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If sex was traded on the stock exchange it would be a penny stock at this point.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/04/20 10:47 PM
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Tinder is a cluster of attention whores right now but I still found a booty call DTF during quarantine.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:30 PM
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Yes. I have consulted rich guys who had 0 dating game but we're killing it in business. They were usually socially boring or annoying or fat. Even gold diggers have a line they won't always cross. You have to remember no woman besides maybe your mother or siblings will ever love you for you as a person and it's not intentional just subconscious instinct from evolution. It's always about how you make them feel and what utility you can provide at the moment. I have a friend who looks like Conan an…
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:14 PM
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What a manipulative slut. Note she offered he could do whatever he wanted. Sounds like she gave Chad the main course and the fiance leftovers. Now she is in the doggie bag lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/20 12:13 AM
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You should look into Cognitive behavioral therapy. You can save some money and read classic philosophy from the ancient stoics because that is what CBT is reselling wrapped in psychology jargon. If you are legit feeling suicidal then seek professional assistance because you matter and are irreplaceable. It sounds like you have an unhealthy relationship with your family and is the likely source of your life programming. Good for you if you started addressing that. You say you are driven to achiev…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:53 PM
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The most bitter pill to swallow is realizing your faults and killing a malformed ego. It is a painful process destroying old paradigms and programming. I assure you it is worth the trouble and the feeling of being in complete control of your life is better than any orgasm. Go monk a while and get your priorities in order and discover tranquility within. You will know you are in a better place when girls start invading your space without effort and others jealous of your well being. Then the test…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:05 PM
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Yeah she's still young and the feels hit hard. It feels natural to follow a girl into her Lamentations of exes but that means he is in her head at that moment more than you. I just try to change the subject when they do it. Unless there is a reason for my own safety I don't need or want to know about them. If she is skiddish just throw it out there you want to hang out if she wants or not it's cool either way then leave it in her court to come to you. Go about your normal business and keep meeti…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:44 PM
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Sounds like you are good to go with the girl if you want to. If she reached out she is interested and since you waited for her to reach out she is not going to think you are thirsty like the butt kissing orbiters for now. Playing indifferent can burn your chances if you do it too much and she will write you off and spread the word in girl space you are creepy or abusive in a bad way. Calibration is more art than science because humans are chaotic and you have to read them. I don't know ages as t…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:18 AM
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This is about how I do it. DGAF or I just call it indifference. When I go out It's to have fun doing or seeing something. Girls are ancillary and just part of the scenery. It almost never fails. Someone is giving me the look and a little eye contact game then I keep doing what I was doing and some start invading my space and trying to get my attention before long. Teasing them like a bratty little sister instead of kissing their ass seems to have better results for me.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre28/02/20 11:30 PM
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They were introduced in the original series but they elaborated how the slave girls ran the society in Enterprise.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/02/20 12:14 AM
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The slave girls of Orion from Star Trek was about this. The women have a pheromone that controls males. The Orion pirates appear as a patriarchal society but are just mind controlled puppets of the women as a decoy. The males do the work and fighting and dying and captain the ship while the girls play helpless sexy slaves to lure in saviors for the pirates to rob. If one gets on your ship they take control of the males to kill the females that are immune to the pheromone then the suckers happily…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre21/02/20 11:36 PM
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In a nutshell Stoicism. Not the BS modern stereotype version but the ancient Greek and Roman stuff like Marcus Aurelius. Stoics studied nature to live happy lives understanding the true forces that drove things with clear eyes. DGAF, Oneitis/addiction, outcome independence, holding frame are all covered but in ancient words and contexts but still true today. It is the basis of modern therapy, self help, and TRP. You can do all that OP stuff without trouble unless you are making a spectacle of it…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 12:27 PM
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Hehe no problem. The 'bad boy' is also frequently from this archetype. Dark Triads are not always dangerous if they have a lot of awareness and self control or the tendencies of especially psychopathy are weak. They are usually aloof or eccentric in some way and makes them stand apart from the others some. They are also more likely to be successful in life and get what they want which is why women can often desire them. It's a bet that is high risk but potentially high reward. Women's nature to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/18 07:14 PM
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These are the Christian Grey types. Potentially dangerous types some women are strongly drawn to like moths to flame. From Wikipedia: The dark triad is a group of three personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy. All three traits have been associated with a callous-manipulative interpersonal style. Edit: To add many of the most charismatic and successful leaders in politics and business/sales are often people with these tendencies to some degree since it's an environment th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/18 06:52 PM
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The thirst is strong in weak men who can't get laid easily or are in an emotional deficit. Men have become so pussy whipped over the last 3 decades most are just unattractive to women except the ones who won the genetic lottery and/or have dark triad traits because that's all that is left to work with that makes their ovaries tingle. Like the desperate alpha widow who settles for the beta, the thirsty beta settles for the alpha widow and 99.9% of the time it ends in disaster.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/18 08:20 PM
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Successful and fit middle aged bachelor myself I too have seen this pattern play out now going into a third generation each more out of touch than the last. The older women I know who have their epiphany moment still want to play games but realize they can't anymore and can get caustically bitter or coldly pragmatic sometimes. The hoops some brag to me they made other men jump through to make sure he is not like the last 'jerk' they really wanted but can't tame is absurd. Most by then are too ja…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/18 08:06 PM
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Sounds like a cam whore that wants a pay to play production assistant/cuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/18 07:48 PM
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So they slipped in random 4chan and /pol shit posts and conflated it with TRP and Trump supporters, bravo. Sadly most of the sheep that still watch that garbage network will believe it. I would not be surprised if they interviewed an actor but probably some BP bitch that puked up the pill instead of swallowing it and working on himself. He clearly did not lift and showed default submissive body posture and tone of voice so he was never RP. If he was for real that poor bastard has a clear case of…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:26 AM
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Truth. A part of why the red pill is so bitter for some guys is the realization they are not good enough as-is or were playing to fail following the blue pill programming, usually both. It's a real kick in the balls, it can bring such anger. A good realistic attitude IMHO is the most important. With a good attitude you're frame is not easily assailed by petty things and easily protected against serious things that actually need your attention. With a good attitude you can network with any person…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:49 AM
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Early 40s professional man for ref. I would not recommend male RP subs or the majority of Reddit unless you have a stiff upper lip. A woman with little relationship experience at your age would indeed be a huge red flag as it's an aberration in modern society and few believe games like Cardiscappa's but may humor them for a time if it can lead to dipping their dicks. Most will assume you are lying or there's a really good reason you are single and would feel wise to distance themselves quickly b…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 04:10 AM
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Nothing anecdotal about it. There are endless studies that cover it. Monk's are typically mentally strong conditioned from years of rigid discipline and meditation, they are not the average person. How do you know they are all truly happy around the world, have you examined them all to survey their mental condition and happiness? Can you provide proof instead of anecdotal evidence?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 11:24 PM
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Being self-sufficient is one thing but isolation is proven to be detrimental to mental health. One of the worst episodes of depression I experienced was after I split with my fiancé and was essentially red pilled by a rich friend who took me out to chase girls in an exotic car and see how shallow they really are. All my disney, feminist, romcon paradigms were blown to pieces. After that I retreated to my cave working and studying only with limited social interaction in person, my job allowed me …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:02 PM
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Early 40s here. It's nature. Like many women men often want children and they are best raised in a two parent home seeing a healthy balanced partnership of masculinity and femininity. That is harder than ever today if not nearly impossible depending where you live IMHO. I almost got married at the end of college around 30 and I am glad I did not. As many of my longtime friends that have descent marriages others went through hell, some on round 3-4 for some insane reason. The reason is not so ins…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 02:57 AM
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This is normal. The more successful you get the more haters you will have. It will be stronger if they only knew you as a beta. Ignore the passive aggressive jabs its just crab bucket mentality. Think of it as a shit test. Do not let them get you emotional and push your buttons. The best revenge is going forward with your life happy and accomplished while the haters stew in their own misery. If they have no power over your paycheck, degree, or future in some way their opinions have less than 0 f…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:27 AM
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Wood and oil are not the only things we need and oil has many uses besides energy production. There is also a growing shortage of heavy metals China has angled themselves into being a monopoly on a few. Contention of resources is the largest driver of conflict. The Earth habitability and resources will not last forever no matter what we do.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:59 PM
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Because it bears many similarities to observations in society.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 06:56 PM
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They will do lots of innovating but with an extinction level birthrate they will not last forever. It's not that great of a place for large immigration as they have little usable land for housing near the jobs as consequence of geography. They are also a very racist and isolationist. Their homogenous society while orderly is stagnating itself to death and youth kill themselves at faster pace or leave for another country because it sucks now. Expats that move there fully intending to integrate to…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:33 PM
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There's this thing called replenishment levels to maintain a stable level and they have been below extinction levels for years. In 2-300 years at current pace there will be no Japanese born that's why their government is freaking out because they know this. All that will be left in Japan is robots when everyone dies of old age but will be taken over by someone else probably before that when they are too weak to be a country anymore.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 05:26 PM
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Well the difference with the utopia experiment is it was a very small closed environment with no migration to mix up the town and was in a large scale number for the small area they used to simulate crowding. We have in the past bounced back from hits before but nature is upping its game with new resistant STDs and HIV rates are going back up as well as other medical issues. While we don't do huge face to face wars often the world has major armed conflict somewhere 24/7. The weapons of today are…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:21 AM
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Japan is already screwed unless they increase immigration or invent a video game that makes alphas out of the players. Their birth rate is below the level where a population vanishes unable to recover. The average age of the populous is around 60 or something. More younger people are leaving as well. Australia used to be the hot spot now its becoming Brazil for Japanese ex-pats. I think we are seeing the human version of the mouse utopia experiment so yes the population will peak out and sociall…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 07:50 AM
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It has been shown the birthrate has hit everyone. Immigrants also in one generation sees their birthrate fall in line with the average once they become part of the socioeconomic fabric of wherever they settle. In the last 5 years teen pregnancy has dropped by almost half in the US as well. That is part of Gen Z and their more conservative slant supposedly. I guess we will see how it plays out.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 07:26 AM
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Many supposed alphas are labeled assholes because the nice guy's are jealous of their success. Most of these assholes are not. They simply establish and enforce boundaries and do not give women deferential treatment just for having a vag and showing up.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:59 AM
