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God damn, I didn't know how bad I needed this right now...
/r/seduction28/08/20 03:06 PM
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Holy shit man! That's what I'm dealing with on my current LTR. I believe it's almost impossible to for them to stay in your frame, no matter how strong it is, if they have daddy issues. The father of my LTR left her family due to drinking problems and later found another family. I believed this wouldn't affect her as much as she was around 10-12 yes old when that happened but oh I was so wrong. Her ability to fully trust and lose some of that control at all times is impossible. Yes she has momen…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 01:06 PM
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Man I relate to this so much right now. The girl is really invested in me - Has changed her future plans for me - Offered to assist me getting/paying some of the down payment on a new place just for me - Shows her femininity only towards me and young kids - respects and treats me well and puts me at her top priority - And many other green flags But her past is the only stain of the great girlfriend she is. It's true that she went through that period after/during a tough time in her life in regar…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:46 PM
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Not endearing at all, and that's what bothers me.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:03 AM
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Well I'm used to girls calling me babe I'm LTR but she's also my first white LTR plus from a different city.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:48 AM
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She sometimes just lays there like a dead starfish and others she's the biggest freak. I for sure need to improve my dread game but with this quarantine, it's more difficult for sure.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:45 AM
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Not sure, babe or dear. I'm from the south btw
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:44 AM
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That's makes perfect sense to me, now. That supports on the idea that other women find you attractive if your girl is attractive.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:29 PM
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Not insecure at all. I explained my perspective on the subject in another comment: "Now to answer the second paragraph, I believe a women who willingly shows off her body, while in a relationship, is a women who doesn't value the idea that what makes her attractive is for her guy's eyes only. A girl that still shows off is a girl that is still wanting male attention/validation thus not LTR material behavior. Plus I was raised in a conservative family so that's part of why as well." What makes a …
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:23 PM
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Thanks, man! Will try that method when the situations arises
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:33 PM
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In that situation she is asking, that's not the problem. What I am asking is how do you frame your answer so it sounds that it comes from values and personal standards and not from insecurities, which is not the case.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:03 PM
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I do agree that there are women that rationalize their behavior with that thought, but then I ask myself "if I don't need external validation from other men to know how lucky I am that my girl is hot, then why is she trying to make them jealous?" I do agree that her behavior when she's alone is the real deal.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 05:10 PM
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Thanks for the reminders and advise. Now to answer the second paragraph, I believe a women who willingly shows off her body, while in a relationship, is a women who doesn't value the idea that what makes her attractive is for her guy's eyes only. A girl that still shows off is a girl that is still wanting male attention/validation thus not LTR material behavior. Plus I was raised in a conservative family so that's part of why as well.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 04:52 PM
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You ACT. You don't REACT.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 01:16 AM
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Hmm will keep that in mind. Thanks
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:19 PM
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When it comes to disconnect, would it be possible you can make a post about it? Like signs of disconnect or simply just your anecdotal experience
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:31 PM
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Obviously in a non autistic manner, but just have a good time seeing her validate to what you like in a girls
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:40 AM
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You don't do things out of demonstration. You do things out of your frame. I know you might need some type of closure from this girl, but think about it, she never showed interest of her needing closure from you. So why out the effort right now, when she hasn't out hers.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:39 AM
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Can you cook? Edit: anything that will get her to "sell" herself.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:32 AM
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Salvage? Hey man that means you have onities. Take a step back and rethink where you should prioritize your time/attention.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:31 AM
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What's your notch?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:36 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:58 PM
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Are you possibly depressed?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:26 AM
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Yeah I came her to get past her past, not her. What point are you trying to come up? Plus I needed to respond to your responses. Not much of rationalization
/r/askTRP04/05/20 08:17 AM
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For me I like to find a woman that chases a man. Not women that are chased by men. Once you do, and if you stay the course of your goals, they'll add "fire" to your heart. Unlike the broken girls that turn your heart "cold" and kill off your passion of being a man. So for me an LTR that knows what's good for me and my mission.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:45 PM
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It's really possible that you are overrating her rare green flags and overlooking her red flags because of your feelings. It's really possible that you are overrating her rare green flags and overlooking her red flags because of your feelings. Possible, but I can easily compartmentalize (childhood coping mechanism, on the spectrum of sociopathy) my emotions from the decision making. Could be her mirroring you. Not possible since I don't enjoy sharing my thinking process and/or beliefs. Based on …
/r/askTRP03/05/20 10:37 PM
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A good girl comes from a good family I agree. ​ If you were able to get 30 pussies under a year, why in hell would you settle down with an LTR? Because an LTR provides exactly what I want from a woman. Now to why I made her LTR? We both clicked really fast. I never met someone I could relate to as much before. Showed great feminine (and Motherly?) behaviors and features from the get-go. More green flags than red since the red once are all from her past and didn't give enough importance due them …
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:28 PM
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Promiscuous past that lasted about a year an a half. Some rough childhood moments, but nothing extreme. (Ex. Divorced parents) She revealed them to me while she was a plate. My second LTR. First lasted 6 yrs. Have a notch count of around 25-30 in between (just under a year) Lifting my own body weight every day. I don't believe so.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:00 PM
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"Her past..." That's what I'm currently having a difficulty of letting go. I really need to resolve this as it's the only thing that's stopping me from fully enjoying my LTR. I didn't think much about her past at first, but as I got closer and more attached, thinking about it for just a sec ruins the mood and I start to become distant towards her. Any help would be appreciated.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:17 PM
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Based on this post alone, it's evidently true that you haven't read No More Mr Niceguy
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:41 PM
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Frame is having a belief system or core values and you sticking to them no matter what. That's as simple as it gets.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:25 AM
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Of course. Not that I have done it, but if I was in a LTR with a really good girl with low red flags, but I just didn't connect with her, I'll beta the fuck out her so I won't scar her, aka alpha widow.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:14 AM
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You always win if you put yourself first aka "take it or leave it." You enjoy and bring the good times. She's not on the same page? Who cares. You don't react to her shit-test attempt at bringing you down. You act on your frame/mission of having a good time no matter what.
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:50 AM
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Exactly. It's my go to response for good behavior
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:09 AM
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If you're tired of it then either don't reply or bring it up to her. Not that complicated
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:30 AM
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Manly? Fuck off with that shit. You want more intimate shit. Honestly, just say "good girl". She needs someone to submit to, not someone to tickle and be cute. Stay in your frame. Don't fall under hers by going with what she "expects"
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:28 AM
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Yeah I can see now why it's counterintuitive to tell your GF about your past.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 06:45 AM
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The matrix
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:14 AM
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Will do!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:13 PM
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Well the topic was on that we all have some rough history. It's how we deal with it that matters. But I do agree, I'm confident that I'm in the safe zone, I just needed another way to express those thoughts or feelings and I think just talking to myself loud about them will do the trick.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:09 PM
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I will for sure voice record myself talking through my thought process and zip those files in a password protected folder. Due to my coping mechanism talking to someone will not work in my favor, but I have never thought about the idea of just talking to myself out loud about it. Thank for the help, man!
/r/askTRP27/04/20 05:05 PM
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Well the feeling of pushing people away it's what I'm currently dealing with right now. Regardless if it's the gf or a friend. But my current plan was to keep on pretending as if nothing happened. Be unfazed. Try to enjoy the little things again.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:51 PM
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You have time. Try to read both. Once you do, come back and give us which one you think it's the better one or the present what are the strengths and weakness of each book.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 03:19 PM
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By her showing confirmation that she's still in your frame, that's signs of good behavior. Not that complicated
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:46 PM
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They truly don't.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:14 PM
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Because she's expecting for you to say "I miss you too" so you can be set in her frame, but you know she's the one missing you not the other way around, so what do you do? You flip it on her. If she complies, that shows good behavior by answering the question seriously thus keeping her in your frame.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:10 PM
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We're talking about plates here. Nothing more than sexual fun. Telling her to be a good girl is affirming that what she said or did puts her in your frame and it's satisfying her role in the relationship. Ex. Her: Do you miss me? Me: The right question is 'why do you miss me?' Her: Well because you make me feel like blah blah blah Me: Good girl
/r/askTRP25/04/20 02:25 AM
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By telling her she's being a "good girl" and obviously some attention. She's a plate. Not a FWB or LTR.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:24 AM
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That's what he's talking about. Being able to be confident enough with your own body
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:23 PM
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In my experience, these girls are broken. They fall for the vision that they can help them to be better or the "poor them for having a rough past" mentality.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:47 PM
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Because it's the internet, bud. I can post whatever I feel like it. If others I agree, that's cool. If others don't, that's cool too.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:15 AM
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I'm happy with my relationships as well. I don't care what they think. That's my perception of the current societal status.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:56 AM
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The quality of women dropped. The quality of men dropped. Both are suffering from the incompetent societal bullshit we keep telling barfing to kids and parents of what's "correct"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:17 AM
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Learning to play guitar. Trading stocks, options, ETFs. Meditating.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:38 AM
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Sure will, captain
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:34 AM
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I made the decision as I'm available for THAT day. It's not that complicated. Plus gyms are closed, so why not lift something else than my own body weight for once. I'm not sure what's your problem, bud, but I hope you're having a good night.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:30 AM
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Of course! Me neither, but I didn't have anything planned that day, that's why I'm helping them. It's not a big deal anyway, plus it would be a good workout!
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:30 AM
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That's for sure a true thing. Will keep in mind!
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:27 AM
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Hmm never thought of that. Also, it's rare for me to ask my mom for advice but I'll see where that goes. Thanks!
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:27 AM
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What's funny? I'm just helping them around since they don't have a pick-up truck that could load heavy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:23 AM
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Not possible as I'm assisting them on moving some furniture.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:14 AM
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But she's a plate. You don't demote Plate >>> FWB. By demoting a plate is by nexting her.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:50 PM
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She's riding on my journey.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:40 AM
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She's definitely is, so far. Still have to keep focus on what's important and my goals.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:20 AM
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Yes this is very evidently true. Before I made my current main girl an LTR, she literally changed her months planned goals just so she can stick around while I finish my engineering degree (at least two more years), since she graduates this summer, "just in case I needed help." This was after being my FWB, and knowing me, for two months.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:48 AM
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Bro what are you even talking about. Wasting people's time here with this stupid post. Stop being lazy or use drugs as a cushion and start working on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:23 PM
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You're over thinking, bud. Next time you see her or talk, just pretend like if it never happens. Like we said, TRP gives you the ability and self-respect compass to let you know that if, and only if, things go south or she crosses a boundary then you be able to leave as there are many options out there.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:03 PM
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7.5 at most bud
/r/askTRP11/04/20 06:23 AM
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Ejaculate, evacuate.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:53 AM
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What do you want from these girls? ONS, plate, FWB, LTR?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:32 AM
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Sounds good. Thanks, man!
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:17 PM
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It's not nice guy mentality. I'm talking about the feeling you get when you're cheating on your girl. Excitement with some layer of anxiety from wrong doing since the emotions are still attached to her. Even though I dumped her, I still have an attachment towards her. It's not because I talk to her or because I want to have an attachment. I don't. I just do and that's the problem. I still have one. Thinking of going to monk mode to help on releasing those attachments. What do you think?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:43 PM
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Not talking to her. And I didn't get cheated on. I dumped her for her own good.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:35 PM
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Haha thanks for the laugh, man!
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:23 PM
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I do need time for myself. That's something I haven't gotten since my teenage years...
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:21 AM
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Yeah it seems like it. Any recommendations on helping me move on? Is it something that with time it will improve?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:27 AM
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I see. Do you think I'm doing a disservice to myself by seeing these girls? Maybe for the wrong reasons (just to move on)?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:18 PM
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I will try this more. Thank for the advice, man!
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:51 PM
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All of these girls have no passion. Have no heart. All there could have been is filled with what broke her. They're not worth my time.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:18 PM
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No more Mr.NiceGuy, anything with NLP, amused mastery
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:00 AM
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First time: getting too much attention. Second time: doesn't add anything for me and it's a time waster.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 02:57 AM
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Don't make her the reasons of the failures you have complete control of. I know that because I learned it the hard way. I wished I didn't had to force her out of my life thinking she was the one to blame when I hardly took a good look at myself. Even after meeting so many women, no one came close to her. Have a plan to improve and attack it. Everything else will resolve itself out. Good luck my man.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:54 PM
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Exactly! Thanks man for putting how I view the situation in better worlds than I ever could
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:40 PM
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Well I'm about to be 24 in a month. Have been practicing red pill since I was 17-18. As I have gotten older, I have realize what things are really important in life and to me. Overtime sex with plates just felt so empty. Like a numb feeling. Sex and my time with all of these broken girls for what? They add nothing to me. I would rather spend my time with a woman that values me, shows gratitude, and the right amount of intimacy to which I feel the same, who's btw lucky to have sex with me. Someon…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:32 PM
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Damn man, it's like if I wrote it myself.... I guess it protect us from women with many red flags, or as I see it, women not worth my time/investment.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 04:44 AM
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Thanks, man! I always felt that maybe it was a problem from my side or something for wanting that intimacy as well. Glad it's normal
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:17 AM
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Is it bad that if there's no emotional connection, or not in "sync", I can't get as turned on or hard? I noticed this once I made a girl into a LTR after spinning so many plates, sex was a lot more satisfying for me.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 12:16 AM
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Holy shit. I identify so much with that quote. Since I was a small kid I have never been given the support I needed when times where down so I learned to hide it by becoming numb. Now that I'm an adult (23), being numb feels like being in home. It's comfortable but also very dangerous. The thing is I sometimes need to be numb in order to be productive, if not I'll just lose to the inner demons and be sad or anxious. But if you were to ask if I would go back in time to tell something to my younge…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:41 AM
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Text for logistics but since we're human too, ping her as well.
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:02 AM
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The feeling of loneliness is not that if you're lonely or not, it's nothing more than a mental state. How's that true? People can feel lonely even if they have a great support system. Now how do you change that mentality? Easier said than done, but by being comfortable with being alone. Learning to enjoy life while alone it's pretty difficult but could be done. Wish you the best, brother.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:41 PM
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"How does that feel? Missing me"
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:59 PM
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Because of volatility is high right now. Not many people know this but you can still make money while we're experiencing a downward trend (shorting).
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:53 PM
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You care because you're living in this paradigm where people care about the specifications of your appearance. No one literally gives a shit because even if you fuck a girl she'll forget about your ass in a week or two. Now answer me, why the fuck would you continue to live your life caring what people think about you. I rather be confident, successful, and ugly af than have a decent looking face but just waste my time being depressed just because the spacing if my fucking eye balls are not "per…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:02 PM
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Who fucking cares man. You're wasting my time here
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:58 PM
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You need help. Stop looking at that crap and learn to confident with your body.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:32 PM
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Well in situation B I start thinking about skipping the small talk and head straight to my intentions of texting the girl (Remember logistics only). Ex. Me: Hey how's going? Her: it's going well Me: That's good. Hey I'm going to be at X around Y. You should join me. (Or whatever)
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:21 PM
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Water is wet. The most valuable commodity we could give to women is attention. Men who give it freely, will always have a bad time. Only give it when it's appropriate (good behavior).
/r/seduction22/03/20 12:43 PM
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That's because if you look at the sub for the past few weeks, there's many thread just like yours, bud. And just like you said that we're in a unique situation thus require unique solutions. Invest in yourself.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:20 AM
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Man mods should just delete posts like this. Asking for external validation on a predetermined decision. If you want to fuck while this shit is happening go at it. But don't be complaining if no one wants your thirsty dick or you get your ass sick. I would take this opportunity to invest in yourself instead of worrying about some pussy.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:05 AM
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The best since I started trading options back in December.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:47 PM
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Rejection is very much a shit test. While studying at school library, I overheard two girls basically laugh and agree on that they can't wait for a guy to approach them so they could tell him no.
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:23 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:32 PM
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I just have attachments issues since I was a kid, that's all. I'm afraid of getting attached too soon or just attached just in general thinking they'll lose attraction towards me.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:20 PM
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Oh, no revenge what so ever. More than anything is to protect myself from getting attached.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:56 PM
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I see your point. It's just that this is the first time a plate or FWB is doing all of this without being upfront about it and well it got me thinking, that's all. & By drop I mean hard next. No contact and deletion.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:31 PM
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I'm currently a student studying for Petroleum Engineer and am diagnosed with ADD. Wish I could help you.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:14 PM
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Will look into it. I appreciate it man!
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:06 PM
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Thank you, man! Thankfully the counselors at my University are "Free" but might have a lower chance of finding one with RP ideas. I'm going to look into FB. Thanks for the suggestions
/r/askTRP09/03/20 06:06 PM
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Well you're breaking frame now that you're worrying about it. All you can really do is move on
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:06 AM
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Thanks, man!
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:58 AM
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Oh I have, everything is good, just the psychological aspect I have to fix
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:39 AM
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I'm currently dealing with this myself and I think it has to do with how comfortable you're sexually with the chick and prioritization. Be comfortable with who/how you are and focus on your needs.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:57 PM
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Man I wished I had your problem of always feeling horny. I could hardly have an erection and I'm 23... But anyways, I would suggest to use that temptation to masturbate in something more productive (working out, books, cleaning, etc) Keeping your mind, and possibly your body, busy is key because once you're in a state of boredom you're mind will tend to crave things that are exciting.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:54 PM
5

