| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 775 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lol | Cybion_ | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:57 PM | |
| 107 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossible | Lifestyle | Cybion_ | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 04:18 PM |
| 19 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxious | Escalation & Calibration | Cybion_ | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:21 PM |
| 5 | I'm going to meet a girl i was needy with in the past tomorrow. How do i deal with this ? | Cybion_ | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -2 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?Status/fame | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 03:54 PM |
| 8 | How to maintain frame while gettimg shit tested?It's simple. You turn your back around and move the f on. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How did yall get out of your worst droughts?Define "droughts" | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How can you get really hot girls?Still better than none | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How can you get really hot girls?Can i ask what do you mean by skill exactly ? I got a decetly paying job but i'm sevearely lacking in the status department, 25m btw. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousLived and learned | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:20 AM |
| 3 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousActually whent preatty well. Alcohol was a massive help. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousI was able after removing the condom. She was a bit upset about that decision though. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:17 AM |
| 4 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousI'm good. Things whent even better than i expected. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousFor better or worst i'm about to find out in 40min and see what i'm going to learn from it. But first i'm going to take a beer and see if it helps with my ed problem. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousI can't get viagra in an hour bro | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousAlright il try it out | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:53 PM |
| 2 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousNo but it's been a long time | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousMan i wish i had your confidence haha. But what if i can't get it up ? Do i just stick to foreplay ? | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | You need to spend money to get laid!Sure but you pay way less than trying to get laid "for free". For example, i had to pay fuel, dinner, gifts and some other bs for x amount of dates just to end up in bed with her meanwhile you can skip all that and pay alot less to an escort and get straight to the point. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 9 | You need to spend money to get laid!You could just pay an escort and not worry about anything else. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.I feel like i would get ghosted the moment we land that number. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?This is veary true to me too. Like some of my friends would think a thicc chick is attractive af and compleately dismiss the petite ones but for me it's compleately the opposite. Thic ass/boobs are a huge turn off for me. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:45 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Your right, we need to grab it by the balls. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?Thank you. Do you know what would be an aproprite gift in this scenario though ? Also yes she is a crush and want more than friendship but i struggle to go beyound this phase. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?I'm sorry this happend to you. The way i see it is that if she rejects you for giving her flowers then she was never meant to be with you anyway. Someone interisted should be happy. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?" Physically escalate, deep dive, and first and foremost ASK HER OUT on a date. " Would like to do this with her (she is 18 i'm 22) on Valentines day but i never had a gf before. Can you tell me how i can do this ? | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?I see. Thanks i understand now. Although i don't fully agree on what you said about r/dating_advice i'm going to take what you said to heart. No gifts until something serious happens. "Why don't you do a better alternative, suggest you take her out somewhere fun and intimate?" Would like to do this on valentines but i'm a bit of a puss as i never had a gf (i'm 22 and she is 18) and when it comes to asking out or dealing with rejection. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?Sorry to ask but what was it like when you did this ? Was she turned off ? | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to give flowers to a crush as her birth day present ?I meant friendship. The thing is she already made up her minde to spend it with our friend group. I definetly wouldn't give her flowers in front of everyone else, that would be stupid. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Why do women always act so weird around me?When are man in their prime ? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?How do you raise her interist ? | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly?Nope. Fap away | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier to pull off a threesome if I’m the only guy drinking with 10 hot girls?Lmao. Don't get your hopes up, reality is nothing like what you see in porn. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I have no optionsSorry for the late reply. I get what your saying. Meet, befriend then flirt. What then ? How do i know she is interisted to take it to the next level ? And what time would it be ideal to do so ? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I have no optionsHow can i do that ? I will never make a move unless i'm 110% sure she likes me back. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | I have no optionsYour forgetting that physical attraction isn't everything. I'm not the most socially skilled person, so i could be at fault here. But the problem here is that i literally have no dating options. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I have no optionsNot just me, them. I noticed you also helped me in my previous post so thanks btw. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:57 AM |
| 2 | I have no optionsAlready am actually. I just don't have anyone that desires me more than a friend. Either that or i don't know how to go past the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | I have no options5 days ? Weak. I already did 10, first few days were brutal and was going to give up on day 3 until i got drunk and met some friends that day. Meet some girls after but only 1 was compatible and interisted in me. Problem is she lives in another country. Just my luck😢 | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | I have no optionsI'm sorry if i didn't state this in the post but i have none of the flaws you indicate except the pessimisim wich i now see it's my current problem. I worked myself more than you might think and yes i am attractive even some girls told me that but for some reason i can't get past the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 24 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…You need to remember that your bro is in an environment with alot more accesibility too. This is a major factor as accesibility, social skills, appearence and game are what's going to determine what your dating poll is. If your bro has these than i can see why he is having an easier time than you. Being in highschool, having a decent appearence and knowing how the game works is almost like easy mode. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 01:04 AM |