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Self esteem can be built in positive or negative ways and it happens a little different for everyone over years which means it takes time to change course but you have already started. There is no express train from A to B. It is a path you tread on your own to build self esteem and genuine confidence through experience and the right attitude by which you internalize experiences and engage the world. Some people internalize their memories from the lens of a victim for example so they in turn ete…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 11:04 PM
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Well the good news is you already understand part of the problem: outcome dependence and low self esteem. Both are very fixable. First step in solving a problem is defining it and recognizing it for what it is. Once you understand the problem you can build a plan to solve it and that is a little different for every person and situation. The bad news is there is no magic silver bullets or wands to wave and make it just go away easily. It takes hard work and dedication but you can do it if you bel…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:40 PM
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The times I have talked about them or bad experiences it was not telling it as a victim of circumstance but merely a life lesson I worked through indirectly demonstrating emotional resilience and stoicism. Bad things happen to good people all the time, you just have to deal with it and keep moving. Pain is temporary unless you choose to build your home there and allow it to define your life.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:15 AM
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You may be less receptive to women if you seem thirsty or it's widely known you are single. Women are very good at picking up on subtle clues in your speech tone and body language and you may be unintentionally signaling things to turn her away. Also, like almost every woman has a BF, true or not, you better be seeing prospective people too or at least don't advertise you're single. If you can't do the fake it till you make it thing that's ok but expect a little more time invested for results. O…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:40 AM
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This is why Beauty and the Beast and the Phantom of the Opera are popular with the ladies. The man is a monster/killer that she seduces into being kind to only her. Taming/fixing the beast is the wettest of dreams for some of them.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 05:20 AM
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The simple answer is no, not right now in modern society. The complex answer that's partly in your post; sometimes if they seize it. If the Alpha hordes all the HV women and treasure to himself and neglects the Beta men and women he will not have followers and a sustainable population and infrastructure to maintain the kingdom for long. The beta men and women resenting the Alpha will undermine him allowing the kingdom to fall apart to make him look weak/vulnerable, abandon the kingdom if able, o…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 04:34 AM
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I was not meaning to imply you are a Feminist, they seem to be rare here or are very quiet about it lol. I try not to butt in here too much but the Lawyers story struck a familiar chord to my experiences as a misguided youth and followed a similar path out of confusion. Studying Human nature has been a hobby of mine for decades and as an objective scientist I look all across the spectrums of discussions even the ones I find uncomfortable for the sake of better understanding the situation. In thi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 02:00 AM
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I think it is an issue of semantics and perspective when it comes to the Nice Guy vs. Jerks thing. Being middle aged I remember when they started Beta testing the Beta training boys in school get and it was often in the form of guilt. For instance when I was growing up in Texas around 12 (late 1980s) the boys went to a assembly where we watched a movie made by the NEA and NOW. It basically said in the nicest way possible because of the flaws of masculinity we were rapists and wife beaters waitin…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 01:16 PM
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This is why TRP is a bitter pill. The challenging and destruction of core paradigms is rarely a painless or smoothly linear process. Some who come here come to realize they were programmed with lies about how the world really works. They have to then take ownership of their mistakes and/or flaws and leave their comfort zone to follow a new path to hopefully grow into a person of value and wisdom. Not an easy task especially as you go down the age generation scale as society decays into behaviora…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 04:07 AM
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Sounds like you live in a neo-lib concentration camp err I mean progressive city so your observations may be a bit skewed by that. You have to consider how much money these 'ugly' guys potentially make. As a middle aged man I have seen it play out time and time again where girls under society/family pressure marries the boring safe guy hoping she will be happy then regrets her decision. She gets the easier way out than a man does in the same situation most of the time and is encouraged to do so …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 05:23 AM
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Yeah it's a nasty catch 22. They always want to see our emotions until they do. And they wonder why HV men are stoic and stone faced. Back in college I was dating this girl and we got engaged with the agreement we would get married if we still wanted to after graduating and getting our first jobs. The last year was hard and some serious family stuff and deaths and I broke down and she came home and saw me a mess. She comforted me and listened to my woes but later told me to never let her see me …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:13 PM
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Ah the seeds of oneitis. As you spend intimate time with someone your Oxytocin levels get boosted and you bond with a person almost like being addicted to the high it gives. Very similar to the Dopamine addiction of video games and their achievement systems and what drives porn addiction. Those things are technically short circuits of your brains reward center but 'falling' for people is a very real thing. Very promiscuous people can become desensitized to it after a while.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:27 AM
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He who males a beast of himself sheds the pain of being a man, or in this case a coward. Reads like a passive aggressive swipe to me. He is not inflicting injury on J so much as J's cheating partner is. If you want to throw blame around then it also belongs to J for becoming lazy and taking his relationship for granted. Now don't get me wrong OP is not exactly nice but neither is the world. He technically used a beta strategy playing the friendzone game hoping to get a turn in that vag and got t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 02:05 PM
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It is far more cowardly to hide from the truth behind moral indignation. Understand much of what you will read in the comments are people venting as their flawed paradigm dies. Women are not magical creatures and endless wellsprings of sugar, spice, and everything nice. They are just female humans with hopes, dreams, fears, desires, and character flaws like everybody else, nothing special. A lot of guys that come here are programmed with flawed notions and no tools to self actualize and a few en…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 12:24 PM
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Much of this subreddit is about understanding nature. The person I was replying to is intent on blaming OP for the girls infidelity as if she has no agency over her actions. Nature has no ethics either, that is another invention of civilization. Now of course that does not mean I'm advocating people act like animals nor have I ever said all women are cheating whores so put the projector away. It is important to understand human nature for what it is and be prepared to deal with it instead of the…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:28 AM
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TRP forbids moral policing and is the signature of a BP/WK mentality. Nature is never moral, fair, or nice and is quite exploitative. It's not his job to keep whores honest.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:51 AM
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One of the first martial arts I studied was Kempo. Basically it's Karate but focused on your opponent being armed with clubs, knives, and guns while you are unarmed. Lots of disarms, stuns, and joint strikes meant for defense and escaping via quick disables or groin strikes. When I took it back in the 1980s it was sometimes called street karate or Ball-Fu because Karate Kid was a big movie then. I think Boxing and BJJ or wrestling could be a good combo. Asian martial arts are good in chess-match…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:16 AM
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They are getting more scared and trying to figure out how to reclaim control. They will start more of these token acknowledgements of RP until they see men coming back to the plantation then it will be back to business as usual. Here in the states I have seen two news articles this month lamenting the low birth rates in spite of immigration and one about the wedding industry collapsing. They even cited the herbivore man of Japan being a preview for the US males but kept the blame squarely on the…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:42 AM
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This is natural and will pass if you do not let yourself get stuck in a new mental rut that will keep you from your paths in life. Changing ones core paradigm is not a comfortable process. Familiarize yourself with the stages of grief and focus on setting up your future for your sake while you work through things. A man generally starts to come into his own around 25 having some life experience as an adult and a better idea of how things really work vs idealized fantasies and what you really wan…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:01 AM
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It's a very old saying and is relevant. Maybe you would prefer instead: It is better to live on your feet than die on your knees?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:46 AM
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Yup the wall is a sobering experience few women are prepared for. They just simply turn invisible to actionable men. I have some friends I have known since HS, in their late 30s now, and they are married but still lament they no longer get hit on and their husbands turned into boring dad bods. They just get this sad distant look when I remind them they better make what they got work. If they go back out in the field now if they are lucky and still fit at best they will be a trophy fuck toy and a…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 10:08 AM
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I find it doubtful TRP has made any quantifiable impact to gym culture. What has been described I have seen in gyms forever(I'm over 40 for ref). TRP has been getting larger fresh waves of visitors because of various publicity and the growing backlash against things that program BP men whom are starting to get tired of it. It's expected there will be crap posts and comments from new people with these waves. The mods work hard to keep the worst stuff cleared but sometimes those posts can offer a …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 10:00 AM
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This is why the red pill is often bitter sweet. You are free from one peril but thrust into an unknown one. The bitterest pill is realizing your truth was a lie or you were not good enough or both. It is an assault on a persons core paradigm which never takes change pleasantly because its a core part of your identity/ego. Read the sidebar and find a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and brace yourself for a few more bitter pills and familiarize yourself with the stages of grief. Do not let your…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 11:03 AM
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Growing your body takes a lot of calories and proteins as raw building materials but once you grow to full size hold off your fork some when it settles. My metabolism crashed just after 30 but ticked back up a little at 40. It's somewhat harder to eat clean now days unless you know how to cook from scratch a little and shop wisely. Once you build a good routine it becomes automatic and easier to stay on track. Indeed, us older men that are still in shape are rare birds and stand out. I get the '…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:47 AM
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41M here. One reason is as western society gets cultured to be fatter we stand out from our peers if we are still in descent shape. It makes a silent impression that we care about our well being which is an indication of healthy self esteem. Life experience if approached with the right attitude builds genuine confidence cultivated from experience; 'book smart' and 'street smart'. We know our limitations because we have spent years finding and expanding them usually. We know what we want or do no…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 08:16 AM
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If you have a Ross in your area they are a discount store that sells retailers left overs for fractions of the cost. Found some nice business slacks that were tagged 100 for 20, lots of shirts and other things. The selection rotates all the time but its a place to find good deals. Also Macy's is trying to boost sales and does buy one half off second pair of Levis jeans sales on weekends off and on. Near the end of business quarters many retailers do crazy sales to drive up revenue or to blow out…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 05:38 AM
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Threw out the TV over a decade ago and could never be happier and more free time/money to do better things.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:33 AM
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A part of the pain of the red pill is it's a challenge to your core paradigm of reality. You are taking in information that is likely in some or many ways directly conflicting to your programming and the identity you built around that paradigm. Core beliefs do not die or change easily and is usually a stressful experience. The anger comes when as OP points out the answer was in your face the whole time and you have to admit you were on the wrong path or were just not good enough. A bitter pill i…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 07:03 PM
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It's one theatre as a promotional gimmick and makes PR and people took the bait. While it does indeed set another questionable precedent think of it as yet another shit test from society. So many liberals have moved to silicon valley 2.0 they have changed the voting demographics in Texas. I saw some FB posts about this. The Theatre also said they would allow anyone in who identified as a woman. So some local college guys are gonna go gag drag and try to pickup some chicks while they are there lo…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 10:12 PM
