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If you actively look for casual sex you'll get more casual sex, you don't need to be redpilled for that. When I was looking for casual sex I found it, and there was nothing red pill about the way I did it. But RP treats casual sex as a corr value, as if that was the only thing women are for.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/26 04:45 PM
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Do you give me permission to quote your last comment in a physical book?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/26 06:21 PM
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Feel free to DM! My research is mostly in Spanish, but most of my sources are in English because most manosphere/incel research is written in English. In fact, this sub was a key inspiration to propose my PhD because of many stories of exredpills and exincels along the years, so I'm always eager to give something back (just to be clear I'm not "researching" here nor gathering any kind of data from this sub, nor any other sub for that matter). That said, I do think fiction can sometimes help huma…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/26 06:20 PM
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No, you should post the research before claiming that something is true.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 06:14 PM
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That is Aristotle's idea of catharsis. It holds a degree of truth but "our brains process [media] as if we experienced without ever having to go through it" is not correct. Media doesn't hold a meaning of its own, it has to be interpreted by people and that's were certain values and views about the world come into action. As I mentioned in a longer comment, Barbie was widely praised as an eye opening movie about feminism but that didn't stop (some) RP people and even incels from liking the movie…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 05:31 PM
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No. There is no direct causality between media consumed and opinions/ideology because people can create their own interpretations about media. This doesn't mean that a person can't watch something and feel like it changed their lives, I'm just saying that you can't simply Clockwork Orange people by making them watch media you think will "deprogram" them. I've seen people praising Barbie of all movies in incel spaces; Joker was also interpreted as both anti-woke and woke, same as the Mario Bros m…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 05:17 PM
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But that's not an RP thing. RP renamed "talking to women" to things like "cold approach" and other terms that, when grouped together, conform to a worldview that dehumanises women. When I go to the gym I don't say to myself that I'm lookmaxxing to have a higher sexual market value. I simply go to the gym because it's good for my mental and physical health. It's not (mainly) actions that make RP, it's how they frame said actions.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/25 10:48 PM
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I don't really have problems with dating, but I'm probably autistic (I definitely have ADHD) as does my girlfriend. I'm not sure if I'm the target of the group but I wouldn't mind joining :)
/r/ExRedPill29/07/25 01:58 AM
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The made up percentages and framing this as "dating advice" are what made this seem RedPill-like. Also sentences like "you still gotta actually date the person for a while before you can fuck them". But yeah, just "be normal" and interact with people naturally. Which might not be the easiest thing for some people, but if you're just making innocuous conversation you shouldn't feel bad even if you say something dumb (it happens to everyone).
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 03:17 PM
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Watch munecat's video about the Red Pill instead. Then eventually watch Philosophy Tube and Contrapoints.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:57 PM
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This. Also, just casually mention something about feminism or ask what they think about it.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 02:52 AM
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But if you mean "flirting with," I can completely understand why she'd get pissed and want your password. I'd understand being mad, but not wanting the password. That's like fighting fire with fire. The guy flirting already broke the terms of the relationship, so her wanting to invade his social media is not going to "fix" anything, it'll just cause more problems. I've (basically) been cheated on and in the time I would have felt stupid asking to see the messages or demanding the password. Eithe…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 10:35 PM
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Yes. It's also the opposite thing: the alt-right can lead to the red pill. Also, they're things that can simply coexist at the same time. You could argue (I do) that right-wing circles, the manosphere, racism, anti-LGBT+ views, etc. are all "intersectional" beliefs. Of course, hate doesn't always presents itself in the same ways. There's some crazy shit out there like pro-LGBT+ red pill, migrants for Trump or mysoginistic women.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 02:04 AM
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Literally a cult.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 02:31 AM
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Those sound like strawman arguments more than anything, and I certainly haven't seen them repeated here "on a regular basis". I could have missed that though; people post all kinds of things in this sub, including the occasional nonsense. But anyway here's my take: That's a simplification: reducing anything to "hormones" or "socialization" would also be a simplification though. People are just different and they have different sex drives for a lot of reasons. I can see where you're coming from w…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 12:08 AM
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What "party dogma" are you referring to?
