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Cyrusk4/r/seduction04/06/14 08:20 AM
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FeminismCyrusk4/r/MensRights08/09/18 09:22 AM
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DebateCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 10:32 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction17/09/13 11:42 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction28/07/15 12:21 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/MGTOW26/04/15 08:52 AM
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DiscussionCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:41 PM
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OpinionCyrusk4/r/MensRights24/03/15 09:42 AM
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Eastern CultureCyrusk4/r/MensRights30/03/15 04:49 PM
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OutrageCyrusk4/r/MensRights08/11/14 06:50 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/ExRedPill01/07/14 08:12 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction11/11/17 02:27 AM
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Social IssuesCyrusk4/r/MensRights15/03/19 07:18 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 11:22 AM
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DiscussionCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:10 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/MGTOW09/12/14 01:19 AM
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DiscussionCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:25 PM
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Social IssuesCyrusk4/r/MensRights18/01/19 03:54 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights14/06/15 08:47 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 11:30 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/MGTOW13/11/14 10:11 PM
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QuestionsCyrusk4/r/MensRights13/06/15 11:41 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction09/10/13 11:49 PM
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OutrageCyrusk4/r/MensRights03/07/14 06:26 AM
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CMVCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:39 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights15/05/15 11:33 PM
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StoryCyrusk4/r/MensRights27/03/15 01:27 AM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights11/07/15 12:46 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/MGTOW18/12/17 04:32 AM
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Social IssuesCyrusk4/r/MensRights31/12/17 11:39 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights04/07/21 11:57 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction03/02/16 04:25 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction22/10/13 09:53 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction02/05/17 08:25 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights23/07/15 02:08 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction08/11/17 07:54 PM
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QuestionCyrusk4/r/MensRights28/12/14 08:24 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 01:42 PM
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CMVCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 08:37 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights11/11/17 02:25 AM
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DiscriminationCyrusk4/r/MensRights25/06/17 05:47 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction18/06/14 07:06 AM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights03/05/15 12:17 PM
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GeneralCyrusk4/r/MensRights17/01/21 03:08 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction13/11/17 08:01 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction13/11/17 07:34 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 08:29 PM
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DebateCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:18 PM
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DiscussionCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:28 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/MensRights25/09/13 03:25 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction20/02/17 08:08 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 11:05 PM
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DiscussionCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:40 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction05/02/14 04:51 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction16/10/13 07:32 PM
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Question for RedPillCyrusk4/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 06:37 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/seduction04/11/13 09:26 PM
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Cyrusk4/r/MGTOW223/02/20 11:03 AM
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Cyrusk4/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 02:00 PM
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There are some dumb double standards. The truth is that sex is less interesting with someone you've been with a while. Happens to everyone, but it's possible to keep things good on that level with some practice (kind of like meditation.) I think some guys do have these complexes, just not me. I personally LIKE women who've had many partners because they tend to be really good in bed... ever had sex with a near virgin? Super awkward. So, I'm not too big on commitment but I'm not into virgins, eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:37 AM
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here is some information on it http://archive.is/jb8TA Wow if I had had that chart to pull up I think this guy I reference in the story would have looked pretty stupid.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 02:00 PM
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What this shows is "sexual liberation" means nothing. It resulted in a culture with a lot LESS sex than a more conservative society. I've traveled extensively in more conservative cultures... and sex and dating is actually more prolific with healthier attitudes attached (Examples: East Europe, Turkey, Jordan, Indonesia, Philippines, I can go on.) The further I get from 'the West' the more normalized sexual relations become. In the West we are taught to size everyone up as materialistically as po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:39 PM
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You're a crazy person.
/r/MensRights16/03/19 06:47 PM
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So you're one of those people who craps on posts and discussions because anything in the world can be Googled so why post to get opinions elsewhere. Go Google "how to make friends"
/r/MensRights16/03/19 04:14 AM
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:-D
/r/MensRights15/03/19 07:40 PM
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TL;DR: how did the mods approve this post Prolly cauz it's not a pro censorship type of sub reddit as with leftist or SJW outlets
/r/MensRights10/03/19 09:56 AM
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What is a man? A miserable pile of secrets! (That's my only Castlevania reference I swear)
/r/MensRights21/01/19 09:23 AM
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Almost forgot you cant talk about fight club, eh? Where's she gonna go lol? She'll be ripped to shreds over in the femme subs lolol. :( She could post over in /r/purplepilldebate where "red pill" and "blue pill" minded people debate. It's kind of a train wreck of a sub, because the Reddit interpretation of "red pill" is like a horrible antonym of social justice with ideas that are just as, if not more, toxic. But there's a lot of middle-ground people watching the debates.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 05:20 AM
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Swap out how attractive he is with his "game." If you read the story, she thought of him as attractive. He had huge status and she was PSYCHED to go out with him. That kind of status is an aphrodesiac. How did he make her feel cheap that she decided to pull the rape-by-regret card? He was too fast and strong. He should have fuckin' cuddled her, played with her hair, went to kiss her, got her all hot and bothered, then started taking off clothes. I think he went in like a gynecologist and started…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:40 AM
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Notice these people never get celebrated by women here? You won't see articles about her on Jezebel. Even Malawi wasn't that promoted in the feminist sphere. All the attention goes on fucking Jessica Valenti and Anita or the black lady from Ghostbusters or whoever the fuck.
/r/MensRights28/01/18 05:13 PM
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While "cool single uncles" are not unheard of, they do not at this point form a male counterpart for reasons already discussed at length on this sub. One great thing about MGTOW is that it helps fill this gap in human culture. Really eye opening point, happy I made this thread.
/r/MGTOW18/12/17 08:04 PM
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No because i'm more red pill than not but this terminology is garbage and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 11:08 PM
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Good points, thanks.
/r/seduction13/11/17 09:34 PM
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because they big
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 03:39 PM
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Hmm... women will telegraph you if they are interested. If they aren't telegraphing anything back, you should juste leave them alone. Yeah, obviously, but the issue is that in my experience in the states, women are basically taught to play "hard to get" and avoid telegraphing interest even if they ARE interested, and in other cultures I've been to--this doesn't happen to me. If a girl likes me, she goes into "flirting mode" and it sure makes life easier for me because I know she likes me versus …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:05 AM
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Honestly IRL I can never talk abotu this stuff for fear of loss of respect. Ironically it occurs to a ridiculous extent from BOTH the blue and red pill camps. RP: "You're just not an alpha male. Tough luck, chump. Try working out more and maybe you'll find someone who's not fat." BP: "You're a misogynist. Bow to your female overlords. If they don't think you're worthy of sex, then pray for forgiveness and move on with your life." It's an interesting similarity, really. Shows you how when two ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:35 AM
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The dating culture you described isn't unhealthy at all, it's due to unrestrained women's choice. You just happen to be what they don't want in a man. So cultures where people are less materialistic and get along better, where most men in the USA find meeting women to be much more natural, is because those cultures are not feminist enough and the women are in fact oppressed without enough choice? And once women have "more choice" suddenly they're "liberated" to hold partners to unreasonable mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:25 AM
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The thign is when men fail, lot of times they say its a lack of approaching and dating is a numbers games. Yet women react to approaches increasingly by most men by being generally dismissive, rude and avoiding stranger. IF we take this pattern to its greates degree it will lead to more and more women generally fearful of all but the most attrctive guys, once more enforcing physical attributes (Not always controllable) as the greates indicator of dateability. All the while men will increasingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 11:49 PM
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So what do you think makes LA different? What are some aspects that you feel attracts women? Status and materialism. Women are using their logical minds to find suitors much more than base attraction. I've seen it happen where a woman is like "Oh, I like this guy and I feel attracted to him" only for her to pause and think about factors like status, connections, money, etc and make a logical choice to reject him. My buddy was literally on a date yesterday and he was venting on FB because this ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 11:04 PM
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The midwest definitely does not have the dating culture issues i described in the opening post, i noted major metropolitan areas in US / Canada -- i've been to the midwest and even smaller cities elsewhere and there is no issue thati 'e seen or experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 10:41 PM
