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Deadinthehead/r/seduction27/05/12 10:02 PM
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I've seen this myself a few times to know its true, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:24 PM
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Our Queen has arrived.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:25 PM
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You remind me something. There are also women who would go out with much older men but won't broadcast thst intent or go out of their way to find them. Kinda like with the girls that wanted you, I can imagine there were others that wanted to date you too but didn't show it to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:00 PM
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I can think of 9 girls in the past few years off the top of my head who've been with much older men. Last girl I had sex with was 14 years younger - yes anecdotal but I think it's in line with what seem people are saying; it's not that rare, maybe 10% of girls are engaging with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:37 AM
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One could say that girls who engage in casual sex and those that don't are for different times in your life. Just like how some women say the bad boy is for when you're young and free and the stable guy is for marriage. Would you say this was problematic if guys thought like this? I ask because I think most guys here would prefer that set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:32 AM
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I agree. However I've mentioned promiscuity to female friends and they reacted badly too, going so far as to say that I only want a virgin (i don't) to my other girl friends to make me look bad. No wonder soem women think men IRL don't care about body count as most are met with spicy responses, we learn to keep it to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:27 AM
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Plus height is t something you can change, so as a requirement it is pretty shallow and discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:04 AM
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I know why, but we're not living in a society where girl's don't work or are seen as property any longer, and/or most women aren't traditional (until its bill time evidently for some). It's a 50/50 situation girl wants boy, boy wants girl, so split.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:14 PM
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Yeah I dated some Czech, Estonian German girls and we generally split.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:45 PM
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The girl is the one always(almost) being asked out, obviously she wants to meet too so why not split. It's not like she's going against her will, she has an interest here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:42 PM
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Offff that one hurts, crushes the idealised image of a woman and or decent people who have morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:36 PM
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It's easier and cheaper to live in the poorer countries that has a lot to do with it, but largely the affects are similafor the white wherever in Asia. I actually know an ugly white dude who married a Taiwanese girl imo quite out of his league. Although I would say in the richer countries you still need to not be a literal neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:08 AM
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White guys also do well in Japan and S.Korea too, even my british Pakistani friend got girls in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:09 PM
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Aot of the tension is really from society thinking one gendered preferences, toxic or not, is just the norm and accepted and doesn't get much backlash. The other gender however...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:52 PM
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Ooof. Let's try again. It says discussion thread. Plus there's debating and being belligerent for no reason. OK sweety? Which is that high N women definitely get marriage and commitment lol. They stick to liberal/secular men who overwhelmingly do not care. Again, that's fine they got commitment. That doesn't mean the other x amount of Liberal or whatever guys didn't move on because they held those beliefs or they only dated her for other reasons or they led her on or or or... Like I said UNTIL y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:35 PM
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Dunking on as in "gotcha" just because I disagree with you, but anyway it made no difference as you're still being confrontational. That is exactly what it means. Otherwise they'd just be fucking. Dunno what this is. What I'm saying is he can still date around and have those standards and break up because of those standards and no girl will ever know. So until you get commitment as in marriage, you can a guy doesnt care about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:43 PM
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His dating choice doesn't necessarily mean commitment. Also the guy you're replying to is correct, men will never say they care about body count to women that's why you've never heard it before. Plus, there could be guys who have suspected or know of your past conquests and have noped out of pursuing you. For example imagine you liked a guy but found out he was broke and that mattered to you, you'd probably cease showing any interest and not tell him he's unattractive because of his finances. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:17 AM
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When I was much more muscular a male friend of mine jokingly (but seriously) said he felt safe around me when we went out. That really stuck out for me. Just recently my mum said she felt my sister was safer whe she would go out with this particular girl who was quite tall and "thick". I get it, but having that as a dating criteria is ridiculous unevolved hominid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:51 AM
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I know you didn't, I'm saying that's how that sounds. It only applies if she's been casual before though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:05 PM
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Good point. A regular Joe from the west might look like a millionaire to these girls. Many wouldn't bat an eye lid if a girl in the west said she wants to date a rich guy (also in the west) so why can't a poorer girl do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:07 PM
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Make him wait because I like him so much but don't want to look like a slut, but also have ons which makes me a "slut". Unless the girl has never done anything casual, the above is how silly that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:50 AM
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I think the real issue is society allows the girl-hobbit example but shames the guy-hoe example. So men get angry and here we are. But basically I've learnt to not share these opinions and make judgements in my head not vocally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:05 PM
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Women IRL who aren't exposed to gender talking points have told me to my face they do it for men. And that we should be grateful. Fuck even I sometimes shave just to look ok in the mirror but I'm not doing that and styling my hair and dressing well for myself. Nothing wrong with wanting to look good for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:30 PM
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Lots of throwing 'power dynamics' around like that settles it. Maybe explain exactly what's wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:37 AM