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 07:23 PM
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Just... read what I wrote again? I can't really answer nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 07:18 PM
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And do you think that that is related to confidence? In the sense that men need to be more confident to send messages but women don't need to be confident to receive them? You don't think that there might be more complexities in this whole situation? Simple math, dude Social relations are never math lmao But since you like math here's some other data for you to consider: 34% of men say they've used online dating while it's 27% for women. The percentage of men that pay (41%) is also higher than t…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:16 AM
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So you just jump from "receiving more messages online" to "be in a relationship"? Even more, from "women receive more messages in OLD" (whatever that is), you then draw the conclusion that "men are women are not the same at all". The only thing I can do here is point the blatant lack of logical coherence. But that's also how RedPill ideology gets into your brain: by making you believe that things are related and that there's always a simple explanation to any human behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 11:45 PM
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Because it's just bullshit based on nothing*. *Tinder messages received are also nothing.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 11:30 PM
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That's bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/24 11:26 PM
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The TwoXXChromosomes subreddit is a shithole. It's not even a feminist subreddit even though I bet they use some feminism-adjacent terms like "sorority", a term that doesn't mean anything anymore. Somehow also some people (men and women) think that a woman that simply complains about men is a feminist, which is what you mostly get there. I'm saying this as a "feminist" guy. I quote "feminist" because I get that calling myself a feminist is ugly and I'd rather my actions speak instead of my words…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 09:39 AM
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I'd be glad if someone asked me why I'm following RP pages because it would give me the space to go on a long rant on how their misogyny is so toxic that it even harms men.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 11:03 AM
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How is more money coming into the household a bad thing? Honestly red pillers are fucking stupid
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 12:58 AM
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Not always, king! It might be just an affective exaggeration. But talking about people as "prizes" seems much worse in my mind and definitely falls into RP rhetoric.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 02:36 AM
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They simply hate women with agency because in their twisted world every woman should be subservient to men.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 06:35 PM
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Me, without reading the sub this was in: why would anyone want to debunk Pink Floyd's masterpiece?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 08:11 AM
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That's just not a valid form of "research" lol you're just searching for confirmation of your previous biases by looking at a single case where people happen to be commenting what you expect. In Social Sciences we'd say that your "experiment" has very low construct validity: you're not measuring what you think you're measuring and, as a consequence, you're not proving what you think you're proving.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 02:30 PM
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Even in that case, why would the sex lives of other people matter?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 11:39 PM
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Just for the same reasons that flat-earthers claim that the earth is flat. There's nothing to believe there either, just the hard and objective truth that what they claim is false.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 11:35 PM
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That's called a hook. "Do you want to really improve yourself? Then come adopt our worldview as a reality, where we use gender determinism to suppress men's feelings and personalities and abuse and objectify women!"
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 07:25 PM
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I always (used to) go to a coffee shop or some quiet "neutral" place where you can talk. Contrary to what movies depict, the first date doesn't need to be huge, it just serves as a way to know each other and see if you want a second date (or see if you have chemistry, attraction or whatever you want). Complicating things and trying to make it special can very quickly turn into weirdness.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 07:55 AM
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No man, it's not "your technique", some people are just assholes and you shouldn't change because of them. The "your technique" piece actually make it sound PUA/RP, as in the reason why someone didn't show up was because you're not alpha enough or something like that. If someone no-shows, specially when you're dating, simply cut that person unless they make an effort to connect with you again and move on. Just be respectful because you really don't know the context of other people but stand your…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 09:05 AM
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Forgiveness doesn't depend on who he is right now or how much he's improved; forgiveness just depends on your willingness to spend time with him knowing what you know about him. If he's truly changed he should understand that, even with all the changes (good for him!) you still do not want to do anything with him because of his past. It's just something that he'll have to process: that the damage he caused to others will not magically heal just because he's better now. If you feel like he's "pre…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 02:27 PM
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It doesn't make any sense. More women = more Red Pill points. Also it's not really "polygamy" imo, but the "harem" idea of owning women. Polygamy can be consensual and sane (but as with monogamous relationships it's also complicated).
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 03:06 PM
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It doesn't make any sense. More women = more Red Pill points. Also it's not really "polygamy" imo, but the "harem" idea of owning women. Polygamy can be consensual and sane (but as with monogamous relationships it's also complicated).
