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The grass is greener where you water it and really depends on what you want from your interactions with women
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:53 AM
2

Bro you do realise women are human too and can get ill or even have their own lives. It's not all centred around you or a ploy to reject you. If you like her just ask again and you'll know by her response.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:25 PM
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You only relapse cos you want to and you're using your lack of success to justify it. Keep nofap last the urge to relapse and you'll be frustrated enough that you should channel to actually want to go out and be with women.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 09:23 PM
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And yet you go outside and see really average dudes with very attractive women? Or even the bummiest lowlifes with hotties? The fault is not in the stars but in yourself (to borrow a phrase). You can keep crying about it which seems like you actually enjoy doing or you can be a man and do something about it
/r/askTRP14/05/21 10:39 PM
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15 years of trying to get a gf with a sample that large can only lead to an inference that you as the common denominator are the problem here buddy. I know it can be frustrating but you have to do serious introspection as to what your weaknesses are and work on improving them first. You're angry at society for painting a certain picture of how the world works and now growing up and being exposed to the real nature of things. You either have the option of understanding that and learning to naviga…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 09:31 PM
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What it means is you need to fucking move on from this one internet girl you met on a dating app that you've invested wayy too much into emotionally to the point that you're writing a post about her.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:53 AM
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LOL right, really reads like he's overdosed on Redpill content and is trying too hard
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:51 AM
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LOOOL you guys really need to work on your social intelligence. The person you're speaking of may have just been insecure ... Or maybe you genuinely came off as patronising them and instead of doing all that could have asked how you want to collaborate. I get being "assertive" may be a characteristic of leadership (or being "alpha") that you may have read somewhere but another characteristic that's even more important is actually having good social skills to be able to read the room.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:50 AM
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LOL this fixation on percentages is what is holding you back
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:55 PM
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lol you need to level the fuck up because loads of men are getting women despite not being a massive celeb. I'm 21 and still get girls my age and I'm not social media famous or anything, just a dude that knows what he wants and works to get it
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:17 PM
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See that's a more measured response. I'm a black dude and I've definitely seen the transition too. All I need to do some days is stand in the hip-hop section of the club and white girls will be throwing themselves at me lol. OP was just whining too much when white men won't ever go out of fashion lol, he just needs to level up rather than see it as some big conspiracy.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:14 PM
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Perhaps but that's mostly from white women. Just like in black communities, black men are getting crucified by black women all the time and I know it's the same for a lot of my South Asian men with their women. Proximity will have you thinking it's the worst when really it's just women across the Baird trying to flex their new social positioning
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:12 PM
1

Yeah fair enough lol
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:39 PM
2

