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If girls give you stick, pull out "I'm taller lying down". Always works wonders for me.
/r/seduction14/10/12 04:22 PM
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it actually does wanders for me, I can't remember where I got it from though
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:17 PM
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I honestly don't know, I enjoyed staying at home and just monging out and playing games and EVEN now sometimes its an effort to go out and socialise. I think even up until last year i'd turn down plans to stay in alone. But i have a good time when I go out and I think now the only difference is I find it easier to force myself, and I do have a good time when I go out. I think you should look more at why you're not having a good time, excluding because you're socialising as an option. Maybe you n…
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:04 PM
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I dunno man, I used to sit indoors playing video games crazy amount of hours a day. I had invites to places but I would prefer to sit indoors. I think it was a combination of social anxiety and introversion.
/r/seduction26/09/12 08:25 AM
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Honestly, I've looked through alot of different resources but seddit is probably the most helpful. I learnt the most from people's FR's more than blogs etc, seeing what worked for some people and not for others. Also, trial and error goes a long way. When I first started getting #'s I was too boring with my opening and comfort building. I overcame that but then I was too forward with asking girls out, I've not managed to find a good balance between rapport/being forward which I tailor depending …
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:13 AM
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Why dont you just wait and see what happens? If you act semi cold you're showing you were affected by it and you care. (dont do that). And please don't say the other line about giving other girls time and shenanigans, thats unbelievably cringey and wont accomplish anything. When you reply to her text, just act normal, upbeat, unaffected: "Ahh no worries i ended up doing XXXX anyway, hope you had a good night". From there you can act semi cold by texting her less, or gaming other girls by JUST DO…
/r/seduction14/09/12 01:10 PM
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this
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:07 PM
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ways of touching the girl in question, like the examples i've given above.
/r/seduction07/09/12 04:00 PM
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I'm afraid there's nothing to it but just getting down and doing it. I also used to be really uncomfortable with the thought of kino but the way you need to think about it is: When a girl touches you, you like it, right? It's the same for them, they like being touched, people in general find it re-assuring, as a sign they're liked. I personally still cant bring myself to randomly high five a girl like some guru's do in day game, but I do things like: Put my arm out for girls to link it when we'r…
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:08 AM
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No, not even a little, infact I wish we'd never met
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:30 AM
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like the second one, the third one is a bit dangerous to send in a text
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:29 AM
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I'd consider myself a sick dancer, I learnt just going out all the time clubbing and watching how my friends danced (those who were also sick dancers) and slowly over time I picked it all up and incorporated more moves from different people. Just next time you're out watch how people are dancing, with girls or without and try and imitate it next time. Short of taking a dance class that's really the best advice I can give you.
/r/seduction06/09/12 09:28 AM
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tl;dr: grow a pair.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:43 PM
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Baby steps are a load of bullshit, you can spend ages taking baby steps but its still gonna be hard as shit talking to a hot girl out the blue, even if you've practiced these bullshit baby steps talking to people step by step, just take the fucking plunge and talk to a girl, thats not going to kill you is it???? As soon as you've done it once you realise, hey, thats not that bad. And I learnt how to swim by being chucked in the deep end.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:39 PM
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What other advice do you expect apart from just do it? How do you overcome shyness? By being the opposite of a shy person. Do you think not every single person here is scared by the thought of approaching a random woman or has been at some point, I've been there, I was shy as shit now im confident as fuck. And I did that by PUTTING MYSELF OUT THERE
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:05 PM
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Nah sorry, I used to be an "introvert" or a "Shy person". I had about 3 friends, stayed in doors playing video games 24/7 apart from school from ages 14-18, as soon as i went to uni I just grew some balls and started talking to people. At the end of the day if you're an introvert and you come on these forums asking how to become more social or how to get girls, thats the answer, man up and do it. What's holding you back? Whats the POINT of baby steps? I've been where you've been before maybe eve…
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:02 PM
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Her place or yours really doesnt matter, maybe go to her place as she'll be more comfortable, but not so if you think her flatmates will be around to complicate things. Use the lesson as a chance to use lots of kino, i.e. position yourself behind her and guide her hands and body on how to hold the guitar, do and use as much kino as possible with the guitar lesson as an excuse. Keep it flirty during the lesson. If an opportunity arises for a kclose during the lesson, take it. Personally I'd go do…
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:48 PM
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Dont say give me your number or slap me, just give her the phone and get the number without the slap comment. Good FR otherwise mate, good going, definitely interested
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:09 PM
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Take them back to yours, pour a glass of wine each, cheesy as it is have some tunes on in the background. Alternatively put a horror on and they'll basically be cuddling up to you during the scary parts, although in recent weeks I've found a film can be a distraction. If they accept an invite to come over to yours then they're basically game, making a move is always hard but just do it and in future it'll be easier with new girls the more practice you get. Bottom line, invite them to your place …
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:17 AM
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I used to be the EXACT same as this, after you make the moves a couple of times you really get comfortable with it in the future. It's especially hard after you've been in relationships for a while and arent used to making a move on a new person. Basically, you need to just man up and go for it. Sorry.
