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Fair enough. I mean I don’t disagree with you. But let me clear some stuff I don’t put any effort to have a conversation with my matches. I ask them out on the first message. Had to mention that I think. Obviously I would have more dates if I talked to them a bit first. But I don’t have the energy for that unfortunately + am scared I will get invested and then ghosted if I do so I avoid it people take advice from this sub like is the bible. Most of the time if she takes a day to reply she is not…
/r/seduction11/08/24 11:00 PM
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true on that
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:07 PM
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I removed it from my bio sorry. Shit got too popular and too many of you started hitting me up haha
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:52 PM
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They remember. Always. Some times they reach out after months
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:49 PM
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I may cook for her. Honestly if it goes second I have the upper hand
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:29 PM
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Of course it is. They think am taller in person as well. Most girls think am 5 11 when they see me cause most of you guys are lying lol
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:14 PM
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drinks at a bar
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:49 PM
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I don't enjoy clubbing. I enjoy raves and am too fucked to approach there. Most of the times when I go clubbing there is a good looking girl staring at me. So I go and talk to her and it works out and we have fun. Relationships or even casual dating don't ever come from clubbing tho
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:49 PM
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Yap and they do keep me on their roaster cause all of them still liking all my posts and stories on Instagram every time. I just don't plan messaging them ever again. Its ok. no hard feelings. I have attachment issues as well. I just wish they communicated a bit better since I put effort and money. Just a "was nice meeting but am not feeling it" honestly would be enough.
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:31 PM
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I suck and am boring
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:25 PM
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Sorry to hear that mate. She shouldn't have said that. Its also because you are young. It gets a bit better. I have a friend better looking than me, 6'3 as well and professional model. But he only 20. He doesn't do very good with women either. They find him "cute" at that age. I had the same experience. Don't stress about it.
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:23 PM
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Maybe mate. I don't think so tho based on feedback I've gotten from them. They told me am more fun than most guys they go out with (didn't ask, volunteered the information on their own). I just think the spark is getting lost somewhere.
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:13 PM
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hahaha dude you made me laugh. Yeah am pretty much the definition of a fearful attachment style. I swear am working on it I may or may not have untreated BPD They do think am funny I think. I do attract girls with savior complex tho
/r/seduction11/08/24 08:04 PM
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You are not FUCKED haha. Let me clear out some things since this post got more attention than it should lol Out of the 22 I rejected/ didn't wanna reach out to about half of these girls. So is not only their fault. I want to make clear that these stats are NOT about dating average looking girls. These girls are all attractive. Especially, the girls in category D (made out on the date but ghosted) and category F (The girls I dated for over a month) were all very attractive (the model I mentioned …
/r/seduction11/08/24 07:58 PM
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Am a guy that pays and don't even wanna think about the money part. Honestly I think am gonna stop paying on the first date
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:21 PM
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Honestly I would wanna exit if she has a boyfriend with her. I don’t wanna make another dude feel uncomfortable
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:28 PM
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Yap I have the same problems. I don’t do sports or dancing or climbing. I go to the gym. That’s it My main hobbies are music and DJing. Most people don’t go outside to do that. People telling you to pick a hobby that you like to make friends. But PICK A HOBBY YOU LIKE ONLY FROM THESE 3 HOBBIES THAT ARE SOCIAL lol (Also music and film that am interested are super male dominated) This advice is suggested a lot an pisses me off. Is not pick a hobby. Is pick a hobby that is social and also has women…
/r/seduction17/06/24 05:28 PM
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Hinge. Don’t use tinder unless you are in a country that only has tinder. No dating app is gonna be easy. I have 2000 matches and still don’t get that many dates. Been to 30 or smthing
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:16 AM
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Listen am not a moralist. It’s a grey area really and we all been in both sides of that and we know it hurts. Most people are not super communicative so let’s be honest. It’s a bit like saying “is not my fault you are easy to manipulate” But again am not judging, there is def worst in this world. But take note that whatever you put in the dating market can be normalised and come back and bite you. That’s why it’s nice to treat others the way we are expecting people to treat us
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:00 PM
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Our monkey brains confuse sometimes someone who is hard to get with “higher value”
/r/seduction09/05/24 08:48 PM
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And the more you ignore her and then meet again the more she will obsess over you. However, if you have morals don’t do it. It works but not cool
/r/seduction09/05/24 12:04 PM
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This is the right answer. Your brain learns from data/experience. If you get negative data you may get negative idea of your self and become like those black pillars. Honestly I got more confident by getting rejected less not more lol
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:50 PM
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I agree with the woman here saying about older men manipulating younger girls btw. You are older, you have more experience. You know what buttons to press if you want. As long as your intentions are good However and don’t cause her any trauma for your benefit I think is ok