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She kind of gets it but is a little off as you pointed out. The state of civilization is in a very chaotic time so the old conventional wisdom is not as valid. Marriage was indeed a construct that is compatible enough with our nature and is essential for civilization to thrive or endless wars for mates would have stifled our growth long ago. When the top man can literally keep to himself as many of the women as he wants in a civilization the men and women that get left out eventually become a bi…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 09:41 PM
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OP I would not suggest steroids but the choice of taking the risk is yours. Lifting is a major theme in TRP but it is not a silver bullet. Lifting is not just body building but character building by cultivating the self discipline it takes to succeed. Many people who come to TRP are out of shape and feel like shit and it bleeds into their mental state. Yes you will pull a few superficial hot but low character value women with the muscles but after the novelty wears off she's onto the next shiny …
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:24 PM
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Nope. They know they are plates and know exactly what they are doing at least in my situation. Telling the BFs is inviting trouble into your life and few will be grateful for your conscience and blame you not the GF. The GFs being cornered may even vilify you as the aggressor that 'made' them cheat. Don't be dumb and appreciate what you know/have. If you can't handle being the side dick get out of the relationship before it blows up if you are that worried.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:48 PM
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There are general traits that nature wires humans to seek but there is always variance. I see some grumbling in the comments but it should be understood much of TRP I have seen is more middle of the curve concepts. The human condition does not allow for many absolutes. I know Rich guys that are not all bad looking and can't get laid without paying an escort. I know an ex Olympian good looking fit as fuck with 2 medals, rich trainer, can't get laid often or gets emotionally mowed down by women wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:11 AM
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Ah yes the born again angels and virgins. All of a sudden they are tired of games and their 'fuckboys' and want to adult now because their biological clock is ticking and have noticed they are starting to become invisible to guys who are going after other girls instead. We get a new batch of these every year like they are graduating CC Uni ready to start their careers. Most of these types will suck because they are jaded and very picky/demanding in spite of their bargaining positions. I found mo…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:33 AM
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Might work as long as she can't prove you encouraged her or she might be able to spin it into you forcing her to do it. Then your kid might get a trip to the foster care system if the court thinks you are both unfit. Women in western countries can deny agency when they need to be a victim. Once she realizes you set her up to take the kid you have just declared war with her primal biological imperative and depending on her psychology may do anything to win or get revenge. Good luck man.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:40 PM
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Libertarian I guess is the closest. I was raised very conservative and was more anarchist in my youth because I hated the stuffy old fucks. Some things I am conservative on others more liberal but more conservative as I got past 30s. People peg me as Libertarian frequently but I do not agree with them either wanting to dismantle ALL of government. Like one candidate wanted to shut down ANSI, as an Engineer without standards most of the shit made could not exist like the internet. It's a tough ga…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 12:11 PM
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Its never easy and oneitis will forever be a specter on the horizon. You have to understand TRP is poor in hard science and mostly social science. TRP is not the end all be all, just a part of the puzzle. You need to understand the biology of human attraction and bonding. You need to be aware that in under 30 seconds of encountering a woman you really want to get with, because she is breedable by the criteria natures wired you with, a hormone cocktail just got fired into your head that suppresse…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:30 AM
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Here in the states escorts and strippers are often considered sub-human trash/objects. Prostitution outside of one county near Las Vegas is illegal and they have been slowly killing it off to complete the ban. In 4 decades I have met few women who were accepting of sex workers unless they are considered deviants themselves or have done such work before. Hollywood celebrates gold digging whoredom but even that is in a poor light.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:18 AM
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Relevant info but...... Why no archive version of the daily mail link? You are just making advertising revenue for blue pill factories while plugging your own click mill selling crap supplements to become 'manly'.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:02 AM
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Meaning he gets the usual duty sex plus whatever fetish he likes in the bedroom that she only gives up for cash and prizes. I wouldn't be surprised if that's just a blow job.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 03:57 AM
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Decades of science would disagree. Looks help but in the end its feels/her perception. One of my friends is a former Olympian, rich as fuck from sponsors and still ripped like Arnold in his Conan days, 6'4", trainer. Cant get laid for shit because the second he opens his mouth and spews the 80s rom-con programming you can hear the sandy wind blow through their Sahara-like panties as they skitter off. Looks help get interest but they don't always carry over the finish line. Lifting does little if…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:58 AM
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It's the power of the hamster, seen it play out many times over the last 25 years of dating. If she is hung up on him she will even defend him when her friends say he is out of shape. Of course the nano second she loses attraction that hamster 180s him into a fat lazy slob who never did anything good for her.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:52 AM
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There are no absolutes when it comes to humans but you have to understand what governs physical attraction and arousal are biologically different for men and women. Nature programs us to look for an archetype and that gets colored by culture and the state of the civilization we reside but there are trends. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and has changed definitions many times and varies by culture. Men are primarily visual in their attraction because nature subconsciously makes us filter by…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:28 AM
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One thing westerners get hung up with is the cultural harsh abhorrence for individuality. You never paint outside the lines or process or they lose their shit sometimes. School kids there have a saying "The nail that sticks out gets hammered down." The lowest social unit in their culture is the group not the individual. An individuals value is partly based on the groups they are associated with and their respective ranking in those groups. A group members actions can elevate or shame the entire …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:15 AM
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Hate the game not the player, it cuts both ways. The real game is nature. Nature is not nice or fair so don't take it personally. Be aware and navigate its perils wisely. It has always been survival of the fittest and gives 0 fucks about moral outrage. That's partly where the anger phase comes from when someone realizes they don't measure up and/or were doing it wrong. Hating women is a waste of energy and time. They are often oblivious of the forces at play in their heads at least in the same w…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:10 AM
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I especially hate such people operating under the delusion that they are righteous people with good intentions. Hence why girls don't like Nice Guys and White Knights.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 02:08 AM
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Indeed. It was for the sake of practicality not hateful systematic patriarchal oppression as modern academia likes to preach. An RP phrase you may have seen explains it well: Women are like the most responsible teenager in the house. Treat them as such without rubbing their noses in it. It seems mean but remember to a woman you are just another accessory like her shoes. Men are success/status objects because that's what they bring to the table. Women get made sex objects because they own the bab…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 01:35 PM
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LOL. Some of my stripper friends are like that. They are rarely single and some date lots of musicians, male strippers/models, tattoo artists, and especially DJs. The girls around here really like DJs because they get a VIP pass to clubs, usually free drinks and will gladly fetch his drinks for him while he's on set, and likes getting to sit in the booth or play his little assistant. The stage/booth is the throne of the room in a venue. He's the king and she feels like she is the queen of the co…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 12:10 PM
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Yup. I learned something similar in my marketing/sales days. 'If you know only one thing about X. What's is the one thing that differentiates X from the rest?' or 'Can X be explained/sold/pitched in one statement?' Often the things that easily satisfied those questions were easier to sell in my experience. People don't want the long story up front, if they care they will seek it out. To men it's a waste of time and women do not care until they feel like it. I guess for you Hollywood guys If its …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:24 AM
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I totally know what you mean. I had to learn most of it the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 01:03 PM
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Good post overall. Confidence is this weird ethereal mojo some chase blindly and everyone has their own definition for it. There is indeed a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Confidence IMHO is not believing you can do literally everything, but instead knowing your limits of what you can and can't do or accept. People who overestimate their limits are arrogant and those who underestimate their limits are seen as weak or not confident. A person who does not know their limits finds troub…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:51 PM
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It is a little of both. You have to believe in yourself and get pumped up sometimes to get moving. Telling yourself yes you can for instance is useless if used as just a platitude but can be a useful reinforcement technique. Where the mind goes the body follows and a healthy mind can not last long in an unhealthy body. Many people who claim to face depression or anxiety are not clinically ill but letting their minds run wild. Depression, doubts, fears, these can be overcome through mental discip…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:22 PM
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I like that quote, I can relate to it. I still have a raging sex drive being a healthy man but these days I often catch my mind asking is the orgasm worth it. Once you see past the masks people wear and dispel the ones you were raised to project onto others fewer are attractive or even likable. I do feel a certain sense of freedom and escaping a bondage of sorts. The desire is always there because nature wired us to do so, it's just easier to ignore now I think. That and women have gone to shit …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:49 AM
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I am 41 myself and I can tell you there is nothing like the bliss of finally getting your mind to yourself in your 30s. You can focus on getting shit done without getting easily distracted by every cute ass that walks by if you have at least a squirt of piss of willpower. If I had a nickel for every guy I have heard lament something like 'having a dick is a curse' over the years ohh what I could not buy. Yeah you do not have to play the same games as a younger guy to peacock because you finally …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 06:35 AM
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I am 41 and can tell you regret is a waste of time. Yes time and opportunity lost sucks but as a man you have the ability to cultivate new opportunity most of your life usually. If you focus your eye on the past while trying to move forward you are likely going to run into something face first or off a cliff sooner than later; eyes forward soldier. My generation starting getting that beta programming that has been perfected now IMHO to make the most toxic and/or dysfunctional young men these day…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 09:48 PM
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She did not look fit herself but the thirst is in many.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:27 AM
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His status got the FBI investigating his ass since they are international jet setters. He is about to get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:26 AM
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Actually he was labeled sexist and misogynist by the first debate. After the Access Hollywood tape he was labeled a sexual predator and rapist. Notice after the rape lawsuit (not a criminal charge) by a 'Jane Doe', which was withdrawn when the cops wanted to know names, changed the narrative and he was now a rapist and pedophile too; guilty as if charged and prosecuted in court already lol. The modern pop culture neo-liberal mindset combined with the hamster is the perfect storm of madness. I kn…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:46 AM
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TS does not outright moderate cortisol as far as I know. It's after the dopamine spike that triggers TS production cortisol is consumed in the metabolic activity. But high TS likely keeps the waterworks at bay. <shrug>
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:06 PM
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I have been asked about that before when I have given the lengthy hormone explanation. I am working on a write up for it just struggling with some of the formatting commands in reddit. When I get it sorted and written up a little more concisely definitely will be dropping it on TRP, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 01:46 AM
