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That’s where all the Chads spawn from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:03 AM
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It’s not just about what maybe a few % of women like. Having glasses is advertising a disability right on your face. Men will give men that wear glasses more shit because they know if things turn violent the guy with glasses is at a huge disadvantage. Instinctively women know this too. They know their partner with glasses would have less chance of keeping them safe if a foe attacked. Say an intruder breaks into your house. Your partner is scrambling to find his glasses. He runs downstairs and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:36 PM
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It’s not the same. What do you do when you’re in the sea/swimming pool? If you go in there with lenses in you are at high risk of picking up an infection which can send you blind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:43 PM
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B b but there was a female chef on the ship. Does that not count?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:11 PM
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Makes me laugh all these gymcells that wear glasses. Laser eye surgery is one of the best things you can do improve your SMV literally overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:45 PM
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The dating hierarchy: White > Black men/Asian women > Black women/Asian men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:33 PM
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This is it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:31 PM
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Why is it when women set up an OF to make money we call it empowerment but when it’s a man facilitating the business we deem it creepy and wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:21 PM
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I think he’s talking in an ideal sense. In theory everybody deserves their looks match. In reality of course nobody deserves anything, not even life itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:20 AM
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Asking women what they find attractive is just silly. Women don’t know why they find someone attractive and it’s usually due to more than just looks. Guys like discrete measurable descriptions; 6ft3, 200lbs, 7 inches, 10% etc because our brains work logically and we like to know how far off we are and what we need to do to improve. Whereas women don’t think like that. They are ruled by emotion. Can you make them laugh? Can you make them feel safe and comfortable etc? Can you improve her populari…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:17 AM
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Girth absolutely matters. If you want to test it, buy a penis sleeve or a fat dildo and use it on a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:27 PM
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In the real world nobody actually knows their partners n counts and therefore they don’t care to know. It’s only on r/Incel and r/PurplePillDebate where n count is talked about every day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:35 PM
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I will do that, just please take care before making wild assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:33 PM
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That was 49 days ago, things change. Please do not assume gender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:26 AM
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I identify as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:24 AM
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Posts like this convince me most of the guys on this subreddit are autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:08 PM
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I don’t care about the exact definition of a boomer, I just used the word cause it sounds good. Gen X sounds weird bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:15 AM
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That’s almost as bad then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:14 AM
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Just learn a trade. Don’t even need a degree. Most degrees are worth fuck all. Get with a good bunch of lads that are socially well calibrated. Don’t get a job with a bunch of autistic nerds as that shit will rub off on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:57 PM
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I’m not saying be broke. Just get an average job and max out your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:45 PM
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The problem is, some guys have been taught the wrong lessons by their boomer parents. They raised their son to be Billy Beta, they told him to focus on his career and then women will come because that’s what worked for them. What shit advice. That’s the old rules. New rules should be focus on socialising. Learn how to craft an interesting Instagram profile. Learn how to invoke emotions in a girl. Learn how to dress well. Learn how to build muscle. Learn how to make a girl orgasm etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:30 PM
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Nobody is saying they prefer shorter men. Stop focusing on it and focus on the things you can change
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:52 PM
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No, you just need to look for shorter girls and make sure your personality is booming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:04 PM
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Why does skin colour matter? I thought girls weren’t racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:18 PM
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This. Tbh most women don’t need a guy with ripped abs for a partner. Most women are more than happy with powerlifter 20% bodyfat. Basically just look like a man that can protect her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:06 PM
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Age doesn’t matter once people are older than 22/23. Let people decide for themselves who they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:53 PM
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Oh she would
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:58 PM
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I feel bad for you son. Wait till you find a girl that is mad into you she’ll beg you to fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:59 PM
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If you think men are the hornier sex you have no idea. When a woman is with a guy she is realllly into her sex drive will be off the charts. The difference is it takes less to turn on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:33 AM
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Big dick energy is totally a thing, but only if you realise you have a big one and have put it to good use. I always used to think I was average but it wasn’t until I became sexually actively that I realised I’m a good amount above average (7.2x5.8) and after I realised that my sexual confidence has definitely gone up. Although it’s hard to attribute what % of my increased confidence is due purely to dick size Vs more (and very positive) sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:56 AM
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Big bums, big boobs, big lips, fake tan, fake lashes, tattoos, piercings, strong independent attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:53 AM
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We have very different experiences. If your female friend thinks you’re a catch she will invite you to parties that her friends are at. Maybe you’re coming across weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:45 PM
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The best way to get a girl is to get girl mates. Go out for drinks with them at work, talk to them in a friendly way, basically show you’re a good guy. They will tell their single friends, women will see you with girl mates and all of a sudden start fancying you without even realising why. Every time I’ve been clubbing with girl mates I always pull because it confirms you aren’t some creepy loner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:00 PM
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Man simply because when I look at what women enjoy, it all seems to be based around status or making other people jealous. I very rarely see a woman with genuine hobbies. Like they go to the gym to take pictures to gain validation. I would hate feeling like I constantly need people to validate me. Whereas as a man I just don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks - and that’s true freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:52 AM
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No satire was used in the making of that post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:10 PM
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Honestly most people use that as an insult because they know it does actually bother guys. It’s an easy way to win a shit talking argument. Bit like saying a girl is ugly. It really does strike close to home. The only thing I would say is try not to let the past experience rule your feelings too much, although I know that is much easier said than done. The best quote I ever heard was ‘Comparison is the thief of joy’. Why do we have to be the best? The biggest? The richest? The tallest? If we cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:09 PM
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Okay each to their own, at least you understand that the issue isn’t your penis size itself but instead how you feel about it. Some guys will have that with height, or muscle mass or intelligence etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:55 PM
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Honestly, I’ll tell you a story. I slept with one girl who was a complete size queen. I’m big but she had a ONS with a guy with a monster dong and she said it was the best sex she’s had. So I bought a huge 10 inch dildo and absolutely smashed her with it the next time she came round. It was fun seeing how much she loved it. I didn’t feel insecure because my dick isn’t 10 inches or as big as her monster dong ONS. With toys, fingers, tongue etc you can easily be her best lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:23 PM
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There’s no need to be insecure about dick size. Even with girls who do prefer big dicks, there are so many toys you can use these days; penis sleeves, big dildos, but plugs or just use lots of fingers/fist if she really wants a stretch. Enjoy her enjoying it. There’s really no need to let your size worry you. Just own it. Even try anal. I have a big dick and not many girls will let me in the back door. Also some girls (with very tight vajayjays - usually Asian girls) are sore for days after me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:57 PM
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As a ‘high value’ man I completely agree with this. I get loads of matches online but unless I’m super horny I can’t get attracted enough from just pictures. Even if a girl sends nudes, yeah it might make me feel horny for a few minutes but not enough to make me want to meet up with her. For me to be attracted I need to see how feminine she is, her personality, I need to chat a bit first to establish some inside banter. Casual sex with girls I know nothing about just feels so empty. So I kinda u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:59 PM
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Most men are lazy/desperate and will typically just stick with the overweight domineering ball buster because getting anything else is too much work. I’m certainly not defending men’s choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:28 PM
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I completely agree with you, men want easy sex and girls with fake lashes and fake tan who frequent nightclubs tend to be easier. Also, society/media make it seem like being a natural looking pale feminine woman is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:35 PM
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A slim feminine girl with no obvious facial/psychological issues should really not be above average. Unfortunately, in UK/US/Australia, they are. The quality of women in these countries is very poor. Lots of them are using fake lashes, fake nails, fake tan, lip fillers, covered in trashy tats, enjoy binge drinking, addicted to Insta, have laddish domineering personalities. Lots of people on this subreddit question why average guys can’t get average women. I question why an average guy would want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:30 PM
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This is the most common sense post on this entire sub. If incels on Reddit actually went outside and opened their eyes they would see a load of average looking lads, with fuck boy hair cuts, gold chains, tats and a IDGAF attitude banging the hottest girls in the village. These guys aren’t ‘Chads’, they aren’t models or 6ft5 meatheads with 10 inch cocks. They’re just skinny lads acting thuggish and it works. The problem is guys have been told ‘just be yourself’ and you’ll do fine. No, become an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:37 PM
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This is 2022, women earn their own money, they don't need to rely on a husband to bring home the bacon. As long as he has an okay job, other factors matter much more. I would rather my daughter be happy, and I know she most likely wouldn't be with an autistic coder. No amount of money can make up for a damp personality, unless of course she is a pure gold digger (but then the guy will probs just get divorce raped). 90% of the coders and software developers I know suck with women. They have no ch…
/r/MensRights19/09/22 11:30 AM
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How should earning 6 figures put a man in the top 5%? On one hand we blame women for being so superficial and only caring about money, then the next money we're moaning because earning 6 figures doesn't put us in the top 5%? Have you considered that maybe women place more importance on other things? She'd rather take a plumber that can chat and make her laugh as opposed to some geeky autist coder than doesn't pick up on even the most basic social cues.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:32 AM
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Expand your friendship circle, go to parties, meet their friends and any single women they invite. Force yourself to be more sociable. Start small with speaking to cashiers and just generally try to come across as approachable. Speak to old ladies, men, middle aged women, single women, everyone. Sign up for cooking/language/art classes or meetup groups or volunteering. Even if there are lots of couples and guys, just try to make friends. They will have female friends that are single. Try to go t…
/r/MensRights13/09/22 12:05 PM
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It's the pendulum effect. For the last 20 years men have been shit on in Western media. Society has become extremely soft and therefore there is a backlash. Some content creators will go too far as they aim to make their arguments as entertaining as possible. The truth lies somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:10 PM
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Most women still don’t understand this. I knew a girl at uni who only in final year came up with this groundbreaking theory that it might be easier for a woman to find sex than it is for a guy. Prior to that she would genuinely brag about sleeping with a guy as if it was some sort of achievement that she got laid. She lived in a house full of guys and I think she genuinely thought we’d be impressed by her ability to find sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:07 AM
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Agreed but most men are tired of putting in this effort when they can get a hook up easy online. Hence why women are wondering where all the good men are - they’re all online chasing easy pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:07 AM
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Lol this entire sub is basically about western men/women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:04 AM
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I kind of fall into this category. I can sleep with pretty much most women, I could go on Tinder right now and find a 7 or 8 /10 to fuck tonight, but what I struggle with is actual relationships. I find most girls either too fake, too entitled or too basic (as in they're very shallow thinkers). Maybe I'm just unlucky but I haven't met many humble girls who can develop their own thoughts and aren't obsessed with pop culture and Instagram (if anyone knows where these girls are please tell me). Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:40 PM
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Some people are just happy with their own company and never feel the need to socialise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:19 PM
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k bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:54 PM
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I'm not uploading pics so you weirdos can drool over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:32 PM
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Yeah I’m around 12-13% bodyfat, don’t compete and no steroids. Not saying I’m ‘huge’, just that I have the body that girls enjoy licking whipped cream off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:34 PM
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Only guys who have put 20 lbs of muscle on should be giving answers in this thread. If you're a twink you shouldn't be commenting on things you haven't experienced. It's like some fat neckbeard talking about climbing Everest, has 0 credibility. I can absolutely assure everyone, after going from 6ft3 190lbs to 230lbs ripped, the attention has sky rocketed and I can basically get most girls I want even the one's who 'don't like muscles'. As for women.. 'watch what they do, not what they say'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:47 PM
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Exactly this. Guys have also learnt to play down how hard they work, because women want to believe it's all natural. They don't want to hear about how you go to the gym 6x a week, track your calories, watch bodybuilding content online for motivation, inject steroids or obsess over body fat %. They just want a guy that does everything in moderation, but has the physique of a guy that is a gym freak (freak being Hemsworth, not Ronnie). It's the same with anything really, a girl doesn't want to kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:31 PM
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The problem is we have loads of job shortages, and immigrants do tend to work hard, so the government will never do anything to slow the 300,000 net arrivals each year because they’re good for the economy and the fast paced lifestyle that we all want. The politicians don’t really care if there’s housing shortages, huge NHS waiting lists or if the immigrants don’t learn English, as it’s not really their problem, they aren’t the ones that suffer from it. Their kids go to private schools, they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:31 AM
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There's a term used which you may not be aware of called 'taking the grenade'. In most groups of women there will be a hot one, a few average ones then an ugly one. Sometimes one of the guys from the pack will decide to 'take the grenade' which means to chat to the ugly one to help their mates do well with the better looking ones. In my experience though, we would never really show the ugly one any sexual attraction, it would typically just be polite convo to not make her feel excluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:45 PM
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This is a good example of a standard debate on this sub. OP makes a general argument allowing for outliers. Then women and blue pill men respond with 'but in this specific case it doesn't apply, therefore it's all rubbish'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:32 AM
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The problem is the opposition is even more like that
/r/MensRights29/06/22 03:46 PM
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Either agree loudly or shut up
/r/MensRights29/06/22 11:11 AM
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Average in terms of looks? Absolutely, you just need social status/social skills and access to opportunities where you can meet women. An average guy with good social skills that meets plenty of women will do far better than a good looking basement dweller/gym cell. Average overall and average looks? Okay this guy will struggle to get casual sex. Maybe if he's willing to dumpster dive or go through long dry spells. Another trick is to carve out a niche, maybe you're a rocker and you go to loads …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:22 PM
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I'm not judging anyone's decisions. It's your life, you make the decisions that you think are right. That's why I'm pro-choice, let people decide for themselves what is right, ain't nobody else's business.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 11:41 PM
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The problem is, MGTOW is terrible for society and the economy. Men tend to be happy with less, it’s usually when they feel the pressure to provide for women and children when they start to work mad hours and do jobs they don’t wanna do. If more men start walking away from society’s game then less jobs get done, less money is spent, less children are had.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 07:53 PM
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I’m not forcing you to do anything bruh
/r/MensRights26/06/22 04:14 PM
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Yes it's a question about emotions, correct. That's the point, it's basically saying, even if you weren't legally obliged to financially support the child, would you? I am saying that even if I was tricked into it, I would still feel too guilty to not pay anything. I understand reforms are needed and that there are concerns about what the money is used for.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:03 PM
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It's a shame that this subreddit got swamped full of Incels and angry MGTOW's after those subreddits were shut down. They've all emigrated here and it's just diluted the good posts from rational men who aren't losers but just got tired of the inequalities. Now we have to scroll through crap bitter posts like this :sigh:
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:38 PM
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There's a lot of angry bitter men on here who are jaded and quite rightly pissed off from the 'No uterus, no opinion' rhetoric. So now a lot of men (especially MGTOW's and Incels) just enjoy watching women get mad and angry, even if it's a negative for them too. Pro-choice is good for everyone, and anyone who wants to live in a free society should be in favour of it.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:29 PM
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That’s fair, I agree there needs to be reform, but the question is more general, would you be happy giving any financial support for a kid that you didn’t want?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:42 PM
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It’s not even a guilt trip, it’s asking that in the case a woman tricks you into having a kid you didn’t want, would you be comfortable just turning your back? For me I couldn’t because I would feel guilty. Others might not and that’s fine. Each to their own, I’m just trying to gauge the opinion of this sub.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:37 PM
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Yes as women age they start to develop a very transactional mentality when it comes to talking to guys. They’ve typically been through their hook up/party phase and want to find a guy that is suitable as a long term provider. When she was 22 she’d just have fun on dates and see where it goes, at 28 she’s asking you what job you do, if you want kids, if you’re ready for a relationship, if you own a house, what car you drive etc. Women simply have less time to waste. Most women want one or two kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:36 AM
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Yes I guess my question was excluding these extreme cases, but you make a good point.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:53 AM
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Agreed, although I do understand how in some cases a guy might feel he is better off out of the kid's life; say he's a drug addict, extremely violent or just that anti-children that he feels he would be a net negative in his kid's life. Still though, even if I did belong in one of them categories, I would still want to financially support my kid.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah I definitely agree, and think most others do, that a woman who has genuinely been raped should not be forced to have the child. However, in the case of a woman who wasn't raped but has decided she just doesn't want the kid, I don't see how it could be properly policed to prevent false rape allegations and how such allegations could be judged false in time for the woman to abort the kid within a suitable time frame?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 01:30 AM
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I'm a Brit, so pardon my ignorance, but what about the time between now and the next election? Will women who currently live in states that have previously opposed abortion still be able to get them?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:52 AM
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Whilst I disagree and believe that everyone should be free to choose, I appreciate your consistency with men's and women's rights. The only thing I do wonder though, if you say abortion is allowed as long as it is due to rape, then would we see an increase in false rape allegations just so a woman can get out of pregnancy? Would she be forced to report the father to the police in order to receive the right to have an abortion? Would there have to be any trial before she could have it terminated?…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:44 AM
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‘Imagine being a broke dude, fucking a broke chick, the condom breaks and boom she’s pregnant’ They can’t imagine this because they’re loser virgins with no hope of fucking a chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:15 PM
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Hey mate, definitely do it, one of the best things I've done. So it depends how social your hostel is. Choose a super social one (read the reviews). I stayed in dorms ranging from 6 beds to 12 beds, and people come and go every few days so that alone will give you plenty of people. Then the (good) hostels will organise day and night events - usually with free club entry. Tip: always attend the pre-drinks, they'll often play drinking games which help break the ice. Also just chat up random girls …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 10:56 PM
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Going with a friend is better than not going, but going solo is by far the best. I find when you go with friends it’s easier just to stick with them and if your friend is domineering it’s easy to let them take over. Whereas going solo forces you to talk to anyone and everyone. Also you have to plan round the friend and your friend might not be into certain things. For example they might not be too into clubbing but you are, or they’re afraid of chatting to girls but you want to. Also if you make…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 11:22 AM
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Yeah it's not all about lays but the opportunities are certainly there as girls feel free to do what they want when they're travelling. I'd go as far as saying every guy serious about improving should just take a few months out and travel in a foreign country. When you look back on your life will you really think I'm glad I worked a few extra months. No. Life experiences is what builds confidence and an interesting life.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 07:31 PM
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Another thing I would strongly advise is solo travel. It touches on a lot of these points, especially being independent and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. The ideal thing would be to go to Europe/Australia/Asia for a few weeks (or longer), there’s so much to see and do, stay in social hostels that will be full of other solo travellers and just practice making friends and chatting to girls. Because you’re going solo, you don’t have to worry about making mistakes and being judged. You’…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 05:25 PM
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Billy beta is happier than he would be if he was alone. Some guys need a partner to feel fulfilled, it’s part of our protective providing instincts. If that means they have to take the role of beta and saddle themselves with a fat entitled blumper then they will do. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:21 PM
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I think the issue with MGTOW is that a lot of the guys that associate themselves with that tag come across as bitter and jealous. There’s also a lot of guys that never did well with women, so it seems like the guy is giving up rather than focusing on self improvement. Also it makes all women sound the same. The community tends to focus on the worst of women, in the same way raging feminists focus on the worst of men (wife beaters, cheaters, rapists etc). I think the best thing is to understand f…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 01:00 PM
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Well you don't have to, but expect to be spoken down to, wageslaving and potentially cheated on if you're too much of a wimpy cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:36 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:27 PM
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I’ll talk however I want. If you think I’m wrong about women wanting a strong man that can lead then my bet would be that you are a beta. Again, not really bothered whether you are or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:03 PM
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I don't really care if you're a feminine dude. Maybe you are, maybe you aren't. This advice is more general to this sub rather than an attack on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:58 PM
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Some women legitimately get sexually aroused from bossing their partner around. I’ve been with a few. Yes, and those same women still have the urge to fuck a guy that makes them feel feminine. So if you aren't doing it, your next door neighbour or the gardener will be doing. I know so many beta guys who are getting cucked and don't even realise. If you're fine with being cucked then all power to you, I'm not here to say what your relationship should be like, but just know that if she isn't getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:54 PM
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But the two aren't separate. Women have more respect for their man if he is slaying her right in the bedroom. And even outside of the bedroom, they like a man they can feel safe and protected around. They aren't going to feel safe next to some dweeby limp wristed low T pencil neck twink. All you'll get is shit tests and bitchiness unless you can show your woman you know how to lead. If you're happy being a beta wageslave then fine, but don't moan when you get downtrodden at every opportunity by …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:34 PM
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I’m not saying be an over controlling emotionally abusive douche bag. The relationship is still 50-50 but the man takes the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:50 AM
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Okay well then we have very different definitions of what a masculine woman is. To me it’s a woman that acts very loud, assertive and dominant in day-to-day life (including work). You clearly have some different definition so this entire debate is a waste of time if we can’t even agree on basic definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:38 AM
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You’re confusing behaviour to the outside world with behaviour with a partner. Even the most dominant women to the outside world (ie a super aggressive sales woman) wants to submit to a guy they feel is worthy. I’m not saying they turn into a complete follower, but they need a man that is more dominant than them to feel assured. It’s the same reason soft twinky men get shit tested way more than stereotypically strong aggressive men. A woman is testing the guys resolve, and twinky men are often s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:31 AM
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Easy, it’s the same as what it was 100 years ago, 200 years ago and 1000 years ago: Masculine = Dominant, Assertive, Loud Feminine = Submissive, Follower, Softly spoken
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:24 AM
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No, regardless of how masculine/dominant a woman is, she wants to be able to submit to her guy behind closed doors and be dominated. This is a raw primal instinct that no amount of social conditioning can ever change. I’ve been with women across the entire masculinity scale, and even the super loud boisterous strong assertive women want to be dominated. They won’t submit to a low T twink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:16 AM
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You’re starting to confuse alpha fucks with beta bucks. A lot of women like a feminine beta to boss about, treat him like a wageslave, but they aren’t turned on by those guys. Hence all the dead bedrooms. I’m talking about raw sexual attraction. Most women want a guy that is 3-4pts higher than them on the masculinity scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:12 AM
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Not very, find an Asian girl and you’ll be fine. But act assertive around her. Even if you look like a twink you can make up for it if you learn to hold your frame and act like a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:10 AM
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It's all about frames. It's not that super feminine women prefer super masculine men. It's because the more masculine the woman is, the more masculine she typically needs her man to be to make her feel like a woman. It's the same reason why women prefer to date guys taller than themselves. Most women want to feel small and feminine when around their partner, even if they want to appear like an alpha female to the outside world. That said, there is a limit. Most women get scared if the man is sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:20 AM
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It’s the same in Spain, most guys have the same physique. Not many fat guys, not many overly buff. Similarly all the girls are nice and slim with decent bums. America/UK seem to have the largest variations. You see loads of whales but also loads of steroid gym meatheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:21 AM
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The funny thing is, this really is the only solution. There are simply too many men. Go to a party where there’s 10 guys and 10 girls and the atmosphere is often pretty good. Go to a party where there’s 20 guys and 3 girls and it quickly becomes a douche-bag dick-measuring press-up contest. Lots of men leave the party frustrated. This is what is happening in society, because men aren’t going to war anymore it means we have a huge surplus. This just creates a bunch of Incels who can’t get anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:53 AM
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The reason men don’t help other men is because we are all in competition. Is this not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:42 AM
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As a hot guy that slays on Tinder, girls will only get horny over your pics for a short period of time. They quickly want to know when you’re meeting up so they can experience all these other traits in person. Sending her more and more pics won’t keep her interested. Eventually she will get bored and put you into the ‘hot guy meh’ category. Women just don’t get turned on by pictures in the same way men do. If you don’t understand that it’s because you don’t understand female sexuality and that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:12 AM
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You can’t compare gay men and women. Just because they’re both attracted to men, it doesn’t mean they’re attracted in the same ways. Show a gay man a pic of a big 8 inch thick veiny cock and he’ll start getting turned on. Show it to a woman and she’ll need to know more about the guy attached to it before it turns her on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:38 PM
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You are saying women are ‘PRACTICALLY ASEXUAL’ and I’m telling you they’re not. The average guy isn’t appealing enough visually, but if she see’s him acting confident, chatting to girls, laughing with friends and commanding respect then she may start to find him attractive. You keep applying the wrong word. Delete Asexual and replace it with Complicated and you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:18 PM
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More complicated =/= asexual Just because a woman is harder to turn on, it doesn’t make her asexual. Asexual means she isn’t attracted to anyone. She is attracted to guys, but it often takes more than just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:04 PM
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But that’s because women can’t judge a man just by how he looks in the gym. It isn’t that she’s decided they aren’t attractive, it’s that she needs to see more of him ‘in action’. That’s why you can have a girl act indifferent towards you, then the next day she see’s you talking and laughing with a hot girl in the gym and now suddenly she starts finding you attractive. It’s the opposite with men. We know roughly within the first 5 seconds of looking at a girl whether we’re attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:53 PM
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Whilst I agree with AF/BB, it’s also due to the fact that women require more than visual stimulation to be turned on. You could show them a pic of a hot guy and they’ll be like meh. They need to know what he sounds like, how he carries himself, is he popular, do other women want him, how does he smell, can he take the lead, is he making lots of money, is he powerful, is he protective, is he funny and socially calibrated etc. That’s why they go crazy for certain actors who aren’t even that good-l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:41 PM
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You forgot Travelling and Cocktails
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:26 PM
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What are you rambling on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:40 AM
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Snakes provide little upside and immense downside, if you feel women are like them then I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:38 PM
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Love is a feeling, and just like any feeling, it isn’t guaranteed to be permanent. You were sold a fairytale as to what love is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:34 PM
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No it doesn’t. It says we’re different, not better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:26 PM
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Precisely, this whole sub is built on a false understanding of what TRP is. It’s not anti-woman, it actually improves your relationship with women. Instead of being out of control emotionally you learn to have balance and understand why women do the things they do. They aren’t doing it because they’re mean and nasty people, they just have different survival instincts to men. The problem is, the women on this subreddit have not read TRP with an open mind, so they assume it’s just a bunch of bitte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:32 PM
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TRP doesn’t say love doesn’t exist. It just says a woman can’t love you in the unconditional permanent way you expect her to. But that doesn’t mean she can’t still love you. It’s just different. Once you embrace that love is just a feeling like any other feeling then it becomes clear. Accept that she may love you today, but then tomorrow she doesn’t. Always be prepared for her to walk out the door. Never make her your everything. Enjoy her, even if she’s only in your life temporarily. Don’t get …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:04 PM
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I do agree with that, it’s hard to settle when there’s always that temptation to find someone else which is so easy to do nowadays. I’m as guilty of that as any woman. I don’t see this changing though, so that’s why I’m worried about the effects it will have on society and the economy. Also agreed, most women out there do want a family and do start to have more reasonable expectations once they leave university. This sub definitely focuses more on a small subset of women (the FDS/all men are bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:21 PM
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I can assure you the money spent on bringing these women in and helping them integrate will be a lot less than the cost of a significantly ageing population due to 20% of people not having kids. I don’t think people grasp just how disastrous that would be for us. I’m not saying men should spend no time working on themselves. But at the moment we’ve got guys wasting tons of time on dating apps trying to appeal to a girl that’s 2-3pts below them. This isn’t economically productive. And even then, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:27 PM
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Some will, most women (even Western women) still want a family. So we basically take more than what we need in anticipation that some of them won’t want kids. It’s perfect for everyone: all men can have children and don’t need to waste lots of time trying to appeal to women. Get them marrying young again and wageslaving instead of spending hours in the gym trying to appeal to Becky who isn’t interested anyway. all Western women who don’t want children are no longer pressured and vilified the eco…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:07 PM
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It certainly could happen, it just has to be done in a disguised clever way. For example, by offering university scholarships predominantly in favour of females from overseas. Also by creating lots of well paid jobs for women, such as in HR and Compliance. Women from South America, Middle East, Africa, Eastern Europe and Asia will see the West as the land of milk and honey. It could even be disguised as a 'Global Women in Tech' initiative. Other ways would be to prioritise female refugees in cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:38 PM
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Which part precisely?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:01 AM
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This is actually a very plausible, albeit controversial, strategy. Over the last few decades we've witnessed young men from poor countries emigrate to the West in order to do jobs that Western men don't want to do. This is why no government really wants to crack down on immigration, because we rely on immigrants to do the low pay crappy jobs. I don't see why we can't have a similar arrangement with importing traditional women from the East. It's not good for the government to have 20-30% of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:25 PM
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Feminists have never wanted socialism in the economy, they just want men to earn less and women (specifically themselves) to earn more. If it was all women in the powerful positions they would have no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:45 PM
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Crime isn't just the problem of the perpetrator, it affects all of society. For every thief, there's somebody being robbed. For every rapist, there's somebody being raped. And it obviously isn't practical to just 'lock them all up'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:22 PM
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Agreed. Even most of the women who want casual sex, when they find a guy who is good in bed and seems like a decent guy they start to develop feelings easily. Most of my fuck buddies have developed some sort of attachment to me and almost try and ‘win me over’ despite knowing that it’s only casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:36 PM
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No that isn’t my assertion, that’s your inference. Nowhere have I said women should get into relationships with men to stop them from doing bad things. My assertion is that the more single unwanted men there are, the more crime, suicide etc there will be. I’m not blaming women for it, I’m simply pointing out a causal effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:03 AM
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It doesn’t make any sense to you because you’re not a man. I know countless guys who turned their lives around simply because they found a girl or had a kid. They stopped going to football matches and getting into fights, they stopped doing coke every weekend. The woman gave them a reason to be better and do what is right. Do you know what one of the first things people say to someone who is trying to commit suicide or doing something bad? Think about your wife and family. Do you want to end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:42 AM
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Okay let’s break down both causations: 1) Unwanted men are unwanted because they commit crimes and have poor mental health 2) Unwanted men tend to get frustrated and are more likely to turn to gangs, crime, drugs etc as they have no positive partner in their life keeping them on the straight and narrow. In my opinion, both causations are somewhat true - it isn’t an either or. So back to you, are you saying the causation only applies in the first case and not the other? So you believe single unwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:47 AM
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So you disagree that single unwanted men are more likely to commit crime, abuse drugs, commit suicide, act irresponsibly? Or, are you saying you agree but that doesn’t seem like a problem to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:30 AM
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Thanks for completely not answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:24 AM
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I agree it’s great for women. If I was a woman I would hate to marry some fat bald ugly slob just because I had to. But my broader point was, is it good for society? To have loads of single men and women who aren’t reproducing and turning to hedonism. We know men act more responsibly, commit less crime etc when they’re in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:04 AM
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This. Most guys know TRP even if they don’t know it by name. I was RP’d before I ever discovered it on Reddit. How can any young lad be BP in this day and age? Like when even the nerdy girl is sending nudes round school, surely guys must realise what is up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:55 AM
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I’d argue TRP has already been adopted by the mainstream. Maybe it’s just the guys I hang out with, but all of them know girls are easy (AWALT) and just to use them for fun. Most young lads are listening to hip hop these days, which is all based on TRP concepts. It’s not like the Boomer generation which grew up on love songs about this one person they idolise and how they would do anything for. Society has changed massively. More single mothers, less marriage etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:52 AM
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Whilst I agree, do you wonder whether this is good for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:43 AM
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Even if all the men did down tools, they’ll just be replaced by young ambitious men from abroad. Look at what happened to Britain after WW2, the loss of young men in the war were replaced by men from the Middle East, Africa and Caribbean. Big gov isn’t just going to sit by and watch the economy fall to its knees
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:47 PM
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Pretty boys do well with 14-21 year old girls. As you become a man you are more judged on how masculine you are; whilst still retaining some youthful pretty qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:51 PM
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6ft3 Starting 190, current 240. 15-18% bodyfat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:46 PM
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Fair enough. I went from a 6/10 to a 9/10 by smashing the gym religiously for 4 years, having laser eye surgery + Invisalign treatment ($10k for both), and growing a good trim beard + sick trendy haircut. Also by crushing my blue pill unicorn fantasy. Whilst I didn’t do it all just for women, as I still had okay success before, it was crazy how women treated me once I hit the 8-9/10 level. No more shit tests, pretty much bang every girl on the first date, get away with saying whatever I want. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:21 PM
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Okay, maybe they’re better off listening to rap music instead. Break this idea that women are these magical angels that need placing on a pedestal. Learn that they all want a good dicking and you’re the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:00 PM
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That’s the issue with this subreddit. I find it’s mostly FDS vs Incels. The battle of who is the most confused and deluded. Anybody who offers a well balanced sensible opinion just gets ignored. Like you can write 3 or 4 really good paragraphs and get no feedback, then another user posts something obviously controversial and illogical and they have 3 or 4 people replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:26 AM
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Yeah I think the thing is most guys here can’t imagine being in that position, so they don’t have much sympathy. I actually started out as a fairly nice guy. My first few fuck buddies I would go out for drinks with and buy pizza’s if they came round. I was under the impression that I still had to do at least some work, I can’t just expect them to come straight round and drop their clothes. Then as I started banging more girls I realised they weren’t coming to see me to talk about their lives or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:46 AM
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Who said anything about setting your standards low?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:09 AM
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As a ‘Chad’ I can attest to this. It’s so easy to stick to casual sex when you have fit girls basically coming straight round just to bang. Because they know you’re probably banging other girls they don’t treat you like a potential LTR, they know it’s just sex and are quite blunt about it. There’s this one girl I did actually really like, but she said I’m far too much of a fuck boy to be with. She said she would always be worrying about me cheating, despite the fact I’ve never cheated and never …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:52 AM
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Dude lift and read TRP. Read no more Mr Nice Guy and implement it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:35 AM
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Exactly, most of us in our late teens/early 20's are not emotionally mature, we do things which looking back on we are very ashamed of. Sometimes that involves cheating, especially when you're young, have sex hormones flying around everywhere and living in a party environment. Whilst it helps to have your heart broken once or twice, you don't want it broken too many times as you will just become bitter and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:03 AM
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Well, assuming he's inexperienced with women; How to interact with women, how to be emotionally mature around them, how to have good sex, how to lead etc. If he's had plenty of casual relationships then there's no problem, but if he's basically an Incel then he's going to be so socially and emotionally immature. First girlfriend syndrome is a thing, we all make stupid mistakes in our first relationship, it's better to get them mistakes out of the way when there's nothing staked, rather than wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:53 AM
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Assuming the guy still goes on dates and has casual relationships with women then this can actually be a really good strategy. You get the best of both worlds; the social/sexual skills from casual dating and the freedom to maximise your career and enjoy hobbies. Although that said, I still think it's nice to have at least one serious relationship when you're young, as 'first girlfriend syndrome' is definitely a thing. The first time you fall for a girl, you will really fall for her. I believe ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:46 AM
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Girls don’t wanna teach guys the ropes, they want the finished article. Especially if they’re ageing (>25), they can’t afford to waste time on guys who are learning
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:20 AM
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Okay how about you chop yours off and invite another guy to dogg your gal whilst you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:11 AM
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Another thing to consider is that girls on Tinder are starting to become tired of guys trying to just sleep with them. At first it was a novelty, they could go online and hookup with guys out of their league, but after a good 5 years of having their vag’s pumped dry, they’re now coming out the other side feeling used, bitter and jaded. I notice a lot of girls now are preferring Hinge over Tinder, as they realise casual sex can leave you can feeling pretty empty. So many tinder profiles read ‘tir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:18 PM
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80/20 is for sexual/casual relationships Proper relationships are obviously not 80/20 otherwise lots of men would not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:04 PM
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But they don’t have to play society’s game. A good engineer will be making at least 20-30% above the average wage and also benefit from increased job security. It’s the system that tells us we all need to become big swinging dick CEO’s. Men should realise that earning above average is good enough, the rest of his time should be dedicated to hobbies and improving other aspects of his life. Regarding social approval, a lot of these autistic guys have never had it anyway. So why should they worry n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:31 PM
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I agree, these days you don’t need lots of money to get women. If you’re jacked and dominant you can get most women, especially in low income areas. It’s typically the boomer generation that advocate wageslaving because that’s what worked for them. British men have started to adapt. Single motherhood is increasing amongst the white population. Britain is adopting black culture, all the adverts on the TV are flooded with people of colour despite them still only being a small % of the population. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:20 PM
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The government doesn’t care about acid attacks. That’s a few isolated incidents here and there. Even the stabbings and increased violence, as long as it’s in low income areas such as Newham then it’s okay. The government only cares about the big economic machine. As long as that’s chugging away and men are forced to wageslave then everything is okay to them. And regarding foreign men not wanting post wallers, a lot of them don’t even want women of their own race. Statistics show that men from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:53 AM
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Those men will just be replaced with ambitious and hard working immigrants. Look at Post-WW2 Britain for example, they didn’t just accept a skewed gender ratio due to the loss of young men in the war, they imported lots of young men from Africa, Middle East and the Caribbean. This is also partly why most governments are happy having a loose immigration policy, because typically it’s young men that are arriving, so it increases the competition for the men in the country and forces them to work ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:25 AM
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But why would an autistic engineer want to be in management? Career success isn’t based on how many people you manage. If you’re a good (autistic) engineer you will earn more than enough. Of course a few super social normies will earn more in management but why’s that the engineer’s problem? The engineer isnt competing with the guys in management anyway, as the vast majority of women don’t want an autistic engineer regardless of how much he gets paid. Even if he did stumble his way through to CE…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:17 AM
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You don’t need to be the best. Comparison is the thief of joy. In today’s casual dating climate, where lots of women have had 20+ partners, you most likely aren’t her best, even if she says you are. Get comfortable with that. In the same way you probably aren’t the tallest guy she’s been with. Or the most muscular. Or the richest. Or the best looking etc. It doesn’t matter. Just enjoy the moment for what it is. Why do you need to be her best? Why is her perception of you so important? If she com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:24 PM
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Eastern Europe, Mediterranean nations, Asia Fattest are American and British girls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:04 PM
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It's okay saying 'don't be fat' and how easy it is, but that's because we're guys. We've endured struggle throughout our entire life, so going to the gym 4x a week and eating a healthy balanced diet is second nature to us. We actually learn to enjoy struggle and sacrifice. But imagine if you've had it easy your entire life, have been told your beautiful since birth (even when your fat) and are constantly being invited round to parties etc. Even 1 gym session a week is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:58 PM
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I attract all types of women, although the ones who are after a LTR I let them know I’m probably not interested in that. No need to string them along and waste their time. As for the goal for me? I don’t want kids, or a wife. I could commit myself to a person if we got along really well, but most women want kids eventually and so I would expect our relationship to naturally die off as she starts thinking about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:16 PM
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It’s 95/5 on Tinder, irl it’s more like 60/40
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:45 AM
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‘Normal man with developed social skills, plenty of friends, is social’ This right here is how you get a gf. Lots of ppl on here try and blame it on looks, that’s because they’re on Tinder where it’s 95/5. If you’re a fun social guy with plenty of friends you’ll have no trouble finding a LTR irl. I get the impression that a lot of ppl who use Reddit, tend to be less likely to be social, have fewer friends and only use OLD, hence why they overvalue looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:26 AM
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Hey mate, yes I'd say the top 20% do get the pick of the bunch, but as a guy there's lots you can do to improve your SMV. Definitely get ripped, you should be working out 5 or 6 days a week. Try to master your social skills, surround yourself with people who are doing well with girls and try to pick things up, that's what I did. Learn a martial art, just to give yourself some more confidence. Try and grow a beard if you can. Are your teeth straight? Perfect vision? Get them sorted otherwise. Sta…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:58 PM
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Yes I’ve slept with plenty of 8’s off Tinder, but I’ve also missed out on a lot of fucks for not having IG. That’s my point.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 08:20 PM
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Tbf I did change pictures so that could partly be it. Although towards the end (after 6 months) I barely changed pictures and always had a steady stream of very attractive likes. As I say, I personally found they got hotter the longer I had the account. I think Hinge ELO works different to Tinder, although I don't know for sure. Where have you got this idea that I'm fucking 4's? Nowhere have I said that... I'm comparing the wants and needs of 4-7's to that of 8's and 9's. The latter don't need t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 08:15 PM
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And are you talking about true 8/10's and 9/10's? I don't just mean pretty girls but literally ridiculous girls who are in the top few %.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:46 PM
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You don't have to choose, you can do all three. Most men who are doing well on IG are also ripped and approaching IRL. Don't get stuck in this TRP mantra of 'IG waste of time' , 'IG bad'. It's great for picking up girls. The only reason I don't is because I hate how it's built on deception and jealousy. I don't want to post pics making ex's jealous etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:42 PM
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You don't need to buy the argument because I'm not selling it to you. This is simply my experience of OLD as a high SMV guy. As you say, you're an average looking guy so maybe you've had different experiences to me? I get no bitchiness at all off 4-7's (or any girl really), they all fall in line and do whatever I say. I can treat them like absolute dog shit, literally tell them about other girls I fucked the night before, cancel on them half an hour before meeting and they just accept it. I coul…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:37 PM
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What age group are you going for? Are you in city with a university?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 06:59 PM
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Lol not hating, he’s just nothing special (he’s not even in the top 10% of black guys). Again, maybe his other pics are better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:25 PM
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Would not surprise me at all if this guy knows the editor at esquire, who’s just bigging him up for bants. No way is he top 1%, unless his other pics are killers. Maybe it’s his area? He looks like the average black guy in London, nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:07 PM
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That can be married life in general though. Even if the person was fairly exciting to start with, when you’re together every day, running on low sleep due to babies crying, having arguments over finances etc it can get pretty mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:08 AM
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Yes most men just want a (relatively) boring loyal woman to have kids with. It’s better than exciting and not loyal when you’re risking half your shit + losing access to kids. Women do the same, a lot of them want a boring provider over some exciting bad boy when it comes to settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:04 AM
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The boring blank girl is simply a safer bet if you’re choosing to marry and have a kid, it’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:09 AM
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This. They aren’t bad people, they’ve been some of the most fun chicks I’ve been with. But there’s no way I’d put a baby in a girl with full sleeves lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:06 AM
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I don't disagree, women's standards have gone through the roof. But it's not because of finances that most men can't get pussy anymore. It's because they're ugly/average and far below what women are used to getting in their prime years. There's so many broke Chads out there slaying. Actually most of the Chad's I know aren't earning above average. They've realised women are filtering using different factors now. Be attractive, be interesting, be trendy. That's what will get you pussy in 2021, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:45 PM
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Of course money is still a factor, but not as much of a factor as it used to be. Take a woman who earns nothing (like in the 1950's) she is completely dependent on the guy for money, so that is pretty much her sole criteria. Now, a lot of young women are earning very good amounts (the women in my old company were typically given bigger bonuses despite a lot of them performing fairly poorly). Of course everything else equal they prefer a guy who earns more, but there's more attention being placed…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:39 PM
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Oh certainly, I'm not arguing that women's standards haven't gone up. They certainly have. And I agree that it creates a lot of frustrated Incel's who can't get any pussy because they don't meet these ridiculous standards. It's just that I was pointing out that women are looking for other factors now. Sure, everything else equal, they will choose the guy with more money. But they would typically rather have a super interesting guy who earns less vs a boring office drone who earns more. The beta-…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:50 PM
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I think it's only worth doing gear if you're in a super alpha competitive environment. For example, if you live in the hood or a run down council estate, where the biggest baddest alpha gets the women then it's worth it as otherwise you'll just be downtrodden. If you're a middle class office worker, I think you can build a decent enough physique naturally to pull office chicks.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 08:40 PM
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It also requires a certain degree of intensity. Most guys just aren't cut out to be leaders because they're too chilled out. Most of the leaders I know aren't the best people to hang out with, they're bossy and opportunistic. Super intense and judgey people. I think a lot of guys think they want to be leaders without realising they actually don't.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/21 08:36 PM
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TRP obviously attracts neckbeards, but it tries to teach them how to become a Chad. It helps crush that trad-con belief system that plagues many young men and prevents them from slaying in the new dating climate (as it did with me). The problem is a lot of men find that it takes too much effort to work out every day, socialise regularly, talk to women wherever you go, get used to failure, learn self defence, learn how to become humorous and charming etc. It's easier just to sit on Reddit, eating…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:31 PM
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For an Incel, beta buxx is the dream. That’s what astonishes me about this subreddit. There’s a bunch of neckbeards claiming to be TRP, yet they’re striving for something TRP warns against.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:49 PM
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Okay dude, keep believing what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:46 PM
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No, typically as men get older they get fatter and balder. Less testosterone. Harder to get boners, harder to maintain them. Sorry, but that just doesn’t turn women on. They want a guy similar age (most relationships are within 3 years) who has interesting life experiences and a positive social personality. Not that boring corporate drone who has followed the rules from the Boomers handbook ‘work hard and you’ll get a nice loyal classy lady’. Times have changed. Women want different things now. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:42 PM
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Even regular women don’t need rich old men anymore. Sure there’s some gold diggers that do just look for that, I’m not denying that, but on the whole feminism has meant women are less reliant on men’s money. That’s why there’s a bunch of guys out there with good jobs but can’t get any pussy. Year’s ago they would’ve been snapped up by 25, but that just doesn’t cut it anymore. Women would rather have a super interesting social guy who has travelled the world and has a good physique over some bori…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:30 PM
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Feminism doesn’t cause young women to have to shack up with old ugly men, it’s the opposite. It gives women the freedom to choose men based on factors other than money, as they can now earn enough themselves. I worked in a high-flying career with women making $200k+ easily. Most of the women weren’t shacking up with other high flying men, they often had partners who were super attractive or/and super funny but not particularly ‘successful’. Edit: I sometimes wonder if this idea that all these ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:59 PM
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The extremes have been amplified. If you want to be a fat fuck, it's never been easier. You can spend all day watching Netflix and playing on your Xbox whilst getting unhealthy food delivered right to your door. Likewise, if you want to be a gym-obsessed Instagram bunny then that's also encouraged as it nets you lots of attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:57 PM
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The best one: A real man doesn't care if the baby isn't his, if it's in his home he raises it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:52 PM
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Whilst men shouldn't be shamed for 'having feelings', it's more about how they display those feelings. Most women are completely repulsed by whingy whiney men who are always complaining and getting upset. They look to men for strength and protection, nobody wants a bitch boy. Similarly, other men lose respect for you if you're too sensitive and emotional. It's just the way it is. So whilst I don't agree with the idea that every man needs to be some super alpha stoic bearded man's-man, I do think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:45 PM
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Of course everybody wants the best deal for themselves. A guy would rather fuck a hotter woman if given the choice, but most men are happy fucking 70% of the female population. Women simply aren't interested in fucking 70% of the male population. It's not all because of hypergamy though, it's as much to do with men being polygamous. Because we want to fuck the majority of women, it means they are given a huge supply of men who want to fuck them, hence they can afford to be more selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:20 PM
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You've misunderstood the meaning of hypergamy. Men are attracted to women for the things that they do not have themselves, ie femininity, beauty, softness, youth, playfulness. This isn't evidence of hypergamy. All women are youthful at some point in time, most women can be feminine, soft and playful if they want to be; most aren't these days because it's seen as a weakness. Also, most men think the majority of women are beautiful (i.e they turn them on enough to fuck them). Most men are not sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:22 PM
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You’d think on a subreddit that is purposely built for discussing red pill, people would actually know what red pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:10 PM
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They did fight. They spent the last few years fighting and enduring losses. But as soon as we pulled the plug and withdrew they realised it’s a battle they can’t win. The reason a lot of men have joined the Taliban is because they were afraid the Taliban would massacre them AND their family. Literally, the options are: 1) Accept Taliban law 2) Have you and your family massacred Now explain again how they’ve betrayed their ‘submissive women’?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:49 AM
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It’s not even pickup artistry really, it isn’t really teaching any sly tricks to get women into bed. The main thing for me was helping me understand how women think. I was raised in a very trad-con home, as I think a lot of people who discover TRP are. My mum is very old fashioned and so I (and my sister) was raised thinking any girl that sleeps around is loose and tacky. At school I just assumed it was a few girls like that. Then I shockingly learnt that most of the girls were sending nudes, ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:17 AM
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Chad here. Main thing is actually friendship for me. I find most of my mates are in relationships so tend to be flaky. Also I hate third-wheeling, so I’d rather just hang out with f buddies. Sex used to be a big factor but I find myself caring less about it now. For example I’d much rather a 6/10 fuck buddy who I really get on with than a boring 8/10, because the latter doesn’t offer me that social aspect that I crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:59 AM
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Male birth control will be a god send, I can’t wait for it. As a high value guy with a good career, I’m prime target for ‘an accident’. I sometimes cringe when I think of all the women I smashed with no protection, especially women a few leagues below, who were struggling with their career, mid 20’s and a bit mentally unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:51 AM
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TRP doesn’t say just to pump and dump forever, you can still commit and get into LTR’s. Heck even some of the biggest RP authors are married. The reason pumping and dumping (“plating”) is so widely pushed is because it installs an abundance mindset. It builds a certain layer of confidence knowing you can get casual sex whenever you want it. Also after a while of banging loads of hot girls you start to see them as just normal human beings. Before I became a fuck boy I would look up to hot women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:37 AM
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Yes, just not on Tinder most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:06 PM
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The problem is most of them have been raised in such beta households they can’t muster the cocky fuck boy energy to get the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:06 PM
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The thing is, to guys who have had little success with women, a 50% chance is better than nothing. The only people who will truly embrace a no-marriage lifestyle is either guys who have been through the divorce process or guys who can get that much pussy on a casual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:56 AM
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You are absolutely right, women can teach men lots of things on how appeal to women, but it’s through observing women’s actions as opposed to listening to their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:57 PM
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Yes they do. Hence ‘pre-selection’. Women naturally become more attracted to men who attract other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:23 AM
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No but the notion of average and attractive are related. A guy who is attractive to more women is seen as above average. A guy who isn’t attractive to many women is seen as below average. Of course your preferences could be wildly different to the majority of women. So for example you might find short fat bald guys with recessed jaws super attractive, despite him being below average in the eyes of many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:22 PM
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What do you mean exactly with regards to being softly spoken?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:13 PM
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See this logic breaks down when you start to apply inductive reasoning. So what about Woman B who also wants to fuck him. And Woman C, D, E etc. You’re essentially saying: They all want to fuck him, and that’s why he’s above average. So the natural question to that is why do all these women want to fuck him instead of Mr Incel? Because he has traits that are seen as above average in the eyes of many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:04 PM
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Hahaha if you need correcting on anything else let me know haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:03 PM
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No but your point was that if the average guy wants casual then all he needs to do is get off Tinder and jump on adultfriendfinder. I’m saying that only works for a small % of guys (typically with big ‘regions’ or other standout qualities) - ie guys who aren’t average. Of course some average-looking guys can get plenty of casual sex without any apps or sites because of their fun, low inhibition and engaging personalities. In which case, I’d argue these people aren’t average. They’re only average…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:52 PM
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Exactly and that one body region is what will have netted him most of his lays/bull opportunities, especially on a site where women/couples are looking for that. The average man with the average ‘region’ doesn’t have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:24 PM
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Well clearly your definition of average is off. As someone who has also been a bull on many occasions, it’s not average men that are being selected to be them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:08 PM
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For me the only real reason is social opportunities. I can get casual sex with hot girls very easily. I’m very good alone and self sufficient. I’m not bothered about kids. I don’t need my ego boosting by having a woman by my side. I have plenty of hobbies and things to keep me busy. If I want love I’ll get a dog. The only thing I would perhaps want a girlfriend for is so that I can do more things with friends who are in relationships. It’s always a bit awkward being a third wheel. And as you get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:21 AM
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So this then raises other questions in a guy’s mind. If she was so amazing then why did the relationship(s) fall apart? Could she not keep a man? Did she cheat? Did she get bored? Or alternatively, did he cheat? Did he get bored? Was something wrong with her to cause the guy to cheat? Or maybe she just picked the wrong guy? Is she a poor judge of character? If so, will she continue to make bad decisions going forward? Maybe she has emotional baggage? Is she now bitter and jaded? Does she expect …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 11:11 AM
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This. Marriage only worked in the past because it had to. Women were dependent on men for provision and security. They were also socially shamed if they couldn’t find a man. All that has gone now, women can make their own money, abuse against women being taken more seriously means women are safer than ever, and the social shaming has largely disappeared. So, as with anything, when you don’t need something as much you treat it worse. Same idea applies if you’ve had better. You aren’t going to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:46 AM
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Totally average guy and yet 20+ partners, oooookay :eyeroll: Either he’s been bin dipping with a bunch of land whales, or he’s actually only been with a handful but said 20+ to make himself seem more of a stud to you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:16 AM
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I’ve had some hookups swipe on girls for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:56 PM
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Do not try and raise her to be conservative, unless you maybe live in a very conservative strict part of the country. Society is full of hoes now, and if you try to teach her that is wrong she’ll just grow to resent you or she’ll be left out of parties and social gatherings, and will then most likely suffer from depression and eating disorders. Basically if you have a girl, you have to accept she’s going to be a little hoe. Get comfortable with it or don’t have any kids.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 07:56 PM
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The reason we have some women in this thread not understanding how it’s easier for women to be high value is because they’re looking at it on a basis of relative to other women. So yes, the average woman is much higher value than the average man. But the average woman will think it’s difficult to be high value because she’s comparing herself to a top 20% woman who is naturally beautiful. One of the advantages of being a man is that we can overcome our genetic presets easier, by putting on slabs …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:33 AM
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It's going to take a while to get over her, but you can't spend months feeling down. You need to break this rut that you are in. Try a small workout, doesn't need to be anything fantastic. Just a quick bicep routine whatever. Put on some motivational Youtube videos (Greg Plitt etc), get some good food into you and start trying to work back into a routine. You're in the dark part of the tunnel right now but you can find the light you just need to take small steps starting now.
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 12:02 AM
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Sorry to hear mate, sounds very similar to me, albeit I was only with her for 5-6 months. I think girls of that age just have this urge to go explore and enjoy their prime with all their single friends. They want to travel, go clubbing and just be free. It's not even that they want to trade up, they just want to experience different things with different people. My ex's parents were the same, her mother was absolutely gutted and was trying to keep in touch with me. She even tried to get me a job…
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 08:29 PM
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This. I’m a Chad and had a virgin gf who was 4 years younger. Even though I was out of her league, something she used to say all the time, she still wanted to try the CC and go out clubbing because that’s what all her friends were doing. She was a real good girl too, like 30 years ago she would’ve been the ideal woman to marry. But when you throw her into a hoe culture like this, she’s bound to wonder what it is she’s missing out on. Of course her friends will encourage hoe behaviour as they wan…
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 03:22 PM
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They are the expectations yes, but of course still have plenty of time for her. Thing is, most women have dated a gym rat, so they like the strength/size, they’ve dated a quirky artist/musician and so they like that excitement, they’ve dated a money man and like that lifestyle. So basically the more partners they’ve had, the more they want in one person. They don’t want just a money man, because they will miss the muscles and excitement. Similarly they don’t want just the muscle man because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:11 PM
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This. Unless he’s a chilled non-judgemental Chad himself, he probably has no idea what she gets up to. Most women aren’t going to come out and openly admit they just sleep with random guys because they’re hot. They’ll frame it as if he tricked her. He pretended we were serious then dumped me. In reality, he probably never pretended, she just feels bad admitting she was so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:03 PM
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This. Girls want to appear tough and strong in public, because it’s now expected of them, but then they want a super strong man they can submit to behind closed doors. It’s a bit like a kid dressing up as a soldier with a fake gun running round screaming I’m so tough look at meeee, and other kids (women) patting them on the back saying ‘woooo you go! You’re so strong #empowered’. Go look at any masculine man’s gf/wife. She isn’t giving him shit. The men that get shit are the betas who think a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:50 PM
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OP makes a classic mistake. Listening to what a Stacy says instead of watching what she does. Most of them will say they won’t just sleep with Chad, but guess what, they do ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:34 PM
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This is the way to be. Just don’t get too invested. Women are still a lot of fun and you can have great times. But just don’t invest too much, only put in what she puts in. If she starts giving you shit or starts hinting that she’s bored just next her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:47 PM
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The problem is a lot of people judge the suitability of LTR’s/marriage based on our parents/grandparents. The dating world has changed massively since their day. With the rise of apps and more sexual partners, people are likely to be less satisfied because they’ve had better and will not want to ‘settle’. The modern world is not as suited for marriage/LTR’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:15 PM
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Lol most men can’t even get their looksmatch. Why? Because she wants better, at least when she’s in her prime. Imagine you’re a 18-22 year old girl, are you going to settle for your looksmatch when you know you can get something better in the short term? Of course not. Most men (if they were women) would do the same. It’s only when they reach 25-35 and the clock starts ticking, friends start getting married that women start to settle for their looksmatch or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:45 AM
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Precisely. Every man knew he was getting a virgin looksmatch. I bet they couldn’t believe their luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:41 AM
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Oh in that case I’m probs a 9.5 then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:08 PM
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Look I’ll be honest with you buddy, I have no idea what behavioural comportment means. But I’m a Chad, so I don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:06 PM
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Ngl that pic made me laugh, based on that I’m a 9
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:00 PM
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Actually the majority of men would be happy with sexual communism - everybody gets their looksmatch. No harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:58 PM
2

