| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 35 | You're Dating a LVM who has "the potential" to be a HVM. Should you leave automatically, or try to help him level up? | SEEKING ADVICE | DagDag001 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 35 | Maybe Marriage Isn’t For Me. | RANT | DagDag001 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 32 | How Did YOU discover FDS, and what convinced you to follow its principles? | DISCUSSION | DagDag001 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 11 | 10 Things Every 20 Something Should Keep In Mind | QUICK TIP | DagDag001 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:47 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Could you fall in love with a sexbot?😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 06:34 PM |
| 11 | Men act single even if they have a gf or are marriedNo lies detected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.Great advice. Your life really improves when you stop focusing on things or people that aren’t going to change, and focus purely on yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 31 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!Well if they’re gonna cheat regardless, why does it matter...? Comments like some of ones I’m seeing are why so many women flock to get plastic surgery the minute they find out they’re not their man’s “ideal woman.” If you tell a woman that men have a higher chance of cheating on you if he feels he settled for you in the looks department, what do you think some pick me will do next? New titties and ass time! It’s been done. It doesn’t work. The point that needs to be made is, is doesn’t matter w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 69 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!How many times have we seen men upgrade to their “ideal type,” and then turn around and cheat on her ass too? MEN. ARE. TRASH. PERIOD. You can be PERFECT in every way and he will STILL CHEAT ON YOU. It has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. THEY. ARE. COLLECTIVELY. TRASH. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE THAT. It’s THEIR DEFICIENCY. NOT YOURS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 114 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.Can we just stop dating men? No matter how we try to interact with them, we lose. What’s the point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 9 | cooking and cleaning/THREAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 12 | This might seem like a strange question but as an adult, how do women go about making friends with other women. I seem to not have gotten the hang of this and am trying to level up. I know I would be a great friend. I just seriously have no idea how to go about it.Bumble, Meetup, fitness classes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 37 | i was told to lower my standards...againdumppickmes Those people are an absolute buzz kill. They will lead you off a cliff into misery and mediocrity, I’m telling you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:18 AM |
| 28 | Guy was straight up trying to use me for sex, I started ignoring him and three months later he pops back up with this gem... of course you regret it babe, I was the best you were ever going to get.This is why y’all need to block these men. Stop leaving your line open for communication. It’s leaves the door open for manipulation and gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 17 | Good morning, beautiful! She isn’t everyones’ favorite, but she sure is on point! Tales from the Mortuary: by SheraSeven1I have a personal story to add here. My husband’s father married the wife (who has several children) of his deceased brother. The mistress even had the audacity to call My husband’s father’s wife who the father was separated (but not divorced) from to argue with her and demand she divorce the father so the two could get married. And yes, i call her the mistress because my husband’s father was traveling back and forth to El Salvador to be with her while he was still married, but claimed he was “t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Strawpoll: How many men (in percentage) do you believe are HVM, worthy of an exclusive, monogamous relationship?Yes ma’am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Can plastic surgery/injections be apart of leveling up??I don’t like the idea that changing your body through the use of plastic surgery is considered a “level up.” It gives off the wrong impression (that surgically altering your body, which is not “you,” is better than you were) I think developing a genuine inner confidence in your natural body is a level up. Changing it, in my opinion, is not a level up. That’s just me though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 10 | Strawpoll: How many men (in percentage) do you believe are HVM, worthy of an exclusive, monogamous relationship?None. Idc. Fight me. 85% of men consume pornography. The other 15% are of questionable quality considering the (patriarchal) society we live in. It’s easier for me to be cynical than fantasizing about an elusive “Prince Charming” to be out there somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 22 | I want to get sterilized. Advice?As someone who is also childfree by choice and not having children, I still would advise to hold off on the surgery. Mainly because, it’s a surgery. There could be complications, you just never know. I myself was looking into getting the same procedure done but stopped because I realized it wasn’t really necessary at this moment in my life. Sure, I wanted something as close to permanent as possible, but did I NEED it? Not really. At least not now. I decided to get Mirena for the time being, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl.Hey there’s at least fifty pick mes for every LVM 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Making an exit plan, protecting your future, and not losing your mind while you get your ducks in a row.Thank you so much. I’m definitely gonna need it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 35 | Reminder: we don't want to hear about your kinks or how much you love kink or how sorry you feel for men with tiny dicks and how women should have to date themWhen she mentioned something along the lines of, “Well I thought (anal sex and BDSM) were okay when they can be done with love.” Girl what? You can call me a kink shamer if you want. Ain’t no love in getting rammed in the ass or strangled unconscious. What is wrong with some people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:08 PM |
