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| 1 | A girl sent me a snap (indicated by the red square), and it played her short clip. Right after it ended, it went back to my chat list and that girl’s chat deleted itself. The chat simply disappeared. Did this girl set it to block me after I opened their snap?Well, she lives in a different country than me. I found her on a chatting site. I guess she liked me enough to want to take it to snap chat, but soon realized/accepted it was going nowhere (since none of us mentioned or alluded to an actual relationship), so she wanted to cut the thread. I can’t really blame her, but the move she pulled was pretty shocking and happened (seemingly automatically) after she sent me a snap of herself. I knew it was going nowhere though lol, so that helps me through … | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | A girl sent me a snap (indicated by the red square), and it played her short clip. Right after it ended, it went back to my chat list and that girl’s chat deleted itself. The chat simply disappeared. Did this girl set it to block me after I opened their snap?Oh, I don’t mean the snap (video clip) or chat messages being gone. I meant the whole actual chat disappearing, on its own, from the main screen chat list. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | When I’m massively in state, I feel like I can’t control my impulses (my ‘horsepower’) anymore. It’s like I become overly obnoxious, internal dialogue/moderation disappears completely, and I do dumb things I otherwise wouldn’t have done while out of state (since then I can think twice).Cool, thanks bud! | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | When I’m massively in state, I feel like I can’t control my impulses (my ‘horsepower’) anymore. It’s like I become overly obnoxious, internal dialogue/moderation disappears completely, and I do dumb things I otherwise wouldn’t have done while out of state (since then I can think twice).That’s a good one. I’m curious, what did you mean when you said experience would address sloppy behaviour while unstifled? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | When I’m massively in state, I feel like I can’t control my impulses (my ‘horsepower’) anymore. It’s like I become overly obnoxious, internal dialogue/moderation disappears completely, and I do dumb things I otherwise wouldn’t have done while out of state (since then I can think twice).Nice. At least that job gets you some opportunities to socialize. Sounds good. But don’t you go back to being stuck in your head the next day after being in state on a night out? It sounds like the unstifling process is something that you’ll always have to do, because being in state isn’t forever. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | When I’m massively in state, I feel like I can’t control my impulses (my ‘horsepower’) anymore. It’s like I become overly obnoxious, internal dialogue/moderation disappears completely, and I do dumb things I otherwise wouldn’t have done while out of state (since then I can think twice).Thanks for commenting. Curious, how is experience going to address it? Also, do you mean to say I’ll reach point where I’ll be unstifled all the time and won’t need the unstifling process to get me into deep state? From what I thought, I thought you will always need to get into state, but that the amount of time that it takes to reach state becomes less when you can become better at calling upon it (which is something else I’m actually wondering how people get better at). | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?Right!? Use it or lose it. It ain’t the size of the boat, it’s the motion in the ocean! Lol. (Where did that come from!??? 😝 haha jk) | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?That’s a novel way to look at it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?Interesting take on it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?Yeah — that’s an interesting perspective. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?Actually, I’m not any of those. I’m not sure if anyone reported/flagged my question, but please refrain from commenting if it doesn’t concern the question. Lots of great answers here that I read through. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [Ladies] Is it a turnoff if a guy shows signs of stage fright on stage public speaking? What goes on in your mind if you’re in the audience watching?I mean for some reason when a guy goes on stage, their instincts are to impress everyone in the audience (especially the women!). It’s more pressuring, as a guy, knowing that women are in the audience (and that it’s not just guys in the audience). | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?To your edit: It just feels like going that extra obsessive mile with the self-analysis will help you get really good at game. And I appreciate your candour! Thanks for giving your thoughts. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?Thanks for giving details. Yeah, I can see that I’m quite obsessed with crafting my game. Lol. I was using RSD instructors as a reference point since since Owen and Julien are both great at what they do, and yet Julien still gets the better reactions and has the better command over his behaviours. And in terms of reactions, I feel like Julien does monitor for reactions and calibrates to them, which is what makes it feel like an important quality to cultivate for anyone gaming (despite not being … | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?Can you please elaborate? | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?Haha sorry, I realize it was all over the place. I actually wasn’t all that sure how to articulate my issue, so that’s probably the reason why... | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | They say, ‘learn from your references’ and that’s how you get better at game. How are you supposed to recognize what needs improvement, and how will you know if you’re getting better at implementing improvements (esp if you’re getting the girl anyway)?Well actually, I just want to piggyback on your point — rejections realistically could be interpreted either way — that either you weren’t presenting the best version of yourself to her (in which case there could be something in your interaction to isolate and improve on for the next times), or that you two wouldn’t have been compatible anyway (even if you were presenting the best possible version of yourself). But in either case I think there can be things to be taken from the reference experie… | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | They say, ‘learn from your references’ and that’s how you get better at game. How are you supposed to recognize what needs improvement, and how will you know if you’re getting better at implementing improvements (esp if you’re getting the girl anyway)?Great. Thanks | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | They say, ‘learn from your references’ and that’s how you get better at game. How are you supposed to recognize what needs improvement, and how will you know if you’re getting better at implementing improvements (esp if you’re getting the girl anyway)?Thanks for commenting. It sounds like external feedback is the only way to go about this. Aside from that, I guess you have to learn to be in-tune enough with your own actions and vibes that you can self-correct (according to how you idealize your game to look like) and notice areas where things could be better (even though you’re doing the bare minimum and it seems to be working) over time? It’s just difficult and kind of a grey area (subjective) to learn how to improve once you’re already gett… | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Is being in a flow state supposed to be more exhausting than being stifled? And why?Doesn’t flow state bring you to the present moment? And when we’re in the present moment, every bodily experience feels even more vivid; I would imagine this means more exhausting to the mind and body? As an unconventional example: Let’s say I’m at a university lecture in class. It’a easier for me to sit patiently for a few hours when I’m stifled and I’m my head. For some reason I have better access to my mental strength, although I would be too terrified to have to go up to the front, had the t… | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do I lose control of my mannerisms/speech when I’m in state (and out of my own head)? I’m like a loose cannon. However, when I’m in my head (i.e. “stifled”), I feel more in-control and calculative, and can actually think about what to say to women — but it comes out in a stifled way.It sounds almost like Ch. 5 of that book teaches you how to summon your own vibe via imagination, and then to emotionally frame yourself in your social interactions according to that vibe. From what I think I understand, it will explain how to “imagine a calmer vibe”, which would then become a reality when I truly believe and embody that vibe (which would ultimately slow down my impulses, and give me the illusion of control over them — but then wouldn’t that just stifle me all over again if I’m … | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do I lose control of my mannerisms/speech when I’m in state (and out of my own head)? I’m like a loose cannon. However, when I’m in my head (i.e. “stifled”), I feel more in-control and calculative, and can actually think about what to say to women — but it comes out in a stifled way.So you mean do the meditations both when you’re in state and out of state? And then the effects of meditation would get carried into your in-state state regardless of when you did it? | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do I lose control of my mannerisms/speech when I’m in state (and out of my own head)? I’m like a loose cannon. However, when I’m in my head (i.e. “stifled”), I feel more in-control and calculative, and can actually think about what to say to women — but it comes out in a stifled way.Do this while stifled, and then its effects would work when you get into state? How can this translate to having an effect while I’m in state? Being in state feels like it basically turns of your (over)thinking mind, and hence, your strategic mind. | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I flirt with a girl (while in state and talkative), she blows me in the club washroom, and afterwards my overall demeanour becomes completely “homebody”. Not talkative anymore, HOWEVER, I’m way more present-to-the-moment and relaxed. Is that raw sense of serenity and comfort my real personality?Maybe you’re on to something there. That seems like a common issue | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I flirt with a girl (while in state and talkative), she blows me in the club washroom, and afterwards my overall demeanour becomes completely “homebody”. Not talkative anymore, HOWEVER, I’m way more present-to-the-moment and relaxed. Is that raw sense of serenity and comfort my real personality?Haha not exactly related to my question, but yeah I do | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | I flirt with a girl (while in state and talkative), she blows me in the club washroom, and afterwards my overall demeanour becomes completely “homebody”. Not talkative anymore, HOWEVER, I’m way more present-to-the-moment and relaxed. Is that raw sense of serenity and comfort my real personality?Even if I had something to brag about, I wouldn’t care to. I was actually asking a question, but I guess it’s quite vague and obtuse, as someone mentioned. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Sure, that’s another way to look at it too | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Hey man, it sounds like it could actually be a few different things. I was thinking it might be that she wanted to play hard to get in return, because she thought you might’ve been playing hard to get with what you did with your message. She may have been worried about coming across as more interested in you than you were in her (in her own mind). But I’m not sure about her personality type… Personality type really matters in this case, because it helps you interpret why she did what she did. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Have you found that calling them out or ignoring them doesn’t work as well as low investment, attraction-assuming texts? | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?By sending low investment texts, do you mean to distinguish this from calling her out? Do you mean low investment as in continuing to msg her as if nothing went wrong (the opposite of calling her out)? | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Hm sucks man. Good luck. Learning experience, eh? | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?No, being modest, I’ve still got a lot to learn | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Yeah man I see see what you mean about that. Thing is, responding to a brick wall with another brick wall sometimes just plain makes her not care 2x the amount (depending on her personality type). My goal to begin with is not very plausible, since I’m trying to get at as many women as possible (while paradoxically trying to keep a frame of abundance). I guess it’s just a gamble of whether ignoring her reaction to you will work or not, particularly when the net I’m casting is this wide and I’m tr… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?True dat! But surprisingly, even some of the most mature and perceptive ones have chinks in their armour — it just seem to take a more advanced level of the same type of game (or a longer time of it) to get through to them. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?That’s def a method. My guess is it only works on the more broken type of women, since they crave the validation the most and are willing to work for it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Yeah calling is wayyyy more personal and give them a more real experience. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Yeah, I see what you mean about all the ‘gray areas’ — they’re particularly what I’ve been thinking about too. Leaving a girl, or having been left by a girl, on read can be interpreted in a variety of ways (by either the girl or guy), especially when it involves different personality types/moral value systems. While some women might be lured back in by the allure and mystery of being left on read, others would completely give up (due to ego and not caring to stick their neck out any further unle… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Interesting. Thanks for elaborating | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?I wanted to see what kind of approach was working for others. I wasn’t knocking your approach dude. If that kind of an approach works, I’d be curious to see what kind of women it works on (because they may be different from the kind of women I’m talking to). But if an approach does work, I’m totally open to hearing about it with open ears (regardless of my initial impression of it). | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?Maybe inhumane wasn’t the right word, but it just seems quite far off. That’s not to criticize the approach or anything, (because if it works, great), but it feels a little too aloof (even when they left you on read to begin with). Lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Which one has a better effect on women who leave your text messages on ‘read’? Calling them out on it? Or assuming attraction and continuing to add value like nothing happened?It just feels like not caring at all comes across as completely inhumane, even to damaged women themselves (who would normally be attracted to that approach). I’ve personally had the most success with luring them back in with lighthearted teases and jokes (potentially busting their balls, although not overdone to seem try-hard/desperate for their attention back), at times with a nuance of guilt-tripping. I guess different things work with different personalities, but I was curious to see what wo… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting better results by being calculative with how I text women, and not just being authentic to how I would normally speak live, in-person (where you don’t have as much time to think about what to say)?I see what you mean, brah! Nice. Power to you 👌 | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting better results by being calculative with how I text women, and not just being authentic to how I would normally speak live, in-person (where you don’t have as much time to