores you. You meet him online and you gauge his interest by him viewing your Instagram stories... That's not okay. But like I said in the first sentence next time you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:09 AM
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You're never supposed to go out on a date if your broke. That's what my mom told me. Always have enough CASH to pay for your meal and cab/rideshare. It is a precaution. I don't pay for dates but the cash and paying is for rare emergency situations like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:09 PM
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I would not paid for anyone else's food and would have opened my mouth immediacy and say no, not down the middle and state what I had. Then paid and left. I can't understand how she allowed that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:06 PM
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I sub to wallstreet bets and am in the market too but he is a bum. You work to have money to invest. Not mooch off of others and make them fund your bad choices. Yes, the market is shit and he doesn't care. He needs to get a job or she needs to get a divorce. It seems like he isn't ever going to work again if he can get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:04 PM
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That was creepy and a weird exchange. I'd been scared to keep talking to him after he said, "I guess I pushed you away. If you don't want to date, then we could just talk." Sounds like a nut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:58 PM
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I agree. I grew up pretty well off we were probably middle class, to upper middle class. Never grew up in the hood, don't have family members from the hood. Don't know anything about that type of upbringing and the mental damage that it can bring. But you are right. You cannot date people who are from the hood, I can't even hang around them. The mentality is very different, sometimes it can get very hostile. Also, the constantly exposing them to things that are normal to you. Going to plays or t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:58 PM
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We all judge. Saying you don't judge/try not to judge is more of a cliche for modern times and pop culture. If you don't judge, but we all do, then you're not discerning and you're not making good decisions. Never feel bad about judging any person or any situation based on the facts before you. Lastly, you don't have to be friends with anyone that you don't want to. Don't feel bad about cutting people off. I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:29 AM
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I don't even understand how that is a conversation? Why are you telling someone which you did sexually with another person? Such low self-esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:00 PM
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At the end of this I actually laughed. What the heck is she thinking? She went on a park date with a homeless man who certainly has skid marks in his underwear. Not okay. Then she marries him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:05 PM
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I'm ready to throw up 🤢. I can't stand all the empty and superfluous words and the lack of balls to directly ask her out on a date, like chump. Then to top it off, to ask her what she thinks about a date. Super loser and not worthy of a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:47 PM
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Amazing job! I want to build a fence around my future home too 🙏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:41 PM
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I know it seems nice and wholesome but I am concerned that they are talking about long-term relationships. Not marriage, not seeking a lifelong partner but just another succession of serial relationships. That doesn't move me at all when a man talks about wanting to be in a long-term relationship. That's another nothing. I don't want to be in a long-term relationship. I want a lifelong partner, marriage. There's a huge difference in that and words have meaning. All I hear is that there is anothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:01 AM
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One of my jobs and one of my professions is a CNA and that's sick. Women do get raped in nursing homes. If you weren't aware And it's not uncommon. They are one of the most vulnerable populations. The men know what they're doing and they're aware that she is confused. They're sexual predators. She's not getting propositioned. She's getting preyed upon. Let's not confuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:55 AM
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I believe it, because people, kids and adults over share too much and tell too much about thier lives and are always giving up their private details. Even down to where they live, work, go to school and where they are at the moment, to the point of putting themselves in danger. It is completely plausible real life. My now grown son had in his school curriculum about online privacy, revealing information, not sexting and more. This was in elementary school. He is a millennial and doesn't have an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:00 PM
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This is just another reason why I love FDS. I tried online dating about 4 years ago. It only took me a couple weeks and going on a date with one man to realize online dating was trash. Yet, any other woman I have this conversation with acts as if I have a screw loose when I say so and tries to convince me through ridiculous arguments that I am wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:58 PM
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My parents raised me to not be a fool. I don't understand getting pissy drunk. I have always turned down getting drunk and partying when I was younger and with friends if they would not all pitch in for a limo or a taxi. I don't trust friends and acquaintances to keep me safe. I always get called a victim blamer by stupid liberal woman. Just for being accountable to my self and living in the real world. Getting piss ass drunk to the point that you are a danger to yourself and can't tell whose ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:49 AM
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Actually you can. It's just making excuses and choosing not to be a parent. No, your kid won't be an outcast. That's your thought process and what you made up in your head to justify that reasoning. My son was never an outcast And I had friends who were decent and from decent homes as a result. I did prevent him from having a smartphone by not giving him one. It didn't hurt him. It's just sad that you somehow believe that's unnecessarily strict. Raising our children is the most important thing. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:37 PM
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I agree people should boycott dating apps. I tried dating apps but unfortunately I had too much class and too high standards. I met two people in person. Went out on a date and never talked to them again. They were both trash and obviously wanted to have sex with a stranger. That was my results after sifting through much trash. Just to find out the alleged high caliber ones were trash too. I had one man who was an attorney. Say to me at the end of our date... Do you want to see where I live? Hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:19 PM
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It was easy for me. I'm the parent. Why would I cave into a kid? There's no need for the internet on the phone; we have the internet at home. There is nowhere that a teenager would be, that I don't know and take them to and pick them up from. All they need to be able to do at most is have a phone that calls. Nothing else And even the computer had to be in the living room so it can't be hidden what they're doing. It's not hard to be a parent unless you're scared to enforce rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:10 PM