| 89 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Social status basically. I imagine myself doing far far better if i was in highschool with the knowladge that i have today. Some of us just take longer to learn, there is no such thing as a "natural" just guys who learned this stuff younger. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meIsn't what he was doing literally the "push pull" method ? | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meUsually around the 2nd or 3rd encounter. Sometimes even the 1st encounter but then they are just ignorant. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meWhen i made de decision to be my "true" self i remember my exact thoughts being "Fuck it. You either take me for what i am or don't, it's your problem now". This is again one of those "don't give a fuck" advice being applied. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meAre you a confident and self assured person? I am. You say words like “repulsed” and “loser”, which makes me think you have some stuff to work on? Just my opinion tho. I do. It's my communication skills that suck. Why do you think you are physically attractive to some degree? I would bone myself if i was female. I find myself attractive and i did get laid once and kissed by a few girls in the past but they didn't really know me, it was my looks that got the win. It's what's inside that ruined me… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meFirst of all: Happy Birthday. Thank you ❤ I'm aware my communication skills are lacking. If you say these books will help me then which one would you recommend i start with first ? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meI did this when i first met my friends. I would constantly be putting this "James Bond" type personality or some shit because i thought they would hate my real self. Eventually i droped the act and they started liking me more but part of this was also because of the self improvement i got from youtube. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meJust take a look back every time you get ghosted and try to find patterns. Been thinking about this thanks. Best example i can give is ... well I don't want to sound like i'm bragging but i got laid once before i even went on a date with this one girl i liked. Eventually we started dating, first one was good, 2nd wasn't and you can blame my stipidity and lack of communication or social skills for it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:09 PM |
| -2 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meI see. But this doesn't really answer my last question though. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meyour communication is lacking My communication is all around still lacking, i still struggle with it. “Why would she want to hang with me?” This is actually a good question. I have the looks but not the communication skills to be a good fit for a long term relationship. Tell us why girls ghost after they get to know you. What is it about your character that they don’t find security in? Probably stupid shit i do without realizing it. I could be wrong but if one girl rejected me, it could be up in… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:45 PM |
| -8 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meI don't think he is gross but i do belive he can be a bit immature. He is honestly my favorite part of these movies and never fails to bring a smile on my face. Fiction aside. What can i do to fix these flaws ? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 10:44 AM |
| 12 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meI've been thinking alot about this. Have you ever watched American Pie ? I watched the movies not long ago and it came to my minde "if i was one of these characters i would definetly be Steve Stifler". I found him the most relatable character because of a few personality traits i like and share: Confident Cocky Funny Capable of lidership although this might not always be the case. Love sports and can dance (not really a personality but skills i think it's worth to point out) I love high energy p… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 09:54 AM |
| 12 | Girls get repulsed once they start to know meWhat do you need to know ? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Well I asked out my classmate today.Doubtful. If someone wants to spend time with you they will let you know otherwise don't assume they do and move on. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Should you leave girls on read if they send a message that doesn't require an answer?Yes | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 9 | Observing stand up comedians and some late night hosts during interviews can provide examples of charismatic behavior to emulate during conversationJust watch charisma on command. I think it gives the same effect. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 24 | Struggling with girls in collegeBest answer | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Why is ignoring/not showing interest so powerful?This doesn't work for me. If i show a bit of interest, they do nothing. If i don't, they do nothing. Is it my appearence ? Maybe i have a shitty personality and don't even know it ? | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Does changing hair color as a man make you more attractive ?Your right but since not all of my life choices were the right ones i figured i checked everyone else's opinion to be sure | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Does changing hair color as a man make you more attractive ?Sorry for the late response but why green ? Sounds like something i would do if i wanted to cosplay Joker lol | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | She lost interest out of nowhereThe first red flag here is playing hard to get, the 2nd is taking a year to begin something. Most likely she found a new car, went for a test drive and now she's thinking about scrapping the old one(s). Move on. Next. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | How do i become better than my friends ?Hey. Came back to say this is the answer i was looking for. Alot of the other advice around here is already common knowladge for me but none talks about how there is a game of power between friends (i'm sure this is the case with women too). And now for the real question, how do i dominate or "win the game" ? | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How do i become better than my friends ?Thanks | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | How do i become better than my friends ?Find hobbies and get good at them ✔ Check dancing ✔ Check (not the best dancer but i'm better than anyone in my groups) volunteering Never tried it anything social ✔ Check So what am i missing ? Better social skills ? | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:54 AM |
