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Daniele_Lyon/r/seduction09/02/18 07:16 PM
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Absolutely no. It is probably egocentrism or simply she was in a good mood. Don’t give too much importance to these kind of action, also, there is not connection to seduction and showing a photo like this, especially without a solid background.
/r/seduction08/11/20 06:34 AM
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There is really no difference, especially if she already like you. Girls and woman tend to say that they prefer ‘person’ over ‘text.’ But in fact they will accept both if they like you. So there is no need to overthink. If you are doubting that she will accept, then ‘person’ is 100% better, since you can trying to convince her, while you can’t do the same on ‘text.’ And girls love to be persuaded
/r/seduction24/08/20 09:03 AM
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I’ll talk personally, since my face is very similar to a famous actor. I found very tedious when people remark me any comparison with someone else. Anyway, what I want to say is that if I’m funny, sad, bad, good, hot or whatever, I don’t see the point on “remind” someone else. I took as a lack of conversation skill when someone say something like this. Is better to say “you are hot” and stop. Or if you want to compliment more, don’t compare it with someone else.
/r/seduction15/05/20 04:39 PM
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Read high quality book, The Mystery Method, 3% man, the book of Pook and more. They all worked and highly improved my social life and success with woman. I would like to add my point of view too. Seduction is not a “good game/strategy,” as may you know. In this world, there is nothing that can be learned in less then 1 year. Even 1 year is not enough if you take it not seriously. And also, in this world the hardest thing that you can learn is how to be an human. As you may understand, people liv…
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:32 PM
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Nice POV
/r/seduction23/02/20 03:47 PM
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Just a regression on toxicity. You are not toxic, is what other doing that make you toxic. But is wrong to say that others are wrong and you are not. The key here is: “you give other too much importance.” It’s a process where you want to me something, but you can’t, and this make you being toxic. Stop caring of others, stop checking your follower every day, and do what you want without caring. At some point, you’ll notice people become your follower without asking, and you of course stop being t…
/r/seduction23/02/20 03:47 PM
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Yes, it is like you said. And I can add you something, but is just a personal theory: not everyone love in the same way, or are attracted in the same way. In my opinion, most men are attracted by beautiful girl, with expansive behavior and so on. But there are others that are more attracted to girl that need help. And I’m not talking about self esteem problem only, but also people that seems less intelligent, or with visible problem. I think I am one of these kind of guy, and truly, it seems to …
/r/seduction26/12/19 08:20 AM
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Some man don’t find that attractive girl 10/10. For example, I know lot of girl that are 9/10 or 10/10 but simply I found them too much perfect for me. I need someone that need my support, that is not completely independent from me. This is why I like 6/10 and 7/10 too. Also, I prefer date this kind of girl.
/r/seduction25/12/19 09:18 PM
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You are so dumb
/r/seduction18/12/19 12:52 PM
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Nice with this. Maybe is not something you directly said, but something that he perceive. For example, you opened a sexual argument, that he doesn’t like to talk about, or was not ready. This is just an example.
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:29 PM
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Maybe something happened, maybe you said something that make him feel uncomfortable. But I’m sure that it nothing that bad, keep believing in what you are doing. Write less and wait until he make a move, then you can start to be what you usually are. I repeat. If someone was interested (but you have to be sure of this), there is no way he can change is mind in one day. No way. But he can still decide to be a bit more distant, this is what you have to work on.
/r/seduction11/11/19 12:00 PM
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I can’t reply correctly without more information. Anyway, I will answer imagining I’m the guy who you are talking to. People doesn’t lost feelings that easy, even if it seems so, you should not give up because what they need is to understand what they actually are feeling. So let’s suppose the persone you are talking about is confused, you should text him/her to make him/her understand if he/she likes you.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:48 AM
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Nice talking
/r/seduction10/10/19 07:35 AM
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Book of Pook. This is all you need.
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:31 AM
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Same here. “The Book of Pook” is the only things you need.
/r/seduction21/08/19 10:57 AM
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Read “the book of Pook.” Or pm me. Right now I cannot give you explanation, but tomorrow we can talk about it. Good day for now!
/r/seduction15/08/19 07:14 PM
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Mmh. I’m sure you are doing something wrong. Maybe your body? Your appearance? Are you a beautiful man? A cool man? Are you able to make them laugh? Are you able to keep a serious argument? What I’m trying to say. That that’s kind of things that you mentioned are what you have to avoid to be accepted, not to attract women. If you want to attract, you need a good personality and behavior. Not being needy is the first step by the way.
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:40 PM
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“So you have high ambition.” Or something about her ambitions. I’m sure that if she is that high ranked as you mentioned, she is a bit tired of being a waitress. So you can play around her ambitions.