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I have zero issues meeting women in cities that aren't Los Angeles and countries that aren't the USA. I have an opposite problem where I end up with 10 or 12 dates scheduled and I have to manage my time better. When I bring this up, I get the rationalization "Oh it's because women in other countries want the American visa." Which is a bunch of bullshit to avoid facing facts about cultural differences. So anyway, point is some people thrive possibly in a bad dating culture - it's not bad for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 10:20 PM
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Lol MarketGiraffe - it's funny the people on this thread trying to argue that materialist standards don't exist and it's just me, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 09:34 PM
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Let's see some proof of how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:33 PM
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Yeah it's the worst of the fucking worst esp. in terms of materialism and judgy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 08:28 PM
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I love me nerds <3 But according to people on this forum all your behavior should be 100% predictable based on evolutionary pop psychology and arm chair theories about what all people without exception want or find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 06:15 PM
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This is the reality. Now, if you're a relatively good looking white guy living almost anywhere in Asia (espec. Southeast), or any country where there's a prestige to be from the West and women are looking desperately for green card suitors, your odds are about 70-80% on a given night. At home in the USA, if you practice pickup all the time, you're kind of good looking at least, very smooth, maybe 10 or 20% on a given night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:37 AM
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I'm guessing a lot of the people you met on your trips were also on tinder and likely had more success there. Tl;dr: dating is for the internet. I think this puts a lot of guys in a bad situation. I'll be honest: I am only attractive in person. On Tinder, I've never had one tiny bit of luck. For whatever reason (a lack of abs) I am not considered an attractive guy. If someone meets me in person, then my charisma is apparent. Tinder, in this example, must be funneling sex only to a top tier of "i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 03:47 AM
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Sell products on Amazon, I also work as an editor (for books). Any laptop stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:02 AM
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JJ that's entirely a subjective experience talking. The ease that you experience is related to numerous factors and is hardly related to the majority of men's experiences. A small percentage (10% or lower) of men have relative ease finding sexual partners or new girlfriends, which is a common theme the red pill folks discuss. This creates a sexual marketplace dynamic, with particular stud-males ruling the market - perhaps you are one such male, in which case congrats - but remember, your experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:48 AM
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I'm pretty sure the only tantrum going on is on your end, and anyone reading these posts will have little trouble distinguishing that. As for me and your assumptions. Well, let's see. My mom's dead. My father's almost dead. There is no money left in my family. I had to build a business from scratch (which now generates 1/2 my revenue). I live in Los Angeles on my own, and live as a minimalist to save money to travel the world, which I do every 2 years. And overall, my life is pretty great compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:34 AM
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I'm amazed by some of the lame, ad hom nit-picker, easily triggered idiots on PPD these days. This guy trying to call out typos is a perfect example. On another thread we have a white knight triggered by my post and flinging insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 01:26 AM
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Look, women unlike in the past, get to choose who they fuck. LoLoLoLoL... A guy talking to a girl instead of playing with his phone now = a guy denying a girl the right of who she gets to choose to fuck. You must not get out of the house much, and I doubt you have any skill whatsoever with men (assuming you're a woman and not a valiant white knight, I have no idea.) You're a piece of work. No surprise - there are some real interesting specimens on PPD from both sides of the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 12:53 AM
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Are you a troll? So a guy doesn't harass a girl in the subway and this is...bad? wtf? No, it was someone he was in the hostel with, going out in a group on a pub crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 11:54 PM
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I believe the culture of being hooked on your phone, going out in public without your best dress and having sloppy shitty casual sex all go hand in hand This is very true in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 08:57 PM
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NOBAAAAAMAAA!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 08:56 PM
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Based on my experiences, like the story I posted, this really feels like the unseen cultural shift to me. It does mean less sex overall, but at least maybe more "meaningful connections".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 08:30 PM
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I wonder if there's an upside to this. More women getting it "out of their system" at earlier ages. I actually had a conversation with a girl about this who is getting married (she's 29 or so). "Yeah, it was ALL BAD BOYS up until a few years ago. I realized the great error of my ways and started dating 'real men' and now i'm a lot happier and found a husband."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:55 PM
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Genital herpes counts as an STD and spreads aggressively sometimes even from non sexual contact. I have it but I've never had one symptom in my life except I think a pimple appeared once "down there." (This is how it is for almost everyone) Nonetheless despite being a non-issue for 95% of people who aren't immuno compromised, it's still considered a "thing" and an STD that skews statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:53 PM
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I am wondering the same thing. It could also be a response to "meaningless" social culture where connections don't form. Women may just want more connections these days as a backlash against "hook up" culture. I mean, I'd say i understand this... I do prefer really getting to know people beyond vapid social discourse... although I wonder why boycotting sex is required to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:49 PM
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I agree, but why does it seem more predominant in 2017 than 2007? at least in my subjective experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:44 PM
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LOL that was unexpected, are people really into "fisting"? Definitely no one I've known. I understand your point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 05:43 PM
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TRP's most exaggerated about relationships. Not every woman is obsessed with hypergamy, out to steal your sperm, take your alimony money and bang Chad the poolboy. The problem is that because the TRP philosophy considers love, kindness, empathy, sharing, to be "weak blue pill traits" - these guys naturally attract women who line up with them. Like attracts like. A TRPer is much more likely to end up with a canniving, materialistic woman. Of course, in the USA women do rip men to shreds, and many…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:52 PM
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To me RP means having realism about relationships. Realism about avoiding manipulative behavior by women. And sexual strategy just means recognizing strong masculine characteristics get women while the opposite makes them dry as sandpaper. That said, the RP sub is filled with social retards who decide to just be A-moral cunts to make themselves out to be stronger and harder than the other neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 12:11 AM
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I think Laci Green did a good job ALL CONSIDERING what the debate could have turned into. Her main take-away point was the word "nuance". Her point being not everything is black-and-white and neither side should paint subjects as such. In terms of "believing all rape victims" - she never said we should automatically believe them, but instead offer support given that in the event the rape really did happen - not having that support in place could cause a great deal of damage. Her concern is that …
/r/MensRights31/03/17 03:21 AM
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It's just Huffington Post. It's not like I was linking Everyday Feminism. Otherwise yes I'd have definitely archived it.
/r/MensRights06/03/17 07:50 PM
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I think now it's a huge mistake to attribute any level of personal character to what women think of you, and it's the mistake most of the Manosphere makes. The reason is that you can be an ultimate leader of men, a philosopher king who is wise and powerful and perfect in all his ways, and that bitch you like will be all, "Meh, not my type". It's just how it is. It's probably why most such men, if they're that desperate for constant sexual variety, end up just making lots of money and buying a ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/17 03:18 AM
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This makes the most sense of anything I've read here. Edit: And some have wrote my problem is being "too deep and serious". Well, no. I'm a dancing monkey when we first meet, but at SOME point the dancing monkey needs to go back in the cage and we can actually talk about shit or get to know each other. That's when American girls tend to disappear, because all they want is the dancing monkey, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 08:39 PM
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I was too easy on American men in the post. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 08:04 PM
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Right. It's a bad idea for me to think the LA culture is "me" as some here suggest. I am happy to know I am pretty well balanced socially. Mainstream advice would have me pursuing therapists chasing imaginary problems to conform to something I shouldn't want to conform to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 07:23 PM
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Not to be arrogant, but I know these things and my dating skills are not bad. I spent a lot of time refining them. Hence why I get laid easily abroad. You can't do that with no skills. Yet in the USA it's like changing difficulty from Recruit to Veteran (using Call of Duty terms).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 07:21 PM
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His old blog had a lengthy treatise on why he stopped dating in America. 2014 or so. I am wondering if he removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 07:19 PM
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I will happily date a girl who is not conventionally attractive. In my opinion they are often higher quality in other ways. But I draw a line at obese women. The obesity is also an American phenomenon and they are often the entitled ones, believing men should be interested in them when its biologically impossible to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:51 PM
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Good points. And I am realizing more now, from this thread it's more an LA thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:48 PM
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I can't get laid in the USA but I can and have in England.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:45 PM