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For sure. Anything basic got a X from me. For example, "I love dogs and travellin" next!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:51 AM
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If men can be ok with a "broke" girl, then so can women be ok with a broke guy. The fact that this usually isn't the case tells you what you need to know about most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:58 AM
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I have a similar "definition" of masculinity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:58 PM
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Yes it's become a personality trait, or rather they have nothing going for them personality wise so default to "travel" or "I like dog". If a girl starts with either of those I walk on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:57 PM
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Like others have said, I'll still end it and also think she will or has also cheated with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:55 PM
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My good friend has said it, but I think she's just being defensive as she has also said she would want a virgin if she were a dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:16 PM
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I've had quite a few girl friends that were attractive to very attractive and still do to some extent. There's no sexual desire in my or their part (presumably) so it was never a thing. Same with less attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:48 PM
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But not when they go to the gym, work etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:05 PM
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Leave this sub and just meet them in person, this place will poison you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:09 PM
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Both genders can be hypocritical, but only one gets any shit from being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:20 PM
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Yeah I heard about the whole "exclusivity" shit from US people online, I find that creepy as another brit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:13 PM
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Nah, here in the UK it isn't like that, I've known loads of guys who do well. Most of them in physical jobs themselves like plumbing for example. It's really down to how good of a talker you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:07 PM
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Wait a sec, those things are attractive at least to me - til.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 06:42 PM
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I don't think it's either or. Being an asshole can make you more attractive as it signals abundance of choice. However in this case we have to assume he wasn't a asshole before the swiping incident as she never complained about anything else, she even seemed really happy with the "date".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:34 AM
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Exactly. It's not necessarily assholeness, it's 1. You're not giving much of a shit about her thus you're the man 2. If you're unashamedly yourself that's a million times better/more confident than that meek agreeable punk with a shit eating grin that does anything she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:10 PM
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Most of these girls aren't even nerdy at all, they pretend to be to get that mountain dew dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:20 AM
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It's still a requirement if they have to be taller than her, that's still vetting on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:10 AM
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This is interesting, why do you think women like you come with those caveats?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:47 AM
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My ex fwb literally said she's seeing another guy for months but not fucking him because she wants an actual relationship with him. At least she's honest, not self aware but honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:48 AM
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I think there's a big difference between weakness and the vulnerability that Mark monson talks about. If you're unashamedly being yourself, say you're crying but don't give a fuck about what people think about it, that's real confidence. Also keep in mind it okay for some women to be turned off by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 10:38 AM
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For e.g. no one thinks Khabib was weak after crying in his last fight about his father passing away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 10:14 PM
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You should check out Chinese Jamaicans, they get a lot of girls because they tended to have the money. How much of that was actual attraction and gold digging I don't know, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:26 PM
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Schizophrenics can and are readily a threat to other people, trans aren't, so it's not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:30 AM
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Do you think you're of sound mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:50 PM
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Yeah men have more collagen than women I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:49 PM
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I don't think women actually think or realise the shortism is harsh for the most part. The only reason I say that is I've brought it up in comparison to say a guy saying he want big breasts and my friends reaction is always a confused stare at me, as if to say "that's not the same". Obviously Ive not data just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 02:31 PM
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They're also boring as fuck, girl or guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 07:35 PM
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Have you watched death note? It's usually plastered above their heads Kiel that shimigami power.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:19 PM
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it's not really a hobby, I mean you're just going somewhere 1 or twice a year to relax..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:05 AM
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Correct answer. Also, most people are boring and have no hobbies, they realise this once they have to fill in the profile lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:48 PM
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(meditation is good but how does this translate into becoming a better partner?) Can't comment about the rest but, with me meditation make you realise how bonkers your mind is, and give you a sense of empathy with others as you know their minds work the same way. For instance you tend to realise biases and negative feelings as they're coming up, and you're better able to deal with them in real time - basically you can become a better person which should mean a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:54 PM
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Lucky you're not middle eastern, hair fucking everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 07:57 PM
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Yeah I think people overestimate this cc thing in college
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:49 PM
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I get the count argument but what that guy said is gross as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:37 PM