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:37 PM
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I can’t understand what you are saying. But here are the solution anyway. If a girl test you, if a girl try to give you some order like: “Take that object for me.” “Can you help me with this.” “Can you do this for me.” Well. This mean that you are too gentle, and not that much strong as a man. So when people act like this, they are trying to take advantage from you. In this situation. You want to leave that girl. But there is another situation, very similar, where the girl try to intimidate you …
/r/seduction02/08/19 10:09 AM
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That’s pretty hard. Especially if she’s experienced too. That’s a good fight. This is what I can say. Usually. Intelligent women are not so different from 10/10 beautiful woman. Is not that they act in the same way. But anyway, they are both aware of their competence. This is why is very hard to catch them. Both have lot of men that approach them too. Anyway, what I am trying to say, is that you can use the same strategy that usually work with 10/10 women. They’ll work without problems with bril…
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:28 PM
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I’m not your tutor and I would not saying anything about your looking. Your face will not be the problem with that girl. r/rateme
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:42 PM
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But this is not seduction.
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:39 PM
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Thank you too.
/r/seduction30/07/19 11:32 AM
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It’s not that hard. But at the same time is very important. We talk about vulnerability, your vulnerability. So image that you had a bad inconvenience, that you fear to talk about. A real man, doesn’t fear to talk about what he fear, to what happened to him. Same example, if you feel in a bad mood. You don’t have to exaggerate it (this is needy), and at the same time you don’t have to hide it. Instead you want to avoid the discussion, and at some point, if someone ask why you seems so sad, then …
/r/seduction30/07/19 11:12 AM
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I think you should recalibrate your thinking. Going in front a guy and say “hi” and manifest your interest doesn’t mean that you are approaching a guy. It mean only that you are doing what you want, trying to take what you deserve. So don’t feel bad about talking with a guy. By doing this, you’ll give him an opportunity. And if he likes you, or if he is good enough, he’ll do the first move to approach you. There is this bad conviction through humanity that believe that man have to make the first…
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:32 AM
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That’s a nice advice. I can add that there are no reason to feel jealous, or to force yourself into an affection that you cannot control. For example, if you are dating a girl, that at the same time is dating another guy. You really can do nothing to let her convince that you are better then this guy. You can only avoid to be jealous. This is why you should always have more options.
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:21 AM
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That’s not helping. We need to know what do you mean about being more seductive. And remember that this sub is mostly about seduce before entering into a relationship. If you need suggestion (even if I’ll avoid their suggestion), you can ask r/sex. About what you are asking. I think the problem is probably not related to what you do, or what you have to do. Is more about the contest. Something that you cannot directly control with you action. But that you have to create calibrating the right moo…
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:17 AM
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Maybe I was rude. But what I was trying to say. Is that you don’t have to care much to what other people do, or what you are doing too. Do you want to ask her number? Ask her. But don’t ask yourself stupid question. Do you want to write to this girl? Even if she is merried? Do it. You don’t have to care about any consequences, any prejudice. If she want to get out with you; she will text back, if she doesn’t want. Well. At least you tried. Don’t think to much. Of course don’t overthink too.
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:51 PM
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That’s quite normal. Try to change friendships, people, venue. Change everything. If you don’t, you can’t see any improvements. You need to act in an ambient where no one can influence you. In a new place, and then come back. This is mandatory if you want to change. Because if you are always with the same person. Is barely impossible change or notice any improvement.
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:47 PM
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Read as slow as you can. If you can’t understand something. Come back and read again. This books works. You can’t fail once you read that much.
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:17 PM
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Let me say one thing. I didn’t read all you wrote down, but let me say one things. She is married, the kind of woman that leave you her Facebook while engaged, is not really someone that you want to date. So if I have to say something that you have done wrong. Is to accept her Facebook. You should instead keep talking with her, even accepting her Facebook, but don’t push this situation that much. Also. She is married. We don’t know why she gives her Facebook, but she is married. What you are try…
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:14 PM
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Anyway. Let her chose the place for the first date pull out your loser side. Next time, you should propose your options, and let her think that this will be funny and different. Otherwise you are like the others guys, that all day text her.
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:04 PM
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That’s a good organization.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:59 PM
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“The Book of Pook” is probably on my top ten book I’ve ever read, maybe top five. But is really hard to understand without solid information about seduction and humanity in general. Since is that good as a book, you should decide like 3/4 book about seduction to read, and after them, read The Book of Pook. Mystery Method is the book for starters. But you should never miss what he wrote. There are some part, like the “neg” chapter, that were so brilliant and Unique.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:01 PM
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You should. It’s probably one of the best book about seduction. Erik Von Markovich was like a genius. After this one. If I can give you a suggestion. Before leaving this argument, you should really read “The Book of Pook” by Pook. Probably the best book about seduction and human interaction in general.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:53 PM
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I will add also “3% man” by Corey.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:38 PM
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Try “The Female Brain” by Louann. Is a bit dated, but I think you will find it in your language. And it’s also an awesome book to learn more about how/why to seduce women. Anyway, English is required if you want to learn with quality. You can’t miss “Mystery Method” by Erik. The book that inspired the one you read.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:35 PM
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What I was trying to explain is that coherence is the most important factor when you are talking with people. Maybe you are warm with someone, and then restrictive with someone else. People are always watching. It depends from what are you doing, in what place you are. But for sure people will always notice your incoherence. I tried to explain since most of time the real problem is not how to solve it, but to understand what is going on. Hope it helped! Have a nice day!