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:43 AM
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I wouldn't try again, balls in her court now
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:35 AM
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Haha only one way to find out brother, but it almost DEFINITELY seems like a booty call. Next time she asks what you're up to just say you've just got back to yours from some event and you're chilling, ask if she wants to come over and have a couple of drinks.
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:34 AM
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yeah you might be right there about the distraction thing, maybe thats where i'm going wrong. Think i just need to man up about it really. But yeah top marks for that pirating line, definitely stealing it
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:52 PM
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really good report, really well played on your part from start to finish, good going bud. One part im really struggling with is making a move when you've got a girl back at yours and you're watching a movie, I can never escalate even if I KNOW shes interested, any tips/moves?
/r/seduction20/08/12 11:22 AM
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this guy is spot on, you've made a lot of mistakes so far already and missed your opportunity already most likely.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:40 PM
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who cares about being too forward man, woman will respect you more if you make some moves rather than being the pussy who gets friendzoned because he didnt know whether or not she was interested
/r/seduction14/08/12 10:05 PM
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Hi. Hows it going?
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:05 AM
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I think silly and goofy is the wrong phrase to use from him, but I think an ability to joke around and challenge a girl is important
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:02 AM
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I used to be like this, I think you have to notice yourself doing it and opportunities to open up a little bit, I'll show you a log from me talking to a girl on fb: me: yourself? been up to much? her: Im ok thanks. Ermm got bk from holiday yest and now at my grandada me: oo where'd you go? enjoy it? hows your grandada doing her: Turkey, yeah was nice thanks her: Yeah he ok thanks in the past I would have just continued this mundaine conversation, but I saw an opportunity to be silly and bust her…
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:02 AM
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I think you've got 2 routes to go down here, first one is if you want to see her again: "I respect that but I definitely want to see again, give me your number" Or words to that effect Second one is if you wanna push through with trying to bring her back to yours, just keep kissing in the club or give her an excuse to come back to yours. Lets go back to mine to drink lets go back to mine to watch a film, 'I respect that i'm just having fun with you' or some bullshit like that, then when shes bac…
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:57 AM
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Don't bother texting her or contacting her, if she contacts you first then you can assume she's probably interested, and you can transition into asking her to meet up again. It sounds like shes not all that interested though if I'm honest, but I dont know the girl so it's possible shes just shy + inexperienced, might not be worth your time either way.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:50 AM
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I'm no expert but i'd definitely get rid of the part about whether or not you're a nice person or an expert manipulator. The rest is a little too cheesy and upyourself for my liking, but I'm not sure about how it would go down for online dating.
/r/seduction02/08/12 08:47 PM
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try geocaching, bitches love geocaching. http://www.geocaching.com/ You basically walk around doing a treasure hunt using an app on your phone, people leave shit around and you have to find it using the app/gps. Great when the weathers nice you can just walk and talk and most of the hidden stuff is in parks/green areas you can sit in after
/r/seduction28/07/12 06:40 PM
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Good going buddy, this is something you and everyone else with AA needs to constantly remind themselves. Even if you blow out during an approach you will feel better for having tried, more like the man you should be acting like and it will still improve your confidence. Keep it up and hold on to that feeling of confidence.
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:46 PM
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Slowly move in, you have nice eyes (whilst holding eye contact) bam k-closs.