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I lived in Thailand for 6 months for a job. While it's fun, I was given endless attention by women, which I didn't like because in this case it's clear they really are just trying to bag a foreigner for his money. It's not a bad system and I understand men who marry some Thai Go Go dancer... but I always prefer authenticity. I did end up with a long term Thai girlfriend who was "different". Having to give her up when my visa expired was one of the hardest things I've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:20 PM
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Something to keep in mind. Although at this point I may just relocate to Mexico or Poland or teach English in Hong Kong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:09 PM
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I'm not on vacation. I may live in another country for work or nonetheless stay there long term. Another shallow explanation with no thought behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:01 PM
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My social circle could use work. The issue is that many I know have spouses if not families at this point. I'm not exactly surrounded by singles. So I'm left to meeting people as I do abroad, by basically cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 06:00 PM
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These are good points, thanks--
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:30 PM
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Yep, definitely mirrors my experiences (although I'm not a black dude, I honestly think it makes no real difference). My thesis is probably related to more socially inclusive, healthier cultures increases everyone's love lives. USA is missing this. It's funny how elsewhere on this thread, people try to cover up these possibilities--perhaps afraid to look at this possibility direct in the eye, as it would require introspection about their country's own shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:27 PM
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A Trump refugee I guess :-P
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:25 PM
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This is a possibility, but at the same time if I'm traveling I may in fact move to a location--like live in the place for 3-6 months. So I feel this would have less psychological impact compared to if I were visiting for three days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:25 PM
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That I don't fit into shallow American social standards, which I already explained. Even Mark Manson, widely considered a level-headed guy and a "blue pill dating guru", has written about this and how he gave up on dating American women a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:23 PM
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It's true, in the South I found the same openness and ease in meeting women as Europe / abroad, which I think further disputes the "you're attractive because you're American / traveling" nonsense I'm reading elsewhere on this thread. LA is probably the worst place to be. The issue is I'm pretty liberal and I don't think I'd get on too well long-term in Trump-states.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:21 PM
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Too bad it's impossible to "just move" to any country unless I have hundreds of thousands of dollars and accepted on a business visa:p
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:18 PM
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Hello? The countries I refer to, in Central Europe, etc - everyone is WHITE. I'm a white guy like everyone else. This explanation is beyond dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 05:16 PM
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It's a cop-out explanation by people trying to cling to the defense of their culture and behavior. That Americans are so wonderful that if we go abroad, our dicks become magnets regardless of our personality traits or character strengths. It's just nonsense with the exception of Southeast Asia where there are lots of women who are husband-hunting and looking for caucasians. It's an egotistical attempt to 'defend the homeland' and deflect the possibility of actual negative cultural behaviors that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:55 PM
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That's the same bullshit explanation I refuted in my post (read that part and try to address it). I knew it would come up. Edit: And yes, I'll say 18-40 age group who are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:49 PM
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Well, yeah, it is me. I don't fit into a box that is expected in this country. And, for some reason, it makes me unattractive. In other cultures, this is suddenly no longer such an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 04:46 PM
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I feel like this subreddit is suddenly, straight up SJW feminists by about 1/2 or 2/3 ratio. At least based on reading this thread. That's OK, it's a place for debate, but it's also made the place feel rather 'icky'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 10:20 AM
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It's an uphill battle. Like a feminist trying to go up stairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:55 AM
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I don't think it's supposed to be about sexual strategy, either, but these movements are about getting your fucking life in order, and they will do absolutely ANYTHING but take self responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 11:49 PM
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It makes perfect sense. The reason many of them feel their lives are so unfair is not because of boogeyman patriarchies but because of their own personal issues and lack of life skills. Instead of looking introspectively, all of the anger goes external, to boogeymen holding them back, when in MOSt cases the real enemy is themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:28 PM
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Well, why not ask me directly instead of passive aggressively using third person? I say women's movements, plural. This would mean the latest women's uprising and marches, every wave of feminism to date, and most advice in women's mags which may include advice for looks and "being in better bed", but misses the mark with any meaty self development principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:19 PM
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Some men will fuck almost anything. I certainly won't. I've known a few guys like this in my life, but I've also known some nympho girls, too. As soon as a woman has some issues where she's not so conventionally attractive or is missing some social skills, she experiences massive issues in this area of her life. Many women can't get laid to save their lives just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:11 PM
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Silly me, I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:09 PM
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Women's movements include feminism and the women's marches as of late. The point is these movements don't include lifestyle advice or personal development, so it's all misdirected anger against some system they think is holding them down. No introspection. As for Cosmo's superficial advice, I addressed this is another post (scroll down).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:09 PM
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I don't think I'm confused at all about 'women's movements', Electra_Cute and others. I'm referring to women's empowerment and feminism in particular, but just take a look at the Women's Marches: entirely about resisting the external system, and nothing about changing internally. Completely misdirected energy. As for Cosmo, it's mostly superficial, designed to sell makeup products, but at least they TRY. It's hardly part of a movement. Feminists loathe cosmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:06 PM
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A guy who expects everything and wants to control you is in fact a low quality guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 08:46 PM
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But the Red Pill is its own form of bullshit. So women are hypergamous, so what? And men are these perfect beings who don't cheat or try to upgrade their women after their tits get a bit saggy? Human nature is what is very often degenerate. But not everybody. There are many good souls in this world and many, erm, not so evolved persons. TRP paints everything in one light and has no room for nuance. Their motto is "All Women Are Like That" and just like saying "All liberals are this way" or "All …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 02:56 AM
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Seeing a girl as a person also means expressing sexual interest. Denying that people are sexual puts them in that position. A guy who can't express his sexual interest with a girl is having a hard time seeing himself AND her as actual persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:26 AM
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There's definitely a difference between a "lover" and an "overgrown frat boy trying to hook up". It doesn't mean actually "being in love" with the person--I'm talking about dating. The guy who just wants to hook up only sees spending time with the girl as necessary prerequisites for sex... as opposed to going on a date with her and enjoying who she is as a person, as well. This isn't wishy-washy, woo-woo stuff--it's called how grown ass men do it. Most men who aren't emotionally stunted find out…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 11:51 PM
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I'd agree actually, because I think PUAs want to make people think it's about sex, but in reality so few of them are getting laid, which I think is a little secret they keep. It's really about scoring the close.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 11:45 PM
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There are many parts of the world where he can find women, and wouldn't be considered some unattractive schlub because he's not living up to society's standards. I'm not just talking about Southeast Asia, but South America, parts of the Middle East or Near East (iike Turkey), etc. People in many countries aren't conditioned to be obsessed by schoolyard popularity and aren't so insecure to constantly compare things like how handsome the boy/girlfriend is, salary levels, and other materialistic no…
/r/MensRights11/09/16 03:19 AM
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A lot of people coming out of TRP are misaligned about what friendship even means, or they can't see actual friendships with women. I've a female friend who I was interested in at first, and yeah I guess I was "friend zoned" but come on, that was 7 years ago... I just got back from her wedding with all our other friends, she's helped me get numerous gigs with my work (I've made thousands) and I help her when i can--but it's definitely more her looking out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 11:02 PM
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If feminists weren't insane: "This is great news! It means bias in the tech industry is going away and we won!" Reality: "Fuck this study, it interferes with our narrative. Someone discredit it, fast."
/r/MensRights02/07/16 07:46 PM
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I love flirting, I love sex, and I love female friendships. But I'm not so crazy about relationships. I guess this is common; however, I'd rather actually be on a dry spell than get caught up in extreme emotional investment and commitment with someone who may or may not turn out to be totally crazy once their insecurities come to the surface. To Forever Alone people... I say this: why do you think a relationship will make you happy? I see everyone around me in relationships who are miserable, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 09:12 PM
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Also I wanted to add... frankly I think sometimes a casual thing or someone I became "just friends" with is more "real" than many normal couples... especially when I've known a girl for 8 years, I've seen her through a half dozen failed boyfriends and she's asking me for advice about getting the right guy... many women come and go... but sometimes you'll get a best friend out of a fling, who you end up seeing through thick and thin... and that's what's always exciting about life
/r/seduction18/05/16 01:40 AM