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:12 AM
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I’m not sure if this is what you are looking for. But the only thing that I can say is this: Usually, people don’t think negative. I mean, maybe they are negative about themselves, but they are not for others. Everyone tend to love instead to hate. This is why, when someone look at you, talk with you, then the normality should be that they will do this in a positive way. Usually, people tend to be less restrictive with persons they can’t believe. I’m not saying that you are a false person, I’m j…
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:47 PM
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Awesome story! What you say is true. Mind and charism can destroy every prejudice when talking.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:36 PM
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Very nice post. If you have any problem. You are very close to the solution let me say.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:24 PM
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Your face, your body, is a consequence of your behavior. I know this sounds mystic, but if this is not right, well, it’s very close to reality. I don’t want to say that your behavior is not working, but I’ll give you this advice wishing you all the luck of this world. So take it. Behavior is not something that you have to learn until you mastery it. Behavior is something that adapts differently in your whole life. If you discover some personality that work perfectly, and give you success with al…
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:21 PM
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Your face, your body, is a consequence of your behavior. I know this sounds mystic, but if this is not right, well, it’s very close to reality. I don’t want to say that your behavior is not working, but I’ll give you this advice wishing you all the luck of this world. So take it. Behavior is not something that you have to learn until you mastery it. Behavior is something that adapts differently in your whole life. If you discover some personality that work perfectly, and give you success with al…
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:21 PM
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There’s no point to why a nice guy can’t seduce with the same efficiency as a bad guy. The problem is that majority of nice guys are needy too. But as you can see, doctors, advocates, professor, most of times they are nice guys, but they can still attract better then bad guys. The point here is that there is no need to separate bad guys from nice guys. The problem is that who you call nice guys, are weak people. They are dependent from others. This is what make girls turn away from them. I want …
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:11 PM
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How you looking is 50%. Beard is needed if you have a pretty young face. Anyway, I think, you don’t need to appear in a certain way to seems adult. Problem here, is how you act, and how you say what you think. Or in a more deeper way. What you are thinking when you are talking. The first step to become a respectable adult. Is to stop wondering about what the other people thinks. And be more independent. This is the opposite of what you’ve wrote on this post.
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:52 AM
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That’s why you should use your brain instead. Deciding what is better for YOU. There are no rule on seduction, is the opposite of what they want you let believe. Even the most shy person in this world could have a better sex life of normal person (in terms of social skills). The facts is that seduction is not what you think. There are no keys in this world. If someone say to you, you should do this to not be rejected. Well. It may works for him, not for you. Sometimes there are no good solution …
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:47 AM
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PART 2 ​ 3] SUDDEN KINO: The last argument, is about making Kino the most important weapon of your behaviour. Going back to what we said, we must add that on most occasions, is the man who must lead a relationship, at least in the beginning. This is why, a good seducer, will know how to regulate his behaviour in relation to the situation. For example, at some point, you will no longer need physical contact to know when you can say something. You no longer take her hand to understand if you can r…
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:26 AM
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PART 1 ​ Kino. How to do it? before saying my opinion, I want to emphasize some fundamental points. Because as everythings, there are no black or white, but also gray. So starting with this, Kino is not something that will make you succeed with a girl, or fail. Kino is a part of seduction as are words, conversation, or whatever. And like all relationships, sometimes Kino is not require to succeed with a girl. Some relationships, are based on affection, emotions, arguments, instead of physical co…
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:26 AM
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She defiantly will call the police. :o
/r/seduction23/07/19 02:09 PM
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You can say something about when you two are alone. Something not peculiar, that by your point of view, is what make you think that she likes you. Or if you mind is blink, you can just talk me about her, I’ll understand easily if you overthink, if you are needy, and if she likes you. You can PM if you want.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:11 PM
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EDIT for the previous comment: the fact that she stare at you when talking about her relationship. Mean that she has something that want to share with you, something that you should know, or something that let her remember you. Anyway, this kind of glance mean nothing in most of case. Except the fact that she has a good confidence with you. If I can say more, girls and men use eyes in a different way. Men generally watch what they like (this is why, when a woman watch you back, what you think is…
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:05 PM
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I can’t say more then what I’ve said before. I can add that she probably see you as a good friend, or in other words, I see no prove that she likes you. Anyway, I’m hoping that I’m wrong!
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:58 AM
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It mean being more physical with a girl. Sometimes it is misunderstood with “touch to better attract the woman.” Instead, “kino” is just a test to understand if the woman you are talking with is attracted or not, if she will accept some kind of words or not. For example, if you can take and keep her hand, it doesn’t mean that she likes you, but mean that you can say and do more things that you expect. Same example as if your foots touch her foot. If she doesn’t step back, it mean that you have a…
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:38 AM
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We need more information to help you. For example, give us some interaction, some action that she usually do with you. Otherwise, all we can do is only hypothesis. Even with this, I’m sure that she is going to friend zone you, even if you are not already friendzoned. Problem here, if I have to say something as justifications, is that you are talking to a girl about her problems. Who cares! if you want to date you don’t want to know her problems, but her life. The real difference between friend a…
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:33 AM
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“The Female Brain” from Louann is a good book to understand what happens when you seduce a woman, but it doesn’t talk about man, she try to explore the female brain in terms of seduction. Anyway, if you enjoyed “Models” and “Mystery Method”, you should read “The Book of Pook” that one is the only masterpiece of seduction for men. https://archive.org/details/pdfy-_OguVIkg2uBLSzXq/page/n9 Also, if I can give you a personal suggestion, it come from “3% man” written by Corey Wayne, a girl doesn’t ne…
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:58 AM
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She friendzoned you. I see at least three problem in your actions that lead you to the friend zone. I’ll write it on the next post.