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This guy is hosed. He should next her or demote her to plate. He has no spine so he's probably gonna ride it into the dirt or become a co-dependent cuck. I have known many sex workers over the years and dated a couple dancers...there are rules. She is a rookie making a rookie mistake. It is one things to make friends with other dancers and staff to network but 99% of customers want one thing and are spending money to buy what they can't get otherwise. If friendship is not ultimately for business…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 12:51 PM
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Read SGM but not that first one, thanks. One key to understand with attraction and comfort is the understanding of biological stress. Men and women deal with stress differently mentally and chemically. Men need to generate free Testosterone to lower the stress hormone Cortisol in their bodies. That is largely done by doing things including lifting, solving problems, learning/seeing new things, fulfilling your biological imperatives, etc. We can stop Cortisol production if we can relax and forget…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 01:10 AM
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I'm 40 and the baby face has finally paid off as I get hit on by girls half my age now I am set in work and in descent shape. I consider myself average but in way better shape than my peers or these doughy or scrawny effeminate boys we have now. In HS/college I used to hate the older guys that came to the clubs and cleaned up. Working with bands in college helped but the rich kids and old guys could still get more action as I was still disney blinded but now I get it. I have money and many excit…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 01:37 PM
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It is risky business indeed not for the faint of heart. The bigger the city the more likely there is vice police to curtail it. Small towns don't have the money for undercover vice unless its a blatantly obvious issue there. The pros usually have some disclaimer on their advert that by contacting them you are contractually agreeing you are not police or investigating anything or entrapment etc... but you will see flakes and scams on the streets and red light districts. If you are in the states j…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:26 PM
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OMG There is no escape from Pokemon even here heh. I know tons of hot girls that play this and roam about town. It is actually quite genius for getting people mobile and socializing in person. Unless they listen to the petition us uncool Windows phone users are screwed. At least were not one of the hundreds of thousands of PGO players that mistakenly installed a root kit malware version instead of the real one and are getting data raped right now =)
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 10:14 PM
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To all you moral-orals remember TRP forbids moral policing. Sexual strategy and nature is not moral, equal, or 'fair', it is a balance of forces. Sometimes you are the hunter and sometimes you are the hunted, stop taking it so personal and focus on trying to be the hunter more often than prey and don't sweat the BS. Yes cheating hurts and it is shitty to do if you made a commitment but everyone reaps what they sow. Religion has nothing to do with that universal truth it merely borrows it so don'…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:25 PM
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Dune has many good quotes. The quote about fear is fiction that is true to life and the most famous one. I like this one as well. The Duke is speaking to his son Paul on the eve of them leaving their ocean-rich home world to planet Dune, a desert world that never gets a single drop of rain. I think this applies well to TRP. Some who come here are in stuck in a stagnant pattern programmed to fail in life. TRP tells us to take on that struggle to change and grow and get out of your comfort zone to…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:58 PM
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Whoever this poor bastard is need to read this and anyone in a similar situation really. Forget about the video's, possessing them is a legal liability and an even bigger one to attempt to use it as leverage. Unless you live in some country with crazy laws you will be the villain the court punishes. The courts do not care she lied about being a slut or denied you sex. In America it has been legally established for years a spouse is not legally required to provide conjugal privilege and forcing t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:18 AM
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Good Post. Another thing I found and observed in others is when you decide to change and take on too much too fast you can discourage yourself with over-set expectations you can't fulfill. What worked for me back when I was getting back into shape is I changed one or two things and let it set into habit a couple weeks then tweak something else, rinse and repeat. It becomes cumulative after a while and when you see results begins to stack up you start to believe and it just motivates you to keep …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:23 PM
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Good FR. The anger is natural and will pass if you adopt the right attitude. You will never have much luck with women if you deal with them from a place of anger; choose indifference over hate if you must. Women are people too, they can potentially be an ally or an enemy like anyone else. It gets easier as you learn the nature of men and women instead of the politically correct fantasy much of the western world is drown in. At your age you must be aware your biological imperative to reproduce is…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:56 AM
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So I like to be verbose, get over it. I assume you were hoping for some humble brag...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:23 AM
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Yeah when I was down that way a few mentioned liking my 'accent' heh.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:12 AM
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I used to live in the Carolinas' and my sister lives near Atlanta now and I love that region. The cost of living is way cheaper than it is here in the west and some really nice scenery. My co worker sold his house in Oregon and moved over there and could buy at least two nice houses cash for what he sold his house here for. The summers are hot and muggy but that just means less clothes =P It's good to hear the 'ol southern gentleman' can still get game. They are charming but take no BS from anyo…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:41 AM
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When I started getting back in shape I lost the first 20 pounds just stopping the processed sugar before I started my exercise regimen. Taking some weight off before starting lifting heavy helped minimize the strain on the body getting back into action since I'm older and having partially wrecked knees. I also realigned my diet lowering carbs and more clean calories I can live with permanently, not some weird fast weight loss diet that is unsustainable. On the weekends I will have a couple beers…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:53 AM
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Women are natural communicators, nature wired them for this. They rely on their social skills and manipulation to survive instead of brute force. Talking things out is also how they deal with stress where a man likes to forget about something until he can do something about it usually. Men and women deal with stress differently and both make the false assumption the other perceives and experiences life the same way as they do leading to much friction. For a man actions speak louder than words to…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:22 AM
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40 here. It is about the same for me. I have seen the song and dance so many times I know what is going to come out some peoples mouths before they do and DGAF much. Last year my plates were 20 and 28 and they chased me because I was a rare man that treated their attempts at sex appeal with indifference. The young girls are pretty and frisky but annoying as shit except in small doses sometimes. They are easy to impress with resources and stories and make them 'feel alive' then the tingles cum ;p…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:02 AM
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I took a 'nothing to lose' attitude on some things years ago and it made a world of difference. You have nothing to lose except experience if you do not try and things to potentially gain. I remember what it was like being ruled by fear, still is a nag in some ways but it gets easier to overcome with practice. When people speak of fear I cant help but quote a sci-fi mantra I actually used in my meditations because it is good wisdom: “I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-d…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:45 AM
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Agreed. Part of self improvement is getting over approach/rejection anxiety and working on you social skills in general. I have seen people make the mistake they need to wait on approaching girls until they are already in shape or better this or that. Only one way to improve. Social skills are like muscles; work them to grow them, use them or lose them. It also helps teach outcome independence. You have nothing to lose except experience. I think this varies heavily by location/culture but where …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 11:26 AM
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Yeah. The biggest victim in all of this is the kid.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 06:15 AM
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It's not the fembots you have to worry about. It's big pharma who had RISIG's primary ingredient banned in most western countries when India wanted to do trials internationally. Pharma does not want to lose their billion dollar a month cash cow of poison pills they sell to women and government health agencies.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 06:13 AM
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You give the fembots too much credit. They would never be able to pull it off over the backlash that is starting to form on the anti feminist front. Besides RISIG/Vasagel would be here already but the Pharma lobbyists got the primary ingredient in RISIG banned in most western countries. Vasagel uses a non banned ingredient but the pharmas all refused to bring it to the western world for trials which is why it's having to be privately funded. The reason is money. Vasagel only needs to be reapplie…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 06:07 AM
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I would build a real modern castle but the government won't let me. I get what your saying, 'killing' ones ego as a literal is a bit of a misnomer as without one you are not a whole person. Perhaps controlling/disciplining ones ego might be better descriptions I wonder. What you describe is a malformed ego, one that is not congruent with reality. I think that's why the OP talked about not being special snowflakes to speak to that in a way.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 05:23 AM
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It is true women do not always have an orgasm during sex I do not know the stats but it is not uncommon, it happens sometimes but there is a problem if it's frequent. There is certainly a mental aspect that can prevent it related to high levels of the stress hormone Cortisol. There are biological benefits of orgasms. Humans when they climax get a shot of a hormone called Oxytocin, the love or cuddle hormone as some call it. It is a component in bonding not just with your lovers but your offsprin…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 01:59 PM
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Good post man. These are crucial points I have learned as I grew up sometimes the hard way. To add to that... R1 - Agreed. Being attractive is more than looks, it's a state of mind and attitude that lets one freely communicate charisma and sexiness. I'm sure you have all met people who were not the most attractive or downright plain and still fared well above their league for some reason or even found yourself attracted to them unexpectedly. That stuff about being self amused, IDGAF, abundance a…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 12:37 PM
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Yeah T9 seemed like it was feel-good legislation to mollify the vocal critics but lazy on the part of the government to leave the burden mostly on the school. I think it would be better to help provide more police budget assistance to places that have big colleges especially when they are so big they need their own police force to ease the burden of the local police. Education is an investment not just for the individual but the community as a whole. Yeah there is more upkeep in a college town b…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:35 AM
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And I don't have the answer. Which code of conduct violations do you consider to be the line? You have said this multiple times as well as the microwave analogy. I have a pretty good grasp on where the line is as it is quite logical. If an infraction is only a violation of a school regulation it is an internal matter. If the infraction is in some way classified as a crime under the law it is a police matter. Suspend them until the courts sort it out and if they are guilty then you have legal gro…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:45 AM
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If she is cool and adds value to your life as a true friend vs extracting value like a leech why not. In the battle of the sexes having a few allies on the other side is handy. Some of my friends are strippers, they invite me out clubbing occasionally. I play douche repellent and often the driver but they pay my way all night and when they start getting wild on each other or 2-3 start dirty dancing with me for attention it made others girls curious what made me so damn lucky and some joined the …
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:09 PM
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Grats on taking your first steps in a new world that is not as bad as you might think but it is not without its perils, that is just life in general. I remember as a kid 30 years ago in one ear the fembot shaming I was a monster for being a man waiting for a victim and in the other at church my urges were natural but would lead me to serve the devil if I entertained them and anger god and all that hell fire brimstone and the guilt trip BS. Your story is not all that unique I have found. My unfai…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 12:08 PM
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I've come to the conclusion my existence is one I need to find happiness in being alone, there is no other way. The only way to find any actual happiness and contentedness in this world is to be able to find that in yourself, not relying on >any woman, person, drug, or anything else for any sort of validation or happiness and trying to be content being alone. I read your rant and I had the same feelings once too. Once I saw the truth burning Rome to the ground was a natural reaction as is yours.…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 02:54 AM
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I know what you mean but do not fixate on it yourself either. Everyone is in a different place in their life and path. TRP is a tool box to apply as you see fit for your objectives. I do not need validation from anyone in person let alone an internet board. I also do not subscribe to labels as much as possible. Me, myself, I, and my birth name are all the labels I need. Otherwise I am JSD - Just Some Dude...
