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I tried to talk to her about it and she said if it was too much I should leave so I left.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/26 09:18 AM
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Well I do appreciate your clarification but honestly I still think my ex’s behavior was foolish and disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/26 03:34 PM
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You’re labeling me just because I’m viewing things through reality. Nothing I said was wrong nor were any of my perspectives. Nothing I said makes me “red pill”.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/26 05:16 PM
1

Lol she sucked, I dumped her and she’s still single and is fat now. So I guess she wins somehow? Piss off.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/26 05:25 AM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill15/04/26 12:52 AM
-1

Nah, she lied to me and molested my reality then ran away like a coward. I deserved the right to say what I wanted to say.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/26 12:51 AM
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Yes, she was full of red flags. I’m glad you see my side of things.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 08:22 PM
1

I mean it does apply to low quality women. The redpillers literally deal with low quality women and use them to represent all women.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 08:21 PM
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Nah I’m just being logical.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 08:17 PM
-2

I freaked out on her and got blocked and then apologized profusely through fake accounts, until I recently made a last fake account in mid March and messaged her to take back my apologies and tell her she did treat me like a third choice. Then I blocked her on everything. I just now realized the truth and that’s why I’m posting the OP now.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 07:34 PM
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Well to be honest I met this girl when I was in the thick of the redpill and I saw red flags and assumed she wasn’t relationship material, which is why I said I wanted casual. Then some parts of her seemed to be worth pursuing a relationship over but I think I was just right to begin with, that she wasn’t relationship material. I mean she still can’t find an official boyfriend so it’s not like she’s really a catch to anyone. The point in saying that is that I won’t let her make me go back to the…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 07:01 PM
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Oh thanks, I’ll post there. I find that a lot of people in many relationship subreddits have a really loose idea of morals. I posted on one yesterday and they all argued with me and acted like I didn’t have a right to be upset.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:56 PM
0

Oh okay I’ll post there, thanks.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:53 PM
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I just needed to get it off my chest. I obviously don’t want to post it in redpill spaces but I need to vent.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/26 06:38 PM
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Thanks man, I agree. If something makes my stomach turn, and it’s common knowledge that MANY men don’t like it, then I’m not gonna let some random nerds on Reddit tell me I’m wrong. I appreciate your support.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 05:16 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 02:13 AM
0

Have some self respect. If you’d seriously rather date a girl, treat her like an ideal partner without knowing if you’re even compatible, and then years down the line still not know but maybe one day find out when she mentions something that makes your stomach turn, rather than just asking her early on before you’re too invested, then you’re dumb. Do you also not ask a girl what her religion is? Since you wouldn’t wanna ruin the relationship by actually finding out if you’re compatible.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 05:47 PM
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Bro if a girl has 100 bodies we are not compatible. I knew that when I was 12, before I had ever heard of the redpill. While I do think the redpill is dumb, thinking that everyone should overlook 100 bodies and still think they’re compatible is 1000x dumber.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 05:29 PM
0

Which correlation?
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 04:54 PM
2

I understand, thank you.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 04:46 PM
1

Obviously I’d tell her my body count.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 04:45 PM
0