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:43 PM
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Mate, thats fucking good on you. It's a good move that you rejected her and don't see her in that way because of how she messed you around, means you keep your pride and dignity rather than being a spineless man who would have slept with her and kicked off with her. I think it's natural, it's like when my ex calls me up crying and I really don't care for it anymore even though I used to be CRAZY about the girl before she messed me around, I hung out with her a couple of weeks ago and I was think…
/r/seduction16/07/12 09:27 AM
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the only reason you want this to work is because its the only girl you've had a shot with, not because you actually like her. Who gives a fuck if it's the only girl? Just means you haven't been gaming hard enough and gives you even more time to improve yourself. I cant STRESS how important it is to not have this mindset where this girl is your only shot, as a result you will act needy which is what has happened here. Keep gaming, get a couple of girls on the go, come back to this thread, and you…
/r/seduction14/07/12 07:56 PM
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trust me guy, you are overthinking things here. You're not a dancing monkey for these girls you dont ENTERTAIN her, you ENTERTAIN eachother, if thats not happening its not just your fault mate, trust me. If you want to be attractive in a 'entertaining' way, just be positive, happy, watch some stand up to become wittier. I'm absolutely loving life atm and as a result people love hanging out with me because i'm so happy and just want to have fun currently. Just work on your inner frame and your ab…
/r/seduction09/07/12 05:12 PM
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I think you're overthinking things. Think of all the limitless questions and things you can ask: "Where do you work" "Do you like it" / "Why did you want to work there" / "Can you see yourself there in the future". They answer they really enjoy it. You ask "What about it do you enjoy so much?" So on and so on, this will also help to build deep rapport and an emotional bond as they're not just talking about the basics but instead their feelings toward things. Practice Practice Practice this until…
/r/seduction09/07/12 03:47 PM
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Don't worry and get into your own head too much on the date, just be confident and if you guys are a good fit then it will be easy, if not then no worries anyway, the LTR wouldnt have worked out either. Just have fun and be the guy who loves to have fun, be confident, have some questions you've thought of in your head to ask incase the conversation goes dry.
/r/seduction05/07/12 10:40 AM
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Thanks for the comment, I agree with some of what you said, particularly points, all but 1 perhaps. I think the girl is just bad at replying via text, a lot of her friends have said that to me and I know it for a fact almost from other things. Unfortunately, the social circle is coming to a close, we've just finished university and grad ball will be the last time i'll bump into her. I do agree my texts might be a bit boring and I'm reading your blog and looking on sidebar for ways I can improve …
/r/seduction04/07/12 08:55 PM
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That's brilliant. I love it, recommend waiting until she texts back or shall I just swoop in for it now?
/r/seduction04/07/12 06:01 PM
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A large part of seduction and pickup is confidence and self-belief. The fact of the matter is we'll never really know what she was thinking, but out of the two options presented, yours and the other one, which are both sensible, I'd prefer to believe the other one as that's the one I'll come away with confident and feeling good about myself. You can come back and call it delusion, but that's the sort of positive frame and outlook I believe you should have when looking at these sorts of interacti…
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:36 PM
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fucking great movie, everyone on this subreddit should watch that
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:18 PM
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honestly man, just go for it. It's hard getting the balls to go up and start a conversation but after that its really easy, and whether or not you get rejected you WILL feel better for having tried, more like a man. It's a great feeling when things are going well with ladies, your confidence will be sky high and something as simple as going to a shop will be made more entertaining as you are always gonna be on the lookout for more women to meet once you get into that state of mind.
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:31 PM
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very perceptive and actually makes sense now that you've said it. Spot on.
/r/seduction03/07/12 01:01 PM
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Man up.
/r/seduction03/07/12 11:56 AM
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Mindset is more or less everything, make sure you dress and groom well to improve your chances tonight. I guarantee you'll feel better about yourself even if you get shot down, just because you'll feel more like a man and you actually had the balls to at least try. You'll find most girls will smile at you if you smile at them at the bar or on the dance floor or whatever, and then there's your in. Just make sure not to be too drunk, and go out more with the focus of enjoying yourself and meeting …
/r/seduction30/06/12 07:50 AM
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It WILL get easier when you start forcing yourself to get over it and start taking the first steps.
/r/seduction29/06/12 09:33 PM
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I think if you haven't said it then you're not doing anything wrong. It's her fault for assuming otherwise. If it comes down to her bringing it up then just calmly explain that's not what you're after and that you assumed she knew that. Then again, it DOES sound like she is into you and wants more so if you don't want to be a dick about it then you're probably just better off avoiding her for a bit and letting the whole thing cool down, or even ending it, because I think if you sit her down and …
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:16 PM
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I always find that I feel better for trying and getting rejected than not trying at all, feel like more of a man, I always remember that when going up for approaches. I find the walk over and the first words difficult, but as soon as thats out of the way it's all smooth sailing really. I don't really condone or believe the ideas about giving people money to hold on to then getting it back after an approach, I think you've just gotta man up and it's something that will go with time. Daygame just …
/r/seduction28/06/12 08:07 PM
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its not too difficult or expensive to have them tailored, I have the exact same problem and have them all tailored for around £8 a pair. Can probably find it for cheaper as well
/r/seduction25/06/12 04:40 PM
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