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100% trashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:50 PM
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Lol same. I had 20 messages about how funny they thought themselves to be. Like if you have to tell someone you are funny then you prob arent funny and most likely annoy everyone around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:38 PM
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Lol his mom needs to throw his ass in rehab. What a loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:50 PM
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Ugh triggered for sure. My exes did this shit before they started shoving me into walls. I hope that girls friends and family see that and get her the f out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:16 PM
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Yup. It was my first eye opener that you cant be friends with men. If I had been with my ladies they would have rushed over to make sure I wasn't injured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:43 PM
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I like the yoga shorts on amazon too. Lots of coverage and hard to pull off. I've gotten made fun of by men so many times for wearing them too. One summer I was wearing a cute short dress with yoga shorts underneath and I crashed my bike. My dude friends called me a prude. Yeah I don't want randos being able to see my panties idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:39 PM
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I watched her hulu doc the other day and it was heart breaking. I should have researched this stiff decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:24 AM
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Uggh not surprising. Thanks for the suggestion! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:23 PM
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Religion does nothing but oppress women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:52 AM
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I'm going to check that out tonight thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:58 AM
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Only 2 or 3 states have laws protecting underaged girls from their parents signing a marriage paper for their abusers. There have been women who were forced to marry their abuser when they were under 16 and the abuser was late 20s. They now have been fighting for more protections for teen girls and have only been successful in a few states. It's so fucking sad we all need to get involved and fight for stronger protections for girls. Some of the stories are horrific and the girls parents still fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:30 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:25 AM
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He is a far right christain who believes women should submit to their husbands. He will fire women who are pregnant and not married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:48 PM
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Right? They need their gf to stay safe at home while they try and get laid at the clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:28 PM
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Anyone over 20 is too old for these creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:23 PM
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This 100% narcissists and other abusers know when you are feeling weak and they know exactly what you need to hear to trauma bond to them so they can control you. Also dont talk about past trauma with someone until you have vetted heavily and spent months with the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:20 PM
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I work in US mental health care. A lot of times you cant call a social worker until the person is already in the ER waiting for an evaluation. In some situation calling the cops can make things worse and if you have that persons familys info you could prob reach out to the fam and let them take over. If not a suicidal person should go to the hospital to get set up with services. Depending on their income the hospital will set them up with Medicaid medications and referrals to counselors and some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:00 PM
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Funny how they are miraculously better when you tell them you are calling 911 for a wellness check.... so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:50 PM
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If someone threatens to kill themselves as a manipulation tactic call 911. It's not your job to deal with that and if they are actually suicidal than they need to be sent for a psychiatric hold at the ER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:44 PM
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It makes me worry my exes were mean to my animals when I wasn't around. I'm sure they were! My dog was scared of my current bf for a few weeks but now they have been inseparable ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:01 PM
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My abusive exes gave both my dog and I severe anxiety. My current bf loves me and my dog. Sometimes i think my dog loves him more now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:26 PM
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Yeah before covid I always had people asking me what's wrong or why I dont smile more. Having a mask has been awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:24 PM
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That top post is so disgusting. Dude watches porn but starts calling his gf who did 1 porno before they met a whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:48 PM
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If they are expert manipulators they will have love bombed you for 6 months ish. I remember at about the month mark the mask starts slipping a bit. They would start taking jobs at my appearance/ career /hobbies as a "joke" of course. Then a month after that I felt like I had to be glued to my phone in case they called (they would always freak out of I didnt answer right away) it seemed like any time I tried to be independent and enjoy life they would make me feel like shit later. Red flags add u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:18 PM
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My mom expects me to be the same way as her and my dead gma. They do all the work and remembered birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, and they were mediators when other family members weren't getting along. I think communication is a 2 way street. I write cards to family and friends who always try hard to stay in contact with me. The family members who couldnt even be bothered to send me a congrats text when I graduated college I wont even respond to now. It drives my mom crazy she is so used …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:28 PM
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This is what happens when you spoil your kid rotten and turn them into a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:48 PM
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Hopefully his dick is dry cause this dude has rapey vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:08 PM
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Sounds like hes a religious fruit cake that expects women to submit to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:59 PM
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Someone has to do a west coast edition lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:39 AM
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Cant she just tell him she wont have sex with him until he stops smelling like shit? Sometimes you've got to be blunt. This guy deserves to be embarrassed. Walking on egg shells and sparing his feelings will enable the behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:55 PM
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Yup I was in some awful relationships with different types of narcissists (my dad is also one). When I called my parents to ask for help to leave from physically amd emotionally abusive relationship they down played everything. I ended up getting out myself then ended up with an even worse abusive partner. It has taken years of self work and therapy to finally be in a healthy relationship. Yeah growing up my dad way more stuff with my brother. My brother got to live with my parents until he was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:12 PM
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I'm kind if bitter towards my mom for staying in that kind of relationship and how she let my dad treat me like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:56 PM
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Instead of comaining on the internet she should spend that effort trying to leave him. What does she think complaining about this shit is going to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:04 PM
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My dad was just like this ass hole. He ruined so many holidays and special occasions because everything always had to be about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:39 PM
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You can also still get pregnant after taking plan b it depends where you are in your cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:31 PM
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The most I've spent was $80 for a chinchilla specialized wheel. My ex was abusive af so I decided to make his gift about his chinchilla. My ex loved it surprisingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:20 PM
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Hahahahah omg my crazy ex thought he could be a rapper /dj. He was awful I couldnt even fake support him my face showed how lame he was and hed always get butt hurt. He would tell me he was a music prodigy since child hood. Dude couldnt even read sheet music or play an instrument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:06 PM
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My friends that graduated HS and went to cosmetology school right after already own homes and their own businesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:01 PM
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Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:47 PM
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Wow! I also wore clothes that were way too big once I started getting boobs. I hated the stares for boys and men and I got to feel like a kid for a little longer with the huge clothes covering me. Its fucked up so many little girls have to go through this. I wish there were more ways girls could go to a girls only k-12 amd women only colleges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:09 PM
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According to Forbes the US I'd the 19th most unsafe of all countries and the most unsafe first world country For women in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:59 PM
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It's so good for little girls!!! I highly recomend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:27 PM
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Can confirm. I am a horse girl I had 3 horses growing up amd their pictures are all over my social media and the walls of my house lol. I get so many negative comments from men about it from scrotes. I had an ex who lived with me in MY apartment ask me to take my horse stiff down because it made him uncomfortable. It's a huge red flag of a guy hates cats and horses in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:59 PM
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Shit like this makes me glad that I ripped my exes ass hole after he abused me for a year. He was high and drunk and handed me a strap on. I hated him so much at this point and fucked him hard with out lubes. He had to go get stitches. I hope it taught him a lesson. He forced me into anal. The first time I got physically I'll after I had a fever and I was in so much pain. He wouldnt let me rest and forced me to go on a road trip the next day. He tried to pressure me into 3somes with his dude fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:06 PM
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BDSM should be considered a mental disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:26 PM
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I think all religion oppresses women even mew age religions. Some are worse than others like Islam and christanity but it seems like all of them have men who are in charge and use their power and status to control amd abuse women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:36 PM
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I've gotten called racist by white people when I criticize how Islamic countries treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:14 PM
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Finally!!! That fucker deserved to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:20 AM
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Lol having no ambition and having too much ambition ......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:22 AM
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Why do women decide to carry out pregnancies for these worthless boys? They signed up for a life time of misery. It's hard for me to have any empathy at all when abortion is available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:27 PM
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Or judging women and keeping women from getting abortions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:48 PM
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I love her and have tried to read her books but it's still really triggering for me. I hope one day I can get through some of her books without having flash backs. She is an amazing human and i think teen girls could learn a lot listening to her before they get in the dating world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:44 AM
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I hate porn so much. Its beyond fucked up this kind of sexual abuse is normalized and pick mes and lvm will shame you into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:40 PM
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Yeah ugh it's so uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:05 AM
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Even if you are married and think you're in love there is still a big chance the guy could just leave especially when the pregnancy or baby get difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:09 PM
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Pick mes think it's cute when their sons do this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:43 PM
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It's awful to get harrassed constantly and coerced In to anal. I think it's an important question to start asking right when you start dating someone. Act like you're into it so he will tell you the truth. Any guy who is into it will never let it go. He will do everything he can to get you to do it with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:33 PM
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She is an awesome lady and has several books that everyone should read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:56 PM
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Lol wow harsh bro. You really think lying about some girls vagina will hurt her more than a life time with a micro penis??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:16 PM
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Religion oppresses women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:37 PM
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I also have a big butt and guys loved to comment on it or grab it. Even with loose sweat pants you can still see it so anything form fitting makes it stand out. Sadly I've gotten attacked by men wearing baggy clothes but at least I get noticed less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:04 PM
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This is a huge reason I have stopped dressing feminine and wearing make up. It sucks I miss dressing up sometimes but the creepers make me want to try and be invisible with baggy clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:07 PM
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This is a huge reason I wont be roomies with women unless they arent straight. I've had so many experiences where they would bring complete trash men home from bars. A few times I woke up to some rando guy staring at me while i slept. I had others who were dating a physically abusive guy or a guy who didn't respect them. At this point idk what is worse living with a chill guy or loving with pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:44 PM
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This is why I'll never have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:38 AM
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Seriously! Just stay single and safe at home. Males dont take as many precautions about covid safety either. They don't care if they catch covid as long as their dick gets sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:01 PM
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Right? She already is dealing with pregnancy hormones prob physically feels sick and needs a loving partner to pamper her while she grows HIS CHILD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:38 AM
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If I was this woman I would be walking to the abortion clinic and ending the relationship. This is a glimpse of what her future will be if she decided to keep this baby and stay with this ass hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:39 AM
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The girl on the right is far from flat chested she has a nice B cup and is gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:06 PM