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He did not ask for my number. Even if he had I would have said no. He was not my type and he was dressed very street thuggish. But the point is the expectation and the anger that came out of his mouth and his belief that doing something for a woman, a stranger at that, warrants him the opportunity to be with me. I couldn't tell you what he was thinking. Was he thinking that he opened the door and I'm supposed to stop right there and then start throwing myself at him? I don't know but that behavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:44 PM
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Very true I don't even bother smiling at male strangers anymore. I was leaving Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf one day and a man kindly opened the door for me and held it open. I smiled And then it turned into... Hey, in a low seductive tone as he then looked me up and down. I walked off so fast. Heterosexual men and women are not friends. A lot of Heterosexual men take smiling, polite conversation, And even holding the door open & compliments as flirtations. I do not talk to men unless I am interested…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:19 PM
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When anyone tries to change a conversation and say not all men or not all whatever you're talking about. Understand they are derailing you and trying to make you second-guess yourself. It's just like when people say don't judge. Because to not judge is not to discern. It is not to make a decision based on the information put before you. It calls for you to not use your brain.They are trying to derail, gaslight and shut you up for calling them out for doing what is often morally and ethically wro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:33 PM
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This is why I don't believe in this alleged right to privacy in a sense. I don't believe in it when it comes to parents who think they should not go through their children's things nor do I believe in it in relationships. In my opinion the only people who support this are people who know they are doing wrong. Because omission of the truth is lying. Having secrets that you know are wrong is lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:29 PM
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But yet she's not embarrassed to say the father of her child is not her husband. Lmao. He doesn't think enough of her to make her his wife. She is delusional He just hasn't left yet. In my book if you're not married and you have kids then he's not really there anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:48 PM
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I definitely believe it's going to happen also. In the beginning of the pandemic I wrote an article and posted it online about dating during the pandemic and why it is not a good idea. Because many men and women too but I'm specifically talking about men. Many men will be dating just to get your resources and take advantage of you. They don't want you they just need a warm body, someone to talk to and company because they cannot get out and date multiple women, as they could before the pandemic.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:43 PM
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Great piece. I personally believe that FWB, sex positive, pro sex work ( and I used that term very loosely) is nothing more than showing men all the women who has the lowest self esteem and are easy pickings. I never believed that having a FWB is a friend. I think it is embarrassing and unfortunately sad to think so little of yourself. There is nothing beneficial in sleeping around and giving it a less hard sounding name like FWB. You are having sex with men who do not like you and don't give a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:48 PM
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I am also from the school of if you didn't like me then then you can't like me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:54 PM
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I won't even acknowledge people who use the term, "wifey". WTF is that other than some allegedly sounding cute term to make you feel like something that you are not. Which is a wife. Wifey is the language of losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:52 PM
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I just don't allow a male to date me through text. It's very simple. If a man asks for my number and says they will text men, I respond and say, NO, you can call me. If a man still tries to text me and asks me WYD or anything then I don't ever respond. People treat you exactly how you show them. If a man says when are you ever going to let me take you out then they are done. Either you ask me out on a date or not. No beating around the bush. If a man say we should "hang out". Then I say that I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:47 PM
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What happened to that being common? That was how my aunt's household was ran too. When payday came, her husband handed the check over to her and she managed everything well. People have gotten so far off track. I imagine that men who live this way as less likely to cheat too because they can't be secretive with the income, have hidden habits and purchases and whatever else comes with that. They actually work together and have common goals, instead of like two roommates with separate lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:31 PM
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She needs a divorce. It's only going to get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:54 PM
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Do you have someone that you can stay with until you move in and have you considered asking can you move in early. I've asked in the past could I move in before the lease officially started and my landlord said yes. Also, get you locks on your car changed and have it checked for any portable and removable ntracking devices. I'd also check under the car seats with a flashlight for recording equipment. Lastly, it is never a good idea to lend your car to anyone. Especially if that is your only mode…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:40 AM
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Oh no! That's a bit scary. I am so sorry that happened to you. I don't how some people think that forcing themselves on you is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:25 AM
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I am a bit paranoid about kissing. I have parents that work in the medical field. It's probably why I don't hookup, have casual sex or believing kissing guys too soon is okay becuase cold sores are herpes simples 1 and you can catch it before you see a visible outbreak. I don't want to be stuck with that. My parents have got me like.....Nope, I need to know you for a good long while and see what you may have and not disclosing. I trust no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:02 AM
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Thank you! I listened & learned from my mother, grandmother and uncles and family members,when I was in my youth. I guess they were FDS before FDS even existed. I am so glad I heeded their advice. Who knows where I would be today if I was hard headed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:04 AM
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I think its important to teach your children to be resilient and also that beauty is subjective. It doesn't matter what anyone think about your looks. Beauty is defined by each individual and different for each person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:24 PM
51

