| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 231 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate. | CynicClinic1 | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 12:27 AM | |
| 27 | Openers | CynicClinic1 | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 05:40 PM | |
| 18 | Where do you get your sense of humor? | CynicClinic1 | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 03:01 PM | |
| 0 | What is your story of the girl who broke the dry spell? | CynicClinic1 | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Getting over missed opportunitiesJust kiss her. You'd feel better if you were rejected. | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | What do guys like a lot when being seduced by a woman?Men court, women select. Those are the rules. Just leave yourself open | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I use my older male power to pick up younger girls but be safe about it?Approach like you would anyone else, develop interests that are more relevant to what's pop culture now rather than 10 years ago | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How to make women spend money on youThis guy on YouTube is fake. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 7 | How do you deal with serial flakerMove on. | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | "You're too confident"Ignore. Don't listen. You're being yourself and you're comfortable being yourself. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding possible disaster - asking girls out at workRetail Giving a fuck It costs more to fire you and train someone new than it does for the manager to just have a talk with you. I used to get numbers at work no problem. "What's your number?" is just fine. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 12:38 PM |
| 1 | OpenersThe problem is I don't find sitting with your legs crossed sipping Bay Breezes chatting about how awful your job, friends, and town are particularly interesting. I usually have to make things interesting myself. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 05:18 AM |
| 2 | OpenersIf you don't mind, what's the last thing you said? | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | The "Just Friends" Lemma.Game on, broha. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 05:06 AM |
| 3 | The "Just Friends" Lemma.OK lots of people like to say things are "shit tests" when they aren't but -- alert, this is not a drill, this is a shit test. "I'm not interested in being more than friends" when you didn't even bring that up means, "I am thinking about being more than friends" | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 09:45 PM |
| 3 | OpenersHi. Then what? | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 08:21 PM |
| 2 | OpenersThat has a low success rate for me. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 07:27 PM |
| 4 | IDGAF on TinderI'm going to need field reports before I believe this success. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?Minorities get laid too. I'm hearing a lot of excuses and not a lot of tactics. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I'd like to hear the thoughts of all of you fellas approaching or past 30 on being single.Back to basics, brother. Go back to asking questions and listening to what the girl says. It's mostly her that does the talking, your insecurities do not come into the picture. Deep breath, big chest. You got it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 02:50 PM |
| 2 | When you make eye contact with a girl and she asks "What is it?"It's a wimp move. It's obvious you're trying to mac it to her if you say that. It's not fun or funny. You can say anything else in that situation because it isn't sink or swim like a critical moment. "I was just thinking how long does it take to get your hair like that every day?" "Are you doing blah blah this weekend?" etc. Ask a question about her. People like talking about themselves and after all, you were looking at her. | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | When you make eye contact with a girl and she asks "What is it?"I was just thinking about how awesome I am. DON'T say I got lost in your eyes. | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 05:25 PM |
| 5 | How to Know She's Flirting With You [INFOGRAPHIC]Is she being friendly? | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried being full on nice guy?It works just fine. Being nice is fine in a chivalrous way. Are you being nice because you want her to like you or is it because that is how you were raised? Nothing wrong with the latter IMO. Probably not the best way to open, tho. | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 05:00 PM |
| 12 | What are some fun games to play for a casual date?Spot the couple who is also on a first date and also are they getting laid. Spot the celebrity (oh hey there's bill gates, oh hey there's Rosie O'Donnell) Tell each others future. Edit- oh you probably meant ski-ball or something | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What advice constantly given on this sub do you disagree with? Why so?I agree with the advice that guys should cast a large net and talk to a lot of girls however on this sub a lot of you take it as an excuse to label "flake" and give up easily to move on to the next one when there isn't much reason to yet. Like if she needs a little warming up it's fine. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?Very social and good at meeting people/talking to girls/cold approaching I'm gonna need more info as to why you're having a problem. Are you going for it? This is college, a perfect time to make mistakes and get rejected. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Going to a wedding with a girl and spending the night with her. How do I escalate throughout the day?Spending the night with her like... in the same room? Don't try anything. This is more likely going to happen than it isn't going to. So just put a smile on your pretty face and ask questions. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I don't know if i can continue going to school. My heart hurts every time a girl walks past me.Just smile. You are the 6'1" success story. There is nothing a girl under the age of 22 can do to hurt you. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Just had the shortest date in my life.I went on about a dozen okc dates and this happened once. The rest were mostly successful. Don't let this get you down. She was weird. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 05:40 PM |
