DamagingDoritos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	(28m) scared to talk to women. Don’t start playing on expert mode. Start with very simple interactions in environments where people are paid to be nice to you and offer you some small talk, like baristas at coffee shops or servers at restaurants. When you feel more comfortable in those situations, start asking random people in those places a simple question and getting a response. Then start working your way up to something like a club.	/r/seduction	08/07/26 11:03 PM
13	Saw the same girl a few times on my walks, smiled and waved today. What’s the natural next step? Say hi, introduce yourself and make some small talk	/r/seduction	07/07/26 10:31 PM
3	Am I a stalker? The point of keeping in touch is because you liked her. You should have let her know you liked her from the beginning and asked her and her friend to hang out right away. You could have had a fun weekend. You could have found romance. Instead you were too afraid and now you’re here lamenting about it. If she’s a beautiful girl, she gets hit on all the time and is completely used to it. She expects you to hit on her. To her, it’s not awkward, and if she wasn’t interested she would have politely t…	/r/seduction	04/07/26 06:54 PM
1	Am I a stalker? You said in your post that she was waiting for you outside to say goodbye as you were leaving. At that point you could have said it was nice to meet her and ask for a way to keep in touch.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 03:26 AM
8	Am I a stalker? I wouldn’t consider this stalking. But it is desperate behavior. Next time, if someone shows enthusiasm, like she did when she found you to say goodbye, just work up the courage to ask for her phone number or if you’re not comfortable doing that just her social media to be able to stay in touch.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 02:06 AM
2	How can I stop being an incel nice guy piece of shit 💩 You do not sound like somebody I would want to spend 80%+ of my time with. Remember that you bring 50% to a relationship. You are completely focused on what someone would bring to your life, but your description of yourself does not seem like you would bring much value to someone else’s life. I wouldn’t even think about wasting energy trying to find someone who would put up with you in this state. Work on yourself first and become someone desirable	/r/seduction	02/07/26 08:41 PM
6	Inability to talk to women and even men You are putting way too much pressure on social interactions. You are treating every communication as a test against your own self worth, and you are micro analyzing every response you are given. I would recommend getting some experience just having dumb, superficial conversations with a wide array of people in settings where this makes sense, like customer service workers. Go to a coffee shop and order a coffee from the counter, and just ask the cashier how their day is going, and then respond …	/r/seduction	28/06/26 06:04 PM
3	My issue with acting aloof/not overly invested/acting like i don't care You say you have a full busy life, but are you setting your sights too low in terms of doing interesting things so the text you’ve received isn’t more important? If you were training to become a pilot, and you were practicing taking off for the first time, and you’re zipping down the runway with your life in your hands, and happened to notice your crush texted you, would you say in that moment you’d feel too busy to shoot a text back right away? If you decided you’d take a day trip to your favor…	/r/seduction	26/03/19 02:21 AM
3	How do I stop being needy? When a girl is into you, she’ll make time to hang out with you. She will initiate contact with you. If you ask her out and she’s busy, she’ll let you know a time she’s free and reschedule. The goal isn’t to “game” and wear a girl down until she finally caves in and dates you. Who wants that? The goal is to constantly keep meeting new people (should be easy at college), stay unattached, and look for someone you have mutual attraction with who puts in as much effort as you do. When you encounter i…	/r/seduction	22/02/19 06:23 PM
6	How do you start a conversation whith a girl on snap chat? Reply to a story that you find funny and/or relatable	/r/seduction	24/01/19 06:46 PM
4	I don't know what I'm doing wrong You're very lucky because the things you need to fix are fucking easy! You are already an outgoing guy: not afraid to talk to a girl, get her number, banter with her, etc. You just gotta get with the times. Go to h&m and get some good fitting t-shirts and trendy looking sweatshirts. Basic v-necked fitted t's are like $5. Buy them all and start feeling comfortable wearing them. Then head next door to American Eagle and splurge on two or three good pairs of jeans. Preppy American Eagle polos are n…	/r/seduction	16/02/15 12:36 AM
2	[FR] During an insta date she kept questioning me "do you always do this?" Are they really that stupid? Dude, why are you so angry? The reason you keep getting blown out is because these girls can smell condescending asshole on your breath. Learn to appreciate these girls as human beings. Don't be an asshole. People won't like you.	/r/seduction	30/07/14 03:55 AM
3	[FR] How to proceed? This is an open invitation to Fucktown. Why not take her obvious emotional interest and capitalize on it now while it is still strong? Do you have a college bar or something that does some sort of Thirsty Thursday special? "I would say something like, "Well I'll be having the most fun at (bar) tonight. Feel free to join us at 10" Still shows you have a life independent of her, and hey, since you asked me, you can come along for the ride.	/r/seduction	27/03/14 09:14 PM