They aren't. They are running errands and housework. I've met men who have asked me that. I just ignore them and don't talk to them ever again and don't take their calls ever again. No explanation, no saying anything. I've always been very hardcore about being dated. I don't even let people know where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:06 PM
19

That is disgusting! I can not stand any man or woman who indulges in carnal, vulgar or lowbrow behavior, humor or conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:58 PM
6

You will overcome this situation. Be safe and take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:07 PM
30

You should call the police. Also you should not be talking to him. Your brother's cousin is a relation to you. That's when you get into the once removed and twice removed, etc.That's not okay and very inappropriate. Set boundaries. Stop letting men have access to you. He told you he wanted you. Please, be more careful. You tell that man not to contact you again, block his number and file a restraining order or any paperwork you need to begin a paper trail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:14 PM
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I absolutely HATE that. I'm a bit over 5'9" And too many times men will lie and say they are 5'10" or 6-ft. I don't need to tilt my head to look up to a man who 6-ft tall. But often my gaze go slightly down. They will try to convince you that you are wrong about your height rather than tell the truth and admit they're a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:22 PM
72

Same here. I'm over 5' ft 9" and short guys who wanted to date me complain too damn much about their height. I don't want to hear their insecurities. I don't go around complaining about how many tall men seem to prefer dating a very short woman and that shrinks my pool. I just deal with life instead of complaining to anyone who will hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:15 PM
20

Let's not overlook it is a woman who was comparing us to cryptocurrency. She does not know her worth and she is a pickme FYI. She is a problem and should not be overlooked. I am in the cryptocurrency community. Earn some money ladies, cryptocurrency and stocks are not a bad thing. But her comment and her logic is. I will always judge people by their actions and their words no matter what their gender because that benefits me to vet everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:20 AM
34

I was warned about older men before I started dating and I've always heeded the advice and have never dated a significantly older. It doesn't matter how much older that I get, I still will not date significantly older men. They are mentally off and are preying on the naivety and lack of knowledge of someone younger. Even as an older women who is open about my age. Men and women keep being shocked at my age and think I am nearly 20 years younger and that can be a huge drawback too. Men who are ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:17 PM
14

Only losers say that. We are not equal to each other and that is a fact. Men are equal to men, not women and I don't ever entertain those kind of conversations with ignorant losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:59 PM
1

Well that's an empirical and scientific fact. But they would definitely have no problems claiming that men and women are physically equal. Which because when they say that type of mess you know that they are violent and are pretending to be obtuse about the differences between men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:32 AM
1

I've said it to many men who have tried to persue me and they get nowhere with me and it is very true. I am not like other girls. I've never been. They are used to trashy women who put up with poor treatment and have no standards. There is nothing wrong in my book about sending out the warning. I am not like other girls so beware and back off. When you know your worth then you aren't afraid to send out the warning shots and make the bums scatter. So once again... I'm not like those other girls s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:04 PM
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I can't believe someone would put that in their profile. That means they are an immature and underachieving man. No thank you. Every character is wacky and extremely flawed. Stanley has to be the most sane individual in the entire office. He knows his coworkers are nuts. He is there for his paycheck and is there only to do his job and refuses to get sidetracked and participate in any stupidity. He truly does not care and is the king of not being bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:27 AM
119

He certainly was an a-hole. It was a funny show. I hope people are not basing their lives on entertainment. That's a whole issue in it's self that needs to be addressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:44 AM
11

I has an ex who would use scenarios from movies and TV shows to draw examples and make a point. Like I would say to until he finally cut that crap out. I don't care. We are talking about real life and not a fantasy. Do not draw life experience from imaginary sources. Do not talk to me like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:38 AM
5

This must be a joke and I obviously need my eyes checked. LMAO! Oh hell no. This busted, weird acting bum seems and looks like he dates baby mama's on welfare. He needs to GTFOH and any woman who gets taken by this dust cloud, needs a head doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:37 PM
29

