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| 2 | Feeling hopeless and need a bit of adviceWork on yourself man, do something everyday that's gonna make the next day alittle better. It can be something small like cutting sugar out, meditating, working out, reaching out to old colleagues. Over time these little changes will add up and you'll notice your perspective change, that's all it is, perspective. Pay attention to the things you tell yourself and the media you consume these have a major affect on how you feel overall. Sidenote: If you try to reach out to old colleagues come from … | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | She hasn't replied in two days.Patience man, the person who needs the other less is the person with all the power. You're a man are you really going to get worked up over no response, see it as a fun challenge. If you hold out she'll hit you up real hard when she realizes you're slipping away and on that grind pursuing your goals and on your purpose. | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Can I be really nice and date an attractive woman?Dude if nice is you own it, it appears you have no hidden agenda with your niceness which is where guys mess up. They equate being nice with some underlying contract that the girl owes them positive attention in return for all the nice things they do for them. The downside with being too nice is it opens the gate to become resentful and bitter if you feel your niceness is being taken advantage of, but if you expect nothing in return then you're golden. | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Fucking depressed. Need HelpYou got the oneitis bro, I know it seems hard to see any other girl being her equal or greater when she seems like the one and only. The thing to realize is that there are many one and only type girls out there for you who might be better in certain aspects like personality, body type, affection, and so on. I know you might not feel like pursuing other girls, but this will be the fastest way for you to get over her. Also not religiously checking out her social media and pursuing your interests a… | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you enthusiastically explain what you love doing and she says 'Do not take it as personal/offense but I don't care'It depends how much in depth you went with your passion. I could understand if you went on for half an hour, but if it was just a couple minutes then yeah that's not cool on her part and you have to ask yourself do you want to hang with someone like that. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How much body work do you think I need to do?Your body is in a good position, lean and toned is a good place to be. I would only say maybe work on shoulders if you can get a v-shape going girls love the broad shoulders because it is a masculine physical trait. You can do overhead barbell press, lateral raises, upright rows, and pull ups. As for hair trim up the sides, high on top and tapered would look good on you. If you always had the same hairstyle change it up sometimes just doing things differently can have a drastic improvement on ho… | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 3 | How has the “what are we” talk gone for you in the past? Has it been a success most of the time?Just be open with him and tell him you want to take the relationship to the next level and be exclusive. If he's never been in a serious relationship he might be wondering how to take things further with you assuming things are going smoothly. He might be afraid to take things further cause if he has read any dating/seduction material this is the fastest way to make a girl scatter, especially if the relationship is new. Just tell him how you feel about him, any relationship that's gonna last is … | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I want to be a nice guyBe a good guy rather than a nice guy. Nice always has the underlying implication that you want something from the other person, which is a form of neediness. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girlsI had this happen to me as well back when I worked at gas station. Another more handsome guy was given the hot spanish girl all these IOI'S. I never showed her any sort of attention and treated her like the other older women that worked there, just kind of a meh attitude. Man she was always rubbing my shoulders and doing all kind of touchy stuff while the other guy basically got the cold shoulder pretty hard. It works extremely well with girls who get alot of attention because it's out of the no… | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Girl [F23] that I was seeing knows about r/seduction and noticed that I’m using this techniques - how to approach it?Hey girl if your reading this, this bro really thinks the world of you. He is even doing extra curricular activities to show how much he likes you. How many guys do you think would do that for you prob about zero bae. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:46 AM |
| 11 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?Keep it very basic, can just simple say I'm gonna be hitting on girls would you like to join me bro, I'll be your wing, your hype man. Most guys will be like hell yeah let's do it. You can usually tell which guys are there to meet women, but don't know how to initiate things, these are your guys, often they're pretty cool looking guys who are trying to hard to be cool, drink in hand slight head Bob to music. Keep it casual, people are there for fun not to talk too much in depth, keep it surface … | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:56 PM |
| 33 | Went to a club by myself last night. I didn’t open anyone. And I walked around for 15 minutes and left. Any help?You have to make yourself have a good time. I would say go to the club with no intention of picking up women, but with the intention to have as much fun as possible. If you're genuinely enjoying yourself dancing spreading good vibes girls are gonna notice and wonder who is this exciting guy who isn't being a wallflower with his boys. You can also scope out the place and also see other guys who are running solo and tell them you're gonna be their wingman for the night and introduce them to girls,… | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 03:30 PM |