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I don't think you even have to have a complex talk about whether you want an LTR or not at the beginning of things, or even before you have sex. That awkwardness can kill the attraction. What I do is I just assume we're "casually dating". But stay very perceptive if she's looking for something more. e.g.: on a date, she's asking about what you're looking for in a girlfriend, if you want to have kids some day, or if she's writing you love letters... Further, don't send any wrong signals to her (e…
/r/seduction18/05/16 01:29 AM
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Honestly, it sounds like you're more into sex than anything else, you do what it takes to get to date 2 or 3, get her into bed, then on to the next one. Many women, especially in their 30s, feel a great connection, reinforce that the feeling was "real" because it led to sex, then they feel heartbroken and used when you're like "Okay, cool, bye now." And I don't really blame them. Instead of cutting ties, just make terms clear: "I'm not looking for anything exclusive or committed right now. If yo…
/r/seduction18/05/16 12:44 AM
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With TBP if you show any nuance in an argument = DOWNVOTE! WOMAN HATER! MISOGYNIST! ANTI FEMINIST! It's the fucking witch trials all over again.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/16 05:30 AM
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TRP vs Regular People dynamite round!! Winner: regular people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:45 PM
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Why are you downvoted to -4? Your post made one of the best points I'd seen here.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/16 07:02 PM
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To people downvoting me, LOL, asking questions and trying to provide a balanced perspective is not me defending TRP...
/r/ExRedPill05/05/16 07:01 PM
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Lol who downvotes some of my posts like this? Yeah I guess being reasonable and not casting generalizations is BAD advice?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/16 07:00 PM
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I think it's possible to engage them. Purple Pill is all about that and there's people on the fence. Also, TRP is a huge mixed bag and not everyone is completely unreasonable. For instance, some might say "You rejected those alpha guys because they weren't really alpha. I'm willing to bet the potential suitors who you did pick really were alpha because they were confident, funny, charming, etc." This might be because this definition of "alpha" changes a lot. It's the not-so-bright TRPers who mix…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/16 04:54 PM
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Out of curiosity, what post did you see on TRP that literally advocated violence against women? Because TRP can and will be shut down if they cross any lines that far. In my experience, and the reason Reddit has not deleted them, is they don't advocate for violence against women. Maybe some people claim they do but they are exaggerating. What they DO, however, do is promote psychological abuse of women, which is easily as bad or the same thing (edit: maybe worse, wounds heal, psychological destr…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 11:03 PM
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Thanks for suggesting Zan... Alabaster Girl is a very good book especially for men who feel out of touch with their sexuality...
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:33 PM
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It really fucked me up for awhile. And sometimes it still does. Because you can never really know what someone's thinking. On a fundamental level, you have to have a degree of blind faith. It's a vulnerable position to be in. When you stare into the abyss (you know the rest). I say this because the paranoia you feel is itself a seed that leads to the very same darkness you observe in TRP. Men become broken and scorned, but they don't direct or channel that energy properly. They do the WORST thin…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:31 PM
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Look, there's a toxic community I found where women literally say that men should be sterilized or killed. It's obviously broken deranged people venting their frustrations then forming a subculture around it. This is human psychology. There's great people in the world, and there's also darkness in the world. There's also darkness that hides behind the intention of being progressive and fixing the darkness itself, whereas in reality the darkness merely grows. This is how TRP is, and any community…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:27 PM
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I'm not so crazy about /r/MensLib. Men do need real resources to improve their social skills, attractive qualities, to improve at life all around, etc. That sub is all about gender politics. Men also come out of TRP and need better alternatives that still help them. Mens Lib offers nothing. There is however a real men's self development community that is not part of the PUA world and it's very helpful.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:25 PM
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The "Man o Sphere" is broad. There are many sources of positive self-development for men that are not misogynistic. These have been of enormous benefit to me in my life. www.theartofcharm.com is specifically for male self-improvement. They're pretty expensive though, but their podcast (which is for all genders) is free (and covers a lot of other areas. Disclaimer, I know the owner of this company / we're travel buddies). Robert Glover: he wrote "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Ironically TRP recommends t…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:20 PM
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I post on /r/PurplePillDebate if you have the stomach for it, where you're allowed to directly debate and challenge TRP's ideas. I actually have the dubious honor of having the highest upvoted thread of all time there. I like it because threads are not allowed to be without debate--if everyone agrees, comments start getting deleted. It's a good way to figure out how they think and even reach people on the fringe who are looking for a good enough argument to convince them to leave that particular…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/16 10:11 PM
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Neither would Neil Strauss. Hmm. Strauss (who is a friend-of-a-friend, not to humblebrag) isn't doing so bad. Like with many, the PUA world for him completely evolved to a more self-development focused area. By contrast early Strauss stuff was garbage (sorry, Neil, it just was). Anyway, I'd disagree. The PUA world was heavily about self-development and exploring the "inner game" which went very deep. "The Blueprint Decoded" by Tyler really opened a lot of it up for me. The huge flaw in PUA, howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 09:29 PM
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You get that you just described the sexual strategy fantasy of passive beta "nice guys" everywhere? The same sexual strategy that gets men utterly eviscerated by women everywhere? I'm not sure why you think promoting that as the alternative is a good idea. No because I think sexual strategy is important and I pointed that out in the OP. Here's the disconnect: what I'm saying about chemistry happens. It just fucking happens. TRP tries to break everything down and it's foolish. Sometimes two uniqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 09:07 PM
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Great question, and the answer is "NO!". It doesn't. There's great resources for men out there. Way of the Superior Man is a good book. No More Mr. Nice Guy is a good one. I find Zan Perrion's the Alabaster Girl to be a very interesting and good read for any man who may feel ashamed of their sexual nature and wishing to empower themselves again. I'm not entirely against parts of the men's rights culture, either--I think a guy who feels very disempowered might do well to watch through a lot of Ka…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the trip down memory lane. I reread that post. I didn't realize it became the top voted post of all time. I definitely still stand by everything I said. In that post, I am pretty critical of TRP. But I also point out how TBP basically creates these mentalities because of their total clueless nature about issues concerning men. Feminist theory, Tumblrinas, etc are like a factory producing people who go the other extreme. But TRP is an extreme. It's the other side of the coin. It's anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:45 PM
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TRP is for the guys who don't get it and need it set out in easy to understand form. I read it. You said this and suggesting people this messed up need TRP as their medicine is frightening as fuck. TRP is not socializing and understanding people 101. If you can't even learn basic socializing because your condition is that severe, then TRP is DEFINITELY not the place for you. TRP is a place for people interested in sexual strategy and a greater world-view to use in an attempt to become a more att…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:38 PM
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Yeah it worked. My roommate has even tried to jump out of shadows to scare me after I come home, and I just look at him and slowly shake my head (which he found very funny). I used to be pretty jumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:32 PM
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A guy who's autistic-spectrum, can't meet people, serious issues socially, etc needs to avoid TRP for all that's holy. They must learn social skills from the ground up, and there's many many resources for that (Charisma on Command channel on YouTube is pretty good).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:23 PM
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I firmly believe people are imprinted with personality archetypes that can't be put into a box. Life experience doesn't make you unique, nor does biology--what makes you unique is just how your consciousness is. The "rules" put in place by biology are more like guidelines. Example: I hear a loud noise and I jump and my heart starts to race because it's a biological flight or fight trigger. Or, I could practice martial arts and learn to control my reactions, and loud noises have no effect on me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:10 PM
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Once again, either-or, black-and-white thinking is being demonstrated. Actionable advice doesn't preclude the mysterious and unpredictable nature of how humans interact, and how that itself is a variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:56 PM
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You're actually going on an abstract tangent. Do you want to have a giant philosophical debate about the nature of human consciousness, the soul, Aristotle vs. Plato, dualism versus non-dualism? I didn't think so. My point is that on a crass, surface-level, TRP is extremely materialistic and makes assumptions that everyone behaves like robots, which in my opinion wreaks of having a lack of actual experience with other human beings in the real world. There's also smug intellectual superiority in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:45 PM
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Example A: the black-and-white, either-or reasoning that consumes your subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:34 PM
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Living things... awfully convenient. Ah, nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 12:37 PM
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The main point of TRP is to increase your value as a man. The main point of Scientology is to eliminate mental health problems and live a life that's free and happy. The main point of something is not always a reflection of the actual culture around that point. TRP is steeped in ideologies, angry people sharing bad ideas, and the blind leading the blind. It's a toxic mess built around a foundation that obviously isn't "bad" per se.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/16 10:49 AM
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TBP is not a good resource. This subreddit is. I was banned from TBP for some very ridiculous reason, like saying "I don't entirely disagree with some TRPers that there's issues with feminists". I was met with "Oh, looks like another misogynist came from the bowels of TRP" and I was banned. But I don't mind. Like many in-group, out-group situations (with both groups dueling), TBP is more about ridiculing / pwning their opposition group. Which is obviously the worst way to go about showing people…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/16 10:44 AM