Trump for the sake of the country. And before any of you say anything, I'm not white.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:33 PM
3

Stay in your frame bud
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:58 PM
3

Graduate college with eng degree Save money from long and successful career Find a way to help young boys/men in this anti-masculinity era using saved money. Change at least one boy's/man's life
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:26 PM
2

Yeah that's my mentality right now. I'm already expecting of her not letting me know. Going to approach my weekend accordingly and have a great time. If she lets me know, that's cool. If she doesn't, that's cool too.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:01 AM
2

Yeah you're right! Chasing her would definitely not help my case. Have to refocus to what makes me happier (achieving goals). Edit: She just replied back "sounds good I'll let you know when I'm free" which is still not satisfactory to me. Wondering what to reply back.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 11:09 PM
1

Well I'm not OP but I do agree she's nothing but a casual
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:58 PM
1

Well I cared because she's the only chick I saw LTR potential from all of the plates I have spun. But thank you, man! I guess I needed to be reminded of what's reality. I'll try my best to not initiate conversation from now on. It's going to be difficult, but it's what I have to do.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:57 PM
1

I don't know probably earrings or something. Ask him bud.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:31 PM
1

I think he left his phone recording where his mutual friends and ex-fwb were (ex. Living room) while he went to the bathroom.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:00 PM
1

It means that the father is not whipped by the wife. Authoritarian fathers are needed more than ever.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:11 AM
8

Just do what Gucci Mane did, propose to his wife like if he was watering his plants.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:17 AM
1

I just out of an 6+ year LTR, but initially I was beta af. That is what motivated me to look up on Google hot be dominant in a relationship, and that's how I found trp. Throughout my journey of turning "alpha" there were some resistance but she complied very easily and quickly became her first priority. I would say it depends on the girl and by that it depends on how healthy is the relationship between her and her father and if her father runs the show in her home.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:37 PM
-1

Hmmm i has worked for me as they see it as a "challenge" or question themselves "what the fuck not me", but that's my anecdotal.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:07 PM
-3

Not you or Today? Not you
/r/askTRP01/03/20 04:27 PM
1

But I'm not, these girls are 7+. I never had a problem before but ever since last summer where I was located in a place where I couldn't fuck so I just watched porn to get off, I have been having problems getting an erection
/r/MensRights27/02/20 04:05 PM
2

Ask yourself this: do people first become friends then fuck all on the same day? You don't need to go through the friendship route because then you're sending mix signals when you try to escalate. Just ask your crush out for a date/meet up. You don't have anything to lose by asking
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:08 PM
1

Huh I thought porn ED was a legit thing since that's what I'm dealing with right now. (Erection with porn but not with girls)
/r/MensRights27/02/20 02:27 PM
2

BJJ and muay thai are my favorite, go for it bud.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:36 AM
5

No problem, bud!
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:13 PM
13

Good, and remember it's okay if you make mistakes. Learn from them and move on to the next girl
/r/askTRP22/02/20 11:04 PM
21

Attraction has to start in the date. There's no way to get into her place if she's not thinking about fucking you before you drop her off.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:34 PM
2

Cut it off. Move on and focus on your studies.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 07:05 AM
1

Oh wow even Zinc? I didn't know that, thanks bud!
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:39 PM
2

Because they don't have authoritarian fathers and motherly moms.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:34 PM
5

More respect for myself. Self-reliance. Personal growth with an open mind.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:47 AM
1

Yeah I might be depressed, the thing is I just can't tell. I lived with depression throughout my life ever since a trauma in my childhood. I think I feel good but could be I just feel numb. I just don't feel good, bud. I need someone.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:58 AM
14

Sometimes you have to wear the mask that others like. Up to you.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:51 AM
1

I always wondered if men are born or made?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:23 AM
1

I sure will, thanks man
/r/askTRP18/02/20 11:08 PM
1

About a month ago
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:24 PM
1

Reason is because this problem started way before I started taking dut. Since I already had low libido or erections I said to myself what difference it's going to make. Dut does help a lot, but if this is something I want to improve, I have to cut it off.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:07 PM
1

I know, that's why I started taking it, but not anymore. This problem goes beyond dutasteride.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 10:04 PM
1

Rarely. Last time was more than a week ago.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:34 PM
1

Definitely worth it. I got bigger and stronger. I did have vivid dreams for the first two weeks.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:07 PM
2

It's all good! For total I got 757 ng/dL, for free I got 117.9 pg/mL.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:23 PM
1

I have thought about it, but if I can recall correctly, the problem started about three months before I started taking sarms, so I ruled that out of the possibilities.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:13 PM
1

I appreciate it, man! Now to answer your questions: But do consider, have you gone through some intense relationship trauma? - Not sure what you mean by relationship problem. Do you think of 'her' while having sex to get off? - My ex or the girl I am fingering at that moment? Do you have fear of getting intimate? - That's a tough one since TRP advice on not getting intimate with one person. Do you lack confidence in bed? - I don't think so. I am pretty good in bed prior to this problem. Do you t…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:10 PM
0

Man it's tough with the idea of not having at least one girl around to "fuck" or chill with since I can't remember a time in my life were I didn't have a "GF". It's a very difficult advise for me to follow, but I know it's what I need to do. Thanks man
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:07 PM
3

I stated that my total/free testosterone is above avg. I got that tested last week thinking it was that, but it wasn't.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:02 PM
2

I day trade stocks so not that stressful, pretty manageable. I am also a full time engineering student. Sleep could be a problem at times, but have improved a lot in the past two months. Now, stressful period? Absolutely. Four days ago, I broke up with my LTR of 6 years and had to move her out of my place. Nothing wrong with the girl just didn't feel attracted to her anymore. But this problem has been very persistent for many months before the break up.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 05:28 PM
2

Yeah problem started while with ex. Didn't have problems having sex with her or any of the sides. Not sure what happened but I just stopped "feeling it" out of nowhere or my libido dropped.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:57 PM
1

Move to another small city. Best of both worlds
/r/askTRP01/02/20 03:26 AM
1

Well I'm still in college but day trading stocks is doing pretty good for me.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:56 PM
6

That's not the point even though I wouldn't be surprised he did the same. Haha The point is no one should be above the law, regardless how good looking you are.
/r/PussyPass29/01/20 11:56 AM
36

You're the problem.
/r/PussyPass29/01/20 04:33 AM
3

How old are you?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:02 PM
0

Yeah because that makes this whole situation totally right. Like I said, regardless of what the boy wanted, she is considered an adult and should have the responsibility and maturity to stop this. The moment she let this continues it becomes unethical and illegal. Smmfh
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 06:44 PM
0

You accused me of avoiding the question, and I explained why I didn't answer the question.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:57 PM
2

Your question is your argument. Not much to it
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:55 PM
4

What question, when your argument is backed by thinking the kid could in no way be influenced by someone in a higher position and better looks to make a rational decision. Come on.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:52 PM
5

Whatever the kid wanted is out of the question when you're dealing with an adult who should have the maturity of not to have sex with an underage kid.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:48 PM
9

Coercion means by force or threat. That's not the manipulation I'm talking about.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:43 PM
21

Fuck off with that mentality. This is why many of them get light sentencing. By thinking that the boy wanted it and in no way was manipulated, it should nit be a big deal this light sentencing.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/20 05:01 PM
4

As long you're having a good time with them bud, it's all what matters. No need for external validation
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:23 AM
1

Thanks for this, man!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 04:04 AM
2

Juicy J then fuck with the beat bro
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:18 AM
1

Bud you need some help if you're this insecure
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:54 AM
7