I've never cared about making anyone wait. I don't even look at it as someone waiting. I don't sleep around. I don't believe in it and I never will. My body is the only thing that I truly possess and have total ownership of. I know for a fact that I am precious. Having sex casually And just having a multitude of partners, to me is one of the lowest things that I could do to myself. I would never be happy living that way. Not everyone deserves or has a right to see me naked and enter my body. Tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:36 AM
9

Trutfully I don't date or allow myself to befriended by so called Woke people, BLM people, Pro Blacks, Social Justice Warriors, people who use the word shaming to shut down conversations. No people who try police what you can say either and people who talk all that positive BS and shut out reality. I find them to be mentally off, mean and always ready to argue. As well as the fakest, evil and most duplicitous back stabbers and illogical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:49 PM
7

I don't feel sorry for her and I am tired of this culture of no accountability for your actions and pretending as if you don't know the head from your behind. She is on OF and naked. No one leaked her pictures. The internet is public. SHE is responsible for her treatment that she receives in the case. This is what she was seeking. She choose to get naked for money. Her family isn't talking to her and that's her fault. She knew the consequences. If she was so proud of being naked and stripping an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:41 PM
4

Heck, being non judmental and not judging is just and lie and a cliche and people say that to gaslight you and make you shut up. We all judge. Every human judges and only fools in my opinion say don't judge. I've learned to dissociate myself from anyone who says that crap. I have to judge everything that is before me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:33 PM
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As someone who works in education. Remember its the parents fault. I can't agree with that. The kids model the parents behavior and attitude. They listen to their parents, who tell the that they can do what they want. They can go to the bathroom when they want ( every 20/30 minutes.) My mom says I don't have to do this, my dad says I don't have to do that, etc. My mom said I don't have to do this homework and I can do this assignment instead. Or the problem is huge and rampant. They can't be dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:57 AM
1

I think sometimes it comes down to just not being concerned with someone has to say or think. Also, not giving people the opportunity to have a comment on your life. If you know you are around negative and hateful people and then why tell your personal business and your goals. I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:20 AM
7

Oh my gosh. The audacity of this profile is beyond shocking. How can you be so comfortable with being an underachieving bum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:51 PM
4

I'd rather just block, delete, ghost or walk away with them. I don't want to talk to a man that has no problem openly disclosing that he only into my body and could care less about me as another human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:17 AM
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I don't give a damn if you don't like my opinion but you don't ever come on FDS and call people out of their name and insult them. You need to get your act together And learn how to communicate with some decorum and class. What the hell is wrong with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:28 AM
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Sex work is an oxymoron. Because sex is not work. It will always be prostitution to me. The best thing we can do as woman is the truthful and not coddle them. They don't care about us or FDS. Just because they're a woman doesn't make them a supporter of other women. They are complicit in destroying and degrading women. I think the best thing that many of us can do is to shun them until they come around and if they don't then so be it. But to continue to act as if these alleged sex workers are so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:56 PM
1

YOu really should not be telling stranger where you live or letting them come over for any reason, or spend the night. You should not tell men what your standards are. Or anyone. All people do who are manipulators and deceitful do is parrot what you say and pretend to be the person that you told them that you want. You should be meeting men in public and driving your own car and if they don't like it then you block and ignore them. There is no need to put yourself in that position. All men that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:21 AM
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Actually she should sell it. That way she can legally get him out without spending money on an eviction. Then buy the house that she wants, near her parents and he can't legally do shit about it or move in with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:06 AM
1

What a bum. He's living off of her and she's letting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:49 AM
4

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:27 PM
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I don't know what his problem was but he was manipulating you and he knew it. Also, there is no reason to go to counseling with someone that you are not married to. For what reason? To waste money and prolong ending a non committed relationship? No counseling sessions for dating relationships. Just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:06 PM
1

It's ok. I know it can be hard to be a FDS woman. We all have our moments. Even myself. I'm sorry that my standards, being assertive and choosing not to be a Pickmiesha and accepting any kind of mistreatment, as well as being strong rubs you the wrong way. Good luck to you and your journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:11 AM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMe9G9WK1/ They are always fucking. Never think otherwise there are numerous women who have sex with thier fake male friends. No man is friends with a woman. Never deal with men who are friends with women. They are actively dating them. It's not a friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:57 AM
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I don't understand women who entertain, talk to and befriend people like this. If you're talking about your vagina on social media, in public, or to men then you are trash in my book. I've really got no time for this kind of low brow conversation. Its just crass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:23 AM
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Linked In doesn't show who viewed your profile if they choose to do it in private mode. I'd contact the legal department at your job and HR. So they have the heads up if he decides to follow through. I've done in over someone threading to call my job over a fake lawsuit. I cut them off at the knees, before they could strike and its documented and they know any crazy calls are from a loon and ignored. I don't think anyone needs a Linked in anyway. Its giving up too much privacy and a resume works…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:24 PM
1