Brown girls still monkey branch so do black women and Latinas Arabs etc etc etc. OP is overstating how bad white guys have it cos he's drunk the koolaid too much. OLD and social media has warped some expectations but the fundamentals in attracting women or generally being successful are still there regardless, it's definitely not the apocalyptic wasteland he paints.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:35 PM
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Hey bro it's all a process. Even lifting as an important part of the process is one aspect. As long as you continue working on yourself the self believe and confidence will come and rejections will be minor, the fact you're even going out to women in the first place puts you above a lot of dudes. Keep at it and honestly what you want will follow.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 05:32 PM
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I’m shocked when I read here that women desire selfish “bad guys” because I am one of those. I am selfish as fuck and unemotional to others This isn't some superhero power that works to get pussy if the woman actually has no attraction to you in the first place lol. A lot of redditors think there the brooding silent type but really they're the guy who's standing by themselves in a party not talking to anyone probably wearing fingerless gloves and thinking thryre exuding off mystery but everyone …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:24 PM
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OP I think you've drunk too much Redpill terminology to make it seem like using "blue pill tricks" is a thing. Acting disinterested or purposefully in a way to make a girl they're not feeling not like them is a thing that's always been done. I personally prefer communicating what's annoying me or if I think that's more effort than it's worth, break it off block them or ghost them. It's really not that much of a revelation
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:17 PM
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When they say toxic they mean men who put themselves first and don't put up with their BS. See it as a category in opposition to "nice guys" which really means weak men who wilt at the first sign of resistance and bend over backwards for them. Nothing new to what we already know, just (slightly) different terminology
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:12 PM
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OP you need to get a fucking grip. Sure every area of life has the top % where life is easier for them but I really don't recognize the apocalyptic picture you're painting. The fact you can still go outside and see hot women with ugly dudes who most likely aren't in TRP universe is an indicator of that. Sure you could say they're outliers but even average dudes still get girls too. OLD has made some things harder for some but get out in the real world if that's not your thing and maybe your loca…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:06 PM
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Exactly OP is ranting and clearly hurt. I really don't see the issue he's crying about, maybe it's location specific with OLD making some things harder and obviously in every area of life there are the top % who have it easier, but the pessimistic basically blackpill picture he's painting is just one I don't recognize. Continue working on yourself and the rest of the shit really does follow
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:59 PM
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So if OP was black how would you explain the situation to him instead of pushing you're "it's cancel culture's fault" take? Or Latina? This issue is across the board and your analysis is mad limited
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:56 PM
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You live in DR and your type is slim white women is like me being in Japan and saying I'm looking for thicc Jamaican girls. Is it possible to find my type? Maybe but it's unlikely. Maybe as you're in the capital you may see more tourists and more of a mix but it is harder. Im really surprised that all you see is 5s or 6s bro you're definitely not going out enough or in the eight places
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:20 PM
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Bars clubs pubs And UK girls are just more slutty + which goes in hand with the drinking culture. As in the average 14 year old Brit could outdrink 21 year old Americans
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:40 PM
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The UK doesn't have the cold approaching culture that the US does. People generally keep to themselves and although some places are more or less friendly we're just more reserved in that regard. But in settings where being social is expected I'd say the UK doesn't hold back. The sex culture + the crazy drinking culture means hookups and women pushing for them is a lot more common
/r/askTRP10/05/21 06:10 PM
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I'm UK based too. It's 100% true that women are dying for it. I was even out on a run one time and these girls where legit staring at me like a piece of meat with hunger in their eyes. I'm not even at the physique I want yet. You just need to approach them in the right setting (bars social areas) and it'll be very easy imo. Cold approaching ain't as much of a thing here in other non-social style settings. When clubs open especially there'll be a year+ of pent up frustration just waiting to be un…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:24 PM
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OP says he keeps "ending up" on dates with 3/10s. That's only because he either pursues them or agrees to going on them because they pursued him. That's what I mean. You don't accidentally consistently end up on a date with women you're not attracted to and then have a Pikachu face as to why it's happening
/r/askTRP09/05/21 12:16 AM
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It's not about being a douchebag per se which gives the results, it's the fact that "douchebags" generally have a dgaf attitude and centering themselves first. You don't have to act in a way that's not natural to you and can still be successful via putting yourself first. And the only reason you're getting women you consider unattractive is cos you're entertaining them.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:39 PM
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So true and when some men do engage in gossiping at least in my friends group if a random comes in with that energy everyone is slightly uncomfortable and trying to move the conversation on. Whereas women not only live for gossip its how they actually socialise with one another. That's why in some settings (work mainly) you have to be super careful in what you say or do, since given half the chance it'll become a topic of conversation
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:56 PM
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Even their podcasts topics or tweets are all related to men. I remember on twitter a guy asked "besides talking about men or going out to eat what hobbies do you women actually have?". He got dragged by all the women replying but interestingly enough hardly any of them had a response. What's even funnier is they always talk about how they don't care about male attention/don't do things for men yet centre us almost entirely in everything they do.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:52 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/askTRP08/05/21 12:49 PM
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I wouldn't say "never" but how girls see and interact with the dating market is completely different to men. Basic example is they're rarely the ones that actually have to initiate and ask (most girls hate even the thought of risking rejection) so what they'll advise won't be as relevant. Plus what girls say they want/would like in the way a man should approach them plus what they actually engage with is very different. Disclaimer that obvious generalisations are obvious context matters etc
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:36 PM
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Ah well, when/if she reaches out to apologise remember to stay in frame and unless she actively pushes to meet again with her providing a date and time then obviously next her
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:27 PM
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What they say and what they do/go for (can go for) are very different things mind you. Loads of girls say they won't entertain short guys then you see them out clubbing with their clown make up doing just that.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 05:40 PM
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Don't ever listen to these dudes that say "don't confirm just show up". They're not getting dates, they think it's the alpha response or they love getting their time wasted. Maybe all 3. Just send a "we still good for tomorrow/today" depending on if you want to ask the day before or on the day early on. The idea that it shows "beta behaviour" by asking a confirmation is silly because if she's gonna flake she'd do it anyway, at least by asking you can avoid wasting your time sitting at a restaura…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 09:08 AM
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I know it's naive but I was so shocked how many girls have at least one mental illness. BPD anxiety depression or (I know it's not a mental illness but seems to be the new trend) ADHD
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:25 PM
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For me personally the married woman situation is way too messy plus I'd feel too bad about it. For a relationship if I don't know the dude and I know the situation is unlikely to blow up in my face I'd go for it but I wouldn't pursue it, shed have to be the one coming for me.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 02:14 AM
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On God bro, every day I'm kicking myself for not being more clinical, looking forward to when nights out are legalised again
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:16 PM
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That's a good point
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:27 PM
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As a black guy I absolutely get it too! Honestly though if I just want a quick ONS i just go to the Hip-hop section of whatever club I'm at and move to the white or Asian girls there lol almost always guaranteed success 😂 I love black girls and am more likely to go for them for a LTR but for a quick session they're less "open minded"
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:22 PM
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Agree with both of those things. Londoners in general just aren't as friendly as other places although different areas in London are obvs different. Plus the sheer amount of matches they must get warps the market. Similar explanation to my clubbing experience in Portsmouth: Exactly. Even in settings where men are "scarce" you see this happen. E.g. I was at a club night where the ratio was like 80:20 women to men. Girls would be fighting over some average dudes just trying to get crumbs of attent…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:09 PM
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Yo legit same experience here🤣 London I don't get much but even Birmingham I'm getting girls messaging first and Hella matches
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:52 PM
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That example🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts tho
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:39 PM
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Honestly it's something that can only be worked on by meeting as many people as possible as well as truly lovng yourself. With meeting more people going on more dates you're less invested in the outcome and are better able to enjoy the process since you know hey if this doesn't turn out well I can meet someone else tomorrow whether it's on tinder or literally saying hi at the bus stop. With truly loving yourself even if you do miss out your mentality will have you thinking "eh her loss I'm fucki…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 09:33 PM
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Yeah UK based, ahahahahaha great minds think alike I guess
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:04 PM
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Yoooo word for word that's exactly what happened on the night I went to. Girls giving each other dirty looks to the girl that would actually come up and dance on me or like you said bumping each other out the way😂😂😂 Same man, just a shame cos I went to the same club the next day for more of the same fun and the ratio was the opposite. Completely spun me cos the girls where now acting so pristine, giving dudes ugly looks embarrassing others who tried to talk to them. Such an interesting experienc…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:00 PM
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LOL asking another dude if he's speaking to your girl is a dumb move. Like literally women do that"coming to you as a women shit". He'll either lie, tell you the truth or screenshot the conversation to drop to his group chat about not only had he got your girl, he's got you crying in his DMs about it. If you're actually that certain just drop her out. I wouldn't encourage snooping but even that's a better option than asking another dude.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:03 PM
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I'd say that situation is still salvageable e.g. "we'll see in person". Texting too much is a bad thing but also going straight to logistics for OLD can get you ghosted too, it's a balance.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:28 PM
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Exactly. Even in settings where men are "scarce" you see this happen. E.g. I was at a club night where the ratio was like 80:20 women to men. Girls would be fighting over some average dudes just trying to get crumbs of attention from the few that were there
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:22 PM
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No worries man, been stuck inside for so long I'm looking forward to actually getting out too! In a club setting flirting/word play wit isn't a thing really since it's so loud. It's mostly about Eye contact Body language good vibes energy and phsycial escalation when the situation calls for it. In the general setting flirting is just teasing them and it being a back and forth thing. Eye contact, light touching as well thrown in too. Being witty is just timing and context so you have to be presen…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 09:11 PM
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Honestly one of the best ways to do so since you'll be having fun with your mates and that energy us better than being their solely to pick up women since it adds unneeded pressure. Some girls may even prefer it since you can talk up the fact you're not from there so it's more no strings attached. Me and my mates went to Newcastle to visit our mate that goes uni there and all 4 of us pulled that night. Hotel or her accom is your preference.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:56 PM
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Yeah clubbing the easiest way forward, depending on the uni city will depend on how easy it will be. Somewhere like Portsmouth or Brighton the girls are just on it. There's threads on here about club game but honestly just looking like you're having a good time and be direct with women should get you all you need. Don't even necessarily have to wait till Freshers since the year in lockdown will most likely have everyone hungry but that'll also be a great/easy time to find people who are DTF. Whe…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:43 PM
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Yeah I'd say in the UK the daygame that a lot of Americans talk about on this sub just isn't part of our culture like that. On the other hand Id say having a ONS if that's your thing is a lot easier. Post uni finding a community or hobby is probably your best bet like combat sports etc. Other than that yeah meeting new people will require more effort, just speaking to anyone at work too seeing whether you have anything in common etc etc
/r/askTRP02/05/21 06:07 PM
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TRP isn't about evangelising. People either find it or they don't and there's nothing you can do to accelerate the process. Sure he's your friend and you feel a sense of duty, but he could also very easily just flip out one day slandering you because he doesn't get it. Be there for him if you care about him so he doesn't crash too hard, invite to activities going gym going out to eat or even just chilling and having a good time, but ultimately the only way you could save your buddy is living you…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 05:48 PM
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Anyone that says Nietzsche, 48 laws of Power, The Prince, Rich Dad Poor Dad Hpow to make Friends are all just picking books they think makes them sound alpha. Read books that interest you man.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:43 AM
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... you cared enough to write a post... Something could have genuinely happened to her and she hits you up again later. Or maybe not and she was just being nice when you asked.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:40 AM
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Having pre-planned microwave ready lines is a BS way to navigate actual life since no situation is the same. Context is king from who you're talking to, what you're talking about, why they said it how they said it etc etc. Work on your general social skills, being able to think on the spot, even the "agree and amplify" technique or whatever is way more useful than listening to a webinar or replying to comments.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:36 AM
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Yeah it's definitely easier to get girls from your own ethnicity even if you are attractive to other women too. Just is what is, people are comfortable with what they know
/r/askTRP01/05/21 09:27 PM
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You're in your head to much appreciate the moment and if you feel like kissing her just go for it. It's nerve wrecking as fuck but the fact she already kissed you shows she likes you so just have to go for it. Longer term solution is mediation, really helps keep you in the moment and ground you.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 11:03 PM
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Just needed to get my first hook up out the way and everything else fell in place tbh. Always been athletic, well liked and well known. Most people assumed I had loads of girls on rotation just because of how many seemed to know me, in fact even some of my closest friends were surprised I was still a virgin at 20 just because of how often on nights out they'd see girls try and make a move on me. But because I never had experience specifically escalating or being intimate with women I had no idea…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:47 PM
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lmaoooo exactly he's in denial
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:33 PM
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It's when I saw the amount of women with cashapps in their bio being the loudest ones to call men broke that I found out this world can be a really funny place. The audacity is what gets me every time
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 03:46 AM
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Laugh at their statement and move on with my life. Women know it's different, ask to see their DMs and if they are even average+ they will have dudes in their camping waiting for the right opportunity, these arguments are just them being obtuse
/r/askTRP26/04/21 11:56 PM
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What bodybuilders are saying not to deadlift loool??? Pure bro science. And it's more about your mentality and routine regardless of steroids. You're just not building good habits that will help you actually get the most out of your training. You do you in terms of the timeline but I really want to emphasise that 26 really isn't old at all. You'll be hitting your peak at around 30 anyway, thinking that you won't get girls cos you'll be 28 will just severely limit you long term.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:39 PM
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If you're skinnyfat, having muscle on your frame will mean that any extra fat from bulking doesn't look bad, plus doing the big compound movements will grow your abs such that when you lose weight they are actually well defined. Then again if your goal is to get lean asap, then keep on lifting and be at a calorie deficit to lose weight. If you're a noob you should get noob gains so regardless as long as you're consistent you'll look alright in a few months. That should get you through summer and…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:55 PM
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Wait 26 and you're saying you're old? You don't sqaut or deadlift? Only been lifting for a year? Come on man it's a marathon not a sprint even with steroids you not doing the big compound movements is limiting you, those 2 lifts especially are essential for general muscle growth.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:44 PM
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Don't know why you're getting downvoted because it's absolutely true that sliding in DMs isn't creepy. Again tho maybe context matters because decoding in OPs age or where he's from it may be less well regarded. But say my age (21) if someone follows me back on Instagram after I follow then all I have to do is react to a story they post or even just straight up jump on their DMS and there's nothing wrong with that. I've never been blocked by a women either so idk what he may be saying for that t…
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:26 AM
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Yeah I went to a boys only school from year 7 -11 (UK secondary schoo so ages 11- 16l) then went to mixed gender college ( age 16-18). Hmm although I agree somethings we definitely were stunted with something (some more than others). But boys only secondary school forces you to develop a frame early, because if you couldn't hold your frame, and all the techniques that come with it e.g. agree and amplify, when necessary attacking back with wit etc then you'd be bullied tf out of. It really was si…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 10:11 AM
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Thing is tho the 90% of people that would classify themselves as nerds just aren't as smart as they think they are. Think the Redditors that got put in "gifted and talented" programs back when they were 9 years old and still hold on to that at the age of 35. Plus there's more than one type of intellect anyway. A charismatic person that's able to command a room and connect with any stranger they meet may not be the smartest in the room academically for example, but they have emotional intelligenc…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:45 AM
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That may be true but I feel in this instance OP is hiding behind his politness for a deeper issue on his lack of social skills/insecurity that people think he's a loser. Francis Ngannou the current UFC Heavyweight champion is frequently credited with the moniker of being polite humble etc same with Anthony Joshua in Boxing.. but no one would call them losers even if you didn't know about their accolades simply because of how they carry themselves. I think in this case it's a personal 0robpem wit…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 11:55 PM
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Stretching is so important if you don't do it already before and after workouts and comprehensively too!
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:13 PM
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There's definitely something more to it like the other posters said. I'm mad polite in general and have never felt a loser because of it nor have I ever been disrespected because of saying please thanks etc. If you give off loser vibes you can be rude and will still be considered a loser. Also depends where you are as well. If you live in a city people are more stand offish/life is faster paced so the "hey how are you" questions get weird looks. This is normally a big culture shock for people fr…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 09:08 PM
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Oh 100%. It's why you lifting for female attention can only get you so far (maybe as an initial catalyst to get you to start) cos most of the compliments will be from dudes😅
/r/askTRP23/04/21 11:34 AM
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Some dudes are so weird, they even hear someone mention the fact they're black and it doesn't sit right with them. You're absolutely right to affirm the brother, as a black guy myself who grew up in a mostly white area it was hard shaking off the insecurity growing up that people didn't find me attractive. Then I went to uni and had my mind blown😉
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:03 AM
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1000% this !!!
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:48 PM
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Social media I'm guessing
/r/askTRP22/04/21 10:46 PM
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Some of TRP advice about never complimenting her or ghosting being cold etc is BS. After care is everything. When you leave a situation try and do so on good terms even if it was a ONS with a "hey I enjoyed last night a lot" something along those lines. After sex women can be very emotionally vulnerable and if they regret it, feel used, etc that's when the hamster can stsrt to spin to make her not feel like she moved slutty at best smearing you as a fuck boy to any other worse smears. Obviously …
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:26 PM
1

