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DJiamuzak/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/18 11:10 PM
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You mention communicating her value verbally and non-verbally. Can you share what that looks/looked like?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 02:05 PM
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I like field reports. They give you more situational context.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/23 02:01 PM
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Your goals are results. What are you going to do DAILY to achieve them? When you feel like whacking off, what are you going to do instead? When you go to shove the cake in your face, what are you going to do instead?
/r/askMRP24/04/23 02:04 PM
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One of the things you’ll realize if you have success, is that it will be empty when you get it. Respect for your peers, your wife, lots of money, cars, being the best at something, etc. Work on yourself relentlessly, mentally. Queue up the next goal. You can be better no matter where you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/23 08:17 AM
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I’ve idealized a lot of people in my life. They had $100MM dollar businesses, or had the perfect family life, or had the the perfect marriage. I sought those people because I didn’t know any better. As I became more acquainted, I found they were just f*cked up as me. It’s not about screw them. It’s about finding out what you want. What makes you right. One of the hardest things in my life is balancing family, marriage, business, and money. Everyone is doing the best they can. Even the curators o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/23 08:11 AM
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A timely comment for me. It’s easy to fall into old behaviors. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 05:57 AM
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You want to have kids and a life with this person? Run!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/22 11:44 AM
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One thing that may be helpful is to do positive affirmations first thing in the morning. It prevents you from ruminating on negative experiences and builds a positive mindset.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 01:25 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy. When I Say No, I Feel Guilty
/r/askMRP24/12/21 02:26 PM
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So after being banned 4 times, here you are again? If it doesn’t bother you…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 02:55 AM
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I was going to write the same thing. OP is older than his years to be sure. When those kids come, you need titanium for that mettle.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 01:54 PM
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...or, he hires a maid and she complains incessently about how the maid cleans. Ask me how I know. You help OP at the bottom only with ‘go lift’.
/r/askMRP27/03/21 03:20 PM
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I wish more IT guys had this epiphany! If you can execute on leadership, your value will be exponential.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 02:33 PM
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This whole thread was a rouse to bust out your victim hood with your woke essay. P!ss off.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 02:59 PM
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From someone who didn’t use OYS, I’d recommend it. My progress has been ok but could’ve been much faster had I used the group for accountability. Regardless, if you’re serious about improving your situation, do it.
/r/askMRP13/01/21 02:55 PM
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I thought this too. Whenever an accusation comes, it could be her mirroring.
/r/askMRP02/01/21 04:55 PM
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Agreed. In addition to what @johnmic07 said about business. You also have a partner. In times of difficulty, partners can do unpredictable and irrational things under stress. A year of no income is stressful.
/r/askMRP13/07/20 01:30 PM
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I was planning to write a 2 year FR about enjoying the “epic” sh!t test. Just when you think you’ve killed your ego they find another crack or crevice to shove a pry bar into. Clever critters but it is a gift. Truly. I’m enjoying the game or sometimes challenge. I’m glad you wrote this post because mine wouldn’t be nearly as articulate. Excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 04:24 AM
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When my wife and I married, she had a much better job and way more financial assets. I was dirt poor. It took me quite a few years to march her wages.
/r/askMRP19/12/19 04:38 AM
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I would like to know more about your comment. My wife squirts. I’m sure it’s not piss. She hardly drinks any fluid (I frequently encourage her to drink more water.) When she uses the bathroom it reeks. Squirt is clear and odorless. Can you point me to the science?
/r/askMRP16/10/19 03:47 AM
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I’ve had this thinking from time to time. It’s usually because I’m depressed. Go get help from a doc. I can also assure you that when you have goals and strive towards them, you get great satisfaction. Then you find other goals. What drives me most are the goals to help others.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 01:58 PM
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Welcome. BAD NEWS ALERT: this is going to take you years and it will be a sh!t ton of work. I could've written the first part of this story verbatim (except I didn't cheat-no judgment). Once she became my wife, sex dried up. Almost completely. I got starfish once every 1-2 weeks. "Just finish", "It hurts", etc. Doctor appointments to validate vagina medical condition. I'm similar age with 2 late teens in the house. My situation is MUCH different today. There isn't much off the table sexually...b…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:05 PM
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Absolutely. I stumbled onto his site a few times. It eventually brought me here. Excellent content.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/19 02:41 PM
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U/resolutions316, I love your posts. No offence but your progress is blindingly slow. To our benefit, you articulate every feeling and nuance. This helps me immensely since I have a different approach: act, assess, and adjust. Your posts help me fill in the spots I may have missed. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/19 03:42 PM
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I never thought about that. Objection handling = DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/19 01:51 PM
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I’m having trouble wrapping my head around your fear? I guess we all have something we’re afraid of. You get up and perform in front of an audience. I feared public speaking. Got into a Toastmasters group. Had mini panic attacks before going to meetings. But literally forced myself to go. Had accountability. Did it. It was holding my career back. It was a long process to build confidence. I’m not going to say it is a snap now but I can deliver hour(s) long presentations. You wouldn’t be here if …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 05:09 AM
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Damn. I’m working hard over here. All this time there’s a Red Pill magic wand?
