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RantDaveTheDrummer802/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 04:06 PM
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DaveTheDrummer802/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 09:01 AM
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I've had a sexless marriage since Covid
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 10:53 AM
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And the eventual "he doctored them" complaints
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 10:53 AM
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I tried that experiment years ago and the results ended with me voluntarily sleeping on the couch since. I've been watching HappyWifeschool on Youtube, you should too. The entire vibe of the family is a result of the wife. You will never have a happy family if your wife cannot find her own happiness. There is nothing you, as a good man, can do about it. She will continualy blame you for everything wrong in the marriage. My wife has been in camp victim foerever, moreso since we stopped having chi…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 02:47 PM
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This will not work. Get to a lawyer pronto. Your wife will be happier because you did.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 04:06 PM
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If you are a good father, then I don't understand how they can just suddenly do that. I'm lucky because my wife is so lazy, she hardly wants the kids 50% of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 04:00 PM
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Search for HappyWifeSchool on TikTok. Eye opening for me, at least.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 10:14 AM
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There is. It was me looking for a small sign that she still loves me enough to do something nice for me. I can't remember the last time it happened, and I was under the assumption this was a very, very, VERY easy way for her to show some sort of love towards me. I keep looking/hoping for these signs, but ther are none.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 01:07 PM
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Yet women expect men to "take hints" all the time. The mere fact that I mentioned skipping buying the eggs literally as they were getting into the car, I would think I wouldn't have to follow that up with, "Hey, do you think you could pick up eggs?"
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 10:29 AM
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I responded calmly but inside I was seething mad.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 10:25 AM
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Still married, kids are the only reason Im staying.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 10:25 AM
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Which is the only reason why I'm staying married, currently.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 10:22 AM
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No, she didn't have work that day. I, on the other hand, was trying to get home quickly after working overnight/overtime so I could see my kids before they left for school, and I mentioned I skipped buying eggs in order to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 11:56 PM
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It is really about me looking for any sign that she still loves me. The store was on the way home, and it was an easy way for her to take literally one minute to do something nice for me. I can't remember the last time she did anything nice just for me and I was hoping for a spark of hope, even though I knew it wasn't going to happen. When I got home from work today she went to the pet store immediately, and is now sitting in another room. We've spent probably 10 minutes in the same room since I…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 11:51 PM
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It isn't. Iwant her to show me she loves me at least enough to make a 1 minute stop. There is clearly no love left.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:55 PM
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I do. I do nice things for her and when she doesn't reciprocate, I'm like, what the hell?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:54 PM
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I had just gotten hom e from working an overnight shift. My arrival time at home coincided with my wife bringing the kids to school. I had just caught them as I pulled up, and I mentioned how I skipped stopping at the store to get eggs so I could see the kids before school. She said, "Yea, we do need eggs," then loaded the kids in the car and came back with no eggs. The store is literally on the way back from the school. If the situation was reversed, I would have 100% stopped and got eggs. Why?…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:26 PM
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I mentioned it right before she left. I was coming home from working an overnight and wanted to get home to catch the kids before they went to school, so I didn''t stop for eggs. That's what I told her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:21 PM
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I needed a place to rant.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:18 PM
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I keep looking for small signs that she still loves me at least a little, and there are none.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:17 PM
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The main problem I have is that I am looking for any sign that my wife still loves me enough to do something like buy eggs for me, when clearly she doesn't. If I knew she wanted eggs , I would have 100% stopped to get eggs.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:16 PM
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This is just another example of her not wanting to do something nice for me. I keep looking for signs oof love, there are none.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:13 PM
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Seperationis the beginning of divorce; she is already gone dude. The quicker you accept it, the better off you will be. She's also been thinking of doing this stuff for a while, which is why it happened so early in the seperation.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 02:56 PM
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Half of marriages end up in divorce, but what is the percentage of couples staying in an unhappy marriage for children, money, or religious reasons? 20%? That would mean 70% of marriages are failures. Marriage is a sham and no man should ever get married.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 02:42 PM
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I wish I chose a wife who didnt focus on the negative part of any and every situation
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 02:39 PM