Buy shares in AT&T? They own HBO
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 08:06 PM
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Sex. Flirting. Touching. Inviting eye contact. DM’ing. They’re all incredibly obvious.. to the people receiving them. To the guys ‘trying to be better, by becoming a simp’ it’s not obvious because they aren’t receiving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:37 PM
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Women already do validate men, it’s just not the ‘look at me, I’m trying my best to be a noble SJW, please touch my weener’ type.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:16 PM
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Not true at all. All the women I fuck know I don’t really desire them or even care that much about them. They love it. They’re just happy to be in my bed. I’ve even accidentally called them the wrong names and told them I fucked a girl in the same bed the night before. They just accept it. They travel 30+ mins and come straight round to my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:32 AM
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No but the point is men take on ‘fatherly’ responsibilities, such as providing, DIY, making her feel safe, yet when a woman has to take on a few ‘motherly’ responsibilities it’s a case of ohh helll nahh I ain’t your mummy. Just goes back to the point that women want the power of a man, with the responsibilities of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:17 AM
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Yet men still find their partner attractive when they’ve ‘been made’ to feel like someone’s dad (earning the money) for years on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:46 AM
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Can’t do that when you’re married kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:45 AM
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Most women just aren’t into sex with most men* Corrected for you. The overwhelming majority are into sex with the right men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 10:44 AM
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Casual sex is not in decline, certain people are having more casual sex than ever before. It’s just there’s more people who are now sexless. In the past these people would’ve been having duty sex with their partner since the age of 23. Not anymore. They now need to wait until 35 before they can enjoy their duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:25 PM
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It mostly comes back to the fact that most women are bored. They have few genuine hobbies (Instagram doesn’t count) so they crave excitement and drama through other means. Bad boys provide this drama that gives them something to live for. Same with these silly reality shows. Love Island, Kardashians etc. It’s why girls bitch about all their ‘friends’ constantly. It’s only only later in life when women start to take on more responsibilities (children, work etc) that they then start to look for ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:08 PM
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It’s not that they are synonymous, but tattoos indicate low inhibition impulsive behaviour which is perfect for attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:53 PM
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This is why lots of men thugmaxx. It’s the best strategy for guys who aren’t good-looking. Just get a load of tattoos, wear gold chains, act low inhibition, listen to trap music, start lifting and get on the gear, tan using sun beds, tight fade haircut. Wear joggers and wife beater tops. Yes you’ll look like a knob, but women will be attracted to it and other guys won’t mess with you. It’s the easiest way to start slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah was more just checking to see if he practices what he preaches
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:41 PM
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I assume you’ll be having no children then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:19 PM
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Yep all rap music is basically RP. It teaches young black boys that women are nothing but hoes and should be treated as such. Ironically, it’s also the music that women love to dance and twerk to in nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:09 PM
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Nothing wrong with being a beta. We need betas. If society was full of alphas we’d end up killing each other. Betas also tend to make better providers and are typically more helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:17 PM
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That’s because posh white guys (and Asians) tend to be raised in trad-con homes. They are taught to respect women and only approach if she gives signs of interest. Whereas in black/poor communities you are basically taught to treat the girl like a piece of meat and just approach care free. Since I’ve started treating women like sex objects my success has sky rocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:14 PM
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Yeah or maybe you’re just a beta and can’t accept it bruuuuuh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:03 PM
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Sorry :( I prefer taller girls for relationships tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:02 PM
1