Just have to move on really that's life. Most of probably have situations where we can remember a girl pretty much asking for sex and us due to a range of reasons from insecurity to obliviousness didn't pick up on it. Such is life. Just gives you more experience for the next time it comes along
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:47 AM
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If I find them attractive why not? may just have to asses the situation (i.e. if her weirdness is more trouble than the benefit to me of having sex)
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:44 AM
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Unless they bring it up you don't really gain anything from mentioning it, especially if you're not exclusive they'd just assume it. If they do ask just agree and amplify "of course I am do you think I'm ugly?" Something along those lines. Just not really a good idea in general to be explicit about it cos her "I'm not a slut" alarm will kick in and she may start acting in ways to show that she's not "easy" no matter her actual attraction to you. Show your high value but never say it
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:42 AM
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Post whatever you want that doesn't make you look bad (as in doing weird shit). Caring about maintaining frame cos you posted a pic of you and your friends is goofy and shows that you're centering what women think in every little thing you're doing. If you really want to keep it safe only post when you're at a new location or doing something fun, but honestly it doesn't have to be that formulaic, depends on your personality
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:32 AM
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The fact she said the quiet part put loud is mad interesting. Most women would just do their thing and come back whenever talking about you were the right one for me after all. Handled well and hold firm!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:16 PM
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The general answer to your question is yes you make a move because you're interested. Although asking a girl on the spot to go bowling seems like a wild haymaker tactic which even if she is interested/finds you attractive has minimal chance just because it's really out of nowhere. Especially if you're a stranger to her. A number/socials is more likely to elicit the response you want.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:12 AM
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It's her way if showing she thinks your high value. Play into it but make sure not to overdo it since her alarm could kick in to make it seem like "she's not easy". I remember being called a "player" by a girl when I was a virgin and she was my 2nd ever kiss. But because I was popular and she saw a lot of girls talking to me she assumed I was getting it in. I really wasn't but played into it since hey it doesn't hurt but because I was so inexperienced it in fact made it seem like us hooking up w…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 12:05 AM
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Honestly the best advice has to be an abundance mentality as much as you don't want to hear that. You shouldn't be looking at another dude and whether he likes her posts or not, you're the one that's actually going on the date. And yeah ultimately at the end of the day it'll be her choice whether she picks you or him (or the other countless men in her DMs) so there is literally no reason for you to care about it since you can't control it outside of what you may bring (game personality physical …
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:44 PM
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If you're good looking/well built they'll rationalise it either way "oh he's masculine etc". If you're an office worker "oh he's probably smart/well paid". Basically it's minor shit that doesn't really matter if they're not already attracted to you.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:40 PM
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"Fuck you stupid bitch never contact me again" JK obviously! Just tell her "that's cool let me know when you're next free" and don't message her until she hits you up. If she wants to then she will since you've put the ball in her court. If not then it's whatever since you should just move on to the next girl
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:33 PM
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If you're not attracted to black women in any way then there's no point in you looking since obviously the black continent will have black women... Africa is huge though with so much variety and women of every type. But in general the women are naturally thicker, like the bodies you see IG girls pay for are just naturally walking around. Here's an example: https://twitter.com/TrulyMuwahib/status/1371966258296594432?s=19 https://twitter.com/menaceiisoci3ty/status/1380526771959959556?s=19
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:24 PM
10