Losing so much
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:50 AM
1

Ask yourself what are you scared of?
/r/askTRP20/12/19 02:59 AM
-1

MeToo the Cons outweighs the Pros. It does demonize men not only in approaching but to believe in women regardless of evidence.
/r/seduction19/12/19 08:07 AM
35

Bro wtf is this crap. A whole post just for this low hanging fruit?! Give me and the people here a break and do somw shit. Learn from your mistake and capitalize on the good outcomes. Smh
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:52 AM
10

In my eyes, no. Making an "alpha widow" is nothing more as impressive as being able to decline a job offer from McDonald's. I would be more impressed if you purposely didn't made her an alpha widow at the end, right before the break up, so she can move on from her life more easily.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:48 AM
1

The word you're looking for is envy. Jealousy is a bad unhealthy mentality to have. Envy is what builds growth. Jealousy is what builds small growth at the expense of other's success.
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:41 AM
5

Oh I see, thanks for the clear up
/r/MensRights16/12/19 09:14 PM
3

Because they use their "inequalities" to justify being cunts to others
/r/MensRights16/12/19 09:00 PM
16

Still doesn't justify throwing a blind man out of the subway
/r/MensRights16/12/19 08:54 PM
1

Check the way back machine archives of the site?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:53 AM
8

And here guys is why #MeToo exists. This is their plan all along.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 09:40 PM
45

Talk to her. We tend to think less of things once we have them.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:07 AM
1

Not at all. I hate doing both, but I have to do them.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 08:59 PM
15

In basic terms, Don't be a mouth breather.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 06:58 PM
3

Why do people watch/like movies?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:35 AM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:01 AM
1

It's pretty common, but as time goes by, to some it will become more difficult as old habits, originating from the LTR, that need to die that might have stuck around longer. Use this as momentum to keep on pushing and keep yourself busy.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:46 AM
1

Bro wtf lmao Creatine is received by also eating meat. You can't compare it to steroids or SARMs lol Of course it's recommend as it's a basic supplement that helps you push through the workout and also gain weight due to water retention
/r/askTRP10/11/19 08:31 PM
1

I totally live by this rule. Even if she initiated the conversation, I'm always busy, so I let her know that's not the time right now
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:55 PM
1

That's literally what a cuck is by nature.
/r/MensRights07/11/19 02:05 AM
2

No op but I live in the US, and they look down whenever, for example, we're getting closer as we walk towards each other. Is that some kind of submission or...?
/r/seduction06/11/19 03:27 AM
1

Did you set up the date in person or through text?
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:40 PM
1

Let us know when you have it for Android
/r/seduction04/11/19 06:35 PM
2

Move on and improve on yourself bud.
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:35 AM
1

Yup pretty much. Most do the routine either P/P/L [REST] P/P/L or P/P/L/P/P/L[Rest]
/r/askTRP29/10/19 03:44 AM
3

Awesome because, even though I found it at a young age 16-17, everything in regards to my past relationship with girls made sense.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:54 AM
4

Only way to break this cycle is to either start being vocal with our problems and to make sure someone is something about it.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 01:59 AM
1

It's pretty common with freshman girls. They do all this dumb shit just so they can feel validated to the upperclassmen. And no it's not really a sign of attraction since she will just branch up to another person once she gets your validation
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:25 AM
1

Don't do 5x5. Start with Coolcicada's PPL from bb forums
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:55 AM
1

Man at this point I can't tell anymore if they're being real or just trolls
/r/MensRights28/10/19 08:37 PM
2

Bro go lift some weights. A simple 5x5 starting strength or beginners PPL would do wonders for you. I don't really know your daily schedule but if possible workout in the mornings to stay ahead of everyone and you'll feel great throughout the day.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:56 PM
1

"One, Two, Three, Go!"
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:16 AM
2

Yup lol, the thing is it feels like semesters are going by faster and faster. Not sure if that's a good thing though
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:50 AM
7

That's good, keep at it. Focus on your career and don't get fixated on what/how a girl response. Just move on to the next one as your time is valuable.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:45 AM
5

Exactly! I'm on a eng (PE) degree (sophomore), with my buds as well, and whenever they bring up a problem they're having with a random chick I always tell them to think about the question, "Bro what's going to make you happier: having your eng degree or having sex with random girls you meet at the bar/club?" They just stay quiet then I continue with "good, now focus what's most important now and fuck off whatever is not that"
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:35 AM
1

Fix your mental health before meeting people.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:21 AM
11

Bro just move on. You're on your last year of college for God's sake. Focus on more important things. She will drag you down.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:11 AM
1

Mate, you're good! Don't let her age get in her your head and just act accordingly.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:36 AM
2

No problem bud! Everytime I have a problem like this, before I assume anything else, I always check if my health is all good. I would also periodically get some blood work done to see if I'm deficient in something.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:24 PM
10

In my opinion it begins to be a problem once it affects your goals, ex. college, orvyiu just don't fuck them at all. Now ask yourself these questions: -Do I sleep enough each night? -Am I eating the right nutrients? -Am I watching porn? -Can I masturbate to the idea of fucking a cute/hot girl? (Without porn) -Am I physically active?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:50 PM
1

What's looksmaxing? Never heard of this
/r/askTRP18/10/19 12:27 AM
6

What's probably happening here, as I have experienced this many many times, is that she thinks you need space since you're acting distant from her perspective. I'm not sure how long this LTR has been going on, but usually happens when it's relativity new since the dynamic between you two is yet to fully settle.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:25 AM
12

One I never understood is that why are mothers the biggest abuser to their kids and why is that boys get abused more than girls do.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 12:58 PM
1

Alright the best way to be confident is to try and fail many, many, many times. Once you find success, that's where your true confidence will come through. Knowing what you're capable of doing (amount of success) plus not being afraid to fail and open to learn from mistakes is the apex of confidence.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:50 AM
1

Alright the best way to be confident is to try and fail many, many, many times. Once you find success, that's where your true confidence will come through. Knowing what you're capable of doing (amount of success) plus not being afraid to fail and open to learn from mistakes is the apex of confidence.
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:50 AM
3

This is a no-brainer bro. Don't do it. Not worth losing a friendship over any women especially cheating low hanging fruit.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:41 AM
4

First, I want to state that how these problems are resolved depends on the person in question. No one method is an all answer for all. How I did it is basically CBT (Cognitive behavioral therapy). I realized that this is a problem I need to fix before I do anymore socializing, especially with the women I'm attracted to. The following step after acknowledging that the problem exist, is by "teaching" myself how to live my life happily without the need of female validation or emotional/physical sup…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:17 AM
2

Well first ask yourself why you want to look more attractive. Is it because it makes you feel good, or is it to be more attractive for the girls. If you said the second one, then you're already losing by nit having the right state of mind. Once you fix that, then what you can do to be more attractive is: first: obviously put effort on grooming. second: work on liking the way your body looks in healthy ways (ex. Lift weights) third: work on your charisma. That will take you way farther than looks…
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:07 AM
13

Well that's where the problem roots from, but that's okay. I have dealt with it before. Realize that during your younger years of your life, the relationship with your mom was not as great as it could be. Maybe she wasn't there emotionally or physically, but because of this, now you seek that female love as an adult that you probably missed during your younger years. And it doesn't matter how you have it now with your mom, is how it was back then in time where it hurt the most. This could explai…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:00 AM
2

He's basically saying that if you're not attractive or don't have status don't use tinder. It's a waste of time and effort. You'll have better chances of success by going out there approaching girls
/r/seduction11/10/19 06:49 AM
0

First: why the heck are you dating two girls, mate? Second: Focus your energy and investments to school.
/r/seduction11/10/19 06:47 AM
9

How's the relationship between you and your mother?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:44 AM
8

5-6am bed by 10-11pm
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:38 PM
0

Nah I'm good bud, I'm here to stay
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:27 AM
2

I understand bro, but just like you're telling him to shut up, you should too if you're going straight up tell bro to shut up without explaining what you mean. Instead of telling him to just shut up, tell him what you just told me that get your idea across more clearly
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:25 AM
5

If you're trying to be an alpha here, you're failing bud. Instead of encouraging another brother to keep working hard, you act all threatened and try to discourage him. This shows a lot about you, and you need to work on things before you try to give "advices" here. Good luck, man!
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:04 AM
10

It doesn't woke that way mate. Why you ask? Because there are more hot women than there are elite men by many magnitudes. Also you can't have a hot chick if your smv isn't high enough. You start to have options once you're on top. So what I would recommend is that instead of focusing of moving up the ladder of hot chicks, focus on having long term goals and achieving them. That's what will bring you the most happiness/confidence and as a by product, the women will come to your life.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:31 AM
27

Because some guys think that's the best they can get.
/r/PussyPass06/10/19 04:19 AM
42

People who spontaneously act like so in this situation deserves more than seven years
/r/PussyPass06/10/19 04:18 AM
3

Don't bring it up. Let her bring up the talk. You do what you have to do. Also read the sidebar for our sake.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:43 AM
9

Don't show him straight up trp, just guide him as he grows up. Let him get into situations, and give him your 2 cents. Never force him the theory, let him accept it.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:42 AM
1

Lmao my bad bud
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:28 AM
2

Can you do my homework?
/r/seduction01/10/19 09:07 AM
4

Don't give a crap about her, just the way she's being used to silence conversations.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:54 AM
1

Why the fuck would you "plate" your cheating ex? Have some self respect, man!
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:33 AM
2

Westerners are hating on Christians because of whatever is trending for libs, but they still need a religion. But not just any kind of religion, a "suppressed" and one that's not privileged, so they choose Islam. Lol
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:56 AM
3

Well bud this is on you for not taking the lead on the first date. You have her friend vibes, not I want to fuck this guy vibes. Nothing you can do here other than learn your lesson and move on
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:51 AM
4

She just got wanted to make out bro, nothing more to it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:45 AM
2

Bro just do whatever you want to do. I keep seeing dumbass posts asking "if this increases status or does that increase my smv?" Why fucking care mate? Just do what you want to do, and make that your fucking goal, because at the end you'll be asking yourself if you did everything you can possibly do to have a life of no regrets or second thoughts. This is your life; don't live someone's else.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:08 PM
1

Just wear what you like and what's fits you man. Don't go on and buy expensive clothing just to impress someone lol
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:59 PM
7

Because to them that's the only valid explanation of why they have a miserable life, and don't want to be held accountable of their poor decision making so they state it's the men's fault
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:57 PM
2

I can personally answer that question. In my case it's because my perspective in life is pretty basic or I tend to belittle the significance of most or all things in life. To me I don't care if I'm at the top 20% as I don't see the significance of being there. I'm happy by doing things that bring me happiness. Maybe my perspective is hurting me in someway at my young age, but that's okay, as I don't live with regret. Or maybe it helps me since I don't have approach anxiety or have been told to b…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:24 PM
1

Texas
/r/PussyPass25/09/19 09:59 PM
1

Sounds like a plan to me bud. Good luck!
/r/askTRP25/09/19 09:10 PM
4

Well to me I see it as a moral decision. If you care about your dj career or whatever is to you, and you want to expand on that then sleeping with the chick who offered the gig will help you since the opportunities to work on your DJing will increase. You could also just go and not sleep with her and stop her advancements, but that would hurt your chances of more gigs. And the final option is to take your FWB but she could straight up deny your gig at the spot just because she still has somethin…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:42 PM
16

Bro why the fuck would you damage the business relationship with the person who gave you a gig? Of course it's a bad idea bud
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:21 PM
2

One tip I recommend is to send her a text an hour before meeting and say you might be getting there a bit late. That's how you avoid flakes
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:01 AM
40

Dafuq, I was caught speeding going 83 on a 80, going downhill, going with the flow of traffic, and was charged 195, and this girl gets this? Lmao I just can't with this pussypass
/r/PussyPass24/09/19 04:36 PM
2

Just breathe really deep many times, then you'll hear your voice deeper
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:35 AM
11

Fuck this thread. Just break up and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:36 AM
1

Well one thing for sure is that you don't really know what's happening where she's at. You could only go by her word, and if you have doubts of her loyalty then this is a no brainier and cut ties. But if you believe that she's telling the whole story then no need to panic as to me she has defused the situation to some extent. At least she told you about it, which says something about her.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:31 AM
2

First of all, did you start the LTR in long distance or same city?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:26 AM
1

Just buy beta alanine 3 grams, creating 5 grams, (optional) BCAA 5-10 grams, (optional) citrulline 5-10 grams. All of these could be found separately on Amazon, and just mix them together, if you wish, and consume before a workout.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:19 AM
1