He lost me at "get together". WTH is that? If a man doesn't ask to take me out on a date and use the word date then I don't talk to him. I can't even comprehend the words, "let's get together", "hang out", "spend time with you"; "get to know you", "do something". I've got no time for anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:25 PM
6

I hate to say it but as a Black woman who didn't grow up in Black communities and environments, exposure to rap music from birth and everything else that goes with it. I am so glad that I didn't because a lot of those that are from it, are negative, verbally abusive, threatening. Masters of gaslighting, teaching hate and abusive behavior. I feel bad for people who didn't have the same opportunity as me because its just a negative ass environment and no one should ever put up with that type of br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:04 PM
17

He reminds me of an old neighbor that I was friends with. I worked from home. She was always knocking on my door in the morning, mid-day and throughout the early afternoon. Even I told her repeatedly. Just because I am at home does not mean I am free and available. I am working! I finally just ignored her knocks and calls until after 4. WTH is so hard to understand? She is actually working more hours than him but because she is at home. Their thick skulled idiot brains seem to think the means th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:14 PM
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Personally I think all the self adulations need to go. I can't stand if someone refers to be as a Black Queen or sis, or any overly effusive and fake title. I find that insulting and weird that someone needs to keeping reminding me I'm Black and it doesn't give me some magical or special quality and also why in the hell is someone giving me all these false compliments? Because they want something from me and trying to make me feel special and get me to put my guard down. I just need normal peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:34 AM
11

I'd just delete them if it were me. Feelings don't matter and it's rude as hell to burden someone else with their irrational, mental health issues. I don't deal with fragile people who try to force people to kiss their behind or try to censor my words. I've got no time or tolerance for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:25 AM
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I've been doing that my whole life it seems. Some people don't get me but I don't care. I'd rather be friendless and loveless. Rather than allow any man or woman to treat me poorly. I just don't have the tolerance fore BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:20 AM
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3/4 years ago she was in my Dr's. office at the same time as me. He gives recommendations for medical marijuana and I was there to get my yearly renewal. Now, being that she was a teen and very well known and this was in Hollywood. That should tell you something. Her mother is a piece of scum and is very pro raunchy and whorish behavior. She wouldn't be able to get a recommendation on her own and there was no reason for her to be in that office, with me. She was probably 14 years old and still i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:09 AM
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Please understand that men are not your friends. You need to understand that you were dating/courting. Don't hang out with men. That is a date. Don't....let's be friends. That's dating. Don't even say FWB because they aren't your friends. If you aren't interested in dating a men then you don't talk to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:57 AM
6

Same here. Younger men approach me because we look the same age. Most men my age look horrible. I don't understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:45 AM
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Why is she debasing herself and why is she willing to kiss a strange man? See this crap right here really makes me mad. WHat's wrong with her. She wasn't tricked. She wanted to kiss him, a stranger, and be tik toc, infamous. How about women teach thier daughters self-esteem and not to be pick me's and call out that needy as behavior. I wouldn't have because I wouldn't be standing there. I'd not agree to kiss a strange dude. Like WTH? Why does she like this type of interaction. That is my problem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:16 AM
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What did she expect? She met a guy online and MOVED him into her place a month later. I can't feel sorry for her. As a friend she'd be a safety liability to me and I wouldn't be able to be friends with her. I'm all for calling out nasty scrotes but she is her own worst problem until she stop behaving like that. I ended a friendship with a friend, who continually dated low-class bums. Because she was a bum too and was fine with low class, worthless men. She loves bums and if she doesn't have a pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:03 AM
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Maybe you don't need a therapist "who understands that "communicate" is demonstrable bullshit." Maybe you need to not to look for acceptance in strangers and make them agree with you? Why are you there and seeking their approval? You are supposed to be getting help and non judgment. You know what's right and wrong so why are you seeking approval and paying for a therapist that you can't talk to. That seems like a toxic relationship? Get out and maybe stop looking for a therapist to confirm what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:46 AM
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I have 1 suggestion. Stop telling your business. Stop telling your personal business to you're coworkers. You give the invitation to critique your personal life and they wouldn't be able to call you picky if you keep your private affairs to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:16 AM
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Men are not your friends. Drop all pretend male friends. You either date them and eliminate them or tell them no immediately when approached with fake friendship and ignore. Nothing in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:07 AM
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Derrick Jackson had nothing to offer. I've seen maybe a total of 20 of his videos in his Youtube career. NO ONE should ever take advice from single people or young married folks. Only experts. So if you are not a long-term, happily married, then you're not successful. Stop listening to F students and looks for A+ students. Derrick couldn't tell me shit because he hasn't been around long enough or had the evidence to prove he is successful. All he had was mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:00 AM
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He isn't teaching anyone a lesson. He compensating for the fact that he is aware that he is a loser and the women aren't into him and he doesn't measure up. What a crock of bullcrap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:54 AM
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I can defiantly see that. Remember that the MAJORITY of Americans are overweight and that is not to be disputed at all. So for the majority, it would be fine for them. Might be a self-esteem issue. They seek what they are and probably attract the easiest. Nearly 40% of American adults aged 20 and over are obese. 71.6% of adults aged 20 and over are overweight, including obesity. (National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey, 2017-2018; Harvard School of Public Health, 2020)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:26 PM
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I make it clear to not touch me to the children, parents, and staff and I do tell the to back up a foot or two when they come too close. I always protect my reputation. I've never been touched in anyway, incase anyone has that idea but no touching. That needs to taught and enforced. I don't care about their feelings in that area. They need to learn. No rubbing against my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:03 PM
11