think about what to say)?It’s just interesting because I see that someone like RSD Julien (you may be familiar with him and Real Social Dynamics) does have a degree of people-catering dancing monkey in his gaming persona (and even in his seminar personae), and he seems to be a very successful pickup artist. Of course, he doesn’t advocate being an entertainer with women when it isn’t congruent to the person you inherently are, but for some reason I still see a nuance of catering and performing in his game. I’m not sure i… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Why am I getting better results by being calculative with how I text women, and not just being authentic to how I would normally speak live, in-person (where you don’t have as much time to think about what to say)?This sounds like an easy trap for guys to fall into. Like they might be a champ at texting, but then not know how to carry that same attractiveness into real life (because it may ultimately contradict their authentic personality on some level — which is a benefit of the doubt that the girl receives when she’s reading your texts, since she can imagine your delivery of them, but it isn’t good when she doesn’t see/feel that same delivery in real life when actually chatting live with you, where you … | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Why am I getting better results by being calculative with how I text women, and not just being authentic to how I would normally speak live, in-person (where you don’t have as much time to think about what to say)?Yeah I am finding success with texting (because I can text the perfect things at the perfect times), but then how the hell am I supposed to be that same person when in-person? No one can riff like it’s a Hollywood movie script like that (at least in-person). As a side note — from what I’ve seen, loads of women text like they speak (even though it’s very predictable and not that glamorous to read). They never have to fret over saying the perfect thing over text (or in-person, for that matter). It… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Why am I getting better results by being calculative with how I text women, and not just being authentic to how I would normally speak live, in-person (where you don’t have as much time to think about what to say)?Sure, but in terms of what? Making your live, in-person conversations match how you can calculatively text in a text message convo? Do you mean they would eventually match each other with enough practice? | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?I think abundance actually is an attractive quality for anyone to have at any point in their life, and counterintuitively can be an attraction amplifier even when exclusive with a girl (like you mentioned about other women being attracted to married men, for various reasons). I don’t necessarily mean to tap into that abundance and use it to bang bombshells on the side, but it’s quite healthy to have that self-assured abundance mindset generally in life (while staying smart and loyal with it — we… | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?👌 Yeah man, valid points! Conditioning ourselves to think abundantly like this, I wonder how the exclusivity of marriage would be affected by this mindset. Do you think it would be an unhealthy mindset to carry into the married phase of life? | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?Thanks for empathizing. You know, I was reflecting on that too. I was thinking maybe I was overboard with all the compliments. It didn’t bother me that much when she unfriended me since I decided to assume that compliment-showering frame from a place of abundance and not care that much if I lost the girl due to recklessness (and I hope she ultimately comes to reflect on that too, and perhaps re-connect with a stronger attraction, maybe lol). But then I’m not sure why she sent me a live pic capti… | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?Actually, I was initially going to screenshot and post it here for the entertainment aspect of it (so it would get more attention, and in turn, more help on this sub). But what I can do is describe the gist of what I wrote. I basically met a girl on a chatting app and invited her to Snapchat. She wasn’t a very talkative girl (on the first app, and the same case on snap) and seemed quite cold and unresponsive right off the bat. I just chalked this up to her being shy, afraid of being judged, and … | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 03:41 AM |
| -2 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?What does that even mean lol | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | [Snapchat] I sent my crush a message, and she opened it. But the arrow is now gray for some reason. Does this mean she removed me from her friends list? If so, why does it still show we’re friends when I long press on her chat?Thanks for the quick answer. I sent her an additional message and it says waiting for her to add me back as a friend. So pretty much exactly what you were saying. Thanks again. That snap count thing is a pretty easy way to know! | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do canned lines/scripts work on Tinder for lays, but don’t work in real life as well as real conversations do?Yeah both circumstances def give you ways to emotionally spike women. I figure this is partly why many married women want to cheat on their spouses, as a side note. Because life‘s responsibilities, monotony, and potentially a serious/logical, providing