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What exactly do you them to do ? Because many dads literally do all this things you mention so what exactly are you recommending ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:48 PM
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Don't want kids although l do play around with the idea sometimes but most guys l know want or already have children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:43 PM
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Give two shits honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:35 PM
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The rest of you are not my job. Never said it was your job nor it should but you just gave a reason why most men don't care about each other, they are too busy with their own responsibilities of having families,friends,partners that they could care less about guys online complaining about their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:05 PM
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That's what men actually care about. And they should care but at the end of the day nobody really gives a damn especially capitalism If a guy is going through a tough divorce, he should have a healthy support system but society is still going on regardless which is why it's best to stop being hypo-agent and start being hyper-agent Society doesn't own you anything is the mindset guys should start adopting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:39 PM
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Bash women how ? I love this type of victim mentality, Me: hey men focus on yourself since you can't change society You: poor women 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:30 PM
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But they don't, so what are you gonna do ? Try to change something you can't or work on yourself which is within your control
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:24 PM
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I literally said men created their own problems and don't care about fixing them, so the only solution is to change yourself and not worry about the things you can't control
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:53 PM
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Also another thing is most men don't care about other men nor their problems Society will always cater around women's problems, men created the gynocentrism we live in today so it is wishful thinking expecting things to change Absolutely nobody cares if you can't laid or find a gf, so my generic advice is to stop caring about the external factors you can't change and just focus on yourself individually, because your never gonna stop other guys from simping or paying for Only-fans or worshipping …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:39 PM
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Same can be said when women and bluepillers bring up rape cases and portray it to be all men Both sides like to scapegoat their individual problems on the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:18 PM
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If your talking about Manosphere specifically TRP then your right it doesn't care about men's problems since it isn't a men's movement political party If you want that, go to MRA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:53 PM
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If your talking about spinning plates, he can since many womenizers l personally know are short guys but often very charismatic however the quality of women are gonna be influenced by your stats, most likely you aren't going to get 8/9s model-like women but if your ok with that, it can be achievable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:34 PM
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Men always have two options: Blame the game or become a better player
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:31 AM
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So, fellow Kings, let’s remind ourselves: "If she wanted to, she would." Real shit, put these hoes to work since we the price
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:07 PM
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It's more or less same thing. No it's not, PUA is a practice Redpill is information
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:30 PM
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You've yet to explain why this is a meme but fine here's your citations and evolutionary biology proving Redpill legitimate on dual-mating https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concealed_ovulation#:~:text=The%20theory%20is%20that%20concealed,her%20offspring%20(partible%20paternity).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:54 PM
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Are you gonna address why it's a meme or just pull the ad hominems ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:32 PM
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Nope. That's a meme that some random twit threw together and posted on the internet. I didn't get this from Twitter lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:26 PM
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Brain differences between the sexes : <image> Is that "solid" enough for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:52 PM
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When are people gonna stop conflating PUA with TRP ? PUA: here's how you get laid, it is a practice Redpill: here's how human beings operate, it is a praxeology You can apply Redpill to any interaction other than getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:29 PM
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You know what’s worse than being friend-zoned if you are a man? Being betabuxxed. They are one in the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:48 PM
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That's what l'm also saying OP just woke up because people have been dating around since forever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:49 AM
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Men waste their own time since their 'cab light isn't on' and 'spinning plates' is a way men mislead women who think it's actually going somewhere. Really, he's just 'having fun' at her expense until his light turns on. 1) the average Joe ain't dating around like a fuckin bachelor 2) spinning plates is not about misleading women, it's about keeping your options open, women do this all-time even when they are dating a guy yet l don't see anyone crucifying them This is just men bad women good post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:37 AM
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Most self-proclaimed femininits l know don't pontificate that shit but are too busy advocating women's social issues, this sounds like a online troll which is a massive red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:30 AM
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I only use mirrors when l'm dressing up or doing my hair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:02 PM
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Probably overweight or financially immature I can definitely tolerate the individualism since l don't expect her to cook for me and her social media life since it never bothers me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:15 PM
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I never used a mirror when brushing my teeth As for dust, l don't know how you get dust on the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:47 PM
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-clean the mirrors I can confidently say never
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:27 PM
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Idk, what is to debate here ? Obviously you to be attractive duh, looks get her attention Game keeps her This is like arguing which is more important between water and air when you literally need both to survive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:05 AM
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What’s the actual number look like? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:23 PM
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What do you mean by "us" ? l'm completely against the current education system So l could care less about how it goes about facilitating ethics/morals on children
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:06 PM
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Kids do listen, they listen to each other all the time however they aren't gonna listen if they are disinterested
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:53 PM
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but I don't see them really getting into the nitty gritty with psychology, spirituality, discussing the meaning of life, morality, deep feelings talks, etc. So basically you want the education system to have more intellectual discourses even though the whole point of the system is indoctrination/anti-intellectualism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:49 PM
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Like I believe we should do a better job as a society to teach our children to be kinder and more empathetic, and put more effort into teaching it in schools. So basically what schools have been doing for over a century now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:44 PM
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I think it'd help dating a lot if we had better manners. Yes ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:38 PM
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I was just joking, l got it from Steven picker since l'm a huge fan of he's work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:17 PM
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Where did you find this information? My inbox
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:02 PM
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Environment definitely affects people l agree but OP said nature plays a bigger outcome and he's right since identical twins raised apart are still more similar than siblings raised in the same environment, it's one of the behavioral laws <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:05 PM
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What l mean by "blankslatism" is seeing the world in a non-pragamtic way hence bluepilled since that's what it is about If anything “Chad” is a “natural.” I'm not arguing that but you can still be bluepilled and a natural, nothing to do with your abilities but your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:01 AM
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Yawn 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:55 AM
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Harry Kane should’ve always been the scapegoat for the English national team I agree, his performance has been second to none in the euros despite playing the most minutes He makes England worse than better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:53 AM
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She already knows that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:47 AM
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As long as you do it in a socially appropriate place like a club/bar Also one important tip is being respectful because you are going to be rejected a lot , l would recommend watching someone like Troy Francis who does nothing but cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:46 AM
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Yes bluepill guys do get laid all the time since most guys are indeed bluepill by default, l don't know why this is profound, most guys l know who easily get girls are very bluepilled People have to stop thinking just because your a certain pill, your going to get laid, you can be redpilled/bluepilled as hell and still be celibate because getting is women is a practice not a theory of how the world works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:35 AM
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Bluepill is simply blankslatism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:32 AM
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Exactly what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:43 PM
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I'm describing my Gf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:00 PM
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Cute voice Nerdy glasses Confident in her sexuality and smartness Physically-nice ass/boobs/figure/natural hair but that's the bare minimum for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:05 PM
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Well l'm not those guys because this is a pile of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:07 PM
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In my experience l've had women pursue me or least initiate first, l'm telling you preselection is key
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:55 PM
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I don't have time to be messing with women l don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:35 PM
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All of these are:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:59 PM
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Only a couple of times, l mean l was friends with many players
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:54 PM
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wouldn’t this make women even more picky, and men would experience even worse dating opportunities because of it? Women are already picky as a result of male behavior however many women don't wanna to terms with it which is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:48 PM
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Seems to me they both enjoyed the ride of indecisiveness If any of my female friends or relatives were in these kind of situation, l wouldn't feel sorry for them because you know he's never gonna change his mind especially after 6+ yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:57 PM
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I don't know any guys like that, so can't give advice on that situation I mean 6+ years and you still think he's gonna marry you, at that point it's own her for being the fool because l ain't waiting 6+ yrs for someone to makeup their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:49 PM
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I'm in a LTR with my girl and don't look to wife her but she's completely aware of such but as you said you aren't talking about guys like me The thing is many women think they can get quality relationships just by having a vagina, fuckboys/players are never gonna wife you, simple as that Men are opportunistic breeders, they'll always be down for sex without any effort, the sooner women realize this RP truth, the better choices they can make when coming to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:40 PM
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Low Standards Pros Likely more accepting More laidback Less expectations / Usually easier to satisfy Less pressure to perform or stay on top of things Seems to a woman with low standards=being realistic Also how is being laidback a low standard ? I'm very laidback as a person but doesn't mean l've low standards since most aren't actually laidback If you look at the high standards, this aren't standards but really just red flags Cons More likely to be critical or divorce you outright Red flag The…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:03 AM
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So you’re now admitting that alphas are indeed the “good-looking guys that women want to fuck”… aka the “Chads” as I said. Which contradicts you’re previous claim that alpha was mere a “mindset”. I literally said Most people who refer to that archetype just mean a good-looking guy who women wanna fuck so again genetic benefits and nothing to do with his mindset which actually makes him alpha Which contradicts your previous claim that beta-males and alpha-males are attractive to women to the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:47 PM
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why do Redpillers think they have some advantage or reason to look down on bluepillers? You've to be specific here because all the people l've deeply respected,admired,loved are bluepilled Just because we disagree on intersexual dynamics, doesn't mean l look down on them or anything in fact the most influential people across any time were in fact bluepilled but l would never look down on them I don't hate bluepilled guys since l also one for a very long time, l just disagree with their worldview…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:07 PM
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If women are attracted to “betas” to the same degree as “alphas” Again, attraction and arsousal are two different ideas when coming to female hypergamy Attraction can develop over time but arsousal is just instant That would imply that there is no negative outcome associated with being Beta Your right there isn't since most guys fit the beta-bluepill mindset but it's not only misunderstood in the pill communities but also the social sciences Alpha doesn't mean superior to beta except when we are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:03 PM
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Because you’re implying that betas still do well with women, but AFBB itself seems to imply that the women don’t actually want to be with the “betas”. They are merely forced to by having no more “alpha” options after hitting “the wall”). Which further reinforces the idea that “betas” are the men that women aren’t actually attracted to No this is a common misconception of AF/BB Beta males still get laid BUT they've to meet a different criteria since women have different attraction floors for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:44 PM
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Evolution causes the testosterone differential… Seems we agree, alright
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:17 PM
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Men are 90% stronger in their upper body than women are, is that a result of evolution or testosterone ? It's evolution because men throughout history and across many cultures have fought each other for the access to women hence men will produce more testosterone Testosterone is just the by-product not causal of the many behaviors your talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:07 PM
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For some reason you don’t want to admit it’s behavioral patterns causing the former l'm admitting to the behavioral patterns but l disagree on the causal of those said behaviors, Testosterones is not a trigger towards behavior but a RESULT of said behaviors If a guy goes to prison, saying it's because of testosterone is just low-IQ because we know there's a ton of variables that triggered that behavior, again testosterone doesn't cause behavior but is a result of someone being aggressive/violent…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:47 PM
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Notice how you have a measured take here, but not for the other one? I also disagree it's just about "seen as." I think enough men and enough women, generally speaking, actually BEHAVE in a way that leads to these perceptions. I'm saying your comparing apples/oranges and linking all these so-called "behaves" to a false-cause such as testosterone, the reason why the best leaders are often men is because males are naturally hierarchical and women communitarian Men believe they should be a leader b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:20 AM
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The average male has 10x to 60x more testosterone coursing through his veins than the average female. It's actually roughly 17-20x https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6391653/#:~:text=The%20strongest%20justification%20for%20sex,or%20women%20of%20any%20age. 60x is an overestimation, women may not produce nearly as much as men but they aren't that far behind, in fact women produce more testosterone than estrogen before menopause Below are are the behaviors and characteristics that testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:41 PM
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Speaking of college, maybe it's time to go back even though l don't want in order to pursue my true passion The Arts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:24 PM
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I'm not slandering the brother but he has been awful lately, they would do way better starting KD instead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:08 PM
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Coach-K was the best guy who could actually coach such talent, they need him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:06 PM
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Yea pretty much, l only went to college because my parents were very strict on my education so if it wasn't for that, l wouldn't go In fact many people have no business going to college unless they wanna get into the social sciences or stem since most degrees are economically irrelevant College is a just a trap of capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:57 PM
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Anthony Edwards can't shoot bruh, watching the US vs Australia game really showed how inefficient he was the mid-range and 3pt not to mention teamUS had so many turnovers, like they absolutely played mediocre but since they were too strong it didn't matter It's funny because AD finally placed solid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:50 PM
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Drink alcohol, heard it makes you crazy in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:43 PM
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They've to do a background story on Aizen and kisuke, l always hate it when the author doesn't reveal much about my favorite characters Kubo really did the bleach community a crime by doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:42 PM
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if you want that go to PUA and report why your single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:37 PM
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I'm still in shock how this brother Torisho spend centuries without smashing those rangiku cheeks, that's the best sexual discipline l've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:14 PM
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I literally answered the link you send, how is that moving the goalpost ? There goes that bluepill naivety
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:02 PM
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So a random field report is proof TRP is about getting laid, dude didn't even get laid but was autistically analyzing women who gave him no attention but ok that's TRP l guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:57 PM
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A “pillosophy” on how to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:50 PM
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If it's that white girl country music crap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:48 PM
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What did you think it was ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:46 PM
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Which redpillers ? again this is the "some say" fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:46 PM
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Why are we not seeing these same red pill and red pill adjacent beliefs reflected in these guys' friends? Redpill isn't for getting your dick wet, if you want that go to PUA and report why your single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:49 PM
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Speaking of sigmas, l'm literally him <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:03 PM
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Michael had some innate gifts that helped him be the greatest, it's common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:26 AM
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But that ain’t a problem because they just have “it”. They possess the intangible qualities that women want in men, and they were born that way. Yes this Women want a guy who get's it, if she picks up any idea your not a natural, it's an automatic disqualifier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:23 AM
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Of what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:45 AM
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For a guy who does well, dating apps and instagram are the easiest ways to meet attractive women after college. That's what l said, many extremely hot woman are on Instagram and not your college campus Therefore you need portray a high-status lifestyle, either by being good-looking or having money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:43 AM
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OP asked I answered Doesn't mean l'm endorsing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:24 PM
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You need some form of status whether it be money or being good-looking since the hottest girls are not at your local venues but at a party with high-status guys and they usually meet these through instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:22 PM
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Ok l lied, clearly you need money if you wanna have a chance of smashing hot women, that's the game
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:32 PM
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What would be the minimum threshold to be a player as a guy with 6+/10 women? Just being good at "selling the dream" to girls That's pretty much it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:27 PM
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Your missing out brother We bleach fans are eating good this year
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:02 PM
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“the soul society arc is the best arc of bleach.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:01 PM
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Casual comment as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:51 PM
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Man l can't wait for bleach to make it's return in October, even though l've finished the manga, am still hyped about the animation especially when coming to Ichibei vs Yhwach at the final palace Also Aizen and Ichigo working together to defeat Yhwach
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:35 PM
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I think l'm God
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:15 PM
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Again strawman, OP never said that and neither did l Your just trying to diverge away from the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:10 PM
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What does this have to be with what l said ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:50 PM
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it's that "if you see women as a unified evil force out to get you, it's very hard to enjoy dating her." Nobody sees women as a unified evil force Stop strawmaning shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:36 PM
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PUA and Redpill go hand-in-hand Redpill is theory PUA is practice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:43 AM
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But hopefully we can come to a point where the looksmaxxed guys just brush off the less desirable women instead of pumping and dumping them. I think shaming casual sex in general is a good start. OR how about we stop this innovation bs and accept things as they are, casual sex ain't going anywhere and neither are simps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:15 PM
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Men can listen to each other all they want, still won't change anything It's also not like women listen to each other either whenever they complain about sluts/gold-diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:06 PM
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It's always been like this and men aren't going to change their behavior anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:55 PM
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She literally just did it There are women that just want sex, so why not have sex with them rather than purposely misleading other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:45 PM
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I don't lie because l don't want nor need to One of RP maximums is a woman must have genuine desire for you, which can only happen by being honest I've lost many women being transparent about my intentions but also dated a lot of dimes at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:30 PM
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Brother still thinks we in 1924
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:22 PM
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Plenty of women put in lots of effort and still get pumped and dumped Yes just like how plenty of men put effort but still don't get laid, l never said it was a guarantee but when women can't conceive the idea of being more than a sex object in order to increase their chances of getting the relationship with the guy they want is the problem Men are constantly told on this sub it's their fault nobody wants to date them and should stop winning/bitching, well l'm just returning the same logic to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:20 PM
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Women refusing to acknowledge they've to put some effort in securing the man they want is female solipsism Stop strawmaning my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:36 PM
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What's in that situation that is beneficial to a woman about a only sex agreement? If you view sex as a transaction instead of just two people wanting to fuck then yea it serves a bigger risk to the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:27 PM
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Redpill also believes if she's making rules for you which is you've to meet this criteria before l consider dating you then she was never attracted to you in the first place Women break rules for guys they like not make them, that's a 101
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:13 PM
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Women also like sex l've heard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:03 PM
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Yes, but not because they do not understand. It's because this is not what they want. I know, this post exposes female solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:02 PM
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So once again it's men do better because you owe women better quality partners, this is femcel thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:00 PM
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Women simp for the men whom they are actually attracted to because they want to be seen as having more value than just for sex The idea is thinking they deserve a relationship without putting any effort, it's no different than a guy thinking he deserves sex just because he's a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:50 PM
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All the women here are triggered which is why they are throwing tantrums or doing a bunch of mental gymnastics to get around the truth of this post This is the principle of feminism, which is you can never do anything solely for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:35 PM
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More like borderline
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:23 PM
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Women do understand this. No they don't, trying telling a woman you only wanna sleep with her and nothing else The probability of her being ok with that is extremely low
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:20 PM
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What's so funny is comments from women here prove men can't be vocal about their standards This is female game 101, be a slut to get the guy but add value to keep him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:15 PM
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Men are fragile and lack strength in socializing. We run this field. Destroy him socially. Make it so no women in the community or surroundings will ever trust him or touch him again and the men treat him as a pariah. Empathic gender huh 🤔?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:12 PM
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Is that a hard rule or a general rule? Just a preference since most 25yos are either studying or looking for a job, l want to date a woman who's already financially stable and got her career on point since that's the bare minimum for me Also my sister is 26, so the idea of dating a woman who's her age or younger has always thrown me off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:04 PM
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I'm 32 and can't date anyone below 27
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:00 PM