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:48 AM
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It’s easier than you think. Maybe your personality is so very defensive, and you are building an offensive strategy to seduce. Instead, build a defensive seduction. How? Give me two second. EDIT: it’s a bit tricky but it definitely work. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5pm73y/after_studying_attraction_for_7_years_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:31 AM
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Are you talking about a girl that you never date, about a girlfriend or about a girl that you know from some time? It change a bit. Let me try to explain in some words. If it is the first date, or one of these, a girl usually doesn’t have any preferences, she accept easily any venues, because the venue is part of knowing the man that she is dating. If the girl you are talking about is a good friend, or your girlfriend, she tend to be a bit different. Usually, if the relationship is healthy, she …
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:28 AM
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If it was too noisy there is nothing more that you could do. Noisy venue are barely impossible to handle for seduction. Anyway, next time, you could avoid to compliment her, instead you can make it hard to picking up with you. So she compliment you, and you are supposed to do the same. (This is what you’ve done). Instead, you can say “thanks for the compliment, you seems very fair.” And then see what she want to reach, and let her lead the conversation until you are strong enough to know what to…
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:18 AM
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I’m 100% sure you can’t say if she is interested by watching her. So don’t be too sure to pick up her that easy. Also, you are on the gym, instead of what other people said, confidence is not the key here. Respect is the key. Before approach, don’t forget that you don’t have to say too much of what is needed, since other people are watching. And don’t forget, that she is on gym for working, not for picking up man. So think twice before acting. And good luck.
/r/seduction23/07/19 03:07 AM
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I can’t say what she is thinking. I’ll write down some solution. It’s up to you to understand why she act like this. She tries to manipolate her boyfriend by interesting in you. In other words, she is trying to make her boyfriend jealous. She is into you, but since he got a boyfriend, she overestimate you. If you want her, you must take the whole responsibility for her actions. She is just bored with her boyfriend. Trying to push her feelings against another man. Probably, she is close to a brea…
/r/seduction22/07/19 08:21 AM
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Don’t know what is your problem. But I recommend to stop wondering if she likes you or not. As a man, you should have a strategy, and at some point ask her out. If she is too busy or whatever, then you pass on the next girls. We don’t have enough time to questioning about attraction or interest. Remind it!
/r/seduction21/07/19 06:00 PM
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Who cares of what she said. Most of times girl doesn’t know what they’re speaking about.
/r/seduction21/07/19 05:58 PM
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That’s right. But when girls act like this, and I know 90% does, It‘s usually a red flag. I’m not saying that she doesn’t have to talk (even if I really don’t like people that can’t shout down their mouth), but that she has to be responsible of what she says. I can tell a secret to someone, but I have to be sure that he doesn’t revel that secret. What I’m saying, is that this is a turn down and a red flag to me.
/r/seduction21/07/19 05:56 PM
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Ask her to hang out with you. Before ask, verify that she will accept. Once you are out with her only, then try to be a little different, ask her personal question, try for a physical contacts, like ask a question and take her hand, and see if she will refuse. If she will not, and if the date went well, then reveal your feeling at some points (not on that date - you are hanging out only to know her better). Anyway, I want to say that if you are not that immobile, there are high chances that she …
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:28 AM
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Totally feel you man.
/r/seduction14/07/19 07:18 AM
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I have a different strategy. Even if I need to correct myself. Mine is not a strategy, is who I am. Anyway. I usually don’t care about having a phone number. What I’m looking for, is making new friend, new relationship, and new friendship. This is why I usually start talking with everyone, about everything, asking question, and eventually taking their phone number. (Usually there’s no need since I’m always on the same venue). There’s no need of an opening once you get a good amount of experience…
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:24 AM
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This year I asked out a total of 5-6 girls multiple time, and they never decline my requests. Even with this, I wasn’t much interested on finding a girlfriend, and I also realized that I was not that attracted to them, or, in other situation, I simply cannot do what I want. There are other 2 girls also, or more, that I start talking with. I noticed from the start that they where not interested, and I never asked out. EDIT: I don’t use facebook, tinder, Instagram or text to approach. I have a ste…
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:05 AM
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Maybe I wrote too much. Anyway, what I was trying to say is that you have to call her. Is the best way to have success on organize a date.
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:57 PM
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99% of what you are looking for is in one book. The Book is Pook
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:54 PM
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Your last answer was a big mistakes. I’ll try to give you some advice to do a better date next time. Whenever you ask a girl out. Remember to set date, day, hour, and everything you need without hesitation. “We met at place x at time y” you should make it clear. Most of time, a girl is just scared to get out with someone that doesn’t know well. This is why YOU say where and when to go, without hesitation. After this, is 90% sure there she’ll text back after some day, saying that she will be busy…
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:49 PM
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Completly agree.