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I was too nice
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 02:27 PM
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My wife doesn't sit next to me ever, and when I sit next to her, he body language shows she doesn't want me there. So now, every chance I get, I sit right next to her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 01:13 PM
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Things changed for us almost immediately after we decided to stop having children. Lack of sex wasn't the first thing, it was lack of any romantic gestures. It took me a while to realize it had happened, but when I did, it was heartbreaking, realizing all sex was just duty sex, first to reel me in, then, to have children, and after that, for pity/duty. She was 32 when I met her, and her baby clock was ticking HARD. She knew her situation, whether it was subconsiously or not: I had to be the one …
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 02:17 PM
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It's because we crave romanticism (is that a word)? My life has been devoid of any romantic aspects for a very, very long time now; my wife hasn't voluntarily touched me in any way for years. Something as trivial as our feet touching, she wants nothing of it. She sits on the exact opposite of the couch, even when I sit in the middle. She says she is sad that our kids are growing out of snuggling, but I haven't. The truth is, she doesn't want to snuggle with me. She doesn't want to touch me. I am…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 11:16 AM
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I haven't had sex with my wife since 2020
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 06:35 PM
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My father is one of the most selfish people I've ever known. He didn't teach me one thing as I grew up. I have never hung out with my father one on one. Ever. He puts his needs above everyone else's everytime, without fail. So no
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 06:19 PM
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I am never, ever getting married again.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 06:59 PM
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I have not cheated, but I also have zero game. If I found myself in the right situation, I don't think I could help myself. I crave romantic attention SO much right now. Even just hand holding.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/25 06:07 PM
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Unfortunately once divorce proceedings start, it's already beyobd saving.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 04:50 PM
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Find a job that pays under the table
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 02:50 PM
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Working out is a really, really great therapy for being down in the dumps.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 02:44 PM
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My wife would continually talk about a married man that she worked with, and the fact that he wasn't happy with his wife. Their views differ a lot, and she hardly talks about him anymore, but it wouldn't surprise me if they had a quick make-out session in an elevator ride and then one of them pulling back saying, "No, we can't."
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 05:00 PM
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It is....to late for him.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 11:24 AM
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You will only get your kids every other weekend. Violence is not the answer. Self control is. If you had some, you most likely would have got every weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 11:22 AM
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I dont know if my wife truly realizes that she has no idea how to run a household on her own. I feel like she thinks she can, and filing for divorce would "show me." Meanwhile she's never touched a trash bag, kitty litter, a lawn mower, or a bill. If she files for divorce to "teach me a lesson" it would backfire immensely. Just like it did for her mother.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 11:13 AM
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My plan is to go on a cruise with some friends
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 06:03 PM
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I dont even think/care about what my current wife is doing, and with whom. Whatever makes her happy because it certainly isnt me and the kids
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/25 10:47 AM
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I'm waiting for my kids to ask me why I married her and what was I thinking. They see how she is
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/25 02:51 AM
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My wife hasnt tried to lure me with anything. She's driving me (and everyone else) away
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/25 02:50 AM
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I'm in a great situation then, because my wife just got a promotion and will start making more than me
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 04:37 PM
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My wife is not a good mother, she's not a good housekeeper, she's not a good friend. She's an average employee. My kids are starting to pick up on the fact that she focuses on the negative aspect of every single thing, and the fact that she is verbally abusive. They favor me over her. She is not a good housekeeper. I do 95% of all the work around the house. I cook. I clean. I do the laundry. I am the repair man, the janitor, the plumber, the yard man. There is absolutely no way she would be able…
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 04:29 PM
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She responds by putting blame on me for everything
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 02:02 PM
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My wife makes sure I don't see her naked. She turns away if I'm in a room and she is changing a shirt. She is not interested in seeing me naked, or touch me, even though I've gotten ripped in the past year. She doesn't want me seeing HER naked. That's where my marriage is.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:58 PM
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But if a man with children leaves the house, it's considered abandonment
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:55 PM
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And once you start doing it, it's so freeing. She still tries to bait me all the time with comments that would start arguments, now I don't even respond anymore, I just walk away. Acting like she's not even ther really helps, especially when I can't count on her to do anything.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:51 PM