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Good points
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:30 AM
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This is a philosophical argument. But I forget, many TRPers take pride in their extreme, die-hard logic that does not need philosophical perspectives about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:13 AM
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One thing I've noticed here though, guys, is I've never met a woman in Turkey who wanted to go home with you the same night. You pretty much need to date them. But dating them is not particularly hard to do.
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:19 AM
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These are good points and I want to be a believer in what you're saying.
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:15 AM
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I dunno about that. I've heard that before but I don't buy it. Turkey for instance is right next to Europe, it's not that exotic for a guy with hair that isn't black to show up. I see a lot more dating going on in general. There are less hangups.
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:37 PM
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and it's not even that the girls are "easy" it's just to me like they're "normal"... emotions I get often from US girls like "paranoia" are instead replaced by "curiosity" (like normal healthy behaviors).
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:24 PM
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Okay I might drop ya a line sometime
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:17 PM
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It's a lot lower and I could also supplement my income by teaching English. Only problem is they treat English teachers in Turkey like bitches -- you work like 8 AM to 10 AM... then 8 PM to 12 AM on the same day. Gross. I do love the people here, of course the women, etc--but the country is experiencing big problems, so it's quite the double-edged sword. However, when you're in a country with a healthy social culture it feels like a breath of fresh air compared to USA.
/r/seduction20/04/16 08:17 PM
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Whatever happened to Assange, I'd bet my big toe that it's a political ploy to "get him"; simultaneously smear his reputation and get him behind bars. Assange is, after-all, a guy who's made enemies with various world governments and has lived in exile as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 05:02 AM
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Raw, primal masculinity and muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 03:23 AM
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Both are wrong. A woman should be shamed, though, if her promiscuity hurts people. For instance, she hooks up with guys in relationships and breaks families. I don't think a male virgin can cause much damage by comparison. Even the neckbeard stereotype who's angry. Shaming only adds fuel to the fire and it's better to direct them towards self-help, therapy, etc. But that's a perfect world. People will be assholes and will shame everyone about anything, constantly, including political affiliation…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 06:06 PM
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I like non PC jokes like this though, it actually made me snicker... But if I saw PC feminists sending this around, then Rage of Death would consume me
/r/MensRights28/11/15 03:41 AM
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You're annoying. Must people ask this of every post? Valenti is the opposition to men's rights. The post demonstrates the terrible priorities of feminists and relates to the zero-tolerance arrogance of people like Valenti. Why do I need to explain all this?
/r/MensRights28/10/15 07:47 PM
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A couple of thoughts about this: "Ghosting" is a better way to break up in MOST situations, especially if you've only been on a few dates or hooked up once or twice. Let each other grow apart naturally without putting the ego on the line. When this happens, I'll stay on good terms and there's no emotional issues. But if you're living with someone or it's obvious it's an LTR, you do NOT "ghost" at that point. This article is written from the perspective of an attractive woman with options. They g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:14 AM
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I think I've been rejected more than most on here from attempted first kisses. I can recount one (fairly recent) example that ended badly. Despite that we were having a really good time together, she just didn't like the fact I tried to kiss her. Every other girl I've tried to kiss, but got "the cheek" or another rejection, felt painful to me but ended up changing our relationship in some usually positive way. I was at dinner with a particular girl who rejected me pretty hard, but after the fact…
/r/seduction06/08/15 02:38 PM
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Considered taboo in the seduction community. But if i had thousands to spend on some tantric Goddess just for the experience of it maybe i'd do it once.
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:12 PM
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Josh was a predator, although not sociopathic. He just devoted his life to the PUA thing, constantly approaching until he was numb to it, and until his "numbers" started to compare to Adrian's. However, obviously this is a dumb path. It also did compromise his values as a human being, at least from what I saw. Maybe greedily wanting this much sex is the big problem. Maybe it's better to decide you don't want that much sex. Put down the dick measuring tape and focus on something else. Sociopathic…
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:05 PM
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There's no difference between his character and real life.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:57 PM
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It's bullshit that the height thing is purely attraction based. It's about ego. The idea a woman couldn't be attracted a man who's 5'11 and not 6'0 is laughable. Women write these things to give themselves some fake sense of gratification via superiority. In reality they're very insecure. It's why they're on dating sites to begin with. They can't find a relationship to save their lives. Face to face interaction is a LOT different from the internet. When some shorter guy is making her laugh and b…
/r/MensRights28/07/15 08:38 AM
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Well it turns out a friend of mine knows this guy's son and he's camped before with him, says he's a super nice guy and even tried to make amends with these witches but they showed no mercy.
/r/MensRights16/07/15 01:35 PM
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I just don't want to believe this is real, it's like some type of parody of itself, the feminists in question don't even look real - they look like parodies of feminists, with their emo glasses and cropped hair. Are we all just actors now on a stage? Has insanity now become ordinary? Has the modern civilized world suddenly deteriorated this badly?
/r/MensRights16/07/15 11:15 AM
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But are you part of an organized atheist militia or self described movement that organizes itself on forums and Wiki pages? Probably not. That's what I refer to.
/r/MensRights14/06/15 10:19 PM
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But the thing is i don't think femininity or masculinity is toxic. They just are. They're gender related personality traits. People are toxic not their genders. The problem is toxic people.
/r/MensRights14/06/15 08:28 PM
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SJW approved RPG games like Depression Quest
/r/MensRights12/06/15 11:35 AM
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It's fucking amazing to me that people go to school to get MBAs that cost $90k+, land positions in big social media companies, and make decisions like what happened at Digg. A blind commitment to "the bottom line" that makes people COMPLETELY FUCKING NEGLECT THE BOTTOM LINE BY DOING TOTALLY DUMB GREEDY SHIT. Sorry, had to vent :) It's astonishing. Really is.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 11:34 AM
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The idea that a gender is innately responsible for certain behaviors is how feminists think. Hopefully not how "MRAs" or egalitarians or whatever you want to call them think. So no need to apologize about being a woman here.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 11:30 AM
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Brilliant, you absolutely sound like a female version of a male TRP guy. Jagged from bad experiences with people. So you commit the greatest fallacy that anybody can commit, attributing an individual's behavior to their collective identity, in other words: generalizing and stereotyping. Through the ages this has been the cause of holocausts and hate groups. It occurs on a gender level when men get totally fucked over by women and women get totally fucked over by men, and desperate for answers th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 09:42 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 09:40 AM
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I assumed it would be a debate as in my post I say I loathe both blue and red pills. Apparently it was more popular a point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:09 PM
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It sounds like you just may not be good enough at these techniques, or attractive enough to make up for it. If someone is really good at playfully teasing people it doesn't come across as "antisocial weirdo territory," it comes across as good-natured fun. If someone is in great shape and dresses well they're going to get more > leeway if they push a bit too hard. If someone is really attractive they are going to get leeway no matter what they do, including follow vapid pickup advice on the Inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 06:29 PM
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Interesting ideas, nope_nic_tesla. Anita Sarkeesian and others like her are the ones spearheading new, "progressive" game design and there's a lot of pressure in the industry to kneel to it. Similar to the 90s "video games cause violence" the new big talking point we are hearing in the 10's is "video games cause sexism" which is also a ridiculous statement. Gamergate is as much a reaction to that as the Zoe Quinn thing. Cultural marxism is implemented particularly in communist countries. It's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 06:01 PM
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Mirrors my sentiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 05:54 PM
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Someone gave me gold.. Thank you! xoxo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 05:53 PM
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So the most privileged group in society should be coddled and told how special they are to protect their fee fees, or they'll join a cult out of spite? Just because cis white guys tend to be unaware of their privilege doesn't mean they're not privileged; it just means >they're both privileged and oblivious to all the little ways in which their lives are better than they would be if they weren't white, or were a woman, etc. I wanted to respond to this quote by Quantum a bit more in-depth. He / sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 05:43 PM
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You're a bi black woman? You've just single handedly destroyed the SJW argument. That was like a nuclear bomb going off. You're supposed to be saying oh, woe is me, the world hates me because I'm black, because I'm bi, because i'm a woman, now please tailor your society to accommodate me even MORE so I can reap the benefits. Anyway, kudos. And of course, quantum responds by telling you no, you ARE oppressed, dammit! It happens on an INDIVIDUAL level when someone doesn't take what you're saying s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:18 PM
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Nobody gets systematically shit on in any first world civilized city, you describe it like a woman in the USA or England is the same as a young girl in fucking Waziristan trying to go to school. In the USA if you're a black lesbian woman you can definitely succeed to an amazing degree, far beyond what your cisgindered shitlords can do. Why? Because most first world countries are based around merit, as with most companies and anywhere that isn't some backwoods hamlet in the Ozarks. I think it's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:13 PM
11