| 3 | The idea of a date scares me, as I suck at 1 on 1 conversation.Make the date something super casual. Something where your both walking and able to talk about things you pass as your walking could help you to build topics to discuss. Also being okay with silence shows that your a confident dude who doesn't have to mindlessly fill the quiet moments. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you turn your life aroundBro start where you stand. Everyday show up meaning do something that is going to bring you one step forward. It doesn't have to be massive, but it should be something that is going to make you better than the person you were the day before. Only compare yourself to your past self for everyone has different starting points to the mountain top some start at base and that's okay. But, what's not okay is to not try to climb that fucking mountain what else you gonna do. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 02:25 PM |
| 2 | My therapist basically urged me to approach moreC'mon of course he's joking everyone knows prokicker actually live in a sweet studio apartment, and has 2 face tattoos. | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 07:49 PM |
| 82 | My therapist basically urged me to approach moreBro, you just got out of prison, how was it? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Do you ever open up to your women? Can you tell her about your secrets without turning her off?There is power there in being vulnerable and being honest. When you live a life where you are being untruthful it fragments you and you have an uneasiness and must always watch what you say for fear of being found out. I say wouldn't it be less of a burden to be open with others. There is also the right moment to do it, it has to be when you are in deep conversation and are opening up about things that you hold dear. It's give and take, so when she opens up to you with something that she's holdi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Is it unusual that making failed approaches somehow makes you more confident?I think the reason why it gives confidence is because you are proving to yourself that even if you fail everything will be okay. You are developing the mental fortitude to deal with rejection to embrace success and no matter what life can throw at you, you're capable as a man to handle yourself even when the only person who believes in you is the person looking at you in the mirror. | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Opinion on Robert Greene’s “Art of Seduction”...is this a sociopath guidebook?Haven't read it yet, but have read 48 laws of power. Alot of stuff he says I don't necessarily agree with, but there is some good in there. I'd use an approach where you take what you need and leave what you don't. You should question what you allow into you since alot of what we are is a cumulnation of outside media sources. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?This would be akin to going to a makeup sub and saying don't women ever feel ugly here because you wear makeup. If you were truly beautiful you would be confident to move through life without the mascara, just be natural. The big mistake in learning game is that it's a skill to help you maximize your opportunities and not a band-aid a temporary fix. Maybe you never met guys with real game, but they are often the most driven individuals who are constantly improving in all facets of life. I'd alwa… | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Asked for snapchat, said she doesn't give it out earlyAnswer back and make it funny, be playful show that you could care less if you got it or not. Could respond with "I know I'm the same way everybody asks me for elbow pics, so annoying right. The struggle is real." | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you reply to this?Well your search ends today.... | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Should i even bother texting her?Treat her normally, it's on her if she wants to be weird about your interaction with her, if she sees that your not phased by it. It will make her question herself that maybe she's making a big deal over something so silly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm very empathic and often act like a nice guy.Easiest way to change this is no PMO, I swear your testosterone will increase which will lead to you developing a greater degree of masculinity. You'll become more assertive, have less social anxiety, a more calm centered demeanor, and have less tolerance for nonsense. I was kinda like you, but be ready if you choose to do it because others will notice a change in your demeanor and most will not like it since they have grown accustomed to relying on you for material things and emotional support. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 08:04 PM |
| 48 | Way more attention at school when I start dating a girl.Social proof, it's basically a shortcut for girls to not invest too much thinking into whether a guy is dateable. If a guy is getting alot of female attention, or has a girlfriend the grunt work is taken care of and the girls assume he must be a quality guy why else would the girls be interested in him. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 03:45 AM |
| 3 | This girl (20F) at my (20M) school started texting me and sprung a weekend together snowboarding on me. Just trying to determine whether or not I’m “in”?I think you're in man, she basically initated the date/trip with you which means she's invested. She also said, something like if you have a good time could stay the night and board the next day, so it's on you to make the first day awesome. Would reccomend getting motel if your interested in hooking up since she might feel uncomfortable getting sexual at someone's house if you go Airbnb route. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!Fak her and her faking belly. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Worked up the sweat to ask out a returning customerJust don't double text or send angry text for not getting back at you. Could be that she is screening you to make sure you aren't a needy/insecure guy or is really busy at the moment. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?I'm thinking the long game might be the way to go to build rapport with him. Which can be done by high frequency of interactions, amount of times you encounter him. So, you could try to develop a routine where you encounter him every so often, but it has to be natural something you do like walking your dog, so you don't give off stalker vibes. You could just ask him out, but if you can't deal with the high risk high reward and possible chance of ruining a potential friendship which could lead to… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | I wanna have sex with my mom's friend. Any advice on how to approach her?This actually might be the way to go, especially if she stays home all day with no one to talk to. Build it gradually let it become her idea. Start with small flirting and let her know with how you look at her that you find her attractive. | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 06:32 PM |