Yeah but to say that you should never ask a woman her body count isn’t good advice. Also, it’s important to have that conversation. I know a guy who never asked his wife and she didn’t ask him, until they’d been together for years and had a kid already and then she somehow realized he’d been with a lot of women and she was pestering him to tell her how many. Should’ve been discussed early on.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:49 AM
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Bro I’m going to ask if I’m dating a girl. I’m not going to ask a random girl.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 07:47 AM
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I have left the redpill but that doesn’t mean that I don’t see content that’s popular in the mainstream pages, like the one that discovered that Hawk Tuah girl. Anyway, blocking you.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 12:31 AM
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Not the point of this post.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 12:04 AM
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I think the problem here is that no guy wants to be the guy she wouldn’t have wanted to have had sex with when she wanted fun. While I don’t think it’s untrue that women can love their husbands that they got with for stability, it’s insulting to the man that his wife never viewed him as the type she’d want to have fun with.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 12:03 AM
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I don’t ask the body count on the first date so your argument is invalid. From here on out I will be reporting anyone who tries to hijack this thread with their unsolicited opinions on a matter that was not the direct subject of this post.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:08 PM
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There is more to it than just body count. For example, my ex had a low body count but the context of her behaviors (such as going back to exes constantly, trying to make rules for new partners just to go back to exes and break those rules, etc.) made me break up with her. So yes, body count is part of discussions which show me whether we are compatible, but if the number is 100 or something then we are not compatible.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:07 PM
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I’m not wasting my time arguing with you, leave my post.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:03 PM
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I’ve heard that other part about guys too. But I think based on how these guys are saying it, they really think it’s true that you have to multiply it by 3.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 11:01 PM
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I’ll still ask a girl I’m seeing her body count. Opinions on body count and it’s relevance are not the point of this post.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 10:59 PM
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Yeah idk how to change it. I actually deactivated my real instagram and am seeing these on my burner. It is annoying, I don’t care about some random girl who I’ll never meet’s sexual history.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 10:58 PM
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I’ll still ask a girl I’m seeing her body count. Opinions on body count and it’s relevance are not the point of this post.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 10:55 PM
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I can guarantee you wouldn’t, as my ex had really small boobs and I couldn’t get over how sexy her collar bones looked.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/26 09:25 AM
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Thanks for your response. I guess I’m asking if “Mr. Right”, who she may decide not to have sex with on night one despite her initial intentions for the night being sex with someone, is someone she finds hot enough to hook up with or if she is ONLY interested in a relationship with him. As in, is Mr. Right lacking in the department of whatever it takes to get a one night stand or FWB situation with her?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 12:55 AM
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You’re saying he’s a beta which counteracts my point that the “alphas can get away with cheating” thing is false. If he’s a beta it counteracts the whole point.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 03:21 AM
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I don’t really follow the guy but you’re kind of counteracting my point.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 01:11 AM
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Well that brings me to another point: I don’t think it’s true that women will accept cheating and never get back at the guy if he’s “alpha” enough.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 11:59 PM
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Thanks for the info. I’m curious though, does he meet the physical requirements for casual if she chooses to not have sex with him that night? So for example, say it was the same guy but maybe he just seemed too dumb or something so she didn’t consider him Mr. Right. Would she then have sex with him casually? Or is it that if he was Mr. Right it’s because of his personality but if he was also attractive enough for casual she’d do it anyway?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 11:10 PM
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I don’t waste my time arguing with morons.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 07:23 PM
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If you think girls with BBL’s are likely to be faithful then you’re just willfully ignorant.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:53 PM
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Not if you’re a CHAD /s
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:37 PM
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Because he has everything that the red pill would say is peak alpha, Chad, whatever. So redpill thinking is “if even he isn’t safe then we have no chance.” But my interpretation is that he was just with a shallow girl who isn’t really capable of a faithful marriage. He could be the same guy but a plumber instead of a famous boxer, and he’d still be able to find a more loyal girl. I think the biggest takeaway is that girls with BBL’s who post thirst traps on Instagram are not likely to be faithfu…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 06:30 PM
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The evolutionary psychology is dumb. Also, I’ve seen their high ranking members break their own rules and think their situation is somehow the exception to the rule. If they can think that, then I can too whenever I find a girl who is quality.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 05:21 AM
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Okay cool, I must’ve been overthinking it haha
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 05:03 PM
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Thanks for your comment. I wasn’t sure if he meant that she would choose not to have sex in the sense of not looking for some random guy to sleep with, but would have sex with Mr. Right if he offered? Because in the scenario I’m picturing, Mr. Right might not necessarily try for sex that night but she’ll avoid sex with other randoms.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 04:36 PM
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If she finds Mr. Right that night, would she have sex with Mr. Right that night?
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 06:14 AM
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I would say they do, because it’s literally their hobby. You can’t get into that area without chasing women as a result. Their introductory book describes some men as “serial monogamists” as if it were a bad thing, which makes you want to have casual sex. An ex sharpshooter has likely hit less bullseyes in the past year than some gun enthusiast with shitty aim who goes to the range 5 times a week.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/26 06:10 AM
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You sound like such a nerd.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 07:20 PM
2