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Fuck yeah!!!! US women need to get ready to do the same. Sending ♡ to our brave Polish sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:27 PM
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I'm sure some people would disagree with me. This is based of what I have seen and read about them. I know I can be rigid sometimes but they are all pretty anti woman in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:16 AM
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Me too!!! I used to enjoy them until I became more aware of how women in Hollywood were treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:05 PM
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He is extremely sexist and treats his female co stars like shit. When he writes his movies he always puts women in a degrading role. Kathryn Higel tried to speak out against him and how sexist he was and he ruined her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:52 PM
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I'll add him to my list. So far I've got Joe Rogan, Elon Musk, Kanye West, and Seth Rogan. It seems like any guy who idolizes any of them is anti woman trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:41 PM
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They are so fucking brave. True heros for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:08 AM
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My exes family was like this. 17 years apart but both had a similar aged kid then had 3 more kids together His mom is 60 and his dad is 77 and diagnosed with dementia and heart problems. His mom had to retire early af to take care of him and his youngest sibling is barely 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:50 PM
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Sounds like you are in my area! Lol or at least west coast. Cops arent doing shit in my city at all. Average wait time for 911 operator is 45 min then a 4 hour window the cops will show up if they decide to show up at all. Gun laws here are also fucked makes me wonder what is worse prison or getting raped and murdered by a psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:47 AM
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I work from home and have been staying home on my days off after being in a car accident. A tweaker scrote had no insurance or DL and got aggressive enough I had to leave the accident scene to be safe. Anyway I've been stuck in fight mode and have been too anxious to shower or take care of myself much since the accident. I went to the grocery store and got followed and hit on by this old creeper. I stank and was wearing my bfs sweats that are huge on me. I looked and smelled gross and this guy w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:38 AM
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And you know he is super bitter when the college cheer leaders wont axknowlwdge his existence. Incels families should stick them into involuntary psychiatric hospitalization the second they start showing anti social and maladaptive behaviors as teens. I feel like a lot of lives could be saved if incels were forced into treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:19 AM
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I feel like women are forced to socialize and get judged harshly for being a quiet anti social loner it also puts you at risk from predators. We should have the same expectations of men. The whole "you would look prettier if you smile!" Or the "youre to pretty to have bad days." Comments should be given out to these incels. Their parents should force them to be social and they should be taught how to be polite and appealing to other people just like girls are. But seriously am I the only one tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:57 PM
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They also refuse to do self work to help with anxiety problems. It's stupid they think only men have social anxiety too. No... I got over my social anxiety by going to therapy and working on it. It didn't just disappear because I'm a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:49 PM
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I was just thinking that. He def seems one bad day away from shooting up a sorority house. I feel like campus housing needs to be more aware of the signs of anti social males and what they are capable of doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:45 PM
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Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:29 PM
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Exactly. No one needs glimpses of your life unless they are your good friend or close family member. When I got off social media I found out who my real friends were because they would text me. It's also nice not having any social media on an election year or I'd end up disappointed in people I used to think were good just like in 2016. I'm going to delete this reddit account and have a more masculine sounding account name. I just need to talk to some moderators from my fave pages so they dont t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:16 PM
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I hate social media for this reason. I got rid of all my social media accounts because I was being stalked. I know some people think it's weird and I get judged for it but I would rather be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:58 PM
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I had a professor in college say she thought Zelda was the one who came up with The Great Gatsby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:53 PM
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His wife is someone worth looking up. She should have been the one to become famous not him. She was a very talented woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:16 PM
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I had a recent incident that doesn't make me feel safe to go anywhere alone anymore. Its fucked up. I've also been seeing an increase of cases where women went to prison for killing men in self defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:49 PM
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He was actually a sexist abusive piece of shit. He got his ideas for his books from his wife. He pretty much drove her to insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:54 PM
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I've dated 2 engineers and both were covert narcissists. They had no emotional intelligence and thought they were way smarter than me since "you took the easy route and got a worthless social science degree." They also made good money but were some of the cheapest people I've ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:20 AM
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Wow so she wants to be comfy? Most women who are curvy look like that in baggy clothes. I hate how women get attacked for being comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:13 AM
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That sounds awesome. I'm going to start doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:10 AM
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Do they actually pick up women this way? Seriously so trashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:20 PM
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Yeah I get called princess all the time especially since my dad bought me 3 horses when i was growing up. It never offends me because if some dude is bitchign about it i want nothing to do with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:33 PM
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That's how you get murdererd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:29 PM
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This guy deserves the death penalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:48 AM
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I wonder how she will feel when SCOTUS and trump decide women shohldnt have the right to vote work or own property anymore. Shes so fucking dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:43 PM
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Lady gaga Alejandro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:02 AM
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Lol how do fat sweaty men even get laid? Gross I dont want your sweat on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:02 PM
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So trashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:36 PM
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Women used to wait to have sex because there was no birth control and single mothers were shamed by society. Waiting until marriage sets you up for abuse. You can see by how many christains have fucked up sex lives from purity culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:29 AM
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Pretty sure 95% of men think this way. They would just never openly admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:25 PM
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So trashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:53 PM
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I started crying at work and a lot of my co workers said they cried too. I work for a crisis line and the majority of calls we got tonight were about her death and feelings of hopelessness. ♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:52 AM
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Get ready for no separation of church and state no womens right and roe v wade to be overturned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:12 AM
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What a fat ass. He prob has shit skidmarks in his underware and leaves shit skidmarks on the toilet seat too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:45 PM
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Let them think were ugly. Idgaf what they think of FDS users because they are projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:43 PM
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No fat ones no hairy ones no beards no crocks no one into anal or other kinks no one who likes elon musk or joe Rogan no trump lovers. So idk if a man like this even exists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:06 PM
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Lol did we date the same guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:21 PM
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My friend got raped when she was in the army and its given her life long PTSD. She has had to go to VA hospitals and all of the support groups were co-ed. She has brought home abusive men multiple times from her hospital stays and it never ended well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:03 PM
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I wish I would have figured this out a decade ago instead of paying for all the dates I went on with broke lvm who stayed broke the whole relationship and broke to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:30 PM
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Omfg I forgot about that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:35 PM
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So true. Also you should never leave your cats alone with someone who says they hate cats. I noticed my cat started acting weird after a month of my ex living with us. I'm sure he did some fucked up thing when I wasn't around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:15 PM
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Reddit banned me for several days for saying that rapists and child molesters deserve the death penalty. So reddit condones rape and child molesting apparently.... I'm getting sick of how anti woman reddit is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:51 PM
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I for sure know because they sent me a message with a link to my post. I think its complete bullshit and very anti woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:35 PM
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Everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:15 PM
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I got banned for 3 days posting a comment on FDS saying rapist and child molesters should get the death penalty and it was considered violent content. Did I get banned from an FDS mod or from reddit? Either way it's pretty disheartening that it was considered violent but I guess raping women and molesting children is not considered violent in the reddit world:( .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:32 PM
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I was 28 when this happened lol so a good 8 to 10 years older than the scrote making the comment lol I'm supposed to be post wall so not sure why it happened hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:55 PM
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Yeah lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:39 PM
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too busy studying for an anatomy final to shower for two days or brush my hair random scrote: you would be so pretty if you took care of yourself. Yeah sorry I was too busy getting an A in one of the hardest classes to take in college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:33 PM
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makes hand gestures to take head phones off watch me flip you off bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:45 PM
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Thanks I'm going to check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:39 AM
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Damn it used to be pretty active. I think they had to go to private because they were afraid of reddit labeling them as a hate group and banning them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:27 PM
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What? I cant find it when I look for it. Feel free to look at my post history to see I'm not a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:21 PM
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FDS is an amazing page too it just more for women who still want to try dating and need help making boundaries for themselves since society teaches women to be pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:51 PM
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It's a feminist page that used to exist. The community was awesome and never made you feel bad about your justified anger towards men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:49 PM
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Me too. I've been really missing Pinkpill feminist page :(.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:43 PM
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I should have been. I was completely crush blinded and it was by far the worst relationship I've ever been in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:42 PM
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I had an ex program a good morning and good night message in his phone so he didn't have to do it ever. For 2 years I thought he was actually sending me those texts until he drunkenly bragged to a friend about how easy it is to set it up on your phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:32 PM
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Just google search " free version of why does he do that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:52 PM
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There is a free version online too! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:11 AM
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Damn you are right about that unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:44 PM
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Guy who wrote that message : 40 pounds over weight bald neck beard low level programmer barely making 28k a year shit stains on all his underware cause he thinks touching his ass hole is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:52 PM
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I mean it is technically a bad idea according to the cdc but he shouldnt have gotten her hopes up and could have told her they were concerns for him right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:47 PM
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Lol this guy sounds like he has trouble being a pick up artist and hes bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:33 PM
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Yeah I'll take my dog and weed plants over having children anyday. Having children turns you into a slave to capitalism and a slave at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:36 PM
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Crushes are dangerous you give way too much power to the person you are crushing on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:37 PM
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That's what I used as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:18 PM
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Thank you! It took a lot of therapy to get where I'm at. I grew up with an extreme pick me christain mother who let my dad mentally abuse me and her. It def didnt set me up for successful relationships as an adult that's for sure. I had to do a lot of work to break the patterns I grew up seeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:10 PM
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Thank you that gives me hope about that condition! I've gained 25 pounds out of no where but my bf is still very attracted to me. It's weird that I'm still feeling so comfortable in my body for once even with some extra weight. During the pandemic my ex has tried to contact me multiple times with some sad pathetic story lol hes alone school is hard and he thinks to much of himself to find a gf that meets his standards and he is all about the fuck buddy life but now he is 33 with a major receding…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:08 PM
1