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I married a terrible communicator, as in the fact that whenever I try to talk to her she gets angry and blames me.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:09 PM
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70% of the time it leads to either divorce or an unhappy marriage
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:08 PM
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I don't communicate with my wife, because she just blows up and blames me for everything. Every time. And no, it isn't. I'm running that house solo.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:07 PM
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I have started treating our house like it is my house, because I literally cannot count on her for anything. She runs the vacuum ever couple days and does the laundry here and there. She is miserable all the time. Everything and everyone annoys her. Nothing is her fault. She's lost all of her friends, she's in cahoots with most of her immediate family. She is looking at her phone 90% of ther time. She's consumed with conspiracy theories. My kids have started to realize what kind of person she is…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 04:05 PM
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Your wife is definitely cheating on you, especially if countless men hit on her constantly.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 03:58 PM
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Gotta get off that computer and out in the real world!
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 12:20 PM
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I feel my wife was completely blinded by her ticking baby clock. We met when she was in her mid 30s, so I was really her last hope. She would have married anyone in order to have babies. She had sex with me before marriage to lure me in. Sex during marriage was for children. We haven't had sex pretty much since we decided to stop having children. She stopped telling me I love you, stopped voluntarily touching me in any way, stopped pretty much anything that would constitute showing love towards …
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 10:49 PM
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My wife is the same person. She lost all her friends, even her family limits time with her. My kids are starting to see it too. I'm guessing that everyone who know us is asking themselves how I can stand to stay with her. She also knows your kids are your weakspot as she IMMEDIATELY used them against you. She is not allowed to dictate when you can see your kids. Time for a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/25 09:25 AM
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Oh, man, it's getting hard lately. She never admits anything is her fault. She's lazy. She's actually spending MORE time on her phone than ever (I didn't think that was possible). She had the day off yesterday and I came home to the same overflowing laundry basket and a dishwasher full of clean dishes since the night before. We didn't have milk in the morning. She went shopping, bought a bunch of overpriced unhealthy crap my kids don't need, and didn't buy milk. I had to stop for that. I am real…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 01:00 PM
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You gotta make a full break. Your son will realize once he's old enough how bad of a mother she was.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/25 01:53 PM
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That's not a fair deal. Your ex is kidless every weekend enjoying her life kid free and, if you work during the week, you have hardly any free time.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 09:04 AM
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This. If I didn't have kids, I would have been divorced years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 03:56 PM
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I do at least 90% of everything needed for maintaining the life we have. The only housework she does on a consistent basis is vaccuuming (and not very good). I pay the bills, I do all the launfry, the cooking, even though she REFUSES to let me plan dinners and grocery shop, and ends up buying crap we dont need while neglecting the things we DO need and use every day (milk, bread, eggs, etc.). I do laundry most of the time, all the outdoor yardwork. I end up feeding and taking care of every anima…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 10:23 AM
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I think "having a family" is the #1 reason most people ultimately end up divorced or in a shitty marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 10:13 AM
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I stopped having sex with my wife when I realized it was duty sex, and not for fun/enjoyment.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 10:12 AM
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Im not in the process yet, but I assume we will split everything down the middle. Our salaries are almost equal. I will have no alimony, minimal/no child support. I am willing to bet the kids end up with me more than with her.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 08:24 PM
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If we didn't have children, we would have divorced 10 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 05:42 PM
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My wife was blinded by her baby clock ticking, I wanted to "do the right thing." After we decided to stop having children our entire relationship changed.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 05:37 PM
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Whatever dude, you dont know
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 10:03 AM
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I do the same thing. My wife makes about 3,000 less than me and just got a promotion, while I've been delaying mine. The time is coming......I won't have any alimony and no child support since I'm sure I will be getting 50% custody 😝
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 09:54 AM
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I dont do anything for my wife. I do it for my kids. She just reaps the benefits.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 09:49 AM
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My wife and I both work Full Time and I do 90% of all the work in and out of our house
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 08:38 AM
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I stay for the kids, currently. My case is a little different though, as we have a special needs daughter, and she favors me over my wife.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 06:07 PM
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My wife said that once when I tried to hold her hand ("What are we, teenagers?" I think the words were), and that was the last time I held her hand. She makes no effort to sit close to me, hug me, put her arm around me, or make any conscious physical contact. She unfairly treats me like one of the kids when I do almost everything in regards to upkeep of our house, raising our children (apparently being a mom isnt the fairytale she thought it would be), paying of the bills, and anything else pert…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 10:03 PM