I would recommend just make your own pre-work out. In that case you have more control of what you're consuming
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:55 AM
12

Of course you'll be bigger, but at the end of the day you do you bro. You like calisthenics, keep at it! But if your goal is to get bigger, then weight lifting is your answer
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:35 AM
1

Bro you look great with the beard. And the perception of having better interactions with people whenever you're using the beanie is just your insecurities having control of how you perceive life. Trust me, people treat you the same regardless if you're wearing a beanie or not.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:37 PM
6

Just ask her man. It's not that complicated nor risky. Just be aware that even if you play your cards right, she could deny or flake. Since both of you workout, invite her to workout with you, then eat/cook afterwards. But like I said, don't have onenities with this chick. While you're trying to work with this one go talk to another one.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:50 PM
2

If you don't care about being natural then try SARMs
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:10 AM
15

Don't thank us, thank yourself for allowing yourself to improve.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:42 PM
1

Now the question is "why is it attractive to have a deeper voice?" I haven't read the article btw
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:06 PM
1

Amen to that bud
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:04 PM
1

I'm prescribed with Adderall, but have been taking it for about seven months. And no hard one whatsoever: not even morning wood. I just bought a testosterone test kit, I'll see what kind of results I get. Hopefully that's the culprit, since it's easy to fix, and not some psychological problem.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:01 PM
1

Okay so I don't say this freely, only with my closes two guys, but I have cheated on my girl in many occasions: before the problem and after. And while I wasn't having problems with my ltr when I did, she was just not physically available for me since I was away from home for school, but like I said before I just don't get hard with random chicks I meet, or at least I would say I get ED symptoms with them. And I don't think she feels that I'm holding her back as she has physically expressed that…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:04 PM
1

Alright, thanks for the advice bud!
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:23 PM
1

I haven't tried zinc heavy diet. Would taking zinc tablets be suffice or what foods do you recommend?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:17 PM
1

Yeah I am, have been lifting for about two years. My diet recently haven't been as great, to say the least. And I know about the Coolidge Effect, and long story short, I couldn't get hard with a different girl. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me man. I'm pretty happy with everything else in life, but this is what's holding me back to some extent.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 01:16 PM
3

Hey bud, while I'm not OP, I am having a possible libido problem with my ltr. It all started in the beginning of this summer when i got really busy with my eng internship, away from home. Throughout the summer I only had two one week breaks to return home, and during that time I didn't feel like fucking at all. I had thought maybe because I was really focused on my intern project that my mind was not on the right place/mood whenever she initiated. But now that my internship is over, with both of…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:19 AM
19

Pretty simple. Just focus on your career and goals
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:26 PM
2

Bro realize this. Girls are this "easy" for some reason and you'll usually find this type of girls when you're trying to fuck for just a night.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:41 PM
1

Fuck that bullshit bro. I'm in college as well, and if people get broken up just because you said "no thank you, I don't smoke/drink" then that's their problem and not yours. Like the previous person said, normal people wouldn't take that as being a dick and would understand. Or just say "nah I'm good" or something. Is not that complicated, as you might make it seem. And btw, this "new" normalization of being insecure/threatened happens because of people like yourself. People have to realize tha…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:37 PM
17

But now this could be used as an example
/r/MensRights30/08/19 10:45 PM
2

I have always told my girl that she needs to have a healthy balance of socializing while also having time for me. Reason being that if things don't work out, she'll have a support system to help her get through the breakup.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 01:22 PM
1

What's your question here
/r/askTRP29/08/19 02:50 AM
3

If you read further to this he later states that the reason why they released the ad it's because they're losing the younger demographic to other companies (Dollar shave club, Harry's, etc)
/r/MensRights24/08/19 05:54 PM
7

Or maybe he just doesn't want a LTR? Is not complicated guys: some guys like to be in one while others don't. Nothing wrong with either
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:00 AM
13

Bruhhh I got a 200 fine for driving at the speed of the flow of traffic, as my first ticket
/r/MensRights13/05/19 05:51 PM
2

You have to realize that while appearance does help a bit, it's all about your confidence and the frame you live your life through. By having a fit body, you are confident because you know you put the time and effort on reaching that, and anyone that says otherwise can fuck off. That's where confidence comes from. Thus helping you "game" better.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:45 PM
1

I will once I graduate and go work for ExxonMobil
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:56 PM
6

"In case you haven't done it today. Ask a women what can she provide if she didn't have a vagina. Make her question her worth"
/r/MensRights04/05/19 04:30 PM
3

I think the question should be "How do I stop being offended when my busy gf denied me sex?"
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:41 PM
12

Lmao you serious? Bro mind your damn business and focus on yourself. Also stop this primal alpha bullshit you're spitting up. You clearly have anger issues you need to fix or maybe you're not comfortable enough to be in a room with another human lol
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:37 PM
2

Save money, less stupid decisions.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:54 AM
1

My current relationship was the one I found out about trp. Lucky enough, it was early in the relationship so I was able to fix myself but also resolve some concerns inside the relationship. I never counted how many times I have messed up but I learned from them. And it's okay to mess up, even if it jeopardizes the relationship, as long you learn from them. Now to what kinds of mistakes I have done: -keeping my word -keep on improving myself -motivate her to become a better person/partner -commun…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:19 PM
5

It took you two years to realize this or for her to tell you or both? Because this is found on the side-bar. Since you're new to trp and all, I'll tell you this is common on most, if not all, relationships. Ignore what she says in regards to her stoping you from achieving your goals. "You're already fit" - ignore that "You're already making enough money" - ignore that Etc... This in its self is a test to put yourself in a comforting lifestyle. But a comforting lifestyle is boring and you will ne…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:13 PM
1

Well that's up to how well you play your cards, but I would ask her tomorrow. She already knows you're going to ask her so why not do it already. If she says no, ask another chick
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:36 AM
3

Forget about your mystery at this point. Own that shit and ask that girl out bro
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:08 AM
6

No more Mr. Nice Guy definitely helped me when I need it the most back when I started. It helped me be more assertive and not be afraid to disappoint people
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:28 PM
2

I don't see a problem as long as you're fully aware of what you're getting yourself in
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:46 PM
1

Sure bud
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:08 AM
3

Make goals and meet them. You're still young, so focus on school. Also, learn how to be smart with money right now. Start working now. Put the money earned to a side, and don't touch it. Also working will help you communicate more effectively in the future, and help you build that mindset of wanting to continue to improve no matter if you're at the top.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:06 AM
2

No that's not what I'm saying. Obviously, there are certain principals that you can follow from TRP, that will certainly be different from what you usually do, but you can see them as improvements and not feel like an imposter. Also who gives a shit if you watch anime bro. Shit, even Michael B. Jordan said himself that he wants to go to Japan because he loves anime. Do you think he got backlash from people because he said that? Fuck no he didn't, and he wouldn't care if he did, so neither should…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:56 AM
10

Yeah like the previous commenter stated. Don't care what people think when you're your damn self. Trust me, you'll be much happier to be with or surround with people that dig with how you are. That's how you wither out those who aren't compatible with you. Because if you start being someone else who isn't you, you're going to live a miserable life man.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 01:24 AM
1

Maybe try approaching guys yourself. If you find someone that's interesting, go ahead and talk to the dude. If you need help on doing that, then head out to the seduction subreddit. They also help women learn how to approach and all that kind of stuff
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:38 AM
36

Can you give an example? Can't seem to wrap my mind around this one
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/19 03:13 AM
1

Based on the comments I guess I was lucky the milf I was with was submissive and didn't bring any problems to my life.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:02 AM
2

Oh I see, yeah that's understandable. In that case I don't see any wrong on doing that
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:06 PM
1

I understand, and also agree, but these types of conversations leads to no tangible results. It's all speculation and it varies from user to user. At the end of the day, I ask myself does this shit help me in any way possible to be successful on reaching my goals. If it does, awesome, embrace the new info and apply it to real life, but if it doesn't, it was, what I consider, a waste of time.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:44 PM
2

LMAO bro give me her number, I'll show how it's done since you want us to hold your hand. But I know what's going on. I know you don't want to mess up with this girl because _____________. (Fill in lame excuse) But you know what? Fuck that lol This is the time where you apply theory. (If you have been reading the material) If you fuck up, too bad. Move on. She isn't the only chick out there. Keep on doing this to every single girl you want to meet up, until you have a grasp of what works for you…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:28 PM
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Bro this shit ain't complicated lol She just got your back which is a good thing. That's it lol Now if she was making fun at you with the guy, you have a major problem. But there isn't much to it. Also don't over think every single interaction or move she does. It's quite annoying and inefficient seeing people ask simple obvious questions in asktrp. Just enjoy the moment bro
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:21 PM
3

You're not envious; you're jealous. If you were envious, you would appreciate his hard work and use that to motivate you to be better than him. Have a different perspective view in life, instead of feeling like a victim, and you'll be happier and successful.
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:11 AM
1

I would argue it does contain some validity if you research properly without letting them know what's happening. Also new data is weighted more than old, but I'll give it a read.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 04:58 PM
7

One thing is theory, another is providing proof.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 01:38 AM
1

At this point is very difficult. What you can do is go to every popular website like people finder and send them a request to delete your info. Some would take a couple of minutes while others would have you prove them that it's you whose sending the request
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:41 PM
1

Yeah you can do that
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:42 PM
5

How can I differentiate between the reasons of why I'm fucking women: is it because I want to or is it to gain personal validation? And if it's the latter, is it normal/healthy to gain some personal validation?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:43 PM
1

Hmm I thought Dual Audio was a new feature brought in by 5.0
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/19 07:14 PM
1

Yeah it's pretty neat
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/19 05:52 PM
2

Uhh.. everyone knows that with Bluetooth 5.0 you can connect with multiple devices. Duh! /s
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/19 11:54 AM
4

Yes all the time. In fact, the more comfortable you're sexually towards her, the more she'll be with you, so she's less likely to be shy about initiating sex.
/r/seduction13/01/19 10:21 PM
1

It means shit if you don't approach her lmao
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:07 PM
1

I googled how to be the dominant one in a relationship since it was clear she was wearing the pants. I landed on a blog, I think, and in that blog there was a TRP post linked. That's how I started reading about TRP and, unfortunately, Reddit.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:48 PM
2

Here's the best way you're going to learn to have or improve your text game: DO IT YOURSELF. I know you have done some practice yourself but this takes time to master. What works for someone else will most likely not work for you so find your best approach. And once you find it, improve it. That's how me and countless other guys have become successful. It's all trial and error. Also don't be afraid or care about what the girl might think of the message you're about or want to send. I'll tell tha…
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:55 PM
4

Bro just tell her. Is not that difficult. She'll be thankful that you're taking the lead; 1. Because she likes to be dominated, 2. She's inexperienced. The whole talking thing won't be a problem in the future. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:44 AM
1

Thank you for the heads-up. I'll surely keep this on my mind from now on
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:08 PM
1

I have not, I'll give it a read. Also what type specifically is she going?
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:29 PM
1

Hmm now that you mention it, maybe she's into it. Although she also told me that she's afraid of me because I hurt her (heart/feelings), but that it turns her on. I know she's very submissive, so maybe that plays a role into this.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 08:21 AM
3

That makes sense, thank you for the explanation
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:56 PM
3

What's Buffer?
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:10 AM
2

Be careful when dealing with this type of people. Their jealousy might drive them to accuse you of something just to ruin whatever career you have worked on. I would never message her again. Ignore her from now on. Focus on striving on greater success.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:57 PM
3

I'm surprised this is a first for you, but yes some women do this. I remember seeing on eBay some pregnancy test with positive results. Pretty disgusting someone would do use this to manipulate someone.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/18 08:49 PM
1

Grades are easy they just require some effort into studying throughout the week, especially before an exam. Now throughout the weekend, go to the gtg (get togethers) or parties and there you can practice your game on girls. If you are confident and comfortable in the party or wherever, your rep will spread throughout your week and improve your game/chances on the better looking chicks. Be in the lookout of guys, especially the popular ones, who, after seeing you're running the show, will pretend…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:39 AM
3

Succeed on what in highschool? Girls, grades, sports?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:12 PM
1

Bust a fucking nut, and read the side bar bro. I mean com'on man, I can't really lay down a blueprint or a script for you to read. Don't be lazy. Read the side bar and apply. Whatever works stick with that. That's how you learn.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:09 PM
2

