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Who in their right mind will accept this kind of shit on the regular. Imagine that you are friends with someone and they'll be casually mentioning they are gonna cut you off, but not really though. Or working somewhere where they talk about hypothetically firing you, but maybe they'll let you work there. Whatever the reason, dealing with this kind of shit is not worth it.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:22 PM
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Accurate description. Falling for borderline traits usually doesn't happen to a healthy self-respecting individual. For some reason the defective coping resonated with some parts of the victim. Experienced the same, seen the same happen to the best men around me. In some way a gift; if it didn't ruin your life, you will grow stronger if you attempt to learn from the experience.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:28 AM
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From a scientific viewpoint, what we experience as 'being in love' are just chemicals released in the brain. Our brain is evolved so that we as humans are able to move around and motivated to reach certain goals, such as reproduction. Your brain is essentially tricking you in depositing your genes in a genetically interesting/healthy subject. Not saying that this means that meaningful relationships can't exist, but just giving some perspectives on what love could mean. To finish with something c…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:41 AM
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Vaginismus Might want to get some professional help instead of creating a negative feedback loop (associating sex with pain).
/r/askTRP30/03/19 07:40 AM
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Agreeing with the watch JP advice. Much more positive vibes than MGTOW.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:44 PM
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What do you mean with men's groups? As an introvert person I tend to share feelings only with a few close male friends I trust. Furthermore in professional relationships opening up can be a tool to gain rapport. People will have a sixth sense for bullshitting, so unless you're a professional liar, bits of true feelings have to be used. Finally, I agree that the fake stoic attitude - ignore feelings, act like immovable object - can be quite unhealthy in relationships. However LTR in general is se…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 07:50 AM
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I also get a bit neurotic when I let a conflict escalate instead of defusing it earlier on. But hey, what's done is done. Sometimes your ego gets in the way, don't overthink it unless this becomes a more frequent problem.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:53 PM
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Rome wasn't built in a day. You're on the right track, but not quite there yet. A year is a short time in the context of a whole life, maybe you want to see results too soon. Seems a boring university btw. Do you have any guy friends? Not to be harsh, but do you do anything interesting or fun going on besides lifting and studying?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:12 PM
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I hear you. With regards to the feelings of shame, have you read the rational male? It helped me be less overwhelmed when I was in a similar situation. A common misconception in the western pop media is that with regard to sex and relationships is that we should automatically know how to do it right. That it isn't something learned. That there's something wrong with you if you don't just 'get it'. I'm not sure to what extent this is true for you, but I definitely dealt with these cognitions. Ope…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:38 PM
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Have you considered psychotherapy? The existential problem you're describing is not uncommon in current society, however, I believe that through the loss of real contact between people (social media etc) we often feel that we're feeling alone and that we are the only ones experiencing it, and it is with this false belief in mind that we develop pathological patterns we cannot escape out of ourselves. Some people get there through self-help (e.g. TRP, books) or meaningful relationships (either fr…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 11:40 AM
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Hmm, you might have some personal stuff to deal with. As for the situation at hand, it's kinda unclear to me what your relation to these people is, or what the context is (highschool?) So the first thing I'd suggest - that is, if the friends you mention are real friends, - is to be honest about the whole thing. It seems to me that you panicked as you were overwhelmed by the sudden social pressure right at that moment. You could explain it to them by telling them that you started feeling unwell (…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:11 AM
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It's one of the pathological defence mechanisms: A psychological trick the unconscious plays that reduces anxiety arising from harmful or (socially) unacceptable stimuli. It's certainly not limited to LTRs. Wiki
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:36 AM
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Don't behave Chinesely? Idk what to say man, you're not really giving us anything useful. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:04 AM
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Hilarious post bro. Start getting more fiber in your diet. You know the drill, whole wheat, vegetables and all that healthy stuff. If that doesn't work you can get fiber powder at your farmacy. If this is something you always had issues with, maybe your pooping technique is subpar. Try to relax your pelvic floor, and get that anal sphincter all nice and open, ready for the black mamba. It is important not to push with your abdominal muscles, but just relax and let the train ride by itself. Do so…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:58 AM