Yeah I agree. I’m not sure if I was clear on that in my post.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/26 07:42 PM
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Hahaha thank you, I will be using you as a reference for when she comes to her senses 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 07:40 AM
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It’s not necessarily a bad thing but he wants male friends so he can’t get all butthurt any time men act like men. He should definitely stay away from actual redpill nerds but men are always going to make lighthearted comments about women, just as women do about men.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 08:32 PM
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It sounds like the comments he has an issue with are just normal comments from men, and we can assume that the women he associates with also make normal comments against men.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 08:12 PM
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Unless every guy he meets is a hardcore misogynist, it sounds like he’s just a full blown feminist and is fine with women who make comments against men but he doesn’t accept men making comments against women.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:57 PM
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To be honest, the reason that you’re having trouble building a “bro bond” is because you’re acting like a woman. I think the red pill is just as stupid as the next guy, but men and women side with their own sex and talk from the perspective of their own sex. Are you also cutting off women who make comments against men (misandrists)? I’m sure you’ve heard women say something like, “Ugh, I want a guy who will just buy my expensive things that I don’t have to sleep with.” Or something. Do you cut t…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:40 PM
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Yeah, they don’t want alpha women though. But the reality is that alpha/beta has been disproven anyway. Apparently it came from a study on wolves or something and then it turned out that it was later debunked. I prefer to avoid the whole alpha/beta thinking because then it puts pressure on how you should act. Nobody wants to be a beta and no man wants to be the beta of the relationship. Instead I think people should just have self respect.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 07:52 AM
1

Yeah it is dumb, and I don’t think there’d have been enough time for evolution to do its magic in order to make the behavior of women from whatever time period they’re talking about be the norm today. The only way it could make sense is if the trait of moving on quickly were one that already existed in the population back then and only those women survived to pass their traits along, but then who’s to say that it’s a dominant trait or that it’s even a genetic trait rather than an environmental o…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/26 03:37 AM
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Unfortunately TRP actually talks a lot about how if you’re an “alpha” the woman will accept cheating and things like that. But personally I think if I were to get into a situation where a girl allowed me to see other girls, I’d just end up constantly being afraid that she’d cheat on me. Also TRP doesn’t take into account that it must be a broken person who would accept her boyfriend/husband cheating on her.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 11:00 PM
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I think TRP really prides itself on the fact that men allegedly don’t care about a woman’s job. But even then that seems kind of ridiculous. My ex had a decent job and if she only had jobs intended for high schoolers I’d have taken her less seriously because it’d have suggested that she doesn’t take life seriously.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 10:57 PM
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Yeah it happens to me a lot too.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 10:52 PM
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Well Tom Brady should’ve retired 10 years ago and his wife would’ve probably stayed 😂 But yeah I mean a lot of these dudes in particular are getting screwed because they’re millionaires and everyone knows it. That’s the trade off for being a celebrity; you can’t really know if someone is only with you for the money. But I’d do the same thing… I’m still waiting for TSwift to dump Travis Kelce so that she can be my sugar mama.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 08:28 AM
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Lmao that’s exactly what any normal person would expect. I’m so glad I got out of that cult that just gives you reasons to feel like shit about women on a nice sunny day.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 07:53 AM
6

What do you mean about the opportunities of the most masculine men?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 06:46 AM
5

😂 I was joking. I guess it wasn’t obvious since that’s how they really talk 💀
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 06:22 AM
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Too late, I’m gonna tell you. The War Brides Theory basically states that women have evolved to move on quickly, throwing themselves at bigger and badder warriors and forgetting their previous husbands or whatever because they needed these men who killed their husbands to take care of them or they would die. So basically, you can’t expect a woman to even be sad if you die because she’s just gonna replace you with a guy who is better at pillaging. But that guy should be weary, because she’s most …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 05:58 AM
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Yeah for sure, unless you’re the alpha gigachad. Then you conquer this concept as well as War Brides Theory.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 05:25 AM
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Lol I know you’re joking but I remember a video where Pearl literally said that she was talking to a guy who was some high status redpiller or finance guy or something, and she asked him if he’d forgive and take seriously an ex-OnlyFans (no actual sex scenes, just solo) girl. He said he would and she mentioned that in that video. It’s funny how much they talk about this stuff only to be swayed whenever someone says it’s not true. It’s like they were never 100% certain to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/26 04:51 AM
3