This is so true. One benefit of having female friends is sometimes the mask of being a "string independent woman slips" and they'll just straight up say how they want to be picked. I remember a tweet that even said to the effect "male validation is like crack". Girls are so scared of rejection and what's funnier is that when they see other girls being picked and not them they internalise that as rejection too. Once I realised women still do so much for male attention (having previously believed …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 07:40 PM
2

Respond to a story they post is the easiest way. Then start a convo from there providing the energy is reciprocated. Then see for when you post something how she may respond you don't want it to be one sided etc. But ask yourself what's your end goal here, do you just want to be penpals or the internet guy that gives her validation and an ego boost? If not then you should avoid talking too much in DMs and try for when available to push for meeting in person even if it's for a walk outside.
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:26 PM
2

Alfred giving us great tips😂😂
/r/seduction03/04/21 07:31 PM
23

Always have an abundance mentality assume attraction Have ambition/drive/ a big vision have hobbies (generally workout) converse with anyone no matter how big in status or small
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:31 PM
3

(1) id encourage you to keep meeting more people and finding people and contexts your comfortable in. Not everyone is a party person, some do better in chilled vibes or parks or whatever. When you actually like the people you're around no matter what happens (i.e. you get the girl or not) you've enjoyed just having fun with friends and that takes a lot of the pressure potentially making it easier for you to let your personality shine. (2) the other comment is right, there's not really a magic li…
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:18 PM
1

Honestly you've got a good base to work from and if you continue working out and eating more you should be in a good position. In terms of friends/social side join a sports thing maybe combat spoet. Men bond best through doing stuff together and combat sports is one of the best ways to build comradeship plus a great exercise and practical for self defense obviously. But the issue for you is a mental one, you're perceiving yourself to be a beta and that's how your manoeuvring in the world. It'll …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:25 AM
6

My guy as soon as you start having a formulaic approach to this shit you're already taking an L. Have a bunch of nice pics, some with friends some doing an activity and you'll be fine. Also we'll duh if you're attractive you'll get more swipes is the most obvious statement of the year.
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:32 AM
1

The suicide bomb thing girls do is so funny because I would never ruin an interaction my boy is having with a girl just cos she isn't giving me any attention and ruin my boys fun. But girls have no qualms with doing that as long as they're both not getting any attention ahaha
/r/askTRP31/03/21 12:17 AM
4

If you have to go there just go and if someone really is questioning you (imo unlikely) just say you've got some uni admin paperwork you need. But I'll be honest bro go other places, like why are you stuck on this location if you're worried about people asking you why you're there?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:56 PM
7

Strange moment isn't it? When you actually leave the cave and see the world as it really is. Sure the right is bright but you'll get used to it. Yeah its very wild especially if you had a certain view of women growing up but like I said welcome to the real world. Women are just as shitty and now your next step is accepting that and trying to understand how you want to manoeuvre. My first ever experience of this and I tell this story all the time is when the sweet girl that i first hooked up with…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 01:46 AM
3

It's much easier to bag them in real life than any chance you'd have over social media tbh. Unless you're verified your DM will just be in het requested with the other 1000 dudes simping over her.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:22 AM
1

Sigh another person that thinks because they don't use social media they are above the masses or whatever. Listen in college/uni it is one of the easiest way to hook up with women outside of dating apps. Stop caring about what other guys are posting 'unfinished product' or not since they are the ones building social proof or literally just enjoying their life, whilst you're hating. Mind the business that feeds you and you'll go a long way
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:12 AM
2

Wait what🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:06 AM
52

Exactly this, a lot of the things women do is projection. An example I saw just today on social media was a girl tweeting how she'd never cheat in a relationship but she'd like a dudes pics on insta and start commenting on his posts as a way to set the foundations for when her current relationship breaks down. Someone replied "ohhh so that's why women get so offended when men like other women's pictures, they're just projecting". Because for us as dudes if you're on Instagram most of the time yo…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 12:33 AM
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Sports as a man is one of the easiest ways to meet people. Combat sports is always good fun and practically useful. A local running group just any hobbies really. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there and interact with everyone since you don't know who other people know. The whole worry about then asking you where your friends are at is just an insecurity from you. if you moved to a different place noones gonna interrogate you about it. Just out yourself out there as much as possible (altho …
/r/askTRP22/03/21 10:12 AM
2

Don't feel guilty about saying no, stand your ground with an opinion you hold and don't let others cross boundaries by letting them know what they did wasn't cool. You don't have to "hold frame" with friends per say but you do have to be confident in who you are and yeah don't let others walk over you
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:25 PM
2

Shit advice to say not bother with dating apps. Plenty of girls who are happy to go for what someone would consider "shot guys" as long as they're taller than them.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:46 AM
7

Fake news! If you're a black Brit you can sweep up in the US
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:11 PM
2

Solo can work better since a group you may have people just wanting to stick together and not explore or just not bringing the right energy. Only problem with going on your own is initially you won't have any social proof that having friends with you would bring. But as the night goes on music pumping more people more tipsy and you're dancing you'll very easily be able to find lit people and if you don't it doesn't matter since people have their backs up less. If someone does start interrogating…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:02 PM
4

Come onan you reall think these apps are "broken" when dudes are still getting swiped on. Maybe try restarting your account since you get a boost in the algorithms or get nicer pics. Blaming the apps is a bit silly there's no grand conspiracy against you
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:52 PM
3

I get that. Sometimes I'll over-share in a conversation and like a Ew hours later think "why the fuck did I say that"😂😂
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:24 PM
9

Insecurities in the fact people genuinely want to be around me. Which is strange since I've always had friends and been someone people like being around but it's an insecurity I always need to fight. When this comes to women it's accepting that they genuinely find me attractive even though logically I know they do.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:49 PM
30

Caring what women think<<<<<
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:43 PM
1

Although I wouldn't actually tell them "take it as a compliment" but it's more a mindset you should have to internalise instead. Actually saying it can come across as butthurt whereas having the mindset boosts how you see yourself
/r/seduction19/03/21 06:12 AM
2

I get what you mean and I've been there. A lot of dudes fear rejection (or escalation or whatever) because they're scared to show that they are attracted to the woman. You have to accept that this attraction is natural and not something to be ashamed in showing. From that you can build a "her loss" mentality to any rejection because youre just a man doing masculine shit that a pot of dudes are afraid of doing. Even the fact say you find her attractive can be a compliment to a lot of women even i…
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:18 AM
1

If your messages look all one sided (i.e. it's always you responding to her story) then I'd just leave it. If she's interested she'll respond to something you post too.
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:47 AM
1

if you know her irl just say "its been a minute hows life been?" and try and build the conversation from there. If you dont know her try and introduce yourself. Otherwise though if you find that the energy isnt bein reciprocated just move on fella. You dont want to be that guy that she tells her friends groupchat "hes messaged me again"
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:28 AM
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advice here is good. In addition to that be the type of person people actually want to be around. Go out your way to speak to people first, it shows initiative. You may feel shot down when you do try and initiate conversation first but thats where the strength of working on your self esteem comes from since in your head you'll just be thinking "their loss" and be moving on. If you are invisible only you can take the steps to make yourself visible. In terms of relationships thats also why loads o…
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:18 AM
1