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Maybe you're stressed out? I understand that taking time off isn't really an option right now. I'd say, try to talk about it to trusted friends, just go over the problem you're facing in different angles untill you feel that you found the hurdle you need to cross to get in the groove again. I like to remind myself that there are no failures, only results.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:33 AM
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Historically speaking foreigners took the shit jobs that nobody else wanted to do, so yes, they could improve quality of life. Nowadays we decided that they are humans too, that slavery is bad, but forgot that this means that they'll be fishing in the same pools unless we somehow made it more attractive to make them move to their own country. Let's say your country wages wars and steals resources from shitty developing countries. Taking all the wealth to the great West. Where do you think people…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:16 AM
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Insoles
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:56 PM
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Why do you feel that it's embarrassing? Don't think too much about it. First time sex with a new partner always has awkwardness to it, it really doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. If you desperately want to read something on the subject, the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose is the best I can recommend. Furthermore, check out Vince DiCarlo's escalation ladder, as it can give some practical pointers, maybe help you prepare for that first time.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:26 AM
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Sure
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:13 AM
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In general, you want to work with someone who cares more than you do about the outcome. The one who is able to care less has the most power in this situation. There are several ways to go about this, however, I sense you tried to play it like some manager, telling him what is what on the first day. Whenever I was on the receiving end of talks similar to yours, I knew I could get away with minimal input and get an above average grad for the assignment, as the other person was way too invested in …
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:18 AM
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Not to mention, most TRP posters seemingly are seeking some kind of "did I do good, dad?"-type of validation. Do you have some recommended reading material regarding your hypothesis? Interesting stuff.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 05:54 AM
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Same reason spoiled food belongs in the trash and not in your fridge. Keep your kitchen clean.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 02:48 PM
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Push and pull intermittently, within reason. You're going from one extreme (cold distant attitude) to the other (getting intimate/sex). Do you know those slot machines in Vegas? They are so addicting because of the unpredictable nature. Near misses (i.e. 7-7-cherry) make your reward system go nuts. Basically you want to elicit this feeling of unpredictable near misses with your girl. When going for a walk she thinks: Is he holding my hand or not? When she sees a notification on her phone: Is it …
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:51 PM
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Hmm, establishing frame in a preset power dynamic shouldn't be difficult in the first place, i.e. the client is always the one seeking help, thus elevating the consultant above the client prior to any interaction. By showing up a client shows willingness to enter your frame. It would be more interesting to see examples of keeping frame with coworkers and superiors, as it's a whole different playing field, I'd assume.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 04:55 PM
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Finish primary school and surround yourself with better friends also.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:49 PM
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Personal success, no question.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:45 PM
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So I was totally the same at your age, and my then LTR found me too asphyxiating, even while she was the one constantly texting for attention! It is not about the content of language, it is about the underlying message. Texting a lot=I spend a lot of my attention to you=my time is not more valuable than yours=maybe I'm not as much as a trophy at all=maybe you should find another FWB. Understanding why we advise certain behavior is key to furthering your TRP journey. A simpler exercise -> I say: …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:56 AM
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Actually be busy and reduce the texting. You're signalling to her that she is more important than whatever you're doing at the moment. As this now seems to be your LTR to be, some advice to pass comfort tests. Once in a while I like to reassert that I'd rather see her face to face instead of texting, and subsequently respond less. It's bordering meta-communication, very useful to defuse difficult situations in general. It may be a good middle ground for you, as you mention you feel stupid blatan…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:27 AM