Ohh yeah you’re right, the random internet men say it then the big channels say it so it seems true. I never realized that it was backed by grifters even if those aren’t the ones that you have direct contact with.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/26 01:43 PM
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Many, yes. It’s the high ranking members of the red pill who should be ashamed. Those are the guys who truly cause a lot of the negative aspects, including steering young men away from good relationships because they’re bitter.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/26 01:30 AM
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Yeah maybe in your scenario you’re right. However, judging by their reading material (such as The Rational Male) and the ramblings of their users, both incels and reformed incels, it genuinely seems like the guys who actually dive headfirst into TRP had no grasp of the concept of working to be attractive. Many of these guys genuinely seemed to believe that women should just not care about anything other than their soul or whatever. I think it’s natural to believe in some fairytale love when you’…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 11:06 PM
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Lmao that’s crazy. But the red pill would say that they do seek them out but just can’t have them because they’re “high value”. It’s a joke.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 11:01 PM
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Unfortunately many men in the redpill advocate for “spinning plates” forever, which is so stupid. I’d rather have one woman who looked good when we met who later looks old in 30 years than a rotation of old women who I never slept with when they were hot. What I’ve seen though is that many red pill men do end up catching feelings for a woman and dating her, even if they said they wouldn’t. So all of the bashing and analyzing beforehand is pointless.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 10:59 PM
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Unfortunately there are many dudes in the redpill who are not even making money from it, so it’s easy to believe what they say. These are not the big YouTubers, these are just nerds who never talked to women until after they discorvered the redpill or they did talk to women but were actually so bad at it that somehow the redpill actually helped them, whereas most men would do better getting results if they did not follow the red pill.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 10:49 PM
0

True, the advice you get from a lot of places outside the manosphere does like to pretend that women are never bad.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 10:46 PM
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Your example doesn’t help her change anything though.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 05:25 PM
1

Personally I spent all my time in the redpill trying to find out if all women were really like that. I never truly believed it but they kept saying it so I kept trying to get them to analyze scenarios so I could try to be sure that not all women are like that. What finally helped me out is seeing so many redpillers break their own rules and think they’ve found someone special. When it happens to anyone but them, they’re like “unicorns don’t exist!”but when it happens to them they think they can …
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 04:50 PM
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Not necessarily orgies but people who have a partner one week and another the next week and then another the week after that or something. Promiscuous to me is like if someone just wants casual sex for years and has no tendency toward commitment, which I don’t think is the case with most people because after you’ve had sex with a few people you would prefer to have a relationship I think. That seems to be the case with most people.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 04:31 PM
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I was under the impression that the OP was talking about people who are having sex with a lot of people, like at once, not just people who have a regular amount of partners. I know a guy who “stopped counting at 27 (girls)” and that guy can’t stop cheating on women lol.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 02:30 AM
-5

I mean it’s definitely going to make it to where you feel like you’re missing out on something (sex with others) if you habitually have sex with many people then settle down with one person.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 02:13 AM
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La verdad es que puedes pensar lo que quieras, pero no debes seguir ‘The Red Pill’ porque los hombres allí típicamente andan con mujeres exactamente como tú describiste, y por lo tanto van a destruir tu mente y tu creencia en el amor puro y sólido.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/26 01:56 AM
1

Yeah I mean it’s one thing to want to have kids while you still can, but it’s a whole different thing to say that nobody wants 30 year olds. That doesn’t seem to be true.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 03:10 AM
1