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 03:04 PM
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It doesn't make any sense. More women = more Red Pill points. Also it's not really "polygamy" imo, but the "harem" idea of owning women. Polygamy can be consensual and sane (but as with monogamous relationships it's also complicated).
/r/ExRedPill12/06/23 03:04 PM
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This is not even "theory", it's just incel/RP talking points being repeated and nauseam.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 04:02 PM
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There is no gender war, just aggressions. You sound already brainwashed so you're probably a good fit to any kind of armed forces.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 11:37 AM
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I think you might be applying a RP worldview to yourself in that instance. It's a key point of their ideology than everyone can't change because their actions are rooted in a biological past. You're also denying yourself the opportunity to change because you had a past in RP. Change is possible and you in fact seem to have walked a few steps towards that change, why couldn't you change even more (and for the better)? You can't change the past but you can impact the present and the future.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 08:02 PM
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You ask "how do I cope with that?" but with what, exactly? You ask it as if it were fact (like RP probably taught you) but I just see it as insecurity about something that didn't happen yet, which is normal. RP is especially good into turning "normal" insecurities into hate towards women (= "it's not that I'm insecure about my body, it's that all women are superficial"). I mean yes there are as many superficial women out there as men, but (1) I doubt that anyone looking only for sex would care a…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/23 09:07 AM
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That's intended, though. One of RP's goals is to dehumanize women and you can't achieve that by saying positive things about them.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:48 AM
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I'm not sure if there's academic literature on that matter (I would be interested in reading it though). My thought is that there is wide range of "dissatisfaction" that is the one targeted by the ones creating RP discourse. As in a sect, the net is wide enough so it can gather enough different people, which then are "converted" into the RP worldview/ideology.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:46 AM
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I can only talk about my own problems and solutions because, as I've said, those problems might be real but change depending on each person, because we're all different. RP will tell you that no, all women are the same, all men are the same and blahblah the same gender stereotypes of centuries ago with some modern and digital rhetoric. In my case (I'm a cis heterosexual white male), I've encountered women that expected me to fulfill the "traditional role" of men, as in: provider, expected me to …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 09:24 PM
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In the RedPill world, they unconsciously accept that men's value comes from the validation of women. This is why PUAs try to "game" the validation they obtain or why incels feed their misery with this, because they can't obtain this validation. MGTOWs differ only in theory, because in the practice they want the passive validation of everyone knowing that they don't need women.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 09:11 PM
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How old are you? The first love deceptions and bad and, there's no way around this, you will suffer for them. That is a normal aspect of life: accepting that someone else doesn't correspond your feelings, having a bad time and then moving on (maybe you'll learn something in the process, maybe not). I don't think is good that you try to suppress what you feel. Talking about it (with friends or someone you trust) is always good, not with a mindset of "how do we fix the painful emotions" but with a…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 09:05 PM
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I'm still here :) Imo one thing to understand about RP ideology is that it works as a cult, in the sense that is primary goal is to control the behaviour of its "members" by controlling how they perceive the world. I say "member" because you don't "join" RP in the same sense that you join a traditional cult. In fact, one perceived notion of its ideology is that you don't "join" anything, it's merely "an explanation of how the world operates". Simply put: that worldview is enticing because it's a…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 08:59 PM
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Not sure if it's just my sleepy self, but judging by the title I thought it was going to be a defense of RP. I'd say RP is the lack of perspective, as you then explain with the process of its binary thinking (as in, they only care about their own predictive and disregard others', especially women's). Also, I don't think the question "are they doing this intentionally or subconsciously" is ever worth answering. As you mention with Alder's razor, there's no way to prove things one way or the other…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/22 08:48 AM
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I'm going to go against the crowd here and tell you that this doesn't seem a particularly strange idea or inherently trolling. It just seems like "normal" suicide ideation to me. Motives, in cases of suicide ideation, are irrelevant: the important thing here is that you have an idea and plans prepared for your death. You also don't seem to value your life on your own, but instead focus on external things that you transform into "your" reason to keep on living. If you understand why you don't wan…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 11:09 PM
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I am unimpressed by people who use the term "body count", so I would feel sorry for them and their need to acquire validation from me.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 10:27 PM
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Agree, but I don't think that "the judges in this particular context will be mostly women". It's usually other men (the gurus, the PUAs, the MRAs, the RPs etc.) the ones deciding if a man is "alpha" enough, not women. Because, basically, mysoginists don't care about what women think and diminishing women is a core belief of these ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 04:14 PM