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Look at this chick living in 11/06/2020
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 01:44 PM
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Yeah it may be just one person's opinions, as from my experience you'd do well when "what does he do for work" questions pop up. The bisexuality not so much, the things I've heard some girls say about bi men... Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:13 PM
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Fuck, you're into and competent in more interesting things than 90% of people but apparently still isn't attractive to women. What is even the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:58 PM
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I thought I was the only one. I always feel bad on his behalf, a lot of the time they aren't even old or anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:19 PM
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But I thought they do all that for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:00 PM
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Preoccupied yes, but a little lift thing isn't really an engaging item, its just plug and play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:25 AM
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It wouldn't be feminine when height is associated with masculinity no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:29 AM
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Lots of assumptions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:32 AM
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How can it be imaginary if many people have noticed it to the point that it's almost a meme for basic people? There are people who talk about"collecting" countries and always talk about the number of them visited, rarely do you heard them talk about the experience of the culture etc. Yeah perhaps it's an exaggeration to say people only travel to take a photo, but communication is a form of signaling, what are people signalling with those generic tAKe mE baCk photos?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:18 AM
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At the risk of inciting u/gatekeeping, travelling and going to places just to take a pic so everyone knows you've been there are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:04 AM
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That's why I think the whole manosphere idea of guys only increasing in value as they age is unrealistic. I was under the impression that meant increasing in value for women in the own age range, not much younger girls. In any case, the top comment here is correct I think, men who can get girls with that sort of age gap don't give a hoot and or aren't really shamed. I wonder why they aren't shamed though, perhaps its because older hot men get a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:43 AM
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That's ridiculous tbh, he thinks you're hot and if you think he's hot then women his ages for sure are all over him, but why wouldn't he go after you over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:09 PM
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The reason men seek women 10+ yrs younger then them usually has to do with them not being desired by women at their level. It's not that black and white. Men go for younger as they like younger looks - they always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:11 PM
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I haven't travelled like him by going by what my friends have said it's pretty much true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:16 PM
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Another thing I've noticed is they're quite vicious on men that "don't compare" to the guy. At least with the few friends I've seen it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:42 AM
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I'm guessing you're white or whiter than Indians?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:02 AM
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How flexible are we with regards to teeth 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:49 PM
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This is true actually, many just want a regular but not fat guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:45 PM
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I dunno about any of this, I've dated plenty of girls much younger than myself (although I look pretty young and I'm doing fine looks wise). The problem isn't that they don't exist, the problem is they're young lol they're not taking the dating as serious as you (ie me) would.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:20 PM
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Is the average woman on tinder and or getting an overload of the proverbial c*** ? I dunno man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:31 PM
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A guy isn't a threat (resource wise) to a girl as he'd not be able to bare children with her man, not really be a financial strain as he'd likely make more money than a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:52 PM
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I only ever get "bi men aren't REAL men" vibes from women who'd never date a bi man, it was a visceral thing you can see on the faces they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:49 PM
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For me it's a lack of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 10:50 PM
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It does sound counter intuitive as fuck. I think innately women know some men might judge them if they "give it up" early, even the women who are fine with ONS. Or perhaps they assume serious men who are bf material will care. Who knows, but I've observed it in my life and social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:12 PM
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Only an anecdote but, a card carrying socialist hippy girl I was Fwb with did that while we were at it, I asked her why (because I didn't care if she fucked him) and she said because she actually wants a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:40 PM
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That's the thing there's no consensus, I'm saying you're not getting the truth and making blanket statements about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:00 PM
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Are high n count lady's where their male partner knows about, getting into LTR with them? Guys getting into those relationships =/= those guys not caring, they might just not know or try their best not to know which is very likely. I don't care either way, but we have to be precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:48 PM
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Males forums are as self selecting as this one, your male friends, again have no incentive to be completely truthful either it will make any man look a certain way in your social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:43 PM
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I use to think the same, but like I said you as a woman won't come across a man's true opinions unless you're a fly on the wall when these discussions come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:11 PM
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Just because you weren't asked doesn't mean they don't care, most men have the intuition to know that it's not going to go well if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:40 AM
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Was your mum abused by her dad, may I ask? I know it's a bit of a stereotype but I do know a few girls who had mothers who were abused by their dads and who then later had daughters who ended up with abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 11:26 AM