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 12:35 PM
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What a bunch of pussies. I have held a steady job for 24 years and never going to burn out because I do what I love now but had to work through shit jobs and pay my dues to get there. Welcome to reality kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 12:24 PM
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Only in my nightmares. My MOS got cancelled and I never ended up getting into the military as they were cutting back during that time as Bill balanced the budget which I wrote off as bad timing/luck. Then he passed NAFTA causing myself and other family members and friends to lose our jobs after training our replacements and shipped the factory gear and all to Mexico for Hewlett Packard. The towns economy suffered for it for years. Bill at least was an entertaining president (the Saxophone thing)…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 04:46 AM
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As a kid in the 80s Hollywood and Disney programmed hard for this. It also did not help peers also echoed confirming sentiment about always being nice and the right girl will come along and appreciate it. Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:08 AM
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Most of it is taught or new research but in fragmented unrelated pieces so the patterns are not always obvious. Human nature has been a hobby of mine for quite some time. Even this prestigious head doc who claims to be a feminist acknowledges men and women are different and nature wins over social narratives. One of my favorite quotes from it: "The best advice I have for women is make peace with the male brain. Let men be men." http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/03/23/brizendine.male.brain/index.ht…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:14 AM
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The Muslim traditions of modesty make sense if you look at it as men protecting themselves from the wiles of women. They can not use sex appeal covered or start drama, flirt, or cheat when escorted in public and must adhere to a discipline. I learned from my Iraqi and Kurdish friends some interesting stories about their women. Arab women even if slapped for it will intentionally get their husbands jealous like Italian women like to do. Like Hindu Indian women in public they put on the show as wo…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:15 AM
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I am not going to bag on you, anime does sometimes convey very wise life lessons or metaphors sometimes as long as it's not an unhealthy hobby. There are reasons DBZ is popular and celebrating masculinity may not be the main one exactly. Most Japanese kids in that age range are starting to really feel the grind of the heavily conformist social norms in Japanese culture. Individualism is not encouraged or ostracized and the base social unit is the group not the person so the heroes of anime are t…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:11 AM
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This is correct. If they want a fix they will ask or coax you in to doing it somehow. Most of the time they just need to get it off their chests or actually their brain that won't let them forget it to their torment. Men and women handle stress very differently mentally and biologically. TLDR no short way to explain it exactly but is a reason behind the nature of men and women. Men build up the stress hormone Cortisol when active and it is moderated by Testosterone. Men lower their stress by gen…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:25 AM
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Additionally if she is upset in certain ways an antagonistic approach like 'WTF was all that about' or teasing will light the fuse that blows the powder keg up in your face. I agree, the OPs handling was perfect IMHO. He was acting with authority but stayed out of her emotional state without putting her on defense so she could decompress. He was taking care of her needs and her positive reaction confirms that. Men and women handle stress differently.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:56 AM
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Yup. In college most people were glad to have more join the party as long as they were not mooching or acting like a tool. I have never been turned away from a party if I had a smile, beer and/or buds even when I was nervous. Most people there are likely away from home and have to make new friends too so you are not alone so get in there and enjoy it, don't sweat the details.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:06 AM
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Oh yeah this BS is common in the new blood where I work. Wall Street or Silicon Valley are nothing like Sesame Street, welcome to reality kids. I have held a steady job most of my life since 16 (40 now). By the time I could get to college first time(late 20s) I knew what my talents were and knew what I liked to do. I see so many people get into a career because the college recruiter said oh yeah get this hard/expensive ass degree and you will be immediately rolling in the cash and they fall for …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 04:01 AM
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There are numerous studies on stress and problem solving I do not have a specific link but you can search around. Men in particular turn their brains off and forget their problems by sitting down and relaxing or their stress (cortisol) level keep going up until they solve it or the problem solves itself. There are endless volumes about pair bonding to search for. Here is one article about the tears. Here are a couple about men affected by attraction. I cant find the one I read a year ago. http:/…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 12:53 PM
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"I bet you get tons of women" or "You are busy with all these girls chasing you." Me:(shrug) They try.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 05:47 AM
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I think eventually the west will become so beta a world war will start because of it's weakness and suffering around the world will be the norm for a while. I doubt traditionalism will return as it was but the survivors of WW3 will step up discipline to survive. The wildest theory: Mad Max world and high SMV women will be lucky if they are only in chains impregnated by the baddest of the baddest wasteland warlord. Humans will carry on as they need to survive if any do.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:42 AM
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There are a few reasons for this; biologically and culturally. When you have sex, at climax, the body releases a series of hormones that cause pair bonding and 'love', and the same hormones are released as you bond with your offspring, Oxytocin is the most common. This is how I think one gets oneitis as they are bonding with their sexual partner as nature wired us to breed and thrive and caring about our mate and offspring is necessary. The level of effects will vary with the person and also doi…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:26 AM
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It did not say and they do not understand how exactly it happens or verified any effects; just traces of former partners DNA present in their blood. It was discovered on accident from research involving genetic hereditary diseases. Humans grow slow, in a short study of flies males DNA altered future developed eggs of the female. Human eggs are developed before the reproductive phase of life begins AFAIK so it can't work exactly the same but the fact it can happen in at least one organism the que…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 02:25 AM
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I have used a water filter for years, I don't even cook using tap water. Lookup BPAs in certain plastics. They become xeno estrogen when your stomach digests it. Estrogen is a trigger to store fat and the brain uses it to stimulate certain centers including emotions. I think part of why people get fat and feel undernourished and overeat because a lot of the food comes in plastics with this BPA crap in it so it like attaching a memo to your food saying send this straight to fat instead of immedia…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 06:02 AM
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You will get more xeno estrogens from BPAs leeching out of plastic pop bottles or plastic food packaging than tap water. However there is more than estrogen in tap water, like mental patient medications and they admitted recently they overdosed us with fluoride for decades. Combine all this plus a social environment that suppresses masculinity, yes, we are socially and biologically being weakened. In my 40 years I have seen more ratios of people get fatter (estrogen is a trigger to store fat btw…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:51 AM
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She told me to my face that she's basically using me for my food, my weed, my house and for sex bro. Just this last weekend I was at a bar out on the patio and overheard this girl tell her friends she was looking for a new guy or two to crash with so she could mooch off of. Apparently the guy she was currently leeching got tired of not getting any for his troubles anymore lol. A few months back at a party a guy was lamenting being a captain save a ho and had this woman and her kid in his house m…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:23 AM
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I get shamed sometimes for 'not acting my age' by some of these spinsters or exes when they find out I date girls up to half my age (40). I just smile/laugh it off with: "There's no point in growing up if you don't get to act childish sometimes." I have also burned feminists saying thanks to feminism (really sarcasm but I deliver it dead pan seriously or as of a matter of fact-like) I have been freed from the chains of patriarchal traditionalist oppression and those outdated gender roles girls d…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:43 AM
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Good find. There are a couple components to this issue. One thing is it has been found that the DNA of former partners Y chromosome material is left in women's blood possibly for the rest of her life. They are doing deeper long term studies but it could be a reason why a baby does not resemble the parents and infidelity was not a factor. This could also just be a means nature throws some chaos into each generation for variation and evolution. Too many ingredients spoils the stew, if so it brings…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/16 05:09 PM
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Just relax man. If they are DTF and are clear about it to you, relax, the hard part is over so hit it with condoms always. Tons of guys wish one let alone three girls were DTF at a given time so don't sweat your body/size. Read the book 'Sex God Method' and look online to find interesting sex positions. Then when you are getting it on just try them without asking, just lead and guide her into the positions, silence with action says more than words. Whatever you do never ask for a scorecard durin…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 11:59 AM
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Hmm Celebrate a holiday named after a Roman priest that was executed for holding illegal weddings by buying shit for women to make them happy, how quaint but metal. Since Vday is Sunday it will be my usual Metal Church rituals. Worship at the Iron Temple to the hymns of metal until my muscles ache then hit the showers before going out for dinner at my favorite retreat from my PC weekday world. Nothing like eating a prime choice steak dinner cooked by a master chef while watching a girl I know en…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 02:28 AM
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"He is amazing in bed" Not uncommon. Women are starved for Oxytocin and the largest source of it is good orgasms and it is a bonding hormone. Oxytocin is how they lower the stress hormone Cortisol which women have more of than men, tax for running the baby bakery. Since women decided to act like men they have increased that stress over the last 30 years and reduced the activities that produce Oxytocin outside the bedroom. Ironically those things were more common for stay at home moms. Nurturing,…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 10:12 AM
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That chick has definitely gone plaid.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:37 PM
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I see this a lot GLO not just here. Hell 20 years ago I was surely one of them. Men are logical and analytical, we need systems, formulas, tools. Some guys just want the magic words and motions to get what they want, younger ones are especially thirsty for instant gratification as that is how they were raised I think. I think this is why nice guys and covert contracts are so common. If I do X I will get X. Well I guess that is kind of accurate in a way but the formula is much bigger and more com…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:00 PM
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My mom told me when I was 30 finally a few useful secrets about women. She talked about the nice guy conundrum. Women want a strong man who will not be a doormat for the world, they go for the jerks because they usually don't get rolled by the world and often succeed in life. Women want a man who will be nice to them but are just fine with them being assholes to nearly everyone else. When she giggles about her man being a jerk it's often playful smack talk, he is a 'jerk' because she can't get a…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 01:32 PM
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Women have used crying as a survival mechanism since antiquity. Science has made an interesting discovery, the tears of woman contain a chemical when smelled by men lowers their testosterone lowering men's aggression and sex drive. I am not joking when I say women have the power to soften men. Tears or chemical weapons? Edit: No one should be in an abusive relationship and get out. It is everyone's personal responsibility to not permit harm to come to them.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 08:10 AM
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I get where you are coming from. I was raised in a feminized conservative baptist setting and it hosed me early on until I learned. Shame tactics on two fronts: I was either a monster for being a man or a servant of the devil for my desires destined to be dammed by the master of the universe, can't win either way fuuuck. It really is an efficient way to destroy a person's will and make helpless slaves. I can attest to the need of mentors. I had to learn the long and hard way and was always a lat…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:56 AM
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Dumped or friendzoned. I knew girls growing up that collected orbiters like Pokemon cards that used exactly that phrase. I heard it more than a few times in my life growing up too, hell I may have even used it myself thinking back.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:20 AM
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If I had a nickel for every time I heard a woman say that to someone or 'I dunno why...It just happened...' what couldn't I buy. Well it is no conspiracy (AWALT) there is a biological reason. Many underestimate just how powerful nature wired us to reproduce and thrive. The popular narrative is men can't keep it in their pants but we are actually best conditioned to resist and have done so for a very long time. We were built to resist our primal instincts/fear to take on the perils of nature; run…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 01:20 PM
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I appreciate the mods effort for maintaining TRP Reddit's integrity, never an easy job. Cheers brothers!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 11:00 AM
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Good on you man. The game has changed a little, but I have changed more when I returned to the SMP. Yeah 27-35 is a rough group as they are trying to get off the carousel and lock down beta bux to calm the baby rabies. Women in my age group mostly have kids but they are nearly grown up and do not need constant care so mom is free to go out and get some care herself. Riling a thirsty woman can make for a fun ride. I have mixed results with the under 27 crowd. People tell me I look 28-33 and some …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:46 AM
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40 here latest plate to come on to me was hb9 and now 21, 20 when I started seeing her. There are no absolutes but wide age gaps are indeed less common. HB8+ women are rare to extinct by 30. Before my buddy in his 50s married a hot 25 year old we would dress up and cruise the Uni district bars in his Maserati, we could get girls to hop in for a ride and road blow/fuck and sometimes never even exchanged names before dropping them off when we were done with them. Status helps, money and power almo…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 01:36 AM
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Good report man and good first trip into the field, sorry about your car getting towed, live and learn, spin it into a fun tall tale to tell. Most of my friends are married and don't go out much so I have to solo most of the time and it makes it a little harder unless you are comfortably social which I was not at first. You did way better than I did and likely some others, you have taken the first step into a new world. Like you said you have nothing to lose by trying, just that puts in you a ti…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:30 AM
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Thank you for that. Indeed self-mastery/control is important to a man's personal health/growth. Turmoil within invites turmoil outside.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:51 AM
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They kind of use the terms desire and pain generically with a broad brush. When you work do you not have days that can have struggles? That is a form of pain. There is no greater pain than desiring something that is difficult or impossible to attain like good women. Some people pursue things so aggressively they forego their well being or invite extra pains into their life to attain things. I think that is what they mean. To desire women is to invite pain into your life, the trick I think is to …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 03:34 AM
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Buddhist's were wise when they said 'Desire is a path of pain.'