Lol, I’ve noticed one of the high ranking members seems to get with an oddly high percentage of women with mental disorders. He told me about the therapies a couple of his exes did. He also once said he would never get with another BPD girl, then he started talking to another one and I reminded him of what he said but somehow he thought this one could manage it better. Then she accused him of making her feel uncomfortable or something and he said once again that he’ll never get with another BPD …
/r/ExRedPill20/02/26 08:20 PM
1

Well I’m not looking for 20 year olds specifically. Also I would feel weird dating a 20 year old now. My question is more about whether or not they think 30 year olds are hot in general. I’m not talking about weird dudes at college, but in the real world where 30 year old are commonplace. I just want to know like, if I meet a 25 year old woman, if she’s gonna be less attracted to me than she would a 25 year old guy.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 09:10 PM
1

Okay, thanks!
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 08:36 PM
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Right but I’m 29. Do 25 year old women still thing 29-32 year olds look hot or no? I’m not trying to be one of those 40 year olds dating 20’s women lol
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 08:24 PM
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Yeah I know at like age 37 or something you will, but what about like 30-32?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 07:43 PM
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I edited my comment, not sure if you read the edit. My question here isn’t about whether she would increase attractiveness solely due to edge, but rather if the age I mentioned would lessen attractiveness for the younger age group of women?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 09:34 AM
1

Well I look the best I ever have since my face is lean and body is better but I’m asking if 20’s women are generally less likely to think a 29-32 year old is really hot? Edit: obviously I don’t look 22 or something so that’s where the difference comes in.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 09:28 AM
1

So does that taper off at 30+? Is it less so at 30+ or no?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 09:25 AM
1

I didn’t intentionally wait until my 30’s. Anyway what is the answer generally?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 09:21 AM
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Nothing but if you lose the ability to attract women in their 20’s you’re losing part of your desirability.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 07:34 AM
0

Well I’d want her to see both things in me.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 07:29 AM
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I don’t have a pattern, my last girlfriend was older than me. I’m talking about possibilities, not preference. Meaning I want a possible age range which of course includes women older than me as well.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 07:20 AM
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Thanks for the info. Any drop in attractiveness to younger women at 30-35 or no? (Not referring to minors).
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 06:37 AM
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Hmm, well I don’t care about impressing other dudes. What I care more about is whether or not I can get young, hot girls to want to have sex with me based on my looks. And I don’t actually intend to go and have casual sex with a bunch of women; I am ready to find a relationship but I still want the girl to think I’m really hot and want me for my looks rather than find a relationship when I’m past my physical prime. Of course I know that relationships are more than looks but I had an ex who went …
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 06:34 AM
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I’m talking about looks and attractiveness as well as the ability to attract young women based on looks and not something like money, without my age being seen as a negative. If we’re talking body weight I don’t think it’ll be a problem since I’m consistent in the gym. But looks, I’m not sure.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 06:15 AM
2

What tactics worked? Sounds like the negging only “worked” in the sense of making her feel insecure after she was already invested. It certainly didn’t make her want him more.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 11:23 PM
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My point about the OnlyFans model is that she probably isn’t going to want to date some guy who is literally just one of her fans who can’t get laid. The guy isn’t going to make her suddenly obsessed with an obsessive fan.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 11:21 PM
1

These things seem to have originated from the fact that the nerds who congregate around redpill spaces are at the total opposite end of normal engagement. For example: have you read The Rational Male? He mentions “average frustrated chumps” about 1,000 times in the book, and acts like all guys are like that. Sure, a very young man might get obsessed with a woman who was never interested in him and waste time, but chances are he won’t do that again and it doesn’t take TRP to learn that lesson. Mo…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 11:10 PM
1

What beliefs?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 11:03 PM
2

Lmao Jordan Peterson seems like an idiot to me now. I used to respect him but I’m sick of his, “What do you mean by ‘believe’ in God? Are you saying that, if we took a camera and set it outside Jesus’ tomb, we’d see him come out? I suspect yes… but I don’t know what that means!” Like, does it mean you believe Jesus rose from the dead or what? Don’t tell me you’re talking about symbolism when you say you don’t know what it means, after the question was clearly about whether or not he rose from th…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/26 10:54 PM
1