husband are weighing down on them and they feel like they want that carefree vibe back in their life. A carefree guy giving canned lines in his 20s on tinder definitely sparks some of that into her life. Although the best of all worlds is a guy wh… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do canned lines/scripts work on Tinder for lays, but don’t work in real life as well as real conversations do?What do you mean by that? I don’t really get what you mean by throwaway vs immediate reaction | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do canned lines/scripts work on Tinder for lays, but don’t work in real life as well as real conversations do?Do you mean they were taken in by such comments on tinder or in real life? And I’m guessing that would be because those women get more of an emotional spike (and love that feeling of thrill and carefreeness) with the guys delivering those lines (with better subcommunications), than from intelligent men being typical and boring and logical in their typical and boring and logical banter (with terrible, limited, stifled subcommunications). Universally all women want that emotional spike, which is s… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do canned lines/scripts work on Tinder for lays, but don’t work in real life as well as real conversations do?That’s a great answer actually. I was also thinking nice to meet you displays authenticity and social intelligence, both which I’d figure should be more attractive (shows more value) than nonsensical, recycled lines (with no follow-up banter), even to women who just want sex (in real life and on Tinder). | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | I (27) met a girl (27) via an anon chatting app. Pretty long and flirty convo, but she was also nervous about her husband finding out. She feels trapped in that relationship and wants fun. Is Snapchat safeguarded enough from him potentially finding out?Thanks for pointing those things out. Why am I not as in control in this situation? | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.I wonder where he got the inspiration to learn that kind of emotional/behavioural control. He was not at all like this when he first started training with Owen. I’ve seen videos of him when he was first starting out and his gaming style was very linear and repetitive — there wasn’t much uniqueness to his game, and he was basically linearly regurgitating what he saw Owen doing with the women. Julien hardly brought this dynamic control of his emotions into teaching/assisting seminars in his early … | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.I wonder where he got the inspiration to learn how to that, and how he trained to be able to do it. Almost sounds like he has an artificial control over which emotions he can summon on demand. Sounds almost like a psychopath | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.Wow, thanks for the firsthand insights. Interesting to see the perspective on an actual student. I actually have seen a video about women Julien has dated from one of his programs. He mentions that he dated several women and alternated between vibes (so to speak), and got interesting reactions from these women. What had me confused was how he went from going ‘full asshole’ (in one of his relationships) to the ‘gentleman vibe’ he can also exhibit (and now has brought into his marriage). Like I me… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.Most people who are embodying their realest vibe can’t broadcast that many different facets of it… I was starting to wonder whether these vibes were more calibrations of his true personality, or just great ‘method acting’ (method acting involves fully embodying a character role and almost literally becoming that character for a given period of time). | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.But how are his vibes so different from each other? Wouldn’t broadcasting such a plethora of vibes on demand be emotionally exhausting? | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.Great answer! Thanks. It must be emotionally exhausting for someone to be able to calibrate their personality to that extent around different people and in different situations. Most people don’t calibrate themselves that much, and you basically get the same vibe from them in every scenario. They also tend to genuinely react to different social situations, while Julien seems to have the skill to be able to summon the appropriate emotion and congruently broadcast it (he seems to be in good contro… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.I’m just using the same word Julien used to describe it in one of his videos (when someone in the audience asked how/why Julien wears different vibes during different seminars). Julien referred to it as “summoning a vibe”. | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How to summon a different vibe in different interactions? RSD Julien seemed very good at this, and brought a different vibe into game and seminars.Doesn’t summoning the vibe work the same for any vibe? | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | I want to keep conducting my own pickup seminars, but how can I do this with Covid social distancing measures? I notice RSD instructors are still doing seminars in-person somehow?Thanks for posting! | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to keep conducting my own pickup seminars, but how can I do this with Covid social distancing measures? I notice RSD instructors are still doing seminars in-person