I don't like that and I work in a school. I get weird looks from parents and staff and I know its because I don't hug and I tell them no and stop people. I tell students to stand back and back up. 1st it's weird. Also, I'm tall and that lends to inappropriate hand placement. It is against policy and also...why if the hell does and stranger think they should be touching me and hugging me. I think the ones who need to always touch people are mentally soft and need help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:59 AM
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I don't agree. He isn't Anti Black. He just isn't of the school of thought that just because you're Black, you get a pass. There are many of us out here who think like that. My color doesn't absolve me from being accountable. He also doesn't go by the imaginary code that you can't talk about Black people who are destructive, unless its in a positive light. No matter what. Anti Black is a term that is thrown around too much at Black people, like myself who aren't urban and accept nonsense an are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:29 AM
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That's because we are not equal and that is the scam. Being told that we are. Human beings should all have the same rights and advantages. That is the equality that we are taking about. But that doesn't mean we are equal as physical human beings. If men and women were equal then we'd all be the same sex. Men would date thier equals which are men and the same for women. Men know we aren't actually equal to each other and we are different from each other. Especially physically and this is where th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:03 AM
20

They only threaten us to manipulate us to giving them sex with no strings attached and I don't want to do that at all. They don't care about us being single. They only care about breaking down a women's self-esteem enough, so that they can have a plethora of mindless and broken whores to pleasure them. They're mad that they can't access our bodies, see our bodies and use them. Which is probably why men rape women. Because they believe they are entitled to any woman's body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:54 AM
7

He could if he wanted to but he doesn't want to. Just lip service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:51 AM
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Real people like people with real emotions and thoughts who aren't afraid to express themselves. Toxic positivity and never criticizing men or anyone is not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:34 AM
2

The one time that I tried OLD. I met one guy for a date. The next day he asked me for a pic. I asked why because that ish is weird to ask for pictures. I said you know what I look like, you've seen my pictures online and we've been out, what do you need a picture for? He starts fumbling and trying to make up something that would sound logical. I ended up cursing him out and of course, never heard from him again. Even though he didn't say, I know that he has to be a pervert and he doesn't need pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:19 AM
6

They don't care because they don't care about you anyway. It doesn't matter if you like pictures of buff men. Just leave and don't play games. The is nothing to gain from being in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:02 AM
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What is she talking about? She hasn't even had a date yet? She met a man and shared a meal that she treated herself too and she went to go visit/hang out and a someone's house. SHe's got it all wrong. She is just a woman that he is loosely acquainted with and will have sex with and that is all. He doesn't like her, he's passing time with whoever crosses his path. Even before I had my first date. I was taught that you don't "house date". That's not dating, that's just being loose. SMH, women aren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:54 AM
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I think OLD is horrible. I would never use it. I tried once but the two people I met were bums and every man that tried to communicate was either a pervert, degenerate or openly a sex fiend and looking to hook up. Also, I get mistaken for being a good decade + younger than I am. So if you look young. Online dating is going to bring a lot more crazies and perverts. Having a much younger-looking woman is a big score for them and an ego boost. Since they can't attract young women unless they pay th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:33 AM
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I can't tell that she doesn't like and not amused. Since she should never have gotten in the car anyway. This video shows me that she likes his behavior, might even find it funny and fine putting up with it, and will continue to, for likes on social media. Ladies need to stop making and posting videos like this and remove themselves from the situation. It's like a game that she choosing to play. I'm kind of confused about the purpose of this video? She knowingly got in the car and sat in the bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:09 AM
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100% If you are unmarried then you are single. I don't play the fake commitment. I had and ex's brother call me the sister in law, in front of his family. I told him in from of everyone to not call me that. I don't lie and play the fake family. They will not pump my head up and pretend like I am family when I am not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:24 AM
4

