| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 57 | Thoughts on Uber money? | Logistics | Damian-7530 | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 02:26 PM |
| 29 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts? | Fundamentals | Damian-7530 | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:02 PM |
| 14 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help! | Field Report | Damian-7530 | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 9 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates? | Conversation | Damian-7530 | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 11:57 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Thoughts on Uber money?What? 😭😭😭😭🙏🏽 | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Uber money?Seee, I can't just ask her out the gate where she lives. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Uber money?It's actually that crazy | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Uber money?Not everyone can afford a car | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Uber money?Indeed | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Uber money?It did set of major flags | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on Uber money?Didn't respond to their messages after | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on Uber money?Met them on a dating app. We had good conversations so I got their numbers. Even called one of them and it was going really well. Asked them out on dates(not at the same time please there was a time span in-between) then boom. Pay for my uber | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Odds of finding a fwb through cold approachUm so in theory you gotta do 2 things. But first make sure you cold approach a lot so you have lots of leads. Then you either do one of the 2. On the first date tell her you're not looking for anything serious. Don't explain just say you're dating casually and move the conversation forward. Second date invite her over. Note: if she comes on a date after you've told her you are dating casually she's down. Might take up to a third or fourth date for sex but at least you know. Don't wait too long t… | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?No shame in that. I would if I could afford it | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:42 AM |
| 14 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?Get legal prostitution | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Women Who Say They Don’t Want FWB but Do…Please can you share exactly what's on your hinge bio? It seems to be working | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 11:00 AM |
| 2 | (29M) After many dates, most of which never really went anywhere, I finally get why people, both men and women, make the hard distinction between relationships and FWB/casual. How can I learn the language/frame/mindset of FWB/casusal?Thank you | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 11:43 AM |
| 1 | (29M) After many dates, most of which never really went anywhere, I finally get why people, both men and women, make the hard distinction between relationships and FWB/casual. How can I learn the language/frame/mindset of FWB/casusal?So you tell them during the first date I'm only looking for something casual? | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 08:42 AM |
| 2 | (29M) After many dates, most of which never really went anywhere, I finally get why people, both men and women, make the hard distinction between relationships and FWB/casual. How can I learn the language/frame/mindset of FWB/casusal?Do you just want to fuck them? Just fuck. Wow you make it sound so easy. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?That parts easy, if they aren't interested they won't give you their number or go out with you | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?It does seem exhausting talking to new people. And the thought of having to plan dates in the future puts me off. Also I don't approach if I can't see a timeline where I'd meet them soon in the future irl. (As in I'd ask them out on a date) | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreThis is common sense for black men or if you live in Africa lol. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 09:02 PM |
| 2 | does head make penetration shorter for men?Sometimes. It depends on the guy. There are some guys that don't can't cum from head. Your man sounds like someone that can or at least get close to it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 09:18 AM |
| 1 | i like her body but not necessarily her face. should i still date her?Just tell her you're looking for something casual | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 07:07 AM |
| 2 | game is dropped boysOkay so step 1. Afford a car. Nice, | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?I'd love to encounter those types of women | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?It's usually for money though, women won't even approach you for a relationship | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:38 AM |
| 25 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?Its weird women have loose opinions that are dependent on how she feels at that point in time. There's an influencer that got popular for advicing women to never get married. That dame influencer got engaged last month | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 08:19 AM |
| 3 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Lol. Women go berserk when you tell this as a response to their complaints about dating shitty men | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 08:55 PM |
| 19 | Why women don't chase men?Pretty harsh | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?Thanks a lot OG | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 09:53 AM |
| 5 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?How does someone get to your level | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 09:49 AM |