/r/seduction12/07/19 11:04 PM
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If you think so. Then don't do it. Absolutly.
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:42 PM
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It was an example. Seduction is not about what you say, but how you say. You can say whatever you want, what you need is that people notice you. It also make easier to approach woman that notice you.
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:41 PM
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If you are not alone (it work even if you are alone, you just need lot of courage), when you enter into a place, say something loudly (and positive), like: “how many people!” Let others watch you, and let them understand that you are a social person, and you, tonight, want to approach multiple woman. It work 100%.
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:38 PM
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The worst things you can do is to start a conversation during work. So if you really want to know her. You have two solution. 1) take some information from other people, insta, Facebook, or whatever. Then try to know where she usually go, and try to start a conversation in this situation. 2) wait till she start talk to you. Anyway, your attitude seems good, so I think you already know what I’m saying. Even with this, I want to remember that you should never force events. If you want to talk with…
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:34 PM
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You should’t ask her nothing. People here forgot that seduction is not a way to cheat or to have a magic power to have what they want. Seduction is respect. Respect for people that surround you. And this is the high manifestation of seduction. Since once you respect, give price to others, then you are a respectable person too, and become attractive. What I want to say. Seduction is not something that will realize your dreams. Is another way of self-improving. And what you are asking for, is just…
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:27 AM
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For sure you are not a genetics expert. So don’t be reluctant and give it a try!
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:23 AM
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If you are sure that was a test. Remember what god Mystery said. It was like: “If a girl test you, you lose when she sees your mood change, because it mean that you are attracted to her. You lose her test.” This is why, on your situation, you could laughs and keep talking with her like nothing was happened.
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:57 AM
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This is a bad position, let me say, you are asking way to much probably. We can’t write a poems and foresee if she will like you, how she will act, what she will say without any information at all. But if I can say something, to help you, let me say that your attitude is so wrong from the start. If you are a man, and I think you are, you should be sure of what you are. I’m not saying that you don’t have to ask for advice, but as you may understand, I can’t take your place with that girl. And thi…
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:52 AM
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If I can give you an advice. Follow this steps. Try to look decent (cloths, hair, shower, diet). Learn social skills (read books and try to be the one that lead conversation, also, you need so much experience here - 1 or 2 years). Body health (come back to gym and refine your body - you can do this when point 2 is at good point). Style (create your look and lead conversation with your arguments). Note: social skills can meant two things, both are required. First, know how to talk and what to say…
/r/seduction07/07/19 10:34 PM
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For me, this is the normality. But I’m not saying I’m that attractive or whatever. Now that you look better, is completely fine if someone look at you. This, by the way, doesn’t mean that they want to know you, or that they find you attractive enough to date with you. What I mean, that if you are not that bad looking, 90% of girls will stare at you at some point. But I repeat, it doesn’t mean that they like you. Social skills is what you need. Forgot anxiety, and learn how to control the situati…
/r/seduction07/07/19 10:24 PM
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That group is more like what is “socially acceptable as skill by others” (so “antisocial skills) instead of “social skill.”
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:45 PM
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What you are doing is enough. Maybe you are trying to have more than what you can. For things like this, you need time and only time. Once you decided to become a social person, you need at least 1-2 years to see some real improvement. And I want to say, don’t think about what you want, because it stop your improvements. You need to improve even more, this is what you need if you want to reach something. Because of course right now you can’t reach it. Well, is not that you can’t reach, is more a…
/r/seduction01/07/19 10:06 AM
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They show interest to see how do you act. If you act like something they expected, or, depends on woman, if you act like someone that has nothing too excited to say; then. They refuse they’re own interest. It’s like “oh! Let me see if he’s able to surprise me. Never mind. He doesn’t change at all/is boring as always/is not my type.” Edit: usually girls that test you like this way are not really interest in you, they are just bored.
/r/seduction28/04/19 06:27 PM
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“3% man” is a great book. Give a try to “Models” by Manson, and “the Book of Pook.” If you want to have success and not only girls, I highly recommend Pook!
/r/seduction29/12/18 07:29 PM
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So just don’t care about it. Let’s have funny without regrets and without thinking too much!
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:12 PM
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You can’t not fuck up. How old they are?
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:11 PM
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https://illimitableman.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/the-book-of-pook-and-the-mill.pdf
/r/askTRP13/12/18 10:21 PM
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Stop thinking about IOI. Act with autonomy. Don’t give IOI more importance that you should.
/r/seduction04/12/18 09:20 PM
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Remember this basic rule. It may help in conversation via chat or reality. Conversation is always based on there part. 1) argument. 2) emotion. 3) experience. If you are out of argument, move to emotion, if you are out of emotion, move on experience. “I like that prof.” Or “have you see how strange was that prof?” They are both argument. You are talking about things and what you like. “This prof remains me another prof/my father. I love my father/ I love that prof because...” this is an example …
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:19 PM
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If you got his phone number, Facebook, insta or whatever; and if you have good chat skills; then start a conversation via chat. Go for some information to impress, (“hello! I’ve just see this and thought you should see this too!” Or “hei. Last time we meet I forgot too say something..”) you can say whatever you want, you need to create a contact between now and what you talked about the first time. Then, don’t waste so much time on talking, ask him if he want to get out with you. How? Read next.…
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:02 PM
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It may no help you. But just ask him for a coffee. Is not that hard, you are not going for a date, you don’t need to be close enough. Meet him. Say hello, then start talking about something and say, “I have to go now. I was going..” then step back, “oh.. after lesson I have some free time, do you want to take a coffee?” Or: “are you free after lesson?” “Yes.” “Why not come with me for a coffee?” (Sorry if I suppose you are on school/university) it may sound hard, but is not. You are just asking …
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:37 PM
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Read read read. This is an option. Sometimes people are better then other at doing some things. Sometime you have to learn something more.