This is interesting because I have a young adult, male on the spectrum. High on the spectrum and his isn't like this. He is rather smart and aware even though he has some deficits and a good person. I think that if someone is high on the spectrum and in the working work too. Then they are also cognizant of what is appropriate, socially acceptable and illegal. If he is high on the spectrum then I think he is aware and using his disability to get away with being a pervert. He knows what he's is do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:06 AM
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Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:36 PM
5

I remember several years ago when going to a donut shop before work. A man started to harass me for change. Another man got out his car a screamed at him and him and told him to stop begging women for money...you know better that to be asking woman for money...you should be ashamed of yourself I realized from that day that men approach women for help, money, directions etc., because we are easy targets. I ignore men asking me for anything now. There is almost no reason, in modern society that a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:25 PM
10

You did the right thing. We are not just objects to be entertained until we give it up. Congrats on not lowering your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:44 PM
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Thank you. She said it. That woman is so male identified and a serious pickme and just happy to neg another women and gaslight her. That is nothing but jealously when you nit pick and and teardown something that another person has and you don't posses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:44 PM
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Yes, it is. I wish women would not do that. ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that you achieve successfully is an acomplishment. In ANY and all areas of our lives. I always take when anyone downplays anything that I do as jealous and mean and form of negging and distance myself from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:20 PM
21

Yes, he does. He is a nepotism kid. Don't forget his last name is really Coppala and that probably why he can get young women. His name and money. Him and the not the best actor Jason Schwartzman are Coppala's. They are faux broke rich kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:23 AM
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This video was done in DEC 2019. He did a video recently and pranked her and made her think her got her a wedding ring and was finally proposing. Thats is pitiful. He keeps humiliating her and she just accepts it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:04 AM
3

This is sick. I really don't like men after reading so many of these types of thoughts. It makes it real hard. This sick man justified cheating and dismissed her being raped and somehow twisted it to the boyfriend being raped too. WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:55 AM
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Does she not understand he just gave her a big old...Bitch please, I'm not marrying you. How is she still there? She is talking about engagement rings and he really just said....FU, let me tell you about my shit from my ass and that is what I think you are. He just equated her needs with shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:46 AM
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I can believe it. I guess I have to admit it even if I don't acknowledge it that I am an attractive woman and that seems to big a big problem from some women. I also happen to be tall and slender. I thought some of the hate I get would stop as I age but it hasn't. I'm in my 40's and it seems to get worse at times and look young too. So that doesn't help people like me any better. I don't flirt, have high standard, not promiscuous, dress modest, casually & not trendy, tight-lipped about my person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:58 PM
8

You know that sounds just like the old TV show Kate & Allie. Ha! 2 single, divorced moms who lived together, shared a home and helped with each others kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:22 PM
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Most men and women don't use the word date anymore and that's what I commenting about. That's a red flag and a no-no. Not asking for a date or not calling a date what it is. Not using the word date. I'm not speculating about what he could be thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:30 AM
20

He found you through using Google image search. Just in case you didn't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:43 PM
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I'll start with the last paragraph and the question that you ask. You should not be asking any man out for dinner and drinks. So your question doesn't matter. Just stop talking to him and block his number. As for the guy. I don't do bait and switch. The last time some man tried that with me, I walked out on the date and never talked to them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:41 PM
21

I ignore people who say hang out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:04 PM
12

What is so hard about saying the damn truth. Which is that they haven't been out on a date yet and have on talked? I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone and the only one with any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:02 PM
6

Exactly! I never heard my father being asked or told to cook dinner, vacuum the floors, clean the kitchen or cut grass, do laundry etc. I just saw my father get up and do it. Oh, hear him exclaim to himself...Why is the house a mess and get to work. I never heard anyone in the house girls or boys being told that they had to clean because it was their job because of their gender. It was required because it was all of our homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:40 PM
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I didn't mention online dating. You just did when you introduced it into the conversation right now. As for strangers, that is exactly what the majority of men are. Men aren't friends. So they can't be more than a mutual acquaintance and even still. They are strangers. If you don't know them personally, grew up with someone, know their friends and family from living side by side in the same community. Then they are strangers. So that is why I said it is a stranger. Men who are interested, take y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:14 PM
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Why would you have sex with someone just because they took you on 3 or 4 dates? It's still a complete stranger. That you have been acquainted with for a few hours. Why? You know the cashier at the local grocery just as well as him and that's not saying anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:00 PM
4