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Idk about basing your whole value on women but men and women definitely do care about their reproductive success as they should since we are a social animal, so when tradcons say chase excellence not women I hate using the word "chase" but focus on all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:47 AM
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The mother is definitely an asshole, but the kid is innocent and you've loved it for over a decade like your own. And whether or not it's yours biologically does not make your relationship and memories together any less real or impactful on both of you, but especially on the kid developmentally. I agree, which is why we'll get the kid a second dad Beta males will gladly take on the task of raising the child even though it's not theirs biologically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:45 PM
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Plus, sex is something people can work on. The first few times may not be amazing but with communication the sex can improve and be great. You can't negotiate desire No amount communication/EQ will make her wanna fuck you more, this type rhetoric is the reason why guys end up in dead-bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:43 PM
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The hotter she is, the more insecure she is about her looks Making my job easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:02 PM
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I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:39 PM
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Nothing is your post suggests that, it's just dunking on guys because again we own women a better life for having a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
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So to all the men out there who only want a casual hookup, please take a moment to consider that real connections are worth so much more than a one-night stand. I truly feel for all my single ladies out there dealing with this reality… This sub is really inconsistent with their logic One moment it's women wanna have sex with hot guys, the other moment it's poor women that these same guys only want them for sex, well yea if you haven't proven yourself to be anything than a sex object, men will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:30 PM
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I get the whole 80/20 rule, but man how can we be mad at women , when we don't give em much to work with Oh so men own women a better life Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:12 PM
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People will never stop misinterpreting that study, just like the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:03 PM
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My dream girl https://www.instagram.com/p/C7y9a4SRJrp/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:14 PM
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So what is to debate here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:42 PM
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I really love how everyone is mentally masturbating on this social issue when the underlying problem is really housing prices, it's common knowledge that having your own place=bring women to your headquarters and getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:15 AM
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Ok, also out of question You play overwatch ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:30 PM
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but taking it personally is about the dumbest decision you can make unless you put way too much value in a woman you likely wouldn’t have liked anyways believed. Yup never contemplate why she won't sleep with you, instead let her do that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:26 PM
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I wanna go to sleep but damn it gotta finish 5+ episodes of ridiculousness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:09 PM
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Like you bonded with Martha aka Matty over Dungeons & Dragons, and find her really cute? Normal. Not creepy at all. You met Emily at a slam poetry club and you two bonded over your love for poetry and now you wanna see if she likes you too? Go ahead dude. But you are Bobby from Botany, having a crush on Liz from Statistics, dont have the guts to ask her out, but have weaseled your way into her friend group? So what Bobby a creep is he doesn't have a common hobbie with the woman he likes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:07 PM
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The same old men are lazy bums while virtually uplifting women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:44 PM
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When have people here ever been consistent with their logic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:57 PM
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Frieza
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:51 PM
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If the bar is on the floor for men then the bar is below hell for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:19 PM
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A woman telling her little boy to be nice and respectful to get a girlfriend is fine advice. As the boy gets older, he should be able to figure out on his own that there’s more to being then just being nice and respectful. Why would she even give him advice in the first place ? Love my mom but everytime she tried having the talk l immediately would zone out, same with my dad since it was just bluepill/tradcon stuff on how to get a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:08 PM
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Children are annoying to raise regardless of gender, so for me wouldn't make that much significance either way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:31 PM
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Like every problem in life Figure it out on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:35 AM
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This is why l don't give advice in the first place Nobody has the solutions to your problems except you, all people can give you is this is what l HOPE will work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:34 AM
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Bruh l'm saying 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:18 AM
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connection is needed for a friendship. Connection is needed for a romantic relationship. I think this where we Segway, to me attraction is the blueprint of the relationship not compatability/connection Yea they are important for sustaining a relationship but only if you've both met attraction bar never said to neglect attraction, I’m saying to make a mentality shift You said focus on building a connection first than attraction which is the problem Once you have sex, what then? Just more sex? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:42 PM
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What's wrong in wanting to attract a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:36 PM
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Anyway, stop worrying about “attracting women.” Instead of trying to mask your real personality and act tougher than you are I mean who's doing that ? Also there's nothing with trying to attract women, it's almost like heterosexuality is a taboo I wanted to add that you should focus on connection, not attraction Connection is a byproduct of attraction, she has to be genuine about you before you can build any connection Attraction is the glue of the relationship Sure, attraction is real, but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:32 PM
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I was agreeing with you on the fake till you make it stuff is being ignorant/cocky
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:20 PM
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This right here If you can't back up what you say but your speaking in certainty, that's the definition of being ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:15 PM
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What back bone ? Again l wish all the single moms the best, doesn't mean l can't call out the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:54 PM
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Obsessed much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:21 PM
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Just say single moms aren’t for you and move on Ok, ladies sorry but single moms are not for me Happy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:28 PM
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It's not about being abusive either but the last thing you wanna do is give off friendly/nice guy energy What l mean by "player"=a guy who's not afraid of creating sexual tension when he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:16 PM
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As a man, you want to build comfort AND sexual attraction with the woman you're dating. Not too much comfort though because this is were guys mess it up and up being friendzoned, from my experience: Be a player to get her and a beta-lover to keep her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:39 PM
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Not his fault. I never it was but l'll never find attention from children attractive but yall do yall
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:40 PM
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I'm 32 and I'm a teacher. I get attention from women from 17 to 36, never above that, so in my experience this is false. 17 ? Dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:25 PM
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What are we suppose to debate here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:22 PM
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That's what l said but you'll always see tradcons saying society should ban hookup culture and enforce strict monogamy or women not voting/access to education
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:56 AM
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I doubt unless some extreme movement happens Truth is the market will continue to stay like this as long as there's supply and demand, which is why l laugh whenever tradcons say shit like "repeal the 19th and enforce social monogamy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:33 AM
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The quote sounds narcissistic as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:25 AM
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If so, when can we expect the price of vagina to decrease in the open dating market? Never, which leaves with two options Becoming a better player or changing the game to fit your preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:23 AM
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I'm sure there are some men like that, but TRP is anti-relationship and focuses more on spinning plates and being a bachelor Redpill is not anti anything but it is A-everything(politics,religion,ethics) since it's just a Dataset on human interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:20 AM
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Both sexes optimize(want the best) but hypergamy is exclusive to women since they've an attraction floor for guys they pair-bond/mate with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:16 AM
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Q4M: she's a 10/10 green flag whatever ideal bullshit but she doesn't wanna fuck you Would you marry her ? Disclaimer: you can still have kids artificially or adoption
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:45 PM
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We are forgetting guys who date single moms exist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:28 PM
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I've priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:22 PM
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Molly ? I'm over that bitch but still gonna slide in her dms if l get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:20 PM
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She's my dream girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:17 PM
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No but l would date her 😍😍 https://www.instagram.com/p/C7y9a4SRJrp/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:14 PM
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Me on my way to explain why interstellar is the best space movie ever made and anyone who disagrees deserves life in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:00 PM
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I love when I just flex on dudes with my sports knowledge. What sports knowledge ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:52 PM
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And l love hot hispanic women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:51 PM
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Too late, l'm him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:48 PM
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I'm literally him Pt6 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:42 PM
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The exchange is "Friendship" for "Friendship". In same sex friendships yes but not in opposite sex friendships Both people in a Friendship receive the same benefits. Again in same sex friendships If you're saying "Women value the Friendship more than men do", you seem to be claiming that Men suck at valuing Friendship. No, l'm claiming the guy is being taken advantage of because his not getting the girlfriend benefits of that Friendship while she is You seem to forget the friendzone starts when …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:01 PM
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Again another strawman, l never said you SHOULD expect sex from your friends however when it comes to the friendzone guys complain about the unequal exchange of value The girl is receiving all the boyfriend benefits while the guy isn't, all you want is guys to shut up of being taken advantage of, which your post does by shaming them for wanting to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:19 PM
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But if you're friends with someone, but you don't VALUE their friendship, you are still a Bad Friend. I agree in the context of same sex friendships but l disagree when coming to men and being friends because again one gender is getting all the benefits that a partner would give them without exchanging anything back hence this is what guys mean when they talk about being friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:01 PM
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Both the man AND the woman receive this in a friendship No shit but one gender values it more Does this dude expect sex from ALL his female friends??? Strawman but ok Nothing you've said disproves the "that sounds like a BAD friend" conclusion, though. You see that, right? Not everyone follows your definition of "bad friend" the point is this what guys mean when they complain about being put in the friend-zone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:41 AM
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No one is "put" in a "friendzone" - you were already friends. You put yourself in the Friendzone when you befriended your friend. Presumably you liked being their friend, at some point, and they liked being your friend. What guys mean by being put in the friend-zone is a unequal exchange of value She is still getting all the boyfriend benefits such as his attention and emotional intimacy while he doesn't get non of the girlfriend benefits(sex) It's really simple to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:32 AM
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I agree in my experience but that doesn't take away the fact it's not egalitarian as you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:02 AM
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That's limited to online dating, and most people today, are not meeting their partners online. That's true but many people are still meeting online to a substantial amount, my point is dating today is not egalitarian as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:24 AM
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What is egalitarian about the 80/20 rule ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:09 AM
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Stages of denial Lying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:28 PM
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Porn is just porn Nothing more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:25 PM
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If only more men were like him The world would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:18 PM
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I think the description your looking for is I'm him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:17 PM
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There's a reason people say your eyes to the gate to your soul. Who says that ? Shakespeare ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:55 PM
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I wish 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:52 PM
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I'm him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:31 PM
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I'm literally him Pt4 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:24 PM
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OP l don't think you understand the scientific method lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:14 PM
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Women do hit the wall but it has nothing to do with weight/appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:06 PM
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Didn't the whole "happy wife happy life" nonsense come from boomers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:04 PM
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If you've to learn some form of game to get a guy interested, oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:24 PM
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We learn most social behaviors by watching our parents, especially around age 7. How they interact with each other heavily shapes our understanding odf gender dynamics. I'm not saying your parents don't have any impact on your social behavior but your peers have a much bigger influence on how you view gender dynamics especially during adolescents, which is why most kids would rather get dating advice from their friends than parents Kids love imitating other children, it's a simple fact
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:22 PM
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Plausible deniability requires lots of thinking You don't plausible deniability to get a guy interested, this is what l mean when l say the bar is non-existent or below hell for women Men don't require all these extroverted social skills for them to like a chick, it's literally is she hot and available
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:45 PM
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The bar is literally non-existent or at least way below hell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:35 PM
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You learn flirting from your parents ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:33 PM
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Remember fellas If she's single it's 1v20 but If she's taken it's 1v1 Work smarter not harder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:14 PM
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Grandma>wife
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:50 PM
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Me too, l thought after playing sports l would stop but nope here l'm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:41 PM
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Flowers still work if your running granny game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:39 PM
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I don't know who those are since l could care less about celebrities and their relationships also using examples to prove a generalization is just a world fallacy Looks,Status,money all matter but they heavily depend on the context/circumstances and in certain situations one overweighs the other to attract a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:18 PM
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Name checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:00 PM
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RP- (Downstream from BP whether they admit it or not) The current system doesn’t work so you need to stop playing by its rules and exploit it. ok so when was this blackpill in 2002-2012 ? because I can definitely show you TRP back then which had nothing to do with nihilism or exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:21 PM
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Feminism was fianced by the CIA in order to get white women out the home and into the workplace, never had anything to with the moral high ground for humanism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:15 PM
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All the more reason to drop that bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:11 PM
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Has she send you any nudes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:04 PM
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Just to be clear am latina-sexual not heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:54 PM
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Wait thick asians exist ? That's new
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:46 PM
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I'm asking since RP from 2002-2012 was just about intersexual dynamics as you said but now l'm witnessing it being more tradcon oriented about virtue principles and all that stuff That's why l'm asking if anyone has observed the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:01 PM
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Yea l'm asking because l've never been familiar with the self-improvement or stoicism mantra l see today in many parts of the manosphere Looking back from 2002-2012, it was just hypergamy and Game(DHV,agree+amplify,amused mastery) it seems Tradcons have advertised into stoicism or self-improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:52 PM
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If Germany couldn't stop them then nobody can
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:56 PM
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I'm literally him Pt2 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:41 PM
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So another Chris williamson ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:04 PM
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All l can say is Glory to be god of all things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:03 PM
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Redpill - Self-improvement, looks, stoicism, confidence, game, wealth are all things that matter over personality. Bodycount matters in women. Men want submissive women. Women often behave like children in relationships and take no accountability. Lost me at stoicism+self-improvement, anyways most people here have no accurate definition of what each pill is fundamentally based on which is why l endlessly see people confuse not just blackpill with being RP but tradcons,incels,MGTOW and don't blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:26 PM
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Those aren't mutually exclusive at least to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:09 PM
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I don't really care about n-count/purity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:24 PM
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but the type of "self-improvement" that RP advocates for is. TRP advocates for putting women needs first ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:26 AM
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Bad bitches come with bad problems fellas, only pursue them when you've nothing to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:23 AM
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I wanna blow my load inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:18 AM
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I only wife up holly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:14 AM
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He speaks with passion and solidarity, one of my favorite philosophers and communist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:07 AM
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Watching Jordan Peterson vs Slavoj Zizek would be better without the audience treating it like blood sports
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:58 AM
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Nonsense, the litanas will always come to me since l'm the price
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:52 AM
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Why don't they come to me instead 😔?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:43 AM
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And l hate not fucking hot litanas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:38 AM
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Glory to be god for all things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:05 AM
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Redpillers are the minority compared to bluepillers since you also have purple pill guys and even then you've to take into account all the blackpillers/tradcons secretly hiding under the redpill flairs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:57 PM
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I don't have a problem of guys quitting dating, if you think that's the most viable option go ahead As for me l've always just figured how to win which is compensate for my deficiencies, when l was dating in my teens/20s l didn't have a lot of money/status nor was l that high in the looks department, so l just made out work which improving my game and logistics(meeting women)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:26 PM
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A part of me is even willing to argue that EVERYONE prefers familiar emotionally intimate sex to casual unemotional sex, just that some people are not comfortable expressing themselves that way, because they struggle being vulnerable. But I dont know, thats making the assumption that just because I prefer it, other people just dont really know it yet. Yea this a appeal to omniscience fallacy Some people just wanna fuck like we've doing it since we were walking apes in the african region
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:06 PM
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I see men on this sub talk about this all the time What does that have to do with me or TRP ? If you wanna argue with conservatives on their marriage policies, l'm the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:39 PM
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But it’s literally true. If you don't know what your talking about then yea The belief is that all men used to just show up and get a virgin tradwife who had no will of her own. She would just cook, clean, and serve her whole life, and because divorce was stigmatized or not allowed, you could mistreat her as much as you wanted and she couldn’t leave. Key word "belief" Anyways l'm not gonna engage in this strawman either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:32 PM
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Who's whiny ? I'm just pointing out what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:28 PM
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Dating is a market like any other. No it's a market for men For women it's have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:22 AM
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Back what up ? Hypergamy doesn't exist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:16 AM
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Everyone is a capitalist when coming to male standards as l said, it's always men do better and stop being bumps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:15 AM
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Instead when you dig deeper about why they're frustrated at "gynocentric" society, their issues boil down to "women won't fck me" and "I can't control my wife anymore like I think I am entitled to". How pathetic is it that your problem is that you have no control of the opposite gender. Nice strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:08 AM
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Or you are average but hypergamy doesn't want equals Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:21 AM
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When it comes to male standards everyone is a capitalist: you've to earn it and if you can't well too bad either leave the market or settle but it comes to female standards everyone is a humanist: women should never have to settle for guys they don't like regardless if she's also average like him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:17 AM
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That's a lot of mental gymnastics to just say: "fuck everyone until you the find one who's not as good as the previous ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:10 AM
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No you are average but hypergamy doesn't want equals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:59 AM
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But see that's the problem, expecting a woman to give you all this fuzzy support is dumb Men always had a support system of other guys to relay their emotional problems to, if your going through some tough shit like a divorce, a woman is the last option to seek emotional help regardless of how close you are with her Guys who usually play this game are sneaky fuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:10 AM
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What does this have to do with the TRP ? It doesn't advocate for marriage as the alternative to the current state of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:08 PM
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Even if these scenarios exist, why would any man entertain it unless of course they lack optionality or mental point of origin There's literally zero benefits playing the waiting game
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:56 AM
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The wall has nothing to do with fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:27 AM
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Never in my wildest dreams in any universe would l imagine klay Thompson in any uniform than the GSW, it is the end of the splash brothers 😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:43 PM
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I think this is the best pasta my gf has made so far, she's made some killers before but nothing like this Seems she's finally coming around to the fact it's all about the spice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:07 PM
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Kobe>Karl marx So no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:40 PM
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I'm curious what you think about this? First what is meant by "setting" because it is clearly become a container word people especially women use when they can't maximize their hypergamy to get the best deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:46 PM
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Well the thing is women do make the first move but often in different communication styles: Eye contact,body language,shit testing etc All of this is done indirectly What your asking is for women to be more direct about who they want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:41 PM
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Their "egalitarianism" is one-sided and applied only when it benefits women This isn't a new concept, women always jump on the bandwagon socialist Ideology when it out benefits them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:05 PM
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I never said it wasn't but l've never seen the word fly crazy over the internet until now, that's what l'm pointing out Where was the word everytime white people in power pulled strings in order to make things happen ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:42 PM
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People calling it nepotism with the whole bronny James situation are really showing their true colours about black athletes having power
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:36 PM
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I would argue there's no incels at all the way this sub describes it and is often used as a container word to shame guys for their voluntary celibacy, it's the same old "your a dork bro" rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:07 PM