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I'd love for an AP to call me. I'd tell him,"She's all yours"
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 07:47 PM
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I stay because they need a calm person around to turn to when she starts yelling at them about nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 06:27 PM
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I am an unlucky Nancy, but I have my children to lean on, and they lean on me. After all that seducing/having children, she doesn't seem to like motherhood that much. She is verbally abusive and in an annoyed mood most of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 04:22 PM
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I decidded long ago that I'd rather have no sex than pity/duty sex.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 03:35 PM
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My wife married me for children. Her biological clock was ticking hard and I was there. The only two reasons she had sex with me was to lure me in, and to have children. We stopped having sex at virtually the same time we decided to stop having children.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 03:33 PM
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The first time she told me she wanted a divorce; she took it back 2 hours later. I was in complete shock at the time, and after the shock wore off, I knew. When she told me the second time, I just said, "heard that one before" and walked away. We are still married. Kids, of course.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 03:15 PM
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My wife has told me she wanted a divorce twice, and both times took it back. I checked out the first time she told me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 02:55 PM
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I will unfollow my wife on social media the instant we make the decision to divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 06:18 PM
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Don't do it. She's an ex. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 04:05 PM
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She is verbally abusive to them. I am by far the more patient parent. She has anxiety/OCD/depression, which she has medication for, but she always stops taking it when she feels better. I am very lonely. She hasn't made deliberate physical contact with me in years. She snuggles with our kids all the time but would always tell me she hates to snuggle.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 09:52 AM
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I knew the first time she said it that we will never have a successful marriage. I'm here for my kids, because I dont want to leave my children with her 50% of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 09:36 AM
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My wife has told me to my face twice she wants a divorce and then took it back
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 09:00 AM
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If my wife put one hand on me it's over
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 08:59 AM
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That's fine, because I want her to exit when the kids ar older. She literally adds nothing positive to my life anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 05:47 PM
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Dude, I'm lonely and I'm still married. My wife sits as far away from me as possible, everytime. She loves to snuggle...not with me, but with the kids. She hasn't made intentional physical contact with me in years.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 05:04 PM
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I feel like when i get divorced this will be my situation
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 12:21 AM
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Uea my kids are my life and I dont want to leave them alone with her 50% of the time
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 09:12 PM
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I am in the position where I don't think my wife serves any purpose in our marriage. She avoids any physical contact, doesn't say "I love you" unless I say it first. She has literally not shown one sign that she still loves me in the past 6 years. She also serves hardly any purpose in the household. I do all the cooking, most of the cleaning, most of the laundry. I am the one who takes care of our kids the most. I pay alll the bills. I do all the yardwork. I literally have no use for her. She is…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 07:35 PM
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More like "True"
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 06:26 PM
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She's on anxiety medictaion but stops taking it when she starts to feel better. She does this all the time, and I know when she stops taking it because her OCD is off the hook.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 02:29 PM
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My wife does need some control of every situation. For example, she complains about having to grocery shop (I do too, because she gets all the garbage we don't need, then forgets the basics that we DO need). I have told her multiple times that I will take over grocery shopping (I do all the cooking anyways) and it never happens. She almost immediately takes it back over. Same with vacations. I told her I would start planning our vacations, and that's just not going to happen. Even though she com…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 02:12 PM
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My wife is on her phone 95% of the time she is at home, while yelling at our kids to get off their devices.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 02:04 PM
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100%
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:28 PM
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Especially when they are the ones that benefit from divorce 99% of the time
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 07:57 PM
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"Marriage is a scam" Truer words have never been spoken.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 07:57 PM
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My therapy is going to be to book a 7 day cruise in the carribean and hook up with at least one woman on it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 12:55 PM