Look guys, we got a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:28 PM
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For sex definitely, shorter girls are better. The height gap is just sexy. But for relationships, some guys actually prefer taller women because it means she has less guys after her and typically they are less demanding because of it. Also some guys want tall children, so having babies with a tall woman has benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:17 PM
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Lol wut
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:14 PM
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Nobody has ‘proved’ anything. Alphas lead and have access to the most females, betas follow and have the least access. It’s as simple as that. If you don’t think alphas exist then you’re most likely a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:14 PM
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There’s loads of ‘alpha’ guys out there who can’t get any pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:12 PM
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Also it’s not just about how often they have sex, it’s about having passionate good sex. Not just some duty starfish sex. The fact is, most women aren’t attracted to most men enough to have hot lustful sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:09 PM
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The bachelor lifestyle is perfect for me. I get the best of all worlds. I get to have sex with lots of different girls, only see them when I want to and not when I have to. I get time for all my hobbies and watching sports. If one girl is doing my head in I just switch her out for somebody else, she knows that, so we never really have any drama. I let them all know I fuck other girls so there’s no exclusivity problem. I have no interest in having kids so I see no reason to get too serious with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:53 PM
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Suicide rates will go up, for both men and women. Single parenthood will become the norm. Women will aim to have babies in their prime with high value males and then they will either raise them on their own, rely on handouts from big daddy gov, or look for a desperate simp who will accept anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:45 PM
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You can make up for the lack of height by getting jacked (the stocky rough and ready look). The number 1 indicator for success with women is how social you are, your charisma, your ability to escalate and come across as a confident bad boy. Too many guys on here were raised in safe trad-con homes and think their nice job in accounting with their good beta haircut, buttoned up shirt with chinos and no tats will cut it. It doesn’t. It’s too safe and beta. Doesn’t wet a single pussy. Also too many …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:17 AM
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Most girls use Tinder, it’s just that they find a Chad to fuck then delete it, whereas the Chad will stay on Tinder to pick up other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:01 AM
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This thread seems to pop up every month. She either: a) Chose the wrong guy b) Scared off the right guy Neither are desirable The reason single fathers get more respect is because they usually actively fought for rights to raise the child. They could’ve walked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:38 AM
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As always
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:55 PM
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Nobody gives a damn about intellect. Can you use that big brain to seduce a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:49 PM
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No they wouldn’t, you’re too paranoid. They definitely are. I’ve shagged over 100 women, maybe around 15-20 Asian girls, I’ve got a 7.5-8 inch thick d and most of the Asians struggle. I’ve had a handful that could only manage 5 or so inches, one even said no straight away. Not every girl wants a massive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:05 PM
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Smash Asian girls, wear a penis sleeve, get amazing with your tongue and fingers. There’s still possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:33 PM
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What’s unreasonable about getting fit and strong? Also why do you care about what women can get through virtue? Just lift weights, maximise looks and social skills then destroy some pussy. Or just whinge on Reddit about how life is unfair idk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:48 PM
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Exactly, too many basement dwelling Incels on this subreddit who just want to blame ‘muh height, not 6ft, will never be top 20%’. Every guy should be improving, even the lost causes could maybe drag themselves to just below average, which is way better than what they was before. If you haven’t looksmaxxed, got jacked and developed good social skills then you can’t whinge about genetics. Too many ppl on here looking for excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:55 AM
7

This. Conservatism is dead. Religion is dead. The nuclear family structure is dying. Men need to just accept it for what it is and start having some fun. So what if we don’t meet the love of our lives? Just enjoy different people as they come and go throughout your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:14 AM
-6

This. I’m sick of these Incels on here complaining that they can’t get casual sex. As long as you aren’t hideously looking, and are willing to clean up your diet, train in the gym 5x a week, even run a few roid cycles if you need, surgeries/orthodontic treatments, buying well fitted clothes, and most importantly learning social skills and developing charisma. There’s no reason why an average guy can’t propel himself into the top 20/30%. Yeah he might never be a top 5% slayer, but he will still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:10 AM
1

It’s not necessarily that women are valued for their youth per-se otherwise we would see athletes/celebs dating the hottest 18-21 year olds. Instead, it’s that most of a woman’s value is derived from her looks, so as she ages and loses that lovely smooth tight skin she starts to lose a lot of points fast. Whereas with men, looks are not as big of a factor for our total SMV. Also, men can look more rugged and tough as they age, so that can actually work in our favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:41 PM
1

I think what you’re trying to say is that as women age they start to want a real masculine man. The more masculine the better typically, height, muscles, strong hands, deep voice, beard etc. When girls are young (teenagers) they aren’t looking for some super Mr alpha, they typically want a fun quirky popular pretty/bad boy (Justin Bieber, One Direction etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:05 PM
1

Yeah I’m similar, I’ve loved lockdown because it means more time for working out, playing guitar, less time commuting to work. But I also like meeting up with friends to watch football, rave etc. Do you ever get imposter syndrome with your job? As in do you ever feel as if you don’t belong in a sea of extroverts? I did sales before and definitely felt that. I agree, I’ve always been quietly confident, I’m what most ppl here would define as ‘Chad’, but girls often mistook me for being shy, unconf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:07 PM
3

Maybe it’s more 50-50 with men. It’s harder to tell with guys because we often bond over doing things together rather than just joining up to socialise for the sake of it. I think most guys are way less sociable than most girls. Also, guys like to pour a lot of time into isolationist hobbies/career in order to achieve mastery, whether that creates introversion or because of introversion is an interesting question. Also as a guy you need to be able to at least fake a bit of extroversion to get wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:49 AM
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Yeah I’d say it’s way more than half. I’d imagine 80% of all girls are extroverted/ambivert.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:03 AM
7

I think it’s just that women would rather socialise than isolate themselves with an hobby. Most girls I know are meeting up with friends multiple nights a week. Whereas with guys we’re happy to go off the grid and master something.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 10:12 AM
2

I can see it both ways, Crabs in a bucket mentality is certainly a thing. If you start to run ahead of the pack they won’t look at themselves and think ‘I need to go faster’, they’ll either try to slow you down or let you run off. Although on the other hand, as a chilled out person, I do understand how it can be annoying when you’ve got people around you that are too intense/money mad. I’ve got a mate that values everybody based on how much they’re earning. He thinks if they’re earning less than…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 04:04 PM
15

Yeah if only the top 10% could get women then why are there loads of below average men in relationships? People on this forum worry too much about SMV. As long as you’re within the average range, have good social skills/personality and put yourself out there you will have no problem whatsoever. So many guys on here are blaming their SMV without questioning their actual personality. Are they a fun person to be around? Are they social? It’s not worth worrying about the Celebs/athletes etc, they ar…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:17 PM
4

NoFap is the stupidest idea since mewing (another Incel theory). If I don’t wank/have sex every day then I basically turn into a horny sex monster that can’t think about anything else. It’s not that my T becomes higher, it’s just my body is screaming for me to bust a nut. The one time I tried NoFap I almost got sacked from my job because I couldn’t concentrate on my work. Every woman that walked past I was checking out her ass then spending a few minutes thinking about ragging her on the desk.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:02 PM
37

This bit about top 10% is complete cope. You aren’t competing with the average man in America, you’re competing with the average 18-30 guy, who is definitely not overweight. 20-30% of guys around that age group will hit the gym regularly. To break in the top 10% you need certain genetic traits: height, penis size, strength, high T, bad boy attitude, facial aesthetics, social skills, status etc. That said, I agree with the core message, lift. Always improve because even if you don’t land in the t…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 09:53 PM
17

Crime rates will rise, more men will turn towards hedonism and hobbies, people will feel less connection to the community. Open relationships and cuckoldry will become the norm, as we detach sex from love. Single parenthood will rise to levels seen in places like the Caribbean (50-80% of kids raised by single mothers). Depression rates will skyrocket as people long for intimacy. Only Fans/prostitution will become a legit career and not something frowned upon. Big daddy gov will replace these ‘MG…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:09 PM
11

Yes I agree there are certainly some MGTOW guys who have left the game completely but I think when women say ‘where have all the good men gone’ they are really referring to the top 50% who are all focusing on casual sex and seemingly not so interested in relationships. In other words, it’s not that the good men have left the game, but instead they have all become fuck boys. Women know there are plenty of bottom 50% guys on standby chomping at the bit, but they don’t care about them unless they n…
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 11:14 AM
25

The reasons guys are aiming to please women more than ever is because: 1 - Alpha Fucks know casual sex is on the table, whereas years ago it wasn’t to the same degree. In the past, they would’ve typically been locked down by 21 in a relationship and then largely out of the dating game. 2 - The Beta Bucks have been starved of pussy during their testosterone-fuelled years, so any prospect of sex they will do anything to get it (marrying the wrong woman, doing all the chores, buying expensive gifts…
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 10:19 AM
1

Hahahahaha sure whatever you say ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:37 PM
1

Nope just enjoy treating average girls like dirt every now and then ;) nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:44 PM
1

Sometimes you just want that feeling of an average girl worshipping you like you're a god, hard to explain haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:21 PM
1

okay sweetheart, think whatever you wanna think ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:55 PM
1

Well if 6ft3 245lbs jacked, top tier facial aesthetics, sick as fukk hair, deep voice, massive cock and IDGAF personality isn't Chad then yeah maybe I'm not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:46 PM
1

Deep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:28 PM
1

Wouldn’t change things for too long, big daddy gov would just import a lot of young men from the Middle East and the Caribbean. Look at what happened to the UK post-WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:00 PM
3

Lol you’re so deluded if you genuinely think us Chads aren’t shagging below our league. The top 5/10% on Tinder take all average and above girls. Heck occasionally I’ll shag a 4/10 if she’s dirty as fuck and willing to come straight round.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:50 PM
3

The answer is 2. It will soon be common practice for most women to have kids with alphas before 35 then settle for a beta who will take anything (someone else’s kids) over nothing. Cuckoldry/open marriages will become the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:45 PM
4

Kimi is the best example, be so fucking boring that nobody will want to talk to you
/r/MGTOW01/06/21 11:24 PM
4

Nah she’s not that small
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 09:15 PM
1

I mean more jacked back when I was in college, I definitely don't need any more muscle now. Back then I was probably a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:03 PM
2