No doofus. Flirt, escalate, and then escalate even more. Right now school is more important, so focus on that. Wait till the weekend for the girls. You can set up dates tomorrow or Thursday, for the weekend, if that's your thing.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:59 PM
0

First mistake is making her your girlfriend after just a week of meeting up. If you ever want a LTR always screen the girl for a long time before you make the move, because then you end up with this shit. What I would do in your situation is dump her. She's comes with problems you're not prepared to overcome, nor does anyone want to deal with that anyways. And do not worry if she goes into this deep pit of misery, it's not your problem not your fault. Just by knowing you're LTR this type of beha…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:33 PM
2

Danks man, I appreciate the tip lol
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:13 AM
3

Damn, if I'm interested where should I look first
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:08 AM
4

I'm in the US, how "easy" is it?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:01 AM
3

Hmm I see, where do you even get some now in days?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:36 PM
1

In my case I do have low dopamine that's why I get distracted a lot and have a difficult time focusing on what's important because I tend to do things that "raise" my dopamine or feed my brain more of it. That's why I have ADD. If it came across that it was the other way around, that wasn't my attempt.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:35 PM
9

I guess trying to make my unappreciative mother proud with school work and stuff. I'm honestly not sure why I'm studying engineering anymore, but I'm too deep into the whole to quit now.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:30 PM
3

Holy shit! I have ADD, which basically means my dopamine levels are so low, but haven't taken any meds for it and have only started smoking pot a couple of months of ago, a lot recently with my top plate. This explains why my motivation for school and life dropped so low. Thanks for this man. I didn't know pot did that to my brain. It effects me even more since I'm not being treated for my ADD. I will now quit definitely until I'm done with university.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:26 PM
12

What about it? Can you expand more
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:20 PM
17

What's difficult to understand? Just flip the genders, maybe I'll be clearer
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/18 03:01 PM
1

Bro if you want to have a deeper relationship with one of your plates, go ahead. Just realized that you have to choose wisely. Make sure she has many good qualities and few bad ones. Also, I wouldn't personally say but many do, is that being in a LTR while applying TRP principles is the highest difficulty. Take that into account. I personally don't see a problem being in a LTR, as long you keep improving on yourself and focusing on your goals.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 08:19 PM
3

One thing that new guys usually do is to start chasing pussy. But they'll soon realize that the pussy really doesn't bring happiness to their life. They'll realize that accomplishing goals and striving for higher is what will make you the happiest. I can see you're putting this situation at a pretty high concern or importance, but I can confidently tell you that this isn't much to worry about. Set a list of goals. Short and long term. Make that your priority. Women will come, and sometimes go. B…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 07:56 PM
1

Hell yeah 😎
/r/seduction22/09/18 07:28 AM
2

Thanks for the advice bro. I'm pretty dominant and aggressive, so I'll try being rough from the start.
/r/seduction18/09/18 11:35 PM
1

Bro, this girl is something else lol I just updated my tinder with a new anthem song, and five minutes later she texts me "So you're on tinder again?" Lmao
/r/askTRP18/09/18 07:05 PM
1

Bro any advice on performance anxiety? I don't have any problems bringing girls to my place and escalating to to fuck. The problem is that I just can't get hard. And if I do, it doesn't last that long. I rarely watch porn btw.
/r/seduction18/09/18 12:07 AM
1

Yeah was thinking of doing that. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP15/09/18 07:24 PM
1

I'm not well versed in this topic, but does the time of day matter when it comes to wearing a certain type of cologne? Like you wear a type of cologne for morning then a different one during the night time
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 04:40 PM
1

Next her if it bothers you so much lol Next time get one that satisfies your qualifications
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:16 AM
3

When I'm asked this question I just ignored it, but if I'm trying to be funny or something, I say somewhere around the lines of "when? Today? This week?"
/r/seduction09/09/18 07:34 PM
0

For real bro. Too many are still in the "angry" phase, and they just stay there because it's easy for them to just rationalize their mistakes and blame it on someone/something else, instead on improving on it.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 05:50 PM
0

Totally agree. This post in it's self doesn't even provide the full details to help him in the first place. For example in the part where he made her feel uncomfortable, maybe he wasn't smooth in his physical escalation which caused her to feel such way.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 01:21 PM
3

This. More freedom from bullshit, more happiness.
/r/becomeaman04/09/18 03:26 AM
2

That is why I believe boys after graduating high school should move to another city for college. If effort is put, it will cure any dependencies that you had on your family, friends, girls, and start becoming a self efficient man.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 03:24 AM
2

Can someone explain this comment to me? Can't seem to wrap my mind around it
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:22 AM
2

No shit bro lol
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:06 PM
5

Only if you get fucked up lol but to each on their own. Maybe make them do house chores activities
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:03 PM
2

It shows you're being too needy for female attention, and too available and not busy. Trust me. Once you get two or three plates with a busy life, you'll not have enough time in your hands to do what you're doing right now. So you'll just end up contacting them to just fuck or whatever, whenever you're free.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:00 PM
3

Do what frigidfold said. You can also take them to bars and makes them get you free drinks as they would probably have orbiters as well lol
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:54 PM
4

Bro chill. It has only been two days since meeting up. I'm going to assume this is your first and only "plate." Go get busy with life and stop worrying about some chick going radio silent lol Contact her in a week or something to meet up again. First, mistake is contacting her after meeting up. Next mistake is worrying about a "plate." Btw you can't next plates, as plates come and go with no effort needed.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:48 PM
3

It's not what you say that matters. It's how you react that really gives people the impression of where you stand in the interaction.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:00 PM
3

You don't. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't interested. Just move on to the next one.
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:36 PM
51

As I see it, you're under her control. If you don't like/prefer that, dump her. You're only going to be more miserable if you stay and drag this for a long time. After breaking up with her, work on yourself. If you're physically fit, concentrate on working on your mentality. Read the sidebar. Study it rigorously. Know that shit to the T. I would strongly recommend on working on your frame and how you stay in it no matter who you're with. This could make any "dominant" chick into your submissive …
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:26 PM
1

This is a problem I still deal with, eventhough I have three plates. It happens once in a while, but gets me frustrated when I catch myself being hyperfocused
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:02 PM
1

My only acne problem I have is back acne and it happens whenever I'm back to working out. Dont know why if I take showers right after working out.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 01:30 AM
1

First thing I see wrong was that you brought up the talk. Let her bring it up, and then you can decide. This give you control of the situation, and not have this shit going on.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:20 PM
1

No problem, man. Glad I helped you in some way. If you need anything you can always shoot me a dm.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:56 AM
1

I mean at that moment why try to guess if she's shy or doesn't know how to speak English. Just go for it bro.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:35 PM
2

Well the reason I told you to ask yourself why you feel such ways it's because I went through what you're experiencing right now. About three months ago actually. And at first thought, I told myself exactly what you're telling me right now. But I didn't stop there. I kept on thinking. Pondering on the same question for hours and hours. Not stopping until I found a well sounded concluded. And what I concluded actually saddened me. Ever since my highschool years, until now (I'm 22), would always h…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:14 PM
1

Before you do anything to help solve the current situation, ask yourself why do you fell such way when you're not getting laid?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:55 PM
2

Take cold showers every morning, the moment you wake up. No hesitation, just for it. You'll get used to going through discomfort as being the first you do everyday, while everyone else are still being lazy fucks in their bed. No only will this help you with discipline, but would also help you go through stressful, out of the comfort zone, situations where you'll know how to deal with them with a clear mind unlike everyone else who would be panicking.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:42 PM
3

Single parent helicopter mom, while being emotional disconnected for me nor supportive. So until this day, I'm 22, I don't feel emotionally attached to her as much, but I still appreciate what she did as a mother. I may not miss her when I'm away for a long time, but I hope she's doing well with my siblings and step father. And because of this, it affected me on my gaming/dating scene. Since my highschool years, I always had girlfriends and fuck buddies (thanks for my physical genetic makeup I g…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:31 PM
4

Well first of all you failed the shit test "don't tell me what to do." When some shit like this happens to me either from a plate or a girl I just met, I laugh knowing it ain't true. This mentality takes time, but you'll get there with time and grind. For the new guys into this, it's pretty much over if you get a response like this as she sees she has more value than you. But for more experienced guys, this can easily be turned around. Now that the disaster happened, there's nothing you can do o…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:35 AM
1

When the speaking language is incompatible, look at the universal language of body language. There is where you have to let her know your intentions and lead her physically.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:06 AM
8

Why would they need an explanation from you. You set your boundaries and that's it. If she breaks them, hard/soft next her.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:40 PM
1

You too bro!
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:28 PM
3

First, make sure you're getting enough sleep, as sleep is one of the most overlooked variables that affect social activities. Then skip your circle, and join a group/club that forces you to be social. Whatever it is, just as long as you're being forced to be social. Before you know it, social interactions will be second nature to you.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 02:05 PM
7

What I would recommend is more of a "Will be at x, 8pm. Join me" You want to be direct and not vague with girls especially in text when doing it for logistics. If she declines, who cares, you're still going to x, but you want to know how attracted she's to you. If she joins along, you're doing a good job and just escalate accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:58 PM
1

I remember that post! I'll see if I can find it
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:08 AM
1

Yeah, so far she hasn't gotten a clue about the performance anxiety. But I mean, why does this happen only when I'm with her and not with my other plates. It's a weird feeling bro. It's like "alright I have this hot chick, who I want to fuck, and it's next to me on my bed", but yet I can't get an erection. It's like I don't feel horny enough physically, but mentally I do. I don't know how to explain it because when I'm with my other plates I'll fuck them whenever I feel I like with no problems, …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:05 PM
14

Lmao that would be the only appropriate response
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:45 AM
10

Personally I wouldn't care if someone tried to blackmail me,
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:17 PM
1

Yeah I know bro. She's always down to fuck, and I can tell she's pretty attracted to me. I just can't seem to get through the whole performance anxiety thing with her.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:43 AM
1

Yeah, seems about right. Thanks! Also I got this new plate about 1-2 weeks ago, and she keeps inviting me to these small dates eventhough she doesn't have that much of a disposable income. I have currently been taking her out here and there, but not as often as her just to keep things according to the somewhat 2/3 rule. How should I go about this? Also with the same plate, and here's is where you facepalm. I haven't fucked her yet, and that's because either we're already too drunk when we get to…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:14 AM
1

Yesh, just a misunderstanding. Still a valid question in regards to me being into a LTR in the future.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:25 AM
1

The thing is some communities will ban you if they see you contribute to a certain type communities.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 06:03 AM
1

Oh definitely! I'm sure I already have the mentality set in regards to me being able to know the difference between the two. If the situation that I am being used comes up, I'll just soft next the girl
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:43 AM
1

Exactly! Totally forgot about this.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:06 PM
1

Ahh I see! Yeah I forgot this only applies in at least a LTR. Thanks for reminding me
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:01 PM
2

Not at all bro, just experimenting things here. Hindsight shows that I should have not replied to when she said that she misses me, but that's the point of learning through this journey. I know I fucked up. I'm not going to text her anymore, until the day we meet up.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:53 AM
2

Not at all bro I can show the screenshots of you want lol But I think she just realized she's coming too strong so she's trying to retracted what she said
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:45 AM
1

Oh definitely that's how I see it as last time we meet up she was being all touchy with my hands in public after I fucked her good that morning
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:43 AM
2

Yeah I fucked up i sent her pic of my body, then she replied with "Miss you lowkey lol" then i responded with "aw you'll see me soon" then she shot me down with a "Eh don't miss u anymore smh" I just replied with "lol" Welp time to find another one
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:12 AM
1

Yeah I fucked up i sent her pic of my body, then she replied with "Miss you lowkey lol" then i responded with "aw you'll see me soon" then she shot me down with a "Eh don't miss u anymore smh" I just replied with "lol" Welp time to find another one
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:12 AM
1

replied with "you'll see me soon" then she responded with " Eh don't miss u anymore smh" then I replied with "lol" lol this chick Edit: word
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:04 AM
1

Got it. We're meeting up on tuesday, and I was thinking of replying something like "I'll show you what's in my mind on tues" what do you think
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:11 AM
1

Bro I just sent her a pic of my body, not face, and she immediately replies "Miss you Lowkey lol"
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:59 AM
6

There's a app called The Red pill Quotes, which also contains gems like these
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 12:50 AM
1

Yeah it's just a selfie in her car, and I'll end up not responding. If she asks why I haven't replied, I'll just say too busy
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:54 PM
1