| 2 | How exactly do you handle LMR for women who activate their 'anti-slut defense' before sexLmr? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I pretended to be rich on hingeSide note but my pet peeve with dating apps is that they show me women outside my city. When I filter for within my area I've suddenly run out of matches. I have over 80 likes on tinder and more than 90% are outside my city. It's bullsht | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical for the ladies — from a guy always on the moveI do this a lot. They will NEVER offer up their number | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Im 18m (M4f)and I'm boredd and horny come pick me up in sc 843 Hartsville area!(freeuse) !If men could have sex with women just by posting about wanting sex the world would be a happier place. Give up bro. Work on yourself in real life and learn to cold approach | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Im 18m (M4f)and I'm boredd and horny come pick me up in sc 843 Hartsville area!(freeuse) !This will never work. Give up. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Where to find hookups on the weekday?What about how to get hookups? Just cause you can find women in college doesn't mean it's guaranteed | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Where to find hookups on the weekday?Best advice on here | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Just be happy you're having sex. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you proceed when the girls want a relationship, but you don’t?Why don't you want a relationship? Is it that you enjoy seeing these "women" and would rather not be tied down to one in a relationship? | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | This is WAY too easy now!Oh that's dope, did you ask to come over | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | This is WAY too easy now!How did you ask her to come over | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | This is WAY too easy now!How did you get her to sleep with you? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:42 PM |
| 2 | This is WAY too easy now!Too early to say you've won. Let us know if you guys have sex | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 10:28 AM |
| 4 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexBut this is the reason so many guys get into trouble. You say don't kiss me but come online to say you wished I kissed you. I kiss you then say I assaulted. Women are so annoying. The world would be a better place if both genders behaved the same way. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:50 PM |
| 7 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexWomen that tell you this suck. So they want you to disrespect the boundaries they set??? Good job on you for respecting it regardless. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 03:44 PM |
| 2 | 5 rejections in a monthThat's literally impossible unless you don't learn from your mistakes and have no guidance. (Guidance is the bare minimum, check out YouTube and podcasts) | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Short, Nerdy, 230lb getting girls has gotten easy. Ask questionsWhat does your timeline look like? From getting a girls number to sex. What does that process look like for you | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 07:54 AM |
| 13 | How to become good at textingFirst off you're focusing on the wrong thing. The only important thing about texting is setting up dates. That's all that matters. There's nothing you want to say on phone that isn't better said in person. Plus she'll take you more seriously for setting up a date. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 08:07 PM |
| 0 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?So what should be the right thing then. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Great minds | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?No wonder. I did feel like everyone was doing it but no one was saying it. So I decided to bite the bullet and say something | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 04:08 PM |
| 2 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?You'd be suprised mate. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?What a loser way to comprehend the post. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 02:28 PM |
| 9 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?As you should. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 02:15 PM |
| 0 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Absolutely. Thanks man you're amazing. My preferences are mine. I feel silly for doubting myself | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:53 PM |
| -2 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Way too many women went ballistic in another sub with the same title and I found that weird | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:45 PM |
| -4 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Real. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:20 PM |
| 16 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Thanks finally some sense of reason. I posted this in another sub and all the women went ballistic. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 01:08 PM |
| 11 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortOkay this Is exactly what I need thanks! | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 09:36 AM |
| 10 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortSo that logistics part. What are you saying that doesn't sound weird or off please? Do you say come over to mine, what exactly do you say, can you give examples | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 09:30 AM |
| 1 | My issue is knowing when and how to escalate."hey let's go grab drinks this week, when are you free" "I'd love to take you out to dinner, what does your schedule look like this week?" "Hey let's go out for coffee, are you free (Monday)?" Rejection handling: She says no I'm not free Monday, you say; "no worries when are you free this week"? Please understand. You are not desperate. If she doesn't give you a yes or tells you when's she's free, take the hint and find another woman. An example of a soft rejection is, "I'll let you know when I'… | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sexBreak up. Find someone that wants to show you affection the way you want it. There are billions of women in the world and definitely thousands and millions in your city. Why are you sticking with the one girl that doesn't want to sleep with you? | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:57 AM |
| 29 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortOnce it moves off the app, it almost never dies. Sorry but you skipped a few steps buddy. What do say when you get them off the apps? | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:49 AM |
| 10 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned"I had a guide on this before but it got mad hate." Please how can i get this guide you used? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Different views with hinge dateNo 😔 | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!I'm so happy for people like you. Thanks so much. | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!Thanks so much, this is the advice I was originally looking for | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!Exactly! Most women at parties aren't receptive | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!😂 am I rich in this dream? | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!Thank you | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!I know this makes sense but when she rejects me and I'm still in the same space as her how do I handle that | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!I'm going to save this for the next time I go out. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Different views with hinge dateCrazy but I had the same situation earlier. There's a girl I'm seeing that doesn't want to have sex or do anything below the waste. I've been asking her if she wants to and made it a yes or no thing and she always said no. This afternoon things got hot and heavy. I put her hand on my d and showed her how to stroke it. Then I kissed her and rubbed her private part from outside her clothes, then I progressed to under her joggers and on top of her panties, then I went under her panties and fingered… | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Approach!I have a question. I always imagined a weird scenario about approaching in the club. Let's say you talk to one girl in the club for 20 minutes. How do you eject or what do you say to leave? Also when you go talk to another girl what If the first one catches you doing that? Or the second one already saw you talking with the first one? | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?I'm a guy 😂. There are women with preposterous standards so I get what you mean. But the other guy is assuming it's easy for women to enter quality relationships lol. I have female friends and they tell me their experiences. A lot of men don't work on themselves, they think going to the gym and making money is all the work they need. So they are not quality. Y'all should go out to the real world and touch grass and interact with real people. Not takes on social media | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Your mentality is wrong and needs a reality check. You can't just assume that eventually a quality man will just show up. Have you seen the number of women that are 30+ in age complaining about being single???? Men approaching them doesn't automatically mean he is "quality" for approaching. Yes it's easier to get in a relationship with any man but not the right quality man. There is a difference. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 07:58 PM |
| 0 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?This isn't the good thing it sounds like. Just because you're a woman and men are more likely to come talk to you does not mean THE QUALITY MEN YOU WANT will come to you. What will you do if all the men that approach you are bums? Settle down to avoid "being forever alone forever single"? | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?And women wonder why they are still single | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:45 AM |
| 25 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?I was watching advice for women on how to get a boyfriend/husband a few hours ago. I was very disappointed to find out what women consume as dating advice. It was all very passive advice: 1. Smile more often 2. Go to the club/hobby where he'll be and wait for him to talk to you 3. Embody your "femininity" 4. Have an All men love you energy 5. Go to bars alone (solid advice but still passive cuz the coaches say go to the bar and wait for the man to come) 6. Give him a shit test to make him desire… | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionThat's impressive, so you have a lot of first date sex? Most gurus I know say invite her over on the 3rd date | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionI'm 22, still got my v card and I approach dawg 😭😭😭... I do know what's holding me back and that's getting my own place and having money though | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionFlex lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Sex feels like a chore but love the attentionYou sound like we're I'm tryna be in dating man congratulations. Do you have a good job that helps you foot the bill for all those dates? My biggest worry is getting money to take women out on dates. How do you navigate dating expenses | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 12:20 PM |
| 10 | Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same timeOkay that's great, thank you. So the general idea is to let them know it's casual after sex | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 12:34 PM |
| 11 | Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same timeOkay great. Can you go be specific about how you turned these women into fwb after meeting them? That would be helpful | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?Sounds risky, what the girl is my babes friend? 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?That's a positive way to look at the situation, thanks | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?😂yeah | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?That's a valid point. I always imagined I'd get a mocktail since it's non alcoholic | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?😂😂 | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?That's a positive way to look at things, thank you. I'm definitely working on being in a better financial position next year. I just felt sad I had to pause all things dating cuz I'm poor | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 12:22 PM |
| 3 | What's the point of approaching if you can't take them out on dates?Coffee date isn't a thing were I'm from 😂😂😂 The next best thing would be an ice cream date or drinks. Can't afford those 😭 | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Please teach me how to sext with my 27m long-distance boyfriend.Get a boyfriend in your vicinity so you don't have to do things like this. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl does not want to come over yet?Hi. This is the pipeline. 1st date: Drinks/ice cream (low effort date to get to know her). Kiss at the end. It's okay if she says no. 2nd date: Dinner. Kiss at the end. 3rd date: Invite her over for dinner. If she says no find someone new and repeat the cycle. Dating is a numbers game. But it can get expensive paying for all those dates so find places you can afford in your area. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm deleting TinderWhat kind of dates do you take them on? I'm hesitant because of the cost implications of taking people out on dates | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Does it feel like a loss when you’re dating a woman and she wants to break up with you and you never had sex with her?This!!!!!! What usually causes most men to keep dating women that don't pass this standard is because they lack options. If you were talking to 5 girls, you wouldn't be hung up on the one that isn't ready | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Does eye contact really turn men on?Yesssss, for me it turns me off when I'm looking at you and you're looking at something else | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Guys that can regularly get FWBs and hookups...Sex on the second or third dates sounds very realistic | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 07:25 AM |
| 16 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?Just don't do it | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 10:51 PM |
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