somehow?Haha thanks, man! Encouragement and support from all angles is always appreciated 😉 You know, I even entertained the idea that he might have every person Covid tested before they enter the seminar room… But then I remembered how expensive that would probably be (to say the least!). | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I want to keep conducting my own pickup seminars, but how can I do this with Covid social distancing measures? I notice RSD instructors are still doing seminars in-person somehow?Yep, hopefully times get better in the not-so-distant-future. I’m actually not even setup online with the stuff yet. I’m pretty much just doing it unofficially via word of mouth and haven’t even set up a website yet. Although I do see the benefits of doing such stuff online for the future. Yeah, I know that Julien is participating in the free cybertours, but I’m curious to know how he has been doing it in person recently during Covid. His seminars seem to be a huge means of delivering his conten… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to keep conducting my own pickup seminars, but how can I do this with Covid social distancing measures? I notice RSD instructors are still doing seminars in-person somehow?Who knows if things are even getting close to becoming better ☹️. I think it’s safest and most effective to operate from a perspective of assuming it’s going to stay like this for months, or even years, to come... so, work with it! 👍 Thanks for the suggestion, as well! That makes sense to use quarantine time to attack whichever aspects I can. Thanks for the thorough answer. I’m still very curious to know how Julien is doing all these in accordance with Covid. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:47 AM |
| 1 | I want to keep conducting my own pickup seminars, but how can I do this with Covid social distancing measures? I notice RSD instructors are still doing seminars in-person somehow?Well from what I’ve seen on Julien’s Instagram stories, he’s still doing in-person seminars? And working out at the gym without a mask? And general traveling without a mask. Maybe these insta stories were older — I’m not sure exactly. Isn’t that completely unsafe when it comes to seminars? | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Does texting reflect an inauthentic/incongruent personality, since we can take the time to compose what we are writing (with potentially incongruent emojis, “!” and a sense of humour)? One might not be the same in-person.For some reason I feel like texting exactly as you speak is SO incredibly boring and in a sense, predictable (even despite having interesting things to talk about). Reading well crafted text, that doesn’t sound like everyday speak, feels like reading an entertaining novel that keeps you on your toes and causes you to use your mental faculties (creativity, etc.) to come up with things that veer from the usual social script. But I do realize that this is very unrealistic to maintain and carry over… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Does texting reflect an inauthentic/incongruent personality, since we can take the time to compose what we are writing (with potentially incongruent emojis, “!” and a sense of humour)? One might not be the same in-person.Actually, this may seem like a long shot, but I think technology may have even improved/encouraged authentic communication in some ways too. Vulnerability and self-awareness seem to be big things these days, while in the past they were things people may have been extra reluctant to express. Social media seem to spread these pervasively, and people, globally, seem to be bandwagoning on the idea of authenticity, which in turn, I’d figure, is reflecting on how they then choose to communicate in the… | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Does texting reflect an inauthentic/incongruent personality, since we can take the time to compose what we are writing (with potentially incongruent emojis, “!” and a sense of humour)? One might not be the same in-person.Sorry, I’m a bit confused.. what did you mean about that part about the benefits of speaking to texting reversed? Also, is this what you were referring to as my main point? I’m also quite curious what you mean by “authentically spoken”. Do you mean people had better social skills back then, whereas nowadays communication is hindered and undermined by the inauthenticity of technology? | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Does texting reflect an inauthentic/incongruent personality, since we can take the time to compose what we are writing (with potentially incongruent emojis, “!” and a sense of humour)? One might not be the same in-person.Totally — I see your point. Spontaneous can also be authentic, for sure. But I was thinking that for the most part, people put their idealized version of themselves forth when texting, and that they can’t always back that up in reality. It’s just a lot easier and less consequential to use the inherent advantages of texting (time to think and respond, edit what you want to say to best serve any objectives, etc.) to bring that idealized version of oneself to life, when, much of the time, that can’… | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Does texting reflect an inauthentic/incongruent personality, since we can take the time to compose what we are writing (with potentially incongruent emojis, “!” and a sense of humour)? One might not be the same in-person.I actually had a thought about that too. But I was thinking it’s a lot easier to get away with manipulation (so to speak) when done over text, since it gives you that inherent advantage of time to intelligently reflect on the message and respond most optimally (to further whatever objective you have). You also don’t have to worry about your facial language or vocal tonality giving you away, or about them potentially being incongruent with your message. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How can I sprinkle in playful banter and humour (and go on side tangents) without it interfering with my logical thought processes? (Flirting and public speaking)What if it’s just a personality type where joking around doesn’t come naturally to you (and not necessarily an indication of low social IQ)? You may have an adequate social IQ, but not have the natural inclination to express that outwardly. I guess then it’s recommended to use banter as a tool on your social tool belt? | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How can I sprinkle in playful banter and humour (and go on side tangents) without it interfering with my logical thought processes? (Flirting and public speaking)Are you referring to the serious personality type as being more advantageous when it comes to achieving goals aimed towards one’s well-being? Sorry, didn’t quite get what you meant.. | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How can I sprinkle in playful banter and humour (and go on side tangents) without it interfering with my logical thought processes? (Flirting and public speaking)I just feel like that serious personality type doesn’t go as far in life, generally speaking (but then again, the definition of success is subjective for each person). (You may be thinking about various successful serious, gung-ho entrepreneurs at this point... lol. But even they have their insecurities.) Even if I were to be that serious person I may naturally and comfortably be, I would always know there’s something ‘better’ beyond the curtain of life. Just look at the dating scene, as a quick… | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How can I sprinkle in playful banter and humour (and go on side tangents) without it interfering with my logical thought processes? (Flirting and public speaking)What do you mean? Could you elaborate on that? | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What benefits do you get from being in your head vs. out of your head? How do you shift from one to the other on a daily basis?Did you mean to link something in your comment? I see a “(here)”, but nothing is actually there. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | What benefits do you get from being in your head vs. out of your head? How do you shift from one to the other on a daily basis?I actually don’t mind those things. I know that it comes with the territory. I was just particularly curious about the in your own head versus out of your own head aspect of it. I wasn’t necessarily trying to ask about how to avoid them. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | What benefits do you get from being in your head vs. out of your head? How do you shift from one to the other on a daily basis?Yes, that makes a lot of sense — without action, theory means close to nothing. However, I’m a little hesitant to start acting since I’m not sure whether it will be as effective as any alternatives. I guess I was just hoping for a sustainable closure to this issue. I was surprised I couldn’t find much about it on Reddit in general. Thanks for your two cents! | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | [Julien’s Different Persona Vibes] Julien seems to have become very proficient at summoning a different vibe for different styles of game, and even for different seminars when presenting. Isn’t this emotionally taxing?I’d be curious to see that video! It could potentially be that Tyler had really warmed her up, and that Julien tipped her over the edge. But it also seems plausible that Julien could’ve done it all on his own since he does know how to wear a lot of emotion in his facial expressions (and as we know, women are primarily reactive to emotions). | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [Julien’s Different Persona Vibes] Julien seems to have become very proficient at summoning a different vibe for different styles of game, and even for different seminars when presenting. Isn’t this emotionally taxing?Where did you learn that from? | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | [Julien’s Different Persona Vibes] Julien seems to have become very proficient at summoning a different vibe for different styles of game, and even for different seminars when presenting. Isn’t this emotionally taxing?Haha I’ve seen a lot of Julien’s videos back then, and I’ve never actually seen one where he describes his eye contact making them wet. Wonder which that one is And I figured Julien was making boatloads of money through transformation mastery (in addition to whatever else he has selling right now). He only advertises it like every free tour. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:19 AM |
| 1 | [Julien’s Different Persona Vibes] Julien seems to have become very proficient at summoning a different vibe for different styles of game, and even for different seminars when presenting. Isn’t this emotionally taxing?I mean you make it sound like he’s filthy rich... isn’t he also scraping by, just like everyone else? | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 07:30 AM |
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