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1	My GF is going on a trip with THREE MALE FRIENDS Dudeee I'm not gonna tell you what to do but hear my story out: Had a gf of 4 years, she had this male friend before we met. Constantly was told just a friend, spending time separately, if I wanted something from him it would have happened before ( similar to yours) Me being beta and thinking ok she does not have many girl friends (a lot of them married, moved away, became boring bla bla) so I allowed it. 4 years later get dumped for the guy, saying she caught feelings bla bla female vomiting bl…	/r/askTRP	26/11/20 10:33 PM
1	How do you deal with feeling guilty after someone dies Hey its completely normal man. Why do you think it is not normal ? When someone dies we fully realise how things in life are out of our control, how vulnerable we really are and how everything passes. You know you will never get back time to spend with this person and maybe you feel you could have done more, while they were here. Truth is, we all could do more and we are all flawed. Spend time with people you love and appreciate.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 10:25 AM
2	Do you guys trust your LTRS? I had a LTR I trusted fully, we were together 4 years untill she dumped me for a guy who was just a friend. That honestly broke me and changed me a little. I hope I can get back to trusting but I feel it will always lurk a little in the back of my head.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:23 AM
2	Mature/older redpillers, how many real friends do you have which you can trust? I have a couple. I always prefered to have a smaller circle of really good friends, than have 100's oh shallow friendships which turned out to be a good idea. Most people are early childhood and high school friends that I kept in touch with. I did lose a couple of them too, they either cut me off or I cut them off.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:16 AM
1	How common are flakes/let downs for you guys? Do they offer alternative dates ? It's pandemic dating,tough for a lot of folks dont worry about it, find out what you are doing wrong try to improove. Dont let it get to you bro.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:13 AM
1	Don't know what to do about this situation, if anything? Well she definitely finds him attractive for talking so much about him. This doesn't mean that he is banging her, maybe he gets attention from all the ladies there and their herd mentality kicks in and they all want a piece. I would definitely keep an eye on her, trust your gut. The way to make her stop talking is reward good behavior punish bad. When she talks about him, withdraw your attention, have a dont care attitude, start looking around doing other stuff, simply ignore. When she talks abo…	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:09 AM
1	[Advice] Need help with being assertive. Read no more mr nice guy Once you start setting boundaries and you didnt have any before, you immediately start overdoing it, this will balance itself out in the future. It's hard for me to judge this situation just by reading, I guess you asking about it means you know you overdid it. Just forgive yourself and give yourself some time and patience you will get there. Not every situation in life requires hostility and being strict. Just be a decent human being that doesnt mean everyone will walk …	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:03 AM
4	How do y’all feel about zinc? It's good for the immune system and overall energy. It helps keep the testosterone in your blood at an optimal level. Don't expect wonders though, it's not a magic pill that will turn you into a manly alpha man in a week. If you feel you have low test, start working out and fix your nutrition, get enough sleep etc..	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 08:26 AM
2	Is cold approach the only option left pretty much these days? Bad pics could be the issue not looks. Just saying.	/r/askTRP	13/11/20 08:53 PM
4	Is cold approach the only option left pretty much these days? Wtf how can you shut him down saying he's unattractive. You dont even know that, maybe he is doing something else wrong. Jesus this place can be demoralising sometimes..	/r/askTRP	13/11/20 08:05 PM
2	What does TRP think about the lockdown? It's not just you man. Everyone is suffering from this. In my country you can' t walk outside with someone that isnt your family or part of your household. Bars, cafes, shops all closed and it's winter time so its cold outside, dark, foggy, occasional rain and nighttime starts at 5 pm. Also police curfew after 9. Impossible to date anyone and most girls live either at home or with loads of roommates. So good luck hanging out anywhere. I just focus on work, reading and my fitness. Occasionally pl…	/r/askTRP	12/11/20 10:44 PM
2	An Abstract Question Im doing better but still not 100% sharp, one thing that helped me was going through the sub /breakups, you find a lot of people in similar situations but you need to know when it's time to leave it otherwise you will be in a loop of misery. One thing is accept it, let it all out like a little bitch dont feel weak for feeling it fully and let time do it's thing. Focus on other shit, maybe sports, hobbies just forget about women for a while. Also what do you feel caused the break up?	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 08:22 PM
2	An Abstract Question Jesus Christ dude, when I read your post I thought someone hacked my mind and was trolling me. I am in the exact same fucking situation man, like even the qualities you mentioned, how long you were together everything matches my situation like a photocopy. Freaked me out for a bit there. I wish you all the luck in life bro. We will get through this.	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 07:56 PM