Yes! Sadly I stayed with him 3 years after that because I was dumb. It took him knocking me up and choking me out while I was pregnant before I woke the fuck up. After the abortion I kicked him out of my house. I wish I would have pressed charges against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:04 PM
3

Exactly. A lot if shit is common courtesy and common sense. If you have to ask them to do everything it put you in a parenting role not a partner role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:00 PM
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It really is. I got into a car accident and couldn't take care of my self a few months after and my ex would constantly complain and scream at me. I'd ask him if I should just go to my parents out of state while I healed up and hed say no hed be fine. He became more and more abusive and made me feel completely alone while I was trying to heal from a head injury. 6 years later I'm with a new guy found out I have hypothyroidism and recently got another head injury. My current bf is paying all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:17 PM
124

There arent enough female only spaces in this world :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:14 AM
6

It seems like the pro life movement think women are just incubators that need to sacrifice their life for an unborn child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:33 PM
3

Fuck yeah girl that took a lot of courage! I wish I would have called the cops on my abusive exes maybe it would have kept them from abusing more women down the road. Also congrats on leaving that ass hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:04 PM
7

Racist piece of shit! I hope she blocks him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:01 PM
30

Does he know where you live? I'm fucking scared for you girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:47 PM
58

Pure fucking gold. It took therapy for me to realize this after being in 3 abusive relationships in a row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:28 PM
10

Yeah :( I wish DV survivors got more support from the government. It seems like abusers rarely get in any kind of trouble and usually dont have to uproot their lives especially financial abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:45 PM
17

Domestic violence often causes cptsd as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:36 PM
53

Time to drop the dead weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:46 AM
6

Yeah the I love you after a week and rushing into marriage is love bombing for sure! I think after dealing with a bunch of shitty guys who wont commit it feels kind of nice at first and easy to get sucked in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:08 PM
9

Ooof hopefully she can get out of that marriage soon. Do you think hes a narcissist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:17 PM
17

I think it is extremely helpful to read up on love bombing tactics (even if you feel like you know what they are) so they stay fresh in your mind. The expert manipulators are really hard to notice sometimes. Sorry I dont want to sound negative or paranoid and I'm wishing you all the best because you deserve love and respect ♡♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:54 PM
29

It's a sweet gesture but if you have been dating for under 6 months be aware of love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:18 PM
1

Even with a HVM society is set up for women being yoked with the majority of child care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:45 PM
47

This is why I'll never have kids. This seems to be the norm with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:12 PM
20

I've really been missing Pink Pill Feminism :,( FDS has a lot of amazing ladies with solid advice but it feels like you have to go through a lot of dumb posts from pick mes to see any of the good posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:39 PM
4

That book is full of good advice. I read 3 chapters and it is still a bit triggering after a few abusive relationships I've had. I'm hoping I can pick it back up after having some therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:07 PM
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I think it was luck and also having firm boundaries. I saw him on bumble and sent him a message I got a good vibe from him and conversation was easy and nothing inappropriate. My dog was having severe anxiety issues at the time so we picked a restaurant close to me that my dog could also go to. He spent a long time calling places. We met up ate a ton of good food and talked until they closed down. When we left the restaurant he didnt make any moves on me and asked if I wanted to go out again in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:28 PM
5

Its fucking depressing there are subs that advocate and joke about violence towards women that in their mind is totally ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:44 PM
6

Seriously why would any woman decide to have kids in this society. You've got a 90% chance of turning into a slave laborer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:20 PM
4

Yeah and usually if a religious couple has trouble conceiving it's because the woman was sinful in their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:26 PM
88

More women need to hear this. It seems like women get blamed for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:36 PM
147

Wasn't he cheating on her while she was giving birth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:17 PM
9

Lol might as well play them at their own game. I've had similar experiences and got to hang out with some dumb hotties that were LVM but seemed like that all the "plates I was spinning" were hot dumb losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:05 AM
4

Pink Pill Feminism and FDS were my 2 favorite subs. I'm going to feel kind of lost without them :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:08 AM
38

I ♡ Tina Fey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:45 PM
28

I really wish she hadn't have died :( I was so young when she was alive and when she died. The more I find out about her the more I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:51 PM
3

Therapy hobbies and girl friends. I used to be the same way and it led me to some very abusive relationships and most of my 20s wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:23 PM
21

It's funny how offended they get when you call a man a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:34 PM
8

I can only cum on top. Its def made some of my partners lazy and feel way too good about themselves but I actually masturbate that way as well and cant cum any other way. It's made some guys really insecure. I just get aggressive about it because I want to cum and not just let some guy put me in various positions where hell cum in 30 seconds without giving a shit if I came or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:29 PM
2

It's even worse if you ar both a male and female narcissist magnet. When I got rid of my shitty ex and started reaching some major life goals and being happy I found out who my real friends were pretty quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:03 PM
9

Yup that's how I felt too. It's actually called triangulation and it's a manipulation technique. My ex would tell me all these hot girls he fucked while single were so much better at sex and let him do whatever he wanted to and he would call me plain and boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:42 PM
11

Me too!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:33 PM
12

Crushes are so dangerous. They let you look at all the red flags with rose colored glasses (thanks bojack for that line) and before you know it any scrap of attention they give you you just soak up. I had a crush on this guy for a year and finally we were both single I told him how I felt about him and he ghosted me from that spring until the fall time ( he needed the time to be free and fuck other girls so gross) that fall I was starting to see another guy and my crush started sending me a bunc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:18 PM
10

Omfg it totally is. Why would you let a teen carry a baby like that?!! Why didnt the teens know that they should use a condom or wait for her to be on birth control? The whole movie screams white conservative christain pro life baby farming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:28 PM
16

Wow that's some basic stuff. He was obviously playing stupid so she wouldnt ask him to go again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:23 PM
64

So gross. It's a complete turn off for me as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:52 AM
2

Lol me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:10 AM
10

Hes full of shit about being a lawyer. A lawyer would have better writing skills. This guy prob barely graduated high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:27 AM
137

Yeah they deserve to know the truth about how their shitty dad decided sex was more important than respecting their mom and staying with the family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:35 PM
193

I know right? And good for her for leaving his cheating ass instead of "staying and working on their communication".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:28 PM
19

It's a form of gaslighting and its manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:21 PM
3

Those are so good!!! I wish I had art skills like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:55 PM
5

For real. So fucking gross and he is prob hoping a woman is desperate enough for housing that she'll put up with his crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:25 PM
7

OP is that Medford OR? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:41 PM
5

Just edited my wording to help clear that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:41 AM
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I think you misunderstood what I was trying to say. It happened on another page not FDS. I am saying it's frustrating there aren't more movemements that stand for women killed by cops and males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:40 AM
6

Is this post not about violence against women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:35 PM
10

Everytime I ask "what about women of color who suffer more than any other human on earth?!!" I get called racist and get my posts taken down on pages not primarily for women. I'd really like to hear thoughts from women of color and be put in my place if I'm wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:03 PM
0

You are a bad ass. Lol update on how it went?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:00 PM
44

Frat boys = rapists. Good thing you found out he is a disgusting human before you met him in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:15 AM
30

Lol might as well make him as uncomfortable as possible. Make some delicious food for one and play some music he hates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:30 AM
4

She still studied and got herself in medical school. Hes obviously just jealous because he will always be mediocre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:11 PM
54

EDM festivals are a great place to meet losers btw. Polyamory and BDSM are a huge part of the culture. Date rape is usually just ignored. I love the music but hate the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:00 PM
30

This advice could save you from some abusive relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:16 AM
4

Me too... it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:07 AM
18

This guy seems boring and obnoxious af. I'm sure he mansplanes everything to her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:36 PM
19

Yeah and the blatant racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:55 PM
26

Lol all of them are attractive what are these losers trying to say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:15 PM
19

Omg yes very good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:44 AM
43

It's simple. "Ok well sounds like you need a mental health professional and a psychiatric evaluation so I am going to call 911 good bye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:27 AM
21

I've been worried about getting knocked up and not being able to have an abortion so I told my bf I was uncomfortable having a lot of sex right now and he hasn't asked once for sex. He also knows I'm broke and has been paying my dogs vet bills and buying all the groceries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:25 PM
58

Or he already has been banging other girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:25 PM
4

And she will have his baby too.... and both her and that kid will end up with life long mental issues and injuries from his abuse and possibly end up dead because hes a PSYCOPATH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:00 PM
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And she will have his baby too.... and both her and that kid will end up with life long mental issues and injuries from his abuse and possibly end up dead because hes a PSYCOPATH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:59 PM
6

Omfg did you see the first comment?!! "Did you talk to your husband yet?" Fucking disturbing. Any person who gets angry enough to BREAK a small animals hip is a PSYCOPATH. Get an abortion and divorce. She should have a vet write something to the court because most people are not chill about animal abuse and it might help her get a restraining order and assests so she can start over with out him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:57 PM
6

Damn I had no idea!!! I love ERW and I feel even closer to her now. I'm sick of domestic abusers barely getting a slap on the wrist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:16 AM
8

Exactly!!!! Save your body and mind a life time of bull shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:51 PM
10

How is he NOT worthless in this situation?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:49 PM
8

They usually cheat once the wife gains weight and gets a big stomach from growing a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:47 PM
12

Time to get an abortion and leave that lazy piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:46 PM
49

I'm sure she saw the signs of how lazy he was when she had her first baby. Instead of hoping things would get better with the other 4 she should have dropped his ass after the first baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:32 PM
12