I mean I already told her to come over this tuesday yesterday. Would seem a bit thirsty, but thanks for the advice Edit: word
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:41 PM
2

Exactly. The lack of having urgency on being powerful is not mescaline. The want/need to be on top is what strives personal achievements and societal advancements. That's why for hundreds of centuries men have been our leaders.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:26 PM
3

Solid advice. Tell your son this, guys. /s
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:41 PM
2

Ahh this reminds me of this time where I joined this new classmate, I just had known for two weeks, for drinks on a weekend. Upon arriving at the bar, it was apparent that he went for his best friend's birthday, which is this HB9 babe that he had known for at least five years. And also his groups of friends. Long story short: I made myself comfortable as fuck, and when I spoke to the group I did so in a controlled deep manner. She immediately gave me good IOI physically by putting her hand on my…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:23 PM
1

If only there was a way I can deal with my performance anxiety. I don't really know what I'm doing wrong
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 05:47 AM
1

Well I actually looked more into this, and it's actually called Perception theory. Confirmation bias is basically the gathering of information that supports your ideology and beliefs while ignoring any opposing counter arguments. I read a story where in a art exhibit, a security guard was seeing a tourist, for a long time, staring at a fire extinguisher. His was curious as to why he was staring at it so he asked the tourist why. The tourist simply states he had thought the fire extinguisher was …
/r/PussyPass19/07/18 12:33 PM
19

Weird how I also saw this in blackpeopletwitter and they blame on her being white. And here we're calling it a pussy pass. That got me thinking on how people perceive things different if they already have some kind of mentality set in place. Then this got me thinking on other things that this could acure. For example, on sports, a group of fans might shout of disappointment because a player from the opposing team caused a foul in their perspective, but the other group of fans saw nothing wrong f…
/r/PussyPass19/07/18 02:07 AM
4

Hmmm 🤔
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:23 PM
2

Oh I understand, I mean the reason I stopped taking them when I was younger was because I convinced my parents that highschool is easy and they agreed. But the real reason I didn't want to take them was because the thought that I needed medication just to function properly like a "normal" person, saddened me and made me depressed which got me to one of my lowest points of my life. I'm pretty sure that mentality manifested from me just not wanting people to find out, and be embarrassed about it. …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:24 PM
2

Alright, thank you for the input! I'll go see if I can make an appointment with a psychiatrist
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:05 PM
1

Has stims affected your sex life in any way? Positive or negative. Right now I'm currently experiencing some performance anxiety (no erection), and I'm wondering if they will help since my mind starts to wonder off when I'm about to get it with a chick.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 01:53 PM
2

Agree with you as I have done so myself. In the beginning of my journey into improvement, I would take guides like this one very literally, so my actions in the real world would come up as awkward or "no natural flow." Now, I look back at those moments and still cringe at the them, but they are what makes me after seeing what works and how to react accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:01 AM
5

I remember taking focalin from 5th grade to my first year of highschool. Highschool was a breeze, but now that I'm in college majoring in engineering, I can clearly see the symptoms again. I was thinking if I should take the stimulants again, as I can see ADHD has been affecting me on my personal life as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 01:18 PM
10

The thing is Kato it's used on kids who experience epilepsy or are epileptic. The low amounts of carbs helps greatly
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 02:51 AM
1

Maybe I didn't explain myself correctly, but what I meant was the physical appearance potential of those muscles is genetic. Yes we all might have them, but some people have different tendon structure that make, especially Adonis Belt, pop out. As some people don't even need to work out or have somewhat of a low body fat for the Adonis Belt to be visible. Or the abdominal muscles where the tendinous inscriptions play a major role at the depth and the number of horizontal lines.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:51 PM
-4

Guys just to clarify, Adonis Belt is purely genetic. Just like some people can only have an 8, 6, or even 4 pack. But this doesn't mean that eventhough you might not have it, to stop working on yourself. Keep pushing and your hard work will payoff.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:39 PM
2

I workout every morning, as soon I wake up. No rest days. Honestly it's up to your preference and time availability. I like to keep my muscles actively worked on, so my routine works best for me. And I have showed great results with mass and strength.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:35 PM
7

One thing that I never understood was that woman say that men can't hit woman because they're weaker/smaller, but yet they're the biggest physical abusers to their kids.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 10:30 PM
1

Yeah, I thought about that as well. But yet, she seems pretty invested at our initial text conversation eventhough I show low investment/care. I was thinking of saying something like "They will love me in no time" or just "Cool, when do I pick you up" lol
/r/askTRP24/06/18 05:02 PM
1

Sounds good bud, can't wait!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 08:01 AM
2

Damn, I was planning of archiving all your tweets for self read, especially those that end with "Tell your son this"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 07:00 AM
5

Yup! I literally have to remind myself of these once a while to keep myself on track. Thanks for the advice you have given me a while ago, it really has helped
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 09:38 AM
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From /u/TRPAndNoFapGotMeLaid Don't be needy. Don't fake not being needy, actually don't be needy by working on other options and your own mission at the same time Don't be afraid to lose her, plates are for breaking. It is a matter of when, not if. Have fun. When the plates start rolling in and you for the first time in your life have options and ultimate control over your sexlife it is a great feeling in a RP mans journey, especially when you have never hade women yearn for you like this before…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 09:06 AM
8

I can personally agree to this. All I have is face pics and I'm getting a couple dozens matches each week. Although frame, like you said, is very important on the meet ups, more than anything.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 09:05 AM
1

If it became legal, how would we actually tax it? Or would it be like a "self-employed" kind of situation
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:50 PM
1

Haha I remember seeing this on a video a couple of years ago! Love this response
/r/askTRP17/05/18 05:34 AM
1

Yeah she knows about that I didn't see the msg https://i.imgur.com/vsgaLuh.jpg I was thinking, since I don't know what time she's going to wake up, should I msg her "If you see this before "set time", let's chill for bit. If not, I'm already heading out, see you then" or just " Let's chill right now" and if she replies late just to let her know I'm already heading out. Or just stick to my original response? Or what should you suggest I send her?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 02:02 PM
1

Thanks for the advice mate
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:51 PM
1

Well the thing is we met up last night, and it was already 3am then 20 minutes later one of her friends called her crying because she almost got assaulted so she went to pick her up. She asked me if I wanted her to come back after dropping of her friend. I said sure, only if you won't take long. She took about 20 minutes but I fell a micro sleep on her waiting for me to open the door. So she want back to her place. I'm guessing I would come across as needy if I set up a quick goodbye-bang that's…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:26 PM
1

Gotcha, I guess my msg is good enough.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:15 PM
2

We meet up once, at most two, times a week. And the only commination we do is in person, since I prefer it that I. I'm just going to send her a msg saying "Heading out, see you then" How's that? I still want to keep my doors open when I return back
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:11 PM
1

Yeah I'm ready for that. That's what happens sometimes when spinning plates: some plates fall, just get the next one to replace it. And I was planning to seeing her during the week but was too busy with finals. And since I really don't have time since she wakes up pretty late, I'm just going to shoot her a msg "Heading out, see you then" How's that?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:09 PM
1

Yeah she probably knows since I stupidly told her my last final was Yesterday. I'm just going to send her msg "Heading out already, see you then" how's that?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 01:00 PM
1

Pretty obvious bro. Try to meet up again. Even if you play your cards right, and she flakes. Move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:09 AM
3

Yeah I did fuck it up, but I simply told her to come over tonight. And well I just woke up and got this message from her, which I'm good now. She was just being feisty https://i.imgur.com/BqYtOKd.jpg
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:25 PM
2

Well this turnout with the best outcome. So I never ended up texting her anything to avoid her, and then a week after the situation, I was at club with guys and just having a good time with girls and all. Well one of the guys is a mutual friend between me and her, and out of the blue he comes to me, while I'm talking to this chick, "someone wants to talk to you." I was pretty curious who so I followed him, and it was the same damn chick. I almost wanted to run, I kept my cool and she walked towa…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:29 AM
2

Yeah I can tell because when we're together she gets a bit feisty, playfully, but I use that to turns things sexual and have that bitch pinned lol
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:14 AM
0

Well she's under the drinking age and most, if not all, of the fun gatherings here at this college town is mostly bars and clubs and have to be at least 21 to enter. Which is unfortunate for her lol but I'm just to going to tell her to come over my place, since that's where our "fun" is at.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:33 AM
1

I want to see her tomorrow night, but I'm kind of conflicted not to since I also want to soft-next her. Part of me doesn't give a fuck about what she thinks, since the semester is ending in about a week, so I want to shoot her a message to meet up tomorrow, but at the same I don't want to mess this up when I'm returning back for the fall semester.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:02 AM
1

Yeah I understand and well it's my first semester with two plates, since I usually just go for one night stands, so I was wondering how I go about dealing with it over the summer, but it seems pretty simple. Probably going to get some other plates back home. Thanks again for the advice
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:44 AM
0

Ahh okay. Yeah I'll probably still want to fuck her during the fall semester, so what should I do in regards to communication during the summer months that I'm away? No initiation of conversations, I'm assuming?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:58 AM
1

Thanks for the advice! And yeah I'll probably send her your variation msg in a day or two. And if she replies with something like "Who says I was going" I'm just going to hard-next since it's only a week left until the end of the semester then I move back to my town to work over the summer.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:47 AM
1

Fuck! I remember I had to take this mandatory training this semester. Dumbest shit ever
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:38 AM
2

What if you don't get morning wood?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:38 PM
1

Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:13 PM
1

Well for me, I didn't see it as a day about me but a day I spent it with the people I care about and have a good time as well. To me it didn't matter if it's a big party, or simply just a meal together: I enjoyed it the same, spending time with my family and friends.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:43 AM
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It's not that difficult, really. Because you don't build it by talking, you build it with physical contact. If you are escalating physically while talking to her, and make it seem smooth and normal, escalating to fuck her won't be a problem. If she doesn't respond well to your advancements, step back a bit and try again in a while.
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:49 PM
2

Yeah I know, I have been reading the sidebar, on and off, for the past five years. Maybe I just need to improve my wittiness.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:59 PM
2

Yeah, it's alright. Old me would definitely go blindly, but now I know no girl is worth enough for my life to be at risk. And btw, I'm going to be busy this weekend with two meet ups, so I'm good bro! Thanks for the help btw
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:31 PM
5

Midlife crisis! Nah I'm playing. But look, I'm not be as experience when it comes to life compared to you since I'm 21, but what I do know it's that "escaping" away from your mental problems won't help and only hurt you more in the long run. You first have to ask yourself why do you feel such ways when regarding certain "problems" (being single, trucker, etc..). If it's for reasons that you have created on your mind, find ways to fix that cognitive issue. It might be emotionally difficult if you…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:38 AM
9

Vasiliy, how do you come up with these responses, man? They're pretty good If there's something I'm really struggling when it comes to my game, it's the ability for my mind to create witty comments like that on the spot. It would take me hours, after the fact, just to realize what I could have said. Any recommendations on how I can improve on that? Advice, books, sources, exercises to practice, etc..
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:58 AM
1

Well I haven't sent anything, but she asked me if I'm free Friday night to chill at her place. I don't think I'm going
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:07 AM
3

What should I do in the situation I walk into her?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:01 PM
7

Yeah I understand. I currently have two plates, but I know my abundance mentality is not the at the most ideal right now. I'll proceed by ignoring her. Thanks for the reality check btw. Needed that.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:46 PM
3

Yeah that is exactly what I experienced. In the heat of the moment, especially when toxicated, my mind doesn't process consequences thoroughly. And then continue to live with those consequences.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:58 AM
-2

I'll just reply with "If I had fucked you, it would have been memorable." From a comment from this thread
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:38 AM
9

Damn, this is gold! Nice one Vasiliy
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:22 AM
5

Yeah I deserve that
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:16 AM
4

Oh she definitely showed some ASD signals last night after fucking
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:27 AM
1

Yeah I mistakenly didn't use a condom, and that's my part of fault, but I didn't ejaculate. Don't know if I can still use xckcx's response.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:25 AM
7

Thanks for the advice! And I'll put money that it is ASD http://reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8ckb7t/how_do_i_respond_to_girl_who_forgot_we_had_sex/dxfn019 But I'll still play it safe by not responding in text.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:06 AM
8