Of course that's life but you know what I mean by free, you're just being technical about it. Regardless I don't see it as a cost to my time if I'm enjoying her (whoever) company unless she really does waste my time (turns up late/flakes/is boring). Whereas actually paying for a girl involves both time and money which is limited (you've got them for an hour you're not allowed to kiss for example or whatever their rules may be).
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:56 PM
1

which is why I emphasised **for me personally*\* and also to the fact that his question was about our **own*\* thoughts on sugar daddy arrangements. What another man does/decides to do is none of my business, but I would never want for myself to get to that point
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:15 PM
2

Exactly the easy way out is a total weakness for me personally. I want to become the best version of me possible, the women will come regardless
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:07 PM
5

Exactly that tbh. Why would I pay money for sex when I can/should be able to get it for free
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:54 PM
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When it comes to online comments I'm sure it must get you down e.g. "I'd never date a man under 6ft". Firstly a lot of women are straight up stunting for social media, there's a lot more that don't care than those that do. Secondly you have to think of the type of women that are saying this. Having to put on loads of paint and an IG filter every time they take a pic otherwise they'll be depressed about what they actually look like. This isn't to shit on women per se but more to see them as funny…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:53 PM
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You're a good looking dude so that's not the issue. Tall in shape etc etc. But you come across as just some guy. The type women will just call "sweet" or "nice". I'd personally encourage you to change your style up because it's just so vanilla and safe. Also have something about you that drives you. Get into combat sports for example, you'll start walking different when you know that you can beat up 80% of the people you bump into. It's about the aura you present yourself as having as well as th…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:11 AM
6

That's exactly it! Honestly if you don't have friends with of your own gender then there's something clearly wrong with you. "I just get on better with guys" is a sign you should keep her at arms length
/r/askTRP16/03/21 11:06 AM
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I feel like it's pretty easy to tell when the energy isn't being reciprocated especially if you're talking to more than one girl at a time you can tell where to place your energy. I'm a busy dude so have no interest playing these "chasing" games when there are other women out their more receptive to me. If you feel like you're always the one starting conversations or carrying the convo 24/7, short replies or generally flakey behaviour then you pull back. The cool thing is that if there was a par…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:52 PM
2

Mind your own business. You're not meant to be out converting others but working on yourself. Your male friends may find out about TRP in their own time, they may not and that's the journey they'll have to take. Starting spouting off theory won't work in the same way if a Christian starts just talking to you about the Bible all the time you may react negatively or just blow them off. Going to women about TRP is stupid, again we're not here to convert. I get the frustration "the body positive" or…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:36 PM
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You need to try and move online relationships to meeting in person asap otherwise you're just a pen pal that's feeding her ego. Even with the "I can't meet with covid" you should have mentioned meeting up in the future and then if you feel the interest dwindle (as you said it is now) stop reaching out. The fact you're reading into stuff like reply time kinda indicates you've invested more than you have to for this one. Doesn't mean ghost her, since you have her on insta respond to stories which …
/r/askTRP15/03/21 04:29 PM
2

Agreed!
/r/askTRP13/03/21 11:22 PM
1

Facts anime had become more mainstream, there's actually loads of girls who have started watching it just to impress cute guys they know watch it. Own your shit as long as you're not a weeb about it
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:11 PM
4

In certain aspects yes. Women will have no qualms pretending to be best friends with other women just because they're pretty or for some other superfluous reason, or will act super friendly with someone they hate. They will also have noooo qualms chatting shit about and throwing their friends under the bus. Men on the whole if we don't like someone will just not hang around them even if we do keep civil when we meet them. So yeah in that social arena they can be ruthless, petty and throw their f…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:16 AM
1

ngl the picture one will 8/10 times come across as mad weird especially if she already thinks he's weird for not having social media at all
/r/askTRP13/03/21 02:55 AM
4

Sometimes you just need to warm up. As in just start talking to anyone throughout the day before you go and try and talk to someone in particular.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 12:09 AM
1

They really dont get it which is so strange since everyone seems to be using dating apps you'd think some of the advice would adapt to the changing times.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:59 PM
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Can I ask if you were popular growing up? I feel like that will tell me a lot tbh ​ In answer to your question even though I already have answered... Its the social norm. Come on man its not that hard to understand. Its an easy indicator of social proof, that you have friends, family, that you exist and have a life. Its how some people can show their personality and views on stuff. You may not like it but thats how it is and you'll just have to accept that initially people will see it as weird e…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:12 PM
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hmm i still feel you guys dont get it though. Thats why the orthodoxy around here is always BS rules like "only text for logistics" or this constant view of social media that could be taken from the millions of Tedtalks out there. I genuinely do think that the age gap is the difference in understanding how big a thing it is as you get younger
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:53 PM
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Exactly you're 30. You can remember a world before social media or smart phones. I'm 21 and so it's hard to capture it's importance for my generation down. I even got social media relatively late compared to my peers (14 would you believe). It's how most people indicate social proof as I mentioned, sure it is "virtual bragging" but that's the way the game is played. For those who know how to play the game then it's really a cheat code. Women who you would otherwise take longer too game feel like…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:59 PM
1

Ngl still feel like you're way too young for something as big as that. Not to be patronising at all, but you do change a lot in your 20s. Maybe 27+ is a decent age to do it because by that time you should be wayyy more established and conscious of who you are and what you believe.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:42 PM
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No it makes you a true mystery Come on bro it's not that deep, this isn't some main character of an anime where women will be swooning over how "mysterious" he is. Social media is just a tool, not inherently a bad thing and not having social media doesn't make you some Uber alpha that is above the fray or whatever
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:23 PM
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Tbh I get all the responses here but especially if you're young (<25) it's just how we're socialised and a way to social proof. Remember for women already meeting a stranger will already have her back up especially if it's the first time you guys have met. She'll use it to see if you have friends, what you get up to in life, makes her slightly less paranoid you're not a murderer etc. Like sure you can explain why you don't have it or want it but you will just have to accept most people use it an…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:19 PM
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This is the super Saiyan level Hamster Spinning, looking forward for you getting out of that situation ASAP and never speaking to her again. Just on aside never believe women when they say their incredible sex skills just come ex nihilo. The BJ comment kinda made me laugh but more in terms of your naivety (no offence) but how could you believe that😂 it shouldn't bother you too much unless you know her body count is crazy but ultimately remember she's not your girl, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP11/03/21 06:32 PM
2

Facts bro when you see some of the questions on here you really can't assume everyone is a well adjusted person 🤣🤣
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:04 PM
2

When I first started clubbing I used to go sober cos I didn't drink. It's a bit awkward at first but honestly just get to dancing and you give less of a fuck as the night goes on. In terms of drunk me, it depends on how much I drink obviously. But when I go out in there to have fun so that aspect just gets boosted more. I give less of a fuck and openly flirt or move to girls a lot more or just want to make jokes. I always feel like I still have control though and mostly just want to have a good …
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:27 PM
5

Careful with that last sentiment tho fellas don't be catching cases out here
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:22 PM
12

THANK YOU!!!! I've been against this numbers system for a minute. Honestly it holds dudes back mentally cos they start to psyche themselves out. Nothing cringes me out than when I see posts talking about "HB8" like what the fuck are you talking about.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:19 PM
1

Jesus, giving a fuck whether going to talk to women you are attracted to just because they didn't do the all the signals listed out on a subreddit is the most beta shit of all.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:45 AM
3

yawwwwwn
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:42 AM
2

That's the vibe I got. The type to think he's brooding and mysterious cos he stands in the corner of the party all by himself and the girls are starting at him... but really it's cos he's wearing fingerless gloves and a trenchcoat when it's 18°C
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:47 AM
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Ask her to come yours to watch a film or get food together. Then just see the vibe and escalate throughout the night if the energy is right. She's most like dtf if she's suggesting those times AND ruling out food
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:40 AM
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Jealousy is a natural emotion but a dangerous one in that if you don't recognise it's ultimately an internal issue you can very easily project certain feelings on to others. You need to move from a scarcity mindset with regards to women to an abundance one. That way you will stop feeling that your competing for a small pool of women and then feeling down. An easy (quick) solution for this is just to talk to more women and expose yourself to different people. The longer term solution is accepting…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:38 PM
2