| 17 | Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl.Oh dear lord 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:46 AM |
| 68 | Quentin Tarantino’s babymom is only 20 years younger. Good luck, girl.“I’m just going to go with the flow” sounds a lot like, “I’m going to definitely have unprotected sex and if some chick gets pregnant, I mean I guess 🤷” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:46 AM |
| 184 | Reminder: we don't want to hear about your kinks or how much you love kink or how sorry you feel for men with tiny dicks and how women should have to date themI knew some of these posts were odd. Like why are you going into detail about your love for anal and rough sex? Gtfoutta here and onto another subreddit. We don’t care that you like stuffing shit in your ass. Please bugger off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:42 AM |
| 8 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒That’s a great point. See how easily manipulated people are into accepting the latest trends? But there’s NO possible way that this BDSM and anal sex nonsense exploded out of nowhere. Women just randomly developed an urge for abusive sex over sensual love making。 Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 04:35 AM |
| 15 | Making an exit plan, protecting your future, and not losing your mind while you get your ducks in a row.I needed this post. Thanks OP, and everyone commenting. Currently making an exit strategy, sadly enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 8 | I've decided to just stop dating completely.GROSS. Block his dumbass. WHY DO MEN THINK THIS IS ATTRACTIVE?!?!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:46 AM |
| 30 | I'm so sad right nowAte your ass? Girl.... Anyways, if penis size is a deal breaker for you, it’s not gonna work. It’s going to always bother you, so just consider it a loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 70 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒Porn conditioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 84 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒What is this high school? No, there is no grown woman I know who gets turned on by fucking $2.99 20 pack nuggets and forehead kisses. Women have been conditioned to enjoy being sexually abused. Hence the explosion of rape fantasies, anal sex, strangling and hair pulling. Being handled roughly during what I consider an expression of love and care is an extreme turn off and to be honest, makes me uncomfortable to even talk about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 32 | r/sex is finally waking up!I’m turning this into a shirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 16 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!We need to make a FDS ring and wear it at all times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:37 PM |
| 20 | So true...That hit deep 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 25 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.I cancelled my Netflix account two years ago because of this. Netflix in particular clearly has an agenda, and I’m surprised more people don’t pick up on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Tracee Ellis Ross on CHOOSING to be single... AMAZING!I love this so much 💕👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 39 | How to stop men killing their wives and childrenI’m personally not risking it. I don’t believe HVM exist as a permanent state. They may be HVM now, but wait until he gets bored, old, circumstances change, you change. I just don’t believe it. I’m not even gonna torture myself by continuing to fantasize about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | You're Dating a LVM who has "the potential" to be a HVM. Should you leave automatically, or try to help him level up?I’ve been communicating with him about this issue for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 9 | You're Dating a LVM who has "the potential" to be a HVM. Should you leave automatically, or try to help him level up?I can’t say that he does or doesn’t to be honest. He always has supported my goals for starting a business, has given me money to help fund it, he’s always talking about how in five years (once he’s a journeyman) he’ll be making enough money to buy a nice home, spend money on the things we like to do that we cannot afford right now. But, I’m always coming up with business ideas, pitch them to him, and he verbally supports it. I’m starting school for web development next month, starting a new job… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 54 | I am DEAD!!!😂If I were religious I’d say, “Even God gets tired of people’s shit. Why you think hell exists.” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:00 AM |