/r/askMRP30/03/19 02:55 PM
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Getting tested was exhausting. I had the same mentality as you. (I still have when I'm super tired.) The shift for me was when I realized, that's her job. She needs to know I can handle her, her moods, and anything that gets thrown our way. The mental shift you need (and I need when I'm tired) is either: funny demeanor, STFU, or amusement. Last night we're getting along great. She walks to the dishwasher and starts in about the way "someone" loaded it. I just said, "You know the dishwasher told …
/r/askMRP08/02/19 05:01 PM
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Late forties guys here. Every year we do a week sex vacation (planned by me). What younger guys don’t realize is that sex twice a day is draining. I only nut on the last day. 1. That way I’m rock hard leading up and spew a gallon after a week. 2. I have complete control over her orgasms. 3. Like another post said, I can last as long as it takes for her to be rubber legged. 4. She is so sexually charged she’ll do anything. 5. It’s discipline and mastery over your hind brain. 6. Women appreciate s…
/r/askMRP01/02/19 02:30 AM
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I get what you're saying about defending your kids. Don't care about the douchebag but is he? Does OP communicate the circumstances of the affair? Maybe she was pursuing him? Maybe he didn't know she was married until later in the relationship. In any case, the wife is responsible for the continuation of the relationship. The fact she was primping herself confirms. #7 is emotional revenge. Acid destroys the vessel which contains it.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 12:09 AM
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This. In addition to my “struggling”, what I was really doing was coming up with excuses NOT to do the work. “What if I lose weight, workout, be stronger mentally and show still doesn’t desire me the way I want?” Well, I now look forward to working out and working on my frame. I see results but more importantly, I love who I’m becoming.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 02:04 PM
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Psycho-cybernetics is a great book. Changed my life when I read it.
/r/askMRP30/12/18 01:00 PM
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If you get down in the winter, do light therapy and vitamin d. You can get the lights online or Costco in the fall. Take 4000-5000UI daily of vitamin d.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 02:40 AM
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Our wives sound very similar. My wife will not talk about sex, at all. BJs, anal, and vibes were no fly zones too. In addition to what others are saying, here’s some things that worked for me. BJs: playfully flop dick on her face when she’s lying down...”oops” or “I got you a meat popsicle for you”, or “suck it”. Anal and vibes: I just grab lube or vibe. No talking. She may say, “You’re not going in my ass are you?” or “You’re not using THAT (meaning vibe) are you?” Radio silence. This is a work…
/r/askMRP15/12/18 03:06 PM
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I thought exactly the same thing! Anywho??? WTF
/r/askMRP26/10/18 04:05 PM
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I didn't ask for a shortcut. Where did I ask for a shortcut? Your frame is like a foundation made of toothpicks. IF you were reading, lifting, and had your plan, your post would've been more of a victim puke rant, rather than a "help me, I don't know what to do". Which in my mind is trying to shortcut. If you can't post what you've read or what you lift how do we know you've put any effort in? Listen, you get credit for... I try to play cool and not react. ...which is STFU and its a good first s…
/r/askMRP11/10/18 11:00 PM
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You used the past tense. She goes on to tell me that they once ate edibles together. When you add this to your question... Ignoring the "faggot haha this guy wow" and "stats?!? lift more" and "beta this and that omega" useless posts. I post here for help just like anyone else. ...it basically says, "I want a shortcut", and "I'm lazy and don't want to put in the work". Unfortunately, RedPill doesn't work like that. If you want serious answers, show you're doing serious work. Which puts us back to…
/r/askMRP11/10/18 10:27 PM
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When I started to read here regularly, over 13 months ago, I was tempted to ask questions. There were so many things going on in my head. I don't think it was indecisiveness. It was excitement to move along (or shortcut) the program. If I screwed up, it might set me back months. HOWEVER, the ability to hold back asking, taking time to read, learn, and internalize gave me the patience to STFU in my relationships. This was a critical first step which helped immensely.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:56 PM
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Hey! You came here for advice. Reading the sidebar will give you the information you seek in far greater detail. Don't dismiss so easily. This is more about YOU, than it is about a future wife. Let's say you get the desired attributes in a wife but you're a beta pussy. Guess what will happen?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:52 PM
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This post is my cuddles post to the group. See, you do care. Good luck to you sir. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 09:50 PM
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I could've written this. Wife swallowed last week. Your edit is key. I now say and do things to her I never would've imagined.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 07:41 PM
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For me it was "all in" because I can sometimes get addicted to, as Tyler Durdan put it, self improvement masturbation. Reading the material but not making notes, not reflecting on it, and not implementing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 04:27 PM
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This took time. My wife is self absorbed. It wouldn't register to her that I wanted/needed something out of our relationship. It truly started to shift when I consistently got over "wanting praise from her". Now I praise her when she does things I like. I also introduce (slowly) what I want/like. Because, like I said, my needs weren't even on her radar.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 04:20 PM
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Getting over the habit of being a pout or responding poorly. I'm getting better at separating what's said/done and how I respond...instead of knee jerk reaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/18 11:45 PM
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...and rest assured she'll never tell him anything again...