Yeah I'm pretty sure it's ASD since she asked me how long have I been friends with my buddy, which is a couple of weeks, and she responded with "Oh no, that looks bad on me lol" after we fucked
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:54 AM
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Last night was the first time I met her, and everyone in the group knew what was happening, that we fucked, since they were making jokes about it after the fact. Honestly I would rather tell her what happened in person, but I'll probably just ignore the text.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:51 AM
5

Just to know what's the general opinion in here, that's all
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:37 AM
1

Lol damn
/r/askTRP09/04/18 03:43 AM
1

Thanks, will study and apply theory in the future
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:40 AM
1

Yeah I don't really care what she thinks, just so I can probably improve if this questions ever rises with a different chick on the future.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:02 AM
1

Alright, will do! Any advice on how I can turn this chick into a plate, later on, and nothing more?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:59 AM
1

Thanks for the advice. Also was thinking of turning this chick as a plate later on, any advice on what are some do's and dont's?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:58 AM
1

Yeah that's what I did on my last meet up. We almost fucked but she did some big LMR
/r/askTRP03/04/18 11:25 PM
1

Wouldn't sexual interests be expressed by kino? Or is there more to it?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:55 PM
1

Yeah I'll send something like "Chill at my place for some movies." And I understand of not being too attached. I'm also talking to other girls and see if plans can be made.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:20 PM
1

Lol it's alright bro. Btw could the last part be considered as LMR?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:30 PM
1

Oh I'm not talking about LTR material just fwb at most lol And yeah I'll hit her up in a couple of days
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:20 PM
1

Alright thanks for the help, have a good day :)
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:24 PM
1

Should I set up another meet up in a couple a days, at my place?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 03:13 PM
1

Yeah same. What helped me the most was to set up the meet ups not too advanced; say two to three days ahead. Because apparently they thought I forget about or something. Or you could also text her you're going to be late 60-30 minutes before the meet up time to give her a chance to tell you she ain't going.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:54 PM
2

Dude, fuck Elliot Hulse! He used to post good content, now it's about all this body energy bullshit. Just go lift, meditate, and improve on your self every day.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:48 PM
1

I mean I really don't have much time left as I also work full time. Or should I just use some of my weekend time to read instead of during the weekdays?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 03:22 PM
-3

Regarding books, I already read books from studying for classes. But for self improvement books, could I just listen to audiobooks while I'm working out?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 02:46 PM
6

Actions speak louder than words
/r/MensRights28/03/18 03:07 PM
4

Whenever a girl and I are walking towards each other, she looks down once she's close to me, then from my peripheral I can see she looks back up once she's at my side. I would say I'm a pretty good looking guy, part European (Spanish Greek) and Mexican and 6ft tall. Good body proportions. I have always wondered why would girls avoid eye contact. Could you please explain?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:21 AM
1

Could this be considered legal? Just curious
/r/MensRights15/03/18 05:56 PM
1

Haha thanks for the laugh
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:06 PM
1

Oh no, I'm fine if they don't text me. That's the norm and a preference for me. It's when they start to become chatty outside of our meet ups that I'm guessing they're trying to make it friendly which is what I don't want.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:46 PM
1

Thanks for the recommendations! Would you suggest I go solo for the following weekends to I can learn to have fun without the help of friends?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:07 PM
1

Wrong place bud haha But I'm interested into what you're talking about
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:05 PM
1

Maybe I don't understand. Do you mean if she didn't text me I would ask "why hasn't she texted me yet?"
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:58 PM
1

No I wouldn't because I would prefer it that way. Keep her guessing until we meet up
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:43 AM
5

Nah it's not submissive to you but maybe to her. It all depends on the role you're taking when fucking. So talking dominant could help on your part. Understand that girls will do anything to please you if you're dominant and if you put your needs first when fucking. This turns some girls on that you get to use their body for your pleasure but it varies from girl to girl. In my experience, I have told girls to do some dumb freaky shit and they enjoyed doing it. Why? Because I was dominant with my…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 03:06 PM
1

I understand. I'm still going to the club tonight to have a great time no matter if she goes or not :)
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:41 PM
1

Okay, should I msg her in a bit to see if she's down for tonight or should I let today run its course and ask her again after the soft next?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:31 PM
1

So do you think I should just soft next her for a week or two? Spring break hits on next Friday, so it shouldn't be that dificult.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:00 PM
1

Yeah, don't worry about her. Put your happiness and success first. I know she'll be in your head, but get yourself to be productive or busy: workout, read, etc... So if she flakes or does show up, you'll have that outcome independent mindset. You'll learn to have that mentality that "You're the prize" and no matter what shit test she throws at you you'll pass them with flying colors because you developed your charisma. Having an outcome independent mindset, will teach you that if she likes that'…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:56 PM
7

Soft next for at least a week. Contact her again to meet up. If she flakes, next her.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:39 PM
2

Thanks for the help man! I appreciate it
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:50 AM
1

I'm not upset that she wants to chat. I just want to know why do girls do this. Even if we haven't meet up yet, some girls tend to get chatty. And well I usually just text for logistics. Am I being to critical of myself?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:19 AM
2

What do you mean? By continuing on the conversation? I mean our interactions at our first meet up last weekend, which was at a club, weren't "friendly" at all. We grinded, made out, and she even offered to buy me drinks after after all her shit tests. We had a good time, I just didn't escalate high enough, but I really didn't care then.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:26 AM
1

Don't know, man. Don't want to ask again and seem needy. I'm still going because that was initially my plan, but if she goes that cool too. No biggie if she doesn't I'm still going to have a good time.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:19 AM
2

Company is just trying to save on expenses since women get paid less /s
/r/MensRights02/03/18 11:37 AM
16

No savagery, just the plain truth. No need to sugar coat this.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:16 AM
2

I totally agree with you. On the other comment, I state that it varies from girl to girl. The thing is for me there's usually no conversational flow for me to follow as I usually set up meet ups at days after getting her number due to time constraints. That's why I just ask straight up. Maybe I should create a flow? Would that be too much work putting in from my end? IDK.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 09:51 AM
1

It's decent, but I can't really compared to it to any other way as I'm pretty straight up or to the point when it comes to setting up meet ups. And well, I guess it varies from girl to girl, but at least I get a response: either she wants to go or just busy.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:12 AM
1

Hey man thanks for the advice! You don't know how much you have helped me today! I know this is only the beginning of a better happier life :)
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:24 AM
1

I've been thinking about this for the past few hours, and it made me realize something that has never came up to me: I have always been with a girl in some way or another through out my life. Either be a one night stand or a relationship that lasted a couple of months. Now after more thinking of why that has been throughout my life, it brought me another realization. A depressing one. I believe the reason I feel compelled to have girls flock over me constantly it's because throughout my childhoo…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:34 AM
1

I have to ask you something. Do you ever feel not adequate when you haven't pulled girls in a while? I know girls shouldn't be an importance to my life's happiness, but I just can't seem to get through that. I start to feel that way if I haven't gotten at least one per week. I keep improving on my self, continue on my education, and overall I'm happy, but it's something that just pops into my mind once in a while. *Edit: I guess that's the reason why I develope some form of attachment to the las…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:13 PM
1

I totally agree with you. If you look at some of my recent comment history, I state the exact thing. This recently happened this past Saturday with this girl that wanted to meet up at a club and went pretty good but didn't escalate enough so I didn't take her to my place. But at the end I was still happy because I had a awesome time with everyone else and I put my happiness first before anyone's else.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:48 PM
1

Yeah that's what I'm currently facing right now. I was planning on going to a bar or club this weekend and just to have a good time with any cutie I'll find there.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:02 PM
3

Haha I was actually thinking of doing that just to mess with her a bit. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP26/02/18 03:22 AM
5

Hey man I just needed some insight in the situation. I know all of the learning will come from first hand experience, but this is a first time for me and wanted to know what's the general sinopsis of dealing with the situation. I have read the sidebar, and let me tell you that I have learned more from there than any person could ever personally teach me. I'm grateful to find this place years ago when I was 17. And the journey of self repair after more than a decade of depression since I was a ki…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:30 AM
2

Yeah I remember that I couldn't really find a place to isolate her, so we just made out in a corner but she stopped as soon as people where near by. Now when it comes to escalating physically, it went okay. The most I went is touching her mid thigh and of course grinding, lower back, holding my hand, etc. I am guessing that I didn't escalate high enough as all my advancements were not challenged with resistance?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:28 PM
3

I totally agree with you. You're correct. I just woke up and I could see that maybe I didn't play my cards right, as I was lightly tipsy last night. But also my goal, more than anything, was to have fun as I have just came out of a stressful exam week. So if I would come home with a girl last night I would see that as a bonus, if not, it would be a no biggie. I believe setting my goal to bring this, or any, girl to my place wouldn't bring me a happier experience as I would have to invest a lot o…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 03:11 PM
3

I usually just text for logistics, but I can see that approach. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:37 PM
3

I didn't take her there. I was around the area, and she randomly messaged me she was going to be there. So I said why not?, so I invited my pal to be my dd to accompany her dd.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:36 PM
1

Hey man I just got out of club and I had a great time with a different girl. Although I feel bit tipsy, but still have control of what I say.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:29 AM
2

It happened because you allowed it to happen. I usually never text a girl, unless I'm trying to set up a meet up. And from what I see here, I see none of that. Have a meet up, and you can save all that talk till then.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 11:14 AM
5

Once of my biggest mistakes when I started exercising, is that I didn't stretch after working out. Because of that I would have a dificult time just to open doors or walk down/up the stairs. I would recommend doing stretches specifically to muscle that got hit that day. Also, since you're a novice, take it easy on the weight or volume. Progress can't be rushed; just worked on. Keep on working out and eating healthy, and you'll see results in weeks.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 10:36 AM
1

I understand. Thanks for giving me that perspective. I have realized that we only get better as we put ourselves out there. Instead of me living in the past of regrets, I should learn from the mistakes and improve on to the future.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:08 AM
2

I totally agree with you man. The sun still rises everyday. Maybe I'm just being too critical of my self and actions. How can I stop watching over everything I do or say? Maybe it will go away naturally as I keep on improving..
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:51 AM
1

I'll try. She's currently texting me that she's "feeling truly bad" that she forgot. But as we say, "words don't mean a thing, actions do." I was wondering how can I respond in a way so she "can make up for it ;)" or should I just suggest a day?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:57 PM
1

Thanks for the response! I didn't assume, because our agreed meet up time was around that time. I was just reassuring her a more precise time. I also thought she might not have seen it, so I waited for the agreed meet up time as well, but she didn't show up. That's why I left.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:11 PM
1

Ahh gitcha!
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:58 AM
1

Hmm interesting What's the reasoning behind this?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:33 AM
1

Sure, go for it. Know that kino and LMR will play a major role on your success with this girl.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:08 PM
1

Yeah I can relate to that. Although sometimes I like to be in control of my surroundings and knowing them well.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:45 PM
1

You okay man?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:17 PM
1

Thanks brother! I'll go with the flow, but only my flow :) Gotcha!
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:49 AM
1

Awesome advise! Thanks :)
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:45 AM
2

I have added more to the comment
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:16 AM
3

It's called redundancy. Just provide the causes and effects. No need to go into really detailed writing, just enough that moves the message across. Edit: and to answer your question. In my experience, LTR will do this all the time as a shit-test. Just simply passed them. My favorite would be to agree with having side hoes and pop my collar just like a dumbass. When my LTR throws this shit-test to me, I just do that and she finds it funny so we move on into other things. Just don't take them seri…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:10 AM
2

Thanks! I'll look into that :)
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:58 AM
2

That's the point/reason of soft-next. It's for LTRs. Clearly, you don't want to do that so I would recommend for you to work on yourself and to learn how to handle your interactions with her better.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:12 PM
2

What? Don't watch movies for examples of trp. Movies do not portray real life correctly. I recommend just go out there and try trp yourself. You'll learn faster doing that.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:04 PM
2

The reason she kept asking was because you have not fully communicated your intentions on the decision. Tell her if you're going or not. No "maybes" or "mights". But what has been done is done. You fucked up and apologizing won't make things better as it can't change the past. In my opinion, I would just soft-next her for a couple of days and focus on yourself. Meditate for a while every day or something.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:57 PM
3

This thread helped me on having the mindset ready for my goal. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/51eoav/how_to_fuck_on_the_first_date_a_guide/ This one as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5mrhm3/tips_for_a_first_or_any_date_that_will_get_you/ Edit: added another source
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:47 PM
1

Yes, I am the same way as you! I want to invest as little time possible getting into these girls due to time constraints. My tinder game sucks, so I don't know what to really do in order to filter out those girls who aren't DTF at the moment.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:27 AM
2