It is logical to care about it…. It’s illogical to think that your past doesn’t matter at all.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 03:32 AM
1

I don’t even argue with people who say that it’s illogical to care… it’s literally been something I’ve cared about since before I found TRP and there’s a reason why 99% of men care about it. Also, I find it funny how when I say that it makes me insecure (which is valid honestly.. why am I supposed to be ashamed of feeling insecure when someone is doing something that they know makes guys insecure?), people say “there will always be someone better than you, it doesn’t matter”. It’s like, yeah, I’…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 03:31 AM
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The red pill guys tell you that you’ve got to do xyz or you’re a cuck. But Rollo Tomassi’s wife is older than him, was at “the wall” or past it, and he still married her. I know for a fact that these guys don’t practice what they preach. For having so many rules, it’s insanely disingenuous that they wind up doing the same exact shit that they tell everyone else not to do. Then there’s the whole “body count” thing, where they have guys believing that every woman bangs a ton of dudes. I don’t thin…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/26 01:26 AM
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Who is saying you have to get an ugly girl? Just get with a girl you’re attracted to. Clearly different people have different tastes. Look at Millie Bobbie Brown or whatever her name is; a lot of people think she’s hot but I don’t. So get a girl you think is hot, and forget what others think. Maybe you’ll pass on a girl that others think is hot but that you didn’t know was hot to others.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 11:41 PM
1

Do you mean like “spinning plates” aka seeing multiple women at the same time?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 01:49 AM
5

Yeah so I’m asking why should they follow the red pill?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:29 PM
6

I think some of it is the way it’s delivered. It comes across as if, even if the guy meets the girl and she likes him, he doesn’t fit her standards. A guy can’t help but think, “My girlfriend said in a video that she wants a tall guy and I’m not tall, I’m a disappointment to her” or something like that. However, girls post this stuff and still date short guys. I don’t think that height actually matters very much. I wouldn’t exactly know since I’m tall, but I know that my ex dated a short guy bef…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:27 PM
4

Why should women follow it?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:03 PM
4

Yeah I agree. I think a big fear is, “What if my girlfriend thinks this way/feels this way/likes this post, etc.” The reality is that you just have to find a girl who doesn’t do these things. There are tall, rich, handsome guys who will date her and will say, “It’s not a problem for me, I’m tall, rich and handsome.” So if you’re not tall, rich and handsome then only date girls who don’t engage with/create this type of content.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 10:02 PM
2

The irony is how much they talk about CHAD, who supposedly gets women to do ass-to-mouth on sight even if he’s a homeless serial killer, yet they encourage people to get rich for the benefits in dating… wouldn’t CHAD just come in and rail your wife with his THUNDERCOCK, and then use your expensive beta bucks coffee machine to make himself a macchiato?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 11:43 PM
1

So he can figure it out, don’t try to make him change his preference.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 10:01 PM
0

So you’re trying to hit him with the old “you’re a hypocrite because you’ve done casual”, then you find out he hasn’t and you still want to convince him he should accept women who do casual? Why can’t he have a preference if he also follows it for himself?
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 09:30 PM
2

Right. My old manager makes hundreds of thousands per year and when he was 24 last year, he came to me to show off some 30 year old single mom he was infatuated with… TRP would want you to believe you’re just out of luck if you’re 30. It’s really not true, as long as you stay in shape.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/26 09:25 PM
3

I have seen these guys crumble every single time they actually find a girlfriend who they like, and it’s not because the girl is special or loyal. I saw a high ranking member fall for some girl that cheated on her husband with him, yet he thinks she’s loyal for some special reason that he won’t share. Then she dumped him and now he’s losing his mind. If these guys who have spent a decade in the red pill and consume all of the content every single day can’t even follow their own rules, then I thi…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 10:18 PM
1

So does what she said mean she didn’t find me to be the “attractive in a way you want to smash right away?”?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 09:54 PM
1

I just don’t like the idea of it. Many standards that people have are just based in our perceptions of certain behaviors. That’s why I think it’s funny how people try to act like it’s not okay to care about body count.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 08:06 PM
-1