2	Why should I pursue a higher SMV? How old are you bro ? If you feel like it isn't worth it and you want to pursue other stuff then do it Red pill gives you a lot of quality info but don't overthink it and don't take everything so literally. Yes some people are brainwashed and I can see how not understanding the whole point can ruin you. Red pill teaches you to work out which is good for you no matter what you want to do, it teaches you to improve your life and career. You can pursue a meaningful career which has purpose to you a…	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 07:40 PM
1	Are introverts beta? Not really. Maybe if you are shy and too quiet but I have friends who are introverted and they get girls.	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 07:19 PM
1	24 y/o (m) red pilled for more than 5 yrs, improving, but not getting laid anyways. What am I doing wrong? Are you going in outcome independent? Maybe you give off needy vibes or something. Hard to tell from what you have written. Try to relax a little.	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 07:17 PM
1	Is fapping to porn beta? Fap once a week and use your imagination. That's what Mark Manson suggests in Models. Allthough I don't think porn is bad once in a while and in moderation just like everything else in life. Maybe cut down porn to once a month ot something if you feel shitty jacking off to it	/r/askTRP	11/11/20 07:14 PM
8	Why are male friends a red flag? I would also classify male friends into 2 categories, some are just simping beta males, trying covertly to win her over. Being nice etc.. Those you don't need to worry about. The other friends are ones who occasionally send her flirty, sexual texts etc.. are open about it. If she doesn't shut those down once something like that comes up, you have a problem. Like a dude sending something sexual and her just laughing and shrugging it off. Then there is something more there. Also like someone above…	/r/askTRP	10/11/20 07:01 PM
2	How to overcome the imposter syndrome You have self esteem issues. I would kindly recommend a book that changed my life for the better. Its called 6 pillars of self esteem it even has exercises to improve your self esteem, it never gets mentioned here but trust me on it.	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 02:03 PM
1	Workout during second lockdown? Buy a bar in Decathlon put it between your doors and some cables and you are set. I made good gains just with those and will continue doing it because I am not a fan of gyms and they take up too much time for me personally.	/r/askTRP	31/10/20 09:03 AM
2	Found out that my now Ex cheated on me... I don't know. Its been a good year. I hope it does, just want her to feel what I felt but who cares, sometimes in life people get away with bad things etc. Sometimes the biggest asshole gets it all and the nicest person ever gets cancer and dies, that is how it is.	/r/askTRP	30/10/20 06:28 PM
3	Found out that my now Ex cheated on me... Hey. We were living together so I had to keep in touch for a while because there was a lot of shit that needed moving, plus she had some od her stuff at my place I had some at hers. After I settled that i kept it no contact, she sent me a message wishing me the best for my bday and a few months after that asking me a random question where I bought some hiking gear or some shit. That's it. If you are hopeful of getting together again I would advise against it. I wouldn't take her back even if I w…	/r/askTRP	30/10/20 01:24 PM
3	Plating 18~19 year olds when you are in your late 20s? What's your take on it? What exactly are you worried about here ? I'm 29 and went out with a 20 year old,she loved the maturity and me taking charge, I do also look like im 25 so that helps. If you aren't banging underaged girls then I see no problem. From the younger ones I do however get the best results with more mature girls who don't act like they are 14 anymore, because a lot of them are still silly when they are 20 and I just can't deal with that, it annoys me.	/r/askTRP	30/10/20 09:43 AM
27	Found out that my now Ex cheated on me... Not gonna lie. First 2 months I was devastated. Couldn't sleep, couldnt eat, couldnt watch porn because all I saw was huge dicks penetrating my girl. Main thing is accept feeling shitty, the anger, fucking use it as fuel, I worked out like mad, calisthenics every fucking day, I read a lot of books and I hung out with my buddies a lot. Worked on my business, traveled a bit and meditated. You will need time, and shit is gonna come in waves, you will be feeling good for 3 weeks and then one day som…	/r/askTRP	29/10/20 12:09 PM
8	Found out that my now Ex cheated on me... Don't do it bro trust me.not worth it. Channel the anger for something better, if you need to let it out go fucking sprint, go punch your pillow or a boxing bag while listening to agressive metal music or something. My ex I thought she was the one, she always talked about getting marries, was amazing in bed, did the cooking, laundry, almost no fighting. I was madly in love. What she did was go cheat on me with a guy who was just a friend from the beginning before we met. I allowed the friendship…	/r/askTRP	29/10/20 12:03 PM
75	Found out that my now Ex cheated on me... I had a similar thing happen to me. Just let it go bro, don't do stupid shit that may cause you more issues along the way. Your ego and pride are hurt, you tell yourself how could she leave an alpha like me for a loser like that, maybe you even think that the loser neighbor is better than you in some ways and that hurts. Just move on, bitches are emotional and irrational, reflect which mistakes you made in your relationship and improve so you minimize the chance of this happening again.	/r/askTRP	29/10/20 11:14 AM
1	I need drugs to have fun You need to find things/hobbies that you will enjoy doing. Best way is just to try different things untill you find something. Don't dismiss things before trying them. I recommend atleast 1 hobby that involves physical activity, some exercise is gonna release a lot of feel good chemicals. The gym gets mentioned a lot here, its a good place to meet new people aswell. If you get bored of things easily like I do, have multiple options for example I enjoy hiking, cycling, basketball so I just altern…	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 09:42 AM