I hate that behavior. Not knowing where to go and not using directions and refusing to listen to you if you know the way. Because thier ego can't handle being given directions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:44 PM
6

If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIM You are probably right. I added an online subscription of workout videos since the pandemic. But if you you couldn't afford to buy equipment then you can't workout. Everything was on short supply and out of stock for so long. If I didn't have an old weight set that I had stored away years ago and a plethora of equipment already. Then I'd not be able to lift like at the gym and having the space is necessary. Yes, Covid is really showing the differen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:04 AM
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Sue him in civil court for harassment. Start seeing a therapist so you can support claiming ptsd, emotional distress or something like that. Put up motion cameras too. Civil cases are easier and he's already given you written evidence. He is really brazen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:06 PM
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I never liked a lot of these couple vlogs, tin Tok, pranks. I used to but I noticed how often the women are debasing themselves and exposing themselves for jokes and the don't benefit from it. It very pick me and then they get dumped and on the another and then these all this couples contents that can never be erased. I just don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:36 PM
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I was shocked that happened. Usually, people are biased and hold their own children to higher standards. So I thought Sofia would be more reigned in since she's his bio child. That is F'd up. That's 2 kids in a row that he let be F'd up. I can't imagine what Nicole's bio family was feeling thinking while watching all her drugs and anorexic issues. Because they are in Hollywood too. He can't raise children at all or nurture them and install good self-esteem. Maybe all that cheating was getting in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:55 AM
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I ordered a sign from Amazon that says do not knock or ring bell, no uninvited guest of unexpected callers. Working at Home. Someone actually ignored the sign the other day. Just because they could hear that I was home and see me inside. I still ignored them. Get a good sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:42 AM
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He has always been scum with women. He cheated on his 1st wife. The one he was married to when he adopted Nicole. He has always been a cheater and was probably cheating thronghout his 1st marriage. His wife could have left unencumbered and forgot about him since they didn't have any of their own kids. But he had to keep playing around until he got caught and created a 4ever connection with the 1st wife that he emotionally abused. That. is the real Lionel Richie and may it never be forgotten. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:44 AM
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He jealous and insecure. He wants you to be unattractive looking. My first serious relationship, I came into so extra money and decided to get my front teeth fixed. My LVM let is slip out....but you're going to get your teeth fixed and leave me! Men can kiss my butt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:26 AM
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He is an abuser and psycho. Why would he tell you that? So you'd be scared of him and do what he wants, Wth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:35 PM
21

Years ago I met this get on the tennis courts while playing. He was a semi pro player. We chatted on the phone a few times a he planned a date. We planned to meet in Hollywood at a nice upscale bar, then, dinner and dancing. Well, the date arrives and I get to the bar and it starts off fine. I have my drink, always keeping my hand over it. While chatting he says...Change of plans. I thought we'd go back to my place and I make you dinner then head to the club. I live near by. I said no. The plan …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:38 PM
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I thought all men want to have sex. Why else would they go out of their way and be nice for no reason and without incentive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:41 PM
10

I Just died. I love it. I'm going to start playing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:12 PM
4

Men can be hateful and jealous. I have always been told how funny and witty I am from men and women. I am comedic. I know for a fact that I am funny. The room always reflects it. My stupid LVM ex had the nerve to tell me that I am not witty. That shit shook my f'n confidence for a long time. He was jealous. He was not a funny guy. He had stories but he wasn't funny or quick-witted with responses. He was insecure and jealous and that was his way of making himself feel superior to me. Even if it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:16 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened. I really don't know what to suggest other than to end it. I only say that because my standards are no inviting men over, no house dates and no casual sex, kissing etc. So I think it may be hard to recover if he's came over again and now its a booty-call situation. Get rid of him and start over. So you can start on a more fulfilling path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:41 AM
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Did she really say her man. Never will call someone my man to cover up the lack of real commitment. It obviously can't be a husband and if so then she needs to get a divorce. That is disgusting and unsanitary as well and controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:56 PM
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Years ago I worked with a woman who was probably 22-24 and she had a kid about 8 years old. She was with a man that was old enough to be her grandfather. He was at least 80, she lived with him and was a family friend when she was growing up. It was sick. She would brag about him a said she use to sit on his lap when she was a little girl. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:39 PM
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I agree. I lot of men my age are unattractive to me and too out of shape. Most men are not taking care of themselves at all. Yet they still have the nerve to think they should have an attractive and in shape woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:11 AM
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