That's actually very true🤣
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:22 PM
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Bro you need to think, do you appreciate/value Dan as a friend? Because as a friend you should feel happy for him. Honestly it's a self esteem/ self worth/insecurity problem which if you're not careful can breed resentment. You just have to have a blinkered approach to it bro and keep working on yourself. Don't see yourself as in competition with your friend cos that's more valuable (providing you do value it) than women that will come and go
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:19 PM
2

Yeah I agree in that case
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:14 PM
2

Exactly and ultimately accepting AWALT is what will stop a lot of dudes down the " im so angry at these b*tches grrrrr" stage since it literally just is what it is. loooool at the RP speak dropping analysis on the women ahahaha I can just imagine it them looking triumphant explaining the poor girl's behaviour whilst she is like "wtf is up dude"
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:13 PM
1

Would you say that th "nice guy" is the average man? I get your point but I feel like most dudes think being nice helps but also that if they had money or were good looking they'd be able to get attractive women easier (hence a good job) which kind of reflects that they do have a sense of what women like.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 05:11 PM
1

Please bro the 48 "Laws" of Power is not a Bible. Noone intentionally goes out there way to make enemies. It may happen as a result of you having a clear sense of self and value system which others don't like. In that way you "make" enemies. Kinda like the Churchill quote "you have enemies, good! It means you've stood up for something you believe in". But to intentionally go out on some anime protagonist BS is stupid
/r/askTRP05/03/21 05:05 PM
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Yes it is. A lot of the older dudes on here (maybe 25+) don't get how important an aspect social media is to social proof for younger people. Especially if they mostly use Reddit and have a disdain for other social media anyways. That's why this hard and fast "only message/text for logistics" rule is just not that relevant anymore. Its an easy way to show your personality through tweets or interacting with women that you can then use to connect with very easily. Of course it has its negatives bu…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:26 PM
4

This has really captured it all! Especially the lack of introspection and its a collective group thing too. Women won't ever admit they're the bad guy in a situation and other women are always likely to support and explain away whatever happened. It really is fascinating but the more I understood and talked to women the less I became annoyed about it. It is what it is tbh, I just learned how to manoeuvre it.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:20 PM
1

There's not an issue being nice, but I feel like your issue is more push over tendencies or the fear of offending someone or being on the wrong side of shit. That means you need to work on your self esteem and self worth to value your own energy
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:04 PM
1

In a similar position to you in that during my first and second years of uni I had soooo many games that I just fucked up cos I didn't read the hints right or just wasn't man enough to pursue it. The way to get over it really is just exposure and that'll also deal with the lowering inhibition. Talk to anyone not just woke who you think are cool and worth talking to and even those who aren't. That way you get over building it up in your head since it's just another person and you'll find most peo…
/r/askTRP02/03/21 09:04 PM
4

Right???? Like what the fuck is up with people, life doesn't have these hard rules you have to follow🤣🤣🤣 if you're free OP and want to meet her do it, having a timer of 2 days before you do so is stupid. Ofc being overly available is a turn off but if you're a busy man thats working on himself that wouldn't be an issue anyway.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:24 PM
2

Yup, a girl I hooked up with started telling me some shit about how she's not ready for anything serious cos she's hurt men in the past and didn't want to do that to me. In my head immediate red flag since I don't think I can be hurt, but it does show signals of potentially negative BS that I didnt want to be around. I just kept a mental note of it and made sure to sort of distance myself from emotionally investing in her like that. When someone tells you who they are listen the first time tbh, …
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:50 AM
2

22 is sooooo young bro. I'm 21 and the features you said you have is enough to get girls, that doesn't mean be complacent and keep working on yourself but being funny and being in shape is a lot more to work with than a lot of dudes have. You need to change your mentality from this jaded "all women want the jock popular guy" BS that I'm getting. Additionally the well networked is kinda duh, you need to actually meet a lot of people to meet girls, for them to meet you and for you to decide what y…
/r/seduction27/02/21 11:52 PM
1

If you're attracted to her just meet her up. A girl who's serious about her relationship wouldn't even entertain a dude especially if she knows that he wants her. Meeting as friends is probably plausible deniability and if you act right you can probably get what you want
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:48 PM
4

Wtf?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:43 PM
1

All the advice here is pretty good but I really wanna focus on the mentality of caring about being virgin. In one word, don't. Firstly thought lot of people would have had sex a lot of people haven't either and how many do you know? Likely none since it doesn't come up unless they specifically say. If you care about being a virgin attaching these labels onto yourself that's when you start spooking yourself thinking "oh she won't want me cos I'm a virgin" or just exuding loser energy. Like you sa…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:07 AM
4

Yo you just reminded me even hijabis get up to a craziness. One of my childhood friends again one of the sweetest most innocent girls you've seen and very openly Muslim was sneaking around hooking up with my other best (male) friends. They kept it hidden pretty well but she went AWOL so tried to use me as a wedge telling me my male friend was manipulative etc etc. Then my male friend showed me their messages. Jesus. The dirty talk in their messages, the fact she went over and sucked his dick etc…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:43 AM
3

The lack of accountability is always what shocks me to this day. Like I get it women have needs to but if you go in social media or talk to women there is rarely a situation where they'll accept responsibility for anything
/r/askTRP23/02/21 09:36 AM
3

Your last sentence is so true. Sometimes people here take things too literally and will be so rigid in their approach it actually becomes detrimental to the self development they were initially seeking. One of the main examples of this on this sub is whenever people rant about shit tests when sometimes legit maybe the woman is dealing with her own life shit or whatever and thats actually fine
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:18 AM
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dyinggggggggg at this lmaoooooooooo. It really is a revelation
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:38 PM
6

So Im gonna ignore what was written in the brackets for my own mental health! But even at 16 you'd think she would like you enough even if you're not assertive to just say fuck it and go for it. My first kiss happened as a result of her putting the pressure on me cos I wasn't reading the clues at all.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:32 PM
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right??? Im trying to reread this cos we're not gonna just skip past what I think I read
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:29 PM
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Bro! the first time I witnessed it felt like I was in a movie. A girl that wanted to hook up with me came to my place. We drank, had a good time etc etc. Then when she was planning to leave laying her head on my chest she called another dude that has been chasing her for a long time ( I know the dude he's actually just a cool guy) and asked him to pay for her uber home cos it was late. I actually couldnt believe my eyes or ears. It really opened my eyes.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:21 PM
1

Damn a year in a relationship for your first kiss??? How? Why? Like damn
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:10 PM
5

I mean yeah same I've always been comfortable around girls but only really realised that they had an active sexual side until I started actually being successful in that arena lol. Some guys do take it to the extreme but its more of a realisation that women aren't really that special in the way we've a lot of men have been taught to see them.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:09 PM
1

Right🤣🤣🤣🤣 his whole bitchy attitude is whats holding him back.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:45 PM
2

Tell him again! He doesn't want to fucking listen just moan about shit
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:42 PM
5

Keep being pessimistic then bro, I'm sure it makes you feel good that even fucking bums are out here still piping women!
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:41 PM
13

lmaoooo you need to actually talk to women. Although they do have more options especially to fuck, not all of them are getting picked by the "high value dudes" that you think they all have access to. And what women value in men isn't the same in what men value in women
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:14 PM
4