/r/seduction01/12/18 01:24 AM
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Just try to see a different point of view. Books/TouTube in particular explain how be attractive. The fact is they never explain you the difference that exist between person. As an advice, just image that everyone will teach you to be attractive in an aggressive way. But if you are not like this, some “advice” will not help you. You have to understand that you can be the same attractive, but being defensive. The problem is to translate what you have learn into a different behave.
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:31 AM
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Personally I don’t like it. If you want to help others, then you can write a book. Or well. You can do whatever you want just turning around in the street. Creating a YouTube channel seems for money purpose only. And I think is fine. Before that, I don’t see the point to start a seduction channel without competence. Not that I’m right. Don’t want to turn you down. Take it as an advice. Is not easy.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:10 PM
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Really nice mentality. Btw, not everyone are going to think the same as you. Or, not everyone success with your mentality.
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:27 AM
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Keep doing what you are doing. Open 3% man book to page 100. Read from there and you should be fine. She is completely into you as I can read.
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:31 PM
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Is not. I have lot of friends that play this game. And they are not genuine. Not only with girls, but even with friends. Lie in this why is not the real meaning of this sub. Also, this “strategy” will drive you to a sick relationship. Because that distance that helped you to win her affection, will not stay forever.
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:52 PM
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Hey.. this is one of the worse thing that I have ever read. Treat a girl like a friend? I can ensure you that this WILL work. But you know what? This sub is born not to twit girls, but to pick them up. I will never use something like this, because this is a guide to “how to lie.” And this is shit. A real shit. I thought this sub was genuine. Not like this.
/r/seduction03/04/18 12:48 PM
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This is the best book that I’ve ever read about seduction. 100 % agree. Read this book!
/r/seduction01/04/18 09:09 PM
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https://www.yumpu.com/en/document/view/55908333/pdfdownloaderlainin-33421576-how-to-be-a-3-man Read this one. Is better then Mystery Method. And if you wonder why? Well, world is changing, people too.
/r/seduction01/04/18 12:32 AM
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Yes it is. Mystery method is one of the most important book for seduction. But you need to read some more books to understand the human behavior.
/r/seduction01/04/18 12:28 AM
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I can’t answer your question, but what I will say may help you. The fact that you are talking about IOI, is just something that have learned on the web. But in reality, girls are not robot, they can give you IOI even if they don’t like you, and vice versa. The real meaning of the question is, for example, and since you are new to this “world,” is to know yourself. You can follow every Coach on the web, on YouTube, you can also read every book n this world. They will not bring you to success, or …
/r/seduction31/03/18 11:08 AM
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Wtf is this shit..
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:42 AM
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That’s not a problem. The only problem you have to care about is if he see you like a slut. (But I think this is not the case). For the rest, attraction is something natural. The only thing you can do, is to care to not be unnatural, and to interrupt that natural attraction. How? Well. First of all, stop asking question about him. Stop stalking every action he does. And another important thing (maybe the most important), do not force events. For example, if you say: “let’s go to the pub tomorrow…
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:33 AM
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Don’t say this! You gonna lose him! Just pass on next guy, don’t say anything else. By saying that you got another date. 1) you seems a slutty, no one like slutty girls. 2) he understand that you want to pass him, and the result will be the opposite.
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:59 PM
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You can do this if you are 18 year or less. If you are 18+, you need a strategy to conquiste her.
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:26 AM
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Get out from your comfort zone!! You are overthinking because can’t stay without your family. That’s not what an alpha man do. You are not strong, you are weak. You are ugly as a shit. Wake up and move on. You are wasting your time.