| 11 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Sadly this family disfunction is common. And the family playing light vs. dark, “oh your kids are going to be so cute and have nice hair!”(biracial fetishizing) is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 30 | PSA: Never be uncomfortable for a man$95!!!! DAMN high roller, let me hold a dollar 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 44 | PSA: Never be uncomfortable for a manYes! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕✨ I threw away all of my heels, high heeled boots, wedges, etc and replaces them with Vans, Chucks, and boots. Your beautiful feet will thank you, trust me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 14 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡How sad is it that our own gender can betray us? So, we can't even rely on our own most times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 24 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡I'm so sorry to say this, but I holler laughed at "buying whisky and us sitting on a hill." That is the saddest idea for a date I've ever heard of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 108 | This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative!Can we PLEASE make this a PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT and scream it to every woman in the world? ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS HAVE A BACKUP PLAN. SECRET ACCOUNT WITH SAVINGS, NON CONTRACTED HOUSING ARRANGEMENTS, KEEP YOUR FRIEND CIRCLE STRONG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 42 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Nah, I’d stay single. “White tech dude” smells like porn addict times 100X. I wouldn’t even trust a man who can navigate the internet better than I can, and I’m very skilled. Also, the added fear of potentially being fetishized and various other huge cultural differences... PASS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:13 PM |
| 23 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡HARD pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 68 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Okay, Black woman here. There are very real, race specific issues that should be openly talked about. From what I’ve seen and experienced, Latino Men have a strong expectation for their women to be housemaids and incubators, or in other words, cook my meals, have my kids, AND I expect you to work full time and take care of the house with NO complaints or demands. They think women with “high standards” are stuck up and expect to much. How do I know? I was married to one. Black Men are thee most d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 8 | LVM will take and take until one day you wake up and realize you aren't his SO, you're his mother.“BET.” DEAD!!!! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 28 | Women and their damn standards, amirite“Men don’t change, they just get older.” Hard pill to swallow, but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 65 | 2020 goals!!Imagine if every woman could start suing men for wasting their time. Lawd have mercy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 24 | This guy has been hinting for weeks that he hopes we can get together soon but never offers any ideas. It finally made me snap.😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 5 | So my mom is plannin on divorcing my dad after years of abuse. He doesn’t know yet. He lost his wedding ring (for the second time) and mom found it. She sold it and bought herself this cute ring. I’m so proud of her. (Pablo, our cat is too)GO MOM!!!!!!! Best wishes to her and her newfound freedom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:18 PM |
| 17 | Don't kneecap your sentences.Me too. You’re amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 51 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.Oh trust me, I picked up on that immediately. He’s a literally loser to be borderline facetious like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:38 AM |
| 72 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.What the fuck even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:29 AM |
| 10 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendSame. I’m at the point though where I’m like Whoopi Goldberg: “I don’t want somebody in my house.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:26 AM |
| 91 | Liberal Feminists really convinced an entire generation of women that BDSM and Sex work are “feminist & empowering” but demanding men pay for dates and carry more financial load is “setting us back”. 🤡I’m starting to think half these “movements” are created and orchestrated by men. Either that, or a desperate gaggle of handmaidens because this shit only benefits Men, and no one else cares about the pandering of Men than a pick me and the Men themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:19 AM |
| 10 | how could we!!Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:17 AM |
| 13 | Tips on being discrete/ moving in silence as a woman?Why are you still friends with someone who tells your personal business to random people? Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:22 AM |
| 5 | "Women live longer than men because they really haven't been living." A quote from Tom RobbinsMarriage is anticlimactic, for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:07 AM |
| 44 | Newly trying out OLD again and I already feel regret deep in my bonesI have laughed at many a dark humor joke, but when men say this, the first thing I think is, “I can find humor in serious subjects like rape and sexism, and you’re overly sensitive if you get offended by it. Oh, and Family Guy is hilarious!” But I stopped reading at “my daughter.” NEXT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes I wish I was gay (hell, even bi)Don’t be. Considering the current dating landscape and condition of men in general, are you really missing out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:59 AM |
| 25 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendHELLO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 76 | I am lost for words 😞. If there is anyone reading this who is currently suffering from domestic violence please use this as a sign to leave. It only gets worst.How many “happy family man” men killing their wives and children is it going to take for society to realize this is not a random event? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:32 PM |