Everytime I used to get these types of texts I used to respond "you didnt get hit by a bus yet? Lame." But it's so much better just to block and not respond. They dont care what kind of response they get any response gives them attention they dont deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:07 PM
9

Being on top is the only way I can. Being on top also helps a lot of my sexual ptsd issues. Sometimes I can orgasm 2 to 3 times on top its crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:22 PM
1

Hahahaha omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:05 PM
6

Good point :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:59 AM
13

What a loser. Instead of blaming him self for letting her go in the first place he is blaming her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:38 AM
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Lol put laxatives in his favorite food tell him not to eat it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:04 AM
14

This was my first thought too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:07 PM
29

I'm not really sure why you would have someone's baby unless you were married in the first place. I dont mean to victim blame but she should have gotten an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:24 PM
18

If he was a great bf he would switch to condoms so she doesn't have to be on hormonal BC anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:04 PM
58

Gross. Any one who is dumb enough to think stealing someone's bf will work out well for them deserves all the pain and misery that will happen when the man eventually cheats on them and leaves them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:00 PM
3

I used it in a big west coast city! My hometown was full of dead beat wife beater man children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:40 PM
3

I met my long term HVM on bumble but I think it was pure luck and idk if I would use online dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:56 AM
11

Ugggh. It sucks how accurate this is. Dont settle for losers like this. Any dude who is asking for nudes needs to be dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:22 PM
25

Just know you deserve to find someone who writes you paragraphs instead of 2 word responses. ♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:48 AM
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My friend is dating an ER nurse he has been working 16 hour days and still finds time to write her paragraphs to wake up to in the morning. If they are into you you will know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:41 PM
3

I complete think that is true. My mom never talk back to my dad even when he is being a crazy ass hole and I will call out any of his bull shit and he hates it. He is religious af as well which only makes home worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:27 AM
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That was the life of my mother. It sickens me how she stayed in such an awful relationship and she has no idea how badly it fucked me up long term. I can barely be around my dad without getting in a huge fight. He cant stand that I'm not submissive and that I'll tell him to fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:23 PM
26

What an evil piece of shit. I hope she starts taking pictures and recordings so she can divorce his ass and have him pay alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:05 AM
114

You can control a woman more if she's thousands of miles away from her family and dependent on you for citizenship. The grossest men are all about their mail order brides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:03 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/18/health/coronavirus-young-people.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:24 AM
10

I cant believe she is even considering taking him back. Fuck him he deserves to worry about dying and where hell get food and shelter. He could have been kind loving and respectful and he wouldn't have gotten himself in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:13 AM
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Plus he gets to brag to everyone that he is fucking two girls with both of their consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:23 PM
14

And the whole "you just arent emotionally mature enough to handle being poly "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:21 PM
108

For real... not like they have any problem lying to get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:25 AM
68

My mom was a house slave. It made me so disgusted I went the complete opposite way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:56 PM
10

I hoped it scared him for life lol. More ladies need to start making this a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:43 PM
150

Some dude came in my mouth without permission and I spat all of his cum all over his face. When he freaked out I kept asking why because it was so haaaawt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:23 AM
5

It's weird my grandma's both were in control of their marriage had separate bank accounts and worked full time. They were the head of their house holds. My mom and my dads sister married very controlling men with bad tempers who refuse to do anything around the house and always cause drama. Idk wtf happened and how the fuck my mom and aunt married the ass holes they did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:54 AM
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Birth control is never 100% and abortion rights are being taken away from a lot of women. Be picky about who you sleep with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:00 PM
7

Lol omg I was about to say that is some delusional shit. I love how you did that :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:45 PM
5

100% agree. No one has the time or emotional energy to hear about their pick me friends being abused by their shitty choices in men the refuse to leave. I told several once they dump their ass hole bfs to call me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:32 AM
12

I had an ex who would freak out when I'd straighten my hair... stfu it makes my hair easier to manage between the days I dont wash it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:56 PM
2

Also what if he starts hitting your kid when they are alone together? He might be that controlling with his romantic relationships as well...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:19 AM
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He sounds like he is evil step dad material. Being that strict is not going to help his kids long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:14 AM
5

Yes. Even for women who live in the US in a red state where abortion access is limmited and poor quality. Fly your lady to california/oregon/washington so she can be under anesthesia and be comfortable as well as being able to be treated more like a human!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:27 AM
4

Def go check it out it's an awesome sub! Lots of support for child free women who constantly get judged and put down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:10 AM
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Yeah hooking up with randos is a great way to get knocked up. Birth control is never 100% (yes even IUDs fail) and with abortion rights being stripped away you really shouldnt be hooking up with someone who cant fly you somewhere you can get an abortion in addition to being a loving supportive partner or with someone you dont want to have babies with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:00 AM
23

Yeah it's crazy how many women I've talked to who have never had an orgasm even on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:20 AM
15

Eeeew he is like a 5.5 his face is all deformed and he has the personality of a throw pillow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:12 AM
1

That's how I feel about this conversation as well. As a new person in a new city itself it's been nice having locals give me ideas in where to go. In my home town I enjoyed giving people ideas for what to do in the city. Its overwhelming not knowing anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:24 AM
5

I can see why she was upset he wasn't upfront and honest. Instead it came off as not being honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:57 AM
2

Yeah my bf and I have the same days off but we have opposite schedules so I get lots of alone time. Alone time is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:29 AM
8

I think there are grey areas. I broke my foot and lost my job in the same week. I live 2000 miles a way from any family and he offered to let me move in and told me he would cover all the bills while I healed. I've had the time to heal and search for a professional dream job of mine and things have been going well with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:43 AM
5

Birth control is never 100%. I've gotten pregnant from both the mirena IUD and the copper one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:11 AM
4

No there is a difference between missing your friend and becoming toxic. Especially when these friends fall off the planet for fuck buddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:51 PM
18

Yeah and sometimes you can have toxic platonic friends that are jealous when you are in a healthy relationship. When I started dating a HVM and never had drama or frustrations to talk about I had a few friends who got jealous. My bf has always been very kind to all my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:16 AM
16

Yeah crushes are not healthy in any way and set you up for abusive situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:48 PM
19

Lol I always leave my phone at home because it sucks and end up using my bfs phone when were out. I knew he was a hvm when he gave me his phone code without me asking so I can look for places to eat and order things on line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:33 PM
3

Tell him you want to go out. Go out eat a lot of food. Excuse yourself to the bathroom. Block all his numbers and peace out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:00 PM
7

Yeah it happened to me and I learned the hard way unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:27 AM
13

This is huge. When you dont value yourself you attract bad people around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:55 AM
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That is why therapy is important. You've got to figure out why you keep getting stuck in the same loop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:32 AM
11

Sounds like a great relationship.🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:00 AM
7

Haaawt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:56 AM
3

Girl it's not just reddit .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:25 AM
20

Uhhh.... sounds like a good way to get raped. Have any of you seen the crazy pickmeishas that write to "hot" inmates lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:19 AM
9

Sometimes men dont show who they really are until you are financially tied to them. Def a big reason to wait a few years after moving in with a guy before having a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:18 AM
2

Go to therapy and work on your self first. Otherwise you will be an easy target for abusive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:40 AM
17

My crazy ex was like that. He loved ass rape whether it was giving or receiving. Now I have sexual ptsd... I'm glad I dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:43 PM
10

For real. You could spend $10 to make a picnic find a beautiful park and spend an afternoon talking and walking around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:10 PM
18

You just described why I will never give birth. I dont trust men enough to ever put myself in a vulnerable position like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:38 PM
2

Gross....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:40 AM
3

Yeah good luck with your one sided relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:41 PM
23

Most cops are abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:25 PM
27

Yup it was an "accident" and he ended up with a bloody nose. It was supposed to be a romantic camping date and he ruined it. Idk why I didnt leave his ass right after. I stayed for 3 more awful years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:50 AM
38

Ugh anal is awful. I had an ex that tried pressuring me every time we had sex. I dumped his ass. I should have dumped him sooner. This might be tmi but when he finally pressured me Into it afterwards I got physically I'll I had a fever and started having weird pieces of poop fall out. I couldn't be far from the bathroom. I was supposed to travel the next day but could barely leave bed. It was horrific. And guess what? After all that he continued to pressure me daily for anal. Thanks to him I hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:40 PM
13

A lot of men might seem HV until you have finances tied together and they know it's harder for you to leave. As soon as the behavior starts get the fuck out of there. It won't get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 09:08 PM
12

Straight up ballin... what an accomplishment besides talking to an ex of 10 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:11 PM
4

Lol who ever wrote this has a low IQ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:37 PM
5

Exactly! The more you give the more they take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:04 AM
17

Exactly and it sounds like he has quite a beefy child support payment too. So I hope she gets to queen it up now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:17 PM
42

OP was bitching about child support I called him out saying of his spouse cheated he should have been able to win his divorce case then he kept bitching and crying and it finally came out that his wife never cheated I said well maybe if you treated your wife better you wouldn't be getting divorced then that douche canoe started the DV comment. Like wtf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:12 PM
7

Yeah society makes it clear the DV is no big deal because the bible (or other religious text) says that you can beat your wife into submission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:09 PM
18

And they go against their own gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:07 PM
40

I actually said that further up and almost got banned for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:51 PM
15

He has prob beat everyone of his gfs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:37 PM
22

Pick mes are worse than scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:28 PM
1

Why dont you fight for full custody? Lawyer up show that her cheating and fucking randos is going to harm the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:53 PM
3

Way to avoid responsibility and leave vital information out. It sounds like you are bitter and want validation more than you want to look in the mirror to see how you got in this situation in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:38 PM
8