/r/seduction07/03/18 07:08 PM
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Is not about what is right and what is wrong. You have an expression, a face, a nose, Wright etc. And so what? The main problem of most people is that they don’t understand that if some game work with me, it could not work with you. These are Social Skills. Mean: there are no rule, the more you practice, the more you know about girls and society. For example, most of men think that you have to show interest immediately, by watching ass or show her in eyes, etc. This work if this is in your behav…
/r/seduction07/03/18 12:04 AM
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There are million of answers. But the most important thing, is that you piss her off. You are a strong man, or you should be. You are a man full of girls and work to do. If not, you should be. So why give a second chance to a girl that ghosted you? You can try, but I’m 90% sure that she is trying to manipulating you. Or, she’s looking for someone to talk with, and you should not waste your time with girl like them, unless you are lookin for new friends. Bonus: do you think that if you accept her…
/r/seduction06/03/18 11:52 PM
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First of all, before act, understand if he is reliable. If yes, then you can be directly. If not, then you have to pay attention to your words, because he can use your revelations in front of his friends to feel bigger. (And this is not what you want). Second point, is to understand if he is shy. Some man are interesting because they don’t talk way too much. But you have to understand if he don’t speak because is shy, or because is discreet. Anyway, if he is shy, you have to force your hand. But…
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:04 PM
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Another option. She could be a manipulator. Not enough information to say.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:56 PM
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PM me.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:06 PM
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Step 1. Write, for example, your first routine. “Go to a girl and introduce yourself. Then start talking about why you are in that place.” Step 2. Keep doing this routine until you understand if this routine work, and if work, how you can improve. Step 3. If it work, keep improving until you automatically create new routines. Social skill work as nature. You start with an idea, just to help yourself to comunicate. But that idea is wrong, it only help you to start your game. After several open, y…
/r/seduction01/03/18 12:26 PM
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Good luck
/r/seduction28/02/18 01:00 PM
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Need a story to answer. Friend doesn’t mean friendzoned. You could have a lot of friends, and you want to fuck them all. So let’s think about this. Maybe she think about you like a friend, but you aren’t in the friendzone. I mean, she may think that can still feel any kind of attraction.
/r/seduction28/02/18 12:01 PM
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The problem is that you want to “impress her.” This is not he right way to think about this kind of situation. The best advice that I can give to you, is to not talk with her at all. Or you will invest feelings over feelings, and she will never see you as a potential boyfriend. Let’s wait that she notice you. And if sh never notice you? The world is full of girls.
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:42 AM
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Make her laugh and wait. Ask her for taking out a drink, and wait until she is ready to start a new relationship. But also, don’t forget that you have to focus on others girls, because if she understand how much you are involved, she will never see you as a potential “boyfriend.” So work on her, but don’t forget that world is full of girls.
/r/seduction28/02/18 11:37 AM
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I’m not a photographer, and I’m not working in a club, but this is my advice. When you are at home, just write some quest that you can ask in some situation. Ask the same question to several girls, and see if it work. If won’t, then create a new open, and repeat until you find the right quest/words to open. Then you have to repeat for second quest/routine; third etc. After some try, you will notice that you automatically know what to say and what to do. This is how it work social skills.
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:44 PM
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You have some chance.. try to avoid her.. let she come to you.. if she will, then you can try your game. Is hard, but follow some rule. Never say something about you. (“Im working at..”, “i like when I feel like..” - she have to say something like this. Or you are not winning.) Never say something about her look. (“You are cute” etc). You have no interest on her (if she move, you don’t follow her. If she say that want to go in some place, you will say no.) why? Because she can see your feeling. …
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:38 PM
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I’m not the creator of this post. Love ya ✌️
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:18 PM
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It sound strange, but I give it a try.
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:52 PM
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This work for you? Or?
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:50 PM
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Explain pls
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:49 PM
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If you have that feeling, you are not going to win her. But you can keep in mind your feeling for her, allowing you to improve your game with OTHER girls.
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:47 PM
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I move on even if she say something that I don’t fucking care. Yesterday I was talking with a girl, and she was trying to shit testing me. After several boring question, she asking me for my weight, and I piss her off. Btw, if she doesn’t respond once, I move on. And 2/10 they chat me back after a week.
/r/seduction27/02/18 12:57 PM
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Then she reply: “I don’t need. I have a boyfriend.”
/r/seduction27/02/18 12:49 PM
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Man. I’m pretty sure that she never liked you. Attraction doesn’t start without a reason, and don’t go away without a reason. She manipulated you.
/r/seduction26/02/18 12:30 PM
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An advice that I can give you. Is that if you really want to improve you social skill. Forget about emotion. Just follow what you have to do. If she refuse you, you should be able to pass on; because you were not in love with her.
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:00 PM
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Attraction can disappear. If she say “meh.. I like that boy.” She can change her mind by hear you say two words. Even if you are not that bad with social skill, doesn’t mean that she can’t met* someone more skilled then you.
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:55 PM
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But she didn’t. That’s why you fall in love.
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:51 PM
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I am lesbian 😵
/r/seduction23/02/18 06:16 PM
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It’s seems you invested too much energy on her. I don’t see a clear way where you can put her out from your mind. For the same reason I think you are going to fail with her. Just keep going.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:50 PM
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You have two path. (In both, you shouldn’t had her on insta.) 1) let’s wait that she noticed you. At one point you introduce yourself with some wings, or, she will introduce herself. If you are in the same place with a person for a long time, you are going to know her. Is natural. At that point you can start let she know that you like her. 2) you can open with her and see what you can do based on your social skill. It could be hard, cause you are not an athlete as you say. But I have not enough …
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:47 PM
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Try to learn more about her. But another important point, is to know other person that work in that bar. If she noticed that you are good talking with them, she will be invested, and then you have more chance to start a conversation and ask her for his number.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:40 PM
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Let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:38 PM
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Yes. But problems are not always anxiety. Put girls on pedestal is another popular problem. And let she know that you like her is fine, but if you don’t exceed. And new people use to exceed.