Idc, they obviously don't mean all men and even if they did idc again
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:29 AM
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Hope you can work through YOUR issues
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:52 PM
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Ignoring women who don't know (or care) about your existence isn't gonna do anything. A lot of these "ignore her/don't beg for her validation" stuff is when you've already started some sort of contact. Like asking if she wants to meet up and she's giving you "flake" energy, that's when you'd just be like "cool" And leave her to chase you.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 08:20 PM
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Explains why you're still a bitch then lmaooo, hope you get past this phase buddy
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:32 AM
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Respectfully you've still got a lot of beta bitch like mentalities to get rid of. This bitterness towards other dudes just having fun is silly. "Girls just want to have fun" and these guys are providing that. Girls and most people don't really care about how you managed to shave 2 mins off your 5k time or are learning about how to invest. Women especially those just looking to hook up want to see the results of what your interesting life actually presents. That's why like you mentioned training …
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:30 AM
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Damn you got me!
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:47 PM
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Thick isn't fat bro. And the way your describing women makes it sound like you want a child tbh
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:19 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:41 AM
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Facts don't even see them as dates. In fact I'd discourage anyone from asking a girl formally using the word "date" just makes unnecessary expectations in both parties minds.
/r/seduction28/11/20 07:57 PM
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Depends if they know when you're hooking up about your political views. But on a purely physical level no, not really. Racist white girls have been fucking black men since time even though he is already politicised through literally his skin. Now keeping them in a relationship or if they knew prior etc is a different story and can be significant if they're serious about their politics. But hiding or lying about your Politics if directly asked is mad coercive imo and would heavily discourage it. …
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:03 AM
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Do you know how young 16 is😂😂😂 enjoy life man start sports or lifting do well in school and become comfortable with yourself.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:00 PM
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On GOD 🤣🤣🤣 why is he watching another man eating dinner when his own plate empty
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:49 AM
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Aside from a lot of internal stuff you need to deal with that'll take some time... Bro you look like an NPC. Not ugly not good looking just average nothing about you seems to stand out. Scrawny? Fix that with good diet and exercise, bulk up! You also need good style because your clothes literally say nothing about you. Height, sure you're shorter than the median but if you're looking after yourself it's whatever. Hair? Just get a buzzcut once you've started working on your body it'll all work ou…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:26 AM
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No need to do all that or explain yourself. She knows why she was in the wrong ball in her court if she wants to make ammends
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:49 AM
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Girls are more receptive rn just in general, they're as hungry as we are for just something cos of corona
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:03 PM
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Hmm I think it's just something you have to accept since women (even someone you'd consider average or less than) will always have loads of dudes chasing after them so they never have to learn how to chase after a man, which is why they don't tend to DM first. I feel like the resentment is a deeper issue you have to deal with because it does seem it may come from a sort of entitlement (I'm making a harsh judgement here admittedly). What do you bring to the table that would make women want to cha…
/r/seduction09/11/20 04:31 PM
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You've got it 100%. Reminds me of the quote in The Social Network where Zuckerberg's date (Erica Albright) says: " you're going to go through life thinking that girls don't like you because you're a nerd. And I want you to know, from the bottom of my heart, that that won't be true. It'll be because you're an asshole."
/r/seduction08/11/20 12:00 PM
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Still sounds like you e got a lot of issues to deal with if you think all girls are shallow looking for the popular guy. In fact isn't what you want shallow as well? I'm sorry but you still need to work on yourself this isn't a 2000s US high school movie with jocks and nerds. I'm 21 and have never met these kind of "shallow" women you're talking about. More general advice is that expose yourself to more people you consider "out of your league" and you'll very quickly learn that their shit doesn'…
/r/seduction08/11/20 11:58 AM
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That also works! Depends on context will depend how flirty I am but as long as I know it's still going on
/r/seduction21/10/20 08:32 PM
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Nah just let it happen naturally. You both know what it is if you're both attracted to one another and escalate it. The word "date" always puts unnecessary pressure for no reason when as you said "hang out" is a lot more casual but also can pique her interest.
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:39 PM
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Fair enough you do you, I just don't like to be in a position where because I assumed they were still down for it when shit happens in life and they tell me on the day or whatever. I do it when meeting my friends too if we plan to meet up, just turning up somewhere is weird to me
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:34 PM
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LOOOL I don't want to go on a date with someone who doesn't ( enthusiastically) want to go with me when I could spend my time doing anything else. Never been a problem for me
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:29 PM
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Maybe the day before "we still cool with tomorrow" other than that you don't really need to speak too much especially if you're not actually friends
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:26 PM
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Great stuff, now the ball is in her court if she wants to hit you up again if not that's fine too, all about experience
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:45 PM
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As the other redditor said if the attraction was there, then it will still be there and as long as you communicate properly it should all be good
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:28 PM
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Maybe next time make sure to text her the day after just to make sure she got home safe and that you enjoyed the night. Some girls are quick to feel used so you need to signal that you enjoyed it and would be up to do so again (without coming across as thirsty). Other than that don't really think I should be giving you sex tips lol. Good thing that you're not pursuing her when the energy isn't reciprocated, what this sub would call an "abundance mentality". Sometimes the spark isn't there and yo…
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:02 PM
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Just keep up general interaction replying to her stories or tweets or whatever (IF they are funny don't be too thirsty). If there's mutual interest she'll still be down to meet in a month. Otherwise just more generally make sure to talk to other people too so no matter the outcome you're cool with it. Building up so much anticipation to when you meet or having an idealised version of her in your head will just lead to stocky situations if it doesn't go as planned!
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:53 PM
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Next situation just go for it. If he wanted it before he won't have changed that much even if his ego is bruised. Maybe just explain yourself after to be clear on what you want (relationship? fwb?) because he'll be confused as to why you rejected his first advance
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:44 PM
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It's because it's a dry ass interview ass questions. You also just told a (I'm assuming random) woman you're feeling sick wtf is she meant to respond to that? Make your statements open or leave room for further questions or just speak about something interesting. Also late replies should be something you shouldn't give a fuck about. If you've got stuff going on in your life it then waiting for a woman to reply is stupid just do anything else, remember your time is as important as hers
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:10 PM
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Bro as a black dude you already have the stereotype if being cool even without having to do anything so being nervous really isn't an issue. Now like another comment said there's either white girls who low-key are discriminatory or not used to black men and there's not much point going for them and there's white girls who love black men the "culture" all that kind of stuff. If you just want to sleep with them very easy since they want to fulfil a fantasy (shallow and problematic but hey so is li…
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:27 PM
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As the other comments said who cares. The energy you put out there is what tends to be reciprocated imo so if you're just looking to hookup you'll find those on the same wave and if you're looking for something more serious you can find that too. But don't put the "innocent" girls in a pedestal, be secure in yourself because anyone can have a past that you may never know
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:18 PM
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Oh fair enough😅😅
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:46 AM
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200 women tho bro???
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:42 AM
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That comment alone I wouldn't read toooo much into it, girls can throw compliments out like confetti. She may be showing interest or just likes you in a friendly way. For these kind of instances just throw one back or play it off if it's your personality type "yeah I'm looking delicious" as a joke or something like that. Take it as an opportunity to practice your flirt game and see where the convo goes from there. But of you want her to see you in that way make sure you make your attraction to h…
/r/seduction26/09/20 09:32 AM
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I'm sorry but I see this mentality damaging you in the long run. I'm 21 and at University too and I know how the dynamics work. The fact you recognise the cliquey behaviour should be enough of a reason as to why you should care about what label you get assigned. It's not beta shit it's having social intelligence in how to manoeuvre these spaces. Hope you have a nice day too.
/r/seduction24/09/20 01:35 PM
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Would just leave her to see the missed call. Then she's the one that has to contact you with like "hey just saw your missed call what's up". Explaining the call or text just ain't needed and may seem a bit eager
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:25 PM
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no worries! its all about experience and the likelihood is she wont ever think about that exchange again really and neither should you so rest easy
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:17 PM
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flirting should be a game from both of you. teasing acting suprised by her statements, relaxed body language, being confident to enough to come across as arrogant but also to play off self-depreciating humour. Eye contact is important, breaking the touch barrier too. For example I normally wear a silver bracelet or soomething and girls almost always end up playing with it and boom we're both more relaxed with each other. Flirting should be fun not a science
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:16 PM
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I agree to an extent. People on this usb think women are 100% in control of and aware of what they do. Soem things are just how they are socialised or brought up its not all nefarious and trying to break you down. And having rehearsed lines to random scenarios is the wackest shit ive ever heard of. If a girl is moving a bit wierd you just need basic social skills to be abel to handle it jsut like if a dude is acting off with you.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:08 PM
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you guys need to stop overthinking every interaction.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:05 PM
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Uni is the best psot for cold approaches people are normally more receptive just becuase the rules of the real world are more flexible
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:05 PM
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fair enough, but it is strange that girls are blocking you. I know you shouuldnt let it rattle you but it could be a bad look in terms of your social value because word can spread fast especially at University.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:04 PM
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its not a shit test shes just not that interested. Dont say "im going this way too" its weird and like you said hounding them. What do you actually say in this "game" you spurt? Remember they are women who are programmed to be on gaurd to random mens advances anyway. Where do you meet them? Whats the context, how do you open up? A lot of variables here bro. Like the other user said if shes interested she would volunteer information or wouldnt be quick to close the convo. You could try asking for…
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:01 PM
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yeah bro just join any clubs that may interest you. Sports clubs are normally pretty good such as kickboxing or whatver if theyre mixed gender since you're investing yourself and also building social value (especially if youre a nice person people want to be around). Its about being a regular in certain spaces and once you make friends you start to be involved/invited to other link ups. Just go to these social clubs or events with an open mind to talk to people not just for getting girls but you…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:55 PM
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shes comfortable around you maybe? or she just put her foot on yours. bro not much to read into this so dont
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:52 PM
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not really as long as you put effort in and are not the butt of the joke "pass to him let him have a shot". But if you go try your best and are genrally good vibes its a great way for your personality to shine through an build social value if you're a likeable presence
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:51 PM
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the idea of only texting a girl for setting up dates is from the older people on this usb that dont really use social media like that and dont get how important it is/can be in building up social value and rapport with women nowadays. I agree not everyday texting her because then what would you have to talk about in the real world but even if its sending memes on IG or replying to her story now and then, its needed to keep up the interest
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:44 PM
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honestly I'd just leave it. You didnt have the prior connection in real life and if you're always the one initiating contact and the response is cold there's not really any point forcing something that isnt there. Maybe you could try posting a photography related story that could potentially bait her into replying but I would honestly just not push it further. If there was reciporocated energy or she replied you could then build a conversation and then slip in that you guys should meet up, but f…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:42 PM
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Are you at a Uni or college? If so maybe join a University club/society (what we call them in the UK). Even if you're not at a Unviersity join some type of club. Best way to build up your social circle if you dont really have one both guys and girls. Important to make guy friends as well because they can introduce you to their circle where girls may be or parties (different now ofc because of COVID sigh). You just need some type of common activity or interest and then just build it up from there…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:38 PM
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facts! and when one door closes another one (or 20 idk life may bless you hopefully!) opens
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:33 PM
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either dont reply or reply with "thats cool" something short if you dont want to just ignore the message which can come across as salty. Don't send a long paragraph or anything explaining your feelings or trying to win her over it wont work and may hurt you more in the long run. ​ Ultimately though you just have to make peace with it, there's not really such a thing as the one who got away, you've just put her on a pedestal. Not to patronise you but youre 18 and were together when you were 15. T…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:29 PM
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join a sports club maybe, improve your social media presence (insta and twitter really tinder lite in many ways men and women peacocking all the time) and just in a wider sense investing in yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:21 PM
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An easy way would be you being the one to suggest a time and place. If she's interested but cant make it then she should be the one to offer an alternative. For example saying "hey do you wanna go see x movie on Firday at 6?" and they say they're busy/got work/pre-arranged plans then she should *if shes interested* suggest an alternative and you both agree a good time and date that works for both of you. ​ If you feel like you're doing more work to convince her to come out she's not that investe…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:10 PM
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1000% facts. A lot of the advice here is based on US settings which is fair enough considering that most of the people on this sub would be from the US. But stuff like cold approaching in the UK isnt really a thing especially in London and other cities. Set and setting is different and so a club/bar or even a shisha spot or cafe you may cold apporach but that depends on the atmosphere. Also advice such as "dont text women unless its for setting up a date" is for an older crowd (maybe 25+?) becua…
/r/seduction23/09/20 09:05 PM
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I think if you use anything as a crutch instead of being confident in yourself it's never good whether it's weed alcohol or money. For example weed for me is alright the only issue I have on it is when I'm paranoid she may be against me being high/smokiny (say we're on a date) and somehow she finds out otherwise it can be pretty fun.
/r/seduction20/09/20 11:19 PM
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Wow so true I'm never direct with my compliments in real life as well. I'm always using them with a joke cos I'm pretty funny but my flirting just isn't there at least intentionally
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:44 PM
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Said she looked spicy in her 4th pic (was a build up to a joke I started off with about her being a white girl and liking spicy food) and she said thanks. Not really sure where to go from here😔 thing is idk why i feel bad for being direct considering idk these people but it's just hard. Does it come with practice or?
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:32 PM
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How do you set up the idea you literally just want to fuck. I pretty much put that "I want to be a hoe" in my bio and said "don't swipe if you're not on it" and I have a few swipes now but have no idea how to actually say what I want in the messages.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:23 PM
2