| 0 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15Really? The words sexual tension imply a bit of pacing, no? Like ease off the gas when attraction is weak and then come back strong when you've got more going in other parts of your life? | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15If this is your first long to semi-long relationship you're not done learning about women at all. Attraction can still be worked on absolutely. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15Drug user is one. Not true 100% of the time but if she's not self centered and tends to ask you about what's going on in your life she's a keeper. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 07:51 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15Who says you can't do both? You aren't with her 24/7 | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 07:50 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15Are you banging her yet? If so, now you just have to say you aren't looking for something serious. Then continue banging. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/15Simple but specific q here: Been seeing a girl for a few weeks... she asked me what I was doing today a few days ago. Do you think she wants to hang out? The only reason I ask is because the last time we chilled I got the vibe she wasn't feeling it. Previous date was dinner with friends, Sunday. I have other girls I'm less interested in I could chill with today too. For the record they've all(4) been laid already. | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a group of girls?David DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating" I liked this Nick Sparks guy on Youtube. I think if you asked 100 women what they wished guys did more of, at least half of them would say listen. Do less. Listen more. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 08:43 PM |
| 4 | How to approach a group of girls?There's too many factors that would allow her to get away in that scenario Imo | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 11:27 AM |
| 8 | How to approach a group of girls?I thought this would be the best strategy but it's hard to maintain good confident eye contact like that. Walk up like you're talking to all of them but really focus on one before you even get there. Works best for me. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Text Game - Do and Don'ts?How was your day/generally caring/something that made me think of you/be nice If you're floundering/don't have anything to say -- end the convo"I'll talk to you later" or make plans to meet up. Don't dilly-dally. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Any books on how to small talk?The mirror in the bathroom + newspaper/interesting hobbies. | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Request: What do you want more of on a Podcast?Openers! | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Should I contact a girl via a social network when I did not ask her number myself?Yes. Soon. Your window of opportunity is closing. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | If you go up to a girl and straight up ask for sex (no BS), will it ever work?It'll work one in 10,000 times, with a desperate 40 year old divorcee who hasn't been touched in years. | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 05:19 PM |
| -3 | Guys, I fucking made it. Last night, at 23 years old, I lost my vCard. And it's all because of you.I'm finding this one hard to believe. OP didn't even mention the girl. What was she like? What did she do and what did you do to get there? This sounds like an ad. | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 11:24 PM |
| 3 | The biggest pussy pass in the history of mankind to happen in the next few years: Student DebtLots of numbers here, but any sources on anything? | /r/PussyPass | 17/11/14 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!9 messages, 15 messages, 21 messages. That's about the range I like. However I've never had success in the 2-4 message range so I wouldn't recommend any lower. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Flirting Games: Which are your favourites?She won't. Unless she's already decided she doesn't like you. | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Tips on hosting a party?I'm reposting my response to a similar thread: Tips to throwing a successful 50 person party: -The main idea is to keep people talking. You're going to want to come up with solutions to the "What will they do once they get here." problem to avoid silence, awkwardness, or a weird just the dudes talk on one side and just the girls talk on the other situation. -Beer Pong is your bread and butter. Keep games moving quickly, get people shit talking one another. It's fun, it's flirty. -Kings, other dr… | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How to know when it's ok to grab an ass?It's unnecessary unless the opportunity presents itself. Don't do it because you've seen someone else do it. You don't know the terms of their relationship. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 12:49 PM |
| 9 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.This is pretty damn genius. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 11:47 PM |