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 05:00 AM
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If you were supposedly exclusive before all this, next her already. She failed to make you a backup orbiter that's why she came back once you immediately cut contact(good move). Minimal affection means she was trying to do the minimum to keep you hooked and will try again when you are more softened up or maybe cheat covertly. Her accusations and being a meanie talk are normal shit tests to make sure you are serious and the dread was not just a fluke and to distract you from the issue by starting…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 07:05 AM
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It can indeed throw women off and even gets some to chase you when their guile's have no effect on you, it's a challenge to their power and shows high self confidence. There are more women in this world than you have time or money to go out and meet. Nature gave women the power to soften men and they have no respect for you if you become putty in their hands instantly, save that for sexy time when they are sucking the chrome off your cock. In the strip clubs you see some of these men and women w…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 12:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing that perspective. The Russian's I know are pretty hard core but maybe is the opposite to Europe's deflated masculinity. Look at Putin with all his projections of manliness and strength in media, the classic macho. Men are dysfunctional and inept without cultivating and taking ownership over their masculinity, history has also shown uncontrolled hyper masculinity and barbarism has it's negative effects as well. I believe there is a balance someplace in between the two extremes.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:51 AM
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I do not think it is BP mentality in itself but a dysfunction that leads one to BP. Food is an addiction for some indeed but not all of them. Fast-paced life and laziness have their share too which is empowered by the instant gratification digital age. The foods people eat also are contributing as the crap they put in them gets turned to fat instantly and you don't feel full and want to keep eat more. When I was starting in my weight loss regimen I discovered a nasty little thing called BPAs tha…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:32 AM
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Kids have the capacity to be quite cruel but can be taught what is not acceptable to limit it. Now days it seems society gets more face time in a day with kids than their families. I could not be certain this is a sign of a natural Mach based on what is known. Kids like humans will work out their pecking order through various rituals but it sounds like she was possibly putting on a show for her friends for sure. It would be more insightful to her mental state if she did it of her own inspiration…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:31 AM
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I am not a fan of the flesh mechanic unless there is a medical need. I prefer natural women. To me it's about the lines of the woman, if they are right I am going to be attracted no matter how big or small her boobs are. Boob/Ass profile and balanced ratios catch my eye. If she's got big tits she better have an ass to match. If she has small tits her ass should not be very big and tight/firm.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:17 AM
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That is not an easy answer besides lower the better generally. It is such a subjective thing that is initially framed by the persons culture and upbringing then further colored by their own views and experiences, age also plays a factor. For me at 40 I do not expect to find a healthy virgin unless I date girls half my age which are usually annoying. For some N count is used as a rule-of-thumb to guess probability of quality relations. 'Has she already given her best away and is there anything un…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 05:16 AM
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Funny. I had something similar in mind.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:16 AM
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I would agree it can be a very educational job. Worked at Guitar Center back in early 2000s and became a department manager giving me a taste of that world too before college. Back then I was still trying to get out of my shell and get better at socializing and being assertive, you had to there for survival. They weren't full commission then (min wage + department sales bonuses) but you had to keep a certain individual sales average to keep your job and as a manager all your team had to perform …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:08 PM
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She's just a YT version of a shock jock/comedy spoof maker selling clicks with her assets AFAIK. (Shrug) I'll take any jab I can get for the laughs watching heads explode on YT can be more entertaining sometimes. YT used to be cool but it makes me remember why I threw away my TV a decade ago.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:01 PM
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I would tend to agree. For some it is a refuge after getting maimed in the SMP or family courts and it's a good thing as it provides a place to start to heal. I went monk a few years after getting tired of dysfunctional relationships with women and they led me here initially. I could not stay MGTOW however as I still desire to play in the SMP after I got my life in order. MGTOW can not be defined in a neat little box save for their core values of never getting married or being the BB. I got tire…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:02 PM
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It sounds like she is priming you for domestication or using you emotionally until she finds what she really wants, next her if she won't put out by date three. She 'rushed' into things before because she was attracted to them. If she was really attracted to you she would fuck you fairly quickly. It would 'just happen' as they like to say. If she is older she is likely looking for betabux to settle on, if she is younger she is just waiting for the next tingles.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:49 AM
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You have already made important insights to identify the factors in your situation which you will find a solution to in your own way. It gets easier with time. Also there was a recent thread about anger not being a phase. The world will find endless ways to push your buttons, especially women. I swore off women a few years because they pissed me off and I saw the real games they played once my eyes were open. Then I realized there was no reason to be angry as they are doing what nature wired the…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:31 AM
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There is much about self-improvement here for men and dealing with the nature of women. The aspects are focused on sexual relations but ones career, social circle, and sex life all benefit from cultivating your own social value. I like to think of TRP as How to get your shit together so the world does not own you.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:47 AM
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Yeah that is a common misconception about MGTOW. The name is literal Men Going Their Own Way meaning no two are exactly alike save for avoiding cohabitation or marriage and red pill. They often study female nature for some it is to figure out how they ended up like they did and want to understand the how and why. Others want to continue to plate and there are certainly many who want nothing to do with women anymore. When I swore off women and went monk I pushed away women over 5 years I was so d…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:51 AM
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The only person you need validation from is yourself. Being dependent on external validation is an unreliable and toxic way to prop up ones ego. Your state of being is at the mercy of supply and leaves you vulnerable to manipulation and scarcity mentality if care is not taken. Nothing wrong with being appreciative of it and/or exploiting it when you get it, but it should never be relied upon. You have to be able to live without it because you have enough for yourself already.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:45 PM
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Looks help but being stronger in other areas easily makes up for it. Game/attitude and social value(including money/influence) often trump looks. Looks help lower initial cold approach difficulty factor IMHO. I know an alpha but balding dad-bod middle aged guy who is a low pay retail store manager but plays music in a local bar band and has a nova hot former model for a wife and 4 kids. She always fawns over him like a heroin addict for 20+ years now because he does it for her and holds frame. T…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:25 AM
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Ah how I love social lubrication but hate the side effects of alcohol. There is nothing wrong with it in moderation but it can be bad four your brain(among other organs) and ages you faster in excess. I agree with the general assertion in the comments. The alcohol drops inhibitions and the walls of social anxiety so you can reveal your true self comfortably. If you can do it drunk you can do it sober but you have to learn how to invoke it with practice and keeping the right attitude. Is your ten…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:34 AM
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Way back in HS there was this exchange student some of us were pining for. I knew I was destined for the friendzone but I wanted to try anyway but only had the passive approach at the time. One of my friends warned me to make a move or he was going to if she kept showing interest in him. At the time I resented him for a bit when he of course nailed her as he was the king player in our circle and could get any girl he wanted in HS but it had to be her. He actually tried to help me and goad me int…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 11:25 PM
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Thanks for that. Oh it was hard and it indeed nearly killed me and I wasted a lot of time but I survived it. I was always a late bloomer compared to my peers but I have made peace with it as I matured. We can not always control the cards we are dealt in life but we can cease the authority and wisdom to play them the best we can and find a way to come out for the better. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:56 PM
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Read the book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' you need to learn how to set boundaries of your own. Here is a good reading list sir, good luck. http://illimitablemen.com/books-for-men/
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:20 PM
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Man this poor kid is gonna be so screwed later barring a miracle. Teaching manners and etiquette or even economics is one thing but this is emotional incest/abuse. She is projecting her experiences and expectations on to the kid and he is serving the sentence for those 'bad men'. I know how this story can go watching it play out many times growing up and experiencing this some personally. The tragedy is she is convinced she is doing the right thing and will only regret it later when it produces …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:05 PM
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Raised sans father and detached beta-ish step dad. My mom later lamented when I was an adult how she wished I had more positive male role models in my life growing up since I didn't make her grand kids to spoil by 30. Even though my dad left when I was 5 for knocking up another woman she never spoke badly of him growing up, in fact she talked about all the good things about him and good times they had together but she also raised me in a way to make sure I would never be like him to the point of…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 09:51 PM
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It is never too late bro, life is a work in progress until your last breath. I am 40 and spent a chunk of my 30s getting my life on track, it is not impossible if you will it. I used to work a physical job and was in great shape then switched back to IT desk job for 7 years and blew up and hit 275 before I even realized it after splitting from my fiancee. I got my career in order with night college but let my body decay as I was depressed and tired of women's games and was pretty much a MGTOW be…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 12:15 PM
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Here is a good list of books. http://illimitablemen.com/books-for-men/
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:47 AM
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I saw an interesting meme pic on FB of a whiteboard with some wise words. Be positive to succeed and never fear these words: F.A.I.L. = First Attempts In Learning E.N.D. = Effort Never Dies N.O. = Next Opportunity
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 11:56 PM
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Exactly, it takes the right attitude to facilitate this IMHO. I have a path and it has milestones upon it. As I get to those milestones they are victories that build my confidence and reasons to celebrate. I do not lament that the road ahead disappears endlessly into the horizon, it is exciting to see what mystery will be revealed beyond. I instead feel proud and vindicated when I look back and see all those milestones behind me and know just how far I have come on my own. Some days move slow, s…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 11:49 PM
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Sorry to hear it bro but you are lucky too. You are seeing the truth of human nature in play at a young age, use that knowledge to get ahead in life but do not get too jaded either. Your body is in it's best time to redefine it and train it in a way that will set the pace for your later years when it starts slowing down. I am 40 and I had to spend the bulk of my 30s to undo the damage I did in my 20s as a result of not learning what you have when I was your age. It is never too late to change bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 10:49 PM
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I get accused of being a relentless flirt but I just thought I was being myself =). Yeah some go for the horn dog approach but being more casual and patient about it can pay off as long as the intent and expectation is understood. It shows confidence and maturity which they crave as you play with them. You have to take care not to over nerd them or they might get bored. I try to balance serious topics with humor like if some historical topic came up I work the story as a lead in to a joke or inn…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:08 PM
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My favorite Red Pill rocker just died yesterday at 70 still out touring front man of one of the loudest Rock N Roll heavy metal bands, our god Lemmy of Motorhead. He was a man who lived by his own rules and brought up many musicians around him. When I feel like I can't get up: Stand! Lyrics video Punching bag sprint song: Sex and Death Lyrics: Here we are still fighting, fighting for our lives, Danger in the trenches, but we still survive, We know who we are, we know who we are, We remember ever…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:46 AM
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The anger phase is merely the death knell of ones blue pill paradigm once exposed to the truth of nature. Things will make you angry endlessly in this world. It is a natural reaction but as a man you have the ability to decouple your emotions from your conscious actions if you choose to and have enough self control. No one is immune to feeling angry but you can control your emotions so they do not control you. That means taking ownership of your emotions and understanding them so you are not eas…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 11:53 PM
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It is a matter of perspective and attitude IMHO. It is fine to compare yourself with others to gauge relativity but how you internalize the results of the comparisons matter. Jealousy and envy are natural reactions but a man has to keep a leash on his emotions(take ownership over them) or he is vulnerable to manipulation or counterproductive behaviors that hold him back in life. Instead of envy merely recognize he has done things to succeed, even if some things came easier than they did for you,…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:22 PM
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It is very subjective by nature. The name says it all literally: Men Going Their 'Own' Way. You can't put MGTOW in a neat template or container. They may reject marriage but some still want plates and otherwise need guides to wisely invest their time and resources to make a good RP life/career for themselves doing whatever it is they choose and not get played by women.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 09:59 AM
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Exactly. I think of it as part of outcome independence and shows confidence and abundance vs neediness. Whatever happens it troubles me not, I'm just out having a good time experiencing life. My favorite girlfriends were the ones I was not looking for. "Que Sera, Sera" trans. "Whatever will be, will be."