Yeah I agree. But I will say that I personally would not date a woman who has been with women.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 07:41 PM
2

Ohh it’s photoshop? I never really thought about how, but I always noticed that in pictures he looks alright but in videos he looks like a total nerd.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 07:34 PM
-1

Oh yeah, that’s a good point. My ex even said she wouldn’t date a bisexual guy.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 07:07 PM
1

Yeah I agree. Some people here are suggesting that it doesn’t mean they found them more attractive than you. Do you think that could be the case or no?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:53 PM
2

That’s honestly very weird. Didn’t it make you feel like their ex was hotter than you?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:38 PM
1

If she were to lie then that’s an even bigger problem. And I think people generally don’t lie all that much… contrary to what the red pill says, I don’t believe the whole “multiple it by 3, bro” bullshit. Lying makes people uncomfortable so if someone can tell me that their number is X, I will believe them until they prove to be a liar.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:36 PM
-1

I agree, it isn’t a double standard. A double standard is when someone sets standards for two different groups of people, but with dating the standards are set by the opposite group, not by some rule maker saying women can’t have sex but men can. But I’m not here to debate whether or not it’s right… I don’t need the approval of people on the internet to make my decision, but I just wanted to make sure some people here shared my viewpoint. I will say this: if women don’t want men sleeping around …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:32 PM
1

No, I mean do they tell their current girlfriend about how hot their ex was? If she had told me I was really hot that would be a different story so your example isn’t the same as what I’m asking.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 06:14 PM
1

I think the bigger issue here is that I assumed she was more attracted to him without proof I guess. But really I wasn’t sure and some redpill asshole initially said she was just trying to make me jealous then months later when I mentioned it again he said the guy was definitely hotter than me and all this stuff. That made it a bigger deal than it had to be. I’m glad I’m out of the red pill.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 05:39 PM
1

You’re saying your preferred type is a shorter guy and then mention Brad Pitt and his physique. If I’m not mistaken I don’t think Brad Pitt is short and he definitely isn’t Chinese. So yes, if you’re turned on by conventionally attractive traits and you find me conventionally attractive then I would definitely say that I wouldn’t be uninterested in sleeping with you just because you say your preference is shorter Chinese guys. I think I get your point though, thanks.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 05:38 PM
2

Do they tell their girlfriends about it? If so that’s inappropriate.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 05:28 PM
-1

BETA!!!
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 04:15 AM
2

I just want to make sure this community is right for me. I’m very afraid of having my own beliefs swayed by other people’s opinions. However, you are totally right.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 03:18 AM
-1

Bro I guarantee you she’s fuggin Mr. Crabs, bro! Because he has more money than you! Also she’s fuggin SpongeBob, because even though money matters it doesn’t if you’re a CHAD!
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 01:29 AM
3

Personally it seemed odd that the main reason I had a hard time leaving the red pill was because Rollo said something like, “You can try to get back into the matrix, but once you know the TRUTH, you’ll never forget it. You’ll sit in a coffee shop and see the dynamics” or something. That and the guy who indoctrinated me told me that guys can’t figure everything out for themselves that the red pill teaches….. Then one time I saw someone high up in the red pill say, “Guys who are good with women do…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 01:21 AM
1

Is there proof that she’s 9 years older?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 01:02 AM
2

Well wouldn’t you conclude based on that conversation that she wouldn’t have wanted to have sex with me when she was a virgin?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:26 PM
1

Yeah, I said it was a preference not a hard rule.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:24 PM
1

It was a month prior to us meeting. She also got back with that ex later when we weren’t seeing each other and he was moving so she had casual sex with him again. I did communicate. She said it wasn’t a mistake.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:22 PM
5

I already said it made me feel insecure. I’m not pretending there is no insecurity involved.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:17 PM
-1

Case by case basis.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:16 PM
2

It seemed like she was saying he was way hotter than me. It was hurtful to me in a way that I couldn’t get past. Also, I didn’t ask her for the details. All I asked was what age it happened at because she said it was late.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:15 PM
2