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I'm still married, and I haven't snuggled with my wife in years. Hardly any physical contact, actually. The last time I initiated was a few days ago, sh still sits at the far end of the couch, as far away from me as possible. She has literally no desire to makke physical contact with me.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 03:45 PM
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I am still married and hardly wear mine, its been that way for years
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 01:58 PM
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$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 06:29 PM
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This. Plus the threat of becoming bankrupt.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 06:27 PM
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I am married and would like to do the same thing. I'm trying to orchestrate things so that she goes on a vacation without the family, so then I can go on vacation without the family.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 05:00 PM
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That's crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 02:04 PM
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Your wife abducted your children and she wasn't arrested?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 01:05 PM
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Just my opinion, but there was absolutely no reason to add your opinion on Fox News, other than to show others your political leanings, which we all could care less about. Or, you just want to start a politcal argument.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 12:43 PM
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I married the crappy person so I'm screwed
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 12:47 PM
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I feel like this will be my wife when we finally divorce. She has never lived in her own and never paid the bills. She'll be out of money in a week.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 09:51 AM
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I was a door mat/laid back guy that married the first girl that I really dated. She married me because she was 34 and her clock was ticking
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 11:12 PM
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Not paranoid, I just wonder sometimes, as it's peculiar whenever certain questions come out of nowhere. I could give a shit if she records me or not.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/24 09:49 AM
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I also plan on throwing everything away and deleting every picture of her, including our wedding.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 02:28 PM
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Alcohol and medical marijuana are two different things. One has benefits. The other doesnt. I got a legit prescription from a legit doctor.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:45 PM
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Alcohol has no medical benefits.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:40 PM
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I have a second bank account where I put all my money from my second job (she has said multiple times that it's not a job because I enjoy it). She never sees any of it and never asks about it, even though she knows its there, and its not pennies
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:59 AM
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Luckily I have a med card in a legal state, she cant use that against me
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:55 AM
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Save money. Not in a bank.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 08:55 AM
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I'm really glad I live in a legal state. I have a med card so she can't do shiiiiiiiiiiiittttttt
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 04:36 PM
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My wife also would never survive on her own, and I'm pretty sure she knows that. She knows she has it good with me around, so, even though she can't stand me, she won't file for divorce. I do almost all the cooking, cleaning (vacuum, mop, dust, etc.), pet care, laundry (washing/folding), outdoor work, trash removal (she apparently cannot touch a trash bag for some reason), and child care. I pretty much run the house like she isn't there. She's pretty much just in my way at this point, and it ann…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 04:24 PM
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I think Covid fueled my wife's phone addiction. She looks up EVERYTHING.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 01:16 PM
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It is tough, because she has this knack for literally bringing out the worst in everybody. EVERYBODY. I'm guessing more than one person we know has wondered how I deal with her, including her own mother. So far, limiting as many interactions with each other as possible is working, for the most part. I concentrate on my children and myself, and that is pretty much it. She's lucky enough to tag along for the ride.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 04:12 PM
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My wife is a monster and I refuse to walk away, due to my kids. I don't want to leave them with her, alone, half the time. If we had no kids, we would have been divorced 5 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 12:47 PM
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I'd throw them in the garbage and make sure she saw them in there
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 09:00 AM
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I hardly wear my wedding ring and I'm still married. Unhappily. I don't really care what she does with her ring.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 06:47 PM
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I am in the same boat as you; but I'm saving money. I play drums in a band, and she has repeatedly said that it is not a job because I enjoy it. Well, that sounds like she isnt entitled to any of the money I make playing drums, so I opened a separate bank account at a different bank, and I put my earnings from the band there, where she doesnt have access. She knows this, and reluctantly says nothing about it. She doesnt even ask how much is in there. On our next vacation I plan on withdrawing mo…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 12:57 PM
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With no evidence, they can only encourage one party to leave. If she feels threatened, then she should leave and fill out a restraining order. And that's what the police would tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 02:36 PM
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I would have called the police right there. They would have told her that you have every right to that house and they would have told her she can't kick you out.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:28 PM
3