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 09:22 AM
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Indeed I had to before it killed me. Where it was once a source of shame it became a marker in time and space so I can look back and see how far I have managed to go on my own once I cared about my future.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:11 AM
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My dad left after knocking up another woman and I have not seen him since I was 5.(40 now) Raised by my mom and older sister I definitely was at a disadvantage in many ways until I moved away from home and grew up on my own. She raised me to be what she thought a good man was supposed to be but that only made me a good citizen and it repelled far more women than it attracted; some thought I was gay at first I was so femme. I too fell the for the fallacy I had just chose bad girls and double down…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:53 PM
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I know a few strippers, male and female. I was shocked to find out the guys make more money frequently. Women are the most ill behaved audience and are often way more grabby with the dancers. Even the bouncers get sexually harassed by drunk spoiled women because they are muscular guys too; women win either way in their heads perhaps getting attention from strong men(liking the discipline perhaps?). Female strippers are naturally more cautious especially working private parties vs working in a cl…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:23 PM
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I kind of learned TRP in nature the hard way growing up by trial and error(mostly error) but did not exactly understand the mechanisms wholly until PUA lead me to MGTOW and TRP a couple years back so I feel like I went though the anger twice in some ways. For me when the anger phase came my initial reaction was to lash out naturally in my 20s(40 now). I suddenly became a seriously callous pragmatic bastard and everyone around me reacted negatively to it and I became more distant with everyone I …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 12:11 AM
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Well this sub is about sexual strategy so I would expect nailing women be much of what we talk about. Money can't buy you love or happiness but it can fund a more comfortable expedition to find those things. You don't always need money or even power to get those things out of life. I know poor unambitious alpha men that drown in hot women and it's the girl who is spending all her time and money to keep him happy because what he does provide as a man is worth more to her I guess. Money and succes…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:51 PM
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Most of the cock-blocker betas I encounter are more passive aggressive than this one. Good job not getting sucked into his BS and reversing it on him. Sounds he went for the hail mary to save his princess.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:00 AM
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Well one thing: Stop thinking 'I don't want to fuck this up'. No one wants to fuck up usually but their fear of failure will create it subconsciously in your language and actions and trip you up. You are overthinking and overreacting and look needy and inexperienced it's natural. Just stop and take a breath. Instead of fear of failure ask yourself what do you want to get out of this relationship, what are you looking for then go for it decisively and with unapologetic stoicism. She is either gon…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:14 PM
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Years ago a friend in HS got busted for statutory rape. The girl was over age of consent but not 18. Her parents found out they hooked up (christian conservative family) and compelled the DA to press charges as they are the guardians of stewardship over her until 18. He was 19 got probation but added tot he sex offenders list and his life was complex forever more. Check local laws and consider if it's worth it. Her lying is a serious red flag. What others lies will she tell to get her way later?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:43 PM
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Know thyself. Take a hard critical look at yourself and figure out what you really want in life and what are your passions and talents. Take stock of what you really got but not with a mindset of self loathing but like making a shopping list; what else do I need to pick-up for X. Make plans that gets you from point A to Z with realistic milestone goals along the way. Start with easier goals and work up to more advanced ones to prevent discouraging yourself with unrealistic expectations at first.…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:22 PM
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I would have played with her and not blown her out like that myself. It is good practice dealing with HB9s. They are sometimes obnoxious because they know they have the pussy pass, that's just how it is. That is also a key to getting them in bed sometimes. They are used to men falling like domino's before their SMV and worshiped like a goddess. The ones that appear calmly unaffected by her charms can get on her radar long enough to see if something tingles. Since you assumed you never had a shot…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:23 PM
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The last screenshot in that dog pile of guilt gleaned what shes is looking for. "I hope you can forgive me and remember me in a good way...if that doesn't happen it's fine". Do not respond. She wants acknowledgment and likely use that connection to put in more hooks to pull you back in or to get in the last punch. She knows she fucked up and is busted.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:26 AM
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Good on you sir and best of luck in school.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:15 AM
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Thanks for that. One thing to consider is for men freedom and trust are extremely precious commodities which is why strong reactions may follow when said things are squandered or violated in his mind. His upbringing and occupation will also influence his active assertiveness at home. Men and women are also prone to misinterpret each other because they assume the other sees and experiences life exactly the same way they do. Often deeply ingrained in his mind is a belief he has to make a woman hap…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 01:48 AM
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Glad you are starting to see behind the curtain man, hang in there. Yeah I would say she maybe locking you into beta orbit since you can be summoned from long distance. Revenge is pointless, but if you must, the best revenge is to forget her without another word. Keep improving your life and social circle and move on. Just ignore her when she inevitably hits you up for therapy or one day suddenly confesses she liked you all along and wants you now(to lock you down BB). Block her if she gets anno…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 11:40 AM
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I would agree. Some prescribe to the Tom Leykis school of 'treat them like crap' which is a bit of a misnomer. I have made that mistake starting out as well as others I am sure of trying too hard to be a jerk and pissing people off instead of being playfully edgy. I would say treat them with indifference would be a better method. You are being a 'jerk' or a 'meanie' not because you are throwing insults like ninja stars, you are just not letting them manipulate you like they are accustomed to; it…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:11 AM
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It was developed in India and is not available yet. The FDA banned one of the components in RISUG for human use and Canada has too years ago. There is a company that uses an alternate ingredient but no western pharma wants to test/sell it since it would destroy their billions a month income on BC pills. They are struggling to get investors and thought about crowd sourcing for funds to buy into human trials(illegal in most western countries due to conflict of interest). AFAIK there have been only…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:46 AM
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I would agree. Much of what was traditionalism was not made out of some patriarchal conspiracy to oppress women. It was what made for a more peaceful and fulfilling life living in harmony but in control of ones nature. Men and women are built differently but complimentary to each other so they would be drawn together and flourish. Men were built to take risks and lead and be the stability for their mates who live in chaotic bodies due to the power to make life. Women get the power to soften men …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:49 AM
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God this was a punch in the gut to read again. Almost as bad as the first time I read No More Mr. Nice Guy and the pain haunts me to this day. Long story short dad knocked up the daughter of a judge who expedited my parents divorce so he could marry his prego daughter to save face in his social circle or there would be shotgun funerals/weddings or so I am told. He gave my mom everything the house, cars, cashed out his retirement to buy mom off, and signed me over to be adopted by whomever my mom…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:37 AM
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The human body is a remarkable machine and hormones are one of it's core control mechanisms regardless of gender. One of my best friends growing up eventually got TRT and feels better than ever and the change was dramatic. He was as bald as Captain Picard by 19, fat even though he played sports and had a good diet and lifted. He had sleeping and depression problems growing up and no motivation or sex drive. After years of various medications and therapists, they decided to test his hormones. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:37 AM
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My mom, after me not getting married and making grandchildren for her by 30(40 now) suddenly switched from preaching the disney, feminist, romcon BS to stuff that resembled red pill when I first started reading here. I grew up in conservative baptist land and dad, or any good male role models, not around so you know the story. She one day laid this nugget on me: Women want a man who can be nice for only them when it's important. That's why some like the tale beauty and the beast or phantom of th…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:46 AM
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Last I read(few months back) they were struggling to get funding for the US/Can required testing and were trying to find private investors(rumored crowd-sourced) to buy into the human testing program if possible. This was developed in India but every western pharma so far even in Europe has rejected pursuing it in spite of 15 years of positive looking animal testing in India. It's not for sale to the public there either, animal testing is all that's done so far AFAIK. It has great potential as t…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:51 AM
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(always self amused 40 yr old DGAF attitude and I live by a warriors saying: Never let them see you bleed.) Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” - Depends. Are you just a game? (I once picked up a girls arm like she was a slot machine and pretended like I was about to drop a quarter down her cleavage while using this answer but I knew her some already.) Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” - Riiiiight (chuckle) just like you say that to all the guys...but seriously blah bla…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 08:25 AM
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When I was in my early 20s I used to resent the 30s-40s year old guys that would swing into a club throw a little money around and leave the club with the hottest girls that could pass for their daughters. Well now I am the 40 year old prick to make up for lost time lol. On my bday this year a 20 year old came onto me hard at the BBQ out of the blue and now I see how easy it was now. I am not rich but I can provide much more creative instant fun than an average college kid can even the prissy Ri…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 01:54 PM
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I could not agree more OP, specifics are better but you can leave a little mystery like bullet point 2. Open ended invites and maybes get more no's than yes's, at least in my experience. I have also had many girl friends who say they like guys that plan dates and hate being stuck with choosing; it shows you are willing to make an effort for them instead of just being needy for a companion. If there is something they do not like or want to do they will tell you or simply decline you offer no big …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 12:51 PM
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When I first read RP I did not want to believe it and got mad something so absurd could exist and rejected it as internet rubbish. Then I started to unexpectedly notice things described here unfold before my eyes with friends and family and their relationships. One day I had a light bulb moment 'I know exactly what this reminds me of..' and read TRP again and it started to make more sense little by little. I had to take a break reading it sometimes at first because the negativity in the posts be…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:41 AM
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This is something I struggled with too but less and less as time goes by. I did not have to become a callous sociopath to cure involuntary celibacy (InCel) and white knighting. AWALT does not mean women are evil in general. It simply means her biological imperative to reproduce (like a man) if unchecked has the potential capacity for them to do counter-productive things given the right conditions and varies by upbringing for how easy it is to happen. Western women typically(not exclusively) have…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:49 PM
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A man with nothing to lose is the most potentially dangerous man in the world. Some will just languish in escapism waiting for death, some simply skip the wait and kill themselves, while others in increasing alarming numbers will go out like Elliot Rodgers or ISIS. Some may be too damaged to save but that does not mean they all should be abandoned. At least show them a way to reclaim their dignity and salvage what they can if they will. Men are caught in a conflicting state that breaks them down…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 11:31 AM
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Having more charismatic leadership might help some but is not a silver bullet on it's own. It does not matter what they have for SMV if they use social media like PE and the MRAs do today. The snarky comments and antagonistic rants on twitter just make MRAs look no better than the screeching feminists to the uninitiated spectator. They need to hold frame and post objective and well articulated facts and let those facts stand on their own merit and be able to pass scrutiny when the average person…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 10:52 AM
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If you have not already, read the book 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' as it addresses the passive aggressive and placating behavior you are using to the letter. Four years in the blue then going red is going to be a jarring change and expect hostile reactions. It may be impossible to re-frame the relationship after that long in the blue, try if you want but be ready to walk away and forget about it. Abusive people rarely break the habit without swallowing some bitter pills themselves. 'Being mean' was a…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 07:19 PM
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Great post! This is an almost exact blueprint of how I got over my social anxiety and tell the youth I mentor the same thing. It gets easier the more you go then suddenly you are not pushing yourself but running into the social fray without hesitation. Social skills are like other learned skills and even muscle; use it or lose it, work it to grow it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:21 PM
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Just doing that gets you points with women these days.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 04:42 AM
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I used to get this bad and sometimes still do a bit. What I found starting out is approach ASAP if you want to meet someone. Don't overthink just go for it, people approach strangers and start a conversation all the time and is normal. It is not creepy unless you let your discomfort become contagious. Old warrior saying was 'never let them see you bleed'. The longer you wait the more tension builds up until you lose the nerve to even try or fall apart in the middle of the interaction. Just appro…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 04:26 AM
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Sci-fi that is RL fact. This quote is also pure golden truth from Duke Leto: "I'll miss the sea, but a person needs new experiences. They jar something deep inside, allowing him to grow. Without change something sleeps inside us, and seldom awakens. The sleeper must awaken."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:54 AM
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Not trying to WK but such behavior from men is also the fuel, evidence, and justification SJWs and angry women need to further screw us over. The hamster does not need any help. Just a thought...