Lol I work for a divorce attorney in a republican state I have seen hundreds of cases and judges reactions. Idk where you get your experience? Something is very fishy about your story. . I think you are leaving out some vital information.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:29 PM
11

It was disgusting. I couldn't look at him the same. Lol I called him out when his mom came to visit. It was great. Fucking gross....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:26 PM
9

If both parents are 50/50 and splitting medical,clothing,and school/daycare costs, I dont think either parent should have to pay. However most of the time Men dont want to have 50/50 custody because they hate having to do the day to day stuff like getting kids ready for bed helping with home work etc. Most men I've seen come in want to feel like a free bachelor who get their kids every other weekend but still think they shouldn't have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:15 PM
25

This sounds like a woe is me post. I work in divorce law and most cheating spouses dont win divorce battles. So if she cheated on you it should have been easy to keep what you wanted so you must have had a shit lawyer. As for custody who ever has the kids the least amount of time should have to pay child custody. Maybe you should have fought harder to be the primary care giver. I'm guessing she didnt cheat and you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:43 PM
32

My 30 year old roommate last year was fucking a 19 year old girl and loved to brag to his friends about it. Every nude she sent him he showed his friends. It was gross I moved out soon after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:16 PM
5

A guy who cares about you will use condoms. Any guy who isn't ok with them isn't worth your health over. I've had several LTR s and we used condoms the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:52 AM
3

gag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:33 AM
1

Lol I'm not the one complaining about it on social media just trying to show you how it looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:20 PM
1

Yeah a lot of women want acknowledgement about how our society promotes rape culture and violence towards women but it's not going to happen. So you stfu and make the changes you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:36 PM
0

It sounds like you just want a pity party instead of fixing your problems. It's easy to blame everything else but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:03 AM
16

I'm on my way to getting banned in purple pill debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 11:08 PM
1

Np! :) not sure how my comment was abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 11:07 PM
23

Same girl same. It's how I ended up in 3 abusive relationships in my 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:40 PM
5

Please be careful you can turn your back one second and your drink will be drugged. If you start feeling funny call 911 and tell a bar tender asap!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:39 PM
29

I bet it was a man who blocked you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:36 PM
7

WTF!! If it was the other way around you know she'd be rotting in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:28 PM
12

100% agree. I had to learn social skills as a child because my parents moved so much. Now people are shocked about how fast I make friends. Literally it's just some small talk and remembering little tid bits they tell you then moving on asking deeper questions and so on... I've dated q few guys with no social skills and it drove me insane. They got jealous of how easily I made friends and the connections I had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:23 PM
2

Yeah I get that. In my younger years I was poly without knowing it. I got burnt out after 6 months and missed having free time. Now I'm old and love chilling alone lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:46 PM
10

I get she's too far a long now but she prob shouldn't have kept it in the first place due to health reasons. If he was already being a selfish ass hole why would you keep having babies with him? Birth control fails but there are ways around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:17 PM
14

Why is she still breeding with this ass hole? Get an abortion and divorce him. It doesn't sound like she should be going through another pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:58 PM
4

Yeah idk when you'd ever have time for you time and working on yourself if you had multiple relationships or fuck buddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:49 PM
10

That's great and all but why not stay single and have a lot of fuck buddies? What happens if you or your partner end up with an STD or unplanned pregnancy?? It sounds complicated and like there are too many risks involved. I have yet to meet anyone who has had a happy healthy poly relationship. Almost all I've seen have been toxic af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:06 PM
16

Agreed. They both are shitty for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:03 PM
11

Polygamy is different than polyamory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 06:05 PM
25

He is using that as a control method once that stops working he could become physically abusive to gain control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:27 AM
0

It's pretty fucking creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:02 AM
17

Maybe he should have worn a condom. Her body her choice. That's the risk you take unless you get a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:36 PM
3

I'm guessing this lady gets a ton of UTIs and yeast infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:16 PM
5

Congrats on your freedom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:41 PM
10

What a loser why would you start a conversation like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:48 PM
5

Ok! I just want all ladies to stay safe out there. I didnt want to come off as rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:25 PM
10

Yeah it makes me never want to have kids. I don't want to be stuck with a shitty man who doesn't contribute. Sometimes men don't turn shitty until you are tied to them. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:22 PM
15

I get where you are coming from but you have to realize how unsafe that would be with an unstable angry guy. It could cause them to snap and hurt or kill you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:05 AM
37

I look up " naked old fat man " and then send those pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:18 AM
23

I'm so sick of seeing " I don't want to destroy the rest of his life bla bla bla" after some peice of shit dude should face the consequences of his actions so maybe he stops doing what he's doing. Women let these ass holes get away with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:16 AM
3

I think it sound more like holding them accountable than getting revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:11 PM
2

There is no way to replicate it and get the same results so it is not considered scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:36 AM
2

Yeah I def want to finish the book! I just have to do it in private now lol. I'm on page 150 rn. It's also showing me how many platonic relationships were toxic as well. I've had to cut a lot of people out who I thought were good people but really they aren't. I wish I had read the book when I was 18 I would have avoided so much bull shit and would have understood how abusive my dad really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:11 AM
2

Surveys filled out by people is not the best type of research bud. The 4500 couples were from one region as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:04 AM
1

Lol I did actually. I would not be able to use this as research material in any of my scholarly writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:02 AM
2

Yeah I was trying to make it my train commute book but I can't anymore I need to smoke weed to keep from having a panic attack when I read it. I feel like almost every man including my dad has been manipulative and abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:01 PM
0

That is not a credible source. Stop using junk science that wouldn't be published in a medical journal. It makes you look like an uneducated idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:54 PM
13

Same. I have boobs and an ass and six pack and dudes always creep on me. I was hoping after 30 it would stop but it hasn't so now I wear loose comfy clothes all the time unless I'm going to just be around women or gay guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 08:38 PM
13

Fucking creepy. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:42 PM
10

Lol ohhhh but public schools are set up for girl and how girls learn best from those feminists!! Yeah.... I've been told this by more than one guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 05:10 AM
3

That would be awesome. All women should read it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:38 PM
32

Yeah my live in bf was sending dick picks to random craigslist men and women and I caught him he came up with an extravagant lie and continued to lie also while this was happening I had a traumatic brain injury and injured spine I gained some injury weight that made my ass and boobs bigger. He would ignore me and call me ugly and plain and how he wished I was more feminine. After i found out about the dick picks i found a fuck buddy for myself and never tried to hide it lol my bf found out 3 mon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:13 PM
26

That's awesome. What a fucking loser guy he got what was coming to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:04 PM
47

Poly guys are all scum. Most are manipulative and abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 05:03 PM
7

Exactly. Both of my abusive exes have gone on being abusive to their new gfs. I think what a lot of people don't understand is how manipulative these men are. They will figure out everything you are into and mirror it until you're tied financially with them and it's hard to leave. I wish I had known what love bombing was years ago. I remember during the time it was happening something always felt off but I ignored the feeling because here were dudes that actually called and texted every day plan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:13 AM
12

Yeah it's been a little triggering for me but its helping the healing process. I dated a covert narc and an overt narc and it has given me long term health and mental issues. In the first couple pages the book said that the number one reason for injury in women 15 to 45 is injury from domestic partners :( so many women get trapped in abusive relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:46 AM
12

There is a free pdf version online!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:42 AM
8

They also fuck things up for everyone else. They are like table scraps fed to a starving person. Eat enough table scraps and there is no point working for a steak dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:58 PM
17

Fuck having kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:16 PM
5

What a loser. I hope she ditches his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:17 AM
10

It's happened to so many of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:12 AM
2

This is why I will never have kids. I know I'll get postpartum depression I know my body will be ruined so wtf is the point? Oh the best part I can either stay with the cheating ass hole due to having a new born baby or I can leave and try and survive as a single parent with a new born.... sounds like a great situation to find your self in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:11 AM
10

This dude is probably obsessed with anal fucking barely legal 18 year olds and choking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:31 AM
48

That happened to my friend. She was dating a director and she had found out he was banging his actresses and then took her on a trip with his while filming crew bought a 15k ring and proposed with 30 people around my friend was in shock since she had just found out about the cheating. She is really shy and hates crowds or being the center of attention. He knew that and used it to his advantage she said yes and 2 seconds later he was posting it all over fb. She dumped him a week later and he stal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:17 AM
6

I have scars from my cystic acne and I got called pizza face a lot in my early 20s. The lush coffee scrub worked really well for me and now I have clear skin. Then I moisturized with cbd oil which I was worried about since my skin is so greasy but it actually helps with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:29 PM
5

Or really scare them by saying you've got baby fever lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:35 AM
5

Exactly! I had the Mirena and STILL got pregnant it was bull shit. Now condoms every time with my current bf. He hasn't complained once either like other dudes have. But seriously if a guy won't wear a condom or throws a bitch fit about it than ditch him and use a vibrator instead lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 03:42 AM
10

Yup I got pregnant with an IUD and on the pill. Thankfully I was able to get abortions and not be tied to an abusive bf forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:27 PM
9

Idk why women don't have a back up plan for themselves. You should have some kind of career before getting married and have enough money between you and your husband for day care before trusting a man enough to have babies with. Otherwise you're stuck until those babies turn 12 or 13.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:26 PM
18

Yeah so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 10:23 PM
58

"Seeing the best in people" is the worst advice ever. It's how I ended up in toxic friendships and relationships. People need to prove they are trustworthy and worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:28 PM
69

Bonus points if the guy starts freaking out and calling you a bitch. "Yeah I think your testosterone levels are low bud. Otherwise you'd be more chill."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:22 PM
96