| 0 | I gave in and made an okcupid accountI 100% believe most dating sites have or facilitate fake profiles of attractive people to keep people on the hook to increase activity. Every time I send a message that doesn't get a reply, the best frame of mind to keep confidence is to just write it off as a fake profile. That being said, there are attractive women on dating sites tryna find some dudes so like keep going. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Tips for a delivery guyReally, really bad idea. | /r/seduction | 02/07/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | [Tinder match] - How to keep interest when you'll meet her in a week?Honestly, not a whole lot. You have the benefit of her looking forward to the date for a whole week. If you're a good first date haver, you should be gold. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.A lot of it is backed up by some of the "PUA Experts" I started out by reading David DeAngelo but lately and more specifically I'm from a Nick Sparks school of thought in that it is not my role to be the performer. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What should I focus on first?Definitely get the job or get doing something interesting first I think. Females are bound to ask you what you're doing with your life and if you have nothing to show for yourself, things will fall flat guaranteed. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Hey seddit I have been on four dates in four days and would like to share my thoughts.This confirms what I've been hearing for quite a while now: Tinder is huge in Australia. I've been reading quite a lot of success stories about Tinder, specifically in Australia. Good job, OP. Sounds like you did well out there. | /r/seduction | 16/06/14 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Personality trumps appearance, by a lot.Umm. Unsure what this has to do with seduction. I'm not stopping until I find a girl who is a 10 in every single way to me. That's what I want and that's what I'm going to get. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 11:04 PM |
| -1 | Regret does stingYo it's hard for me to take you seriously about these split second interactions fucking up your life, bro. These girls are strangers, you don't know them, you don't owe them anything, you didn't miss out on anything because nothing was there. So take that little smile or moment and enjoy it. You don't have to force everything or anything. Be cool about it. Pick your spots if you have to. Approach anxiety never goes away so get used to it, and just take it easy in these situations. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 11:00 PM |
| 1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.Contextual. I keep eye contact through the entire night beforehand. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.It's not about what you do. It's about her and you and your conversation. Keep it simple. Picking up her 3 beers on your tab is so unimportant so just do that it's simple. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 07:37 PM |
| 2 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I'm going to keep it, because I don't think the message makes sense without it. I think it works because "I think you're pretty" is just 4 words out of a longer and specifically just more plain and lighthearted message. I think replacing the word pretty with "interesting" or "cool" sounds too disingenuous. Usually when I see girls receiving fake compliments in person, they detect it pretty easily and their body language reacts negatively, but when I open with "I think you're pretty and I wanted … | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What do you do immediately after a rejection?OP, that's about all you can do. It sucks. Slow your escalation game down in the future, buddy. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 06:06 PM |
| 4 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.yes. I close the tab and dont make a big deal out of it at all. 2 out of 3 of the girls offered to split it, but I wouldnt make a big deal out of it. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 03:07 PM |
| 2 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate."It doesn't mean anything, at least not anything else than "I want to get in your pants and I say this because I figured it makes it easier"." That's the whole point. It's supposed to mean absolutely nothing except that I'm interested, and if there's even a possibility of her replying she'll want to know what the knock knock joke is. I have not met her, I am a complete stranger, so saying anything stronger than that is pretty intrusive I feel. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 02:29 PM |
| 5 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I don't understand the question. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.OP here. You've thrown out two unrelated problems here. Looking too young, and not wanting to go to bars. On bars: It's your cheapest, easiest hookup. Find a quiet place that will have nice music and like a dozen people in it at any given times. Fuck, go to the bar at Applebee's if that's what it takes. Don't get creative. You are selling a few hours of conversation between yourself and her, not anything fancy. And if you're just being an intimidated wimp about bars, just remember that most of t… | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 02:01 PM |
| 3 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I really don't think I'm attractive at all. I haven't done an online rate my picture in a long, long, time but when I got mixed reviews, it all evened out to average looks. I have a round, Irish face and a scar under my left eye. For looks as a dude, just lift heavy, eat big, get your skin clean as hell and dress well and you'll be fine. I am 6' 2" so you may be on to something tho. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 01:52 PM |