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:46 PM
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Am 26 so is normal for me to date young girls cause am not that old. However, if you want a relationship bare in mind that they are not going to be very mature (which is normal ofc, hell I doubt I even had any proper empathy at that age. I was a dickhead). I would say depends where you are in life and what you want from the relationship
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:43 PM
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What is high for u? Cause 20 I don’t consider it high for a 25 years old woman who s been single Now +40. For long term? No unfortunately I wouldn’t. I would casually date her tho, nothing serious. I don’t think there is anything wrong with hight body count. Like do what you want with your life ofc. But I don’t wanna be the “nice guy” who took you seriously after having a hoe phase. It’s an ego thing. Am swallow I know but oh well
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:28 PM
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After reading about it I think I may have it but am scared to check myself out
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:52 AM
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Am 26. There only been two girls in my life I was willing to stop dating other girls for. Unfortunately, one of them was still “not ready for a relationship” (she was super avoidant attachment style btw) and the other one hasn’t texted me back for 2 days Those 2 are the only girls I can confidently say “They are perfect for me, I need nothing more” Unfortunately they don’t seem to be feeling the same way about me. So until I find someone that I like as much I like them and also likes me this way…
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:56 AM
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Yeah am curious if the post is sincere or an act to advertise her only fans or whatever she has. If it is she is in the wrong subreddit for that. Anyway, I hate dating advice on Reddit. We don’t know the real situation. He may be stressed which blocks wanting sex or worried about something or not attracted to her anymore Can’t say. We don’t know. She needs to ask or use her brain about what it is
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:27 PM
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Yeah I think that’s the optimal
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:04 AM
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So basically you saying that if they find you the hottest guy ever they will go out with u no matter what. I agree. And was doing this often. However, this way you will only go out with girls that are much less good looking than you. Am getting older am tired of fucking girls I don’t like. If a girl is around your level she probably not gonna lose her shit matching with you. Ideally tho you want someone in ur level
/r/seduction16/04/24 11:02 AM
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But mine is not good :p
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:53 AM
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What? I honestly don’t understand. Am also born 97 so barely gen z When did I say I text a lot. Quite the opposite. That’s why I ask for advice lol
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:11 AM
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I have seen the Brad Pitt test here on Reddit but am not entirely agreeing with it for the following reason. They will say yes to Brand Pitt cause in a way they already know him. They know he has status, the seen his personality on videos, overall they know who he is and are ensured that going out with him would be a good date However, if someone that looks exactly like Pitt asks them out wouldn’t be the same. Cause they don’t know him. He hasn’t charmed them yet to ensure them they gonna have a…
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:03 AM
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I know but a lot of women are turned off by that. I talked to a lot irl and said that wouldn’t go out with someone asking them right away Ngl I ve been to a few dates this way tho so is not all of them Honestly is all about being lucky sometimes and hitting her up while she is on the right mood and not burned out from life
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:27 PM
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Oh I know and you are absolutely right. While on holidays I went to an Erasmus thing and getting girls to like you there and making friends was like the easiest thing ever + felt natural and effortless. I also attracted one of the prettiest girls I ever knew and was half as hard compared to having a convo on hinge. Living in the city tho, I feel like it’s easier to get famous and date Megan fox rather than building a real community haha
/r/seduction15/04/24 09:02 PM
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Tinder is dead it has 90% men. Hinge has both . A lot of girls have a “figuring out my dating goals” on their profile and I ve hooked up a few time on the first date from it Anyway am not even against relationships. Am open to both honesty (but my standards are a bit higher for relationship)
/r/seduction15/04/24 08:42 PM
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not really, I improved but dealing with childhood trauma and anxiety doesn't help I replied to someone here on detail if u wanna read
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:46 PM
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Gonna be honest with you. Am not where I wanna be. I'm still afraid of rejection. Still relying on my friends to start the conversation sometimes. I wouldn't be on this sub otherwise. Why would I. Nobody here is that much of a player But am much much better than I ever was and the benefits of confidence and taking action are very clear to me One good and bad thing about being above average looking is there is always some decent looking girl hitting on you/or looking at you very obviously. So you…
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:42 PM
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XD man I had some good competition I swear hahaha
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:38 PM
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I kind of agree with you but also hear me out. You still need to work on your confidence, mental health and all of that (besides attractiveness) and here is why I can speak from experience. I remember being called the most handsome in the class in highschool. In uni I remember my friend's girlfriends asking my mates how the heck I was always single. And basically my whole life I've been called good looking many times by several people. I never did well with women. Years of anxiety, depression an…
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:41 AM
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