Lol my thoughts exactly. He tells her how to dress how to eat how to act.. . I think he's abusive and crazy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:50 PM
2

You've got this. It's hard at first but you will be so much better off in the long run. You deserve so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:07 PM
10

Have a tazor on you and tell him to go away. He sounds like the type that would try to drug you the second you leave your drink unattended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:14 AM
3

Also being on top I orgasm 98% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:31 PM
14

If he's a quality guy he'll appreciate your concern. If he's not then he's going to throw a fit about it and try to coerce you into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 07:33 AM
38

He just wants his dick wet with little to no effort on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:59 AM
7

Lol its worse when a guy does it. I kind of expect it from pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:43 PM
151

No one cares about vague booking. It just screams of desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:49 AM
5

I've had exes stay but I was 100% over them. We just both needed some time to get financially stable and separate bills and stuff. Ground rules are important. No sex with each other no bringing people home giving each other some alone time in the apartment. It's doable but not fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:25 AM
14

Omfg. I usually try to pretend to be into polyamory and anal to see their response. It helps you waste a lot less time. Unless you want a fuck buddy there is no point in wasting more time with them. Also most guys who claim to be polyamory want to be able to fuck all the girls he wants but as soon as you start fucking another dude they freak out. Lol shows you what they really want... someone at home to cook and clean while they get to spend their money on other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:21 AM
10

That sounds awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:27 PM
29

No alcohol or leaving your beverage unattended ever. They can drug your drink while you're in the bathroom. Men love alcohol because they think it makes women easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:23 PM
2

You hit the wall bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:06 AM
42

Yeah. Hobosexuals all need to get shipped off to an island where they can live off the land or die together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:54 AM
151

He's probably out somewhere crying about how he's the victim. I hope he has to suck dick for money and a place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:09 AM
3

You are not a prude! You deserve the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:27 AM
5

He sounds rapey. It would be different if he invited you and a bunch of people and you had your own car. If you go he is going to expect sex and will coerce you into it or rape you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:25 AM
1

No for well off vs poor dead beat dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:10 AM
7

Omfg she did nothing wrong. How is it cheating when her ex decided to fuck another woman? It's funny how men believe they can tell when a woman has had a lot of partners because they think you'll have a loose vag. Fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 12:57 AM
2

Lol just "statistics and math" huh. Do you realize how stupid you sound saying that but not showing any sources to back up your claim? Have you ever taken a statistics class bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:48 AM
3

Solid advice!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:32 AM
1

For sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:11 AM
47

The victim blaming on here is lame. People make mistakes. She's trying to start over her life and needs support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:54 AM
3

Wow he's so deep lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:25 PM
27

Yeah because only guys are allowed to be in shitty moods. What does he do when YOU'RE in a bad mood? Call you a cunt and ignore you most likely...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:04 AM
2

That's how the RAs were in my college too. Useless. The only way I got anywhere with campus housing was threatening to sue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:33 PM
2

I'm sorry that happened to you. Do you feel safe? Maybe talk to your RA or campus housing. I'm legit worried for you girl. Keep that tazer close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:23 PM
3

I usually date 4 to 5 years younger. I'm 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 07:36 PM
8

Seriously 99% of frat boys and frat parties are trash. A lot of them talk about how to get away with date rape, and will drug your drink without a second thought to look cool with their frat bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:35 PM
16

What a fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 04:24 AM
2

Edit: drugged drunk girls and then fingered them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:44 AM
5

Wtf!! Red states are the worst. I'm glad I was able to get the f out. Not like rape just disappears but I've seen multiple dudes in my states get an 8 year prison sentence for sticking their fingers in drunk girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:41 AM
7

I met a lot of people in my classes who didn't start college until their mid thirties. It's never too late for an education!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:15 AM
2

Typical rape story sadly :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:58 AM
11

We live in a very red state so he said she asked him for anal and got naked. So yeah he paid nothing and never got punished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:57 AM
38

I'd kill myself before I'd let that happen to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:50 AM
9

That is the smart thing to do. The more attached you get the more they will try to coerce you into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:46 AM
29

My best friend got raped annaly so bad she had to have reconstructive surgery. She has to take laxatives and wear depends and she's only 31. Meanwhile the guy who did it got to finish college and makes over 100k a year. She's tried to take him to court in every way possible and failed. Rapists deserve to fucking die. I'm so sorry that happened to you :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 05:45 AM
14

Yeah there is no way I'll ever talk about that stuff with my super conservative parents lol. They were freaked out enough when I lived with a bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:19 PM
36

I'm 32 and work in a college environment and I try to be a person ladies feel comfortable talking to about sex stuff. I'm actually way more impressed with Gen Z compared to my millenial generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:52 PM
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I think parents are so weird about female sexuality they avoid talking about a lot of that with their daughters. So then when a girl finally has sex she is too afraid to talk about it because she thinks (and probably would) she'll get shamed. I worked at a college with a lot of 18/19 year old girls and a lot of them would talk to me about guys pressuring them for stuff and got called prudes. A lot of them were so worried about losing a guy because they had such low self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:51 PM
4

Hormones after sex are a hell of a drug. You fucked your biology wanted a baby and attachment but your brain knows better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 01:57 PM
4

Or just don't invite him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 07:08 PM
3

Yeah I don't find them attractive at all. They seem gross because most guys do an awful job keeping them cleaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 11:48 PM
9

That guy sounds like he's trying to drug her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:32 PM
7

Exactly. I really recommend everyone read up on narcissism and check out the narcissistic abuse page to see what these men are capable of. You need to be able to protect yourself and see through love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:25 PM
24

Anal sex is an instant turn off. So many guys try to coerce you into it. It's one of the first questions I ask before having sex with someone now. I pretend to be into it so they don't lie. If they say yes I ditch them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 12:39 AM
6

Lol I'm sure you're an alpha bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:15 PM
11

This will help you weed out the bads ones fairly quickly however a skilled narcissist will be so well mannered until you are attached to him. Everyone on here needs to read about narcissism and protect them selves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:14 PM
9

Fuck yeah girl! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:23 AM
1

Awww are you flirting with me? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:32 PM
2

Ooooh good one bro. Lol how is life in your mom's basement? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:07 PM
0

Lol yeah they get triggered so easy. I doubt many of them are very educated. They clearly have no idea how to read a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:47 AM
2

Sexy from hard work https://www.pinterest.com/pin/360076932687587408/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:12 PM
1

Gym rat meat head https://www.google.com/amp/www.dirtyandthirty.com/love/types-of-l-a-men-article-series-because-stereotypes-exist-for-a-reason-type-3-the-meathead-aka-gym-rat/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:10 PM
5

I agree the gym rat look is not attractive to me. A man who is strong from being active and from his job is sexy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:25 PM
5

There are a lot of uneducated men on this sub who have never taken a basic statistics class. They just see something they think will prove their point without reading the study well (or they just don't have the brain cells to see it lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:21 PM
4

Never knew this side of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 02:47 AM
6

Some of them are pro manipulators and really great at love bombing you into thinking they are great guys. They call text and plan expensive dates they ask you tons of questions trying to learn about you (and ways to trick you) I think it's crucial for single people to learn these tactics and pay close attention before you end up in an abusive relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 10:21 PM
3

Use him for a free place to stay focus on getting good grades then leave and start your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 09:55 PM
1

Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:58 PM
1

Every bf I've had has been around 5 or 6 years younger. My fiance is 3 years younger. I've never had kids, I like to party and I stay in shape. No one ever guesses my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:28 PM
12

Exactly. Birth control isn't 100%. I got pregnant with an IUD and the guy who got me pregnant was really abusive. It was an awful situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:20 PM
3

OMG this is great advice. So many lonely fuck boys LOVE to just text and put in 0 effort. It's a huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:16 PM
3

Best of luck to you beautiful ♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:13 PM
10

I think this sub is awesome for helping you pick out the bad ones. I'd also recommend checking out the narcissistic abuse sub and reading all about narcissists so you can see the red flags. They are so common and it's good to protect your self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:12 PM
9

Yeah after 3 abusive relationships and a ton of therapy I think I finally found a good guy. He knew about my sexual trauma and never once made me feel pressured. He is a good guy. Ironically we met from bumble lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:09 PM
4

Exactly! You shouldn't feel pressured into sex ever! You deserve respect not to be treated like a sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:08 PM
24

Damn. What an ass hole. I hope you blocked his number. I hate how common this is :( you deserve to be respected! Even with birth control there is always a chance of it failing. Some dudes really aren't worth that risk! When I met my current bf we had made out a lot but he never tried to get me to have sex. I was the one that initiated it because I couldn't wait any longer. First time that has ever happened with a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 07:04 PM
1

Women would pick up on all the red pill tricks and stop dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:59 PM
3

He looks mentally disabled from incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 09:25 AM
5

He looks like he is missing a ton of brain cells. He isn't attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:10 AM
4

Yeah you know like how rapists can get child custody in some states now?! Fuck this country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:59 PM
3

Word up sister octopus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:57 PM
5

Damn that's a great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 07:35 PM
3

Yup I've been waiting to see bad behavior. And waiting to see him under stress. That's how you can really tell. Although my other exes could belt hold it together for 2 months before they went crazy and it's been 8 months and I haven't seen the anger issues with the new guy. Ugghh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 01:28 AM
5

After 3 narc exes I still feel worried but I've been through a lot of therapy and read a lot of books on narcissism in males. Ugh worst 6 years of my life this is the first time I've been happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:34 AM
6

Lol you're awesome. I'm dating a guy 3 years younger now. I really didn't think I wanted a relationship but my bf and I just really communicate well and get each other. If this relationship ends up failing I don't think I'll be in one ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:16 AM
1

https://stevensoncompany.com/7-signs-statistics-accurate-2/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:07 PM
9