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Let's just get to it Who are these "incels" this sub is endlessly obsessed with ? Like What's their age range,demographic and most importantly population size I actually want some hardcore data and not some "hi l'm from human resources, me and my team are investigating the incel internet culture"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:22 AM
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So yall are hunting for ghosts ? Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:14 AM
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So never ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:45 AM
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TRP is what the Buddha says it is-inner peace
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:44 AM
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TRP relies on specific epistemological frameworks and a set of ideas and beliefs which form the foundations of its suppositions. Ergo, it is a philosophy TRP is a praxeology of intersexual dynamics, a model centered around many scientific fields ergo not philosophy but sure whatever helps you sleep at night My entire point is TRP has no philosophical interpretation because it is a descriptive analysis on human interactions, we never once claimed to be Marcus Aurelius dick-riders on stoicism but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:20 PM
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You don't get to disassociate from philosophy and deny the relevance of it in your methodology while simultaneously leaning on it. TRP does not lean on it since again there are two different methodologies, TRP is based on what is Philosophy-what ought to be This is simple to understand but seems your having a time distinguishing the two No true scotsman fallacy No it's a fact, many people like yourself think TRP is inconsistent because you think it began with one popular figure and just took off…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:47 PM
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The fact that you're making observations about human nature, interpreting them according to your own suppositions, and prescribing a methodology to attain a given outcome, places you squarely in the definition of a philosophy We are interpreting human nature based on empirical data which is a completely different methodology from philosophy, TRP isn't about shoulds but what is Additionally, the claim that red pill is not prescriptive is objectively false Because TRP according to you only started…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:21 PM
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It clearly does not teach me to be stoic. TRP is not going to teach you anything because it is a database of human nature not a philosophy/prescription
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:50 PM
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where have I indicated that your labor/effort was needed to solve this problem? That's what your implying when you say most guys don't have that much selectivity in dating but how does that address OP's concern in any meaningful way? OP is making a generalized claim about guys always paying and l'm just giving him my viewpoint, regardless if it is meaningful or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:46 PM
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The "Red Pill" (TRP) community often claims to incorporate elements of Stoicism into its philosophy When ? TRP doesn't incorporate any philosophical ideas since it is fundamentally based on pragamtic observations which has nothing to do with ethics/virtues Stoicism to me has become the new c*pe for guys who can't process their emotions and think they are in the cool kids club for applying this philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:30 PM
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Most men are not in a position to have a "what l want from a woman"-list. I just wanted that to be very clear. that's their problem then, not sure what you want me to do about that There is no way to verify or falsify your claim. Duh because it's my experience, l never claimed this was universal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:16 PM
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Basically a ride-or-die type girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:00 PM
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If the world was about "what you want", then we wouldn't have this sub-reddit in the first place. I never claimed the world is based on what you want Reality, for most people at least, is about "what you get". Yea obviously but l can afford not having to pay for sexual access, maybe OP and other guys here can't but l sure can
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:59 PM
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You do you man but genuine desire is what l want from a woman and paying doesn't get that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:39 PM
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Nah, if the advice comes from someone who is, or has been in your shoes at least, it is most useful. Nobody has ever been in your circumstances, the only person who can figure things out is you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:45 AM
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I'm a Pragmatist so no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:15 AM
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Bruh conservatives believe in the holy scripture so of course they are against progressive Ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:02 AM
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OR hear me out There is no damn patriarchy 🤯🤯 Crazy l know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:55 AM
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The only advice you need is watch more Bojack horseman but yea most advice is utterly useless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:02 PM
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Am kinda of a mid millennial(born before 95) but l could just be a very fraction of my generation that experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:48 PM
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Growing up I always was made fun of by both men and women at school for liking racing I had an opposite experience, growing up in my home town as a guy, you absolutely had to be knowledgeable about racing cars or sports in general or you'll get socially criticized
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:09 PM
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I should of said no to that McDonald's meal now that my stomach won't stop complaining but who the hell says no to McDonald's ? Only psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:41 PM
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You’re assuming that men aren’t also driven by attention and women aren’t driven by sexuality I'm not assuming anything but exposing the abundance both genders have craved for thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:31 PM
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Because men don't look out for each other and women do. No we do but not for the same people Women will warn other women about older guys while guys warn each other about gold diggers but we often get criticized for doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:47 PM
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Most women don’t have 1000s of men in their DMs giving them attention. When did l say they did ? You have to specifically curate your social media in order to do tha No you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:17 PM
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You don't seem to talk to a lot of women do you? Yes l'm an incel who lives under his parents basement That's definetly not the experience of most women. Most women aren't on social media ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:42 PM
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You don't have to be some instagram model in order to receive unlimited amounts of attention Just being online already does that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:33 PM
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I would say it is the equivalent of guys addicted to porn Unlimited sexuality for guys Unlimited attention for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:24 PM
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No thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:15 PM
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Don't be a betabuxx That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:24 PM
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The sisterhood always comes first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:53 PM
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OK but that's not the common meaning of it. Yea, what l meant is you can still date regardless of your financial situation Most people especially in RP will associate that with running around town putting in alot of effort into women jumping though hoops. Instead of just being fucking awesome so that women try to get with you and having an abundance mentality. Definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:56 PM
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A lot bluepillers aren't very different from these debating habits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:38 PM
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Credit ? Nah this is just a fact but hey, let the women have their revolution of exclusivity from men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:36 PM
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Women apparently suffer a lot from men existing. Yet every modern luxury l can promise you was built by men but yea "suffering"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:28 PM
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You're not supposed to "chase" women unless you're trying to be an incel. When l say "chase" it means dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:52 PM
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I'm redpill and the advice of "chase success not women" has always been silly to me I've chased both, been dating since my teens and working up the social ladder to become successful Everything needs moderation, if you focus on the other more your going to become disadvantaged in that area you pay less attention to so just do both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:44 AM
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Definitely no. Wealth just makes you a mark. Anyone guy who runs around tying to attract women with wealth is an idiot and deserves it when she takes half his stuff. When l say wealth, l'm talking about socioeconomic status meeting women in the same tax bracket who are just as educated and socialized as you hence "quality" I'm not talking about picking up a broke chick from the ghetto
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:24 AM
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Please change my view. Reading your previous comments, it's clear you don't want anyone to change your view but aright Attraction is purely raw, instinctual, and mostly visual *arsousal not attraction they can become rich and get a high status and they'll magically attract people of their preferred gender. Yea that definitely happens You'll attract people who aren't truly attracted to you and will be using you while cheating on you with people they truly like. There are so many instances. Who's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:11 AM
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They are all important proxies to a guy's SMV just in different circumstances Social skills or in RP terms "Game" will be vital in Social interactions: parties,campus,gatherings etc Looks on dating apps Wealth to meet quality girls Finding a guy with these attributes puts him in a fraction minority
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:51 PM
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If it's a woman's fantasy to be having sex on top of a car in the woods with an olympic male athlete and a bunch of guys masturbating on the side I would argue that she can conceivable do that for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:20 PM
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Women should wear modest clothing and also go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:34 PM
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Any man who gives his time,attention,resources to a undeserving woman basically worshipping her because she has a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:43 PM
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Dont embarrass yourself by complaining about gold diggers. Just get a sugar baby and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:33 PM
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More guys would be simps in order to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:10 PM
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I don't think you really know what a simp is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:06 PM
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My man's obito doesn't go on to be one of the greatest villains in shonen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:03 PM
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I honestly don't know what you want me to say about this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:10 PM
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No but if your getting married in hopes of a fake ultimatum aka happiness, then it's no wonder why many couples can't even get past the first seven years of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:48 PM
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You don’t need to see all those women’s legs to enjoy good food do you? Actually....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:12 PM
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Is that what we are trying to emulate here? I was just making comparisons, l'm not advocating for traditionalism either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:08 PM
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Hence there's no incentive for men at all, better off marrying your dog instead
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:04 PM
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it’s absolutely about making your partner happy wtd Because we've created an entire culture around it, do you think people in poorer nations are getting married out of "happiness" ? Don't be silly , marriage is a economic benefit It's been that way forever until now were we flip the script and make it about oxytocin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:02 PM
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I understand why women initiate most divorces which is why l'm right in pointing this out, since when was marriage ever about happiness ? This is the problem many people have to get out of their heads
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:56 PM
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No women are free to do as such but there's no purpose in being married as a man if it's all about how long he can keep me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:49 PM
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I agree with your partner having the choice to leave but this is why marriage services no incentive for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:41 PM
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Yes, a simp is any man who'll sacrifice his integrity for pussy that's not even guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:09 PM
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Women frequently cite the risk of harm as the main reason they do a ton of fuck shit - like ghosting, and being very picky ( which is a weird point considering they could just say that its just their preference ), reject harshly... basically any kind of sub par behavior can be explained away by - " I was afraid ". Nah she wasn't attracted bro, pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:11 AM
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I think a big issue present with young men today is that they expect to get laid without being someone worth sleeping with. Expect ? Nah they just throw it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:08 AM
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The problem I find is that everyone has their own definition of all the pills. That's the problem, TRP is heavily misinterpreted because of all this "nuance" people here just spout off instead of reading the original material, going by your example of religion, you can't just say this is how Christianity/Islam works without reading the material otherwise we get people like OP who THINK they've successfully and accurately debunked TRP but instead just debunked a common misconception If you wanna …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:23 AM
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No bro TRP is that subreddit of PUAs and began in 2020 with FnF,pearl,Tate or whatever clip l see on tik-tok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:08 AM
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But the observations or ''facts'' the red pill espouses can certainly be falsifiable. Yet everyone who's tried it has miserably failed since they don't know what they are talking about other than this incel said women over 30 are unattractive and he has a redpill flair so this what TRP is about It's easy to disprove something that's been misinterpreted Like what? Check the posts you've already made claiming to debunk TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:00 AM
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Nothing since TRP is not an ideology but praxeology, meaning it deals with absolutes that are grounded in reality I've done all my homework/research over the years about TRP, which is why l can say this without any uncertainty but for people who think Redpill began in 2020 with FnF,pearl,Tate or even the subreddit They are the one's who will feel uncertain about what TRP really is and will change their position, which is why anyone who's ever tried "disproving" TRP has always failed because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:22 AM
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Bitches hate bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:45 PM
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Brooklyn huh ? The logistics ain't adding up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:01 PM
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Ok dude 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:17 PM
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Many guys here are on the spectrum so not surprised by them misinterpreting this social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:27 AM
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Redpill: Praxeology of intersexual dynamics Bluepill: social conditioning of how the sexes OUGHT to be Blackpill: basically TRP but with prescriptions and nihilism Pink pill: bitter femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:33 PM
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Yes l know but if l'm gonna spend my entire life raising that child because l can assure you it's not just 18 yrs The bare minimum is having my genetic makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:10 AM
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Your dealing with another man's child How does is that any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:52 AM
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Idk why your going through all this to raise another man's child when you could just have your own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:42 AM
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then it's not as bad as it can be. Yes it is especially if the dad of that child is still around Your just a safety-net
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:12 AM
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Would that not still be a win? How is raising another man's semen a win ? I don't care how hot she is, single moms are automatically disqualified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:06 AM
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What do you mean by "working" TRP is not a prescription
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:56 AM
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I really wish people can stop lumping all redpillers in the same box of nihilism Some of us have pretty normal lives/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:46 AM
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Where can I find legit red pill literature Rollo's books, they even recommended them in the sidebar you got this quotes Now you've no excuse of being misinformed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:03 PM
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What stereotypes am l repeating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:33 PM
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So why do guys watch porn ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:31 PM
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Anything written in that sidebar is TRP according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:23 PM
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I don’t think “OP doesn’t know the entire history of the red pill” is the own you think it is But it is since your relying on strawmans to make an argument, which only proves they've no factual basis behind them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:12 PM
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So my post I want to ask everyone some questions: How well do you know this ideology that you disagree with? Very well Can you steelman their position WITHOUT insulting them or using inflammation buzzwords? Yes Is there a perspective on a topic around dating or marriage that you can give them full credit for having a stronger or more reasonable stance on WITHOUT insulting them or using inflammation buzzwords? They've nothing "reasonable" which is why l can easily break down their points because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:07 PM
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Wow who would have thought being prosocial is attractive to women, seriously how many of this "debunks" posts are you going to make ? Just save yourself from humiliation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:52 PM
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I'm not against therapy and all but the idea everyone needs psychological accommodation is the problem Just like the education system
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:44 PM
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I'd be interested as you are the the first comment I see that claims there is more to it instead of repeating the bad parts op mentioned as true, in the end proving op right How is this proving OP right ? He literally out right admitted he knows nothing about how TRP started and what it is about, which shows how uneducated he is about the claims his making Can you actually substantiate any of your claims and prove OP wrong? I don't need because they were already proven wrong 20+ yrs ago
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:35 PM
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Another one of this 🙄 ok this won't take long Half of redpill is good, and the other half is bad. Yes if you think TRP started with that subreddit as you keep using it to solidify your arguments The good half is widely available everywhere on the internet Yes because TRP according to you is literally get your ass in the gym and misogyny The bad half will harm your ability to connect with women in the long run because it teaches you to see them as selfish automatons unworthy of your respect, rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:50 AM
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Who the hell still courts ? Anyways she needs personality, looks are 75% of the equation for me The rest is if l enjoy being around her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:05 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:30 AM
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why don't they buy and read womens' romance literature? Because l don't want to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:07 AM
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I would say welcome to dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:52 AM
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Sorry l can't take you serious with that profile and "BP zoomer"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:47 AM
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They only feel intimated if they don't find you attractive. That's the whole point, not every woman is going to find you attractive even when there's nothing wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:43 AM
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What's the best way to approach this issue? By realizing it has nothing to do with you most of the time, guys forget that women can feel intimidated/unsure which is why they reject guys who've nothing wrong with them, a woman can say she's into you but change her mind seconds later
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:20 AM
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The wall is just a mental thing where a woman realizes she is no longer as attractive as she used to be and she goes into ultra settle mode Hallelujah, someone who actually reads the material and doesn't off what people here say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:43 AM
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I don't know who thinks talking about newtonian physics,Friedrich Nietzsche philosophy,complexities of the universe has ever made a woman wet for them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:19 AM
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Every man either has been cheated on, or has a close friend that has. Speak for yourself bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:09 AM
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Yes your right that many evolutionary psychologists have abandoned the ovulatory shift hypothesis and moved to mate-switching due to the failure of replication but your wrong to think it is a PSA for TRP I don't need evo psych to prove dual-mating, evo biology has already done that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:48 AM
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The Self-improvement mantra is a scam Many guys really underestimate how much their game actually matters, if your average that's literally all you've No amount of "communication" is going to persuade her to fuck you hence couples therapy is a waste of time, you cannot negotiate desire If she doesn't have high-interest for you the relationship is doomed to fail, a woman needs to like you more for any relationship to be successful Blackpill is not TRP yet many people think they are one in the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:12 AM
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Do you switch places or stay where you are? I'm actually enjoying my current position as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:37 PM
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You're saying that looks matter Looks has nothing to do with this 💀🤦 I don't know how many times do l've get this point across but also saying that improving your looks doesn't help I never said self-improvement doesn't you get results but also acknowledging that every man who's in good shape had to work for it. Yes obviously they had to but do you think women have never rejected a good-looking guy before ? You seem to think that women can NEVER reject a guy who's physically appealing, my point …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:28 PM
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You can't say that looks matter, but then deny that looking better is beneficial. I never said looks don't matter, do you even read what l'm writing ? I said your still negotiating desire by working for it Literally every guy who's in good shape went through self improvement to get there Ok, nobody is denying that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:59 PM
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Then get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:39 PM
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But if self improvement results in better looks, then you're not "negotiating" desire You are because you are still working for pussy by self-improving, you can put it however you wish but it still changes nothing The woman who's swiping on you on hinge/tinder has no idea whether or not you had to work to become attractive. Nobody puts "self-improvement" in their profile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:36 PM
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Did you even read my post ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:01 PM
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Well then, I hate to break it to you, my dude... I probably wouldn't date women beyond a certain weight no matter how desperate I was You can afford it since there's no selection pressure remember at some point in our evolutionary past, someone had to sleep with the most hideous woman in order to continue the race, that's why men have no attraction floor when coming to mate selection they'll compromise their standards for sex since it is a low-cost investment, women won't since sex is a high-cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:48 PM
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How? Women have an attraction floor and men don't And men are doing the exact same thing. No they are not, if a woman cannot get the ideal man she wants, she's fine being single until it happens Men on the other hand will trade down their SMV if it means an opportunity for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:29 PM
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No l never said anything about looks but this idea you can negotiate desire by becoming better or producing results is wishful thinking, you can be Jesus Christ of Nazareth but if she doesn't want you, there's nothing you can do to convince her otherwise Women don't want a man who has to work for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:24 PM
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What is hypergamy? I can give you the sociological definition: Women marrying/mating up in social hierarchies but in Redpill terminology: AF/BB Wanting a better man? It's wanting a better man that she can't get And don't we men have the same quality? I've already addressed this multiple times that men also optimize/want the best but only women are hypergamous Give a man a choice between a very attractive woman, and a below-average one, which one do you think he'll choose? Obviously the attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:17 PM
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There's no "good/bad" in TRP Hypergamy is just what is, a biological/evolutionary mechanism installed in the female psych Same with masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:00 PM
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The process of self-improvement isn't what improves your performance with women. It's the results. No amount of "results" will make her want you either she likes you or not and becoming a desirable partner won't persuade her othetwise because desire is non-negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:56 PM
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My argument for self-improvement being a scam is not the motive but the fact it is a non-guaranteed ultimatum
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:50 PM
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If a guy goes from being obese to being 10-12% body fat and ripped, he's going to be playing in a very different league of women That's not guaranteed either, l can find you hundreds of stories of ripped guys still not pulling better quality women, the Blackpill/incel space is filled with those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:47 PM
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Yes but you've to understand guys do it to get laid Most guys don't care about becoming better if there's no ultimatum to it, that's my whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:30 PM
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It's not a scam unless you are doing it out of a belief that you'll receive some sort of external benefit or reward. That's whole reason many guys do, believing it will lead into something in regards to attracting women otherwise it wouldn't be a popular solution in manosphere spaces like TRP or blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:26 PM
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Most likely people in happy relationships have no concept of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:22 PM
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More than likely it will get you better options for a girlfriend as well. And more likely it won't hence a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:20 PM
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I think self improvement as a concept is great, but self improvement as a pitch to get women is a recipe for failure - not cause you might or might not be successful, but rather, because you’re not doing it for yourself and you’re setting yourself up for a crash (it also adds to the problem in that you’re working for a promise that isn’t even guaranteed) But that's the thing, guys do it to get women otherwise it wouldn't be so mainstream by the manosphere If you wanna self-improvement for the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:19 PM
