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I'm not saying the idea of the LTR, I'm just saying while she is doing all that, she could be out screwing another guy privately. Obviously, you never know, but it runs through my mind like oh, this guy she is chatting with or talking about...could be behind my back, or if she decided to go and travel somewhere without me. I know that I have the power if I wanted to do that, but it seems guys get the bad end of it labeled as a cheater/pig, versus a woman can be like "it all just happened" or "sh…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 03:34 PM
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It still doesn't solve my question of doesn't that just make a woman want to find someone else who will commit? A LTR implies to me the path of eventually moving in together, since you're "exclusive". A woman wants you to be exclusive, you move in, and go, blah I don't like him being exclusive? You stay in your own place, she goes why don't we move in together, aren't we exclusive? It sounds like a lose/lose for men having an LTR, even though women are seeking LTRs all the time, then hook up wit…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:13 PM
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Honestly, the best thing you can do to start finding a peer group is to join a club/activity. I know people will say "be more social", but here is some practical actionable advice: The best thing for my life was to join martial arts, specifically Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. A physical art, gets your mind/body in shape, keeps you humble, get to be around people who are grounded and people from all walks of life (helps with connections and other peer groups), plus some great self-confidence. Pretty soon …
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:10 PM
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Thanks for the response. I remember reading awhile back on the forum that said it's not so much trust, as in "Does she put herself in places where that trust can be tested?" (clubs, late night social events, hanging out with a guy friend a lot, travel alone, etc.) I say that because I'm sure there are some women that logically might want that relationship, but then is in a moment and gets the tingles/feelings from someone and then "it just happened". I'm more frustrated that it seems like women …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 01:51 AM
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For those who are in an LTR and choose not to fuck anyone else, how does your mentality operate around your LTR? This post basically said "Just go fuck other women" to deal with you can't control her, does anyone have any other advice besides that, especially those who are married? I just want to learn to deal with the mentality part as I increase my SMV. I just don't want to feel like I am going to lose a girl every time some suave guy comes along.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 10:15 PM
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I'm in a similar situation being 30 and looking ahead. I want to have kids, but don't want to be attached to one woman my whole life because I had a kid with them, even if personalities change and what not, but I want the kids to have a good life. I know it's difficult, but I see it as a lose/lose these days: Option A, you get married, have a kid, you don't get an opportunity to have other relationships, and always feel like your woman could (or is) cheating on you right now, or get divorced and…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:44 AM
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You want consistent power, and that has to be built. The two best ways that don't really rely on anyone else are Lifting and Hobby Development. People will treat you differently just with the increase muscle mass, and if your BF% is on the lower end, will go out of their way and start conversations based on your looks (especially if your clothes fit right and you hold yourself with confidence). For Hobby Development, you want to be somewhere where you will be treated King. For example, I have be…
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:39 PM
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It seems like it is an unfortunate decision - kids and LTR, or no kids and plates.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:39 PM
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In what way am I leading? I'm seeing her later today, and thinking about dismissing her thoughts and tell her we should keep moving forward. Like I said, she says one thing but then sexual the next.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:55 PM
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How should I be holding frame when she says things to me like "I'm not sure we should be together anymore."? She says these things like this every once in awhile, but then days later we're doing crazy stuff. It's only been the other day when she says not sure we should be together. Do I call her bluff and say fine or dismiss the thought and keep moving along? Like I mentioned, asked her for a blowjob while driving and she's like what if someone sees, I dismiss it, and she does it. I really feel …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:43 PM
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