Young girls (14-21) typically want the most fun quirky popular guys, that usually isn’t the most alpha guys in my experience. I was captain of the football team, 6ft3, deep voice, big cock and top tier facial aesthetics but I had no luck with women because I was super serious all the time. My deep voice + introverted and analytical personality only further exaggerated my seriousness. Guys much uglier, shorter and less athletic than me were having way more success simply because they were more so…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:17 PM
3

Natty, took 5 years of solid lifting and a few years of dicking around. 15-18% body fat so not completely shredded. Sometimes I wish I did juice so I could’ve been this jacked during college, would’ve got so much more pussy. That said, maybe I would’ve developed gyno or hair loss so it’s hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:58 PM
5

4-5x a week; 6ft3 245lbs jacked. Swallow. Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:57 PM
6

I’m a 9.5/10 Chad AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:44 PM
15

Tbh, I find feminism to be one giant shit test. It’s the girl using it to filter out the weak pathetic guys. I’ve banged over 100 girls, 80%+ were strong feminists, all of them surrendered for me and would do anything I say. Even outside of the bedroom, they would always tell me how great it is to have a real man instead of these soft (read: soy) boys. These girls act all tough to other people, but to me they’re practically a child. Don’t debate her about feminism, just nod and change the subjec…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:14 PM
3

The problem here is more to do with high inhibition autists. Most autists need things directly spelling out for them, they struggle to read subtle body language. They tend to jump to extremes, either I need to ask her everything or I need to completely dominate her from the first second. There’s a middle ground, it’s called having social skills, it’s the ability to read what the girl is into. Some girls want to be dominated completely others get frightened by that and need it much lighter to sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:32 AM
2

Agreed. Women encourage men to work harder and earn more thanks to their materialistic nature. She can never have too many handbags, shoes, necklaces, fancy holidays etc, so it gives the man a reason to work all hours god sends which in turns is fantastic for the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:01 PM
5

Women have never been attracted to the average man, they evolved to take in the strongest DNA possible, it’s only in recent times where religion and laws were conjured up in order to encourage monogamy. We learnt that society functions best when every man gets a woman. Otherwise it turns into a free-for-all. Similarly, women needed men before, for physical security, money and even sex. Now they have their own careers, are free to fuck whoever they want and are relatively safe from physical abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:48 PM
1

Maybe that’s his point, we need to create a society-less society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:58 PM
5

Women crave drama and excitement because they aren’t typically very good at entertaining themselves. They tend to have fewer hobbies and interests which means they get bored easily. Also, unlike men, they don’t need to pick up any hobbies to become interesting because of that hole between their legs. They’re basically guaranteed interest from men as long as they aren’t completely ugly and their personality doesn’t stink. As a result, women seek external excitement, be it through social media, of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 04:12 PM
1

Same bro, got the ice pack on my cawwwk letting it rest #ChadProblems
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:54 PM
6

Same with women, no decent woman would be debating on here with Incels. Only 2/10 fat ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:10 PM
1

Most of mens insecurity comes from lack of success with women. Lifting is one of the best and easiest things you can do to improve your chances. Why would you not? Since becoming a Chad (thanks to TRP) and slaying over 100 women I’ve become so much more chill and in general a better person to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 10:47 AM
4

I think depression in general is a turn off, except for people that have had it and find it’s some common ground to bond over. Personally as a guy I wouldn’t want a gf who has suffered heavily with depression in the past, what happens if she becomes depressed again? Too much burden on me. Depression wrecks relationships, not fair to expect a partner to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:46 AM
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The problem with TRP is the anger/depressed phase. TRP essentially teaches you Santa isn’t real. It’s a tough pill to swallow, especially for those from tradcon homes. It often takes a certain amount of life experience to truly understand. Until you’ve seen women first-hand choose asshole after asshole it will not make sense. It will make even more sense after you adopt TRP and realise your success with women skyrockets, as long as you’re happy to put in the work. The problem is the guys who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:36 AM
1

This. There’s actually very little disagreement within TRP itself, except when the Incels take over and pretend they are experts. The main issue, as with most things, is people outside of TRP misunderstanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:23 AM
4

I learnt the same thing, never brag about your successes to loser guys, they just end up getting jealous. Crabs in a bucket mentality is real. They will try and drag you down. It’s all about adapting your personality to suit your crowd. For example, around women you want to be cocky/cheeky, but tone that down around most guys. I work in a industry with a lot of loser guys and I find I have to meet them halfway otherwise they get scared. Literally, a lot of these dweeby nerds are legit scared of …
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:32 AM
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Any guy who isn’t in the top 10% should delete their OLD accounts and start building social networks IRL. Go to friends parties, become a big cheese in a mixed sports team/society, get to know women at your work, strike up casual conversations with girls in day-to-day life (don’t think of them as cold approaches like Autists do) I know plenty of average guys who can get girls because they are a somebody within that girls social group. If you’re going on OLD then you’re literally being ranked on …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:01 PM
8

*Dating/hookup apps are for Chads.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:00 PM
2

Yep with women it’s always one of the extremes. He’s either a soft pushover or he’s a toxic asshole. Best to not worry about the terms, or anything women say really. Just fuck them good, be selfish, demonstrate abundance and don’t put up with shit.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:49 PM
2

I went from awkward, lanky, boring, high IQ anti-social dork to 6ft3 muscle-bound low inhibition Chad. My looks improved by getting my teeth corrected, laser eye surgery and becoming 240lbs of solid lean muscle. Thankfully I was born with top tier facial aesthetics. My personality grew as my looks were changing and my success started increasing. I’m naturally an introvert, but people started treating me better as my looks improved which made it easier to be social. I felt like I was no longer fi…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:25 AM
3

Similar experience, banged over 100 girls, Asian and black girls had the tightest. Fat white English girls were by far the loosest.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:51 AM
5

I’ve fucked over 100 girls, maybe 15-20 Asian, can confirm they have the tightest pussies. Pretty much every single one of them I hit their cervix and stretched them considerably (temporarily it reverts back lol). Fat English/Irish girls have had by far the biggest vaginas. Some I could pretty much fist without too much effort.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:46 AM
4

The difference in fully erect size isn’t quite as big, but Africans tend to have much larger flaccid dicks. That’s because people in colder climates evolved to have penises that shrink more when not erect; it’s basically a protection mechanism. There’s also the theory that people that evolved from warmer climates would walk around with their dicks hanging out, of which larger ones attracted more women, which meant more big dick genetics were passed on through each generation. People that evolved…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:41 AM
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Men are islands, women are boats The more attractive the island, the more boats will want to dock. They might stay on the island for a night, a weekend, a few months or maybe even a few decades, but they are always free to leave and they most likely will when they get bored of your island. But don’t worry, more boats will arrive.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:24 AM
5

Men are islands, women are boats
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:16 AM
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So true, my first relationship I was waaaay out of her league (me a 9, her a 7). She even said it herself plenty of times. However I was waaay more into her than she was into me, and she was repulsed by that. She even said I used to treat her too nice sometimes and that she prefers when I’m aloof. I was so confused at the time but looking back on it she was basically teaching me TRP haha
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:13 AM
3

Exactly! Take the UK for example, the left aren’t as bad, they only want to ignore the results of a democratic referendum and ignore the votes of over 17 million people.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 06:07 PM
11

But apparently censorship is completely fine these days, on the grounds of ‘spreading misinformation’.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 02:06 PM
1

Exactly, I’ve always been in the top 5% height, blessed with top tier facial aesthetics and am very athletic. But I was practically a virgin until 19/20 because I was introverted, boring and I treated women with the upmost respect. Meanwhile guys who were no way near as conventionally attractive as me (average height, average faces) were banging girls from the age of 14 and 15 simply because they were super social, fun and extroverted. They also acted like a bad boy alpha by wearing chains, list…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:20 AM
10

I wouldn’t say it’s just the above average girls. So many average and even below average fatties prefer fucking Chads on tinder than settling down for their looks-match. Once she’s sampled Chad’s cock she finds it so hard to go back to a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:09 PM
10

No silly! Just be like Jeff Bezos
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 09:08 AM
12

Cuckerberg is up for it soon
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 09:02 AM
1

I think this conversation has ran it’s course. Have a nice day,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:50 PM
1

Official definition of loyalty: ‘giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.’ If you don’t see how supporting a football team fits that criteria, then I really don’t know what to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:32 PM
1

Exactly, you don’t understand because you’re a woman, which was my original point..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:14 PM
2

Because being a lifelong fan of a shitty team requires loyalty... Instagram, food and cocktails don’t count as hobbies I’m sorry to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:06 PM
33

Out of all the girls in the world to pull into your lifestyle you choose an Olympic athlete? These are some of the most driven tunnel-visioned hyper focused people on the planet. Her training comes before anything you can come up with. My advice would be to either enjoy casual with her or just move onto another girl. Don’t try and peel her away from her dream.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:12 PM
3

Black pill -> depression -> suicide Red pill -> self improvement -> success Your choice buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 07:56 PM
1

You can talk to her about it, but always show that you’re in control of your emotions. Don’t go blubbering into her arms.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 07:32 PM
0

No, women have higher body fat percentages because they have less muscle and smaller bone structures, but in terms of overall size they are meant to be the smaller of the two sexes. When a woman starts becoming fat she is reducing her pool of guys who can make her feel small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:50 PM
2

Yes and most women admit they prefer a guy with a bit of extra meat on vs some skinny guy. It’s primal, women want to feel safe and protected, the bigger guy stands more chance of winning in a fight; hence weight classes in boxing and MMA. Of course there is a point where men can get too fat and it just becomes unhealthy blubber.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:47 PM
0

Also men are naturally meant to be bigger. So we can get away with carrying a few extra pounds. For example a bit of fat on the arms can give the illusion of strong, thick arms. Whereas women are not meant to be big and fat. As soon as a woman starts adding fat anywhere other than her tits and ass she starts to become less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:07 PM
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The bottom line is, women get bored easier than men do. That’s why most women don’t have hobbies because they can’t stick at them. Men support football teams from birth until they die, good luck getting a woman to stick with a shitty team that loses every week. We can see the same behaviour with consumer spending, women always want the new things, the new shoes, the new handbag, the new dress. Hence, them being responsible for 70% of consumer spending. Men tend to stick with things for a lot lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:43 PM
1

The reason men are mad is because the monogamous society that we created over the last few hundred/thousand years is slowly decaying. We created a societal structure where every man essentially got a low n-count woman in her prime (18-25). The woman needed the man for resources so she had to be with him even if she wasn’t attracted to him. Now, women are more financially independent than ever before and they’re free to fuck whoever they want; no slut shaming. Low value men are starting to realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:32 PM
1

Ms Bezos had already found a new guy within a few days of announcing the divorce. She was definitely cucking him. Wouldn’t surprise me if Melinda has had some young alpha cock on the side too
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 03:50 PM
3

I’m glad this beta cuck got thrown in the trash. Last week he was saying how we need to give our vaccines to the poor countries around the world, yet he was perfectly happy to have his double jab. I’m sure a 65 year old in Africa needs the vaccine more than a 65 year old billionaire in America who has access to the best healthcare on the planet.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 08:41 AM
8

Beta Bill would’ve stood no chance of reproducing without marriage. I bet he was a millionaire before he lost his virginity. Guys like him just don’t wet panties.
/r/MGTOW204/05/21 08:34 AM
4

That was literally like my last job. All the married guys would work 15 hour days, and by work I mean stay in the office for an extra 3 or 4 hours despite having no work to do. Apparently it was because the traffic was so bad they wanted to wait to let it settle..
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 01:08 AM
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The issue is women tend to have a very skewed perception of male-female dynamics as the bottom 50% of men are practically invisible to them. They don’t know if they’re sexless, committing suicide at higher rates etc because they don’t really show up on their radars. A lot of women on here genuinely believe most men have a healthy amount of casual sex. If you ask women what the height, body measurements, life experiences, social status etc is of the average guy they would all give you an answer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:38 AM
2

No I fully understand what the wall means, and I agree with the core concept that women tend to lose sex appeal as the age (so do men, although our value is less tied to our looks). What I’m saying is a lot of angry/bitter RP’ers treat it as some revenge fantasy. Pretending like once the woman hits 30 her stock plummets and she becomes unattractive overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:56 PM
5

I never said women face no struggles, I implied they face less struggles than men which they do. As you say sexual harassment and domestic abuse are things that impact women more. Also period pains, I’m definitely happy I have a penis. Regarding single mothers, I have very little sympathy. If you choose to have a kid with Mr Bad Boy at 19 then I have very little sympathy when he decides he wants to live his best life and not be saddled with a kid. Also most single mothers can easily find a beta …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:26 PM
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After the age of 35 the chances of Down syndrome, miscarriage etc start to skyrocket. Sure you can have kids at 45, but it’s much better to have had them by 35. Fostering or adoption is a separate thing entirely, most women would much rather have kids of their own. Again I’m not judging, if you get lots of satisfaction from your career and casual dick then all power to you. I don’t think all women are mother material. Just don’t pretend that age doesn’t matter when it comes to reproduction becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:57 PM
5

And that societal pressure is because of the ticking body clock. Women start to realise that a booming career or sex with chads starts to become relatively meaningless as they realise their hopes of having kids with a somewhat decent guy are fading. Every year that passes the chances reduce. Tick tock.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:25 PM
14

Yep for most below average men at 30 it’s a case of collect your fatty with a whole host of baggage or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:09 PM
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This. TRP exaggerates the wall. The average woman over 30 will have no problem landing an average guy (For commitment and sex). Hence the beta bucks; he isn’t necessarily ugly. He’s just average with a decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:05 PM
2

Sorry to hear that, hope you’re doing better now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:36 PM
23

*For most women under 40, definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:35 PM
44

Imagine complaining when you live life on easy mode. Homeless? Don’t worry some simp will offer you a home. Starving? Don’t worry some simp will buy you a sandwich. Depressed? Don’t worry everyone will gather round and try to raise you up. Sexless? Don’t worry some guy will plonk his dick in you. Ran out of money in a nightclub? Don’t worry some simp will buy you drinks. Feeling ugly? Don’t worry all your gals and family will comment ‘queeeeeeen’ ‘BEAUTIFUL’ ‘unreal’ on all your Insta pics. Want…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:00 PM
23

Most men do fuck chubby girls and that’s why there’s so many chubby girls these days. If no one was fucking them then they’d have to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:54 PM
9

This. For one it’s simply a matter of time, if they are being wanted by plenty of people then eventually they will find someone they’re suited to. The problem a lot of men have is that nobody wants them and it doesn’t look like it’s going to change any time soon, at least not until he’s 30+ with his own house and car for her to leach off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:51 PM
2

The problem is society has become reliant on men sacrificing themselves in order to keep the money cogs spinning. If all men went MGTOW the world would be completely screwed. Men would be working normal jobs earning normal wages and spending very little on pointless shit in order to please some high maintenance hag. The NPC’s think: well I’m breaking my back to support this materialistic debt-driven society, why aren’t you? What makes you any better than me? I’m stuck on the wage-slave plantatio…
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 12:34 AM
3

Just make sure to screenshot plenty of sexting messages and back them up to the icloud. Her argument will hold very little value in court when messages such as ‘choke me with your cock’ are read out by your defence lawyer.
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 12:27 AM
8

The thing is most men live incredibly boring lives, so they look for a partner to provide them excitement and a reason to live. If they aren’t wage-slaving or chore-slaving for their high maintenance wife then they’ll get bored.
/r/MGTOW01/05/21 12:17 AM
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Paralysis by analysis is definitely true when it comes to Red Pill/MGTOW content. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve used red pill content to drastically increase my success with women, but I did that by spending a few months learning it (confirming it) and then going out and practising it. I didn’t sit on these subreddits week in week out for mental masturbation purposes, it’s only with lockdown that I’ve come back to these subreddits. Obviously red pill/MGTOW naturally attracts a lot of analytical type …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:31 AM
1

Okay buddy sure, I’ll keep taking the ‘risks’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:49 PM
1

You must live in an entirely different world to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:30 AM
4

This isn’t about being a pickup artist, it’s about being a social guy that doesn’t place too much importance or pressure on any one girl/convo. She thinks you’re weird? Fine, move on to the next one, no dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 10:23 PM
1

No, people gravitate towards friendly welcoming people. That’s why social extroverted guys tend to do a lot better with women. Most of my guy mates that are single are loner introvert types. The guys that did well in school with girls weren’t necessarily the tallest, strongest Giga Chads, they were just super social fun guys to be around (with average to above average looks). Popular girls liked them and so did the loner introvert girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:26 PM
5

Post to social media, who the fuck cares? You need to develop an IDGAF attitude. So what if she posts to her girly group chat that she just had some creep try to talk to her, just roll with it. Just think of it all as a fun game, strike up conversations with not only young girls but older women, grandmas, men etc. It builds positive social momentum, you’ll start to walk with a bounce in your step.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:21 PM
2

Loners struggle to meet loners though.. because they’re loners. And even then, a lot of boring loner girls like a guy that is a bit social to bring them out their shell a bit. And regardless, you should want a social circle for your own sanity. I’m an introvert, but it’s good to have some friends so you can do fun things together. Whilst I really really enjoy my alone time, a lot of my best memories and experiences are when I’ve been with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:16 PM
0

If you don’t have ANY social circle then you have bigger issues than trying to find a partner. Most women will have very little interest in a guy that has no friends and does nothing. No girl wants an antisocial hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:02 PM
10

Starting an innocent conversation with women in public doesn’t carry ‘too many risks’. Stop reading these silly cope scare stories. I don’t know any guy in real life that has had the police after them just because he tried to start an innocent conversation with a girl. Just don’t be a complete creep and try and grab her. Read for IOI’s and escalate if she’s feeling it. You can be playful and flirty, the worst she will do is ignore you and maybe pull a face. Don’t worry, there won’t be a SWAT tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:57 PM
1

10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:18 PM
1

I get what you mean. I’ve got a lot of blue collar mates (from school) and I find that after 10 years of going separate ways after school we’re just so different. They all have small town mentality, and are very judgemental because of it. The only people they know are people who look/sound like them, so they just find it impossible to get along with people who are different. So it’s not that I look down on them (due to social class) but more that we have just lived very different lives since lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:45 PM
15

Most women are attracted to guys that look like gym rats, but then they get repulsed when they realise it takes 4-5 gym sessions a week and a strict diet. That’s why I don’t tell any of my fuck buddies about how much I lift, I basically pass it off as if it all comes easy. They want to believe it’s strong genetics, as opposed to hard work, because that means stronger DNA for offspring. It’s similar with money, women want a guy that is earning six figures, but they also get frustrated when they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 01:09 PM
2

Except there are women out there, 35 years old, alone, with multiple cats, wondering where all the good men have gone. In the past, these MGTOW men would’ve been loyal husbands and fathers. Not to worry though, big daddy Gov is fixing it through relaxed immigration laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 04:08 PM
3

If you don’t think alphas/betas exist then you’re most likely a beta, or a woman. High value male that fucks lots of women and leads men = Alpha Low value male who struggles with women and is bossed around by men = Beta Also, there’s nothing wrong with Betas, we need them to make the world go round. Heck, betas are more important for human survival. We only need a few alphas. Too many alphas and things start getting aggressive, crime rate shoots up etc. One thing all advanced economies were succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:49 PM
2

I’m a jacked Chad, I bet I would demolish pussy in your area Send location
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:33 PM
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It’s obvious, as women age they start to look for security. Someone that will make a good provider. The dad bod is a great safe option. It’s not revolting but at the same time it’s not going to have all the women at work trying to jump his bones. Assuming he’s always had a dad bod then he probably hasn’t experienced much casual sex with hot girls, so his expectations are lower. He probably also has less confidence that he can find another girl, so he puts all his eggs into this basket. He basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 09:34 AM
1

Spanish and Portuguese girls have very deep voices, but they’re sexy
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:58 AM
9

Northern girls do. It’s all the cum they swallow, it messes with their vocal chords
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:03 AM
10

Lol dream on buddy. By the time she gets to late 20's/30's she'll be giving you the ultimatum. She knows she can get some other good looking guy earning six figures to put a ring on her finger
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:31 PM
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I think the main difference is that with the gym or a healthy diet it's all within your control. Whereas with marriage you're relying on somebody else to do their part. Also, as others have mentioned, the '50% of marriages end in divorce' is skewed, because it is much lower for white, 25-35 y.o college-educated first-marriages. If you want to have kids with a woman who has any self respect then she will expect marriage; because she knows she's high value and can get that commitment off someone e…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:46 PM
14

I really find this hard to believe, that he stood in the way and REFUSED to let you sign up despite having A's and A*'s in GCSE Maths. If that is the honest truth then you should've reported him, that's definitely not standard behaviour off a teacher. Also, you will always get doubters, I had them too, I was put in the bottom set for Science despite getting some of the highest scores in Maths a few years prior (Year 6/7). Basically I slacked off and started flunking tests (some on purpose), so t…
/r/MensRights14/04/21 11:37 AM
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I remember my mate’s girlfriend, she was going on about how she was discouraged from pursuing STEM from an early age, being told Maths and Engineering are male subjects etc. My simple response was ‘By them female teachers in your fee-paying girls school?’. She genuinely didn't know what to say. Every single teacher in her school was a woman. Yet she has managed to convince herself that it’s some evil white old men that held her back.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 09:14 AM
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I think the word 'shitty' is a bit harsh. Does having more friends make you less shitty? What about if you're an introvert? More focused on your hobbies? Perhaps you have a partner? A busy job? When I think of the shitty people I know, they actually have lots of "friends"/acquaintances. They're typically very conniving and good at influencing people. They bond with lots of people by 'dishing out the dirt' and spilling secrets.. but only to you of course :eyeroll:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:50 PM
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I think it’s that women feel a need to be ‘part of the pack’ more than men do. So they will try and befriend most other women to avoid FOMO. This means a good portion of these ‘friendships’ are built on rocky ground, as they never truly liked each other in the first place. Meanwhile men are happier alone, as we have more hobbies, and therefore would often rather be alone than make friends with a dude we don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:57 AM
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You shouldn’t ‘wait’, you should always be talking to women and trying to improve social skills as much as you can. Although the older (read: more successful) you get the more choice you will have, up until around mid-late 30’s (then most women within a few years of your age will have had kids by that point). When I said forget OLD I meant forget Tinder. There are other apps (Hinge for example) which are more focused on relationships and actually getting to know each other as opposed to silly cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:57 PM
1

Definitely. And tbh even if a sperg can get sex, it’s probably going to be extremely disappointing and not beyond basic starfish. She might even be dry as hell, cause there’s no lust. I think our society places so much importance on sex, but the majority of guys are probably better off forgetting it and just focusing on getting a nice girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:15 PM
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Forget casual sex and OLD. Aim to get a good job, maximise your looks, lift weights and try to be a nice guy. Don’t aim to become some alpha Chad because it will just look fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:39 AM
2

It’s not enough to look at the national average obesity rates, you aren’t even competing with most of them (fat bald old men) for casual sex anyway. You need to look at the obesity/fat rates of other guys within college, your dorm, class, at parties. Don’t delude yourself into thinking you’re top 30% just because you aren’t overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:43 AM
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This is a great point. It’s easy to rank where we all are based on looks, height, muscle mass, dick size, money etc. The thing that is hard to rank is our personalities/social skills. We all like to think we’re at least average, or at worst slightly below. In order to improve it takes a lot of effort and the ability to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. You can’t just go into the basement and improve like you can with your body for example. You can’t also really learn it from Reddit or Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:23 AM
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Instagram is everything for 9’s and 10’s. They all want to be famous and filthy rich. That’s why I tend to avoid them, the vast majority have very boring personalities and are ridiculously entitled. They’ve lived life on the easiest mode and don’t understand adversity. Much better to get with a solid 7 that worships you and has a great personality. Though it’s nice to fuck a 9 or 10 just for the ego lol
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:21 PM
1