Woot!! I can't wait lol. I have never had kids I did party a lot in my 20s but also exercise and eat well most of the time. Lol it always makes me laugh seeing these red pillers saying you hit the wall after 25 but then why are 24 and 25 year Olds trying to date an old lady like me? I can't wait for the cougar life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 10:59 PM
1

It's a lot different when it has to do with human psychology. Those studies are bunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:49 PM
17

I get hit on way more at 32 than I did at 22 lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:33 PM
1

Yeah and those studies aren't accurate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:51 PM
-1

Lol that makes it even worse then. Have you ever taken a statistics class?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:50 PM
-1

No, it's definitely not enough people for a legit study. Statistics 101 bud. The more people that are in the study the more likely the results are actually significant. Also the study he posted hasn't even been able to be replicated which is another huge red flag. Saying 160 people would be an accurate cross section of women in first world countries is idiotic and definitely a bunk pseudoscience study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:27 PM
3

160 is not enough people for a legit study..... if it was in the 1000s then maybe I'd believe it. I think you need to take some statistic classes bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:53 PM
2

I had a guy do this only he added up all the time we spent together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:14 PM
1

Guess it's time to empty your diva cup full of menstrual blood in his beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:08 PM
3

They really are!!! I keep my phone on and next to me at night now because I have 2 friends I'm worried about. If my friend hadn't have had her ringer on that night I might be dead. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 08:03 PM
1

No, personally if my IUD failed I'd be headed to the abortion clinic. I don't want to ruin my body by giving birth to some shit bags baby. It would be fun ruining his life and going after him for child support and everything but not worth the whole being pregnant alone and birthing a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:25 PM
3

I had a bf exactly like this... he pressured me to be on BC and it was fucking up my body. I started cheating on him with a man who had a vasectomy and told him I was done because I refuse to take BC anymore and he begged for me back and promised to find condoms. Lol they are so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 07:19 PM
1

Condoms break and birth control fails.... please get a vasectomy so you don't reproduce ever. We don't need more shit bags on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:16 PM
1

You seem like the type that doesn't wear condoms and then think it's the woman's fault after she said she's not on birth control. I hope you get a lot of women knocked up and have to constantly run away from child support and warrants for your arrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:09 PM
1

Lol why would a guy take off a condom if he doesn't want kids? A man can easily over power a woman and keep going with sex even if she tells him to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:06 PM
1

A lot of women require them and men will take it off later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:04 PM
1

Well he should have worn a condom if he didn't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:00 PM
5

Yeah!! :) after a lot of therapy I finally found an awesome guy. It took me a long time to figure out how to enforce the boundaries I had. My new bf never has tested my boundaries once which has been a huge green flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:34 PM
2

That sub is so fucked up. Everything I've written I have 20 guys tell me I got where I am today in life because I have a vagina : /
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:28 PM
3

I'm 31 and have consistently dated men in the 25 to 27 age range. Even my younger bfs said they couldn't deal with an 18 to 22 year old because they would have nothing in common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:23 PM
5

My exes tried to take me away from my friends thankfully I lied about texting them all the time lol. They instantly got worried when I wasn't available to hang out ever and started asking the hard stuff I didn't want to think about. They gave me ideas to catch my exes in lies. When one of my exes got drunk and abusive I grabbed my dog and walked to my friends house. He stayed up all night telling me what a cheating hoe I was. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:20 PM
6

What a shitty friend too. The women in my life would not be into that at all. One of my best friends bfs was flirting with me so much and tried to get in my pants. Guess what I told her everything and she dumped his ass and we make fun of his pathetic life together. It was so fucked she broke her leg and gained 20 pounds and he started flirting with other women. She took care of him so much when he was injured and sick their whole relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:32 PM
6

Sorry about the typo on my title! I'm a newb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:26 PM
1

The navy is not even close to as impressive as being a navy seal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:03 AM
1

You sure have a lot of opinions about college for someone who failed to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:36 AM
1

Get off your lazy ass and go to college instead of making pathetic excuses for not going.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:32 AM
1

I guess I'm a troll for calling you a lazy incel. You can't just call people trolls because you disagree with their worldviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:32 AM
1

Damn boy! I'm surprised you stopped jerking off in your mom's basement to have this enlightening conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:29 AM
1

Hahaha! You sure are God's gift to man kind aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:26 AM
1

Believe what you want bud. It's not my problem that you will be a low value virgin man until you die. YOLO lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:15 AM
1

I'm on my phone bud. I think you are getting pretty desperate to come up with any reason to be a lazy incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:09 AM
1

I think you are trying to find any excuse you can to be an uneducated poor low value man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 01:03 AM
1

So why did he get 50% and why did I get 50%? We studied together and both have a high paying career after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:58 AM
1

Lol wow no we were actually on the same level we got close to the same scores on our GRE tests and always competed with each other. A test doesn't care about your gender you take it and a computer scores it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:50 AM
3

Like I said... my dude Co worker applied for the same ones (he is an average white male) sometimes he'd get first place with more money and sometimes I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:47 AM
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Well considering I worked to pay for college myself and got scholarships for having a 4.0 you are completely wrong. My Co worker (white male) go through school the same way I did. We helped each other with scholarship forms every year. It sounds like you are jus making excuses for your shitty life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 12:29 AM
9

He sounds like a big waste of time. A guy that's into you will want to talk to you and hang out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:50 PM
8

Tell him you wait a month to have sex with someone and see his reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:42 PM
2

There is so much propaganda out there about how hard abortion is and bla bla bla. In a way I'm glad I got pregnant because the hormones made me not take shit and seeing their tear stained faces when I told them I got an abortion and I'm also leaving them was priceless. Also having an abortion really wasn't that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:19 PM
7

A lot of then think jesus told them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:37 PM
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I used bumble for the first time ever and found my current ltr bf. His profile had him with animals and we had similar interests. I reached out and we ended up talking and joking all afternoon over messaging. He suggested we meet up for some food and we ended up talking from 8pm until 2 am. When the bar started closing I said I was getting tired and he said he should head home but hoped we could meet up again soon I said yeah! We ended up having a really good conversation the whole next day so w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:27 PM
12

Damn I wish I was infertile but unfortunately I'm not lol. It's crazy these dudes are so fucking dumb. They need to step away from the pseudoscience articles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:50 PM
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Gross. It sounds like he was just trying to manipulate you after you told him your intentions instead of being honest about his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:43 PM
3

It's not that hard to go to college and get a better career as a single person with no kids. There is no excuse for having a low paying entry level job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:40 PM
3

Banter is annoying af and complete opposite of having a good sense of humor. Most guys will dish it out but get butt hurt when you do it back to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:31 PM
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Lol yeah he is average looking and broke but thinks he deserves a 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:10 PM
2

Lol yeah I'm sure you are....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 05:05 PM
12

I think it's also important to learn some self defense techniques or have some kind of protection when you are meeting randos I've had too many friends get raped. Sorry for getting all mom on you ladies. Stay safe out there ♡♡♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:45 PM
7

My ex banged his best friends mom while I was asleep down stairs. Talk about a winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:13 AM
6

I found this place because of hate posts on purple pill debate! Lol it got some incells and red pills all sorts of pissed off and I had to see what they are talking about. So glad this place is here with all of the fucked up shit they get each other t do to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:03 AM
4

Hey my dad is a narc too... it's fucked up how that works out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:40 AM
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God he sounds text book narcissist. So glad you escaped. He'd probably have gotten abusive with you once you lived together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:46 PM
8

For real! If I wasn't with my current sweet kind bf I'd be feeling the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:37 PM
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RPW is seriously so pathetic. Lol I got banned for life in under 20 minutes of being on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:36 PM
8

Financial abuse is serious shit. Ive seen it happen to my mom and a lot of other women in my life. You should always have job skills and your own income coming in even if it's super part time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:20 PM
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I've dated 3 abusive narcs. There are a ton of guys like my exes out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:13 PM
5

Ugggh I hate dudes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 06:01 PM
7

Advice like just shut up and just let your man make all the decisions! Be a sex door mat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 05:02 AM
1

I wasn't trying to win. I was trying to enlighten you. I hope you start thinking outside of the box and stop taking advice from frat bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:21 AM
1

*you're. Yeah that sounds like maladaptive behavior bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:02 AM
0

I think you might be a maldeveloped adult if you think being respectful to women won't get you a gf but instead believe you should treat them like sex objects and manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 04:44 AM
0

Typical boring response trying to make yourself feel better about not getting laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 04:43 AM
1

Lol you must not be getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 04:31 AM
1

I hope the incel life is working out for you then ; )
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 09:00 PM
1

They don't a lot of times unless they are baby trapping him. A lot of women make fun of men who suck in bed and talk about how most of their partners can't make them cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:59 PM
2

Yeah they are and a lot of men who treat women with respect always have a hot gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:56 PM
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Or that's what they think when women have to fake an orgasm because they can't get women to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:53 PM
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Men who treat women like sexual objects are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:44 PM
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Men who think they are winners but in reality they are losers who like to manipulate and control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:36 PM
2

Wow sob story jfc bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 04:48 AM
1

When I first moved to Portland I was SE 82nd and Johnson creek area and there were tons of trashy people but even houses out there aren't the cheapest. Gresham is also still a shit hole. I wouldn't be able to afford my house now if I made less than 90k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:34 AM
1

https://www.bestplaces.net/cost_of_living/county/oregon/multnomah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 04:27 AM
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You'd be lucky to find a house out here for under 400k now. Now there are lots of well off people who have time and money for personal trainers and dietitians. There are fat people around but they are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:44 AM
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Lol I live in North Portland actually... and most women I see are fit and really into diet fads. I'm 5'4 125 and probably the heaviest of all my friends here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:56 PM
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Where the fuck do you live? 140 is considered chunky where I live lol most women are in the 100 to 130 range on the west coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 08:08 PM
2

