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Oh my god I hope she leaves him he sounds like a bum. I’m mad at him for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:09 PM
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Boys tend to lie so much and fake their personality to get with me. I learned even if I am myself, show my flaws, even my controversial thoughts men will go along with it to date me. Then they get tired of being an actor and resent me for how much they have to hide who they are and blame me. They personality catfish me and then blame me that they’re the ones who lied to me. It’s insane. I don’t know why men do this then blame the woman. I’d never have wanted you if I knew the real you and I cert…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:08 PM
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No I’m glad u see it as a good thing because I do. I was tolerating so many things in the relationship I did not like in the name of being a good girlfriend. Tbh he is the one who dumped me, and it was over text which is so disrespectful and he refused to talk to me or do it in person, but the relief I felt (instead of the expected sadness) is what really made me realize how much I was tolerating being in a relationship that didn’t fit my needs. I bet you he thinks I’m crying over him when reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:29 PM
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I broke up with him turns out he was bad at helping me feel comfortable and sexy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:04 PM
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MY EX SAID THE SAME THING AND SAID I WAS A PROBLEM IF HE HAD TO DO ANYTHING THAT WASNT SELF CENTERED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:02 PM
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I’d have been one of those girls a few days ago, wishing my boyfriend would just cuddle me or acknowledge I exist pathetically. Just got dumped by my ex who was such a bad boyfriend I didn’t experience any sadness about it. Wish we ended it sooner. I can’t believe how much better I feel. Like I had no idea I didn’t love him until he was gone and I thought I loved him but I guess I didn’t like him all that much since he was such an ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:57 PM
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I literally without realizing what the quote was about (had no idea it was for fashion) made me think that it’s about always keeping ur pepper spray in hand ready to go at any moment no joke at all 😂 I can’t believe any woman not noticing that that would be scary if 3 men were behind her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:39 AM
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What is the ***? Is it the word die?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:34 AM
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Wow I relate to this so much I can’t believe I didnt write it. I don’t want to take my future husband’s last name but I also don’t want to keep my own because my father was abusive and I cut him out of my life. I probably would just use my husbands last name just simply due to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:32 AM
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Honestly same. I’m in a relationship now and I don’t know how to even tell my boyfriend that the sex isn’t that good because then I’m admitting that I don’t orgasm. I also feel like nervous if he’s touching me for too long because I worry he’ll get bored so I stop him. I need to be more confident to not stop the parts that are for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:29 AM
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I think he was trying to make a joke I suspect he doesn’t really think that’s the dog breed name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:11 PM
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Will this make them slowly stop be narcissistic or will it just not give them power?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:18 AM
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I think that she needed him, and he decided he needed himself. She was also in an emotional spot and it’s her body that’s changing and her life. He cared to ensue he felt ok before he cared to check if she was. He didn’t even care to make arrangements to ensure his wife was taken care of. He just dipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:03 AM
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I think that if it’s a choice that would make you resent your partner, then you shouldn’t do it. Like converting religions for a man. You’d resent him. It’s not worth it. And if you make sacrifices more than him, you’d resent him for it too. Rather be single than bitter my entire life from a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:01 AM
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What’s the grey rock method
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:54 AM
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Sorry but who is she I never seen her before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:53 AM
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So there’s no way I just got lucky and you think he’s just being honest and this isn’t love bombing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:43 PM
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He’s been watching porn since he was 5!???? He’s like fucking 40 he was able to steal playboy magazines and shit? Wow his parents were really awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:32 AM
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My brother is one of these guys. He tells me I’m too picky for saying my boyfriend cannot ogle other women. He said his girlfriend lets him as long as he doesn’t act on it and he said he lets her do the same. He makes me think I’m overly jealous but I think it’s disrespectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:30 AM
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I’m glad that he at least realized it’s not actually comfortable or a turn on at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:28 AM
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That’s so sad there’s an entire reddit for women mothers who are falling apart and breaking while their partners let them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:27 AM
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I’m so happy you posted this I always could use a reminder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:23 AM
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I never saw something explain more perfectly how society treats women when we share we’ve been assaulted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:22 AM
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I wonder if it’s a bot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:21 AM