| 16 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Yes do it for research. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Always being ghostedSend one and done. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Asked a woman out for the first time! Got rejected, but it felt more like she rejected herself more than me. Help me make a choice, will ya?She probably has social anxiety. Not all girls are confident and outgoing, some have things they're working on much like dudes. Leave the offer open to her and show that you're a safe guy to be with, it might take awhile, but if you're understanding of her personality and allow her to be herself and be non judgemental your chances of a date will improve. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Second chance with ultimate seduction?Don't feel guilty about not covering for him, what he did was selfish and only self serving. Getting in shape and hotter will get his attention, but do you really want someone who was willing to blatantly lie to you. It seems like you are caught up in the moment of love and are blind to his actions. I would recommend doing something to take your mind off him, heck go back on ok Cupid and go on another date. If you wait for him to get his act together you might be waiting for awhile and miss the … | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How can I ask a smart and nerdy guy out?Assuming he has game down you're correct. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Does going to clubs alone communicate low value?Only if you believe it does. If anything it demonstrates you are secure enough in yourself to be solo. People don't care as long as you give off good energy and don't come across as needy. People are generally too concerned with how they look and are into the energy of the club to care. You're at a club so it is all about who is providing the most fun and excitement. A guy who is solo and is self amused and carefree will out value a group friends who are trying to play it cool on the sidelines. | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Paying for a girl at the movies?If you suggested the movie then you should pay but, if she did it depends on if you know she is willing to split the cost. If you are really into her then suck it up and pay if not then you can suggest bill split without worrying that you might ruin any potential for future dates. I think it would it would be a form of obligation imposed on her if your were trying to buy her love. If you simply want to enjoy her company and the activity requires money than I think you should cover the cost. Now … | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 10:47 PM |
| 0 | How can I ask a smart and nerdy guy out?Ask him what the specific heat capacity of a potato is? Jk. Just make it simple, ask what he likes to do on his free time? If it's an activity that more than 2 can do say, "we should do that said activity sometime that would be cool". If it's not a multi person activity like reading or something wait for him to reciprocate the question back. When he asks you back, you can say something that is usually a two person activity and suggest that he come along sometime and he can teach you more about w… | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 09:25 PM |
| 79 | Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing"It's my responsibility as a man" dude you gonna go far with this mentality. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Help me figure out this one chickIt seems like you hurt her ego when you didn't pursue her that night outside the club. She's probably used to dudes throwing themselves at her and is trying to figure you and your lack of pursuit out. Hence why she is trying to appear uninterested in your presence as a form of punishment against your lack of attention, she wants your attention for sure why else would she go out of her way to appear disinterested. In your mind make the vivid intention of having sex with her but, also let go of th… | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I have absolutely NOtHING to offer?Take a look at the way you talk about yourself, you're gonna have to treat yourself like someone you truly care about. It appears you are harboring a lot of guilt/shame for your current situation in life and you need to let it go, you need to stop punishing yourself and evaluate what you can do today to help improve your situation tommorow. You seem like an intelligent guy with your degrees even though you won't give yourself any credit for your accomplishments. You might need a day or two where… | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test? And did I respond to it correctly?The correct response is the response that shows you don't care about her criticism. Should have said, "yeah bad habit I picked up from my time in prison". All shit tests are just a way for the girl to see if you are who they think you are so, the less you are affected by what they say or make a joke of it then you'll pass easily. Most guys can't deal with criticism and will defend or just simply agree, if you don't respond like most guys she'll be even more into you because you are a man who is … | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:57 PM |
| 39 | Forgot the name of the girl I'm meeting for a first date tomorrow - any clever way to get it?Ask her to give you a call later to solidify plans, when she calls sound unsure and ask "who is this". If she asks why you didn't know say you have multiple contacts with the same name. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean?Girls like action activities, dinner is something far to common. Enjoy the walk man. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 09:27 PM |
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