One thing I would add, and why I don't agree with much of TRP, is that while we are trying to claw our way into the 20 percentile to afford any kind of sexual options or recognition--TRP often advocates advice that sends this journey backwards and pushes us further into the 80%. Going out with Red Pill mindsets, being skeptical of womankind and trying to one-up their every move pushes me further into antisocial weirdo territory, and much further from the 20% group. The reason is because so often…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 03:04 PM
4

Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 02:07 PM
4

Your TRP speak is coming out of your own head. Alcockell has not indicated that he's some die-hard TRP philosophy supporter. He's expressing the frustration shared by many against self-declared SJWs like yourself (or at least, like you claim to be, and not just creating an internet persona for the purposes of attention and debate). Try answering his point: how can a white man with no money or status still be privileged compared to a woman who has those things and even has power over him? Granted…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 01:03 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:47 AM
2

Hehe very true and just like WWI it was an existing powder keg. Also appropriate because I am moving to Sarajevo this week. Maybe i'll make a video about this at the bridge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 11:36 AM
0

There's no logic in these responses. It sounds more like hissy fits from social misfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:56 PM
1

A lot of TRP rage on this thread. Thanks for your post Cherry, here are my thoughts from the place I call reality: Yes, men with GFs do have female friends. I have half as many female friends as male friends, and I have a LOT of friends. My last GF got a bit jealous of one of my female friends. I told her if I say goodbye to my friends for her sake then she can see the door. Was never an issue again (we broke up for other reasons and now she's one of my friends with zero problems) If a female fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:51 PM
2

I'm not in the army, I don't play rugby, I've never been married and I'm probably shorter than you. That being said, i can be around "alphas" all day because I'm not intimidated or worried about other men's status compared to my own. I don't care. Other men appreciate that. Put a Terper in a room with what they'd call alpha males like yourself, and I promise you it will become an insecurity fest / dick measuring contest (among themselves, not the 'alpha'). This is the surest way for me to see I'…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/15 12:34 AM
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Nah because Max wasn't pandering to them and wanting anything out of them. It wouldn't make a difference if it was a war truck of guys or girls, he just wanted to escape - and later, revenge.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 11:47 PM
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There's endless fucking evidence that TRP says and does these things noticeable any time you go to Return of Kings or a red pill subreddit. It's not an accusation because they ADMIT they believe these things. It's like accusing Catholics of believing in God. And my opinion is that they've all completely lost their marbles.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 06:41 PM
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A lot in the TRP community act just like "The Pedantic Cynic", extremely angry and crazy. Dealing with men's equality and fighting feminism is a pretty far cry from advocating to promote female eating disorders (RoK article) because women with emotional problems are easier to manipulate. I'm not going to go digging into TRP to find "evidence" you want because it's a slimy place and I don't want to depress myself / ruin my day.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 09:29 AM
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Just wrote a post in response to this about what TRP is really about. Give it a read.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 12:22 AM
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Actually, TRP is totally fucking toxic. It's hate with a veneer of masculine self-development. They literally teach spousal abuse and manipulation in relationships. They think "Dark Triad" traits of narcissism and psychopathy are GOOD things for dealing with a cruel, uncaring world. It's all in their fucking heads and they are fueled by feminist ire like gasoline, keeping them going like the drama queens they are.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 12:21 AM
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"The dates with cute nerdy girls turned into rejections from 10s" <--- This is exactly where TRP and some forms of the PUA world go wrong. They think going after women who are not bombshells is lowering your standards. It objectifies women and forgets that many other variables lead to attraction and chemistry besides society's view of the type of women a real "alpha" man possesses.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/15 09:16 AM
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The pics I posted of normal looking (not even overweight) you call ugly. This is why TRP guys must make horrible lovers. They think unless a woman looks like my second pic examples, she is garbage. It is shallow, vapid way to approach the opposite sex. It also proves my point very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 12:17 AM
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Regular women are not scheming, hypergamous sluts riding the cock carousel like TRP constantly describes. This only applies to certain personality types - namely "the catty mean girl". TRP - as it's a bigoted philosophy, believes these behaviors apply to all women. In reality it only applies to a minority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:58 PM
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As previous poster pointed out: boner test works on the regular looking girls I post pics of because they're approachable without games or bullshit. It's this way for me always now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:55 PM
0