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Maybe I need to move away and tell them nothing because I think they just like judging. It’s not to save my reputation or anything they decided there’s 1 right way to do stuff and if u don’t ur probably pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:53 AM
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My mom told me anyone I marry I’m going to divorce anyway in 10 years. So she said who cares just get married once if I want and she’s ok with divorce. It’s nice she allowed divorce but..... I don’t wanna be stuck with a man I need to divorce. I feel like most men don’t add anything to women’s lives. They take and take and tbh it makes me not even want marriage sometimes at all. Men are selfish and honestly if people didn’t call me a whore I’d like to just go to a sperm bank to avoid having a de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:52 AM
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I don’t think they do it because they care about my reputation. I think they think women cannot be happy without a husband and kids. Tbh my uncles/aunts/cousins I feel like don’t care about what makes me happy or if I have a good reputation. Maybe it’s just them pushing me to do the “normal” thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:50 AM
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They’re my family. It’s easier to say don’t care when it’s not ur family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:39 PM
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I feel like I have no talent is my issue lol. Like if I did a volleyball group would the expect me to actually be good and know the rules?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:25 PM
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Honestly you saying that made me feel better that it’s not just me. What hope is there for us tho is this just it like we either settle on ugly losers or stay single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:24 PM
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Is there ever going to truly be a “the one” where we meet a high value man? I feel like all the women I know who are married or engaged admitted they settled on the guy. Even my friends with boyfriends admitted they settled on them and their boyfriends aren’t physically their type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:18 PM
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As an adult how do you join hobbies to meet new people? I feel awkward going to new events all alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:47 AM
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quarantine almost made me go back to my ex who was abusive. I was so lonely. Thank goodness I didn’t do it. But i wanted to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:46 AM
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I guess I’ll just move to a more fun part of my current city and hope that works out instead then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:57 AM
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I feel like I struggle with making friends where I am because people are a little less friendly than where I’m used to. I wanted to move for that reason too, but I fear it’ll be the same issue where it’s same people dating and friend-wise so there’s no point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:51 AM
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I’m a feminist but I hate so many feminist men because they wanna be the one to be treated like the wife and I’m like dude put in effort. Making a woman do all the work isn’t feminism it’s just being a lazy asshole man in a creative way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:39 AM
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That’s 100% what I’m doing. Where is a gal to get groceries from when u can’t meet new people with the virus? This is our new normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:38 AM
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I’m newer to Reddit so I guess I didn’t notice I got downvoted then lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:37 AM
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Bad time to be in Asia during corona virus lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:36 AM
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Good thing they’re too unattractive for my taste for that to work on me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:00 AM
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I didn’t see any downvotes for you. I think it’s ok as long as you wear a mask, stay clean, social distance as much as you can, don’t just make out with any guy you go out with for your own sake. Covid is painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:59 AM
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I actually considered Boston! That’s where my friend went! But I was worried maybe I’d resent it later on because I feel like it’s a stressful city. My brother hates it and idk why he does but just knowing he does makes me not want to go there. I wondered if maybe out west or in Colorado I’d like it but I’ve never been
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:57 AM
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I am and I asked my therapist if I should stop dating and she said she doesn’t give advice so very helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:56 AM
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Does Seattle have more men? I feel like most areas have mostly women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:28 AM
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The worst part is I can’t even find a temporary person! I would have settled for anyone who’s hot and interesting to fill the void even just temporary but I can’t even find someone that’s good for just that even. Like not even boyfriend material just random temporary fling material. Can’t find it. Not even friend material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:27 AM
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Damn maybe I need to just workout and get so hot men talk to me in person and I never need an app again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:25 AM
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Maybe I’m the problem idk. I guess it’s mostly about sex and movies we end up liking and lots and lots of activities. Like always doing something because we don’t want to watch sports together. So we would go to zoos, movies, restaurants. Probably mostly sex and cuddling honestly lol. We talked and talked a lot but about how much we liked each other mostly or just jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:24 AM
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I just feel like... not to sound bad but.. idk if this is pathetic of me but I miss the attention? I miss getting a crush, feeling important to a guy, flowers, a guy lending me his jacket, someone to do with with when my very flakey friends cancel on me. Now it’s like I’m alone mostly all the time. My friends are busy at work, in relationships, and just busy so us meeting up is like once a month only so I get so lonely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:54 AM
