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| 1 | What happened to me??? I used to be the king of this female dating strategy....before I wanted sex. Now I only find losers looking for sex....I'm not white, I'm Jamaican. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | What happened to me??? I used to be the king of this female dating strategy....before I wanted sex. Now I only find losers looking for sex.I'm damaged because I like a little more than basic tender missionary lovemaking? Like I'm sorry, I just personally find it a little bland after a while. I'm not a person who likes the same thing over and over, that's just me in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 07:30 AM |
| 1 | What happened to me??? I used to be the king of this female dating strategy....before I wanted sex. Now I only find losers looking for sex.Dude I fucking hate Fifty Shades, it's straight up awful. I couldn't even get through the whole thing. The fact that now this is the main portrayal of whatever the fuck the author thinks kink is, is pretty infuriating, because then it makes people like you think that's what I'm doing. Ask anyone who actually does kink, they'll tell you how much they hate that movie. And no, those are all my own words. Maybe it sounds jargony because I wanted to explain it well. And hey, why would you assume I've… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 11:41 PM |
| 4 | What happened to me??? I used to be the king of this female dating strategy....before I wanted sex. Now I only find losers looking for sex.No, I've never been. A kink is a sexual turn on or fantasy that isn't typical vanilla. For a few examples, if you and your partner like roleplaying, or restraining each other, or enjoy top/bottom dynamics, those would all be kinks. Personally, I find that discussing what I want with my partner, along with what they want, is really empowering, because my sexual agency is constantly being erased as a female. Plus, having conversations about safewords and sexual boundaries cements a mutual understa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 10:05 AM |
| 3 | What happened to me??? I used to be the king of this female dating strategy....before I wanted sex. Now I only find losers looking for sex.I literally don't even watch porn and I've been kinky as long as I've had sexual attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 05:44 AM |
| 2 | The struggles of sexually internalized misogynyI should direct you to a site called fetlife.com, it's essentially a Facebook for kinky and fetish people. Believe me, your fantasies are waaaaay more common than you think. I have them, just on the the recieving end instead. It is a pretty extreme kink though, and people tend not to do it until they've done some lighter play first, and have gotten to understand each other's boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Is there any difference between PUA/RedPill tactics and textbook emotional manipulation?Everyone who gave an answer other than, "Yes, emotionally manipulating people is bad," is a terrible person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 01:29 PM |
| 4 | I feel like I would have easily been a FemcelThat's such a lovely thing to hear! Congratulations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I know what I want?Best way to get into dating is find a spot where you can regularly interact with men you might be interested in, like a book club, gym, or cafe. It helps to befriend a guy you might be interested in first too, because liking someone platonically as well as romantically is important. Just let things fall into place organically, don't stress too much about strategies or methods. They can help sometimes, but focusing too much on them can take away from the substance of what you're trying to do. Jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How does everything that’s “empowering” to women somehow end up “mysteriously” being the things that benefit/entertain men?Maybe not to you, and that's okay. We're all different. We don't need to tear each other down over what empowers us individually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/19 03:02 AM |
| 4 | How does everything that’s “empowering” to women somehow end up “mysteriously” being the things that benefit/entertain men?So as someone who has actually been to BDSM and fetish clubs... If I get off to being tied up, my partner gets off to tying me up, and it's all consensual, what's the problem? Not to mention that her definition of BDSM is super heteronormative, and even within heterosexual BDSM, you don't always have a male dom with a female sub. It's so diverse in its gender and role dynamics that I wouldn't even call it the norm. You got female doms with male subs, gay or bisexual men and women, trans and nonb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | How does everything that’s “empowering” to women somehow end up “mysteriously” being the things that benefit/entertain men?Bruh that's like saying the n-word at a Black empowerment march, did you even think before you wrote that, or were you going for full irony? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/19 02:23 AM |
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