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:10 PM
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Agree. But not always. This is a valid advice with people that know how to game. But for men that have some trouble with girls, like anxiety etc. Forget this advice.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:48 PM
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There are no rule. If your game is wrong, you are breaking the rule, and she will go away.
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:45 PM
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It seems the girls you are talking about have less then 16 years. This could be the problem?
/r/seduction21/02/18 06:41 PM
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Read: White-Hot Attraction Manifesto. (50 page) I don’t find it very interesting, except for the part that learn you that girl that you already know, got a different point of view from girls that you are trying to know. In fact, if you want to open with a girl that you already know. You have to change her mind before build your effort.
/r/seduction20/02/18 11:53 AM
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No hope friend. As I can read by this post, this is not your turn. You’re gonna fail. Try to learn more about yourself. If you conquer your friends, you can conquer everyone. So stop say “they just wanna fuck.” Because they are winning you. Say what you think to you friend, if they refuse; just leave them. Girls like people that act, people high in value. Read some book. Improve your self. If you can’t success with girls, things are not gonna change. Is like having an issue. You have to learn ho…
/r/seduction20/02/18 11:46 AM
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Agree. Mystery is a great book full of information. You have to read and read to understand deeply.
/r/seduction20/02/18 12:48 AM
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Agree. Are you writing a book? I have some pages that I wrote that you might want to read.
/r/seduction19/02/18 06:15 PM
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Maybe I’m wrong, but you can try like this. Talk about you. Tell your secrets and your feeling. Rewarding her is something that work when you are trying to know her. Now that you know her, you can open yourself.
/r/seduction19/02/18 02:56 PM
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Is hard to explain when a person is an “high value.” Btw, I’ll try to tell you my opinion/experience. First step. Most male can’t recognize when a person is higher or lower then him in value. But girls does. “High value” is another way to say “the most interesting man.” Think about this. Your career doesn’t care too much. So how to be interesting? There are few steps, but remember that girls always have care of guys that don’t talk. I mean, is not about make her laugh or cry. The key is to make …
/r/seduction19/02/18 01:38 PM
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1) wait that she likes you too. 2) wait 1-2 day after she liked you. 3) ask 1 personal information (where are you from?) - so she understand that you are interested. 4) check profile of the girl, and learn more info about her. Now you have to search for something to talk about. (Film, books, etc) Extra: don’t be scared to talk with all girls that like you. Even if you don’t find her very attractive, start a conversation anyway. This is a social skill that you have to mastery. And is not like pic…
/r/seduction18/02/18 04:29 PM
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Stay up. Is just a game. You should laugh even when you can’t win. You are doing what you like.
/r/seduction18/02/18 04:16 PM
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Be a funny person is not the only why. You can also decide to neg her. That in my opinion is one of the best way to succede. But is better to avoid some method.
/r/seduction18/02/18 04:14 PM
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Make people laugh is not a social skill. If you think to be funny, people will laugh. If they don’t, the problem is with your friends, wings etc. People are influenced by other people. If you go out with friends, and they know that you are not a funny person, you WILL NEVER make them laugh. The point is: change you attitude. I asked to myself most time “why when he say anything, everyone laugh?” Because people know he is a funny persone. They were ready to laugh. Take a look. If you have to meet…
/r/seduction18/02/18 04:11 PM
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Is not about what is good, and what is bad. The point is WHEN you have to ask things. When you open to a girl, you don’t want to ask question, you want to make her laugh. If it work, she is going to ask you some questIon. Only at that point, you could ask some. Remember that who talk is gonna lose the game. Remember that you should never talk about your secret/emotion.
/r/seduction18/02/18 04:03 PM
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Is too late for asking. She eventually understand that you could ask her to get out. This is why she may dont reply
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:07 PM
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Maybe I’m wrong. If you don’t know well a girl it could be possible. But other time depend of girl behavior
/r/seduction14/02/18 10:33 PM
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Go!
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:48 PM
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Because at one point you realize that no one care about height. Everyone start to understand that inner value is more important. Friends and family are both part of life. If you can’t protect your friend, you can’t protect your family. As long as you need your friend to stay alive, you will not be able to build a proper family. Because the leader of a group is at the same time the most interesting guy at woman eyes. Not because is a leader, but because is strong. And to be strong you don’t need …
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:34 PM
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I’ve the same issue. This is why I have to pratice with girls. Because I want to demonstrate to me and my friends that I’m better then them. But you know what! I’m glad to know them. And I’m really happy to understand that when I stay with them, I feel to be the leader of that guys. I’m short, but I’m not in trouble for this. My problem is to be a leader. Someone that can protect his family and friends. But I’m always saying something to me. Just to remember that some times the problem is not me…
/r/seduction10/02/18 12:20 PM
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Thanks! Already hear about Strauss book, but thought it was not so different from MM.
/r/seduction10/02/18 08:12 AM
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Thanks. Can you tell me the right name of this book?
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:14 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:13 AM
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Wow. Thanks! I’ve already most of them!
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:30 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:06 PM
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Thanks for advice. I would like to not anyone know about this story. This is why I deleted. Thx!
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:32 PM
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I may understood that one of the most important thing when you get in some pub, is not not drink to much. Can you confirm?
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:33 PM
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Writer?
/r/seduction06/02/18 11:23 PM
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