| 3 | How do i become better than my friends ?if you feel like some don't even notice you, those ones probably weren't right for you anyway. Worry about the ones that do notice you and make the most of those experiences. I absolutely agree with you and i already do this. I usually make an effort to interact with everyone but if said person doesn't put effort too or is just ignorant, i'm just going to pretend i don't even notice them. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | How do i become better than my friends ?I think it's best not to go out with guys that are way better looking/more attractive. They aren't. There was that "one time" but he isn't with us anymore. I would say i'm atleast as good as them if not better physical attraction wise. I belive it's the personality or social skills that is my problem here, in other words they are better here then me. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | My 8th grade crush likes me now"If you don't like me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" Honestly i would friendzone her unless i find out the person i'm dating is giving red flags, then i would consider dating her. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 10 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI would many times kiss her at the same time i was fingering her. She was grabing my head and pulling me harder twords her as if she didn't want me to stop the kissing. I can tell she was enjoying the foreplay atleast | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexThank you. I needed to hear this as i had my first time yesterday. I did what you said, i started kissing her, kissing her neck, massaging her boobs and slowly reaching her V wich i started fingering her with my middle finger and sometimes my index. I didn't penetrate her because i had no condom with me (we didn't plan to have sex). I enjoyed it alot but i feel insecure because i don't know if she enjoyed it too. I wanted to make her cum before i did but i'm not sure if i accomplished the missio… | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?Ideal life ? Well for me nothing made me more happy than do shit with my friends so i guess social dominance (having a great personality, social skills and friend groups to be their leader), the freedom to go anywhere (traveling) and being ripped af. Does money bring happiness ? Honestly it depends on what you do with it but to me it did because it made alot of the stuff i mentioned possible. However i worked at a toxic job that broke me mentally to get it so guess it's not all butterflys | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolIt's not that she didn't interact with me but the way she ended it was rude. She could have atleast said "Goodbey". | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolI started the convo about the camp first and didn't make a push until after this wich is also when i realised there was no interist | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 24 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolYeah. I learned that the day i realised hotter guys than me getting rejected and lesser guys than me getting the action. Expiriance created my confidence, we just gotta keep going forward. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolThat's actually what i did. Apreciate it👍 | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 10 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolThanks but i'm already fit. Been hitting the gym for 3 years now. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:22 PM |
| 27 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolAtleast you get great convos compared to me😂 Good on ya buddy. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 149 | Made an approach and went horribly wrong lolTrust me man. Several days ago i went out with a buddy of mine and had 3 chances to approach, took none because i have no idea why lol. Wasn't going to make the same mistake. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for successFeeling the same here. Would rather keep my virginity than doing it with someone i don't like. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 3 | im sorry guys but you can not play hard to get if you dont have a lot of options.If the men are watching those videos than they aren't "average". The advice they give aren't for women. A man that plays "hard to get" with few options is alot better than a needy guy that has none. Anyone playing hard to get are not worth pursuing to begin with and women do it far more than men. So i doubt someone legit would actually advice that. Link to the video ? | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | 25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated.Do you know how can i pleasure her in bed ? Like how do i make her cum first ? | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 09:52 PM |
| 14 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Wtf this sounds like something out of a porn. Sure your not confusing your dream for reality buddy ? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to meet a girl i was needy with in the past tomorrow. How do i deal with this ?So basically be myself without any bs. Thank you i'll do that. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to meet a girl i was needy with in the past tomorrow. How do i deal with this ?Peace of mind i suppose, i didn't leave a good impression as you can probably guess. Had a crush on her back then but i don't see myself having it with her now and not that i want to anymore. I'm hoping to atleast fix the bad impression i left. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Whats with people saying body counts don't matter ? Are you saying your ok with someone who f###ed 100+ people during their life time ? Anyway i know 2 girls, both are the same age (20 years old), one has 5 ex bfs the other never had a bf and probably still a virgin. What's the difference you ask ? One is a toxic bitch the other is cute and wants a serious relationship. I didn't make this up btw. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 08:18 AM |
| 6 | How to build a social circle post college, especially one that will help me meet women?How about you read the title again before jumping to conclusions: "...specially one that will help me meet women". He isn't asking to meet women exclusively lmao | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 11:17 AM |
| 18 | I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to startI think he should solve his mental problem first and then get a job. | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 09:11 AM |
| 100 | Alpha male MINDSETI agree with these statements but being an "Alpha Male" isn't something dating only it's your whole life, career, friendships etc. There are going to be times you will be less than an "Alpha". | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongWhen you try to date your math teacher but realize it's a bad idea | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | 100 approaches and still nothingIncreadible. You definetly deserve a medal for this achievement. I don't bother aproaching anyone regardless of gender let alone 100 girls | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Being Single During COViDFound my long lost brother | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 10:17 AM |
| 7 | This is the last post on Female Attraction you'll ever needSo basically be an alpha male. There saved you 5 min. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:14 PM |
| -2 | Get a load of this 💩Eggman reference in the title ? I see what you did there | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Go Your Own Way. Eastern EuropeWhat country is this ? Looks like Moldova | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/19 11:14 PM |
| 7 | It would have helped avoid so many mistakesSo how do we stay like that ? Or is there no possible way without side effects ? As far as i know dopamine hormone is to blame for causing erections | /r/MGTOW | 28/06/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Man defends himself against two assailants.Made my day | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/01/19 07:15 AM |
| 7 | Man defends himself against two assailants.Am i the only one that thinks he looks like DJ Khaled and instantly thought "(puts one of them down) ANOTHER ONE!"😅 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/19 11:36 PM |
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