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In the case of men being told to self improve in order to get women, I dont think they mean it as a solution but to increase the odds of it happening. A guy in shape and with his shit together has better odds of getting women than an overweight NEET. I mean it is probabilistic but sametime l can show you an average guy or even broke, who's get beautiful chicks easy because his charismatic so it's really just a fake ultimatum for guys who are terrible with women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:13 PM
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Self improvement is to get BETTER girlfriends. That's really not a guarantee and define "better" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:09 PM
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The women you describe aren't worth the struggle or your time, but you should want to put in at least some work to a reasonable degree for yourself. I mean that's good and all but whenever guys are told to "self-improve" it's usually to increase their chances of getting laid/having a gf That's why you've all this blackpillers who won't shut up about maxxing whatever they can in order to appear more attractive, it's really just peacocking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:06 PM
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Small tits ? Nah, l want them big and juicy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:52 PM
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Your talking to an autistic audience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:20 AM
2

Stephen.A is right about generating revenue in the Wnba yet get's crucified everytime he voices it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:45 AM
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One might ask, why Patriarchy when we can have Equality? Women say they want equality There's no equality in capitalism, they can dream all they want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:41 AM
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Especially Molly and my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:19 AM
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Women have been saying all along that guys are too easy. If guys are really easy, why not fuck the most attractive one? Mind blowing, I know Yes because most guys according to you are one-dimensional with no interests,passion,hobbies while women are these hyper-complex people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:13 PM
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Fewer options and harder work for women means end of hypergamy. Boom, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:59 PM
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I think you've had enough reddit, this blackpillers are certainly fucking your worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:38 PM
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It seems the concept of holding your partner to the same standards as you hold yourself is lost on you. No l hold myself to the standards out of self-interest, if l've to stand out it's because of myself not her What you don't understand is any man who builds himself in order to facilitate a woman's hypergamy is setting himself for failure I love philosophy,science,discussing ideas but l do that because l enjoy it, not to stand out in hopes l get her interested in dating me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:06 PM
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so I can only change myself. In order to facilitate women's hypergamous nature, you put it however you want but it doesn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:35 PM
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Dude didn't you already post this yesterday ? But ok why would I play the part of dancing monkey when good looking guys gets sex from them easier?" It's not about being a dancing monkey but men don't own women anything, if l've to stand out from everyone then she's the lucky one not me, she should be glad l'm selecting her not me What do most men have to offer a woman who probably wears makeup and has a style? Women are raised to improve their looks for men, they're taught that if they don't, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:34 PM
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Ahh yes the "you own women a better dating life" self-improvement mantra
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:24 PM
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I'm sorry but when l saw the title, l couldn't help but laugh because that's how ridiculous this claim is but ok Victim Olympics has already started
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:20 PM
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Don't know what this is about but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:23 PM
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Can't l just enjoy myself interacting with hot chicks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:54 AM
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Ok now it's no more funny, Mavs better win game-3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:53 AM
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What does that have to do with anything ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:45 AM
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Are women genuinely uncapable of love? Idealistically yes Opportunistically no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:39 AM
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wouldn’t it be more conducive to the betterment of society if men and women stopped interacting with each other? Nah bro l love interacting with women especially the beautiful one's
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:36 AM
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If It don't work Do it ten times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:22 PM
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Nah 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:02 PM
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It's not the same as you seem to think it is Obviously it hasn't but the ideas have hence why l got confused when you said 2014 RPers, because we did not just start talking about women wanting both Alpha/beta traits in 2014
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:53 PM
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Exactly who are you talking about ? TRP has been about the same ideas for 20+ yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:45 PM
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"Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:40 PM
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So your saying TRP was correct on women's ideal archetype yet your title says we misinterpret it How exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:36 PM
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What do you guys think of this hypothesis? Finish your SAT classes because this is atrocious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:32 PM
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You said be a good conversationalist, which you don't need to be "interesting" to achieve It's not what you say but HOW you say it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:52 PM
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Just gonna repost what l said earlier: While intelligence is mostly genetic, you don't need to be intelligent to be smart. No IQ is genetic not intelligence much, I'm very intelligent and knowledgeable, on top of me speaking to women like people. Didn't you say not to speak to her like a human being in your first paragraph, this was just you: A lot of men seem to just think that just talking to her like a human being should be enough for her to want to fuck you, and they don't bother ever trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:32 PM
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My therapy is Bojack horseman just putting it out there but going back to the question: Why do you think therapy is so fixated on these days by this age group pertaining to romantic relationships? Because therapy in 2024 is literally "he has to try harder to make me happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:07 PM
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Ignorance is a bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:56 PM
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don’t buy the “rp is just descriptive analysis” bs when so many rp men follow the same behaviors I don't care if you think it is descriptive or not but for anyone reading this they should do their research before mouthing off nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:39 PM
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The RP, past some very basic initial truths encourages its followers to take advantage of others. Yes because according to this sub, we prescribing a behavior instead of descriptive analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:25 PM
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Do you even know the blackpill ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:13 PM
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Now this is blackpill c*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:32 PM
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Are you aware of Martie Haselton ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:10 PM
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You shouldn't confirm with your anecdote/experiences but look at the data
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:06 PM
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People should really do their homework/research on what SMV actually is I think it's Rollo's second book that gives the explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:10 PM
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I did say both sexes optimize and want the best
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:08 PM
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Let's all go poop-pill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:42 PM
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The pot calling the kettle black lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:15 PM
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Your just back peddling because Because what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:11 PM
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Ok and ? Doesn't disprove anything l said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:13 PM
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still going to be more desirable than a 35 y/o man, people men are thirsty. OP do you even know what constitutes as SMV for both men and women ? Because this is embarrassing Nope there are lots of dudes in the manosphere that believe both. The 80/20 rule was both about sex and attractivnes. this is just back peddling Back peddling on what ? You absolutely don't know what the 80/20 rule means and are just going with what people here say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:12 PM
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I'm not talking about OKcupid, that shit has been a unreliable study for years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:04 PM
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I always enjoyed talking to beautiful women from a young age, had many female friends which gifted me preselection to meet other girls, was very socially outgoing in my teens/early 20s The only problem was the girls l was interested in but couldn't get, even though l had other women interested in me, l would still want to get with my ideal-type Anyways that's my experience, been rejected on many days and pulled many amazing dimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:00 PM
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Oh this gonna be fun to breakdown, let's begin Most men and women are both ''hypergamous'' in the sense that they prefer and desire a partner with higher mate value; however most relationships are assortive, meaning both partners are similar in attractiveness level, education and socioeconomic status. [1][2][3] Yes l agree both sexes optimize and want the best, totally but only women are hypergamous because they have an attraction floor and men don't, l can get into depth why this is the case ''…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:13 AM
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I've been in my bed all-day doing nothing but watching Bojack horseman and l don't regret any moment of it Best choice l ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:16 AM
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If you mean "desperate"=motivated then yea guys who go out and do anything to get laid, eventually get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:00 AM
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Guys will really move heaven and earth just for some pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:52 AM
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I'm convinced Marquette just hates tommy, watching that exchange was so funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:49 AM
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I don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:29 AM
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Public education is really just a daycare designed to make kids dumber, it amazes how parents sign up for their kids to be intellectually retarded whether they are aware of it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:19 AM
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Aren't you GenZ ? That's basically the only world you've ever known
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:13 AM
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Ok then say social networking tools
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:10 AM
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The internet has been around since the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:02 AM
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I swear let a man admit he wants to fuck beautiful women, everyone loses their shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:00 AM
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<image> Gojo's worst enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:53 AM
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If by "simping" is admitting l'm sexually attracted to this woman, then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:34 AM
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and whose ass is that? Magnificent isn't it ? God sure did his work on this beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:01 AM
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I don't blame Kaz honestly, l mean look at this ass <image> Hope she does the brothers 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:41 PM
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😏😏😏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:36 PM
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All the guys picking the gay man over the bear are really showing their true colours 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:30 PM
1

Read Crime+punishment after
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:57 PM
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"Yea bro l'm into stoicism but have never touched a single chapter of Dostoevsky books" Idiots 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:40 PM
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Demonic males Catching fire Goodness paradox All worth rereading again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:02 PM
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I am agreeing with your point Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:15 PM
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Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:07 PM
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That critique video was really hard to watch, she just criticized anyone whenever she felt like it regardless if they had something to do with evo psych or not, that's why l didn't bother watching the original vid Just because someone says they believe something is natural it doesn't mean they're saying this is how things should be Welcome to my daily experience on this sub: "Oh TRP said xyz so that means they are prescribing a behavior"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:00 PM
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The idea that 90% of women are gonna come together and universally agree to keep the infrastructure alive is as fictional as the virgin birth of mary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:39 PM
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WALL!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:22 PM
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"Behave properly"=acting like a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:00 AM
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Watching Richard Dawkins criticize religion is like reading a 10th grade standardized book of biology and now know everything about evolution/natural selection I love Richard but sometimes it's better to leave it to the philosophers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:55 PM
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Isn't that every woman in 2024 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:43 PM
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No she's just a woman l occasionally see and smash and repeat 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:34 PM
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Tomorrow l'm gonna wake up to a nice caramel cake that my gf bought, what more can l really ask for? except Mavs winning game2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:24 PM
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Man l miss 2010, l just graduated Hs that year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:02 PM
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Who’s expected to cook, clean, and pay? The one with the ovaries
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:57 PM
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Nothing says glory chasing than pep at the celtics game
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:11 PM
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You don’t have to buy into the other TRP woo woo to see that. Sure, everyone becomes redpill when it's time to dunk on incels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:52 PM
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You didn't even believe in TRP so why talk about SMV Just pointing how comical this is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:48 PM
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Are you telling men to be with women they aren't attracted to ? Now where have l heard something similar 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:36 PM
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I’m highlighting that the finding in the study is that the males became antisocial, not the females, despite them both experiencing play deprivation in youth. I'm not denying the social sex differences ? So idk what point your trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:07 AM
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The interesting aspect of the study is that the males’ behavior is the one that changed dramatically wrt interacting with other rats as a result of being play deprived. Hence both nature+nurture If it has a biological mechanism, then it's definitely a product of the environment, this is how Epigenetics works
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:56 AM
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Poop wherever l want 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:48 AM
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Why do we think that is? Nature? Nurture? In the rat study Both, it's simply the males changing their behavior in response to the environment they were situated in, animals/organisms do these all the time In the medical study Well nobody even gave the definition of what constitutes as "empathy" so l don't really care about those results
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:45 AM
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SMV: If you're a woman, your SMV is automatically a 10. If you're a man, your SMV is 0.75looks+0.25(social status). Note that wealth and career are irrelevant to SMV. Also note SMV != how much you get laid; some environments are much more or less sexual than others. Yea l don't think you know what SMV is so your post just falls apart from here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:07 AM
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It’s not a step-by-step process. Yes but many guys think it is, they think TRP is responsible for their celibacy or why they can't get a girlfriend, that's where the blackpill crowd comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:49 PM
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They are angry because if we don't have a step-by-step program on how to sleep with models, then TRP is "useless" I don't really care what emotions people have about TRP, l don't come here to make people feel good about something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:39 PM
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You'll never reason a woman into bed matter what When you say the TRP doesn't work, that just shows how uneducated you are about this because where in the world did you get the idea we were obligated to make men better dating prospects ? Flair checks out btw so you are just speaking out of ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:07 PM
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Generally idk but l would guess there is a physical difference in order for it to be measured so accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:57 AM
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Stephen.A and skip Bayless really deserve each other for their long history of horrendous takes Now pls, nobody spoil this Game1 for me If l've to not be on be online then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:29 AM
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Apparently sex determination(about 90%) is very accurate when coming to measuring index fingers Now that's interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:09 AM
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That's because you're a normie. Pre-selection works for men who are outgoing, successful, charming, Wow you actually figured that out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:57 PM
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What are your thoughts? You didn't need a social circle to get women but in my experience social circle game particularly preselection has always lifted my success in attracting the women that l like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:49 PM
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People keep hyping up Anthony Edwards for absolutely no reason while real one's are old enough to remember a 22yo Lebron destroying the Detroit pistons by himself The best historic performance l've ever seen in a conference final, man's was barely old enough to drink
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:43 PM
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Dude why are you asking me that question ? Go find out for yourself(pause)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:40 PM
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Chris williamson is the always fabricating this non-existent incel studies to generate viewership, that's basically the bread and butter of his podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:35 PM
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Someone here said everyone is a socialist when it comes to guys getting laid and by this post l can see why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:27 PM
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I just can't help but find it very amusing when chris williamson and this other guys create this paranoia of incels from poorly conducted NGO studies "Watch out everyone you might run into an incel" "Incels are scaring all the girls away" Seriously, it's like they are warning people about the covid outbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:21 PM
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and before you ask, yes. Ask what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:02 PM
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What is the future of post pill society, What the hell is a post pill society ? What are YOU working towards and hoping to achieve here? Educating ignorant people who think they know what they are talking about, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:59 PM
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Has anyone read the bell curve by Richard Herrnstein ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:33 PM
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Less than 12 hrs until we start this NBA final Fellas, gather your popcorn Do not leave your couch I gotta turn off all my notifications just to not get spoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:03 PM
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Trust me compared to my friends, l'm just average at best
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:55 PM
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Obviously, no way l'm staying with my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:48 PM
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What's your line of work? I do coding and have a background in physics Do you feel your career has given you a big advantage dating? In meeting women just like me, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:42 PM
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Most likely an 7.5-8 at most: 32 yrs Highly skilled/educated Good income Decently looking Good social networking So yea, l think this is a good accurate measure for my SMV/RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:35 PM
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Sorry for dumb question but what exactly is "red pill"? In my broad definition: Praxeology of intersexual dynamics but you can always read the sidebar or Rollo's material to get a well educated view on what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:33 PM
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then the RP is wrong to suggest that men should make women chase them? No TRP is not wrong since it doesn't prescribe anything TRP cannot tell me how to go about my life with women, that's not what it is designed for When you say/use the word "should" your implying a philosophical question, which TRP has no answer for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:13 PM
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If you've a large social circle with enough preselection, you can get plenty of dating opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:32 PM
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If you don't want to approach then don't Really went over your head
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:51 PM
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They conceal it because it forces the man to stick around if he wants to ensure parentage That's one of the SEVERAL hypothesis around concealed ovulation, here this might give a broad understanding: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concealed_ovulation#:~:text=This%20hypothesis%20suggests%20that%20women,in%20which%20they%20were%20fecund.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:47 PM
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Einstein also said he wasn't a genius but just had imagination, so maybe you should take that memo as well If you don't want to approach then don't but again "anxiety" literally means your already imagining the worse BEFORE you even attempt anything For all you know, she might actually want you to approach all this time or not, but you'll never if you don't take action
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:43 PM
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For many guys here, it's this blackpill framework that every woman is going to like them I don't care how good-looking,rich,high-status you are Not every woman is going to want you and often times it has nothing to do with the guy's attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:02 PM
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This reminds me when they asked mystery of how dating has changed over the last two decades and well he said people still wanna have fun through social interactions regardless if we live in the online era I mean for me it was a bit of both as a Millennial, growing up before 2013 you either met women through social venues-school,church,friend groups etc so l get that part but l'm also young enough to realize it's all about image these days Also l said this earlier, if you want to overcome approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:50 PM
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How does it work then ? Oh wait chad gets all the bitches right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:17 PM
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What can we do? Well for me nothing, seems l always have to repeat this: I'm not in the process nor obligation to make men better people/prospects My objective here is to debate intersexual dynamics between the sexes and nothing more I wish these guys the best of luck on their problems but ain't got no 12-rules for life program that they want, l also think many guys here don't care about their problems, they get more satisfaction crying about women being hypergamous instead Seriously if you sugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:41 PM
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Missing out in your teens is something you don't get back So go date guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:36 PM
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Dresses like a slut when it's time to be a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:04 PM
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It doesn't make sense for women to do that though. It does given women evolved concealed ovulation in order to get genetic material from another man and resource-investment from her pair-bonding mate It's literally the best of both worlds for hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:22 PM
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Here come the blackpillers crying or tradcons morally shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:37 PM
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My standards: Good-looking Intelligent Academically competent Confident in her sexuality Genuine desire That's it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:27 AM
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You've a misconception of hypergamy She's right that men want the best of the best especially in looks, both genders optimize but only women are hypergamous since they've an attraction floor and men don't It has nothing to do with dating up in a trait since men always do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:56 AM
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The most pussy l've ever gotten is when l was broke and living with my parents, so different experience for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:16 PM
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Beyond objective physical standards you are always competing with other men in a womans head, men that they don't even know exist sometimes especially when it comes down to attraction at first sight. You compete with guys in your social circle for whom they deem as datable and not datable to deny this would be to deny in a friendgroup there's guys the women would say yes to and no to in terms of dating. You compete with the good parts of her ex, which is almost always looks, sex, how exciting or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:04 PM
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Seems to me both genders get all paranoid when the other side has a preference for something they can't control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:15 PM
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I'm not attracted to fat chicks for interest sake
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:12 PM
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Pls go educate before speaking in such ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:59 AM
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Do you find any notable difference between a friend with benefits and a romantic partner in a relationship? Commitment Do you believe that in the absence of sex, romantic love and friendship are one and the same? It can be assuming you're straight and have close male friends, do you believe that you and your friends are in a pseudo-relationship of sorts? Bros>hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:55 AM
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Is it always the man's job to "generate" the desire? No, you can choose if you wanna turn her on or not For me, l love turning on my girl because it gets the best out her especially in the bedroom If you can turn on a woman, doesn't matter what you do or say to her, she'll always become emotionally attached to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:44 PM
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I mean my gf cooks but l never expected it especially during the talking stage, which is why l was shocked that such women actually exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:30 PM
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Wait women actually cook for guys in the talking stage ? Where can l meet such unicorns ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:18 PM