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If bullying or mistreatment leads you to RP, you will be inflicting on others the same pain that made you hurt.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 12:54 AM
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There's a difference between watching porn and masturbation. Also, there are links between the NoFap movements and the RP and right-wing movements, and how they're using things like NoFapNovember to radicalize people to their movements. Not the best one, but an article of many that exposes the link between NoFap and right-wing radicalization: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/coomer-meme-no-nut-november-nofap-908676/amp/ Looking for that one I also found …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 08:36 PM
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Do you understand why a subreddit like r/exredpill may be focused only on men's experiences and that that focus doesn't mean that it's taking away from women's experiences of denying their struggles? Can you then understand why the existence of a subreddit focused on women with autism is not denying your experiences, but merely creating a space to talk about their experiences? And that these experiences may not align with yours even if you're also autistic?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 03:23 AM
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Why do you want a yes or no answer? I wrote two paragraphs because I don't think it's that simple.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 12:35 AM
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The "high value person" idea needs to disappear altogether imo, even if it's not related to gender. People are not products and the commodification of social relations is another side effect of our high exposure to online algorithms (Tinder in particular). If someone thinks I'm low value then fuck them. I don't have to cater to their taste on men or people.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 04:47 PM
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Firstly: a situation is not a "trait". Secondly: no.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 02:47 PM
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It's because focusing only on males paints the picture as if the problem were women because they're the superficial ones. If you really wanted to talk about superficiality or the privilege of being good-looking, you'd talk about how it affects everyone in all contexts, from heterosexual/homosexual relationship to others contexts like job-searching.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 02:46 PM
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Well then it wouldn't be redpill. That's actually what r/menslib is about.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 01:22 AM
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I mean, me and my girlfriend don't want to have kids but that doesn't have anything to do with RP ideology becoming more mainstream. If anything, it's this ideology and its adherents the ones that try to "sell" an hermetic idea of how men, women and their relationships should be.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 04:17 PM
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What you said is only true if you view women as a means to an end and not as people.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/22 04:27 AM
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While RP indeed is an ideology that thrives on suppressing your own emotions and causes emotional and psychological harm on the person holding these views we don't have to minimize the harm caused to others. The suffering that RP men suffer is important and needs to be addressed in specific places such as this subreddit, but it is secondary when compared to the main target of their damage: the women around them (or those harassed online). With all this said: it is not your place to help or "fix"…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/22 09:16 PM
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There's no such thing as "promiscuous". It's just an adjective that gets tossed around arbitrary when someone wants to police women's sexuality.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 11:21 PM
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I agree with you. Actually what OP's psychologist is saying seems very sketchy to me. I could picture any RP guy saying stuff like that because as you say, it's another way of assigning value to women. In fact, people need to be careful not to use RP logic to criticize RP: "women that fall for RP tactics have low value" is not a critique of RP but its reinforcement. If someone comes to you when you're down, then they're "low value" and don't have self-steem? That seems like a good way to destroy…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 05:47 PM
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What pill is this one?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 03:50 PM
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Here's the thing: you're using sentences, arguments and concepts that sound logical but they are not. They're, in fact, "logical traps", or ideas that you take for granted on a emotional, baseless level from which you then draw conclusions as if they were the truth. I'm telling it this way because I also considered myself "logical" and I simply thought that my bitterness was rooted in truths: "I'm intelligent enough to see the truth and I draw the 'logical' conclusion that I suck as a person". B…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 06:50 PM
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I don't have any particular question but thank you for sharing your story! I'm glad you're better now. I know some things about women who are anti-feminist and the constant reinforcement they get from men in their similar background, but I'm not sure if there's any particularity about RP women that differences them from that. Regarding your experience with dating apps and women, were they on "heterosexual" apps? Maybe it's easier in apps that cater towards LGTB+ people but I do know that in some…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 06:34 PM
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In the first panel they're telling you that you should lie to them...
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 06:27 PM
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The four girls are, in fact, lesbians in a poly relationship.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 06:23 PM
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Step 1: "Ignore every step by step system, including this one" That's an advice I always follow.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 09:41 AM
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Do you realize that you're a man with moronic energy and that you act like a fucking moron and you're turning men and women away from you?
