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Well, like you said, they don't view me as a prize... If I don't text them, they wont text me either, and if I try to set something up, they flake... I don't see how you can make someone like you if they don't by ignoring them...
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:47 PM
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Well, short of a miracle, I don't see how that's going to happen... The usual advice is eat healthy / lift / get your career going etc... I've done all that. So, what am I missing?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:41 PM
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I have no issue with being confident in what I know, it's what I don't know I'm not confident in. I can't be confident in my ability to pick up women, because I've not had a successful track record of it. I am very confident I can walk into a gym and throw weight around, or train someone else on how to do it, or play guitar in public / sing karaoke. But, you ask me to pick a girl and go and get her number / close with her, and yeah I can't say I know what I'm doing because I don't, I'll absolute…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:39 PM
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Yeah, in the last 2 years I've been doing this, I've never once had a girl reciprocate with a date... So, that's never happening. They act like they gave me their number to make me go away imo.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:21 PM
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Thanks for the tip, I'll just delete, but yeah, I have almost the exact same experience as you in a local bar, I play guitar there on Friday nights, karaoke on Saturdays, and I am good friends with the bartenders / their girlfriends. Problem is, none of them have any attractive friends, or their friends don't like me. I'm known as the honest, nice guy, cause that's legit me, so I don't have a player or crazy personality, I've tried faking it and it comes off REALLY bad. Like, when the girls star…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:30 PM
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I knew the second I started reading it you didn't even look at my other pictures lol, it's all good, it's a long post. Thanks bro!
/r/askTRP20/06/18 10:34 PM
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Makes sense, go where there's less competition and it's easier to stand out.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 10:27 PM
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Yeah, no I'm coming to the realization that online is impossible for me and I'm just going to have to continue working on my social retardation until it works out.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:22 PM
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This argument doesn't really make sense to me, how does a place literally dedicated to how to game women, almost ignore what I would think was a great avenue? Are we really saying online is basically on game-able?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:21 PM
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If you can provide me with any actual scientific results that show any of that works, I'd happily do it. All of the research I've done shows it's all scams and bullshit. I even did ketogenic diet for 6 months and it didn't tighten the skin at all.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:11 PM
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I wouldn't say nothing lol, 15k is still a lot of money. But, it's one of those things that if I knew chopping it off would 100% give me better results of course I'd do it no question, I'd finance it or save or whatever but i'd get it done. I'm just scared of investing that much money into my looks, only to find out it doesn't get me any better results and then I'd just feel like an idiot.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 07:09 PM
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Well, personally, I love where I'm at, I love being big like a bear. I'd love nothing more than to put on 20-30 more lbs of muscle in the next 5 - 8 years and be able to lift competitive weight. But, girls don't give a fuck if you can lift a car, in fact they seem to be turned off by it. So, it's like I can focus on what makes me happy in the form of hobby, or I can focus on getting laid which also makes me happy... they're mutually exclusive it seems.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:53 PM
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Well, I'm not talking in general... I'm talking specifically to my case, I'm assuming you read my post and looked at my pictures? I could get to 10% it's just a matter of time and diet, I'm asking specifically if it'll have the desired result I'm looking for.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:45 PM
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All I can say is it's serious, but if you think I'm trolling feel free to move on.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:40 PM
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I guess in a round about way you're saying I am being limited more by my personality than by my looks?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:11 PM
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Trying to follow this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3dajcf/the_rp_comprehensive_guide_to_dating_sites/
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:43 PM
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That was actually helpful, thank you. :)
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:51 PM
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I can, people have been telling me, even here, that I shouldn't be worried about getting laid at all, like it's not suppose to mean anything to me and that I shouldn't even care about women and then magically they'll be all over my jock, again, this is the confusing part to me. Part of me struggling with autism btw is extremes, I do tend to think in black or white, so I understand there is a grey area, but it's extremely hard for me to operate there, although you're basically saying I am because…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:02 PM
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Lol, trust me I use to depend on alcohol a lot to help slow the mind down and help me relax. I'm about to start a brand new job, but after I settle in I'm planning to take up some green alternative.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:47 PM
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While I'd definitely agree with your point of women-avoidance, I feel like it's a catch 22. I can't go online or to bars / clubs with the soul purpose of trying to bed women, because that wouldn't be focusing on myself, truth be told I'd never go to a bar / club except for the rare occasion my friends went, if it weren't for hunting women. So, I stop going to bars / clubs / online and whalla almost all of my exposure to women is gone. Yes, I still go to the grocery store or hang out with friends…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:47 PM
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I assure you, while I was trying to be a professional gamer in my 20's, there was a complete LACK of pussy in my parents basement, but I think I get where you're going with this.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:54 AM
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So, basically I fucked this up at the club somewhere, the text game is just me flailing?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:12 AM
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Sorry, I'm literally autistic, high functioning, can you help me understand the transparent part? This stuff is like voodoo to me sadly.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:09 AM
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Added photos in the original post, if you want to check them out, you can see for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:49 PM
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Well, I don't disagree that whining will get me nowhere, I'm simply explaining that washboard abs are not a possibility for me. So, let's not focus on that area, and instead play to something I can win?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:36 PM
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Well, yeah, I mean depending on how much skin I'm holding, short of a dexa scan no real way to know, should probably get one of those now that I mention it. Anyways, I'm holding let's say 15lbs of excess skin. So, really, I way about 245. Considering I'm at around 18% bodyfat atm, again, an educated guess having come up from 215 at 10% based on calipers. That's also being generous in the fat category. I'm at around 245, 18% bodyfat, holding about 200 lbs of lean mass, I'm hitting at a 24 FFMI wh…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:34 PM
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Which would include you right?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:23 PM
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Yes, my strongman coach has 20 years experience and coaches internationally / competes. He's absolutely jacked but he thinks I look far better now than I did at 200, I'm also 5x stronger which is obviously more important to him. We've talked in excess about the topic, and he thinks that abs wont really show well for me and on top of that it wont make me better at strongman, so it's not really the goal anyway.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:20 PM
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Ok, so unrealistic expectations, fair enough. I'd never step foot in a bar if it wasn't for the allure of women. I personally find them annoying, they're loud and I don't really give a crap about sports other than UFC, and if I want to drink it's a hell of a lot cheaper to buy it from a store.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:18 PM
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Just listened to that a couple weeks ago, and it was very motivating for sure. Got me to jump out of an airplane which was something I've had a phobia of my entire life. That being said, I've had 10% bodyfat and it wasn't a good look. This is about the best example I can find, but I'm not this bad: https://cdn-maf0.heartyhosting.com/sites/muscleandfitness.com/files/styles/desktop_responsivecustom_user_desktop_1x/public/media/john-david-gaude-weight-loss-skin.jpg?itok=Fb0ECHha&timestamp=141563487…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 06:11 PM
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Well, I mean how do you define healthy? My blood work, and blood pressure are fantastic. My conditioning is very good, it's actually my best event in strongman. As for surgery, yes I could pay 15k to get that done, but I trade some saggy skin for Frankenstein... I mean is that really a better look?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:58 PM
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Oh, maybe? Should I repost it?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:50 PM
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I originally dropped to 200, my family and friends begged me to see a nutritionist, said I was killing myself to get abs. I ended up having to see a shrink for an eating disorder. Also, it turns out that you can't have abs if you have no muscle. Everyone I meet says I look WAY better now than I did at 200 especially because of all the loose skin I had, I look in proportion now. If you want I can DM you pictures later, you can tell for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:49 PM
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