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Feminism was fianced by the CIA in order to get out white women from the house and into the workplace Everyone suddenly forget this fact it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:29 PM
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What TF is this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:19 PM
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Now look who's paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:31 PM
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Your conflating SMV with personal value
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:20 PM
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What l meant is blackpill just like TRP acknowledges the realities of female nature but they took a different approach, blackpill is just TRP but with prescriptions/nihilism It's guys who don't know how to c*pe that women are hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:57 PM
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I would lump blackpillers in the same bubble of incel thinking Blackpillers are just emotional redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:47 PM
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Don't know don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:32 PM
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Ok great rant Moving on....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:21 PM
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I was exaggerating on the money part but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:08 PM
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So then I ask, what are short men supposed to do? There's studies that show the shorter you are, the more money you've to accumulate but in my experience short guys are absolutely doing great since most players are short guys since they are incredibly charismatic/pro social
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:05 PM
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I show emotions to my gf all the time such as happiness, especially when we are having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:52 PM
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Actually physical attraction is essential to a romance, otherwise the person is at best a friend. Rejecting to befriend someone for his looks could be shallow, not a sexual partner. Somehow this should be common knowledge but l guess common knowledge in this sub is foreign like l honestly don't understand why it's controversial to acknowledge men have a sex appeal and so do women I'm very picky when coming to my looks criteria and so has been every woman l've dated, shallowness is very normal in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:48 AM
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Replace it with something more productive If your serious about taking control of your life, you won't let any sedation come in the way, that's what led me to quit many years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:52 AM
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I'm not gonna disagree on a lack of female attention because guys certainly use porn to c*pe with their sexual frustration However a huge part of it is many guys simply don't have anything to do with their lives, porn is like any sedation, it's meant to keep you in your bed all day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:30 AM
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This isn't a matter of whether it is impossible or not to quit but l disagree the problem being a lack of female attention, because if you look at data it's obvious many guys in relationships are just as addicted as single guys with no sexual partners, so the problem lies somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:16 AM
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Whenever guys ask about quiting porn, it's always in the sense that their lives are meaningless/purposeless so the only place to channel all that energy and testosterone is through porn, because essentially you can quit watching it but replacing that dopamine with something else is going to be very hard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:02 AM
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You don't need to know anything about me I can say the same thing to you about my relationship you think you know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:37 PM
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Ok so who are you then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:19 PM
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Someone you downvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:03 PM
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Who are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:52 PM
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It's not that l don't "hide" my emotions It's just l've nothing to be vulnerable about, emotions to me need to have some reason behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:59 PM
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I don't know since l've never been vulnerable with my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:14 PM
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Listen l'm not those "looks don't matter" guys because we know they do The point is realizing you can still get women if you don't have much going on in the looks department as l've seen this with my own experience as many of this guys were my close friends If it hasn't been your experience, that's fine, we just have different conclusions then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:47 AM
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My experience has been different I've seen not really great-looking guys pull beautiful women on many occasions, because they've confidence in what they say but l've also seen women reject guys who weren't their physical type Confidence and looks work independently from each other, you can pull women just by having one of this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:43 AM
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See what I fail to understand is how is any of this a “redpill lens” Because it's in relation to intersexual dynamics, TRP can interpret anything as long as it's tied to that This is not a hard concept to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:54 PM
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Ok no, l never claimed we were the first to talk about this I just made an observation and interpreted it in a Redpill lens, so l really don't know what your deal is saying we think we are ahead of everyone because we were the first to talk about this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:38 PM
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It is but it's not a talking point This is literally just an observation of human interaction, so l really don't know what's throwing you off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:26 PM
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Nobody framed it as a RP talking point, so get pissed off at something else It isn’t redpill to be kind to your girl but also be assertive sexually lol Great, l never said it was so idk what your trying to establish here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:22 PM
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What are your thoughts? I mean this is something TRP has been discussing for years now, women ideally want a guy who possess both alpha/beta traits and knows when to display them at the right time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:46 PM
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Yes I'm awkward yes, I can come off weird, yes I don't know much about people, and yes there's times where I've been an asshole and made mistakes but I would fully accept somebody for all their faults too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:14 PM
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I dont like "crazy" women, Well l do but l understand not every guy wants a wild horse in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:02 PM
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I don't understand this notion honestly If a woman is experienced, that means she's more confident expressing her sexuality Don't you guys like crazy women ? Because l sure do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:34 PM
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I’ve never done any sort of PUA or used what I know to get a girl in bed. I used what I know to help me see things for what they are. I want to emphasize this point, a lot of guys here just don't seem to understand this They literally think TRP is responsible for their short-cummings with women, so they expect a step-by-step program on how to get laid or now they can finally get their dream girl They never cared about the principle to begin with, only their bluepill fantasies, which is why you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:20 PM
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Start out contributing what the other person wants I don't contribute anything, that's by definition transactional Same with communication I don't see my relationships as businesses so wrong memo for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:39 PM
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Thoughts? Hot nerdy girls>party girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:30 PM
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Ayy as long as you know what your getting yourself into Go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:05 PM
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The advice ain't the problem The audience your directing it to is Watch the replies, it's going to confirm what l said that women don't need to understand men since they can afford it, they are just gonna think your insulting them hence your wasting your time with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:00 PM
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No matter how great/logical this advice is and it is Women don't care, l said this not to long ago that women can afford to not understand men so your really just wasting your time Whenever a man tries to give female advice, women just take it as "how dare he!!!" insult
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:45 PM
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As long as she’s sexually attractive and I want her. Me and you both brother
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:35 AM
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I expect it since given how women don't like analytical/smart guys, l work in coding and often times l hear how nice it would be to have more women in stem in order for those guys to get a chance because outside of women who are also in the same field as them, they struggle dating any other kind which makes me realize l'm the exception since l've dated women outside my field all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:31 AM
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Will often develop weird complexes towards women as a result of being a virgin for so long. Very likely to have an 1ncel mentality or leave you for a younger woman to relive his lost youth. Another bogeyman huh ? I remember it was first the PUA Now stem guys Lol, this is quite funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:52 AM
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Would mens fantasies being socially seen more acceptable be good, and should women be more open about the less than socailly acceptable fantasies they have help normalize them for men? If those are true how would do so? Women for as long as time have been open about their sexuality, just with other women If you've heard about open hypergamy, that's women broadcasting what they want in a guy but one problem that you fail to realize, is that women don't actually know what they want, which is why t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:37 PM
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All the red pillers will say, your life needs to be exciting and you need to be a man of purpose and have stuff going on. You need to have your woman look up to you. Women don't care about that bs, so idk which redpillers your referring to and this is my problem with the self-improvement hustle, your endlessly chasing a fake ultimatum There are many guys who absolutely have nothing going on in their lives yet get tons of women, many of this guys still live with their parents You guys need to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:50 PM
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A: It's OK to want ____ even if you don't/aren't______. Hardworking I'm extremely lazy, so it would be nice if my partner possessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:16 PM
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l had feelings and I loved him a month in because he is the best person I’ve ever met. And how does this affect Lebron's legacy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:56 PM
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Being tall,successful doesn't make you a HVM Idk where in the world you got that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:33 PM
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This one is so bizarre I don’t think any man could ever understand the logic behind it. Alpha seed and beta need
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:30 PM
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Women aren’t choosing celibacy now btw I mean that's net-postive if your looking to get laid so don't see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:32 PM
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I don't because it's not about the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:01 PM
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Your projecting When did l say everyone has to get on my schedule ? I don't even have a schedule lol If she doesn't wanna sleep with me, she doesn't wanna sleep with me, cool But for the women who do and don't want to wait, l date them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:51 PM
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Congrats you can read
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:27 PM
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I'm not incentivizing anything when l say this but stating a clear fact There's no "comfortable" if she doesn't want to wait or neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:09 PM
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Anytime a man waits for sex/relationships It's never worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:50 PM
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Does this just mean all dating advice is useless? Essentially yes, which is the reason l don't give advice in the first place Nobody except you knows the circumstances your in so l don't know what people here expect and this is something l try making crystal clear to guys here, nobody is going to take your problems away, either you fix them or you let them become bigger problems This is why l found self-improvement bs, because you really think short guys are out here "improving" themselves? No, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:31 PM
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Unless I am wrong, and this has mostly just been my experience? Or how about preferences Some guys want younger women while others don't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:32 PM
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"Sexy" has nothing to do with intelligence as much as people like to claim. It's just a bonus Same way women want a attractive and rich guy who doesn't cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:30 PM
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They actually do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:06 PM
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Assuming she's hot There's nothing more arousing than a woman confident in her sexuality and can use her brain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:59 PM
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So 26 and above Ok then B
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:55 PM
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First define "young" Because l'm not interested if she's under 25 Obviously B
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:53 PM
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So where do we go from here in a post OLD world? Aren't you guys waiting for the revolution of sex bots ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:10 PM
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Agree+amplify You'll thank me later
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:20 AM
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Nothing is really gained in any of these debates, I assumed it was to arrive at some "truth" but truth is that it's all shallow as hell. And we all seem to agree. Because most people here just want casual entertainment That's why you've a sea of blackpillers,tradcons and every woman just agreeing with each other over the same talking points I want to have this intellectual conversations on human dynamics but no let's just focus on asking the bear question, which is why l don't come here to "deba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:44 AM
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I don't know what you want me to do with this opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:53 PM
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Women don't need any form media to understand the male experience since most just go through life without ever considering what men are like What guys here have to understand is women can afford to be naive about men but just for interest sake: Alpha God Why men love bitches Evolution of desire Why men are the way they are(this is my favorite book interpreting male behavior) I know none of them are going to read any of this books but this are my top recommendations if you want a real perspective…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:34 PM
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Fuck therapy You be listening to wes Watson instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:03 AM
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What is your opinion on this comparison ? You don't know what your talking about but shouldn't be surprised at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:37 AM
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So everyone has to be mr detective in order for this to work That doesn't sound very effective but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:18 PM
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How will the authorities even know ? Because for what it's worth, someone can just lie about their partner cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:14 PM
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Sleeping with a lot of women is easy if your good-looking or have a bunch of money since it's mostly gonna be 4-6s Sleeping with 8/9s is another lvl of difficulty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:41 PM
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The goddesses are not for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:23 PM
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Who wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:04 PM
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All l'm hearing is welcome to dating in 2024 and l like it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:02 PM
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I mean l would fuck a pornstar Date ? Obviously fucking YES
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:06 PM
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I'm honestly just a bit fascinated by the fact that something that is so crucial and important in our society as relationships is basically controlled entirely by male initiative and female passivity. How one gender has to do so much and the other gender basically has to do nothing at all. Welcome to life Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive But female game is not about getting into a relationship with just anyone, it's about getting into a relationship with the man she wants but can't get That…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:05 PM
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Because 1) l'm not simping 2) l can comment whatever and whenever l feel like it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:38 AM
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When did l ever say it is ? I'm just doing what l want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:35 AM
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Im not sure what you were hoping to accomplish by commenting in the first place. Last time l checked, this isn't your post were people can mindlessly agree with everything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:33 AM
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I don't care bruh I'm gonna do what l want which is chase Your opinion doesn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:58 AM
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You're the one who prioritizes quick pleasures over your life in general, No, l'm just doing what l want with my dating life It's simple but l can clearly see it's a foreign concept to many guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:56 AM
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You guys sound like a bunch of 14yos talking about no-nut-november with this self-improvement stuff I don't care about self-improvement as l've already made it clear, l just wanna do what l enjoy which is chasing women Also l'm redpill enough to know the consequences of the pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:19 AM
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Says who ? Oh wait another random nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:16 AM
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My love for women is much more than this self-improvement nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:40 AM
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Even men who aren't traditional also base their identity on women (which is why they chase them) It's really not that deep I chase women because l love it and so do many guys I don't care about self-improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:40 AM
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People saying Alonso xabi should be sacked because for the first time in the entire season, bayern leverkusen lost is the funniest thing ever 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:24 AM
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How many more are we going to get of this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:16 AM
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I can eat McDonalds a thousand times and it still slaps It's just one of those foods
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:10 AM
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Redpillers overplay what they view as "the perfect guy" even objectively. Yea no, it's a very simple concept that a guy can be objectively attractive by whatever blackpill standards but still not be her type in terms of character or ethnicity or interest The point is realizing you don't have to pay attention to every woman because not every woman is gonna like you regardless of your attractiveness There's many good-looking guys who get constantly get rejected and many times with less attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:05 AM
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Old white women from EU traveling to Africa to pay for sex with a young black male. That is disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:53 PM
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That scene when naruto pulled up with the giant toads on pain always had me hyped Top5 entrance of all time I still remember getting up my seat when l watched that for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:44 PM
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This question of ass or boobs is always stupid to me How can you expect me to pick one over the other ? I want the entire phenotype Ass,boobs,hair,eyes,thighs,face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:24 PM
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I believe this question is important because the saying usually goes that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships Women have always been the gatekeepers of both so l fundamentally disagree with this saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:55 PM
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Now what do the men here think of the other side? Couldn't care less of both sides Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:33 PM
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Just what in the world is emotional "labor" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:09 AM
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While it sounds obvious, it’s almost weird to think about when you look at it that way? That with enough status, looks, and money, even most women who seem alien would be throwing themselves at me. So in essence, I do wonder if it is largely true if a woman doesn’t like you, it’s because you don’t have ENOUGH of these 3 things. It’s interesting to think about You guys have to get out of this frame that every woman is gonna like you I've seen perfect guys(money,looks,status) get rejected by women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:27 PM
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Next up we are gonna ask if women poop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:21 PM
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So how can men help them get over these obstacles? Help ? I don't own women anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:19 PM
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They are both important in different contexts Social status such as preselection can be a huge net benefit if your on a college campus or any social area Money allow you to meet quality women you don't particularly see that often
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:59 PM
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there is no logical explanation for the disparity in the visible desperation of the two genders. There is, women have an attraction floor and men don't hence the disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:16 PM
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Ever the heard saying nobody is ugly after 2 am But in honesty human males are the most selective compared to other animals, we generally don't have sex with women we find unattractive Same is also true for women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 01:48 PM
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Yea, and? The beta guy will go on to have a family, they will likely die surrounded by kids and grandkids. The asshole will likely become a deadbeat dad, if he procreates at all, and he will die from drugs at 56 at some brothel in Thailand. This is a common misconception AF=/=asshole It literally could be her boyfriend she's been dating and later has a family with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:17 PM
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we're seeing even respected leaders having affairs (Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos), people no longer believing in marriage as an institution. In my view that's great Since marriage services no benefit if your economically dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:00 AM
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What exactly are you talking about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:28 PM
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Dude l never said your suppose to mindlessly agree with me or not, you can criticize TRP all you want but this post has nothing to do with that so l don't know what exactly you expect to debate if you don't wanna stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:52 AM
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Your allowed to criticize TRP all you want but l didn’t create this post for that, hence moving the goalpost If you want to criticize, your welcome to find a post that allows such
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:44 AM
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Your just moving the goalpost As l've said, l don't care what your interpretations of TRP are My point is you can't expect it to give the lifestyle you've struggled getting since that's not what it is designed for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:40 AM
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What your describing is not pill-exclusive Anyone could do that regardless of the pill they follow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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Do your research instead of confirming to your biases
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:25 AM
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He is certainly not telling men that marriage is a good idea because the world is full of quality women that will love them And how does equate to him telling men women are the enemy ? If the stats say marriage is not in the best interest of men, then that's being objective not a misogynist but honestly l could care less what you think of the guy The point l wanna highlight is TRP owns no man the lifestyle they want since it is not a guidebook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:22 AM
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Really how uneducated are you ? You can do all those things regardless of the pill you follow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:15 AM
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he really doubled down on making women out to be an enemy of men. No he didn't and you would know that if you read any of his books Rollo never made TRP about politics,religion,race His material was always about intersexual dynamics, that's why his the most unheard person in the sphere since he was devoted to the education over the entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:58 AM
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TRP fails to give you purpose in life and maintain a healthy relationship that lasts until death do us part. The Bible is actually better in this regard because emotions are a self fufilling prophecy. Blind faith to an arbitrary doctrine (a well made doctrine mind you) can truimph over TRP logic when it comes to marriage. I'm sorry but what the fuck is this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:51 AM
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Yes exactly It just gives you a different perspective on the world but many guys here take it as something that's gonna give them the lifestyle they want and when it doesn't, they shit on TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:43 AM
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I'm not gonna hold your hand Just do your research
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:38 AM
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Dude just read the damn text, l could care less if you think TRP is crap since that's not what we are discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:24 AM
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are there 12 rules? No but guys here think TRP will give them 12 rules to accommodate their problems when it really won't what even is the red pill? Do your research
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:17 AM
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but it will serve as a basis to help identify your weaknesses. Yes but it has no responsibility on your shortcomings with women which is the point Many guys expect a false lifestyle and will always blame the content they consumed when failing to realize they had those problems before they knew about TRP The point is realizing TRP is a data point, you still have to come up with something that gives you the lifestyle you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:50 AM
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I'm not interested in discussing the evolution of the manosphere since that's not the topic at hand What l'm addressing is many guys think it's some 12 rules for life program to solve whatever problem they've with women TRP bears no responsibility on any man's shortcomings in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:36 AM
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I never claimed it was some label "science" so l don't know what idea your getting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:29 AM
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I'm talking about the guys who expected it to go one one way but didn't They expect this step-by-step program/guide book when again failing to see TRP is just a piece of information, whatever problems you had with women, you shouldn't expect the TRP to solve it If you can't talk to women because your too nervous/anxious, you can't expect the TRP to take that away in order to accommodate your success, all TRP will do is provide the education/knowledge on why that's unattractive and hopefully you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:20 AM
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There's nothing more attractive than a good-looking,intelligent woman but also confident in expressing her sexuality Very few women possess all this traits, so fellas if you find one, that's the unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:09 AM
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Haven't laughed so much in a long time after watching Andrew Willson on FnF Seriously his what the haters need
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:20 PM
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Hot hispanic women are the best 😫😫
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:50 PM