Never said you did 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 08:35 AM
4

The point is he can’t get any pussy unlike ‘white boy Chad’. Why refer to skin colour? Why did he not just say Chad/Tyrone? Because he’s a bitter Incel looking for cope reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:40 PM
2

Yes, I’m the loser, not you; the guy who can’t get any pussy because he’s no longer a Chad in a new environment Spoiler: You never was one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:38 PM
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All of your three examples are about how white guys are doing better than you. Accept that it’s not because of their skin colour, it’s because they’re probably better looking and have better personalities. Quit whinging you little baby, get into the gym and work on your woe-is-me Incel personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:25 PM
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‘It’s my destiny to not be attractive as white boy Chad’ YOU made it about race. Whether you’re white, brown or black you can slay pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:16 PM
1

TRP isn’t there to judge women’s morals, it just explains how they operate. When they’re young they tend to want Alpha Chad cock, and then when they’re older they look for different/more things than just appearance and popularity (ability to provide, personality etc). There’s nothing wrong with that, I would do the exact same if I was a woman, although depending on how attractive I am I would look at trying to secure a guy with good prospects earlier than most other women. TRP teaches young men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:42 PM
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Go look on r/ForeverAlone subreddit, there’s plenty of guys on there who are suicidal and one of the main reasons why is because nobody of the opposite sex finds them attractive. You could argue that anyone with suicidal tendencies had a fragile mental health state to begin with. What I’ve noticed though is that everyone agrees that mental health is meant to be taken super seriously, except when it comes to Incels then it’s okay for us to laugh at them and brandish them fragile, weak etc. Anybod…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 08:08 PM
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It’s fine that you disagree and if you wanted a proper debate then I would’ve been happy to do that. But instead you chose to launch a torrent of personal abuse which is against the rules of this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:25 PM
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You haven’t countered anything, all you’ve done is prove you like to verbally abuse people on an online forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:59 PM
3

Debate? You haven’t even tried to debate. You’ve told me a lovely story about your boyfriend who sounds like a wonderful guy. Then you’ve lashed out with a few insults ‘garbage personality’, ‘bitter’, ‘nasty ass’, ‘festering’. That isn’t debate, that’s just offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:54 PM
2

Ooh misogynistic! I wondered how long it would be before the buzz words start appearing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:45 PM
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Too long, didn’t read. Please break the paragraphs up more in the future. Thank you,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:36 PM
2

Has someone shit in your cornflakes this morning lol? You seem a bit gripey
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:33 PM
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For a lot of guys yes it can be because of just that. Look at the suicide rates of recently divorced middle aged men, it’s quite shocking. One of my coworkers was on the brink of suicide because his wife took the house and the kids, he felt like everything he had worked towards was crumbling down around him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah, believe it or not, but men are hell bent on creating a family with a loyal wife and kids of his own. How crazy eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:06 PM
1

I’m not disagreeing with you, men are completely responsible for the way society is. Men lead, women follow. We can’t be mad at women for acting within their nature, it’s up to men to set the narrative. Every single society/community/family around the world is a perfect representation of the men within it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 04:47 PM
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Precisely. The problem is that the bottom 80% get jealous (quite rightly) and start trying to kill off the top 20%, either that or they say to hell with it and hence MGTOW and rising suicide rates. Instead of focusing on inventing new technology, creating medicines, composing music etc men start turning inwards and it becomes a free-for-all in a race to procreate. The fall of enforced monogamy is the beginning of the end of advanced civilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:05 PM
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That’s what the bottom % of men are starting to do. A lot have accepted they’ll never get a woman without kids so their only chance to procreate is to take a woman that has them already. Over the next few hundred years this will become standard, the bottom 80% of men will raise the top 20%’s kids (especially with advances in genetic engineering). They’ll also be denied sex and cuckoldry will be wide spread. Quite simply: women don’t get wet for this new era of beta soyboy limp-wristed guys, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:48 PM
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The thing is the average man was never good enough for the average woman until we enforced monogamy through a conservative culture based on religion and social shaming. Prior to that, women would be impregnated by the strongest male in the pack. It’s only because we realised society is better off when each man has his own woman and children. But in a feminist gynocentric liberal society we are slowly reverting back to our old ways where the alphas plant the seed and the betas pick up the bill (s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:27 AM
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Most things in the world were created by men, except babies, gossip and unnecessary drama
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:50 PM
3

I’ve been on both sides of the fence. From 14-19 I had no success with women, I was basically invisible to them. I was raised in a very conservative, blue pill home, so I looked down on anyone that had casual sex. At first I just thought it was the girls in my school, then I thought it was just the girls in my town, then I went to university with supposedly nerdy middle class girls and they were all shagging too. Fortunately I was living with a few red pill Chads and that opened my eyes and I le…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:20 PM
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most prior, I've not really used it much over the pandemic, but when I have I find if anything the girls are more willing to bang (if they aren't living with older relatives) as they've not usually had d in a while. I've had quite a few literally give me their address and told me to come straight round. I find it so strange, just because I'm hot girls assume it's safe to just invite me round lol. I could be a Richard Ramirez for all they know.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:50 PM
9

Are you white American out of interest? Older guys are such hypocrites. They want younger women, yet also don't want gold diggers. What makes them think some young girl in her prime would choose to go with a guy past his peak if not for money? The one's that accept they are sugar daddies are at least honest with themselves. My old boss (50ish) had a 30 y.o gf, but she was definitely getting dicked on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:46 PM
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Life is okay, I get plenty of hot pussy, but I still don't like how women are becoming more entitled, and it also annoys me that non-Chad's (bottom 80%) are getting burnt this bad. It's not good for society. It's so difficult for men to be confident and strong when they're sex starved. Some of my f buddies show me pics of guys that asked them out and they start laughing at them picking out their flaws even though they're probably in similar leagues 6-7/10. Society is screwed. Edit: That said, my…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:21 PM
4

I'm a Chad and have no problem on OLD/Tinder, albeit all the girls I match with are at least 1-2 pts below me, which is still okay as I'm 9/10.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:11 PM
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And most don't take care of themselves, hence the statement is correct. It's actually the same for men, yet a lot of guys on here like to delude themselves into thinking it's only a problem for women. As men our testosterone levels reduce after 30, which means we tend to store more fat and less muscle, and we also lose our hair. Skin starts to wrinkle. Sex drive reduces. I guess the only difference is that men place more importance on a woman's looks and hence it hurts their value more relativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:58 PM
5

This thread in a nutshell: women can look good in their 30’s, women usually look a lot worse in their 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:19 PM
2

Yeah that for me was the biggest pill to swallow, you essentially have to treat them like shit to get any respect. It’s so fucked up lol
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 01:49 PM
1

Personally I hate social media (well Instagram) but it’s pretty much vital now for young women, especially if you don’t meet many women in day-to-day life. I still do pretty good without it (thanks to OLD) but I’m 9/10 SMV. I would get a lot more hotter girls if I used it, but I just disagree with it in principle and it would look odd just starting now. Also women will treat you better in person if they know you have a big presence online. I think unless you’re a top guy who can rely on OLD then…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:09 PM
1

I agree with your point that there certainly was, in the past, a concerted effort to prevent black kids rising but that has largely faded now. For me one of the main reasons why blacks are still struggling to advance is because of problems within their own community that they need to take responsibility for. 75% of black children are being raised in single parent households, vs 25% for white. That has a huge impact on the development of a child. For me that is the single biggest reason. Unfortun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:31 PM
2

No they think: I have a vagina = feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:37 AM
1

Of course there will never be complete equal opportunity. Kids from economically superior backgrounds raised in stable households with both parents around will always have an advantage. They will go to good schools, afford tuition, their parents are likely to be well connected etc. But this isn’t a question of race or gender anymore. If you’re a poor black kid you have similar opportunities to a poor white kid. If you’re a middle class girl you have similar opportunities to middle class boys. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:34 AM
0

Everyone has the opportunity now in the west. Time to stop bending over backwards to help. You want it? go earn it. Stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:34 AM
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Marginalised groups should not be given equality, they should be given equal opportunity. It's then down to them to prove they deserve equality, or better, based on merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:28 PM
-3

Basically the opposite of what a feminist is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:23 AM
5

Yeah you sound feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:21 AM
4

Learn to forgive yourself. TRP preaches self-improvement, which I love, but sometimes that can lead you to comparing yourself to others. You don’t need to have the best social skills, the most money, the most chiselled body and you don’t need to be the most efficient human ever. Learn to forgive yourself, accept who you are and just make small continuous improvements day in day out. No need to stress because you aren’t where you want to be. I’m not saying don’t push yourself, I’m just saying loo…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:39 AM
1

As a guy that was in your position a few years ago. Risk it, leave the home, go do consulting. You’ll develop in more ways than you can imagine by getting your own apartment and becoming self sufficient.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:02 PM
2

And you are, whilst it’s vital to learn to enjoy your own company, it’s even more important at your age to develop strong social skills and life experiences otherwise it will come back to bite you in the ass later. Will be there be any clubs/meet-ups once restrictions ease? You just have to accept it’s exceptional circumstances at the moment. How close is your nearest town/city? If it’s too rural then you’re going to need to look at escaping. You can’t be wasting your youth stuck in the land of …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:00 PM
5

That's because if you show you're intelligent then they start thinking ooo this guy could be a good provider, I'll make him wait. That's why on dates I always dumb myself down, shut down my fast processing high IQ engineering brain, and intentionally say stupid things just so she doesn't think of me as a long term bet. Works tremendously. I've had girls think I'm a plumber, electrician, lumberjack and the most common one: personal trainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 12:10 AM
1

Lol chill dude, I’m not changing until society changes. If these horny bitches want my dick, that’s what they gonna get. Deal with it
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:13 PM
1

I agree with everything you said, but if it isn’t me it will be another Chad. Society is in decline, conservatism is dead, just enjoy what you can.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:36 PM
4

This. If you don’t like Drake, A$AP Rocky etc, you don’t like dancing and you aren’t doing it just to get drunk then why else would you go to a club? If not for pussy? I hate club music, don’t like getting too shitfaced and so my only reason is to get with girls and bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:14 PM
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I find the opposite. If I go to have fun I typically end up getting too drunk/spangled/sweaty to talk to women. Whereas if I go to pull I do without fail, because I know how many drinks to stick to. That said, regular nightclubs (unlike raves) don’t interest me unless I’m pulling because I hate the music that is played
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:06 PM
2

This. Some guys get way too precious about everything and overthink it. You don’t need to be stuck to a ‘looks league’, if she’s down and she gets you hard it’s fair game. Banging some 4-6’s can build a lot of confidence and satisfy urges for guys who aren’t very experienced. I actually regret being so picky when I was younger. Unless you live in a small town
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:02 PM
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Still rather take the 6/7 that will come round whenever I tell her, that will call into work sick the next morning because she’s too busy trying to deep throat me. She won’t require drinks, dates etc, I can keep my flat as messy as I want, she’s just glad to have me and will worship my body and beg for it. Oh and she won’t mind when she knows I’m banging other girls. Each to their own I guess
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:50 PM
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This. Sex with a 6/10 who treats you like a god is far better than a 9/10 who just lays there with a bitch face on thinking she’s doing you a favour.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:24 PM
1

He’s very blue/purple pill, which is to be expected of someone from his generation. Unfortunately most boomers and beyond have little relevance to clown world, it has changed so much even over the last 20 years. Conservatism is dead, forget it. We need to embrace the new age and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:29 AM
5

Master’s are usually a waste of time and money. With your degree there are loads of careers, not just accounting. Also after a while most jobs suck, that’s why they pay you. Most office jobs are the same, some just sound a bit fancier. See what other options sound more interesting and go with that. No need to do a complete 180 just because you found a couple of internships boring. Also try and be positive, it’s easy to get in a negative mindset and think everything sucks. The downside of big Cor…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:38 PM
7

Women are incredibly social creatures, they don’t give a toss how well you can code, design a bridge or develop medical treatment, other than that it may indicate high earning potential, they just want a guy that is social, funny and ‘confident’. Having a high processing brain and naturally low extroversion as a male is a huge disadvantage. Thankfully for myself I’ve learnt how to stop overthinking in social situations and just say the first thing on my mind. Yes it means you’ll be wrong more of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:09 PM
1

I’m sure you don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:40 PM
1

Of course men do it, it’s just that women are much worse for not being able to take responsibility - its much easier for them to play the victim and deflect the blame elsewhere. Don’t worry, I don’t hate women or anything, it’s just that men and women are VERY different and this is one of them differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:28 PM
1

Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:59 PM
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Women are incapable of discussing the issue when it negatively concerns them, their automatic reaction is to deflect. The thread didn’t say ‘women develop addictions easier than men’ or ‘only women are affected by social media’ but women will always jump to one of those narratives to avoid the question head on. I think part of it is due to them not wanting to take responsibility and also because they see themselves at war with men (the patriarchy) and therefore they need to fight back on every o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:04 PM
1

Yeah I imagine it’s varies a lot from gym to gym. A few seriously promiscuous folk can soon cause a chain effect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:18 PM
6