She can't kick you out of a house that has both your names on the deed. Return, and tell her that if anyone is going to leave, it is going to be her. Voluntarily.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:27 PM
0

Sometimes I feel like my wife records me when she asks me certain questions. I also wonder if she records me when she isn't home.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:25 PM
1

I'm a better parent than my wife. They respond to me because I dont phrase everything like a command.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:09 AM
1

I would love to take a weekend to myself without my wife or kids. That would never happen unless she did it first; which I am also 100% not opposed to. Limiting our time in the same room together has been our unmentioned mutual goal lately, and it's been blissful.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 03:47 PM
14

They really just want to be a Mom, and sometimes their views on that are warped. They picture a 100% perfect little family and are taken aback when they dont realize it ain't all perfect and easy
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 02:32 PM
20

Many women just want children, and by 30 - 35, they will create a false image of a man because subconsiously, they know this man might be the last chance they have to bear those children. They get married and she immediately starts trying to get pregnant. Once the baby making stops, the woman finally sees the man she is supposed to spend the rest of her life with. That's when she finally sees the true person she married.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 02:30 PM
2

You should show up with a hot new girlfriend
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 06:09 PM
3

I'm pretty sure I used to love my wife this much. Now, not so much. Complete opposite. Currently, I try to minimize all time with her until the kids are grown. Counting down.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 06:05 PM
8

While I'm having as much sex with my wife as I am with a gay man (none), I still cannot go that route.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 10:02 PM
3

Your ex-wife I'm sure thinks you are doing it to annoy her
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 05:25 PM
7

My kid is starting to realize how verbally abusive my wife is. He is quickly starting to favor me over her. Over the weekend she upset him pretty badly. She went and tried to apologize afterwards (same fucking MO every time she blows up at a member of our family) and he wanted me to comfort him instead of her. All of my kids have been gravitating towards me lately instead of her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 08:58 AM
2

I am absolutely going to have another home.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 08:15 PM
2

My immediate first step is going to be to make sure she doesnt have access to any of my money. I already have a seperate account that she doesnt have access to, so ill put all my money there and give her half of every bill.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 07:17 PM
9

My children are starting to the same thing when my wife isn't around; and I can't disagree with them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 10:46 PM
1

She can keep it. She can sell it. She can throw it in the ocean. I dont give 2 thoughts about that ring. Its meaningless.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 10:12 PM
3

I'm in a different situation. Niether of us really want to be married anymore; we are both staying married for the kids, we are both driving each other crazy. We both don't want to work it out. We are both wating for the other to file first.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 05:30 PM
11

Not divorced yet (heading that way quickly it seems) but here's what I learned: I learned that most 30-something childless women are desperately looking for someone to impregnate them before it's too late I learned that marriage is a failed institution almost 70% of the time I learned that people need to stay on their anxiety/depression/bi--polar medication
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 05:08 PM
7

Based on what I see here, most women already have someone else in mind before they will initiate a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 04:59 PM
2

Ugh.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 04:54 PM
2

I hope my wife wants the house, because I dont.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:27 AM
1

I take care of 2 out of the 4 current animals that she just brought home without consulting me. Those are the 2 I'm taking.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:26 AM
2

I don't wear mine now and I'm still married
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 08:04 PM
3

I haven't started the process and that's all I want too. Hell, I'll even take the kids.They'd have the best two days of their lives.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 04:52 PM
1

Id like to see my wife try to kick me out
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 08:53 PM
1

Havent started. I can't leave my kids with her without me there for support
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 12:37 AM
1

ASAP I would say. That's what I plan on doing.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 05:59 PM
2

Which would mean no need for a husband. That's how I feel all the time with my wife, except now I'm realizing I have less of a need for her than she has of me, and starting to act like that towards her. She's started telling me to "Fuck Off" lately and I just let it slide right off me
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 05:57 PM
2

Any good father who wants split custody should absolutely get it. I'm assuming I would get 50/50 and based on her attitude towards our kids lately she'd probably be willing to give up more.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 12:15 PM
1

It doesn't come down to the gym. It comes down to your diet. 95% of looking good is diet. Step 1: only drink water. Nothing else. Not diet soda, not anything else but water. If you can't/won't do that, you aren't going to be successful.
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