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:54 PM
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ITT: TRP whining that they'd never lower their standards. Try lowering your standards. Especially if you're incel. You'll soon discover that standards involve things like personality and quality of a human being. You're not really lowering them, you're raising them. Date a normal looking girl like in my examples and watch what happens - cool girlfriend, dry spell over
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:46 PM
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how about having actual experience in relationships and knowing your satisfaction levels will depend on a lot more than initial sexual attraction, being able to identify the type of girl who will take massive effort to try and date with little return, and choosing regular women and not the hottest girl possible to gratify my ego
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:44 PM
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Up voted this by accident before I read "worship their partner"... err that's a pretty weird way to look at a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:41 PM
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Where did I equate that? I think I said something to the effect of "not all hot women are like that", however most hot women will generally date within their "league" and this is what drives some men nuts enough to go into TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:38 PM
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Because constantly trying to score with bombshells leads to the pain suffering and frustration I see apparent in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:32 PM
2

A TRP response at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:31 PM
1

I made it pretty clear in my post that the types of women I describe are quote "sub sections of attractive women" - not attractive women. Hence I am calling them "catty mean girls", not "attractive people".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:29 PM
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Catty mean girls I describe do not necessarily even have the most freedom like TRP thinks. They're obsessed with things like image, peer approval and money and this leads to suffering, being unable to find stable happy relationships while their "less attractive" (normal) girlfriends thrive in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:09 PM
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This response proves everything I wrote so well I don't think I even need to say anything else here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:06 PM
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Ok whatever I took out the slightly offensive part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 11:05 PM
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Regular woman: http://www.jobmail.co.za/blog/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Receptionist-Job-Vacancies.jpg A whole cluster of catty mean girls (various hair shades) that Terpers / PUAs are obsessed with: http://www.betcheslovethis.com/files/uploads/images/sororhouse.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/15 10:52 PM
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Dude wipe the spittle off your monitor. - About is a bit outdated. I live in Europe. Right now I'm in Prague, next Bosnia. I left LA some time back. I've been traveling the world for 10+ years occasionally returning to USA. I moved to LA after I returned from Thailand a few years ago, and it was a mistake. Just to build my online businesses and then leave again. - I don't have a mom and dad's place to go back to. My parents are nearly homeless and addicted to various weird things / cannot be hel…
/r/MGTOW27/04/15 04:22 PM
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Yeah but i'm not addicted to gaming and will stay inside 24 / 7 on my free time playing games :P like many of the lovable losers i've known throughout my entire life who substitute media for reality.
/r/MGTOW27/04/15 04:19 PM
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You're a demisexual who prefers Xer or Xym to him or her. You're also a member of the atheist community, but you're Muslim, and black (although you're really white) Stolen from the Godfrey SJW troller in the UK.
/r/MGTOW26/04/15 08:53 AM
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I see a lot of TRPers trying to hijack this thread, but this response really summed up something important. In the TRP / PUA worldview of doom, men and women aren't friends and connections are not real. The reality, however, is that friendship is where a lot of relationships start. "The friend zone" is exaggerated by these people. That only occurs if you're the needy "friend" trying to plead for romantic attention, IE: when PUAs whose lives revolve around trying to score try to be friends with a…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/15 10:25 AM
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d4. You clearly have no real world social experience to speak of. In real life, people socialize and become attracted based on personality types. Socializing doesn't begin and end in some pretentious nightclub, and further humans are not robots. You're a sad person. You need to disconnect from the cult brainwashing before it's too late.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 01:08 PM
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The point about the bar goggles is must reading for anyone trying to detox from the PUA mindset. Here you have a whole generation of men being taught to go to fucking bars and clubs to meet women, and then their entire perspective about women becomes polluted by the bar / club paradigm which, in itself, is completely disconnected from reality. The damage might be less serious if more men were to practice "day game", but the truth is many do not because it's more intimidating than going to a bar.…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 01:05 PM
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You guys from TRP posting here are like funny stereotypes of these people.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/15 11:27 AM
1

We can influence our own genes based on the environment, chemicals, and even thought.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/15 04:55 PM
1

Right now I am in Prague, Czech Republic. I've now met 2 different girls on the tram who I'm still in touch with. Then again, this isn't the USA.
/r/MensRights25/03/15 12:23 PM
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Well, I hope that you do find a way to deprogram. You have to recognize that while feminism is a kind of delusional denial about life, TRP is delusional projections about human nature. It discounts fundamental concepts like human empathy and compassion, and replaces them with "hard biological truths", in a world where increasing importance is taken off a mechanistic viewpoint, given new paradigms like epigenetics that suggests we are not merely slaves to whatever the DNA lottery gave us.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/15 12:19 PM
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Our guy deleted his replies. I guess that means we won the argument :\ lol, no need to delete though -- it's all in good debate -- I used to have the same view, during my PUA days I even called chicks by numbers, now it's only done as a joke with other guy friends who don't know better.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 11:50 PM
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I'd argue MRM is moderate and Red Pill is the radical faction.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 11:26 PM
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For educational purposes I will often venture into the grim hive known as Jezebel. And if feminism is not represented by mainstream "radfems" then I fear I don't know what feminism is then.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 09:08 PM
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It's awful because it's materialistic and mechanistic, which are dehumanizing ways of looking at people and the world. There are obvious factors that can make a person unattractive. Being overweight can be one. So you might be able to objectively say this is an issue. At the same time, a PUA would score a lovely girl who doesn't have a smoking enough body and perfect symmetry as a "6" when in reality she might be a "10" to a certain guy because of chemistry between those people. According to the…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 09:05 PM
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Yes and PUA people spend every waking hour attempting to perfect these types of things until it becomes, in itself, a type of insecurity where these habits are only being performed for the purposes of the mindset to acquire female attention; and the very fact it's being done with this motive actually sabotages their main intention.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 06:17 PM
2

What I don't understand is why "normal" feminists don't do more to distance themselves from gender nuts. Already this thread is offending the resident feminists here, but still silence on the issue of extremism.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/15 03:56 PM
2

You're a member of FEMEN?
/r/MensRights30/12/14 12:10 AM
3

BS...Malala was a blogger and activist for education before she was ever shot... that's why they targeted her... but then she didn't stop fighting even after that, what's up with the tinfoil hat craziness on here?
/r/MensRights28/12/14 08:34 AM
2

I'll add #7: the ladies in the Kurdish military who have been piloting ISIS killing aircraft all year (as well as leading ground offensives).
/r/MensRights28/12/14 08:32 AM
2

Yeah good point
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:13 AM
1

although I've gone for the kiss before when there was no social cues and I knew was taking a big risk, and it resulted in craziness (in a good way)...
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:49 AM
1

maybe so
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:48 AM
1

I think resentment may occur if the girl has a boyfriend and maybe feels angry that she was being tempted away....could explain it
/r/seduction20/11/14 01:03 AM
1