The guys that claim ‘it’s shitty advice’ are the same guys who expect to just be able to smash straight away despite the fact they’re probably ugly and/or have poor social skills. Most guys that struggle with women are guys that aren’t very social. Before they think of getting a woman, they need to start with just making friends and being a sociable person. No woman wants a basement dweller, even if he’s above average looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:14 PM
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CrossFit gyms are only good if you’re a Chad, and in my experience everyone is shagging each other. Some guys don’t like the fact that the girls in there have probably already shagged half the class. For the average guy I would strongly recommend something else like mixed volleyball, dodgeball, unless of course you just enjoy CrossFit and are there to make new friends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:58 PM
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There are two choices: 1) woke middle class women 2) trailer trash, your choice mate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:49 PM
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Also work on your body language, always look up, move slower, make eye contact, smile. There’s no point trying to be more social and not doing those things otherwise people won’t want to talk to you and you’ll just come across as an Autist Edit: also if you wear glasses, get contacts or laser eye. I found since getting laser eye I’m a lot more approachable and people make more eye contact with me
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:34 PM
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I find as long as you have time for them at least once a week then they’re usually happy with it. The times they’ve not been happy are when I keep telling them I’m busy (with another girl) and then it really fucks them up psychologically, they know they’re towards the back of the queue and then they decide you’re a complete bell end and block you off everything
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:27 AM
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And you can, you don’t need to go full asshole Chad slayer if that’s not you/who you want to be. Best advice is to get on Hinge, mix some fun pictures in there if you can but focus on finding someone you connect with and share similar interests. Don’t be afraid of being polarising, no point pretending to be someone you aren’t and then the girl getting disappointed when you don’t wanna go to cocktail bars and clubs every Sat night. In your case it’s better to find a few girls who really like you,…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:15 PM
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Most of the comments have nailed it already, you look too safe and boring, it wouldn’t surprise me if you told me you work in Audit or Accounting. I was very similar to you before, 6ft3 white high IQ introverted nice guy who was taught to treat women with the upmost respect. That shit just isn’t attractive to women when they’re looking for casual flings. They want fun edgy bad boy. That means getting jacked, tanned (pale skin gives off incel basement dweller vibes), laser eye surgery (you don’t …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:15 PM
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Enjoy being beta bux I used to work for a hedge fund, it was full of people just like that, either obscenely skinny or very fat. They all looked like shit, didn’t care for their appearance, no chill, twitchy af, hooked on caffeine and coke. Then there was me jacked Chad wandering around all chilled, I couldn’t understand why anybody would want to live like that. Yeah they made a lot of money but literally had nothing else. The married ones had trophy wife’s who were definitely getting boned by t…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 03:48 PM
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I imagine Chads would be exempt? Like they carry round a card saying ‘Approved Chad’. Similarly maybe all the night workers can be given a card saying ‘Night Slave’ which means they are only allowed on the streets to do their job or get to/from it but no detours. Every other man will be given a tracker and put on a data base. This is the feminist dream
/r/MGTOW13/03/21 11:11 AM
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This is what puts me off having kids, how would I raise them? My instincts would be saying strong conservative values but I know I would just be setting them up to fail.
/r/MGTOW13/03/21 01:50 AM
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Admiring and being inspired is one thing, actually wanting to BE him instead of yourself is one of the most beta things ever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:40 PM
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Some mf needs to pin this post. Too much garbage gets spewed on this subreddit. Being some beta bitch for a bunch of Chads won’t help you much. Women are great at working out who the alphas are and who the betas are in any social group. If you need to rely on a strong ‘Wolfpack’ to get you pussy you’ve already fucked up. And just LOL at some of the incels on here who think a Chad can somehow convince a girl to fuck you. The best thing is become Chad, join a mixed environment where there’s a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:08 PM
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Get jacked, get pics of you showing your body off, download tinder, upload pics, lower inhibitions, be direct, meet up for drinks, escalate, go back and slay her pussy into oblivion Why do ppl overcomplicate this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:56 PM
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Not me, overweight/fat girls repulse me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:40 PM
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Nope, just a healthy beach city with plenty of slim women and jacked guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:33 PM
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If 0 is skin and bones, and 10 is obese, women look best around 3-6, tho I would take a 2 over a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:56 AM
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Men are meant to be big and strong, women are meant to be small and slim. So men carry extra weight better, although not too much fat. As for women, I find bigger women tend to be more bossy and less feminine. I often see fat women with skinny men, and no surprise who wears the trousers in those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:54 AM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 11:46 AM
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Of course, I’ve had girls beg me to clean my flat because it was vile, so I said look if it bothers you that much you clean it. All of them either just forgot about it and an hour later were bouncing on my d or started to tidy it up themselves or sometimes we’d make a deal like she cooks me something and I’ll have a quick tidy round. No girl ever threatened to walk out or refused to bang. Tbh, I got away with much worse, a girl came round Friday night and again Sunday, but on Saturday night I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:34 AM
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Yeah I’m similar, raised in a very conservative blue pill environment, lived with a bunch of Chads at college, got red pilled very quickly, slayed a ton of poon, got bored and went semi-MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:21 PM
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Just imagine if the same was said about a particular race after a fatal stabbing or a certain religion after a terrorist attack. People wouldn’t stand for it. However toxic feminism is perfectly tolerated within the highest level of British politics. Men of the UK really have been cucked
/r/MensRights11/03/21 07:38 PM
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Divorce rape tends to red pill guys pretty quickly, except for the really stupid ones of course
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 07:35 PM
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This. Who assigned us to police the community? It could simply be a domestic argument, a stripper trying to rob the guy, we just don’t know. No point charging in on your white horse and risk getting stabbed or shot. If it looks threatening, call the police, that’s the best we can do
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 07:20 PM
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I have no interest in arguing, I wish you the best of luck with your Google ‘facts’
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:28 PM
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If you think the average woman isn’t having 2-3 guys a year outside of a relationship then I don’t know what to tell you. Have a nice day,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:21 PM
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Of course not, she has persistent head aches remember or she’s ‘not that type of girl’. Ginger bollocks just hopes that if he panders to her a little bit more then she may want to give his pasty noodle a little tug as a reward
/r/MGTOW11/03/21 05:02 PM
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Except most guys don’t have lots of casual sex experience as it’s skewed to the top guys, and we aren’t often the most reliable partners That’s why most women lie about the number of sexual partners, they know their guy would probably be disgusted if they knew the true number
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:57 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:54 PM
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Jesus Christ there’s more to life than pussy, believe it or not. That said, I bang 8/9’s on the regular tyvm, guess what? Most pussy is the same. I’ve fucked a few models and they were the most boring women ever. You only see the good side of Brady, you don’t know any of the downsides. Maybe he lost one of his parents at a young age? Maybe he was bullied throughout school? Maybe he’s got a crappy personality? Don’t trade for something because you only see the positives, focus on maximising your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:49 PM
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Sorry at which point did I say all young women need to focus on relationships instead? I’m not against casual sex, I think it sometimes can be fine for girls if they know what they’re getting themselves into and are mentally strong (which most girls aren’t) + also if guys are honest with them (which most aren’t). As long as you are happy with it being casual then that’s okay. However in my experience a lot of girls end up feeling ‘not good enough’ as the guy doesn’t commit like they hoped he wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:39 PM
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Do you know what ‘on average’ means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:24 PM
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Yeah a lot of my fb’s used to tell their friends they were dating me or that we were in some sort of relationship, then I would let them know that it’s only sex and they would say yeah I know but it’s kinda the same thing, they just wanted to hamster it to themselves and preserve respect in-front of their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:02 PM
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Opening your legs does not build confidence. Anyone can do it, it takes no skill and very little effort. In the short term it provides instant validation, in the long term it makes the woman wonder whether she is good enough and why guys don’t want to commit. She then finds the more she opens her legs the less guys want to commit. It’s a case of short term gain, long term pain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:48 PM
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The reason for this is because when men start to choose nihilism and stress free simple life that marks the beginning of the end for society. If all men chose that life we wouldn’t have a functioning society. Society relies on men sacrificing themselves for women and children. That’s why MGTOW is largely censored and looked down upon, it simply cannot be allowed to become mainstream
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 02:54 PM
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This thread is a perfect example of out-dated and skewed studies vs actual real world experience. Most western women have multiple partners a year unless they are in a relationship. So whatever we assume to be the average age of losing V (let’s say 18 as a conservative estimate), then the average 25 year old woman will have maybe 21 partners minus a partner for every 4 months of relationship they’ve been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:45 PM
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Agreed although in my case I’m high T but have largely lost interest in sex simply because I’ve had too much of it. After a while it can get boring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:40 PM
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You don’t necessarily need looks/charisma to be alpha, just get on a bunch of gear, tattoos and chains all over and get a skin head haircut. Try to incorporate more swear words into your daily vocab and start listening to rap music
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:36 PM
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Alpha, I have harems
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:34 PM
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Can’t have a big d without a big heart pumping lots of blood down below
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:29 PM
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For men, yes, it can build confidence. For women, no, it usually leaves them mentally damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:25 PM
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Any man that wants to be another man is a beta cuckold simp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:09 PM
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Same thing I’ve noticed. I simply don’t have the time or attention to plough all the girls that want my d. Instead of these girls settling for lower SMV guys they just keep hoping I find time for them. I think men can satisfy their sexual urges easier than women can, just crank open a porno and beat off. After having bedded over 100 women the novelty of sex has sort of disappeared for me. Whereas with women they want more than just the orgasm, they want to actually experience the touch of the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:07 PM
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That's typically what people do on a subreddit called PurplePillDEBATE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:21 PM
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Great debate, you really considered all of my points and returned with very sensible, coherent points. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:19 PM
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Most simps are simps because they think that’s how society wants them to act. They are told to treat women really nice and not say anything that could be misconstrued as sexist or misogynistic or even rude. In this feminist-era we’re living in men don’t know how to act anymore, or even what their role is. They’re frightened of being labelled a creep and being socially ostracised. Do they touch a women’s ass in a nightclub? They aren’t sure because they see Chad do it and get success but then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:31 PM
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Most men say whatever they want when they have a) financial freedom and b) no sex drive/abundance of options
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 06:44 PM
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Don't be silly, she's not that type of girl /s
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 05:42 PM
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I would actually pay to see this LOL Same for all these virtue signalling middle class soy boys
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 05:32 PM
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Can confirm Australia is the best place for MGTOW’s, less political correctness than every other Western nation, beautiful climate, national parks, beaches and so many inexpensive hobbies to enjoy. Low population density (especially outside of Sydney and Melbourne), tough immigration points system and generally a nation full of positive upbeat people. Much better than being a wage cuck in some cold miserable country. Brb just gonna grab my 4x4 and drive it onto a peacefully quiet beach and go fo…
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 12:51 PM
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Eventually she’ll get bored of his pasty ginger ass and ditch him for some dark skinned rapper/athlete. Then she’ll release multiple books threatening to spill ‘Royal secrets’. Mark my words, this will be one of the biggest cuck’s in modern history
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 12:42 PM
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Tbf they lasted as long as the average marriage, nothing shocking there. They should change it from ‘till death do us part’ to ‘till 7 years boredom does us part’
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 12:31 PM
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On our broadcasting it was conveniently focusing on a slim girl in tight white trousers. You can tell all the ugly incel nerds who are really responsible for this were kept well away.
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 12:29 PM
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‘Give them enough rope and they’ll hang themselves’. Just keep giving them opportunities and responsibility and watch as society grinds to a halt.
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 12:26 PM
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Australia is the best country for MGTOW in my opinion. Wonderful climate, lovely quiet beaches, stunning national parks, low population density, less political correctness, more focus on enjoying spare time instead of wage slaving in a cold wet miserable country. BBQ’s, fishing, surfing, it’s God’s gift to man.
/r/MGTOW14/02/21 02:54 PM
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Women get fat because the way they see it, they aren’t attracted to the type of guys they can land so there’s no point trying to appeal to them either. Most of these fat women in relationships also tend to be the most bossy and hard work. It’s because they don’t respect their partner. No man worthy of respect would put up with a fat ass land whale.
/r/MGTOW30/01/21 08:19 PM
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Yep, sorry to say, all them compliments off guys may have been exaggerated or even not true at all! Oh and the “you’re so great at BJ’s”.. yeahh.. guys say that to every girl in order to encourage them to do it more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:59 PM
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Older women I would agree with you, when they’re looking for a safe provider they know exactly what they want. But young girls 18-21 literally have no fucking clue, most of them struggle with what to order from McDonald’s they’re so indecisive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:57 AM
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Of course women vary, some are much better at blocking the primitive part of their brain from ruling and others have been raised in such a tradcon/religious environment that they wouldn’t enjoy casual sex culture. The reason TRP says AWALT is because there are simply too few of these women anymore (unless you’re maybe from a super religious community) that it’s not worth looking for. And quite often the women that are still like this either have severe body issues, crippling social anxiety or ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:00 AM
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Guys consciously lie to get pussy, there’s actually a big difference. Deep down most guys know what they want, they just lie to the girl and say ‘yeah I proper like curvy girls’ when talking to a fat chick just because he wants an easy bang. Then when he dumps her fat ass for a better looking girl it’s not that he’s ‘changed his mind’ it’s that he lied initially just because he wanted an easy bang. I don’t think women lie as much in this regard, it’s that they genuinely don’t realise what it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:46 AM
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Personally I think we will reach full blown censorship way before then. You will simply not be able to express a certain view and all the main platforms across the web will simply ban anyone who doesn’t follow the line. Then over time most people’s viewpoints will converge to being the same as they are all reading and hearing the same stuff. In some ways I think of it like religion was hundreds of years ago. Sure some people may have doubted it but they would be highly reluctant to vocalise it b…
/r/MGTOW21/01/21 01:30 AM
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The difference is that social media fuels these snowflakes like never before. Literally there’s a gazillion things on the internet to get offended about. Also life is so much easier now, living standards have improved drastically and more people are in the middle class than ever before, so they look for some stress/struggle as their life doesn’t provide any. Also factor in the greater ability to virtue signal, it’s not that these snowflakes are always offended, it’s just that they pretend to be …
/r/MGTOW21/01/21 01:17 AM
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Literally these ppl are the biggest losers in existence, “so what do you do in your spare time?”.. “I police an online forum”. LOL
/r/MGTOW21/01/21 01:13 AM
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That’s the snowflake generation, they get so emotionally charged by the smallest of things.
/r/MGTOW21/01/21 01:10 AM
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No the reason women seem ‘mysterious’ is because they say one thing then do another. They say they like certain guys, then fuck what seems like the complete opposite. Hence the blue pill and the red pill. The blue pill says to prioritise what women say, the red pill says to prioritise what women do. It’s really a case of actions vs words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:30 AM
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How is this incel content?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:55 PM
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I would advise lifting hard then getting on tinder and smashing some easy pussy. Best to see for yourself what the state of the market really is like, see how boring and self centred women really are. Then you won’t question why you went MGTOW ever again
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 11:15 PM
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Her white father probably got sick of her white mothers feminist ass
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 10:32 PM
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This. No young man should be worrying about commitment off women. If you’re 35, have your shit together, fit etc you will have women flocking to you when they want to get serious. Any girl under the age of 25 is just a complete risk, might work out might not, she has so many options, best to just use them for fun then once you’re ready for kids at 35 find a sensible 25-30 year old woman with as few red flags as possible. People over complicate this shit.
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 06:34 PM
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They never really grow out of that angered rebellious teen phase. Except instead of their parents it’s society.
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 10:44 AM
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Yeah he’s clearly an odd ball, but to just pick a few messages and then paste them all over social media for the world to see isn’t fair. We need the full dialogue. Maybe she’s super weird too and was into that (at the time)? Everyone is different, different strokes for different folks. Like I said tho, take home message: if you are weird/into BDSM.. use Snapchat.
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 04:01 PM
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Tbf we’ve all sent some strong BDSM messages in our time, if some of the stuff I’ve posted to fuck buddies was made public I’d look like Hitler. That’s why I always use Sc for that shit.
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 01:25 PM
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Women don’t care about what’s good for society, only what’s good for them and their kids. They don’t like to think that deep on a macro scale. Keep it light and fun is their mentality. They’d be more interested in what Kim K is thinking as opposed to someone like Peterson or Musk. It’s no wonder as to why the first female PM of the UK, Margaret Thatcher, basically destroyed communities and men’s unions.
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 01:20 PM
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Be a man translates to be a wage slave beta cuck
/r/MGTOW15/01/21 12:37 PM
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It’s an interesting theory, replace the top men with more genetic trash and see what women do. GIVEN that they know better exists (existed), do they adjust to the new level and just compare all the ugly guys against each other? Does personality become king?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:26 PM
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Most guys have been, albeit to varying degrees, especially if they were raised in comfortable blue-pill homes with trad-con parents. Understanding true female nature is the adult version of finding out Santa isn’t real. When I was 14-18 I would hear rumours around the school of stuff that girls did. I thought bs no way that is true. I then said oh well maybe it’s this school/town. Went to university, that was the real eye opener, now even the ‘innocent’ nerdy girls were doing it. Even then you s…
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 09:20 AM
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David Gandy 'the average Joe' hahahahahahaahahah this is some next level bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:19 PM
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We seem to be going round in circles. I’m going to finish up here real quick: There are stereotypes concerning every race (good and bad), therefore you are either of the opinion that 1) ALL negative stereotypes are racist, regardless of race/skin colour, or 2) you think they’re just a funny laugh and nothing to stress about as the stereotypes clearly don’t extrapolate to the entire race itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:27 AM
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Maybe you misunderstood my second point, I still plan on smashing women casually for the rest of my life, but I imagine as I get older so will the women I smash. Maybe not, As for women, I feel they would be happy continuing having casual sex with hot guys (not necessarily young) if it wasn’t for a ticking clock. If they want kids they need to get serious early on. So a lot look for a safe pick (beta) who might not turn them on as much but displays safe reliable traits (all that good stuff you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:15 AM
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No it isn’t a stereotype that ALL Asians are nerdy, ALL Arabs are terrorists etc. It’s just that Asians tend to perform very well in school (not necessarily just due to intelligence but other social pressures). Similarly, of course there isn’t a stereotype that ALL Arabs are terrorists, it’s just that Arab terrorists have committed some of the biggest terrorists attacks in recent years. So it’s funny when comedy directors play on this, as it’s clearly a joke but it’s based on some reality. If th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:49 AM
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Only Fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:18 AM
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I did, couldn’t find it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:14 AM
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Any link to the comedian? Sounds hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:10 AM
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He didn’t come out until after and I think he had a girlfriend who cheated on him, maybe that put him off women for life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:57 AM
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I went to school with a Chad and he was one of the most athletic guys in the school, fairly good looking, 6ft+ but he turned gay and now has a fat ugly boyfriend with green hair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:47 AM
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I guess you can tell how much I know/care about them - they're clearly doing a great job of emulating black/latino culture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:19 AM
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Just another example that shows no matter how high SMV you are, they will always monkey branch when something better becomes available
/r/MGTOW04/01/21 12:28 AM
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Just because it targets a few races it doesn’t mean it’s not racist.. If I say all blacks and Asians are scum then that’s racist, does this make sense to you? I’m saying it disproportionally depicts white/Indian/Chinese as nerds, for example in black comedy shows the white/Indian/Chinese guy is often the nerd (Everybody Hates Chris, My Wife and Kids etc). Again, I have no issue with this because I’m not a snowflake. I’ve provided you the Oxford definition, I have no idea what your fluffy conjure…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:07 PM
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okay fair point, they must be severely fat/ugly or severely awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:32 PM
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Would have to be severely ugly/fat, severely awkward or just a recluse who doesn't use OLD/Social Media and instead just sits on Reddit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:18 PM
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In most cases the skinny weedy nerd is white/Indian/Chinese and sometimes Jewish, not often Nigerian, Brazilian or Mexican. Personally I have no problem with this because I'm not a snowflake, but some would say it's unfairly depicting white/Indian/Chinese/Jewish as skinny weedy nerds. Just to remind you of the Oxford definition of sassy: lively, bold, and full of spirit; cheeky. They might not fit your definition of sassy but they do fit this one. The cases such as finger wagging etc are just ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:14 PM
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Have you seen any white or asian fat sassy women? Melissa McCarthy, Rebel Wilson, Dawn French, Ruth Jones, Coleen Nolan etc There's loads of fat sassy white women on TV, it's not exclusive to black women You can't pick and choose and says it's racist when you associate negative characters with black people but then it's okay when you associate negative characters with white. It's either all racist or none of it's racist. Make your mind up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:48 PM
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None of these blue pill fags have even read TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:51 PM
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lol raising your son to be bluepill is basically child abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:46 PM
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Oh, so you're saying the 'racist' example I gave is fine because it's regarding a white person? Is that what you're actually saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:01 PM
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I haven't excluded data, I just said the older women would act exactly like younger one's if it wasn't for the ticking clock. Agreed on the second point, although women typically prefer men a few years older. I'm 27 and just keep smashing my way through more and more prime girls each year. That said I do expect that to reduce as I reach my 30's and have less and less in common with young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:57 PM
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Okay so most of media and society are racist by your standards. The skinny (negative), weedy (negative) geeky autist (negative) WHITE guy with glasses (negative) in the sitcoms and movies? RACIST.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:49 PM
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Pointing out differences between races isn't racist - saying EVERYONE from a particular race is like that IS racist (especially if it's regarding a negative connotation). It's like saying black people have flatter noses/bigger lips, it's true because on average they do. Or white people typically have more recessed skulls because on average they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:40 PM
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This. Most white girls are vapid, boring and have no personality or hobbies (Insta doesn't count) so they look to emulate women from other cultures that do (Kardashians, Cardi B, Ariana Grande etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:38 PM
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We don't care about the rest of the older female population, we only care about prime girls 18-25, women older than 25 would still only fuck alpha studs if it wasn't for their ticking biological clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:30 PM
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It will, especially as red pilled dads educate their sons. I think it's great, forget about civilization and society, just use the opposite sex for fun and good times. Never commit, certainly don't sign any contracts, and just accept this is the way the world is going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:23 PM
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Nothing sarcastic about young women wanting to get dicked down by the most alpha stud. Can't remember uni girls asking me about my financial projections or morals when I was balls deep inside their guts in freshers week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:07 PM
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Literally, my sexual success is directly correlated to my trap/neck growth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:54 PM
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Child rearing? Financial projection? Morals? What on Earth are you talking about? Young foids aren’t thinking long term when they’re choosing sexual partners. They simply want the best genetics most alpha aggressive dick possible. Billy Beta can raise the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:52 PM
8

Richard Ramirez is the greatest example ever, had so many girls frothing for him, guy was a despicable human in every way still doesn’t matter
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 02:46 AM
6

Violent crime = inflicted serious damage on another man = good fighting genetics = high T IDGAF mentality. Get some neck tats, gold chains, some grey sweatpants, BBC and this guy is top 0.1% Tyrone for prime hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:42 AM
5

81.3k ‘likes’ it seems, hopefully he got at least some pussy from doing it but it’s highly doubtful, maybe if he’s in a small town and now everyone see’s him and his crew as protective alphas. If he’s a nobody in a big city then just fucking lol
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 02:32 AM
16

Honestly most young girls these days have 30+ easily, especially if they’ve been single a while and messing about on the apps. Maybe if you’re from a super upper middle class area then maybe not.
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 02:27 AM
2

Obviously, most age gaps are less than 10 years unless the guy is ridiculously wealthy but then the girl is probably a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:24 AM
3

No but women 24-30 love a guy a few years older with his shit together /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:31 PM
10

They also have much smoother skin, a physical intolerance for alcohol and tighter vaginas. They’re the best
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:35 AM
1

Children maybe, marriage no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:19 AM
2

This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:12 AM
1

Chadstralia 11th? Lol fake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:04 AM
3

Bastards is an outdated phrase, one that was used to shame people for having kids out of wedlock. That’s the way society is heading, may as well accept it. Get her pregnant, have a good time with her, if she gets too bitchy and demanding then go separate ways and see the kids when you can. No need for government contracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:38 AM
2

6ft vs 5ft11
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:05 AM
15

Women don't want Incels dead, they want them wageslaving all hours that god sends. They want them maintaining the sewers, mopping up sick, dealing with rat infestations etc. Society would not function without the bottom 50% of men. Also, the reason why women have a problem with the bottom 50% 'knowing' TRP/Black Pill is that it tells them the truth, and women are worried that Billy Beta might go his own way and not provide her the pleasure of divorce raping him. They need to dangle the carrot en…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:49 AM
2

Lots of great points but especially 3). Even as a 'Chad' I'm simply not interested in the majority of girls. The quality of girls has decreased heavily over the last 40 years as women can get validation easier than ever, so there's no need for them to improve or even maintain their looks.
/r/MGTOW201/01/21 11:32 PM
1

It’s clear the woman with jeans wants to wear a dress but the patriarchy won’t allow her to express herself. Evil (white) men!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:37 PM
1

Every shot you don’t take is a miss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:24 PM
0

That's not a girl, that's a landwhale! hahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:55 PM
2

The world, the world is behind us Once a motherfucker get an understanding on the game And what the levels and the rules of the game is Then the world ain't no trick no more The world is a game to be played 2Pac Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks Lick on these nuts and suck the dick Gets the fuck out after you're done Then I hops in my coupe to make a quick run Snoop Dog
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:53 PM
5

People seem to underrate this option so much. If you don’t like where you are then move, that’s what we have done for thousands of years through evolution, those that couldn’t survive in their surroundings moved to surroundings where they could flourish.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:06 PM
5

It depends on the girl and her dimensions: how deep her g spot is and how naturally tight she is. Some girls don't even care much about penetration sex and the clit is everything, so it doesn't matter what size you are then. If you're worried about tightness then it's an easy fix, just have her wear a but plug. You can even put fingers in her vagina as you bang. As for penis shaming, I think it's becoming more prevalent because of porn, which creates unrealistic expectations, and I think there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:30 PM
3

Read my post below, most women think 7-8 inches is average because guys exaggerate and because they think their 7 inch dildo is 7 inches insertable. I've had loads of girls tell me most of their ex's were 8 or 9 inches, then they see mine and think I'm 10 inches. They literally have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:18 PM
2

They know you’re hot property so they’re eager to please and they feel even better when you choose to spend time with them as they know you could be with another girl, it’s win-win for everyone
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:55 PM
6

As in there are many more important things than penis size. Are you in the best physical shape? Can you talk dirty without sounding creepy? Do you know where to touch her? How to get her going? How to rub her clit? How to tease? How to use toys? How to finger? How to eat pussy? How to angle your dick? How to make it more erotic? How to make her feel comfortable? How to take control? Pin her down? Tie her up? Lights off? Role play? How to make her feel confident? Girls pick up on emotion exceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:45 PM
3

Keep your fingers in many pies, you're a young lad you don't need to limit yourself, and ironically the more girls you're talking to the better they will all treat you
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:20 PM
11

Nah the ‘bigger is better’ mantra is more of a man made worry. Some women do love huge ones, but the majority aren’t that bothered, and even if they do prefer it it’s typically further down the priority list. Also there’s a lot of young girls who think they love big ones, like they see in porn or hear about in song lyrics, but when it comes down to it they can only manage 6 or 7 inches maximum (personal experience). After that it becomes painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:32 PM
2

Are you an autist? I can agree with TRP/MGTOW principles and theories without needing to blindly agree with every opinion on TRP/MGTOW. Similarly women can agree with certain feminist ideas, without needing to agree with every feminist. Out of interest, do you think everybody that follows Islam is a terrorist?
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 01:16 PM
2

There is no hatred on my part, only accepting how the family court laws are and how women are. I still have great casual relationships and friendships with women, I just don’t want to marry them as it doesn’t make sense to me in today’s society. Also just because we poke fun at women/feminists, it’s not to say we hate their guts (some guys will tho)
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 12:42 PM
3

This is hilarious
/r/MGTOW31/12/20 11:47 AM
1

Yeah of course there are exceptions too, if they’re interested in fitness then they’ll want to hear more about it; one of the reasons I only really go for fitness girls because it’s such a big passion of mine and I enjoy talking about it. Yeah I think with married RP it’s already too late in most cases. Your woman will already see you in a certain way, it’s hard to then change that perception. Similarly it’s hard to use too much ‘dread game’ because she can walk away with half your stuff + the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:37 AM
2

Thank god I'm not in Canada too!
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 12:32 AM
2

Women are incredibly social creatures, of course loneliness will impact them more. Also factor in the lack of hobbies and interests they tend to have (no, scrolling through Instagram doesn't count) and it's a recipe for disaster.
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 10:36 PM
3

Ah thank god I'm not in the US!
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 10:20 PM
22

Butttt they’ve changed! They aren’t like that anymore! They’ve had their fun and are ready for Mr Nice Guy!!
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 08:23 PM
59

yes but back to women
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 04:03 PM
1

You can still do twitch streaming, YouTube etc on the side. Don’t think of it as a career, only as a hobby. Then if it starts to take off and you really enjoy it consider dropping your normal job, but not the other way round.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:21 AM
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Falling marriage rates will ultimately be the great equaliser. Society, women and the courts will not change until men give them a reason to change. As it stands, society thinks men are that desperate to get married they will put up with anything; promiscuous women, unfair laws and just the general shaming and disrespect towards men.
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 11:00 AM
5

This. Women hate anything that is too calculated and forged, they want to believe it was all natural. Using the gym as an example, the moment you tell them you spend 5 days a week working out, eating 1g of protein per lb of body weight, taking PED’s, tracking calories etc it starts to turn them off because they like to think the muscle mass is natural, therefore indicating stronger genetics. Similarly if you show them a picture of you stick thin/fat before you gym’d it can revolt them as they st…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:47 AM
2

Most of them are probably guys that were married before becoming red pilled. No real red pill guy would want marriage in today’s age, you can have all the benefits without it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:32 AM
3

Most women don’t see a problem with this though. They actually think they’re doing him a favour by giving him any access whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:24 AM
2

Or the white knights
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 01:05 AM
4

Also unlimited time to lift
/r/MGTOW30/12/20 12:52 AM
5

Divorcee means she either A) had bad judgement choosing a bad guy or B) Scared off a good guy. Neither are great qualities. Also there may be a lot of psychological baggage as going through a divorce is typically a very tough exhausting process. Some guys, often older, will look past it assuming she still looks alright and doesn’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:32 AM
0

Girls who always have their earphones in and faces stuffed into Instagram land, oh wait that’s all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:13 AM
2

They aren’t choosing the wrong men, they know the confident fuck boys will probably bin them off or cheat on them but they like the excitement and validation they provide. As women get older they then start to choose the desperate shy guys as they’re a safe bet for marriage. Women aren’t stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:34 PM
1

TRP doesn’t say exceptions don’t exist. TRP says women like confident attractive men, so become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 10:31 PM
1

This. Completely pointless post from OP. What else did they expect on a sub devoted to a debate on gender dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 07:32 PM
2

" I feel it's because I'm not 6ft tall and I don't have a high paying/executive/tradesman job" Really? This hints at a severe lack of self confidence. You really think it's only 6ft CEO's getting the girls? This sounds like something from an Incel forum. Stay away from them. - Find some real social hobbies, gaming clubs? film clubs? acting/language/art classes? mixed volleyball/dodgeball teams? crossfit? cycle/canoe clubs? - Maximise your appearance (lifting 3x a week, high protein diet, groomin…
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 03:39 PM
5

Yep though at work you need to learn to tone it down, depending on what industry you’re in. If you’re surrounded by some meek people you will have to come across a bit more gentle, as it can scare the meek betas - remember you need those guys for promotion/payment. A good thing to read is the 48 Laws of Power, ‘never outshine the master’ - in a workplace you need to understand where you sit in the food chain, if you’re too hard to work with you’ll get canned. As for women, you can never really b…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:34 PM
9

Not ‘suddenly’ but at 20 I was a tall, skinny, pale lamppost with wonky teeth, nerd glasses and Vit D deficiency. However I had a naturally good looking face and a deep voice. I was also always fairly alpha but my appearance didn’t match my personality, so sometimes ppl thought I was ‘putting it on’. Since adding 60lbs, a lot of which is muscle, I’m now 6ft3 245 jacked, eyes lasered, teeth straight and glowing. I went from being invisible to women and looking like a nerd, to being a complete Cha…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:25 PM
3

The best thing I ever did was ditching my old jealous ‘friendship’ group. There were 6 of us, one was the typical domineering guy and the others were his bitch boys. I was taller and better looking, and they couldn’t stand it. It was typical crabs in a bucket mentality, anything I did they wanted to diminish. Always making remarks. Trying to bring me down a few pegs. I didn’t realise how restricted I was until after I ditched them, life is so much better now without them dragging me down.
/r/MGTOW223/12/20 06:48 PM
3

Because again, it’s not about the emotion itself, it’s about the perception of the individual. If a perceived hot confident guy is quiet, then it’s ‘strong and silent’, ‘quietly confident’, ‘brooding’, ‘mysterious’, if he’s ugly then he’s ‘dull and boring’. Similarly a perceived hot guy who is very emotive is ‘passionate’, ‘expressive’, ‘not scared to show vulnerability’, if he’s ugly its ‘weak’, ‘effeminate’ etc. It’s similar with words, one person could say the exact same words as another pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:03 PM
1

*Australia and USA
/r/MGTOW22/12/20 05:39 PM
13

Damnnn, chill bro, can’t just go round dropping nukes like that
/r/MGTOW20/12/20 07:30 PM
1

It’s a bit of a prisoners dilemma, it doesn’t really suit anybody to change their lifestyle like that unless society as a whole changes. It’s similar to climate change, what good is it if we become green yet China, India, Saudi etc don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:58 PM
1

Lets be honest, 90% of people on this subreddit/forum are either ugly, introverted or/and have poor social skills. The other 10% are probably guys who used to be that but have transformed themselves thanks to TRP/lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 09:25 PM
20