I know a guy who has a lot of casual sex, like a LOT. I have noticed that he is very erratic in many aspects of life. I’m not judging women specifically.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:11 PM
1

Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t have a problem with her wanting a relationship with me. My problem was that she explicitly said she would NOT have had sex with me without a relationship being a possibility, and in the same conversation said she was fine having sex with other guys without a relationship being a possibility.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:10 PM
2

I just asked her about the first time she had ever had sex. She didn’t have to call him “really hot”. That was unnecessary.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:07 PM
8

Yeah but telling me about it suggested it was very significant to her. You shouldn’t tell your current partner about how hot someone else you’ve had sex with is. That’s not in good taste.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:03 PM
3

I think the fact that she told me about it was what made it so bad. Telling me about it suggested it was very significant to her. I would never tell a girl anything like that.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:02 PM
2

I already said that if a woman expressed regret then I’d probably be okay with it.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:59 PM
1

Are you a woman? And I see your point. If someone thinks casual sex is fine but has sex with 6 people that’s low when you consider the upper end of people with that same perspective.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:57 PM
-3

Well my last ex told me that she lost her virginity to a guy just because he was “really hot” and had a “really nice physique” so I feel like it’s fair for me to have an insecurity about that. To me that sounds like, “I wouldn’t have sex with you for the sole reason of attraction, but that guy deserves it.” To me it seems valid to feel insecure about that.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:52 PM
1

I think random sex is bad for men and women.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:50 PM
-2

That’s false.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:50 PM
0

It’s their decision. If they can believe that I changed and also that I regret it then they may not have an issue with it. Also, I would’ve overlooked my ex’s past if she regretted it at all. So I think if a girl’s attitudes towards sex have changed from when she did casual then I’d be accepting. I just don’t want to date someone who still thinks that casual sex is totally fine. I think it’s damaging to men and women. Also, I don’t want to raise my kids to have casual sex so the attitude that it…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:49 PM
1

Can you elaborate? To me it seemed like sex with me wasn’t a very good incentive for her to have sex, and that only a relationship with me incentivized her to do that with me.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:41 PM
2

Thanks for your response and understanding. I wasn’t trying to wild out with wild girls then choose a different type for marriage. I actually always wanted a relationship and would’ve been fine dying with a body count of one to my future wife, but I was led astray by the red pill and was convinced that women are all having sex with random dudes constantly. I know some women do that but I no longer think it’s all of them.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:40 PM
-2

Idk, that’s just what I’d heard it referred to as even before I found the red pill. You see a lot of mention of the word “body count” on Instagram.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:38 PM
-2

It depends on her preferences. I wouldn’t blame her if she had a problem with it. I only did it because I thought there was 0 chance to find a girl who’d never had casual sex. If I thought I could find a girl who had never had casual sex then I wouldn’t have done it. Do you think there are a noteworthy amount of women who have never had casual sex?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:31 PM
2

Oh yeah lol. Well for me I’m going back to my beliefs that I’ve always had, before I ever found the red pill. I think I had a solid grasp on reality at that time.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:30 PM
1

What do you mean? Are you disagreeing with me or what?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:27 PM
1

Are you saying it’ll be hard because of my past or just hard regardless? Also note that my ex had had casual sex literally one month before we met, so that played a huge factor in it. But still I’d prefer one who had never had casual sex.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:27 PM
-8

Personally, I did do casual sex for a few years because I thought all girls were out there having sex with a ton of guys. However, after my last relationship I haven’t had sex. Sadly my ex had had casual sex before me with two guys and said it wasn’t casual with me and that she wouldn’t have had sex with me if she were under the impression that it wouldn’t lead to a relationship. For that reason I broke up with her, because I felt sexually invalidated.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:19 PM
-2

Just because I don’t like the idea of the person I will spend my life with having shared some intimate moments with a lot of other guys.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:18 PM
-6

I definitely respect this perspective. I agree that if they have gone a long time without sex due to celibacy and convictions then I’d give them some grace. However, I’d still prefer a woman who hasn’t had casual sex at all.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:13 PM
0

Thanks
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 09:08 PM
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