Good points
/r/seduction20/11/14 01:03 AM
1

The problem is sometimes waiting for the perfect moment. I've tried that and found myself waiting forever, and then the date ends and nothing happened. I start thinking "Uh oh, this isn't the perfect moment, better wait a little longer". I guess this is a different entire skillset.
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:33 PM
1

Also, I just checked your comment history. it's filled with gems like: "Literally go fuck yourself OR you can suck my huge black balls Ur choice bro " Like, every other post is some 5th grade bullshit reply like this. Dude, you're a troll. Who are you fooling?
/r/MGTOW19/11/14 08:17 AM
1

Yeah I'm not going to dismiss the guy just because he's famous I think part of the reason he is famous is because he's been a class A natural since puberty
/r/seduction03/09/14 03:04 AM
2

RoK had a new article up recently, the one about some girl who had an orgy with black men, and Roosh or whoever the boorish author is repeatedly emphasizes BLACK men, that a girl had the audacity to fuck BLACKS. RoK is definitely racist.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/14 09:04 AM
1

This is what I did and it's the best option. I shouldn't have even defriended White Knight, as others suggest it's better to just speak the truth and let them defriend you. What i find startling is that simply discussing feminism is interpreted as an attack on feminism, and thus an attack on all women. These people are all gender studies types at my college. They get fed this nonsense and it turns them into gender-bigots. People think MRM is gender bigotry. It's really funny. I've seen little ev…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:38 PM
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Thanks, you really helped. I realized it may be best to simply remove updates in my feed from hardcore feminists (unfollow). That way, I simply don't see what they post, without defriending, which could create a reputation of being a drama-queen. It was "White Knight" who really made me weep (figuratively). He's a classic orbiter. He hangs around our mutual friend. He's tall and kind-of handsome, he shouldn't be a tool, but he's always trying to "score points" constantly. Reading his bullshit, e…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 07:26 AM
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My site in the manosphere www.developedman.com is hopefully skewing more in that direction (maybe it was less so at the inception, but certainly is now), and my book How to Become a Powerful, Sexy Man is pretty much all about this (it does pretty well on Amazon). But I also feel wary even about my own work sometimes because it de facto associates itself with PUA and even TRP
/r/ExRedPill02/07/14 08:41 AM
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Like a lot of RoK posts this one is too heavy on the blame women angle. It's a man's choice to make these terrible decisions. So, take some fucking responsibility. Even a wife who you're not into is not your wife's fault, it's your fault for picking her. It's also fine to want a house and a family. This was called the "American dream" only when it works. Make a shit ton of money and then dump it all into a house that's fully paid off. Find a woman who's not materialistic and have a great life wi…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 03:23 AM
1

Good story bro, tell it again. lol jk, I've been in the same spot before.
/r/seduction04/06/14 10:05 PM
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Yeah i'm not religious at all, either. I don't think spirituality and religion have much to do with one another, except some religious people also call themselves spiritual.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:37 PM
1

Your hivemind analogy is really humorous. Thank you.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:23 PM
1

Haha that's how I felt following that incident. I remember having awkward lunch with him at the hostel a couple of days later.
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:45 PM
3

Bitterposer has the most up-votes on this thread. There sure are a lot of weird paradoxes online. Somebody comes to a sub and bashes all the people in it and everybody loves him. Other times people post real content and everyone downvotes / hates.
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:00 PM
1

I hear you, but there's a major demographic being missed here: awkward, nerdy girls who can't find guys to like them. It's also a myth that sex is available in abundance for any woman. So wrong. I've known a lot of girls who could have desperately used a women's attraction movement to help them. It's also I think a myth that men only want good looks, and a few other attributes. Confidence is a big factor. Show me a hot girl with no self confidence, I'll show you a girl I'll run screaming away fr…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:45 AM
1

True that, just some in this industry think they're expert social controllers and so they try erm... outside of the box tactics on people they perceive as competition :) it's more brutal than other industries for sure, by a large amount.
/r/seduction04/06/14 09:22 AM
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Until you have a product or book of your own out. People come out of the woodwork to smear you. It's quite sad.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:56 AM
1

Yeah I disagree. I was taking a look at Red Pill Women. Also, the huge growing list of female MRM supporters. I know MRM is kind of goofy but the women who back it seem to have totally woken up out of the matrix. You're saying something can't happen just because the culture is broken. I'm saying a culture can change within a decade or sooner when an idea is ready to sprout.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:10 AM
1

My thoughts as a guy: I'm a mature person so if I see nipples, I don't care. If uncovered breasts make me feel a bit turned on, I think "cool, my day just got a little better". But we're living in an immature society. The Red Pill / attraction / PUA worlds actually foster greater sexual maturity because you look objectively at the topic and understand our instincts and desires. In a culture realistic about sexual attraction it wouldn't be a big deal for a woman to walk around without her shirt o…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 01:21 AM
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lol I am so confused, progressive doesn't just mean political statements, it means moving forward past old outdated things, and there's some junky dating advice on the web... so I aimed for the book to move forward past that.
/r/seduction25/03/14 11:40 PM
1

This is a good book, and I agree with Alan
/r/seduction21/01/14 11:47 PM
1

Thanks buddy!
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:29 AM
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Thanks dude, that's the idea... gotta beat some of the obvious stuff into your head to learn it, at least in my opinion.
/r/seduction04/10/13 09:33 PM
-1

Thanks, and that's the point!
/r/seduction04/10/13 12:19 PM
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Yeah I mean she's into you enough that she's replying to you, but by over thinking any chick you're committing self sabotage, you're pursuing her too much and that's not going to work out too well.
/r/seduction20/09/13 12:31 AM
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http://developedman.com/escape-friend-zone/ <-- Here's the follow-up. Not posting it on /r/seduction so I'm not a toolbag spammer, though.
/r/seduction18/09/13 10:28 PM
0

Second friend zone article on the way...
/r/seduction18/09/13 05:09 PM
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Yeah but the big riddle is how to develop new personality traits while remaining "authentic" to yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/13 05:08 PM
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Not a bad idea, I think I'll work on that for some next write-ups ~ C.K.
/r/seduction18/09/13 04:59 PM
2

It's part of an old meme I stumbled across, the caption would say "A moment of silence for the bro on the right in the friend zone"
/r/seduction18/09/13 10:07 AM
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There's a lot of confusion in this stuff, and I'm trying to eliminate at least some of it through my own moments of clarity. Thanks a lot for the feedback!
/r/seduction18/09/13 10:06 AM
1

Yeah, I dunno, the thing about texting is that it's hit or miss. You SHOULD be yourself, but also if a girl doesn't get right back to you, then like the Jay Z song -- "on to the next one". Being "mysterious" also, you have to kind of internalize, and it's more about not revealing everything you're doing to a girl you're dating, being a little bit unavailable.
/r/seduction18/09/13 06:12 AM
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Thanks dude, I appreciate the feedback, and I'm stoked you liked the article. This realization changed everything for me, and I was hoping other people would like it too after I extracted it out of my brain and pushed it out into the world. ~ C.K.
/r/seduction18/09/13 04:50 AM
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Hey Timbo, If I was coaching you, and you were talking about cockslapping bitches, I'd find a huge dildo and cockslap you with it. The point is, there's a difference between not worrying about what you say, and being a misogynist. If you say what you want but you're coming from a bad place, then yeah... that's bad news. ~ C.K. (By the way thanks for the feedback actually....)
/r/seduction17/09/13 08:18 PM
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