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I don't know what makes you think that neurotic behavior=exclusive to RP men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:05 PM
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1) l'm not a relationship counselor, so l could care less who's at fault 2) Idk what you mean when you say he behaved in a redpill manner, so pls extend on what you mean ? 3) first girlfriend at 46 ? Holy wow, l can't Imagine that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:58 PM
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So basically 1924 I don't know why tradcons love idealizing the past
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:22 PM
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The argument I hear from the blue pill is that marriage is a benefit for men because on average married men are happier and more successful They are right in that marriage is a economic benefit but wrong in other aspects There's no incentive to get married hence both genders are getting married later in their lives as a "bonus"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:50 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:31 AM
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Ok then go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:36 PM
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70-115 In all my years of watching the NBA, l've never seen a gap bigger than that against a nr1 seat team in the western conference Denver were just helpless against the Minnesota defense, l still have them winning Game-7 but the Timberwolves proved they ain't going down easy which will make game-7 one hell of a game, even jokic's face said it all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:35 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:51 PM
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This is not what Karl marxx envisioned, although l do love sluts so hey 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:25 PM
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Well it seems as though a lot of far left women tend to be a bit less open to new ideas. Those damn socialists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:22 PM
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I find both Ideologies annoying Conservatives/liberals always wanna make revenue by attacking the TRP so they are both in the same bubble for being highly ignorant about their worldviews
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:17 PM
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is this difference something that it is uncommon for men to understand, or am I just dealing with a bunch of ignorant men and trolls? I mean essentially nobody cares if it's uncommon or men can't deviate between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:13 PM
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couldn’t it work out in the end for the male suitor to bide his time and be laid back and wait for her to make the decision without pressuring her? He can but why would he ? That's my question Anything a woman makes you wait is never worth the wait to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:32 AM
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How Should one go about establishing or probing the idea or desire to be exclusive ? You just do it, most people don't have any conversations about exclusivity since they don't want to step out on their partner When l started dating my gf, we never talked about cheating since we never thought about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:26 AM
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Would you be in a relationship where you will never have sex EVER 0% chance) and you’ll never start a family. What's the point of sex and family creation if she doesn't even have genuine interest for you ? That's my version I don't care about sex nor the reproduction if she doesn't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:10 PM
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relationships are pointless unless you want to start a family or have sex. I mean if that's your thought-process sure but everyone has their philosophy to what an actual relationship should be For me(not TRP since it's not a philosophy) Relationships should be genuine, if you don't have genuine interest in each other then all other things like children or sex are pointless Again this what l've concluded from dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:40 PM
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so, then why are men still so mad at women? How should l know ? I'm not an authority on what those guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:25 PM
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Do you look at AI ? Just make your own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:41 PM
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If a woman is "bossy" that immediately tells you she's had to put up with many incompetent men in her past so could be that This dont happen to men with higher socio economic position, they are seen as higher value and more competent. I think its related to the job, and not related that much tò look. Maybe height can play a Major role in being seen as man/competent It's a mindset thing, you can have a low status job but still be highly be competent so looks/status have nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:58 AM
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Nuggets take Game-3 Stephen.A really made the worst prediction in espn TV history when he said they were gonna get swept Also Anthony Edwards who ? All l saw was jokic dropping 40 and proving why he's the best player in the league and also Tatum giving us a brilliant performance In all honesty, if the Timberwolves don't win Game5 they can kiss the series goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:56 PM
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I've heard people say that women put in more effort later on in the relationship, after the courting phase. What in the world is the courting phase ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:47 PM
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Red nails Fake hair But my most is always a lack genuine desire
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:26 PM
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Every guy has their own experience with TRP For me, l was already doing fine before becoming RP-aware It just exposed me to the true natures of the sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:40 AM
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To put it bluntly, the manosphere is about the worst representation of masculinity out there Ok but we(TRP) never in a million years claimed to be authorities/representatives of masculinity TRP was never about virtue or morals nor masculinity, so this is a waste of time pointing the finger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:37 PM
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What your initially describing of the current RP talking points is the tradcon Ideology but to put it plain/simple on what the two pills are based on: TRP is and will always be about intersexual dynamics Bluepill is just the mainstream culture/norm of how men and women OUGHT to be Pragmatics vs idealism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:39 PM
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I wouldn't marry her even if there was "just chemistry"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:42 PM
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Denver take Game-3, tell that nigga with the big forehead called stephen.A to take back what he said about them getting swept
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:09 PM
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In my experience, the guys who got the most women constantly chased pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:08 PM
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Don't chase pussy instead excellence Tradcons absolutely love this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:04 AM
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Brunson>Anthony Edwards Can't believe espn actually debated this 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:38 PM
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When a woman has multiple bodies, doesn't it show that she doesn't even take her own self seriously? I mean l don't care, so girl have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:52 PM
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There's no red flags because l'm anti marriage That's the decision l've taken regarding being RP-aware about marriage in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:13 PM
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I got no hate actually I'm just really bored and educating ignorant people is enough to fill up the boredom
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:59 AM
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Most men are simply too emotional and frail to ever have a shot on having the best relationship of their life, they have simply taken the role of submissiveness which puts them out of character. What happened to: "Men need be in touch with their emotions" ? Is the memo not working anymore ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:55 AM
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So why are you here? I'm bored bro, it's not that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:52 AM
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In your experience which takes more effort? Finding a new partner Keeping my gf attracted is effortless since she's already attracted to me, so l never had to work to keep her interest Also by finding a new partner, l mean a quality woman I could easily get some 4 l'm not attracted to if l wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 PM
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Whether they engage with you or not is based on if you want to date them and not on leagues, which has been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:02 AM
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She won't be into you if you're not in her league Women are not out here calculating every metric to see if a guy is in their league or not Guys always shoot themselves in the foot because of this thinking, l've had women say in front of my face they would never date me yet we ended up hitting on each other Women can say xyz but their actions show 1,2,3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:44 AM
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Bruh date whoever you want Idk why so many guys put so much mental gymnastics over this things, if a woman is into you, nothing matters regardless if she's in your league or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:37 AM
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It's only simping when there's a unequal exchange of value
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:41 PM
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What do you guys have against makeup ? I never understood why so many guys here are against if it makes the woman more physically appealing I encourage my woman all the time to wear makeup because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:30 PM
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There is a lot less drama in your life when you stop dating and chasing women as a man That's why l love chasing Listen you guys do you, lmma do me which is continue chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:27 PM
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You should see really attractive women get rejected, l've rejected many of them and they immediately turn into a different person because it's a foreign experience to them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:59 PM
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I'm struggling to understand why someone would volunteer for a life of misery and social ostracisation What misery ? Nothing really changes once you become RP-aware except your understanding on men/women I still live the same life as when l was bluepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:50 PM
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The thing about being "perfect" or checking off all the boxes is that it comes off as boring Hypergamy hates the perfect guy that she can get but it loves the perfect guy she cannot get for commitment so always keep that in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:39 PM
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Then can you show me this "majority" that's excusing and condoning it ? Because most people either man or woman, wouldn't excuse or condon rape, so l don't know which set of population your referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:26 PM
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l want my world to only be women Ok, all you need to do now is cut off your balls and get estrogen boosters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:35 PM
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Women and you know why 😎😳😳😈😈
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:00 PM
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It's real for the top% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:16 AM
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Yes but only the top% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:12 AM
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The definition of "culture" would mean the majority is doing it, which to my knowledge, only a fraction of men are doing such
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:55 AM
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When people say women are the selectors of sex or relationships, it goes back to the simple fact of sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive See, just because your turning down this women There's a hundred more guys who desperately wanna date them, a woman regardless if she's rejected, will always have dick thrown at her from another pool of guys that she maybe likes or not While the same is not true for men, if l reject a woman Who knows when l'm going to find another one especially if l'm a Low S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:28 PM
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gender or sex is completely irrelevant But that's the thing OP, it's not Gender/sex will always play a big role in the world of sports, why ? Because men and women have differences that cause segregation Everyone knows a teenage boy vs teenage girl in any physical sport is unfair, because the boy has 10x more testosterone than the girl which gives him a massive advantage, hence boys should have a fair competition by facing their gender and vice-versa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:20 PM
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I'm actually glad marriage is on the decline since it will give us the opportunity to restructure how we formulate monogamy There's literally no incentive/benefit for a man to get married in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:22 AM
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A lot of men push the idea that 80% of women go for 20% of men. Actually, 100% of women are aiming for the top not 20% but a fraction of men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:26 AM
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Usually in my experience, they would befriend both attractive and ugly women in order to have a large social network I remember in HS, you would get the super hot 8/9 with the mid 5
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:36 PM
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I think most young people do want a committed relationships but the problem is we think marriage is the only way to do that I've always asked myself, why can't people just have a relationship without the paper work aka marriage because there's no difference other than the fact your assets are now her's and vice-versa Why do people always have to formalize monogamy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:33 PM
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I don’t think gynocentric (female POV) has been the dominant one compared to the male POV for all of mankind. I think pockets of eras and pockets of societies. But I think most of recent human history has been led with a male pov. 20th century ushered in a more female pov dominant at least in the west. Ok but that's irrelevant, let me go back to my original point of women are wonderful effect Evolutionary, women have always been the more vulnerable sex therefore men had to cater/facilitate women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:56 PM
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Neither I just couldn't have any real intense conversations with them because they've never been intellectually challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:48 PM
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Gynocentrism is prioritizing the female perspective in our societies, so no it ain't a new 20th century concept This has been happening forever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:45 PM
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I don't think you understand what gynocentrism is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:07 PM
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Is that a new thing? No Gynocentrism has been around for a long time Many guys are saying it’s innate and evolutionary. And they are completely right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 PM
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Define "smarter" because l've dated highly educated women with doctrines and PHDs yet many of them can't think critically and are as dumb as a neanderthal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:05 AM
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If you want variety, find a woman who's ok with polygyny There's a ton of women who would go with that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:52 AM
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What are some concrete facts or experiences for why “women are wonderdul” is a thing in your opinion? Gynocentrism What are some examples of why women are deemed “wonderful”? Simping/pedestalizing the female perspective What are women doing to be deemed wonderful? They aren't doing anything, the women are wonderful effect is just men projecting their view on women Why don’t women bring up “women are wonderful” or feel “women are wonderful” as much as men seem to? Anything that puts women in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:43 AM
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Men have no one to really get good advice on how to date and succeed in this realm. Then why can't you just figure what works for yourself instead of seeking advice ? At the end of the day, nobody is going to solve your problems but yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:30 PM
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Every guy has his own boundary For me, if she has no genuine desire and sees the relationship transactionally then l would rather be single Don't care how attractive,intelligent,amazing she is if she doesn't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:27 PM
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Ok, l mean isn't this already common knowledge ? Athletes,celebrities get female attention thrown at them 24/7 non-stop to the point it doesn't mean anything to them I've seen women throw their underwear at drake and he just ignores them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:04 PM
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Ok, l don't know how that specifically makes you an asshole since that's your game
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:13 PM
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I'm 31 So l date women from 27-33
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:15 AM
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Whatever brings you contentment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:33 PM
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I’m saying approaching women has changed for me Ok but that's not being needy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:23 PM
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TRP is not what l believe, so can't really answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:22 PM
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Baseless claims once again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:19 PM
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I was needy and totally unsure of myself and I got laid more than I do now. I’m more confident, self assured, sexual frame, dominant etc so it’s bewildering. Thoughts? Approaching women ain't being needy I don't know who gave you that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:18 PM
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but I just don’t understand why a man would think so little of women who take on the task of homemaking and child rearing but also absolutely insist that a woman take on that role if she lives with him. Ok, what does this have to do with TRP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:14 PM
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Is'nt the reason that they want World War 3 so badly, is because they hope that most of the men die off, leaving them with all the women? Are you really that bored that you make up this crazy theories ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:11 PM
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I have my own place and pay own bills. If they can keep their job and money and leverage you, that makes you a desirable option. I mean that's great for you but l'm more so talking about selection, just because guys prioritize looks doesn't mean they want a financial liability or a woman who won't contribute her fair share When a woman passes the boner and character threshold, we immediately look at her income/job at least that's what l did with my gf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:22 PM
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If you don’t care about a girls money and just want a girl with a job, She must have a job that brings income, l want a woman who can financially stand on her feet before she met me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:59 PM
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Most couples share their money Share=/=equally distributed Again his extra income is their money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:56 PM
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Women are earning now Which is why most are aiming for the top% of men with higher income
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:41 PM
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Can we stop with the bs and feeling sorry for this guys ? Seriously, this sub can't go one week without a post talking about their dating woes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:26 PM
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This will entirely depend on the region In many regions such as mine, you can always approach in social venues such the club,parties etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:24 PM
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Instead, it seems to celebrate qualities such as vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and a desire for equal partnership in both providing and being provided for. There's never an egalitarian relationship It's always: "His money is ours while her money is her's"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:16 PM
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Men including myself obviously care about a woman's socioeconomic status since they don't want a financial liability but we just prioritize looks and character before that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:46 AM
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If your an inexperienced guy, the most logical strategy is getting a very experienced woman to show you how things works
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:56 PM
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Hair specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:27 PM
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To all my sisters If l can't grasp it, l don't want it Natural only
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:49 PM
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Shhh and just watch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:05 PM
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I wanna see the incoming delusion from this post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:02 PM
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Tradcons always make casual sex a bigger deal than it should be "If sex doesn't have any Darwinian purpose to it, DEGENERACY!!!" Idk when they are gonna catch up to 2024, and realize some people just wanna fuck and l'm definitely one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:34 PM
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This sounds like femcel nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:38 AM
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No just be realistic with your opinions and understand the game if she wants the right guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:19 AM
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Staying single until the "right guy" comes but again She's a grown adult who can make her own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:12 AM
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HVM in plain simple RP terms Women wanna fuck you and men wanna be you How you contextualize that is up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:09 AM
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What do you tell her? Nothing She's a grown adult who can make her own decisions regardless if l agree with them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:05 AM
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Feminism Absolutely means nothing in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:04 PM
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so why do so many men, especially the various fractions of the manosphere, perpetuate the myth that feminists hate men? Does it even matter ? The term has no meaning today anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:25 PM
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You mean you know many guys who are below average in facial attractiveness, social status, education, earnings, intelligence, height, kindness, fitness, etc. and just have game that is above average, maybe very highly expressed and that is enough to pull many women? No, many of this guys were just plain average dudes Meaning average looks,income,height etc But they had some skill/trait that worked efficiently in getting chicks, that's my entire point You literally don't need to become the "perfe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:38 PM
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Having one attribute to rely on for dating success IS struggling, as you are severely limited and need to find a partner who is fine with you only having that one trait. I understand but from my experience, one trait is all you needed to find a partner I know many guys who are just by having game, could pull many women This idea you need to be the best version of yourself in order to succeed in dating is a sell-out for many men, a lot women don't need a guy having multiple surplus traits in orde…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:19 PM
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But finding that niche IS struggling in dating. Yes l've already addressed this My point is, guys who never struggled often had one attribute to pull women and didn't need to work on others like OP suggested For example: If they weren't very good-looking, they relied on their game or resources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:47 AM
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My take is you have to eliminate every single attribute where you're below 5/10 and improve to atleast be a 5 in it. Sure but in my experience Guys who didn't struggle dating, only had one attribute that they relied on while being deficient in others I had many attributes that were below 5/10 but still did great in dating, because l only needed one trait that could work, therefore didn't need to self-improve on others
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:42 AM
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If women showed everyone what they actually look like, the number of simps would plummet. No it wouldn't Simps will always be simping regardless if she wears makeup or not Nice guys aren't being deceptive, women hate nice guys or at least aren't attracted to them, because they let everyone including herself walk all over him They never try to escalate a sexual relationship but instead platonic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:29 AM
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I'm waiting for the part were you address marriage mostly benefiting men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:25 AM
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They want men to pursue them, they arent going to pursue you. If you drop good dick They'll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:07 PM
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Isn’t this a form of emotionally cheating on your partner? Whether it is doesn't matter, because to her Your suppose to read her mind that she has become emotionally detached from the relationship That's why no amount "communication" will ever work with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:24 PM
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you made redpill your whole personality Exactly how did l do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:53 PM
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they don't get periods, And thank god we don't I can't imagine bleeding every month through my genitalia I mean my gf can but not me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:38 PM
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13 yrs ? Man's better made some money during that period if he wants her back
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:35 PM
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I swear virgins will make their celibacy an entire personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:33 PM
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I like to participate 😊😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:40 AM
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Assuming she is single, what do we think is the average amount of sexual partners a woman this age range, is having per year? I don't know and don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:21 AM
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Why is behavior increasing on social media? Because it's social media Not a hard concept to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:20 AM
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How do I get rid of what makes people know they can take advantage of me? You can start by realizing psychologists exist for a reason and l would recommend seeing one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:23 PM
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Id just like to discuss why this happens? Idk, why of all subreddits is a virgin one even discussing this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:20 PM
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Another man replied to that with "She's too masculine. We men want submissive and feminine women, not masculine." It's not that she's too masculine She's clearly aiming for the top% but again: Not every woman can maximize their hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:50 PM
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Your making this too serious Alpha/beta are just sociological terminologies used to describe animal behavior, redpill uses them to describe dynamics abstractly Most people who are RP-aware to my knowledge never actually refer themselves as this archetypes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:20 PM
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Yes most women can only secure the beta-security, so they marry for resources
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:21 PM
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My question is ultimately do you only (or at least mainly) seek relationships with women because it’s the only way you can access regular sex? If so, everything you do to gain and maintain a relationship is simply things you do because this is what you must do to access regular sex? I thought that was obvious for both parties ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:12 PM
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Bluepill in it's purest core definition is the social/cultural ideas you were fed about men/women since you were a child From what your parents,teachers,culture indoctrinated you to believe and this can be anything You can be bluepill but think looks are super important or money or whatever, it's not about what women find attractive The idea is you go with what the mainstream says, if the mainstream says xyz about women and you naively/ignorantly believe it, your essentially bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:50 PM
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This is way too much mental gymnastics just to get a point across
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:15 AM
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There are many instances where myself, other men and many women initially had little to no interest in someone, or didn’t consider them to be their type but as they’d get to know each other, they’d begin to develop a sense of attraction and a bit of a bond. Even if that's the case I personally wouldn't prefer that If l'm not her type or vice-versa, might as well as part ways with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:33 PM