/r/ExRedPill29/11/21 05:50 PM
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My opinion: bullshit statements to radicalize vulnerable people.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 03:18 PM
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You've received some pretty good comments so I'm going to keep it short: after some bad time, I started to "overtrust" people. I would tell them how I felt and personal things and some of them behaved nicely but others in insensitive ways. Some of these people were women, some were not; some of them were not deserving of my trust and some were. This is just life, it's how it is and we'll be sad some times because people will let us down. A redpill mindset will cherrypick some of these cases to s…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 06:21 PM
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I'm not sure what you're trying to say here. I deleted a comment because the "aryan" in your name and your participation in "no fap" subreddits raised my alarms but on the spirit of this subreddit I will give you the benefit of the doubt. So the main reason people are saying that your post sounds like TRP is because those kind of simplistic mantras are usual in TRP arguments. They oversimplify the complexities of reality to make them the ones capable of revealing (their) truth to others. You had…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 06:08 PM
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Spaces matter, and online spaces matter too. If a see an MRA or redpiller on Twitter that has a history of harassing women online, I may make fun of his shitty ideology and don't consider him a victim, even if I understand -thanks to feminism- that society also places upon him an impossible standard of masculinity that he constantly tries to reach (and this desire of masculinity makes him prone to bring recruited into cult-like organisation and spaces such us what you'll encounter in the manosph…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 08:29 PM
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Agree. I definitely didn't expect that sentence about feminism after a good title.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 08:21 PM
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Not true: I can only provide headaches and despair and I've been with girls for the past +15 years
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 09:28 AM
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"Redpill works but only to fuck" or "redpill works but only with moronic women" are still light redpill talking points and still show a misogynistic view of the world. Even "girls you wouldn't want" deserve respect and not to be subjected to lies and manipulation. Really, you can get anything from casual sex to a longtime relationship without with respect and respecting others' boundaries. Also, do not blame the victim. If a girl "falls" for RP manipulation it's not that they're at fault or that…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/21 09:01 AM
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As others have pointed out, there's no relationship between number of likes and anything lol And the tweet is simply misogynistic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 01:54 PM
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No you're just a moron
/r/ExRedPill28/10/21 11:33 PM
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Yeah this right there sounds like RP advice tbh. She was disrespectful, yes. There can be many reasons for that. But there's a world from this to what you're saying. You're even assuming that when she asked if she wanted something from the gas station she was faking it because of some plot! For fucks sake. To OP: I would have left too. If the opportunity arises or she asks just explain it to her: "I left because I was uncomfortable". Expressing how you feel is important.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 06:53 AM
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Categorising people based on perceived value is always bad. Period. The alpha-beta-gamma nonsense is exactly that: they tell you you're a filthy beta but if you work hard (and listen to them and buy their stuff) you can become an alpha. Using one of their terms: the manosphere works by negging its followers. As is common in any other cult-like group, they insult who you are but then compliment your willingness to change (because your there, listening to them, and that's the first step towards gr…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 09:15 PM
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The short answer is because redpill is a movement that is often as racist as misogynistic. Both things are usually intertwined when they talk about black women in particular.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:03 AM
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This reads as very contradictory.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 10:54 PM
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They have a special organ right up their nose, so they "sense" ambition in a similar way that some people can see the colour of sounds. Of course not. How do you sense ambition and success? Very different from me and everything else, probably. So women are the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 04:31 PM
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This guy is like "performing traditional masculinity is important in society" and then proceeds to behave as a child lol.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 06:40 PM
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Why do you make it all have to be about dating? That's precisely "performing traditional masculinity". You say it's "vitally important" to perform it but it's not: it's just something that society imposes on us. You just seem to be comfortable with that and don't want to fight that assumption about men. I do: dating is not all I care about and my sexual relationships with women are not something that define me. "Anything a woman does cannot be criticized"... man do you even read feminism? 80% of…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 09:53 AM
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"any strain of modern feminism is bad" is a key argument of TRP that shows clear lack of knowledge about the various types of modern feminism as well as historical feminism. Would you rather have modern feminism be as the feminism from the last century? Edit: my point with the last question was to point out that in the last century suffragettes planted bombs to fight for women's rights. It's always funny to me how some redpillers will inadvertently side with "old feminists" when trying to critic…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 09:07 AM