| 216 | But you were sleeping and eating just fine when you cheated though...Men can “man up” to tell their wives and girlfriend’s they’re cheating. Somehow can’t “man up” and not be unfaithful in the first place. Amazing. We can’t even get the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 31 | Reminder to always stay weary and don’t trust any guy 100%. Always look at how they treat others and their interactions with friends. Stay alert and safe Ladies 💕He’s a miserable son of a bitch, let me tell you. So I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s true, despite the hard facade he tried to put on. He’s the classic example of someone “kind enough” to generously buy you lunch everyday, then turn around and say you’re a worthless, useless worker (simply because you’re a woman) the next. So y’all, don’t fall for the crumbs of affection and care. It’s bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 33 | Yes they do...The minute you show COLDNESS.1%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 78 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendYES. This is literally how I explained to my husband why some women are “gold diggers.” Because Men don’t bring shit else to the table. It’s THAT simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:10 PM |
| 13 | Sometimes I wish I was gay (hell, even bi)Not even gonna lie, I downloaded Bumble and switched it to Women just out of curiosity. Many successful, beautiful women with degrees, legitimate interests, etc. There were weird threesome creeps just looking for an extra handmaiden, but most seem like decent beautiful women. The Men however: Unkempt, fuckboys, boring, minimal hobbies, just pathetic looking to be honest, and this is coming from a heterosexual woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENI’m SOOOOOOO jealous you’re going to Japan, but congrats! I haven’t been back since high school. It’s a beautiful place to be in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Women can tell when a man’s watching pornLucky! Jeez 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 103 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendIf we’re really being honest, most (if not all) of the cons to moving in with a boyfriend are relevant to getting married as well. Ring or no ring, married or not married, Men will become complacent, you’ll lose your independence, you’ll be stuck in a housing contract or mortgage, etc. I don’t want this to come off cynical, and I still agree with the post, but being married is not going to provide you a safety net or sense of relief whatsoever. The risks remain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 44 | Reminder to always stay weary and don’t trust any guy 100%. Always look at how they treat others and their interactions with friends. Stay alert and safe Ladies 💕This was literally my only response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 103 | Reminder to always stay weary and don’t trust any guy 100%. Always look at how they treat others and their interactions with friends. Stay alert and safe Ladies 💕That reminds of a story my former coworker told me at lunch one day. He had a girlfriend with whom he was talking on the phone with, and he said she was telling him about a job opportunity she was recently given. She’s a professional makeup artist, and was being chosen to do the cast makeup of some new movie that I guess is going to be released in theaters at some point. Obviously the woman is beyond excited, so she calls my coworker when he’s at home to tell him the good news. He says to me, ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Maybe Marriage Isn’t For Me.I just wanted to pop in and thank everyone for your advice and thoughts on my situation. I’m not in a good place right now, at all, so my responses may be delayed until I’m able to revisit this with a level head. I hear all of you, and I want to thank you all for simply existing, and giving me a platform to air out this information and confirm that I’m not alone, I’m not stuck up, I’m not demanding, and I deserve better. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 10 | A conversation I had on r/advice about porn and sexI’m confused as to why you’re being downvoted as well. None of that reply was even remotely FDS appropriate, and honestly, partially laughable (“my man visits porn subreddits but it’s cool because I also watch porn and he’s not masturbating to it so there’s no problem.” LOL girl wut??????) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 28 | Being single isn't that bad, infact many women prefer it! A word.You can’t miss the joy of not having something when that “something” isn’t joyous to begin with. In other words, we’re not missing out on much of anything. Enjoy yourselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.I’m actually speechless. And notice how the women were easily able to answer questions about their male partners. Fuck m3n. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Wow. I have no words.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 22 | His Reddit history. Should I break up with him?👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 104 | Man dumps GF of 1 year, two years ago. He didn't think she was marriage material. He broke her heart. She begins getting closer to another man, appears to move on. He surprises NO ONE by suddenly feeling very hurt. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!“I gave her closure.” This was a very...self centered douchebag thing to say. I don’t even understand what that means. This is all about his ego. He was perfectly fine with her being without him and miserable, now she’s moved on and he’s jealous. Please. Get a life buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 32 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?I’m going to assume that post commentary is a joke to avoid developing a migraine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:30 PM |
| 49 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 8 | Her husband has literally no adulting skills. He’s 32 and refuses to adult.Oh good lord. Will someone please be a good sis and direct this poor beautiful woman to this subreddit? I’m actually genuinely upset for her. This is a despicable situation to be in, and for her future child to be thrown into. Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:49 PM |