Most hot young college girls will have 60+
/r/MGTOW19/12/20 01:05 PM
2

This is complete cope. She won't be shocked to learn she can't move you off center, she'll either assume you're gay or/and just incredibly boring/shy. They don't care about validation off guys below them. As long as she gets validation off Chad that's all that matters. If you're anything below a 7 you need to find your voice and develop a funny personality otherwise girls will not even realise you exist. You will go undetected on their radars.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:04 PM
1

They’ll lose their minds trying to figure you out IF you’re good looking.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:50 AM
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Any above-average girl that has been living away from parents will probably go through 16 a year.
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 12:00 AM
12

Agreed, but think you got the wrong subreddit bro
/r/MGTOW17/12/20 10:43 PM
156

Jacked & Good Looking = Strong and Silent Not the above = Boring
/r/askTRP17/12/20 10:27 PM
3

I think there's a real issue for high IQ guys with poor social skills (a lot of the guys on here). There simply aren't enough similar women for them to pair up with. Furthermore, the women with poor social skills typically desire a man with better social skills to 'lift them up'. The only solutions for these guys is to a) get better social skills (hard if not acquired by 30 y.o), b) beta bux for the average Stacey or c) ForeverAlone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:21 PM
2

In the past it made some sense - the man had all the power so when he knelt down it was such a powerful statement. Like he was that committed to her he was willing to kneel, it showed her, her family and everybody around how much he thought of her. She really was a prize, she was pure and you knew marriage meant till death do us part. She would remain loyal. Now, post-feminism, most men have very little power. So taking a knee is essentially like a slave kneeling to his master. It's just a compl…
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 10:56 PM
7

or putting the ring around his balls as he won't be needing them anymore
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 10:25 PM
1

Do you see yourself getting serious/married again in the future?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:22 PM
5

This so much, most guys invest so much time into clubbing and OLD despite being ugly. It's like they're putting themselves in the biggest pool with the biggest sharks and wondering why they're being eaten alive. If you're not top 20%, get joining recreational sports clubs (mixed volleyball, dodgeball, martial arts etc) or meet up clubs (film, arts whatever). The top 20% don't tend to frequent these as they don't really need to. Also don't just go with the idea of pulling women, but to make frien…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:17 PM
3

Australia in general is the place to be
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:17 PM
1

I was blue pill for years, achieved nothing. No attention and the few girls I did attract I scared away with niceness. Then I discovered RP. Started lifting, more assertive, became a douche bag and now I pump pussy like there’s no tomorrow. The stuff I’ve done to girls, said to them, I would never have imagined myself doing 5 years ago, and the great thing is they love it. The worse you treat them the more they like it. And this isn’t just the emotionally damaged girls, these are your ‘good girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:45 PM
2

We’ve already seen the start of this shift. Look at the number of guys using apps now to just pump and dump girls. Girls are now getting to 30 and panicking that they can’t find a good guy, where on Earth have they all gone? They’ve become bad boys. They may not be as successful as the more attractive bad boys, but they’re still having casual sex every now and then. What’s more is that the good boys (read: unattractive simps) are starting to realise women’s true nature and are rightfully withdra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:31 PM
3

There’s a reason why guys with tats, shaved heads, big muscles, idgaf attitude, chains etc do the best with women. It screams bad boy and women love it. Be as interesting as you want, if you look like a good boy most women will ignore you as they’ll assume you’re not interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:13 PM
1

I’m white too, dude. I am criticizing a culture I was raised in. I could more specifically say “white, straight, American, neurotypical, able-bodied men” if you want to contend that there are subcultures in white-straight-male demographics that do not experience the same socialization. It doesn't matter what your skin colour is, dude. If you're prejudicing a certain race without any sound reasoning or balance of thought then that's racist. Regardless, the demographic I am referring to are the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:57 PM
3

Take a guy who has struggled to get sex all his life, of course he’s going to be pissed when a girl he likes just gives sex away easy to guys more attractive than him. The only guys who don’t care about girls sexual history are guys who are comfortable with their own sexual history, which typically means having had plenty of casual sex themselves. Saying ‘just get over your insecurities’ or ‘its none of your business’ to these struggling men isn’t very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:37 PM
2

It doesn’t matter whether it’s inherent or ‘cultural, learned behaviour’, if it’s a broad generalisation that isn’t based on any reasoning or balance of thought then it can be interpreted as racist. If I said black people are dumb because of their culture, that’s racist. That’s not any better than me saying they’re inherently dumb. Both are racist statements unless there’s facts and sound reasoning to back it up. So back to my initial question, how can you deduce that the white men you have date…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 07:04 PM
0

No you said white men have less self-awareness. Can you please elaborate on this? Otherwise it just seems like a racist generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:36 PM
1

Why do you bring race into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:22 PM
9

‘Hot influencer on Instagram’ trumps all... girls are like crack addicts with Insta
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:37 AM
2

Whatever it is you’re good at/interested in, ideally something with high barrier to entry. Everyone here says Sales, but unless you’re a natural extrovert you will find it difficult. Even if you’re an extrovert you’ll have to give up nights and weekends to socialise with ppl you don’t like. Also factor in all the drinking, eating out and losing out on sleep, they certainly take a toll on the ripped physique. Most top sales guys are fat. (I’ve worked in Sales)
/r/askTRP11/12/20 09:36 PM
19

Forget girls/ex’s from your blue pill beta past, you’re fighting against the wind as they will always remember you as a beta. Any alpha traits will be tested and put under strain to see if they’re really genuine. The only way she might see you as alpha is if you’re seen hanging around with a load of girls hotter than herself. Then she might think ‘oh maybe I got him wrong, maybe he was an alpha’.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:53 PM
2

Sorry I must I have missed this, when did it become cool to be a nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 06:08 PM
0

I agree with a lot of points in the OP, a lot of Incels on here blame it 100% on their looks, when in reality it's also because of their poor social skills. However I do have some sympathy for them OLD is becoming the go-to way for couples to meet; even more so at the moment. I think most guys on here are 21-30 years old, so most likely have graduated from college and therefore lost that social network. On top of that, friends in relationships tend to spend more time with partners, and even if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 11:05 AM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:50 AM
1

Also another factor is that once some low n count girls get sexually confident they then want to jump on the cock carousel to see what they’ve been missing out on. Definitely agree that low n count girls aren’t the sacred unicorns guys on here sometimes preach them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 02:06 PM
1

The OP was asking about marriage specifically though. I do agree that LTR’s can be wonderful if you find the right person which it sounds like you have :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:07 PM
1

Not really, I think most RP men would rather go MGTOW or just bang 4/10’s casually
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:48 PM
1

My point isn’t that marriage is akin to switching lanes without your checking your mirror. My point is that life is based on deciding which risks to take and which not to take. Marriage should be evaluated as any other risk would be. The downside risk of marriage is evaluated according to the probability of divorce and the financial/emotional impact in such case. You then offset that outcome against the perceived benefits. If one is to believe the chances of divorce are high, and that losing hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:04 AM
0

Okay well switching lanes without checking my mirrors scares the shit out of me, but thanks for your advice, I won’t bother checking them tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 10:48 AM
1

Life is about choosing which risks to take and which not to take. Using your car analogy, you wouldn’t just switch lanes without checking your mirror, it’s a risk but it’s a stupid risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 10:42 AM
2

You can have all this though, without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 10:35 AM
2

This. Why would anyone bet half their wealth on somebody else’s ‘feelings’, which are so fleeting by nature. That shit would give me mad anxiety if I was relying on somebody else to keep liking me, even when they’ve seen me at my worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 09:42 AM
0

2nd point is key. All the best people I know paired up before the end of college. The majority of people that were single after college are either a) undesirable b) casual sex addicts c) chose the wrong partners in college and are now a bit jaded and scarred from the dating world and this carries on through to future relationships. Think about it, you go to college for a few years mixed full of young people your age and wanting to pair up. This is when the dating pool is at its best, if you can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:52 PM
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Approach girls? When? They all have their earphones in and their heads buried in Instagram land. I’m surprised they don’t walk into lampposts half the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:26 PM
7

For some guys this is their best option. Not everyone can be an alpha fucks. Find what strategy works for you and run with it. Although there’s a huge risk to the beta bucks game.. you need to wrap it up. Girls approaching the wall will ‘forget’ to take the pill, ‘accidents’ will happen. Don’t fall into the trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:52 AM
1

Brutal, but true
/r/askTRP27/11/20 06:36 PM
1

No, alphas select the best woman to commit to. And quite often require a lot of convincing to be locked down. Imagine you can fuck a different girl every night/week, it’s gonna take a great girl to convince you to give up that playboy lifestyle. Most guys that could get women that easily would not be going out desperately looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:23 PM
3

Yep it’s kinda dumb but a male looking for relationship subconsciously implies that’s the only way he can get a woman, by promising her commitment and exclusive access to his resources (even if it isn’t true). A man giving away commitment easy is the same as a woman giving away sex easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:32 PM
1

Yeah I feel like we should just start lying to take into account girl inches. I’m claiming 12 from now on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:16 PM
3

Yep when I tell girls the legit measurements of mine they’re truly shocked as if I’ve measured it wrong, like one said it’s bigger than her ex and he was 9 inches lololol Another girl told me all five of her ex’s were 8-9 inches, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:07 PM
1

Also in warmer climates penises would’ve been out on show more, so naturally women would’ve gravitated towards the larger ones thus affecting evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:01 PM
2

Sounds good bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:54 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:52 PM
1

I’d say most girls prefer bigger but guys shouldn’t really care anymore. Most girls shag around on Tinder so will have come across plenty of huge ones. Even though I’m v big, most of my f buddies have had even bigger, just accept it and enjoy it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:32 AM
0

Yep beta is basically the battery charger. Charge her back up so she can hop back on alpha dick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 12:41 PM
6

Why were cement bags designed that big? They could’ve been made smaller for women to lift. The patriarchy strikes again
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 12:38 PM
4

If you're having to resort to single mothers, even for casual sex, you've fucked up. No man should ever be that desperate. The majority of single women don't have kids, so why go for the minority that do?
/r/MGTOW225/11/20 08:53 PM
1

Yeah women will always want an emotional tampon/personal ATM wage slave. But I do think that polyamory, cucking and cheating will increase. How can women be satisfied with average/below-average Joe when they're used to top 5% Chad? And most men will go along with it as they're desperate to be in a relationship, and even if they only get starfish sex a few times a year, that's better than nothing in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:38 PM
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Everyone has a choice, whether to take what’s on offer or walk away. That’s why people should see marriage/kids as a bonus, not a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:45 PM
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There’s two things to consider here. One is the power balance and the other is the typical personality traits of a high-flying career woman. Regarding the power balance, traditionally most relationships were based on the woman having the upper hand in SMV/looks/reproductivity, and the guy having the upper hand in provision/physical strength. If the woman is both better looking and a higher earner then the guy really has no power at all. For some relationships this will be okay, but for a lot it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:30 PM
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If you can’t see the link then there’s no point this discussion going any further
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:13 PM
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I don’t think anybody on here is advocating women should be forced to have sex with men they don’t find attractive. What guys are frustrated about is that there are some guys that can get a different girl every night and others that are virgins at 30. I think most guys want to go back to the way things were, where everybody paired up with a looksmatch at a young age and focused on creating a strong future together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:17 AM
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Do you know the slightest bit about terrorists? ISIS? It’s full of loser men who have nothing going for them, hate the West and want to see it’s downfall. You are so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:08 AM
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Have you heard of ISIS? Are they just a revenge fantasy group to you? They blow up pop concerts full of young kids, they behead people on the streets of France. There’s nothing about them that makes them inherently bad, they just HATE the West and want to cause as much trouble as possible. There’s nothing to stop the incel community becoming the same. It just takes enough Elliot Rogers and a community online to brainwash these young men who feel everything is against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:07 AM
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I think society in general has seen a decline in social skills, thanks to the new digitalised world. It means men are less comfortable approaching, and this then gets compounded by women being more awkward than ever meaning guys feel even more uncomfortable approaching. Literally imagine you’re a hot girl in today’s age, you don’t need to be competent socially, you will have hoards of guys flooding you with attention online. What this does mean is that any guy that does have strong social skills…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:45 PM
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Well it depends what you mean by ‘attractive’ but let’s say you mean ‘above average’ then at best that’s 40% of the male population. Now let’s say half of them would make good father/reliable providers, then that’s 20% of total men. So your claim is that it’s easy for ‘most women’, say 70-80%? 70-80% of women fighting for 20% of guys. That’s like 3-4 women competing for every guy. How is that easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 02:23 PM
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Of course if someone is severely depressed and they feel they have nobody to talk to then it’s important to open up. That’s a very different matter. Clearly the person has bigger issues than whether their partner finds them sexy/unsexy for opening up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:08 AM
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Women are ruled by emotion, men are ruled by logic. Men love to understand why things work the way they do, and this is how TRP came about. For years guys were so confused about women emotion, they couldn’t understand how women’s actions weren’t tying up with their words. Women were saying they wanted one thing, but then doing the opposite. Men didn’t mind too much before, but after the sexual revolution and now that women have more and more choice and freedom over what they do, a lot of men wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:44 AM
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You really have no idea what TRP is. Nowhere does it suggest you shouldn’t clean the dishes because it isn’t sexy. It also doesn’t say become an emotionless robot. As for crying, if for example your pet/relative/close friend dies then it’s perfectly okay to cry in front of your partner. But if you’re coming in from work crying because somebody said something mean or because you’re a bit stressed about the challenges ahead then the woman might start to perceive the guy as a bit of a sissy. No wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:18 AM
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It’s called having Fuuuuuuun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:57 PM
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BRUH what is this witchcraft he speaks about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:56 PM
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It is it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:33 PM
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Damn evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:19 PM
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THIS. I feel like women on this forum think we’re blaming them. We’re not. All we really want them to admit is that they have it so easy Edit: oh and perhaps not treating incels as if it’s their fault they were born short and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 11:30 AM
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In my experience, women don’t actually have a lower sex drive, they just need the right type of guy to unlock it. I would actually say most of my f buddies have had a higher drive than me, despite me also having a high one. Although there could be a selection bias as I tend to choose women that really enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:37 AM
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Where has he said he treats older women poorly as retaliation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:30 PM
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Attention from the opposite sex is a very basic need, he was not given that by women for one reason or another, so I think 'deprived' is a fair word to use. He's not saying he deserved attention or that he was entitled to it, only that he didn't get it and is therefore annoyed. Most people would be annoyed also if they didn't receive any attention from the opposite sex throughout their youth. He's accepting the past and is thinking of the best strategy for going forward. To go back to my dog exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:42 PM
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No but that's the point, by dating younger women he isn't taking anger into the relationship. Actually the approach he is taking is very mature, it's realising that he has insecurities from his youth (due to rejection from women his age) and working around them by dating younger women. Where about's in his post does he say he was entitled to female companionship in his youth? I think entitlement is the wrong word, he really wanted female companionship in his younger years but didn't get any sadl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:19 PM
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Why is it ‘disturbing’? If he feels better and more comfortable dating younger girls then all power to him. If he’s had bad experiences with women his age (ie rejection) then it’s natural for him to prefer younger women. It’s like if you get bit by a dog when you’re young, you’re more likely to dislike them as you grow older. That’s perfectly normal. Now, if he was entering into relationships with women his age, then emotionally abusing them to get back at them that is sadistic and disturbing. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:42 PM
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Yes niche was the wrong word I meant create an identity and make it clear what type of guy you are. It has to fit your personality. I’m also a gym freak and it skyrocketed my success but not every guy needs to be a gym bro to pull girls. There’s many looks/identities that can work. For example, a skinny musician wearing a beanie tatted up rocking his guitar on Insta can pull mad pussy if you own the look. It’s not to say lifting won’t improve his image. I would encourage most guys to stay somewh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:10 AM
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It’s not about being niche as in a small %, it’s about cultivating an identity and standing out from the crowd of boring middle-of-the-road men. Your appearance needs to be congruent with your personality. If you look like a boring nerd yet act like a confident alpha women will just be confused. You won’t be treat the way you want to be treated and will constantly be confused as to why. Develop an image and own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 12:42 AM
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I agree with everything except your very last point. Don’t improve for her, improve for yourself. No matter how amazing you become she can always ditch you at any time. Don’t think about her being faithful, just enjoy her and when/if it comes to an end find someone else to have a great time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 12:11 AM
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Men are islands, women are boats. They come in, they go out. Don’t get mad about it, just enjoy it for what it is. Certainly don’t bet half your wealth they’ll stay docked to the island.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:59 PM
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Out of interest, do any females on here actually claim women DO have realistic standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:54 PM
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You’ve touched on such an important point I think... fitting a category. Women love to pigeon hole guys.. nerd, jock, artist, musician, biker, hipster, traveller, meathead etc. It’s vital that your appearance AND personality makes it clear which box you’re in. Some women will prefer bikers so their ‘average’ guy will be different to a girl that prefers an artist. Of course certain categories are better than others in terms of mass appeal (think jock vs nerd). For a long time I was stuck in betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:48 PM
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24 is complete freedom, move to a city where nobody knows you, get your own flat and get on dates. Yeah you might fuck a few up at first because you don’t have experience but eventually you’ll get the hang of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:01 AM
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Lol bro chill, I was pretty much kissless/sexless until 20 and then started slaying around 23 (after college). I’m fine haha 24-35 can be some amazing years if you let go of the past and keep improving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:16 AM
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Yeah I would imagine 95%+ of women and 60%+ guys will have had at least one relationship by that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:10 AM
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I tend to prefer short women for casual sex, taller women for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:04 AM
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Did you make your sexual intentions clear? Did you flirt? Did you escalate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:59 AM
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Don’t confuse cocky/funny with being a douche tho. Cocky/funny is more of a confident playful flirt/tease with women, Ofc you turn it down around family and other guys, but women love it. It’s basically like being a bit cheeky ;) you don’t need to become some super alpha jock douche. Yes I’m sure your dating life would be different, but what are you going to do about it cry? Just find the short short Asian girls and have fun with them, yeah they still might reject you but so what, just be fun to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:56 AM
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You keep telling yourself that buddy, I know small guys that have pulled hot (small) girls. Yeah you might not be the top of the food chain but you don’t need to be, that’s only on OLD where that is more important. Go outside, meet (short) girls, talk to them, make them laugh, show them a good time and you can do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:03 AM
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Easily. I see average height guys pulling girls all the time in nightclubs. They’re usually v alpha confident, well built with good social skills. It’s only if you’re below average (<5ft6) when it gets tougher, but then you just need to zone in on the smaller chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:51 PM
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People definitely place too much importance on height here, maybe because it’s such an easy excuse to use. Alpha mindset, jacked and cocky/funny personality is much more important. There’s so many lanklets out there getting 0 pussy. To answer the OP’s question, the problem isn’t necessarily being too tall (unless you’re like a 7ft+ freak) but it’s filling out your frame. It takes a lot longer for tall guys to fill out their frame and as you approach 6ft5+ it becomes almost impossible unless you …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:34 PM
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Well I was 6ft3 with a pretty boy facial structure and deep voice, but I was very skinny, pale, nerd glasses, crappy teeth, no sense of style, not very socially confident, naturally quiet and introverted, was raised to really put women on a pedestal, that casual sex is bad, and being cocky confident is douche bag behaviour. Over the last 3-4 years I’ve lifted weights religiously, where I’m now 245lbs jacked, I’ve got my teeth sorted, eyes lasered, started dressing with clothes that fit, grew fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:23 AM
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Exactly, say you’re a father with conservative and traditional beliefs (gasp!), you know that it’s going to be a constant up-hill battle to install those values into a daughter, when society is encouraging her to do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:12 PM
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What does it tell you about their views on women? I also wouldn’t want a daughter because I feel I would be a shitty father as I wouldn’t be able to offer her much good advice or wisdom. I also don’t want to be dealing with an insecure social media addict on a daily basis. Therefore I’ve decided not to have kids as I don’t want to gamble on getting a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:02 PM
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Why do you assume sexist reasons? Maybe they just feel like they wouldn’t have much in common with a daughter and wouldn’t be able to teach her much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 10:58 PM
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Lol this legit describes me hahahaha I wouldn’t know how to raise a son that isn’t like that, never mind a daughter... hence why I won’t be having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 10:49 PM
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The thing is, more and more non-Chad’s (guys who probably would’ve been simps) are starting to catch on and are avoiding the trap. Hence where are all the good men/simps gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:29 PM
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Yeah I think most people find a partner and have kids just because it’s expected of them. Most people don’t stop to think about what they really want/don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:26 PM
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Whatever dude x
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:15 PM
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This. So many people on this forum are naive and have no idea about the custody process. If people knew how costly, time-consuming and draining these legal procedures are they wouldn’t make these stupid comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:13 PM
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You are allowed to google you know? https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/acquainted-the-night/201906/divorce-is-risk-factor-suicide-especially-men?amp Men typically commit 3.5x as many suicides, when you compare divorced men to divorced women that figure is 9x. Imagine losing access to your kids, your home, your car, your wife who you loved so much and worked so hard to provide for. Couple that with being typically middle aged, balding and lower testosterone levels.. also consider the fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:06 PM
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The fact you even had to explain this shows how out of touch some people are on this forum. Divorce rape is one of the leading causes of male suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:09 AM
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It’s simple, it doesn’t suit women for every guy to be alpha and emotionally unavailable. They only need a few alphas to fuck. They realise long term they will need a steady beta-bucks who can buy her a nice house and car, and listen to her problems. The thing is, men are starting to catch on, and this is why they hate TRP so much, because it encourages guys to be the alpha fucks and reframe relationships in their favour. If TRP/MGTOW becomes mainstream and all guys start taking this approach th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:48 PM
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I literally went from undesirable to Chad, thanks TRP/Black Pill! I’m glad I didn’t waste my time with fake pickup strategies, like how to fake confidence. Now I’m a Chad I’m naturally confident. Also maybe too much information.. but I thought I always had a small dick because of my small flaccid size (compared to guys I seen in the locker room). I never googled averages because I was scared and it wasn’t until I started slaying that I realised I’m really big (erect).. this definitely boosted my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:31 AM
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It’s the same as with everything else - men just learn to cope. We understand that we have little inherent value to the world therefore nobody is going to come along and save us. Women however will always have somebody willing to dig them out of the hole, with whatever that is: social isolation, flat tire, homelessness etc. It’s like life on easy mode. Therefore when something challenging comes about, like covid, women are more likely to suffer as there’s nobody that can really come to their res…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:02 AM
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Dude have you at the very least gymmaxxed? Get your T levels checked, consider TRT. Yes there are health risks but the alternatives of either marrying an ugly or being alone forever don’t seem too great either. You’re backed into a corner and you need to come out swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:22 PM
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Yeah men definitely become realistic at a much earlier age. You see the other guys getting the girls and understand very quickly where you stand amongst your peers. Especially when you’re a 20 y.o kissless virgin. There’s also not much in the way of support or fake compliments. If anything, men like to rinse each other to bring each other down a peg or two. With women, their friends and family will constantly be telling them they can do better, she’s the prize, he was lucky, he was just a jerk e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:45 PM
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The 80/20 refers to what women WANT. It doesn’t mean that’s what they get. Clearly only 20% of women can secure commitment from the top 20% of men. The remaining 60 of that 80% still WANT the top 20% but are finding it hard to secure commitment. They will be able to fuck the top 20%, but will often find themselves being ‘used’ over and over. This 60% has two choices: continue to enjoy casual sex with the top 20% or SETTLE for a guy not in the top 20%. And so to your point, no, not every male tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:55 PM
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Feel free to keep looking into the sources, I work in gyms so I’m well aware of who uses the gym more. No I’m saying women have much higher standards, they’re naturally hypergamous but when you mix in OLD + Instagram you get unrealistic expectations (for themselves and their partners), hence all the incel guys and depressed women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:16 PM
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https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/battle-sexes-men-work-out-more-women Men work out twice as much as women. (See study above) Eating meat isn’t bad for you, especially lean meats, it’s full of protein and vital nutrients which help build muscle. The point is, women don’t NEED to look good, most men would bang 70% of women. Most women would not bang 70% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:36 PM
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No they don’t, otherwise the gym would be full of women and not men. Women would also not be binge drinking and eating crap. Burying themselves in makeup, fake-tan and getting lip fillers is not ‘their best’. Women don’t need to be at ‘their best’. Even fat slobby 3/10’s can get the occasional Chad dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:12 PM
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Women aren’t insecure because they care about their appearance too much, they’re insecure because they compare themselves to unrealistic standards on Instagram. The same unrealistic standards they have for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:13 PM
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Ahh, of course.. it’s the man’s fault! How could we forget? Most guys are hitting the gym harder than they ever have before, more taking their diets seriously, more learning about pickup and how to appeal to women, yet of course it’s the man’s fault for the current dating climate. When will we start blaming women for having stupendously high standards, even though they are fatter than ever, more depressed and insecure than ever and more boring than ever thanks to their addiction to Instagram, Ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:53 PM
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It’s not even that great for top 5-15%, there is always better and if you go for a girl who is in a similar league looks-wise then she’s used to the top 1%. It’s all relative in the end. The current climate doesn’t suit any man really (in terms of LTR)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:44 PM
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This is so true. The way some of my fuck buddies talk about guys WHO ARE IN THEIR LEAGUE, is mind-boggling. Like they describe them as if they’re a piece of shit, then they show me a pic and I’m like damnnn he’s really not that bad this girl is deluded as fuk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah even for above average or top 5% Chads it still sucks because women are just becoming more and more entitled and expect more and more thanks to Instagram and OLD which opens their eyes to the top 0.01%. As a chad myself, I would rather have a low n-count looksmatch LTR with no mental issues instead of just banging above-average girls with insecurity problems. This current climate really doesn’t suit anyone, even though it’s easier than ever for guys like us to smash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:24 PM
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Literally most women and some Chads are so blinkered and delusional that they don’t understand how difficult it is for the bottom 80% of guys to get anything better than a land whale with insecurity issues
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 02:10 PM
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The increase in SMV offsets the tincy wincy hit in RMV, it’s a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 11:06 PM
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More men need to understand this very simple point - women love guys that are social. It’s one of the best traits you can have. That’s why extrovert guys tend to do a load better than introverts. Think of the popular guys in high school who got all the pussy, it was usually the ones that were extremely social and doing funny/stupid things. That’s what women want. You can be the best looking guy but if you’re anti-social, cold and boring women will get fed up very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:19 PM
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Yeah most people agree that those things that you listed are on the rise and are indeed a problem. But too many people feel they have to defend their team. 'Team Women', 'Team Men'. Some men even joining 'Team Women' to appeal. Some going Team MGTOW/Incel and blaming women for everything that's wrong with the world. That's why TRP is such a breathe of fresh air, as it stops blaming women for being how they are naturally designed to be, and gives men rational steps to take to enjoy better more fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 01:02 PM
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Of course it's the man's fault! More men are weightlifting than ever before. More men are jumping on gear, taking their diets seriously, having surgery, invisalign, laser eye, travelling, trying to appeal on social media apps like TikTok and Insta etc. Meanwhile women are getting fatter and more entitled than ever. And it's the man's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:53 PM
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Probably one of the best posts I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:49 PM
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Assuming you're looking to just bang, then generally it's better to be polarising. Some girls won't like overly flirtatious openers or d pics, but those girls are also probably not as bothered about jumping in bed right away. If all you want is casual sex then you want to filter pretty early on, no point wasting loads of time messaging back and forth only to realise she's looking for a serious relationship/not that sexually interested in you. So let's say we're talking about tinder girls who lin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:21 PM
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Literally, any woman who is thinking ‘where have all the good men gone’ simply needs to lower their standards or accept being single. It’s really not that hard to figure out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:16 PM
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Yeah I think the whole men struggling to get sex is a big thing on here, but overall women have a much worse deal regarding relationships. As a man, if you spend your 20’s earning £, building your physique etc you will have so many options come late 20’s and there’s no expiry date to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:21 PM
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I don't understand how people can't see this. TRP is the opposite to what the OP suggests. It's taking responsibility, not blaming women for everything. Accept them as they are, and change your own behaviors and actions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 04:25 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with you, autists are going to struggle regardless. But at least if they can get dates it’s a start for them. Unfortunately society has become so heavily fixated on image and photos that shit likes this needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:33 PM
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Whatever you want to believe x
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:25 PM
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You are, I don’t do it personally cause I have great pictures anyway, but some guys need all the help they can get. Women cover themselves in fake up and fake nails, fake tan, hair extensions, stupid filters and the rest, why can’t guys also fake it? Fake it till you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:23 PM
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It’s still not ideal, agreed, but it’s better than no sex at all. It also probably reduces rape crime. A society where the bottom tier of men are getting no sex at all is not good for anyone. These men become dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:21 PM
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Yes I’m fucking these women, I see the type of guys they settle with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:18 PM
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Yeah do that too but it costs a lot of money, also the pics you get from them might not be 10/10 quality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:16 PM
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I absolutely do think men were mostly happy. Yes it was a struggle but there was great reward from that struggle. Providing for a family with a loyal wife who supports you through thick and thin, until death. That’s still what most men want, with perhaps the occasional mistress on the side. I think post-WW2 men were duped into letting women contribute, that it will take some of the earning pressure off them in what were stifled and recovering economies. Little did they realise the prices of good…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:12 AM
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Do you think men of previous generations saw this coming? You have to admit that from a male perspective the old system was great. Since men let women into the workforce, vote etc society has changed and taken the power from men. Did they see this coming? If so, why did they let it happen? To most men, a loyal personal fuckmaid, who looks after the kids and does all the chores sounds like the dream. Why did they ever let this get away from them? It’s also because of this I can see Islam sweeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:30 AM
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Also, wear condoms or get a vasectomy. A rich 30-35 year old man spinning plates is begging to be baby trapped by a post-wall woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:21 AM
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The only thing I would say is a lot of people often think they don’t want kids until they find that long term deeply meaningful and monogamous relationship. Are you open to the idea of that changing or are you really anti-kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 09:17 AM
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Well yeah they all catch on eventually, as women approach late 20's they start to become more realistic. The problem for most guys is that they want girls in their early 20's, which just isn't realistic for a lot of guys as most girls are still giving Chads another chance at that age. 'Perhaps Football Chad was an asshole, but I'm sure Guitarist Chad is better right?' It's definitely not all women thankfully, but I imagine as a woman it's so tempting to join the trend. If all your mates are brag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:12 AM
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But OLD is becoming the most common way for people to meet. A lot of guys are worried that women will just stick to OLD as they can punch above their league. I agree tho that there is a big difference between real life and OLD however.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:48 AM
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Might try it some time. My problem is all my mates hate rock music, it’s more of an image thing I think, so I never have anyone to go with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:45 AM
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This will be the future, honestly with the way things are going I can see more Elliot Rogers style attacks unfortunately. The solution to this problem will be to legalise prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:40 PM
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Also buy some professional photo editing software, everything is about pictures now. Learn how to crop yourself on beaches, with celebs and other fake shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:35 PM
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Well men don’t need to, unless we want young pussy. Women approaching the wall will take whatever they can get. However, women are the gatekeepers of sex, so if we want casual sex with <25’s we have to play the game a bit (depending on how good looking you are)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:29 PM
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Do you not get anxious at all? Like everyone else is with friends and you’re alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:26 PM
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Test is for pussies, tren all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:21 PM
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Not everyone that does roids looks like Phil Heath, google David Laid, he does gear but I’m sure most women wouldn’t mind him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:20 PM
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Yes you’re right, it’s actually more top 5%.. see that Plenty of Fish study which shows most women only swipe on the absolute cream of the crop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:04 PM
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Love how ‘too muscular’ usually means Ronnie Coleman size, dw, guys don’t get to that size without PED’s and mad genetics.. and they often do it for themselves, not girlies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:00 PM
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Yeah I think for some it’s easier to just diminish the OP by claiming unfair stereotyping than it is to actually go through his points and debate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:28 PM
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Love how people are missing the point by pointing out stereotypes aren’t always true and their individual experience. WE KNOW. The point is most high T men don’t give a fuck about feminism. They’re also more likely to cheat, and just more general asshole behaviour. So feminists need to decide, do you go for the high T guy or the lower T guy who tries to make up for his lack of T by adopting feminist-positive values. Typically what happens is the woman chooses the low T guy for a relationship as …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:37 PM
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It doesn’t unfortunately. Most normie guys seriously don’t care about their partners n count, as long as they haven’t banged all their friends or half the village. It’s mainly just high inhib autists who really think through the logical implications of high n count etc, and come up with grand theories like trp. That said, for high inhib autists, it’s vital to learn TRP as a neurotypical woman will just use them for their resources. It’s better to understand how your brain functions, ACCEPT IT, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:04 PM
3