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I do agree that we need more spaces to talk about masculinity and gender and how it affects men (take a look at r/menslib, one of the best online resources for this) but don't think that "the alternatives aren't better". Even nothing at all is better than being brainwashed into TRP. Also, the more inclusive branches of feminism will be useful to men as well. I know they were to me. But there are branches of feminism that promote hatred towards POC, trans women and of course, "men", which is thei…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 08:59 AM
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Well if you want to understand women, listen to women. You don't have to go to fiction that has been written mostly by men to understand women. I don't want to come off as rude and I do agree with the other things you said, but there are countless of assault (or near assault) stories happening every day.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 09:38 AM
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It's simple: when in doubt, ask for consent. You're not sure if a woman wants to talk with you? Ask. You're not sure if a woman wants to kiss you? Ask. You're not sure if a woman wants to have sex with you? Ask. RPs, PUAs and the like will tell you that you shouldn't ask, you have to affirm stuff, because that projects masculinity yadayada. The thing is that if you ask, they'll tell you "no" sometimes and it sucks. They'll also tell you that asking consent is "unnatural" or whatever made up scen…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 09:33 AM
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To be honest, it all comes down to how much shitty of a person you want to be to others. I see from your comments you're deep in the manosphere so there's nothing we can say at this stage, specially when you come to this sub to seek confrontation (which in this case is another form of validation). Everyone defines success on their own terms. For RP (and now for you too) success is simply sleeping with women no matter the cost, no matter the consequences (to others). Really, we literally can't ar…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 09:18 AM
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why I'm I undateble rape is bad but What the fuck, seriously. In the spirit of the subreddit I'll try to be more constructive, but please don't go around saying stuff like this when you've obviously never experienced rape and don't know what you're talking about. I do think you might be depressed because I've been in a similar spot and I can identify with that getting of unworthiness. My way of dealing with that was going to a psychologist and learning to control and express my emotions. It's no…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 09:14 AM
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There was a researcher about wolves that wrote about "alpha" behaviour on wolves. This was copied by RP and other idiots who took it at face value and adopted it as a life model. Later on, the researcher kept researching and discovered that his previous research about wolves was wrong, and that wolves work as a community and they don't have anything to do with what it's consider "being an alpha male" nowadays. Let me find a decent source and I'll edit.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 02:38 PM
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It doesn't matter if they're "happy" or not. Their definition of happiness and men's worth comes at the expense of hurting women, which is why it's bad (not only "bad" in the ethical sense, but "bad" as in: that's a strategy used by cults to radicalise people). Would you want to be happy if that caused suffering on other people? The whole point of RedPill's dehumanising of women is so that men become radicalised and numb to the pain they're inflicting on women.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 12:10 PM
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The things you mention that you like are common conceptions of new age thinking and pseudosciences. In any sect they'll mention variations of "be a better version of yourself" because is something anyone can agree on, while at the same time not coming as agressive: "be a better version of yourself" is much different from "change who you are". Being assertive is not bad either. Redpill tries to appropriate this conception by creating a straw man argument out of feminist allies, by calling us "bet…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:28 AM
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Feminism is right though. Unless you're talking about TERFs.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:52 PM
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Mass-deleting girls' texts (because girls' words and feelings don't mean anything to me the Chad) is precisely something that a redpill would do and something that shouldn't be written as aspirational in this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:32 AM
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I'm not sure how to help your friend because the question "how do you de-radicalize someone?" is nearly impossible to answer. But I do want to say this: be careful when seeing women who help you or are a good influence to you as "saviors". This is a common stereotype: a guy goes the wrong way but then he meets the right girl and she "fixes" him. Then, the guy returns to his own bad self. I don't have advice to your friend. I do have advice to you. Maybe one day you and your girlfriend won't be t…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:27 AM
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You're just using patriarchal, sexist, logic, in which women are valued depending on how much sex they provide to men. This is why you perceive that if you only want a woman for sex, that shows that you don't respect her. Because either you're deceiving a "saint" woman or you're with a "slut" woman that only wants sex (as well as you do). Look up the saint/slut dichotomy and you'll see that is a common stereotype on how women are perceived and portrayed, in media and in reality. the very act of …
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 12:09 AM
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