DatSeductionTho Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
75	How to act at a college party where you know few/no people?	DatSeductionTho	/r/seduction	21/12/13 10:33 AM
37	Getting in state while sober - no problem when drunk?	DatSeductionTho	/r/seduction	02/02/14 05:20 PM
10	Kind of FR - Absolutely zero success on a night out?	DatSeductionTho	/r/seduction	25/01/14 05:54 PM
10	Not ready for pickup in general?	DatSeductionTho	/r/seduction	02/12/13 06:21 PM

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2	The date from hell (or the dangers of one-itis) While I can't relate that much to the girl getting all over the other guys (which is doesn't sound like you need advice with in the first place), I can completely relate to the oneitis part. I came out of a relationship with a girl after 1.5 years. Not on bad terms either, just each wanted to live different lifestyles (plus my oneitis was extremely unattractive / harmful to the relationship). Those were the two worst fucking months of my life. Depression, not wanting to eat, etc, same shit as yo…	/r/seduction	02/02/14 05:13 PM
1	Going to a large venue next week, need some tips I'm not personally great at the talking part of the club scene - I either go through dancing, or usually through a mingling party (not really dancing). Someone else can help you with that (and me). For taking her home: if you do get her to come home with you, and it feels like she would be weirded out by public transport, just blow the money on a cab, it'll streamline things. For getting her home with her friends there, it's pretty much a tossup. Assuming you've already isolated and escalated, y…	/r/seduction	23/01/14 08:33 AM
4	Let's talk about cheating I know seddits all about not being too invested in a relationship, but for your one friend, that's just kinda mean :/ I really don't know anyone that regularly cheats (if they did their relationship is already over). I mean, if you're into that, maybe talk it out with your gf about an open relationship? As someone else said, it really shows poor character.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 09:29 AM
1	Job interview game She'll probably be thinking of you in terms of a job candidate, not a single man. If you go for it and it doesn't work, you're never getting back with that company or any company that hears you pulled that shit in an interview. Be careful.	/r/seduction	20/01/14 09:25 AM
1	How to Follow Up (Question) You really don't have to. If she says she's coming to the party, solid, you'll see her there and get back where you left off. Most of seddit believes you can't build attraction through text. I agree to a pretty large extent, just use text for logistics, setting up next time together, and maybe jogging her memory of something you two exclusively did or experienced together that would be more personal (like, an inside joke. There's a word for these but I cant remember, saw it on some comment).	/r/seduction	20/01/14 09:22 AM
2	How to get over microjealousy? Been there before. Hard to say exactly what it is, but I feel you. Ex liked posts of musician on instagram, talks with her friends about how hot he is. For me, it was being way too needy. This was a red flag (for myself) and it spiraled out of control into me having anxiety attacks when she went out with friends. Horrible, I know. Since then, I've learned to respect myself. You like this girl, you've invested a lot in her, but just remember you have to have your own boundaries. Know that you wou…	/r/seduction	20/01/14 01:15 AM
1	Rave/EDM Show Game Nice. Just got my kickouttheepicmotherfucker tank :D	/r/seduction	23/12/13 08:20 PM
2	Rave/EDM Show Game If they're rolling, there isn't much game, it's just whatever. If you're happy, and they're happy, it goes from there. That being said, anyone going to LIC or Dada Life in Miami on the 27th and 28th??	/r/seduction	23/12/13 06:42 PM
10	How to act at a college party where you know few/no people? His point was less about drinking itself but more of as a common interest / icebreaker.	/r/seduction	21/12/13 02:28 PM
7	How to act at a college party where you know few/no people? True. Totally forgot the night I was by the keg and getting people to do keg stands / holding them up, you kinda automatically 'know' everyone then. Works well.	/r/seduction	21/12/13 01:38 PM
19	How to act at a college party where you know few/no people? Shots with strangers is a good call. Thanks, all around good advice.	/r/seduction	21/12/13 11:22 AM
19	She doesn't really want to be your number one This is so, so, so true. This is the advice I would give to anyone and everyone entering an LTR. This is the exact reason my almost 2-year LTR ended. I was too invested, she was my number one. I was willing to do anything for her and the relationship, which led to me being too investing in what she was doing, and ultimately being too clingy/controlling. It's so embarrassing and heartbreaking to know that this is why it ended, I'm still not even close to over it after two months. Please take this…	/r/seduction	21/12/13 10:07 AM
2	How to game in College/High School? Yeah, just talk to her. If not, what Cpt said, then "You seem pretty cool, I'd like to get to know you better" or something like that. I dont know what seddit's opinion on it is, but I've been reading Conquer your Campus (some random ebook) and it has been decently helpful.	/r/seduction	04/12/13 11:17 PM
1	Not ready for pickup in general? I think one of my main problems (and this is to everyone that replied too) is that I'm working on school or working almost all the time, and I'm so burnt out when I'm not. Which makes new hobbies or working out decently hard	/r/seduction	02/12/13 09:52 PM
6	how do you invite a girl back to your apt? If you ask "do you want to come back?", ASD's might go off. She doesn't want to go back explicitly to have sex with you, that's slutty. Even if she knows anything else is a poor excuse to have sex (and she wants to), she doesn't want to admit it, that's what sluts do. Try thinly veiled activities (most of these suggestions are from here). "Hey do you want to go watch X (movie/TV show)?" For this you've hopefully mentioned it earlier in the night. "These drinks suck. I have some nice wine at my p…	/r/seduction	19/11/13 05:19 AM
3	How can I become less of a judgmental asshole and relate to people better? (LONG?) To elaborate on number 5: I came to college from a very conservative family with consistently addictive personalities. I'm probably very susceptible to addiction too. Having a drink was really scary the first time, I was taught that it was explicitly bad. It's mere willpower to not be addicted / let it take over or even influence any part of your life. I can safely have nothing to drink some nights, have a couple drinks, or get pretty drunk. Aside from that: Have you tried parties? It didn't see…	/r/seduction	19/11/13 05:11 AM
1	How do you go from dancing with a girl to making out, on a dance floor were the music is too loud to talk? With this being the most common form of K-close I've gotten (if you count it like that), I can give some advice. I'm going to assume dancing = grinding. Start normal, pretty distanced. Just gradually escalate and start leaning into it, the front of your body is pressed against hers and you're crouching down low. Move your head in (for some reason I always move into the left shoulder). You should be crouched down a bit, bodies pressed, now start kind of breathing on her neck. NOT too intense. At …	/r/seduction	19/11/13 04:35 AM