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How are red pillers in general going to reconcile this and form a middle ground. Reconcile what ? The guys who preach about traditionalism and masculinity are tradcons not TRP Simple as that I've said it over and over again, society is not going back to 1954 Society only moves forward
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:38 PM
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I don't do none of that shit except pay for a date because l insist That's how l've always went about dating even when l was broke and struggling, l would still prefer paying for the whole thing, not because l'm putting her on a pedestal, lt just felt natural for me as a guy to take of the paying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:00 PM
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Can he still be red-pilled and do it? He can do whatever he wants because TRP is not a set of prescriptions to live your life Redpill is just seeing the world as it is You can be redpill and date a single mom or get married or whatever, as long as you've the information/education to know what your getting yourself into
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:40 PM
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Perhaps by Red Pill lifestyle, OP is specifically referring to spinning plates? Can you clarify, OP? Spinning plates ain't a redpill lifestyle I know many bluepill guys who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:36 PM
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Yes l understand that most people marry within similar religious/political views , but l greatly respect labor work more than what this institutions are offering Which is why it wouldn't even bother me if a woman didn't want to date me because of my job status or different views Since l'm far better off in life than her financially
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:20 PM
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Generally in my experience no, a woman would rather pair up with a guy who has a fake PhD/bachelor's than a guy who does labor work but makes millions every year It's about the status that qualification brings She just wants to tell her friends during lunch, her man is a doctor,lawyer instead of a plumber but respect to all my plumbers and labor workers I always say that society needs them more than fake individual brilliance through institutions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:45 PM
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I promise you being good at dancing is a hell of a lot more attractive to women than looking like Jay cutler Ok, what does this have to do with TRP then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:01 PM
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Ok, if you think there's no method enjoy singlehood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:48 AM
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lol.. you said MAN. Yes l said man because that's a social construct according to what you said in your post and l'm trying to out it is not but again, went over your head dude gay are still MALES. No shit, who said otherwise ? Again ignoring the argument and just repeating irrelevant stuff, learn basic interpretation skills
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:10 PM
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you would still remain biologically MALE. Dude l know, l literally said: I don't care if identifying as a woman doesn't affect my biology since that's not the argument It seems you've no idea what what my argument is here, which honestly l could care less to try and break it down for you in order to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:53 PM
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i specifically said I know what you said which is why l'm pointing out your logic, because if you say gender is just a social construct Then l can as a man, identify as a woman and have all the social privileges of using their restroom and participating in their sports I don't care if identifying as a woman doesn't affect my biology since that's not the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:42 PM
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they should just rename the "women's" bathroom to a "female" bathroom. Yet they don't, because they understand that "gender" has a biological link to sex or maybe they don't who knows Either way according to you, l can now identify myself as a woman and not only use the women's restrooms but participate in women's sports
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:33 PM
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man, woman, boy, and girl are genders, just like lesbian, gay, bisexual, cisgender, transgender, etc.. are genders. these are social constructs, not sexes. Then allow me as a man to use the women's bathroom as l please, since l now identify as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:42 PM
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When brothers say "l don't date black women" That's nothing but cap This are the same guys who'll date the lightest light-skins, l definitely see yall You guys just don't want our dark sisters, which is fine since it's your preference but stop capping when you guys say you don't date black women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:11 PM
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The 9 who would never give me the time of day>the 5 who'll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:17 PM
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I don't approach anymore but when l did, l would never consider if she's interested or not because who knows ? Some women are totally going to be interested but won't show it because reputation matters more Others will but immediately change their mind Regardless, l just did my thing whether she showed it or not It's mental torture because your thinking too much over how she'll feel about you approaching her, which is the reason why many guys are afraid to even approach in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:32 PM
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I think you mean facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:14 PM
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Why do you think RP is cultivating this reputation? You know why lol What do you love about women? Everything, exactly what can you not love about women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:10 PM
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Exactly this Woman will always use "l did the emotional labor" everytime they wanna put themselves in a moral light
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:12 AM
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Do they ever regret letting the good girl go? Ehh no, least for me anyways I'm taking the promiscuous woman any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:31 AM
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My biggest mistake was learning how to do business through my books instead of learning from kids who were already in the game, because looking back now, my school definitely had a lot of salesmen This guys made tons of money realizing there was a market for what they were selling, it got to a point were they had to hide their products because the school was on to them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:53 PM
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We are researchers conducting a study related to how people exit inceldom. How do you conduct research on something that doesn't exist ? Might as well as call yourselves ghost busters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:46 PM
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I also like our lineup just would be a better performance bench having kawhi and kyrie present
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:02 PM
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Thank god embiid didn't represent france because the international competition would have been over before it started He better keep his word for playing with team USA, so far l actually like our line-up this year except you can't win a golden medal without my man's kawhi and kyrie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:55 PM
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Why do you think people so frequently reach for this method of argument? Engagement/clip farming
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:52 PM
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No you just want him to keep chasing your tail because if he doesn't, the relationship ends That's what l meant by "transactional" He feels obligated to giving you something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:05 PM
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Real Madrid knock out city on penalties, gotta say this fixture was surprising Rudiger and Lunin were phenomenal especially rudiger since haaland didn't even have one sniff of the ball throughout the game City played well too, they were in my opinion not only the better offensive team but defensively too, since they conceded less chances for madrid Doku pure class, l don't know what it is but l just love watching that man dribbling inside the wing as well as de bruyne with his equalizer but even…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:56 PM
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That's not what you described in your post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:35 PM
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I was absolutely happy in my relationship until he stopped putting in effort and acted like he didn't care anymore. Because the relationship was literally built on him giving effort, which proves my point that a relationship founded transactional acts will die as soon as those acts are no longer reciprocated, which is why l never want a relationship that's transactional to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:49 PM
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Because you want your partner to keep putting in effort on your behalf. I don't want that, why must we put effort in the first place ? That means our relationship is not built on true desire but compromising, which to me is a quick recipe for disaster If she wants "effort" then she's free to try it with another guy who views relationships transactionally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:00 PM
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You don't want to put in any effort into a relationship? No because here's the hard reality you can't grasp I can put all the effort l want, it will never be enough You can never make a woman fully happy and men who try, always end up in the cleaners, there are many guys who put zero effort yet have a satisfying relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:55 PM
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Why exactly should l be in a relationship were l've to put effort ? That's not a relationship to me but a business transaction were it was just efforts keeping it alive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:59 PM
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It depends on your preference I rarely say that to my girlfriend because she already knows it but for some guys, they prefer saying it, every now and then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:15 PM
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This whole mental gymnastics is dumb Guys can definitely get out of the friend-zone anytime but most prefer not to because they think it's optimal to be her beta-orbiter than try to move on and start something new with a different woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:12 PM
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So why would anyone think there is even a small population of men who are immune to this or having some unique experience? Well because there is The top% of men who majority of women are aiming towards for casual sex or relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:46 AM
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The second option sounds like a regular woman: Solipsism EQ Egalitarian She's also attractive which is a bonus So l'm going with that one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:44 PM
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Well love bombing is just beta-game to be honest, your entire identity is centered around making her happy The number one mistake you can make, is giving a woman everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:25 AM
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thanks to the higher testosterone enabled by higher social status. I don't think you know how Testosterones works
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:50 AM
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Whatever makes you more ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:47 PM
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Bruh just go Yall are exactly like MGTOW "I'm leaving the dating market because women are xyz" Ok, just go and don't announce it since nobody cares
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:29 PM
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When are men going to be held accountable for their actions by the manosphere? Never, because it's the manosphere not the CBS news
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:26 PM
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Man's actually gave us an entire statistical report
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:40 PM
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If your gonna prescribe turning back the ship to 1924 like all this tradcons whenever they talk about fertility rates and masculinity Then l got bad news for you since we should of already had that conversation back in the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:31 PM
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Genital hair is understandable because she's going down on you but most women in my experience don't care about armpit/leg hair but if she requested, l would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:55 PM
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Can't give a nr because l don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:50 PM
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The habit of telling single men to constantly "improve" implies there really is not enough to be an average bloke these days That's the thing though I never spend my 20s trying to improve myself, instead just wanted to experience as much as l can which was take as many risks as possible and just seeing what worked for me Self-improvement is the biggest lie dating coaches have sold for the last 20+ yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:40 PM
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If you don't want to approach then don't Also rejection will always be on the table regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:29 PM
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If women desire commitment more than sex, why do they desire men who are taken more than those who are single? Women want both The good old AF/BB dynamic very well explains this She wants casual sex with the top% guy but also beta security but most women can only get the beta security If men do desire sex more, they would hit on married ones as equally as on single ones, right? Well men cheat more, showing they've a higher interest in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:27 AM
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Even movements and subs that are targeted to men like red pills seems to think they are unique or at least have a unique philosophy. TRP is not a movement/philosophy since it doesn't prescribe anything The reality is our culture and society already gifted men every way possible to get a woman while keeping certain behaviours active cause they help on the long term ( masculinity and not simping) Yet our society went with one way of getting women which is beta-game: "I gotta do everything in my po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:57 AM
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For your information sake, l would not know since l'm not gay however l would picture the same for gay men to what OP described no faking,bs and just straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:50 PM
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I mean the same would be true for men Gay are playing easy mode when it comes to dating because it's just dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:42 PM
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They say that to guys who they don't find attractive, a guy can be low effort all he wants but if she likes him, it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:34 AM
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I thought men were the romantic gender since most romantic gestures are known/done by men In fact most romantic culture was created by men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:16 PM
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If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated here, then what caused this to happen in the media? The perception It's not that every woman will, it's every woman CAN
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:49 PM
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In my opinion, a friendship between a man and woman works best if the guy already has abundance from other women and just sees her as a sister That's how l view my female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:00 PM
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Obviously upfront My current girlfriend knows l'm never gonna marry her and she's ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:04 PM
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As long as she has genuine desire for me If by LTR you mean marriage, l wouldn't have that with any woman regardless but if you mean just a normal LTR then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:22 PM
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I'm interested in casual sex, which is why l never have a problem with a woman who also engages in it but if she has other qualities outside of sex, then l don't mind pursuing a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:56 PM
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Ok mr "l know everything about PUA" If it wasn't about getting laid then what exactly was their mission ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:40 PM
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Exactly what propaganda ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:34 PM
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Bluepiller calling me a feminist is even more laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:30 PM
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You werent part of the movement it tells. TBP has a movement ? That's new
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:27 PM
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How did that not go in 💀? Virgil van dyk slipped and all they had to do is SHOOT instead of trying to chip it in
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:23 PM
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We had a clear set of values, e.g.: It’s not about getting laid; it’s about building a life. That's literally what PUA was about Getting your dick wet, this take is actually laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:19 PM
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Here comes the autistic people and their entire spreadsheet Ok, fuck it Hot Crazy in bed 28-33 Book/nerdy smart Loves to be a slut Fucks me 6x a week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:28 PM
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Depends on your preferences I wanted to date around in my teens/20s and was always honest about it but sometimes preferred just being exclusive with one woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:23 PM
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You've every right to call fresh dumb just like how l've every right to call out this clowns
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:13 PM
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ability to think independently diminishes tenfold. That's very comical given aba/preach fans don't even realize they'll do anything for views
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:56 PM
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Rewatching kuroko made me wonder how on God's blue earth did they beat Aomine ? There's no way Kagami stood one chance against that guy, who may l remind you can move in the air This is what l hate about anime, making a character so OP just for him to be short-handed by the plot Aomine could easily take on the entire generation of miracles+kagami and still come out on top
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:48 PM
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What does this have to do with FnF ? Get their Johnson out your mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:41 PM
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Get off their meat bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:27 PM
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She said sex isn't important So either: Religious Asexual Hit the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:26 PM
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No just showing how idiotic this clowns are for some views
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:21 PM
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<image> This idiots aba and preach were so thirsty for some views, they didn't even bother checking their spelling Absolute clowns 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:46 PM
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Sounds to me she's religious Which l mean wouldn't work out for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:04 PM
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I'm not looking for a comedian If she has a bad sense which many women l dated have, l just make fun of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:09 AM
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I love Dennis Rodman and definitely think he's a top5 all-time defender but when he says he can guard Lebron, that's nothing but cap Are we forgetting there use to be a player who was the same size,height as Lebron and Dennis couldn't guard him majority of the time, it is was Karl malone but here's the difference, malone was a ordinary big-man and Lebron ain't Lebron is a special hybrid, his a big-man+guard skills Dennis is not guarding that His also not guarding KD,steph,Jokic,luka,Giannis just…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:14 PM
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Yea, preselection does the magic which many guys don't realize
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:34 PM
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The moment Yamcha sacrificed himself just for bulma to dump him and get with a guy who wanted to destroy the planet I know this hoes ain't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:31 PM
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Curious to know all those guys that constantly go to the bar and are average looking, the more you go to the bar did it ever come to a point where girls have shown you interest? Yes, that's why l always went clubbing to source girls and let me tell you, it's always been better with my female friends because of the preselection l get This is just my experience, l don't know about you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:24 PM
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This is gonna be funny. I personally think that it is a myth to say that women are hypergamic as many of them now don't care much about a guy's status or if he has a lot of money. And l don't personally think gravity exists That's how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:27 PM
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But it’s not informations, it’s an ideology No it is just Information but since your uneducated which l expect given your flair, it makes perfect sense why you see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:23 PM
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I didn't refute that I refuted the idea it's TRP who lacks accountability which shows how uneducated OP and you are at what really is TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:02 PM
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What is there to read since your just mouthing the same nonsense as OP which l refuted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:56 PM
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How do I know that Red Pill blames women for their problems? Oh so your being ignorant since you refuse to educate yourself on this Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:53 PM
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And exactly how would you know ? Oh wait just like everyone, your making an uneducated assumption Which is not worth my entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:40 PM
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While i will admit that a portion sees it as an healthy source of motivation That's where your whole argument falls apart TRP is not a source of motivation but INFORMATION, saying we don't take accountability is implying we preach morality which is inaccurate TRP has nothing to be accountable for since again, we don't preach nor give prescriptions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:24 PM
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I think the underlying problem for men is not how to get a girlfriend since most guys already answered that when dating in their teens For most or at least guys here They want some skill that makes them good with women because if you look/analyze how men date, most don't have a skill on how to attract any random woman they like but instead are just in the right circumstances with that woman: They grew up in the same neighborhood Went to the same school Socialized in the same circle That's in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:58 PM
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The whole point of my post is how people insist that body trumps mind, which puts men as automatically more dangerous, less human. It's the lack of proper humanity that's behind men's issues. What makes humanity is realizing it's both mind+body that work co-dependently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:59 PM
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Wow bro, that was a lot of mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:12 AM
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You know what gets me, is the women who Andrew huberman was cheating on wanted exclusivity with him while ignoring the basic fact the guy is fuckin ANDREW HUBERMAN, like of course his allowed to explore his options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:29 AM
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People will straight up blame you on something even though they know nothing about you Which is exactly why l don't give advice/prescriptions because what worked for them was in a whole different context to what will work for you, rather just figure what works for you since you know yourself better than anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:24 AM
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But nobody is going to know that, definitely not immediately, typically not until we’ve gone on multiple dates and talked for a bit Well there's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:14 AM
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How would the whole dating/marriage scene change? It would still be the same since women don't care about a guy's IQ, that's why very logical guys often struggle in the dating scenes(this sub is a perfect example of that) Or They'll label everything you say as "mansplaining"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:15 PM
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Except that no one says go steal and commit crime. Therefore your comparison doesnt work. Ok but those who steal and commit crime know it's common knowledge not to, they just don't care like the guys here That's why l made the comparison Happy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:41 PM
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Who are you referring to ? Guys you said that tell women to lower their standards, who else would l be referring to ? Your parallel doesnt work I think that says more to your reading ability than my parallels Just face it, apparently it isnt common knowledge that personal sexual preferences arent a choice and cant be shamed as a resul Ok but it's not like l was denying that, just telling you that the guys who shame women for their preferences, probably know it's a choice but they still don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:55 PM
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Yea and ? I'm not gonna start telling this guys how to be more productive with their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:43 PM
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They know it's common knowledge They just don't care, just like how it's common knowledge not to steal and commit crime yet here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:42 PM
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Ok, thanks for spotting out what was already common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:27 PM
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I don’t cry, in general, but I’d save that shit for my boys. Same here Whenever something bad happens, l take that shit to my boys since they'll never turn a bad eye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:22 PM
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Never cried since there's nothing to actually cry about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:19 PM
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I wonder how many if you actually take the time to go to the gym 2-3+ times a week and do hard resistance training Already did that in my varsity days when l was a division athlete As for grooming, l always have a clean closet Do you have success with women? Of course Why do you think a lot of women do take care of their looks a lot more than men? Women always subconsciously or consciously, know their looks have value and there's the fact women set high standards for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:35 PM
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If by your premise, your only attractive by the things you can't control then l don't know how you can explain short guys who many are womanizing experts or fat guys who can still get a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:52 AM
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Anything you can control is not going to be a major factor when it comes to attracting women You can control how much money you make You can control building muscles to have a better physique You can control learning game Which all this things can make you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:18 AM
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For me, it's always genuine lust/desire for each other When you've that, it becomes a effortless relationship instead of a transactional one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:38 PM
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I don't fear dying alone instead, l've just made a educated decision to not pursue marriage given l'm redpill aware about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:55 PM
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So, basically Walter Weekes from the Fresh&Fit podcast got caught getting a woman pregnant and don't wanna take any responsibility for her and the future kid We don't know if she's pregnant or not Myron flat out did a debunk video exposing her, which leaves uncertainty of her claiming to be pregnant Also fresh is not avoiding responsibility This woman is trying to get something out of him with her probably faking this and he can't even say anything about the situation(if you actually know what's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:25 PM
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if Tristan Tate has a son and that son is 16 and he wants to party and sleep around, would Tristan allow that? Idk, shouldn't you be directing this question at Tristan himself ? Now on the topic Just read Rollo's second book on redpill parenting, since it underlines all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:46 AM
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Nice guys are unattractive because they've no backbone, you can be generally nice but still not others walk all over you That's how you go about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:38 AM
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The fact is, a woman's legal right to an abortion creates a situation in which the mother had the ability/right to determine whether or not she wants to be a parent but the father does not. Precisely this Abortion is the new eugenics movement, since she can 100% decide the entire breeding process without even the consent of her partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:47 PM
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I don't know who this bitch is but she knows what she's doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:50 PM
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But what does it mean to lead a relationship to you? I think that's a question directed to tradcons since my relationship is structured way different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:47 PM