| 2 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.yeah, I realize that. its a routine now. it was probably trying at one time. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 01:45 PM |
| 12 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I usually go by if she's hesitant to drink another round. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 03:49 AM |
| 15 | 3 F-Closes on OKCupid in 5 weeks. And a 33% message response rate.I'm turning down the talking part of the night, prepping her for what's next. I basically kill the conversation on purpose and let a couple of seconds of silence to near silence build some tension and then I kiss her. Sometimes I do a very very very soft "Yeah?" if she's still talking and she's not on the same page yet. I'm not sure how it works or how to explain it better than that, it just works. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 02:04 AM |
| 1 | I want to use negging since all say it is effective, but it feels "tacked on", scripted.Wrong to me.Can you offer a healthy mindset?How is it "sincere"The closest thing I do that comes to negging is just simple poking fun at trivial, unimportant things about her. I was on a date last night at an Irish pub and she mentioned how she doesn't like U2. I just stared at her for a solid 15 seconds and then said "Who are you?" and "Do you know where you are?" I'm not going to suck up to her, U2 is one of my favorite bands, she can feel uncomfortable if she doesn't like that and it won't bother me, but that whole segment of dialogue was all in good fun… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:14 AM |
| 5 | girls you meet that are super into you but then flake later on?It could be any number of reasons that are just out of your control. Shit comes up in her life at work, her family, she could've ran back into her ex, she could just be busy, her friend who saw you may have said something negative about you. Best not to sweat the small stuff. If it helps, you can always soften up that text conversation before you send her "hey wanna go get lunch or something." but its completely dependent on the situation. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 10:17 PM |
| 3 | are there actually women who prefer AFCs and Beta guys?Being soft-spoken and blushing is one thing, falling all over yourself because of a woman being around you is what makes you an unattractive male. Keep it cool, keep it congruent. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 09:46 PM |
| 23 | I'm 18, how do I become/act more like a man and less of a boy?Start smoking and eat more roast beef sandwiches. Yo stop caring. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 03:25 PM |
| 8 | going to a party looking for some nice missions for a starter(18)-Introduce yourself to every girl there. -Do 5 minutes with all of them and make them laugh as much as you can. I would advise against being very outcome-dependent for a beginner. Whatever happens, you're confidence will stay up because you haven't failed any goals you've set. Make them laugh, that's your mission. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 03:23 PM |
| 10 | After lots of personal changes, am I "resetting" the girls around me?Yes, you can be upgraded to the "attractive" category after being labeled "unattractive". However, and this is important, you have to go away or leave their life and then come back months perhaps even years later for them to see the change. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Request: Hosting a Successful College Party (venue pics inside)That is an extremely nice place for a party. It was better than mine in college. That being said, the kids in that middle picture are so high school it's not even funny. Tips to throwing a successful 50 person party: -The main idea is to keep people talking. You're going to want to come up with solutions to the "What will they do once they get here." problem to avoid silence, awkwardness, or a weird just the dudes talk on one side and just the girls talk on the other situation. -Beer Pong is you… | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else freak out a bit if they haven't done an approach in a while?I did my first approach in a damn long time last night. That freak out feeling is exactly what I was looking for and was so validating when I confronted it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I am not confident, I am apathetic. How do I internalize my awesomeness?Try this: Go through your progression faster. If you're looking for numbers, get em in >10 minutes. If you're looking to hook up, do it in >3 hours. Force yourself to come up with solutions to the situations you put yourself in. I have the utmost faith in your creativity. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Where do you get your sense of humor?This response is awesome and gives me some great piece of mind. Thank you for the reply. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Where do you get your sense of humor?Yeah, I'm trying to remind myself what it was like when I had it. I'm definitely on the hipster weird side. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you understand it when (f) describes your character as "strange but unique"?Could be good or bad. So just move on. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | This cute girl went to community college with me. Spoke to her 2-3 times and 3 months later she adds me on fb. This is why you take every opportunity, I almost missed this one.Nice. Community College girls are definitely freaks. I'm no player but I'd consider some of my best hookups to be similar situations where making initial contact with a good impression leads to letting them go until months later when I run into them again. Small population suburb life. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 03:25 PM |
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