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Oh yeah I’m so feminine in my hobbies that usually the only thing I have in common with my ex boyfriends was that we were both heterosexual. That’s it. I hate sports, I couldn’t care less about cars, I like fashion shows, watching the kardashians, makeup tutorials, the only way a boyfriend could be my best friend is if hes a gay guy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:52 AM
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I can’t meet guys I even would want to be friends with. I feel like they’re not interesting and honestly not attractive either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:43 AM
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SAME I HAVE SO MANY and it’s the same guys on them all and like I just don’t like any of them and because of corona virus I don’t really meet new people so I feel like this is the only way to even date. I just feel like ready to meet a guy who’s worth my time but idk if I’m wasting my time if I’ve basically exhausted all my options here on dating apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:42 AM
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My friend literally moved to another city once because she felt like she exhausted all of her dating resources. Is that actually a good idea or is that a stupid reason to move? Sometimes I feel like doing that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:40 AM
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What’s ur intention then? Casuals sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:56 AM
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I know I’m being stupid and I know it’s the same guys but because of quarantine I feel like there’s no other way to meet men rn. I think I might have exhausted every possible guy I could be interested in in this city. Maybe it’s time for me to move out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:56 AM
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This post makes me almost give up on relationships. If a man did that to me and I had cancer, I straight up might kill myself. I’d never recover from that emotionally. Maybe marriage isn’t for me if it means this is what my husband will value and say to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:49 AM
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Honestly yeah I feel like guys only date women who are so gorgeous while the men look like ass. When I try to keep up my appearance, it’s weird people tell me to date men who don’t try to take care of themselves the way I do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:31 AM
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That’s what everyone tells me is to give guys a chance. Guys never give women a chance if we aren’t 100% of what they find attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:18 AM
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You’re completely spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:45 AM
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This is why I think I’m going to stay single because there’s so few attractive and quality men in the world and I’m not about to be miserable and settle on someone I’m not attracted to. I’ve done it before and I lost my sex drive and hated kissing because the guy was just not fitting my standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:44 AM
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My ex did this. I regret not taking a stand sooner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:43 AM
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This is such a lowball proposal it’s going to be a meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:31 PM
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I MEAN dead ass I would rather have sex with an object than an ugly, rude, boring, man. I’m not even joking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:30 PM
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She literally looks like one of the Who’s from Whoville I guess I’d have to resort to begging for male attention if I looked like that too damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:28 PM
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“Go to war” lmaooooo the male version I’d make a sandwich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:28 PM
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I once said this to a guy, and I was called the crazy one even by my girlfriends for not waiting around months for him to decide if he cared or not about me :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:26 PM
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Idk why the last one is my favorite lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:25 PM
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Holy shit I can’t believe he admitted that and posted that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:23 PM
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I really appreciate the positivity and kindness. I’m just glad I admitted it out loud so that I can. I feel a bit ashamed of myself, to be honest that I ever sunk so low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:43 PM
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I actually really appreciate you sharing all of that. I relate to that so much too. I gained like 20 pounds from my last bad relationship (which ended during quarantine) and lost motivation a bit to care for myself because my self esteem dropped. You’re right. It’s time we level up and there’s no point in settling on lame men when we know they won’t make us happy. My one question is you said you’re 5’qp and I really don’t know what that means? Was that a typo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:57 PM
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Men make me feel like asking to enjoy the date (aka doing what I find fun and respectful instead of only doing what he wants) is asking for too much. Like it’s just as awkward leaving a bad coffee date as it is leaving a bad dinner date. Trust me I’ve done both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:47 AM
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My standards are so low lately. I set the bar so low I tripped over them. I need to change that pronto. I’ve been allowing lvm to talk to me lately out of quarantine loneliness 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:00 AM
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What’s supposed to happen in that break? I don’t see the point in one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:45 AM
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But then I’d still be lonely and hurting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:45 AM
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Dating is fun even if the guy is a dud? Why would it still be fun? How?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:45 AM
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