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Men love a pretty face Ok, is that all ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:44 PM
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Ok, don't know how that explains hypergamy but sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:39 PM
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Who the fuck is Pete Davidson ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:52 PM
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So according to this theory, a woman will only get the ick if she doesn’t truly find the man in question attractive. As for attractive men, they can basically perform any activity that would be “ick-worthy” if performed by less attractive men and women would not get the ick…solely because the man is attractive. I mean is that a theory or just common knowledge ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:45 PM
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Yes that's why they want the bag even more now Since men who earn more are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:06 AM
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I think gold digging is basically obsolete now barring rare scenarios. Except it hasn't since every woman is gold-digging, whether they are aware of it or not Sugaring is just were the man is aware and agrees with the process
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:14 AM
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Your questioning tradcon claims not TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:53 AM
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"I'm closer to Lebron, than you are to me" The most factual statement l've ever heard Now yall know Brian Scalabrine but for those who don't, his a former nba player who was by definition below average during the 11/12 season Seriously, man's at the very bottom of the nba list but despite that, his statement holds validity After he retired, he spend his entire time just destroying your average Joe and Division players I remember him just man-handling a top Hs guy and pro college-player in his 40…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:16 PM
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Is phil Foden massively underrated ? In my eyes, he's had a far better production season than haaland to popular belief
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:51 PM
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Well if you don't know Musashi, don't call yourself a true stoic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:12 PM
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i think you mean they are mutually exclusive. not knowing musashi means youre not a true stoic Yup It's like claiming to be Christian but you don't know the most important man in the script, might as well be a fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:10 PM
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So is womens fear rational? It comes from a place rationality but how it is implemented is obviously not Such as, if all men disappeared or if all men did xyz Women will always take any opportunity to play the victim game with this type of situations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:06 PM
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Just saying, you can't claim to be "stoic" if you don't know Musashi Those are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:53 PM
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Like l said If you know anything basic about TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:32 PM
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I know 🤗🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:28 PM
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In the sense that TRP is explicitly anti-feminist That would imply it has some political agenda which if you know anything basic about TRP, it's A-political on all fronts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:18 PM
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Exactly in what sense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:07 PM
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I'm proud of myself of never watching sex education or the bachelor or friends Makes me a well oriented human being knowing to never watch brainless media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:04 PM
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Delete your account
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:01 PM
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"TRP is just a reaction to feminism" Is the most brain-dead take that never dies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:59 PM
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Thierry>>>your favorite PL player
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:53 PM
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Of course hypergamy is a real phenomenon There, you answered your question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:28 PM
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It's 1-0 now So 2-0 is my prediction, but as long as they are top of the table nothing matters
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:41 PM
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What a comeback by Brentford, coming from back a 2 goal deficit is one thing but 2 goals in 2 minutes is more impressive Aston villa still tied game with watkins but made too many mistakes at the back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:27 PM
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So which one is more hot ? Because that's who l'm going for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:27 AM
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Depends if you've been preselected or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:54 AM
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I know at the end of the day its nature and biology but I still have to remark how bizarrely strict this requirement is. It really makes no sense from like a human being point of view since human beings are supposed to exhibit logic and reason Bruh women don't care I'll never understand why guys always assume male-logic thinking on women, you do think they gonna pull an entire spreadsheet and give multiple reasons why they select the man they want ? Well lf you think that, l got bad news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:19 PM
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I still wanna see what it's like as a woman doing OFs Who knows, l might get lucky along the process
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:11 PM
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Are you some OFs expert ? because l'm getting the idea you are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:53 PM
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Because it's all about marketing That's why l would make good revenue, only now since l'm a woman, l've a product to sell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:03 PM
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I said l was making OFs Not becoming the top earner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:59 PM
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I'm making OFs straight up since l know how strong male thirst is, especially with my body since l work out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:22 PM
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At that point, personality actually does become the most important factor. Speak for yourself bro If l can't imagine myself smashing her, there's no further engagement so by far looks are the most important factor for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:23 AM
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Personality: yet the most important factor will not be fully known unless you go on 3+ dates with them and put your effort into talking for hours, having deep conversations, etc. That's not even the most important factor, so you are:
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:58 PM
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Women don't hit the wall at 30 or even at 40. Women have more options and more power in the dating game than their male counterparts in their 30s and 40s. Dear God, how many times are we gonna debunk this nonsense ? The wall was never about a woman having options, l don't know how many times this has to be said but people just keep beating the same dead-hourse on this It's only after 50 that average men start having a SLIGHT advantage over their female counterparts Yea l mean who cares ? Nobody …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:37 PM
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It seems like a silly belief. Because it is, it's the biggest misconception still going on RN but the truth is: It's not 20% of men are having sex with the majority of women, it's that 20% of men are deemed not UNATTRACTIVE by majority of women, which can mean many different things, like she might see a possibility with the guy So before anyone suggests that we see the 80/20 rule on dating apps, that's how it was made to be from the jump. Because when we consider other dating sites, that priotiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:55 AM
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My same thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:45 AM
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There's no conservatives vs liberals By the looks of the current geopolitical situation in Israel, it's gonna be conservatives vs conservatives on Christian/Jewish stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:34 AM
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But if a top guy propositions a woman for CS, do most women honestly think to themselves "you're lucky you're hot, or I would definitely want a relationship if you were average"? Your thinking of it the wrong way She obviously wants a relationship with the top guy but since she can't lock him down, casual sex is all she's offering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:26 PM
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with PUA/players or worse label him a creep/predator. I’ve had girls “call me out” for messaging their friends as well as if it was some crime or anything to be ashamed of. This is what really pisses me off, simply because they want to feel special like they are the only one in the world even though they would have rejected you anyway. Female competition bro Women know they've to be on their feet when you got other women available, so they try stopping that from happening
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:47 PM
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It all comes down to your preferences, my gf makes more than me as a programmer but l still prefer paying for the entire date, because l like taking care of the situation It's not that big of a deal in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:14 PM
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First, establish what a HVM is because everyone always gets the definition wrong Second(presuming we've defined what a HVM is) No l'm not but could be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:38 PM
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My question is: who / what maintains this higher standard for women? Who do you think ? It's obviously women, because they do it for "themselves" remember
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:32 PM
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it caused me to develop this no one is getting in my way attitude, and I will tell people like it is if they are asking for it. Wrong idea pal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:34 PM
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That’s very delusional that you only deal in facts That's what being RP-aware is about that somehow doesn’t make it an ideology. Because it ain't, not my fault you got the wrong idea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:40 PM
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Why do you say it’s not an ideology. Because it's not, an Ideology offers a set of prescriptions to live by, Redpill doesn't do that It's purpose is providing the education/knowledge and what you do with that is all up to you Don’t you and other men share ideals of how to “improve” oneself? There's no ideals, TRP operates on absolute facts Nothing more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:28 PM
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And you just want attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:16 PM
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So no arguments ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:14 PM
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First, it ain't a Ideology since we don't teach shit TRP is just information, what you do with that said Information is up to you Second, blackpillers are the one's doing all the complaining as far as l'm concerned so don't lump me with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:07 PM
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Am l low maintenance ? Doesn't require much to keep me happy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:44 PM
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Ok, so do you pay for this girlfriends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:42 PM
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You want me to prove since men have more testosterone, they are less likely to catch emotions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:21 PM
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Look l'm not denying men don't catch emotions because they certainly do What l'm saying, it's more so nature than socialization
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:04 PM
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Men having more testosterone does not scientifically correlate to them not catching emotions as easy Testosterones is the hormone that stimulates the libido the most, oh my god it's really embarrassing l've to explain common/simple biology I really can’t even believe you did much research on this after that response because that honestly sounds like you just pulled it out of your ass, respectfully. Show me your research that says otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:32 PM
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Why should I accept something that has not been proven to be factually true? Yet it has, to the point it's common knowledge men have 12-17x more Testosterones Therefore don't catch emotions as easy as women do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:25 PM
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Men tend to attribute their ability to have meaningless sex to them “being a man” and it being something natural to them, however I think it is more of a social phenomenon Or just male nature How about we just accept It's a natural feature instead of lying to ourselves about social constructs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:18 PM
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Have you ever had your heart broken and seen in hindsight that Redpill was right all along? Tell us the story All the bad emotional things l've experienced has been over my bluepill thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:13 PM
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Kinky and crazy in bed are two separate things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:00 AM
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Good sex ain't enough I need her to be a freak of nature in bed and virgins sure ain't giving you that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:52 PM
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Ok fair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:51 PM
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What exactly do tradcons/traditionalists find appealing about virgins ? She's not gonna be fun in bed and do the crazy stuff I can never commit to a woman who doesn't know how to fuck me good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:57 PM
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Fuck marriage Embrace hedonism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:51 PM
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I became redpill for other reasons I was already dating before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:47 PM
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<image> This is how we solve dating More hoes=everyone happy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:17 PM
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No that's not the point OP is blatantly being a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:04 PM
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so where can I find them? Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:03 PM
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Every man was built by a woman Needed something to cheer me up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:30 PM
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Of course they need women, because women teach, treat, sell them groceries and also sometimes invent and build things. Excuse me ? Men also teach and do all that shit, l don't think you know the difference between needs/wants This post is just in bad faith, how can you spent the entire time ranting about women not needing men yet instantly default to men needing women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:29 PM
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do, however, believe it's more than most men (like to) think. Likely a majority. Ok then why are you suggesting the typical tradcon "become better men for women" advice if you know simping is a natural behavior most guys always adhere to ? This is just pointing the finger
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:25 PM
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Not good enough men (to word it carefully) as assessed by women, should quit dating altogether. Lol the outcome would still be the same I don't think people here understand that most guys are indeed SIMPS(bluepill) so for you to suggest simping should taken taken out of dating is like suggesting capitalism should be banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:44 PM
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I'm diagnosed with ADHD, OCD, and I suspect some ASD God damn bro Man's fighting multiple disorders at once
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:10 PM
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You did say your a hedonist So it's not surprising why you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:01 PM
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I'm kinda trying to say that many women know exactly what they are doing and aren't dumb, I don't know who exactly claimed that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:45 PM
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What exactly are you trying to prove ? Also l wouldn't mind dating the 6 as long as l'm attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 02:10 PM
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It's not that nice guys aren't nice The problem is having no backbone to create attraction Nice guys fail because of this Asshole is just someone who has a backbone to tease her or tell her no without any problem, which actually does create attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:45 PM
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I don't want to make a big deal my girlfriend is taking me out this weekend But c'mon free food at your favorite place is always something to look forward to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:35 PM
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Is it women’s standards changing, the pandemic, a lack of connection and friendship between men, or something else entirely? None Since there is no "l'm never getting laid" epidemic in the first place Inceldom is the greatest hoax this sub continues to push
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:00 PM
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men who would still happily fuck them. My question is, if these women are so detestable and repulsive to you, why do you even have any desire to have sex with them at all? Not me I'm the biggest slut lover there is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:11 PM
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Redpill ain't advising anyone to settle since it's just information Tradcons sure, they are obsessed with virginity and optimistic that we can somehow still turn the ship around to the good old days of traditionalism, but that's why their advice is bad for both men/women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:29 PM
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He should be collecting them in his sleep Least his getting ROTY
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:06 PM
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How in the world is ruby gobert of all people getting the DPOY instead of wemby ? This is absurdism at it's peak
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:50 PM
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Gender transition at 12 yrs old but can't purchase alcohol until 21 Welcome to America
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:39 PM
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The worst combination to have is an attractive woman who gives good-girl vibes I need someone crazy, especially in bed If she's not crazy, then it just ruins everything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:08 PM
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I NEED moly 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:03 PM
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I just wanna smash the bricks off moly That's what she definitely want me to do since l know she hasn't been with such a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:49 PM
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It's simple Marriage rates are at their lowest because fewer people are getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:34 PM
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That's not what the wall is based on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:32 PM
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Bruh you best believe l'm not going on the other side of the world just to see some chick l've known recently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:27 PM
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When it comes to alpha males who don't want to settle down and keep getting all the women for sex, do they ever have a wall one day they will regret not being able to lock down a high SMV woman he could have had when he was younger that he could not get at an older age? The wall only applies to women Also do yourself a favor, and stop using this pronouns
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:37 PM
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<image> The last of it's kind fellas But FIFA-18 was also good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:53 PM
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The average age of marriage for both genders is now 30-32 Both men and women don't see it optimal seeking long-term monogamy when they are young
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:03 PM
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Direct game is not optimal for you. Direct game is not for most guys Simply because they always wanna play "l hope she likes me" which is outcome-dependent game
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:58 PM
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The debate is what is the best strategy to find/secure a relationship and/or sex. Figure out what works best for you Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:39 PM
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So is this like MGTOW but in a female version ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:04 PM
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Good thing l don't want a virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:08 PM
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Suits gentlemen If your over 25, there should be no excuse you don't have any in your closet Ideally 3 suits with 2 colors You guys keep complaining why women don't find you attractive while ignoring they this fundamental fact, a man with a suit is unmatched because his persona is off the roof
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:59 PM
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I only open my ears for blueface
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:11 PM
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The pelicans are rocking up the West Zion has been a monster and before anyone criticizes his weight, dude lost 22 lbs I think they are 4th in 3pt percentage They are also the best 3pt blockers If this continues, we might actually see zion in the playoffs for the first time which would be a dream come true since l wanna see his real potential
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:59 PM
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Good looks goes with smelling good You look good+smell great All the confidence is yours
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:34 PM
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Prostitution or not You just pulled that out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:13 PM
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Please don’t make me link recent threads, I know you saw them. Saw what ? I'm not a passport bro, so how would l know ? half of TRP men are sure happy to pay for the girlfriend experience while living in denial. Yea you just fabricated that stat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:08 PM
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I don't think passport bros care that the women only like them for their resources I mean that's pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:55 AM
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I should of been one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:28 PM
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As long as he knows the way home lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:25 PM
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It doesn't matter how you define "advice" Guys here just want someone to hold their hand through the entire process, it's so obvious yet nobody seems to ever figure it out They don't care if they misinterpret stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:54 PM
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But here's the thing We always tell people that nobody is gonna fix your problems but yourself Yet suddenly when it comes to getting women, everyone wants someone to hold their hands through the process instead of just figuring it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:40 PM
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Except it’s all true - there is a ton of misinterpreting going on here and if you ask anyone giving out the advice, most would agree with me. There wouldn't be any misinterpretations if every guy just understood they've Game or at least some idea of how to get girls, you just have to figure out how effective it is That's it I never take anyone's advice because they never know what my circumstances are like except me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:30 PM
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I love groupies yall There's nothing more exciting than flirting/talking to a group of beautiful women, many times l don't even think of getting laid since l know eventually l'm gonna pull one of them The only thing l hate, is the cockblocking friend, they always have to make the interaction more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:18 PM
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What a lot of mental gymnastics lol I don't even know why guys even take advice in the first place instead of just figuring out what works for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:14 PM
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She's just giving you the hypergamous screening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:57 PM
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Same old Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:19 AM
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Any “effortless” relationship is one where either both partners have no personality whatsoever, Couldn't be more wrong Effortless relationships are those based on strong mutual desire Me and my girlfriend have personalities yet our relationship is effortless All human relationships are transactional and require negotiation and compromise. If that's your opinion, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:17 AM
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I don't think I know for a fact they can't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:38 PM
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So a healthy relationship is one you don’t have to work at? In order to make it healthy, most relationships that fail is because they tried to make it effortless instead of realizing it comes naturally Where you align in every way and no one ever has to compromise bc you have the same perspective and opinions about everything? You can have different perspectives/opinions Me and my girlfriend have different views but we still make it effortless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:07 PM
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They only care if their partners are into it It doesn't matter what you like, if she's into you, she'll adopt the same interests as you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:45 PM
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What do you think a "healthy relationship" looks like? Effortless That's it Bluepill will never come to this reality check since it's all transactional for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:40 PM
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What do you think will happen? Nothing, because most guys as you said, create their own gynocentric society Truth is, men don't care about their own problems because they are too invested in women's problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:44 PM
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I mean l don't even believe in a HVW So the sex is fine(assuming she's hot)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:30 PM
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Know many guys who are not top% but do decently well, l myself being one of them This shit is not difficult if you travel and get a photographer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:35 PM
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Both result in similar outcomes. I would argue otherwise Flashing wealth attracts the people who want that wealth rather than wanting you. Your drawing a false conclusion Actually read what l was getting at from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:24 PM
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Always appreciate a man who brings the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:13 PM
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What I've noticed is that I know a lot more deeper and darker secrets about my female friends. I know nearly everything, from their favorite food, color, where they grew up, to who all their boyfriends were. I also know very fine details about all their boyfriends. Ok that's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:02 AM
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Seems to me also that men's emotional state is also dependent on the attention they get from women and dating sucess. No shit Most guys make their mental point of origin to appease the female perspective Which is why there's this "women are wonderful" phenomenon Guys who don't make women their mental point of origin are either rare or non-existent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:41 AM
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There's a difference between flashing your resources as a status symbol and buying a woman's time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:19 AM
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It's common knowledge that being selfish with your resources/status ain't gonna attract any woman You've to show it like women show their physical appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:09 AM
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Taught what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:06 AM
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Here's the thing which most people don't understand Money/resources is a amplifier, it just makes you more attractive than you were previously Same way makeup/filters makes a woman more attractive guy who has lots of nice assets is very rarely having lots of women drooling over him. Having lots of assets and resources doesn't automatically draw any woman but using it to flash a lifestyle does money only works if you spend it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:56 AM
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Aggressive in bed Don't know if that's masculine but it sure does wonders for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:45 PM
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Standards for women: Exist (optional)" No, here's my standard requirements/criteria Hot Crazy in bed Sexual desire for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:00 PM
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So what's your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:05 PM
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Your conflating attraction=arsousal You could be attractive based on your other qualities but not arousing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:36 PM
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