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Re sex: Do you use a condom? If you don't want to pay alimony, you should be using one anyway, but maybe it could help with your premature ejaculation. Research if you can get your hands on thicker condoms or those condoms that numb your dick a bit. A big part of the problem is of course psychological, however, you need to break the vicious circle of fear of PE->not pulling->lower confidence->more fear, and maybe this will aid that. Re social interactions: Lacking time? You mean you don't priori…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 11:27 PM
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Re point 2, this is a game changer for sure. One of the most useful experiences of college and will definitely aid in decision making and analysing group dynamics. Also helped me tremendously with public speaking and how I carry myself.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:53 PM
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Get a good psychiatrist to treat you. Someone who is straight up, isn't a pill pusher and seems like he could be a role model.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:28 PM
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The better question would be, how your perspective on life changes through swallowing the red pill. While I am considering myself far from experienced, trp helped me accept the fact that we still are just animals on a basic level. Any evolutionary biologist can tell you that. Just beasts, designed to fuck in the prime time of our lives, get as much offspring of high genetic quality as possible, ready to jump anything that remotely resembles some nice curves. Everything else is just noise, distra…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:25 AM
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Different places attract different crowds. Sounds like you are dabbling in the wrong places. You are looking for - what Aristotle called - friendships of virtue, but only collected friendships of utility or pleasure. Truth is, at a certain point it is very difficult to find people worthy of a friendship of virtue. Maybe even so at higher socioeconomic classes, as it gets lonely at the top. As for maintaining old friends, who has use for old friends? If they were such important friends, they woul…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:57 PM
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So basically you are bored? And you are asking how to not be bored. Why didn't you do the things that you mentioned anyway. One of the most important things to keep in mind is that a career is just a career. A job is a job. Pussy is pussy. You don't have to be passionate about your job, it should just be challenging enough for you to stay engaged. And while some people make their career their lifestyle, it doesn't have to be. You should take some time to determine what then is your mission in th…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:41 PM
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Do check out what kind of laws might apply when secretly recording someone. Maybe also try to get some stuff in email or text, if she is likely to communicate threats that way.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:35 PM
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While this is the core message that OP needs to convey, is there not a more subtle approach? Somehow outlining it that explicitly, it feels more like he would be berating her, so that she would see it as some kind of punishment, and would be lacking intrinsic motivation. I would rather put a subtle focus of fitness in the interactions with a LTR, to the point that she herself talks about it to me and wants to workout together. For example, always eating healthy together, and sharing good butt wo…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:32 PM
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Next. Agreeing with u/Retspihi that she is definitely not LTR material. Being in a similar situation, I would absolutely not tolerate that kind of shit; that someone acts unstable to the extent of not being able to communicate their issues to you and then dropping you like a ball. Shit, considering getting back together is acknowledging that you would rather live in her frame than respect yourself and find a more suitable mate. Also I can imagine that those trips you planned with her play a role…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:11 PM
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How old are you? Maybe when your balls drop shit will change for you
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:25 AM
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Are you trolling
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:29 AM
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Check out /r/malefashionadvice for basic wardrobe tips. Most important tip is make sure that the clothes you wear fit properly. Dress according to the occasion. You will eventually develop your personal style.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:04 AM
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I don't really get the point of this post. The main point that make psychopaths interesting, is their great potential for ruthless and selfish gain, without any moral restrictions. It is hypothesized that this mainly had to do with their inability to feel empathy, I will get back to this later. Getting ahead ain't pretty at times, and most people are socially programmed to do the moral right thing, while they are in fact the stronger actor in a situation. Being weak just for the sake of morality…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 12:23 AM
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Thus spoke Zarathustra
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:50 AM
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Do you even read sidebars bro? That you're sharing all this info while describing yourself as 'very private' is puzzling to me. Anyway, you gave the answer yourself: You are in an interesting career path and have a vision for where you want to be in life. Cool. Focus on that. Create options yourself.
