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| 8 | Does abuse impact divorce settlements? | Custard_Pie_9EP | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 06:12 PM |
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| 2 | Men who got divorced, did you lose a lot of friends?I’ve experienced this even from ending short term relationships. People who couldn’t be happy for you live with a crab bucket mentality. Your life will be exponentially better after you put these types in your rear view. Divorcing friends is easier than divorcing a wife. Everything to gain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 05:00 PM |
| 12 | Wife asked for divorce but it’s very confusedThe sex you had is “breakup sex”. Some of my best sexual experiences had been this type. Enjoy it for what it was and not tie emotions to it. She’s been your one true love since a young age. At 26, she’s shopping for something greener and likely already have someone else already. All women branch swings. Never once in my entire lifetime had I ever see a woman leave without having a back up plan first. Not even abused women. You haven’t even hit your prime yet as a man in your mid 20’s. Your wife… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong to divorce simply because I’m not “feeling it” anymore? No kidsIf you were the woman asking the same question, everyone would tell her to follow her feelings, maybe find future alternatives whilst still in the marriage, securing assets in secret and lawyering up even before she has that conversation with you. Anyone with a spine will agree my comment is 100% true, because this entire sub is full of men who has been blindsided by the love of their lives, and also subs geared towards women say all of this. You don’t believe me? Watch what she might do to your… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/25 01:11 PM |
| 7 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?More women are willingly to pay their own way. Women don’t date divorced men for their wallet, mostly because most divorced men don’t have money. They do it for emotional complexity and your dick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 10 | (47). Not yet divorced.Go to the gym, get your wardrobe in order, look great at all times. Be generally charming to every human being. I married quite the bitchy woman. I stopped caring about her attitude and focused on my health (physical, financial, mental). She’s now begging me for sex and I do it begrudgingly. The biggest incentive for a woman to put out is when younger, hotter, healthier women wants her man. Even in my 40’s, I’m still in great shape and surrounded by young athletic women. I don’t even care to loo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/25 03:06 PM |
| 12 | Do not sponsor a greencard EVERYou saw the red flags and chose to marry a dumpster fire who didn’t respect you. I’m not shitting on you. I have been there, as have many in this subreddit. Which is why we are here. You have done more than enough. Look out for yourself. I’m looking to end my marriage. She has improved in the last few weeks but it’s been years of suffering and even if she has completely changed (which I doubt), my scars are too deep. I’d rather be broke and alone, than live in a comfortable home without love and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Not attracted to women my own age…Happy for you man. You’ll know you are doing well if you start to get shade from some women. You will find that a lot of bitter women in high 30’s or older will start to hate on you. It will not come from happily married older women. It will come from divorcees who realize that they are not marketable compared to their ex husbands or the ones who are severely out of shape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Not attracted to women my own age…Average income in Maryland. Low 6-figures. I play broke, drove a Toyota Camry until I didn’t need a car anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Not attracted to women my own age…I’m about to turn 40. My wife is smoking hot but I’m still divorcing her. I am in good shape and probably better shape than most 20-something’s in my soccer league. I don’t try to hit on any women but I still have 25 year olds hitting on me. Get in shape. You can be like Leo too and fire your 24 yr old girlfriends when they turn 25. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 12:35 PM |
| 16 | Fell in love with a coworker..This is a men’s subreddit. Planning to cheat because of “tingles” or “feelings” sound like a teenage girl’s whims. Get a grip man. Your morals are trash. This is the type of post toxic women make in the Divorce subreddit to get likes for cheating habits, right before they divorce rape their perfectly good husbands. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)I don't know how some of you guys have dealt with it for years". I've tolerated crap for 15 months and already planning my exit. The most dangerous part was I had been physically assaulted and she has a court date due for domestic violence. Like your ex, she knows how to play the game with her mental health professionals and has gamed diagnosis to get prescription drugs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 06:31 PM |
| 12 | The idea of dating is exhausting. I want to skip ahead to where we are snuggling on the couch watching a movie.You cannot skip. You have to vet every woman hard. If you want a loyal companion, get a dog. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Does abuse impact divorce settlements?Thank you for such a detailed and thoughtful response. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Does abuse impact divorce settlements?According to the lawyer I spoke to Friday, 6 months separation, mutual consent, or irreconcilable differences are the only options. The DV counts as the 3rd option. He recommended that I file for divorced immediately after the Jan 6 court case, and get a protective order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Does abuse impact divorce settlements?I spoke to an attorney this week, and had a consultation. His recommendation was to wait until the court case in January, ask for a Protective Order, and divorce her after. No disrespect felt. I need the directness. As for Maryland comment, is there an issue I need to be aware of? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Does abuse impact divorce settlements?No kids fortunately. Sorry to hear about your troubles. Did you end up getting a Protective Order? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/24 06:46 PM |
| 16 | Examples of ways you feel disrespected by your wife over the yearsHurting innocent animals out of pettiness. That is psychotic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 05:17 PM |
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