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:21 AM
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Nope. Search and read about sperm jacking, there are plenty of guides to sabotage condoms or collect sperm and self impregnate. Browse her book collection when alone in her house to see if she has books about handling men or getting them to marry them. Older women that are still sexy are fun because their libido is often cranked up to max like that of a 18 year old boy. Nature does this to her to remind/force her to use the baby bakery before it closes. For many the hormonal changes alter the br…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:16 AM
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If she likes what shes got or thinks she can lock you down beware of sperm jacking or the inevitable ooops moment so wrap it up and always use your own condoms not hers. There are hundreds of best selling books for women on how to trap a man or steal a child. I used to play with older women when I was younger some because I had looks but weak game and they were wild/educational in bed. They all knew what they wanted and knew exactly how to get it which is the dangerous(sometimes thrilling) part.…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:01 AM
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It depends on her background and upbringing but beware AWALT none the less. Did she come from a very traditional family or has not lived in the 1st western world for very long? I know a lot of middle-eastern girls and they say the guys are cute but terrible lovers. The very religious conservative men see sex strictly as a utility for making babies and she is worth little else in some cultures so they are often starved for romance/intimacy. They know very well how to play men socially for their s…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:31 AM
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As a former white knight I almost want to don the armor one more time to go bitch-slap this 'journalist' with a gauntlet. https://youtu.be/j5mqQBgobTY
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:19 AM
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Dopamine is only a small part of it. Oxytocin has far more impact in women and there is a clear reason why; it's helps them stay healthy and bond with their children and partners. I am assuming riding the CC too hard may desensitize them to bonding but they still get the other benefits of Oxytocin. For women Oxytocin lowers the stress hormone Cortisol and orgasms produce it the most usually. Women have 2-4 times as much of it as a tax for maintaining the baby bakery plus entering the workforce h…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 07:39 AM
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I think that is why it's said women can't love a man. She loves what he does for her and that is as close as it gets.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:47 AM
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When civilization falls apart and if any humans survive the fall the laws of nature will reassert themselves. Think Mad Max, where were the high SMV women at? Imprisoned by the baddest of the bad in the badlands bearing his children. Ironic feminism with the boogeyman big P rhetoric may indirectly create the most powerful and violent real patriarchy yet to come.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:37 AM
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Heh Madam Curie was the first one I thought of and her still holding records for Nobel Prizes to this day. So how did she do all that while being forced to stay in the kitchen like cattle??? LOL SJWs can never answer that one.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:25 AM
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Maybe. Orgasms give her the Oxytocin she needs in a huge dose to lower her stress hormone Cortisol but it is also a bonding hormone. How many chicks have you seen that were on the fence with breaking up and did quickly after they got the big O from someone else and made her feel good about it. Men get a shot of Oxytocin on orgasm too but it mostly makes him relaxed and sleepy. Cuddling afterwards lets her safely swoon in her high and enjoy it and makes her feel valued because you are taking care…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 05:05 AM
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There are indeed people who do not respect the power of nature and the subtle and subconscious systems we were built with to thrive and survive that can control us without self-discipline. There are also some now days that use nature as a license for promiscuity instead of understanding it for what it is. Buddhists have a saying: Desire is a path of pain. It took years of life experience to understand the truth in that phrase. I once toiled over unfulfilled desires before I let go of my misguide…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:39 AM
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Giving rewards and discipline indiscriminately and from a emotional reaction is what real abuse is IMHO. I don't remember which book it was but it said reward and discipline must be measured out rationally and proportionately to the situation to be respected. I am still rough on the discipline part but as a former white knight I know all about giving rewards away to everyone like free candy when it was not warranted so I never got respect. I did not value my resources so neither did they because…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:11 AM
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It is the most bitter and nasty pill I have ever taken literally and figuratively in my 40 years on this earth and glad I was able to keep them down one day. Naturally I rejected it at first too as skepticism is expected and healthy. TRP is a destruction of a core mental paradigm which naturally a person will defend vigorously. Who wants to happily admit they have lived a lie or were wrong about the world? When in history ever did change come quick and easy with no pain? That's partly where the …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:27 AM
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For me most of the anger was turned in on myself for being so blind once I started to see the truth. I was angry things seemed as such a simple but clever trap once I was out of it. Much of that anger was with society as a collective whom I felt was complicit in a virtual conspiracy against me at first. I was not angry with women anymore like I was when I was playing to lose and getting the friend zone or used. Once I learned to understand human nature more I stopped blaming women and realized t…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 09:54 PM
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Science also has began to dismantle the mechanism of women crying. The tear ducts are over sized more than they need to keep the eye clean and moist to allow high volume to flow. Also there is a chemical in the tears that lowers testosterone in men if they smell them. This sounds like a survival mechanism to me to get mercy in the more barbaric times of ancient history. http://www.nature.com/news/2011/110106/full/news.2011.2.html
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:27 PM
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I read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' and that is basically what it implies too.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 05:30 PM
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We used to call that twisting the dagger when I was a kid.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:08 AM
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I think it potentially could. When I read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' it talks about this scarcity mentality. The nice guy is overly nice because he feels shame for not getting needs met as a child and thinks somethings wrong with him so he compensates by needy and deceptive behavior disguised as being overly nice and kissing ass instead of kicking it in life. This will also predispose them to oneitis as they feel so lucky when they finally get attention and will do anything to not scare it away. The…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:05 AM
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I know what you mean, I feel bad for the kid but he wants to learn the hard way. Tonight the Iron is crying just a little harder when I hit the gym.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:32 AM
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I have read some of the crap talking about its nature to have poly relationships and cuckolding should just be accepted as the new normal. Humans are cut from the same cloth as the animal kingdom. Once upon a time I thought we separated humans from animals by their ability to override their primal natures with those huge frontal lobes of the brain.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:22 AM
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When he talked about her call making excuses the line came to mind. 'The day is young so if you are sorry then show me what you didn't mean for me to miss, fuck me or fuck off. I got another party to go to.' I can't help it the thought just popped in there.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:18 AM
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I agree. As a 40 year old raised by a single mom(and conservative religion and beta men) I was so behind the curve in life compared to my peers early on but it also saved me from being a beta mule myself. To pay for my fathers infidelity and the families shame I was raised to be nothing like him. I was terrified of upsetting women(sex and women in general) and placating their warped mentality as gospel from the benevolent goddesses that gave me life since evil men just pump and dump and left the…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 01:31 PM
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Why? I am 40 with a solid career, have fun on my own terms, and didn't get the life sucked out of me by women so I get mistaken as 30 because I have low mileage due to my upbringing(single mom lost boys who learned the hard way growing up). My youngest plate is 20 and the oldest 28 and I don't lie about my age. It is all a state of mind. Where the mind goes the body follows but a healthy mind can not exist long in a unhealthy body. Take care of yourself making a good life for you, not women. If …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:07 AM
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I think I saw it in the sidebar. There is an article that talks about a mothers love is reserved for their children only. Their partners do not get the same love they were used to from their parents which is why some men and women end up marrying someone like their parents to their misery.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:34 PM
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Not trying to beat you up over it I normally sound terse in text. If anything her going ST on you still means you might be able to turn it around and reset your frame. I would take it as she still has interest or she would have just walked. Restore her sense of security and she might settle back into things, if not there is always another woman tomorrow. I never answer my phone on a date unless it's my boss or family. If you want to help your ex next time they call for crisis counseling call the…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:31 PM
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Not surprised she went shit-test mode on you. It is not just that you showed compassion as much as it was shown to another woman over her in the middle of your date which is like throwing sand in her face. Now she is insecure by your deference to your ex and her friends and is reacting naturally(and rationally in this case).
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:40 PM
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This happened to me in college once. The girl I was dating(almost married after living together 2 yrs) told me to never let her see me cry unless someone died or something very terrible happened. She said seeing me cry freaked her out and she didn't know why but didn't want to see it ever again. If I was starting to seem depressed and she sensed it she would make me leave the house to go see my friends or do something on my own. It used to piss me off but later learned it was not a unique thing …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:22 PM
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I heard this old southern lady I lived next to once talked about why her marriage lasted at a barbecue. Her and her husband died within hours of each other they were so tight. Besides the immense committed loyalty, trust, and patience marriage and kids required she said men themselves were easy: Keep their bellies full, their balls empty, keep each other warm at night, and fill their hearts with gratitude and respect for the toils they endure to win their woman's favor and let him rest when he w…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:13 AM
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Yeah I fell for this trap when I was younger(pubes-25 now 40) and frustrated, scrambling to find any way I could to improve the situation. I eventually started to discard all the bad advice that never worked because it was insanity to keep trying a failing strategy over and over expecting eventual success. Logic also sunk in after hearing how 'great a guy I was who will find the right one who appreciates me someday' line enough times. Lies! If I was so 'great' according to all these people I wou…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 01:56 AM
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ARG my eyes, it burns us precious, it burns!!! Thanks, you cured me of 2 fetishes at the same time; redheads and cat ears.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:23 PM
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