Lol that's what I was thinking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:11 PM
1

No... he would be dead after I pulled my gun out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:22 AM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:12 AM
5

Lol virgin alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:45 PM
2

That sounds like a great recipe for a life time of misery for all involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:36 PM
1

Maybe you should get a vasectomy if you don't want to take care of kids....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:34 PM
3

Lol says a guy who lives in his mom's basement in Nebraska.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:31 PM
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Men body shame women's vaginas all the time. Men are so fucking sensitive it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:29 PM
2

Lol jealous much? Who the fuck cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:20 PM
7

Yeah because so many guys would stick around if that happened to their new gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:50 PM
1

Yeah I don't get it either. . Abortions end up saving everyone money long term. Also by having an abortion you keep a potential child out of life long poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:22 PM
5

And easily controlled and manipulated by an older man. A red pilled man's dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 10:50 PM
2

I really think it comes down to social skills and hobbies. If you're boring women won't be attracted to you unless you're rich. I've gone out with a few "chads" and 10 min into the date I was figuring out a way to ditch out because they were so fucking lame lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:04 PM
2

Lol I've always liked shorter men better because I'm 5'5 and it's better for cuddling I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:02 PM
1

I think it really depends on the women. When guys made me feel safe and respected it was a huge turn on and I fell for them hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:43 PM
1

What strategy? Wanting a guy who is kind considerate and doesn't demand sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:36 PM
1

Lol yeah OK dude whatever you have to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:27 PM
2

As you stated before All you need is a single counterexample to disprove a universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:38 PM
1

It did for 7 years each. The only reason we broke up is that they wanted kids and I didnt. If they wanted to be child free we would have stayed together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:35 PM
1

The guys who have been respectful kind and don't push sex on me are the ones I ended up dating for years. They are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:31 PM
1

It may be illegal but so is rape and it still happens frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:30 PM
1

You have no idea how many creepy guys have gotten aggressive when I have turned them down. A few have tried to follow me home. I was never rude but politely told them I wasn't interested. A few have tried to put roofies in my drink and didn't think I noticed. There are a ton of entitled males out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:18 PM
2

Lol OK let's use that logic on some of the statements incels use on women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:10 PM
2

All men think women owe them sex. It doesn't matter if they are zac effron hot or look like a troll. If a 10/10 raped me I'd make sure he'd suffer just as much as if a 1/10 raped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:05 PM
4

I'm volcel now because men just aren't worth the bull shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:02 PM
1

No. Shitty men who think women owe them sex for existing is the reason for 3rd wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:57 PM
5

Maybe it's time to get in therapy to work on your anti social issues. You'll be a lot happier after working on your social skills instead of bitching about never getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:51 PM
1

Maybe it's time to crawl out of mom's basement and join the real world bruh....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:49 PM
2

Lol I bet you get laid way more than the anti social incels on here who think women owe them sex because you're actually fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:47 PM
2

Lol like lifting and then playing video games in your mom's basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:46 PM
3

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:25 PM
3

Every guy I've been in a relationship with has been 5'9 to 5'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:17 PM
3

Right? I have never had a person I've dated ask for n count. I don't think I would have dated them if they did despite the fact I have a low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:50 PM
2

Why would you need commitment if you can pay your own way in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:30 PM
1

It's gross. I don't respect women like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:30 PM
2

I'm very happy with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:15 PM
1

Yeah it was bad because they both wanted kids more than being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:27 AM
2

Not sure where you got the idea that women need men at all? I pay my own way in life and worked hard for a good career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:15 AM
1

I'm attracted to men who aren't sexist players that expect women to suck cock and get fucked in the ass and worship them. My exes were short soccer players 5'8 and on the skinny side. We broke up because they wanted kids and I dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:14 AM
1

Alphas are not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:03 AM
3

Yeah after seeing men fuck over family and friends my whole life and after 2 bad ltr I prefer to be celibate instead of dealing with a man child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:13 AM
1

I'm celibate by choice because 99% of men suck. When I get horny I take care of it myself because it's easier than dealing with man drama. I can't wait to get old so dudes stop hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:05 AM
-3

You could get castrated to help with your hormone problems? Maybe get some new hobbies and make new friends? Not be as picky about big girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:50 AM
-2

I'd use a viberator and watch porn lol and then fill my days working on my career and hobbies. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:34 AM
2

That is pretty old a lot has changed in years. Also I know a lot if women who pay for their own way for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:38 PM
5

That's why abortions shouldn't be so stigmatized. Abortions save tax payers money long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:29 PM
3

I make my own money and I'm kid free and I know a lot of women in a similar boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:57 PM
1

I've dated all younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:55 PM
-1

I completely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:32 PM
2

WOMEN DON'T OWE MEN SEX get this through your entitled incel brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:20 PM
2

Not all women want kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:40 PM
1

Religious men are abusive in other ways. A lot of them believe women don't enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:25 PM
0

Even in shows like the Simpsons family guy parks and rec.... I can think of more. They didn't get the skinny lady fat husband idea themselves it's an American norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 05:08 PM
2

I see this everywhere I've lived in the US lol for example : Trump and his wife....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 04:52 PM
1

The guy you're talking about either has no personality and has trouble making meaningful connections or hasn't met someone who is compatible with him. Height has nothing to do with it. I'm tired of men who have no personality or who take advice from stupid men's dating advice pages (you can always tell when a man resorts to using horrible advice he got online) if you can't get a date work on being an interesting person and stop blaming women. You sound like an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 04:37 PM
1

Lol height is so stupid. I'm 5'4 and have dated a guy 5'5 and 5'7. I've never once looked at height as a good or bad thing. Usually sex is better and cuddling is better with short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:52 PM
3

She definitely didn't seem to be fine with it.
/r/seduction23/09/19 11:45 PM
1

Lol are you a 9 or a 10 your self? Or a 5 in mom's basement.
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:41 PM
3

If she has head phones in leave her alone besides a smile and a wave.
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:40 PM
8

No woman wants to hear "you're usually older than I go for" . If you NEED to share that info wait until you've had 5 or more good dates. Telling her there is no way you look that age I thought you we like 24! Will go over much better. Idk why guys think they are going to get laid after insulting a woman.
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:38 PM
6

I lived in a smaller republican city and it was a lot worse than living in a big city that's for sure. I lived in one of the richest areas as well and mostly got harassed by old rich white dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:59 PM
4

Most of the MLM women I know are SAHM with a butt load of kids. Usually Christian or Mormon and very religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:17 PM
1

Lol yeah I have no biological clock ticking and i am in goof physical shape. I guess that's all you need to attract the youngins lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:01 AM
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I've been between 3 to 6 years older than most of my exes. I ended up leaving them because I got bored. I don't think I'm that hot but still attracting young guys it's weird. Personally I (31f) enjoy hanging out with younger women because they have more fun and aren't tied to domestic duties. I enjoy the child free life to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 11:00 PM
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I can fjnd the Virgin one for sure. The ones about birth control are all sprinkled in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:21 PM
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Also giving awful misinformation about birth control to virgins who have no clue!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:16 PM
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I got banned for life in under 30 min lol. I got so many insults too it was great. They tried to say they weren't all conservative Christians and I was like OK I bet 90% of you are...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:15 PM
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One post was so so sad. It was a newly married woman asking what she was doing wrong and why she hated married life. She and her husband were virgins she hates sex because it hurts her so bad ( dude just tries to jam his dick into her the only time she liked it was after a drink and he told her she wasn't allowed to drink). He doesn't let her see family or friends and seems like a narcissist. The advice she got? Why are you so ungrateful?! Sex is supposed to hurt virgins! You need to show him yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:09 PM
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I got banned for life calling out hypocrisy. Apparently as women we are supposed to play dumb and let the man think he is superior even if he is a train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 09:03 PM
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I was married in the church at the age of 20. My ex husband and I were very conservative Christian and participated in purity culture. It sounds like the relationship a lot of women are looking for here. Participating in a marriage where I was expected to be subservient was life draining and also let my ex husband think it was OK to start beating me. All I am saying is you can make any man feel special by being his subservient door mat it also opens the door for abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 08:22 PM
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My mother is as red pill as you can get and married to a well off Christian man who treated her like a domestic slave. She has been married to him for 30 years and has never seemed happy. You can try insulting me all you want. I have seen both sides of the spectrum regarding conservative vs feminism. You never truly know a man until you are legally tied to him. Just because he's Christian and rich does not mean he will treat you well long term.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 08:10 PM
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It kind of is the point. Listen and shut up. However, I rarely see this "advice" being told to men who do the same thing. I've had men thank me for trying to help brain storm to solve their problems. I never phrase it as "you should do this" more like "what if you tried this this and this".
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 07:57 PM
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But it's OK for men to do it all the time?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 07:36 PM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 07:22 PM
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But it's OK for men to give women unsolicited advice? Playing dumb is the answer instead of working together to find a solid solution?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 07:20 PM
1

I feel like atheist men are more likely to treat you like a partner and not like a slave.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 06:41 PM
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The more subservient you become the more likely you are to get a strong Christian husband.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 05:45 PM
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Some men are clueless and 35 is far from old. Maybe just tell him straight up you like gold and you need it to work with your life style. I think if you are moving in together you need to ask him if it means you'll get engaged soon and then let the conversation flow to rings and see how he takes it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 05:40 PM
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I was thinking the same exact thing! It reminds me exactly how my narcissistic ex was.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 05:17 PM
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