What's k-close? I know it's related to pickup, but can't fully remember.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 11:58 PM
0

Thanks for the recommendation! I'll look into that :)
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:56 PM
1

Yeah now that you say that, I can clearly see that I nuked it. Sometimes I see these guys have their text game on point, having the right thing to say without thinking about it. Yet when it comes to me I have think for a bit. I wish i had the skill to say the right thing no matter what she texts.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:40 PM
1

I see I have quite a ways to learn. The reason I mentioned a girlfriend was because it sounded like when girl say the "I have a boyfriend" shit test. Also, the high levels of sexual talk at the start is to wither away girls who aren't DTF at the moment. It might not be ideal but that's my reasoning behind it. You mentioned that I'm using a freight train type of tactic, could you please show me some simple examples of that so I can see why my approach isn't ideal. Also, what do you mean leading h…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:37 PM
1

Oh I see that now! Thanks for the heads-up
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:57 PM
0

Great response, Nightwing! I had a question regarding the enforcement of double standards in a LTR. I am currently in a LTR that has going on for more than four years. Everything has been great, from physically to mentally. In this LTR, especially the early months, has been a learning experience since it was my first "serious" relationship. Before this relationship, I would just have one night stands and shit like that. So I'm grateful I'm going through a LTR at a relatively young age (I am 21 b…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:04 PM
10

Same at 21. But I'm grateful I found it at a relatively young age. Has helped me go through some tough stuff
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:17 PM
32

Go to the poor parts of a city, you'll find plenty of single parents with multiple kids.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:53 PM
4

No need to get angry for a plate. A plate is just a plate and nothing more than just a plate. You're too emotionally and physically involved into her a.k.a. oneitis. The mere fact that you're writing about the plate states that. Focus on yourself and do not worry about anyone else. Also, I laughed when I read "he doesn't deserve having sex with her because he is beta as fck and does 0 to improve", look at yourself and you're the same mentality at least.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:02 PM
1

Just look at her actions. If she did that with the dude, she would probably do it to you and swing to another guy. That simple. She's nothing more than a side piece in regards to a relationship.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 10:10 AM
1

That's correct. The pelvic floor muscle is connect from the base of your dick to around the asshole. If you look at the image below, you will have a better understanding of where in your body you will feel the contraction. https://www.mayoclinic.org/-/media/kcms/gbs/patient-consumer/images/2013/08/26/11/01/my01402_im04689_mcdc7_malekegelexercisesthu_jpg.ashx
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:42 PM
2

I just read a bit about DEER because i have never heard of this. Any way I could help myself to stop DEER'ing as I believe I do it all the time Btw I was DEER'ing because I was looking to how she responded. Like i didn't own my decisions, correct?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:28 PM
1

Thanks for the advice :) and yeah I don't want to be her boyfriend nor does she want one, which I think it is perfect.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:28 PM
1

You are so right, but my plan was to get some light physical connection while at the restaurant (touching her hand, my feet caressing hers, etc) to see how she would react. If she responded well, I would escalate higher by going to her lower back or thigh once we were at the park. My car was basically my place to make out and fuck, as it was on a isolated area with low/no light.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:01 PM
3

I never shat where I ate. I had no and never showed any interest in her at the moment when she was working due to the fact of jeopardizing my career. And my LTR doesn't work there anymore, she changed career. Any advice would be appreciated :)
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:35 AM
2

It's okay to rant. Let it all out bro :)
/r/askTRP14/08/17 07:11 AM
16

How deep does this rabbit hole go?
/r/MensRights09/08/17 02:30 AM
1

Don't blame just your father for this, your mom have part of the blame for choosing him to have children with, well knowing he wasn't going to be a good father. Also you're old enough to be self-aware of your insecurities and how to fix them. Yes your upbringing affected you negatively, but it's up to you that allowes the past affect the present and jeopardized the future. Keep your head up, and strive for higher success.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:11 PM
36

She stepped on his arm/hand while being intrusive
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/17 07:55 PM
3

Go to the subreddit tressless
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:40 PM
3

Here you go bud: https://youtu.be/ff7nltdBCHs
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:18 AM
2

Once realizing this, what should be the next step?
/r/askTRP19/07/16 05:48 AM
8

You just allowed her frame to dominate you. You went in her terms and not yours. You're her bitch now that you asked for her validation on cuddling. And to add to that, don't have a conversation on text. Just plan things out, directly and be decisive, for next time to see where things go. If you fail to trigger her tingles, move on and don't be too mentally involved.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 01:18 PM
2

No one was keeping her in check. The guy in the back for sure overreacted because he threw his friend's phone out through the window. The boyfriend could of told the bitch to stop so he could get of. No need to be around crazy woman screaming at nothing
/r/askTRP04/07/16 07:08 PM
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I would add that suicide rates are at the highest where population density is at the lowest. And that is proven around the world, not just western countries. And that seems as a no brainier due to the fact that the more people you surround yourself in the less likely you'll kill yourself. That is where the support comes in. When people are the depressed, the natural thing they feel to do is be alone and push everyone away. Now the difference between male and females is that when a female seems d…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 05:22 PM
4

I know for sure that if you keep breathing that would help. I always had a problem of holding my breath and could feel the point of no return getting near. Another thing you can do, which will take time, is kegels. Kegels does wonders as not only will it help you last longer but also it prevents Ed (a list of benefits here: http://www.risingmaster.com/benefits-of-kegel-exercises/) And last thing would be the mentally aspect, just like /u/jabbahabba pointed it out. In my experience, if I keep thi…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:37 PM
2

Just don't be around them? And why would pua talk about this
/r/seduction13/06/16 04:08 PM
1

That's probably not him
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:04 AM
1

What graph are you guys talking about? I can't seem to find it Edit: found it :)
/r/seduction02/05/16 05:05 AM
3

Be aggressive. Call her a bitch or whore when you're pounding hard, if she's into it.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 06:05 AM
9

I remember my LTR saying how she is the one that wears the pants on everything. So that got me to realize that I'm not here to be some bitch's bitch. I started looking on Google how to be leader/more aggressive in the relationship and through an article it linked me to r/theredpill talking about the book No More Mr.Niceguy. It was a great eye opener when I saw my mistake of living the "Happy wife, happy life" kind of thing. I'm so glad I found that article because I'm happier as ever and I got r…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 03:40 PM
-1

It's not a question about closing the deal or not. I'm just trying to find a justification for his actions that's all
/r/askTRP27/02/16 08:12 PM
1

Yeah I'm in the states
/r/askTRP27/02/16 08:03 PM
1

Ha bitch sure did, although I don't get the mole reference
/r/askTRP27/02/16 06:27 PM
-1

It made the most sense it was him due to the fact I don't walk around with my gf, so there's no possibility that she has seen me with her. And could all this shit just be a shit test, knowing girls throw this question all the time when I pick them up from the club/bar?
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:53 PM
-2

Yes, exactly! I'll give him the benefit of the doubt that he was tired so his game was down.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:45 PM
0

She states that she knows because she was stalking me in a funny matter, yet I don't walk around with my gf as she has work during the day and I don't have anything on social media as I don't use it at all. That it why this was the only answer that made the most sense to me. I'll probably tell him about it on Monday, but I'll move on to the next bitch.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:42 PM
1

I usually look over the shoulder closer to the middle of the hallway/sidewalk. And if you see in your peripheral vision that the person is looking at you, look back and smile.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 07:27 AM
0

Something is missing in that story...
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:49 PM
2

I've always had a problem showing dominance outside the bed, while being pretty good at showing it at sex. Is there any examples of dominance or ways to improve that weakness? In a LTR by the way.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 07:16 PM
2

I have problems with number two. When there's a chance I always give an excuse not to take advantage of it (not important enough, not my interest, etc..). I believe I have a fear of leading, even though I don't know why. Probably due my lack of being conscious of my surroundings and people around me, and having fail everything by how the saying goes, "the blind leading the blind." This probably my number fear, and the second being public speaking.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 06:04 AM
3

What Every Body is Saying
/r/askTRP02/09/15 12:34 AM
1

Day 2: slept 9:15 hours from 1:30AM - 10:45AM
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:40 PM
1

DaftOdyssey will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:19 PM
1

I believe it all depends on the parents' preference, or how the father is (beta or alpha). Because I'm redpill, I wouldn't like my daughter to be with a beta. If I was bluepill, I would rather have her be with a beta because he won't be a "douchebag" to her.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 09:40 PM
2

I never thought of it that way. If she's not representing/giving value, why give mine! Thanks for the advice /u/fluviant
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:53 AM
1

Thanks again for your advice, /u/Rorta . It really clear things up
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:23 AM
1

Thanks man :) Now, should I respond by following warlock's advice
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:03 AM
1

I would say it was pretty random that she texted me that, because the whole plate relationship was going pretty smoothly and never lowered my game. I guess she just found this guy and got more attracted to him for being older than her, as that's what women are attracted to.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:36 PM
1

Well she did try to shit test me by basically telling me how she feels weird being with someone who's younger and found another older guy. I simply responded by saying "Cool go have fun. I don't own you" and that would be it.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:02 PM
7

I usually go with '' Don't worry, I'm not the jealous type. ''
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:36 PM
0

Ah it's ASD! I understand better now. Thanks man, hope you have an awesome week :)
/r/askTRP23/03/15 04:23 AM
0

What something with: '' When? Where? And just cuddling?'' It gives a different tone than the provided question, right? As if ''are we only going to cuddle or is there more?'' How would you respond to that?
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:29 AM
3

Thank you for your response :) And understand that, but how should I respond so I won't be in her frame or pass this test?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 11:14 PM
1

So girls is the product of that realization and applying it to my life? And would the process of getting girls the same or do they differ?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 02:58 AM
1

Then that businesses won't succeed as much due to poor management of damage control. And some other would like to provide a better service. That service might have happened during this type of gov when wealth would have a influence. On theory that's how it would go. Why am I being down voted? I was simply trying to answer someone's question
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 03:29 AM
-1

Well if people knew there is a demand for fireman, then any entrepreneur would build a service to out out fireman. Same thing with everything else.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:24 AM
1

She mentioned she has a boyfriend that's very nice and buy her things to her so I believe that's her betabux. I told her that he's all pussy whipped and she just giggled which I felt bad for the guy at first but that's his problem.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:32 PM
1

Yeah I'm pretty mature that's because since I was a little kid I was raised to be the man of the house after my father death and never actually had a childhood. Have always been working now and improving on every aspect i can think of. Now that I have my own place and be well financially, I have more freedom than ever.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:40 AM
1

Hmm I see now. I will apply this now. Thanks for clearing things up and giving advice, sir! You have done good :)
/r/askTRP22/02/15 12:55 AM
1

So what are you saying is the people on tinder are expected to be set up on a date right away if they give out the number.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 12:36 AM
1

Well I do have shit going on, thus would make me seem that I value the time for myself more than on a stranger who thinks she's has highest priority from me. I like it.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:23 PM
1

If possible can you please provide some examples. That would help me a lot on where to start of.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:35 AM
4

There's nothing wrong watching some ball with your bros at the game or bar :)
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:24 AM
4

Oh okay now I understand. Thanks for clearing things up :)
/r/askTRP15/12/14 10:50 PM
2

Can you please elaborate more on this?
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:53 PM
12

When I was with my first plate, she said that "the things we were doing (fucking, making out, etc...) are things that couples usually do." This was on my mind for a few days so I asked her to become my LTR. She said yes and I quickly became a white knight beta afterwards. A few weeks later, she lost all respect towards me and left me for another alpha. It was then when I knew I had to start from scratch on swallowing the pill.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:47 PM
1

Thanks for this! And this may sound odd, but where can I find out more about comfort tests? :)
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:05 PM
1

How would I be able to lead her on being a great woman. What would you say is a great woman?
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:08 PM
1

What do you mean by "so they follow a alpha easier?" Can you please explain.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 08:01 PM
1

She occasionally brings up how things were at the beginning, when I was white Knight, which I take it as a shit test and ofcourse I pass it ;)
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:59 PM
1

Haha I see were you're coming from :) And the only concern that I had was if she was trying to unleash my white knight by me responding in the same way.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:46 PM
3

Breath slow and deep. Be in positions where you're not causing stress or pressure on your core, which the majority are the abs. So less missionaries or simpler in terms: no thrusting. Let her do the work. And stop thinking about how good it feel more often, especially at the beginning, in order to increase your time.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:07 PM
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