/r/becomeaman10/06/17 02:28 AM
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Assume value. Talk less often, no more than necessary. This increases the value of your sayings to some extent. Why would anyone want to interrupt such valuable input, a rare sighting. It may be a little difficult at first, but being consistent in conveying your value in this way will ultimately result in people quieting down if you start to speak. The practical aspects of it: Speak loud and clear, but don't shout. You can train this by speaking from your 'belly', projecting your voice. Articula…
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:58 AM
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No. But it depends. Let's say you drink a few beers once in a while, because you enjoy it, but you can also enjoy yourself without booze and it doesn't control your life in any way. Sure, go ahead and enjoy your beer. I guess the same could hold for what you call 'oxytocin'. As oxytocin is thought to be involved in intimate behavior like trust and cuddling, and ultimately dopamine and your reward system makes this behavior feel good, the question I answered is more like: "Is it okay to sometimes…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:49 AM
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Try to use your time. What I mean: for example, you need to study for a test. You have 4 hours till lunch. To make most of those four hours, try to plan them accordingly. You'll almost certainly procrastinate. Just accept that fact and plan procrastination time. It is better to have planned 4x 15 min of procrastination, and have efficiently worked for 3 hours, then to try and work for 4 hours, lose focus after 1 hour, watching YouTube videos for the remaining 3 hours. This kind of mindset worked…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:43 PM
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Being a nice guy is the opposite of being good to people. People don't want a nice guy, they have their mom for that. They want a strong leader, someone who tells them what to do, someone that is not easily thrown of his feet, a sturdy rock. I suggest reading into stoic philosophy, start thinking in virtues instead of being nice. Take care man.
/r/becomeaman24/02/16 07:19 AM
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I would argue that being stoic has more to do with not letting mundane shit affect you, and less about showing no emotions. You're not a robot. Just be proportionate in your emotional behavior.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:50 PM
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Sunken cost fallacy. Not saying that it is just or unjust though. It is sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:50 AM
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How old are you? Sometimes this 'getting over awkwardness' comes with age. Do you experience this with both guys and girls? Anyway, going on a limp here; you haven't read trp's sidebar. Would recommend doing so.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:10 PM
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What do you really want to hear? Besides our biological duties mentioned by u/SarsaparillaCorona you make your own purpose in life. Get some advice from someone with life experience and a mindset you admire and respect. Preferably also someone with some knowledge about medicine. Getting this kind advice about life decisions from reddit just seems idiotic to me. I am also guessing that you wouldn't listen to any of it anyway, being the stubborn teenager you make yourself sound like.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 05:28 PM
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Look into getting some therapy son. You don't seem very content with your current state of being and your disorders could be hampering any improvement you try to achieve.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 01:01 PM
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No
/r/askTRP16/12/15 01:19 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/trackers/comments/hrgmv/tracker_with_pdfsebooks_of_college_textbooks/c1xrq44 very useful for getting ebooks in general.
/r/RedPillBooks06/12/15 02:02 PM
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It's not about the subject, but about the way you present it. I could talk about the social hierarchy system in mice and people would think it is the greatest subject in the world if I can sell it well. Work on your public speaking skills, engage your audience and be actually knowledgable about your subject. Don't forget to adjust your presentation to the intellectual level of your audience. If people cannot comprehend the subject, they will be bored and think you are boring. Short answer: Choos…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:34 AM
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So I'm going to suggest judo. It's not really usefull in a legit fight, but I don't think that's the key point of training in any martial art. All martial arts will teach you a certain set of values and skills. I really liked judo because size and strength didn't really matter, it mostly came down to technique. There's something very calming to executing a well planned move or countering an unsuspecting opponent. Training kata also brings/needs lots of discipline, learning the moves is rarely an…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:16 PM
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I'd say that manliness always comes back to paternal features, like being able to protect, provide, lead, be socially dominant etc. The art of manliness has an interesting write-up about manhood. Personally I especially value stoicism as manly characteristic, as a real man should always be in control of his emotions. As a rock in an ocean of emotions of the less stable. To me, moments of admiring manliness happened primarily in teaching settings. My judo sensei was very inspiring in the spiritua…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:18 PM
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Your SMV gets some hits in the eyes of female doctors, but I don't think it really matters in the eyes of other girls. Maybe redundant, but don't shit where you eat really holds true for nursing. Nurses seem to be fueled purely by gossip and taking long coffee breaks. It gets as bad as convincing the board that their colleague killed patients, just because the nurse was known as a 'weirdo' through gossip.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:14 PM
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