Please no one say this or even think of being bad ass in general🤣😭😭😭
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:35 AM
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None of the #MeToo awareness and stuff will affect you if you're not a creep. If you're a creep than stop being a creep. Simple as that. I go out solo loads of times and some nights I pull some I don't. If a girl says no to my advances I leave her alone and try with someone else, most of the time being able to leave her alone and show you're comfortable makes you more attractive to her and she comes back later. Join a club as well if you feel day approaches are too mechanistic. At least here in …
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:29 AM
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Ahh at least you made out. Just one of those nights I guess
/r/seduction18/10/19 06:50 PM
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Nah bro maybe it's my age as 20 year old uni student but people go all the time by themselves since at uni new places people don't know anyone and are open to meeting others. Also as the night goes on people split up with their friends group, make new friends etc
/r/seduction18/10/19 06:50 PM
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I used to feel like this then I started talking to my female friends more about sex and stuff like that casually. That's when you realise girls what attention as much as men, want sex as much as men etc etc. I used to feel like a weirdo for even a girl to know I found her attractive now I'm calm, and if she doesn't reciprocate it's alright I don't blame myself maybe it was just a bad day for her etc. I think you just need to talk to people more, get more female friends and understand their persp…
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:10 AM
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As s long as you don't ask if you can kiss her, that's a major turn off, lack of confidence
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:35 AM
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Ok. Also I guess what's holding me back is that its a popular night for people from my Uni and I feel really awkward them seeing me move like that? Am I just overthinking or? Because I get a fair amount of attention on nights out but at Uni I'm more reserved.
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:50 PM
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There's like 2 days left. What do you suggest? We both like the second music, do I invite her over for just a chill session idk I may just leave this one
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:28 AM
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What even though nearly a whole month has passed? Should I go straight to drinks and shit or should I ask if she want to meet up. Probably should have mentioned we're both at University and study similar courses? idk how relevant this is
/r/seduction31/10/18 02:40 PM
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