All that tells me is that 2/3-1/4 of couples are stuck and unhappy by the time their kid turns 12
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:50 PM
4

That’s not a stat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:39 PM
3

This. Imagine thinking just because you buy a girl a drink she'll see you as beta-bucks and lose respect for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 12:05 AM
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I think a virgin/inexperienced 4-7 SMV girl can still get off from an average guy. It's only when she starts messing about with Chad's that she becomes corrupted. It's a bit like drugs, it's only when you start doing heroin do the other drugs not seem so strong any more. It would take a very long-term approach though, as it may take 4-5 years for a tall skinny guy to fill out his frame (like it did in my case). I guess it depends on how good her Chad-defence system is, can she resist them for al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:36 AM
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It's always perplexed me as to why female 4-7/10's don't realize they're average/above-average and work at finding a 4-7/10 looks-match who has potential to grow to 8-9/10 in the future. Think of it like buying stocks. They take a guy who has decent facial structure, height, job prospects (strong fundamentals) but is skinny, not the best teeth, bad dress style, nerd glasses etc (rough diamond if you will). Then encourage him to work on these these until he becomes a solid 8/10. The guy is much m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:17 AM
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Lol imagine having daughters these days, how on earth would we raise them? Knowing all the effort will be wasted and they will most likely turn into attention seeking depressed social media addicts? Just fucking lol at any father who tries to install strong conservative beliefs into them these days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:42 PM
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Awesome :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:56 PM
1

In terms of relationships? It could be that they see you as a catch (for now)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:17 PM
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If it’s a Chad, it’s welcomed If it’s bottom 80%, it’s harassment If men listened to women about approaching, the bottom 80% would just live in basements and refrain from any social contact. It’s amazing how little consideration women have for the bottom 80% I also was once in the bottom 80% and for so long I thought I had poor social skills. Since becoming chad tier I can literally say and do whatever I want. In my opinion, it’s only the guys who have seen both sides that can truly appreciate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:09 PM
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They're bigger (even than a lot of men) so they feel physically more powerful than what a thin petite woman would Probably been pumped and dumped by Chads in her prime, so now she's locked down Billy Beta she feels she has to crack the whip a bit more + she's probably a bit jaded Being fat whilst in a relationship is a clear sign of selfishness. Anybody that had respect for their partner would try to be in the best shape possible for them These are just a few reasons, I'm sure other users could …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:47 PM
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Go to Berghain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:16 PM
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Of course they wouldn’t because they were dealing with bigger issues like hunting for food or fighting off predatory foes. We don’t live like that anymore. If the woman was giving the man shit she would be beaten until she complies. So what do you recommend guys do to ‘step up’? Testosterone levels have plummeted over the last few decades.. maybe we need to prescribe 300mg Test to every man? Maybe even sprinkle some Trenbolone into their morning coffees?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:23 PM
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But I feel like here in Europe (or Germany) hookup culture is almost a myth. Dude have you been to Berlin? It's like hook-up culture on steroids. The stuff you see in some of the nightclubs there is truly shocking..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:21 PM
3

Yeah my LARP detector is buzzing!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:18 PM
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Oh I thought by 'fresh approach IRL' you was referring to cold approaching. I agree with your point then. Increasing social circle is the best way of increasing chances of finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:05 PM
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It may be 'refreshing' but it's not very likely. Most women walk/travel around with their earphones in listening to music, and even if they don't they probably have their head buried in Instagram land. It's not conducive to being open to being approached. Not saying it's impossible, it happens, but your attention is better focused on OLD (getting some solid pics) or joining clubs/societies which by nature are more social.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:48 PM
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Whilst men may have different preferences, the vast majority of men enjoy being made to feel masculine. It's easier to feel masculine around thin feminine girls. I think the rise of 'thicc' is actually a contributor as to why a lot of men are less masculine these days. They are with bossy fat chicks who stamp on their balls and crush any masculine presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:30 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:34 PM
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Except we do. For centuries hypergamy has been curtailed and laws and rules have been brought into place in order to encourage monogamy. Leaders realised that for a successful society, everybody needs to enjoy a slice of the pie; communism applied to the dating market if you will. However, over the past few decades we've seen women are now free to act on their hypergamy without being shamed by society for doing so. Dating apps have helped facilitate this even further. At first guys didn't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:55 PM
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I don't need a green light, or 'consent', to approach. I'm free to socialise with whoever I choose, man or woman, and similarly the other person is free to decline, in which case I will back off. No harm done. Of course there are some situations where this doesn't apply, for example if the person is on the phone or clearly busy with something, I wouldn't interrupt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:51 AM
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So what are these overt signs? How is a guy meant to know you don’t want to talk? The bottom line is, a lot of girls that get super dolled up do it because they want some attention (from the right type of guy). Of course not all girls do, and if the girl says she isn’t interested then the guy should back off. But to say that a guy shouldn’t approach just because of a small minority is silly. Also lighten up a bit, since when did socialising become ‘exerting your will’, you sound miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:06 AM
1

Love how this convo died as soon as they provided links with proof lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:56 PM
1

There's another issue which is, us (high testosterone) men are just god damn horny creatures. If we aren't working/suffering/sacrificing we turn to hedonism and start hitting on the other stay-at-home moms. It's similar to being in a nightclub drunk with your single mates - it's a mistake waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:47 PM
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Also for highly educated/hard working guys, if they pursue a woman who has put no effort into career/education then what has she been doing for the last 5 or so years? Is she a suitable LTR prospect if she hasn't worked hard at anything? I think some RP'ers think 'college girls are sluts, therefore avoid them', forgetting that the alternative doesn't guarantee they'll be any more prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 11:58 AM
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Out of interest how small are you and how tall do you like your guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:48 PM
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This is so true. I remember reading a study that suggested taller people tend to have longer mid-faces, which is generally seen as a inferior physical trait. Similarly, tall guys tend to struggle to fill out their frames and appear muscular. When I started lifting with my buddies at 16, the 5ft7-5ft11 guys filled out really quick, but me and my other 6ft3 mate took years to make any noticeable improvements. I think height is exaggerated by black pillers as it's an easy metric to blame for why th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:42 PM
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Okay now you seem to have moved on to blaming men for the current dating climate. My point is that neither gender is directly to blame. This isn't a blame game about which gender is and isn't right. Both genders are acting on their biological imperative; for women that is finding the highest value male, and for men that is spreading their seed as far wide as possible. Acting upon these imperatives was once frowned upon by society. Women would be seen as easy and men would seem greedy and unscrup…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:58 AM
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There are certainly desperate men, more now than ever thanks to uncontrolled hypergamy, but I seriously think a lot are waking up thanks to the internet and forums such as this. Year's ago if you had thoughts like this your family would tell you to man up and put a ring on her finger, now I think guys are seriously considering the alternatives. We see this reflect in the dating market, a lot of guys now only want casual as they are repulsed by girls with high body counts. Also see marriage rates…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 01:08 AM
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You don't seem to understand the premise of why women have greater reproductive power. Women are inherently more valuable than men to society because of their womb's, whereas sperm is abundant. There are simply too many men in the world, given uncontrolled female hypergamy. If monogamy is enforced then 50% men and 50% women works, but in this current climate it simply doesn't and hence my point about how a large group of men feel they are being dealt a raw deal. I then explained the consequences…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:54 AM
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I don't necessarily disagree with you, if I was a woman in 2020 I would do the exact same. My point isn't that I'm blaming women. My point is that now the power balance is completely out of whack. Women hold all the cards. In the past men had the financial power and women had the reproductive power. For sure, some people lost out, but as a whole it was relatively simple, stable and it worked for generation upon generations. Also, and probably most importantly, female hypergamy was curtailed. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:28 PM
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Thanks for the heads up man, I'll get you a beer when it pays off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:48 PM
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I think we will return to somewhat of an equilibrium naturally as women become aware that actions have consequences. They will teach their daughters not to end up like their 45y.o friend Becky who spent her 20's fucking Chad's and then couldn't find a suitable life partner. Similarly women will soon realize that work sucks and the degrees aren't worth it, therefore teaching their daughters to focus their youth on finding a suitable life partner instead of climbing the career ladder. We are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:10 PM
1

women prefer Brad Pitt physique because it's Brad Pitt. If you don't have Brad Pitt's face or status then you need some damn muscle son
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:27 PM
1

brb plunging all my savings into sex toy shops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:20 PM
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bad man = bottom 80% of men these days Women don't respect their husbands because they genuinely believe they deserve better. Hence, being a stay-at-home mother or 'sex toy/maid/chef' as Purple5091 put it, is seen as beneath her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:14 PM
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The thing is I can't envision another troops-on-the-ground large scale war happening, where average Joe is forced to sign up. I think the future of warfare lies within biological (viruses) and technological (hacking) warfare, however China is already streets ahead with them. Sadly I think these lone-wolf Elliot Rodger type of attacks will become more frequent. It's just not good for a man's mental health to be a virgin at 30 years of age, which will only become more and more likely. These guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:46 PM
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That's what you'd imagine right? But it doesn't play out like that for the reason I gave, hence why lots of men take this approach - it works. 'Treat them mean, keep them keen'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:05 PM
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As an attractive woman you literally are living life on the easiest mode. You will never be homeless, hungry or lonely. Congrats!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:36 PM
1

In addition to what has been said, I think it's worth pointing out that the beta strategy isn't necessarily bad. For some guys it's the only game in town. However, it's vital that guys using the beta strategy are aware of the pitfalls and protect their assets carefully. Women will try to trick the betas into thinking their alphas, and as guys we all want to think we're alpha. It's important to realize whether you're deep down a beta and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:16 PM
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This is true. Taking OP's example. Guy #2 could be ugly and 'partying' with girls who are only interested in him for the free drinks/entries. Whereas Guy #1 could be hot as fuk and his wife loves draining his balls every day because of it. Alpha/Beta is a mindset, not a lifestyle or a set of actions, if the woman sees you as beta then you're a beta, if she sees you as an alpha then you're alpha. A beta in one environment could be an alpha in another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:42 PM
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I agree you can be all those things and nice, however in terms of getting women the main thing you need to demonstrate is strong genetic potential. If you treat women like shit then they assume you must have a lot of woman after you, otherwise why would you treat them so badly? Having a lot of women after you indicates strong genetic potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:33 PM
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The reason they get flak is because men assume that single mother's have poor judge of character, and had unprotected sex without appropriately vetting the father's commitment. In addition, it presumes that if the woman was of a high enough value then why would the father leave? Maybe he left because he was sick of her shit. Of course this may not be the case, for example the father could have died in a terrible car accident, so how is this the woman's fault? From a personal perspective, guys fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:15 PM
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This is a crucial point a lot of people don't seem to understand. Hypergamy needs to be curtailed in order to give average guys a purpose. If the bottom 80% of guys feel they have no chance then they will give up and the world will grind to a halt. They may even start attacking the top 20% of guys. Religion and laws were introduced to curtail female hypergamy but over the last 50 years we have said to hell with it. Over the next few hundred years we will see how the bottom 80% respond. With sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:34 PM
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This, women don't want respect, women want to be drilled by a hot chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:52 AM
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This post is spot on. Women are so simple for either extreme. I've gone from one end to the other, 10 years ago I was invisible to women. It was a waste of time talking to them. 5 years ago I was frustrated because they would give me a chance and I would be thinking oh did I blow it? did I say the right thing? Now pretty much every girl I meet I know I can fuck. They make it so easy.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 10:04 PM
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I'm a sigma too, hate following, not interested in leading. I think sigma's have to rely on their looks more than anyone, as you probably aren't providing her with much social status.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 09:59 PM
2

Yep your attractiveness essentially dictates how cocky you can be without it seeming 'out of character'. If a 4/10 starts acting cocky, then he's just a cocky ass hole, if a 9/10 acts cocky then he's just confident.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 09:52 PM
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Same tbh buddy, I think our approach is the best for general life satisfaction (avoiding all the fake Insta bs) but we must admit that a solid Insta profile demonstrating pre-selection would be better for slaying pussy
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:14 AM
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Haha will do!
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:19 PM
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Yeah I second this, you need to strike a balance of sometimes showing interest but not coming across too thirsty. If every pic she sends you're like 'omg they look amazing' then she'll think you're desperate for sex and will be placed in the orbiter category. Always be dominant/assertive in your responses, talk down to her.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:37 PM
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Delete your Insta, don't add girls on Facebook and make it so they can only see how many mutual friends you have, lift. The only social media you should be using is Snapchat (boost your score to 20,000+ to avoid looking like a loner), cause it's easier to sext and talk about things when the chat is removed instantly/after 24 hours. Of course having a brill Insta/FB profile with girls commenting on every picture is better but you have to be realistic, that isn't going to happen so just remove it …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:06 PM
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Yeah I'm in a similar position (finance industry). Hoping to move from UK to Perth one day, it seems to have enough jobs although not on the scale of Melbourne/Sydney. Also you can get twice as much for your money in terms of property compared to the bigger cities + roads are less congested.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:45 PM
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Maybe if they say it enough times they'll eventually believe it?
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:49 PM
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Any huge city (i.e Sydney/Melbourne) will always be liberal/SJW-dominated though. If you're looking for people that share similar views to yourself then you will most likely need to move somewhere more rural, or a smaller more conservative city like Perth that was built on masculine work (mining).
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:25 PM
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Very well put, there are a few ways this plays out. Either guys start rejecting it and essentially go MGTOW/force women to behave or women get all the power and it means a large proportion of guys will be slaves to them. A world ran by women will have no leadership and therefore turn into a free-for-all (see Middle East after authoritative dictators have been removed).
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:14 PM
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Australia is much better than the UK though, at least Australia has a strict immigration system. The UK has just been taken over and we will never get it back. It will just continue becoming more liberal and anti-white male.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:07 PM
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Solid Instagram > No Instagram > Crappy Instagram. If your Insta profile sucks then either go through all the effort of making it better or just delete it. A bad Insta can ruin your chances, especially with 18-22 y.o's.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 11:53 AM
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I had a similar issue at first, I'm 6ft3/250lbs(jacked)/strong facial aesthetics (rate myself a strong 8/10), but the one thing my profile lacked was social proof. Social proof is everything for women - the best thing you can have is a strong Instagram linked with a few thousand followers and girls commenting on every picture. This basically confirms you're popular and that they need to respect you otherwise you'll just spend time with someone else. Now the issue is, you can fake social proof an…
/r/askTRP02/08/20 07:53 PM
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