| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | What are some practical steps I can take to stop feeling "not good enough"? | DNA4Success | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 07:29 AM |
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| 2 | What are some practical steps I can take to stop feeling "not good enough"?Ok great! Like, I know what I want and what type of girl I want but don't know how to become that guy. But I used to think that looks, and all that stuff mattered but they don't. A friend of mine who is ugly (seriously is) is dating a really hot girl (my type) so I'm kinda jealous of him. I have goals in life and a vision. | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 08:54 AM |
| 1 | My self-image is horribleHow can I love myself when I am not who I want to be? Or even get results with the women I want? There has been a time when my life was great and I loved myself but I still was in a dry spell and just did bad with women. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | My self-image is horribleI hit rock bottom cause everything is going wrong in my life and don't have the motivation to change it. I struggled with depression and anxiety my whole life and this year (because of outside circumstances) triggered it 100%. I do now what I want in life, I have a plan, but things keep me messing it up. But what I want to accomplish is being great with attracting beautiful women but I feel like it's not a reality for me at the moment. I'm stuck. I'm struggling man ha. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | My self-image is horribleI want to change for myself and my own happiness. Happiness for me is being happy with myself and that happens by accomplishing my own goals, loving who I am inside and out, and of course relationships. This year has been the shittiest hardest year for me and I hit rock bottom. Doubting my own value and thinking I'm not good enough for what I desire is what got me feeling this way. If today a beautiful girl didn't reject me and ended up successfully then I would feel tons better. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Fuck yes or fuck no.How can I see it that way? Or see ME in that way? | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I want to prove myself that I can and then I'll be happy.Yeah true. That's all I want is a girl I'm really attracted to and connects with me. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 06:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?Ok I'll def do that!!! | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?Yeah definitely! I've done that and yeah there are things that makes me feel worthy, but I had no successes yet so my mind is confused. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | How can I not get discouraged?True. I am the happiest when I am happy with myself. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?Yeah that's true. I am in my head cause I keep thinking "ok what else can I say" cause my end goal is to pick up the girl. But that's how it messes things up. Idk if you dealt with this but in my head when I talk to her I have the feeling of "am I enough?" And that causes me to be not myself a bit. How can I get over that "I am not enough" belief? | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?I need to write it down, but what I noticed is that I sometimes get awkward and "try hard". Basically not being my natural best self because I am nervous. I am able to get numbers easily but that's it. There was this one time this really attractive girl texted me because she saw a picture of me that my friend showed her. But then she told my friend that I was boring as hell, but it was texting so idk how to be "fun" over texting. So maybe I don't know how to properly tease/pull a girl? | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?I'm sorry man, but I know the feeling. I had depression to the point where I felt like that because I kept failing. It's not the failures per say that makes me feel down, but thinking that there's something wrong with ME. Have you gotten help tho? | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?Eh yeah I guess so. It's the whole "other people could have it worse" type of thinking, but how old are you? And why do you think you haven't had any success? | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I not get discouraged?Yeah I am. I don't have a wingman and don't know where to look for one. But I'm in the process of looking! An with being discouraged I guess you're right that pickup is a skill, but right now I'm feeling pretty low and want to regain my confidence back. Is it really possible that I can be with someone I truly want? | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I need advice and I'm kinda frustrated.How can I not "try hard"? Plus yes I'm kinda awkward when I talk to girls I find hot lol | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I need advice and I'm kinda frustrated.I had friends who were girls that says that I "try hard" and act arrogant around girls I find attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I need advice and I'm kinda frustrated.Maybe. That's the thing though. I've been trying to figure out what my problem is but no luck yet. I wish I had someone that could show me what I'm doing wrong. I have a friend who is a natural and he told me that his secret is to be carefree and super confident/arrogant, and he gets laid weekly lol | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | I need advice and I'm kinda frustrated.I have noticed that I can be awkward and "try hard" when talking to girls that I find attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | I need advice and I'm kinda frustrated.Yeah I am very sociable and able to make friends easily. I have a lot of guy friends and they are the popular/attractive type too. I have a sales job and making good money, but my passion or dream job is being a filmmaker so I make films. I am the creative artistic type so that's my area of talent but I am also building my business with some buddies of mine. I am funny from what I heard, I am smart and going to school getting my degree. But I'm really ambitious and success oriented. Plus I also … | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 01:43 AM |
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