| 48 | 'Marrying Down' Costs Educated Women $25K a Year. A less educated husband can spell financial ruin – especially for Black womenYEP. Black women are constantly raised with the idea that we should help black men through their struggles. We’re raised to be the women who take on men “with potential” and when we inevitably are dogged out, there is minimal sympathy, or we’re still badgered to “make it work.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:32 PM |
| 28 | I'm not your mother I'm your partnerOkay, this right here is what your average pick me doesn’t understand. I had thee most difficult time explaining to certain people how frustrated and stressed I felt with the lack of consistent care and attention my partner placed on cleaning and simply taking care of the “little things” around the house that to the average person would be common sense to clean up, organize, SANITIZE, or throw away. The lack of consistent planning and execution. The lack of consistent initiative. The lack of con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 16 | Ladies, Change Your Focus. FDS is NOT About Getting the Guy.Right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:14 AM |
| 21 | Why men Visiting FDS Get So Upset"Be careful getting all that edu-ma-cation gal. We need y'all ig'nant Women to cook and clean and birth us da' babies." Yeah, fuck off. And also LMAO @ "stfu and fix my sink, pompous asshat." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 69 | I can’t find a man I’m attracted to, and the ones I do like are always taken (or gay). Anyone else have this issue?Holy shit I thought I was alone in this...it’s so confusing. The more I’ve learned about men, the less I’ve been attracted to them, and I’m a heterosexual woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Jhene Aiko might be one of the worst pick me female celebrities of all timeYeah, because it’s rare lol, which is very embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:51 AM |
| 34 | Why men Visiting FDS Get So UpsetThat reminds me of when I told someone that I found a great resource through reddit and Facebook of likeminded radical feminist women, and a family member actually told me to, “be careful reading that stuff.” And I’m just like, umm, be careful of what, being influenced by the truth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 15 | Reminder: Low effort boyfriends evolve into low effort husbandsYou either play the game and be miserable, or accept the possibility of being single temporarily or forever. There’s really no other option in this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 66 | My friend praised a man for offering to split costs of the morning-after pill 🤦🏼♀️That’s what I’m truly not understanding. How many Male strangers are you expecting to be able to sexually please you to the fullest extent? They don’t know you, they’re sleeping with you randomly so to me that means they don’t care about you...how are people even comfortable sharing spaces and fluids with people they don’t know, have no back story on...Ugh. What is there to gain by having sex with strangers? This society is fucking strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 7 | The golden pussyBecause being “stuck up” means you’re unwilling to tolerate men’s lack of value and effort. Snobs are hard to be with when you know you’re beneath their level. So basically, losers with no value hate having to be better than what they are. And what’s even more pathetic is they’d rather insult a woman with high standards and self worth than to simply do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:50 AM |
| 5 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerA pickme will always make excuses for a LVM’s behavior. Then turn around and tell you to, “gIVe iT MOrE tImE!” when he inevitably doesn’t change his behavior. Then they’ll turn on you and blame you for leaving the stagnant relationship because you “gave up on a good man.” Hence why I advise not being in friendships with those people unless you enjoy being gaslighted to death by your ex AND your female friends while recovering from the breakup which in itself can be potentially traumatic for some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:26 PM |
| 7 | Plating Tips and Tricks"Every time he would give me oral sex which I rewarded him with nothing or leftover food I had cooked from earlier that day or week. I was dominant and he submit accordingly." You are goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 92 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerWait wait wait. So, you were actually on a date with a Man who blatantly told you that the Woman he's living in the same household as him is sexy? And then to top it all off, you're friend thinks you overreacted by ending the date? Nah, I'd drop both of them if it were me, but that's just me. His behavior screams "I'm not going to be monogamous" and your friends reaction tells me she won't ever be in your corner on these issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Any HVW daughters of Pick me mothers?Thank you. I’m just glad I have the choice to eliminate people from my life who cause me emotional harm, be it friend or family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:43 AM |
| 22 | Any HVW daughters of Pick me mothers?My Mother is sadly a pick me and it led to me going no contact over a year ago for the first time. Obviously, there were other factors, but as someone who suffered through a traumatic marriage with a sexually coercive porn addict, having your mother downplay, excuse it, then take your ex husband out to dinner was my final straw. Good riddance. As a former, somewhat of a pickme, I’m so thankful I’ve seen the light and unapologetically demand respect or FUCK OFF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 57 | Poor him. It must’ve been so hard for him. She should have been more understanding...“I couldn’t sleep, I wasn’t eating.” LOOOOOOOOOOOL??? Is this real life??? Dude were you crying and starving yourself while you were cheating on your wife?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.LOLOLOL!!! Idk why this took me out 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:32 AM |
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