/r/askMRP31/07/18 07:54 PM
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This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. You want her to do this again, and again, and again. Huge fail.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:15 PM
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Me too.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 01:33 PM
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A man takes what they want. You also did a “V” in DEVI.
/r/askMRP17/05/18 02:38 PM
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Watch the Thai food. I thought it was a “healthy” choice but some of it is very fatty. Look up Pad Thai for example.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 08:24 PM
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That’s incredible: 300 to 155! How long did that take you?
/r/askMRP07/04/18 02:04 PM
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I second Mad Men. Don Drader embodies red pill from a bygone era.
/r/askMRP18/03/18 11:27 PM
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Very similar situation. It drove me nuts. I started STFU about things I was doing. This year for tax reasons I dropped a huge amount into her 401K. She always stresses about tax season and getting enough money into retirement savings. I ended up putting 12 times what she usually puts in this year. She gets her statement and it went down like this: W: “What’s this?” Me: “I needed to do this for tax reasons.” W: “Well I wasn’t expecting this. Thanks.” Doesn’t sound like much but ... shit tests are…
/r/askMRP11/03/18 04:03 PM
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I had something similar but not to the same extent. (I was BP when this went down.) The MIL was a constant issue in our marriage. She would manipulate SO and cause conflict within the family. Really f*cked up sh!t. Super selfish and completely devoid of introspection. It became an on going power struggle between MIL and me for my wife. I was putting the squeeze on my wife to handle it...being the BP guy and avoiding confrontation. One day MIL calls and ends up fighting with SO. SO wouldn’t do so…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 07:14 PM
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“OP, I really hope you understand and appreciate the effort that went into this response.” No sh!t! Triadis3 has the patience of Job. OP keeps coming back for kicks to the head both in life and on this sub.
/r/askMRP30/12/17 10:43 PM
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Property managers charge lots and do little. Not worth it IMO. Tried many of them since I’m remote. Rent the house yourself. I’ve learned a lot of good stuff from this site: https://www.landlordology.com/ The other thing (which is not completely kosher IMO) is to use a property manager to get the setup: renter, lease agreement. This way you learn the game, then cancel after you build resources and a contact list for trades.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/17 03:51 PM
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A long time friend was bitching about his wife. Slept on the couch the night before, blah, blah. (Unrelated to this bitching but she had cheated with a ‘muscle guy’ years ago. He decided to stay in the marriage.) He seemed like he was pausing for advice. I told him there was this Reddit forum which talks about wives. He shut me down hard saying, “I don’t need that. I don’t want to drudge up old feelings.” Sometimes people just want to tell you about their problem, then someone else about their p…
/r/askMRP22/12/17 10:25 PM
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“probably baby, because if this was a first date, it would also have been our last.” I need to exercise my brain to give responses like this faster. I think of these things 15 minutes after.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/17 01:29 PM
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Brazilian: wife has tried wax, laser, but settled on shaving. She’s not as thorough but it still looks and feels good. It’s also not as uncomfortable and expensive for her. It was a bit of a chore for me to keep her on it. I did it for a while w our shower sex sessions. Once she realized it wasn’t a passing fancy, she did ongoing.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/17 02:49 AM
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Step 1: Make sure you’re levels (T & Vitamin D) are tested until its right. Or else you’ll be susceptible to wimping out.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 02:10 PM
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‘The United Front’, this gets me too. A good reminder for me. Appreciate you sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 02:01 PM
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Also came to a quick decision and am bringing on a friend to help with some administrative tasks. Be very careful with this...I’ve had several unpleasant experiences hiring friends. (I’m a slow learner.) My two cents: 1. Don’t hire unless you’re willing to lose as a friend. The dynamic changes: friend to boss. 2. Have VERY clear expectations and job description. 3. Be mentally ready to fire the friend. Postponing hurts you, them, and business. My advise is to not hire friends at all but it sound…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 07:59 AM
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Late forties guy here too. Not to pill push but have you had your testosterone levels checked?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 01:26 AM
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