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It was adults who voted for Trump, you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:24 PM
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Would you say the same about a broke girl wanting a rich dude or short girl demanding only tall guys? Not flaming, being genuine here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:06 PM
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That's not going to attract most men, weeaboos maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:12 PM
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I have a male friend like this, he chases married women just so he can get that buzz of "I can fuck her" and not all the time goes through with it, he just wants the satisfaction that he can. Okay maybe he's not too similar but on the same lines lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:06 AM
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I've been the so called Chad before, the girl was actually dating, properly, another dude a few months after we first slept together. After it was all said and done, she opened up about making this dude wait 4 months (and ended it before even fucking him) I didn't believe her and dug a bit more and asked why make him wait? She said "because I wanted to have an actual relationship with him". That's coming from a sjw type liberal, who still holds these views on dating and the like. I can 100% unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:06 AM
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I don't think it even matters what the instinct is, it's still there and can't be suppressed for most guys who say they care about the N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:28 PM
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Can't upvote enough. Literally every female friend I've had has gone through this many times and it's apparently only the guys in our circle who see that the dude in question wants only sex. I don't think that can be true, but girls seem to be blinded by guys that don't give much of a shit about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:59 PM
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It's constantly doing the 10 questions game Hey, what is this 10 questions game? I ask because I've only ever talked normally with girls on OLD, usually by just making jokes and taking it from there, which feels natural. Are these questions you start with or expect him to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:05 PM
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I'd kill myself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:44 PM
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Girls usually reserve this for guys who are inoffensive and boring, but work hard and are "decent". Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:41 PM
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Nope lol why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:35 AM
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How would you explain my preference, I've a thing for taller girls, I'm 5'10 so my height or a bit more or even a good bit more is ideal. I cant think of anything "evolutionary" speaking to explain this, so it might just be a fethish?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:11 PM
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Girl at my work thinks it's gay if you trim armpit hair, or really much grooming at all on a man. Horrid attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 05:14 PM
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It doesn't undo the underlying biology, like how women prefer tall men because they tend to be stronger and can protect - there's no need for a strong man in today's society. Playing devils advocate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:55 PM
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Haha thanks! I've been told I'm quite good looking and all that jazz many times [really not boasting at all] but none of the things you mentioned have happened to me, at least not with pretty girls :( does your friend look approachable?
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:48 PM
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Out of homo interest, who or what does your friend look like?
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:20 PM
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But non of those things come from men having a privilege.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/17 11:29 AM
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You won't regret it.
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:05 PM
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You've gone further than 99% of men would, props!
/r/seduction10/08/16 08:09 PM
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Awhile ago they definitely had issues with the android version, many people were complaining etc.
/r/seduction01/02/16 08:30 PM
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Might be because you're using Android version (if you are). Also tinder favours guys who pay.
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:34 PM
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It's ridiculous isn't it. I find apps that let me have very short profiles much better for dating than OKC where girls seem to think if you don't watch xyz TV shows we won't get on.
/r/seduction14/06/15 09:39 PM
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Basically this. Just to bang/date/whatever her, nothing to lose and the less you care the easier all this would be.
/r/seduction02/02/15 02:42 AM
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But but but, I love my heeels!!
/r/seduction23/12/14 02:02 AM
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Meh, I know for sure Italian/Spanish etc girls are warmer than Brits anyway, can't speak for American girls.
/r/seduction06/12/14 11:59 PM
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I'm sure there's a reference here that I'm missing.
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:05 PM
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I think he did say once he suffered from ADHD if I remember correctly, so you're not far off.
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:40 PM
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Nice guys from what I've seen, aren't seeing girls as non-beings or just as sexual objects. They just think that being ultra good to girls and showing their interest often and early, the girl would appreciate it and a relationship may commence. I mean, it is logical to think that being nice to someone will elicit niceness back. It's just that it makes the guy look 1. of lower standard 2. a push over. edit: a bit drunk so probably spelling errors.
/r/seduction26/01/14 02:06 AM
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You wouldn't believe it but reading the last sentence made me think "thats how I talk when I'm on coke".
/r/seduction04/12/13 01:42 AM
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started dirty dancing all up in my best friend's grill Brits don't say this. I hope you only used it here and not IRL.
/r/seduction22/07/13 09:59 AM
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Bang 14 year olds. Or keep reminding yourself that no girl/guy whatever is worth making yourself feel shitty for. You're on this planet for a limited time, are you going to let what people think or might think (probably aren't - even IF they are, does it matter?) about you get you down?
/r/seduction29/04/13 09:08 PM
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I rarely "get" references on reddit. Thanks for making me feel like one of the guys.
/r/seduction04/03/13 03:55 PM
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I've had this a million times man. I think it just make the girl seem not easy, but rather less feminine. It's almost as if I lose respect or something as the desperate mannerisms and eye contact just isn't hot. Mind you this is only a problem when the girl is WAY too into me and when it goes on for long - if a girls immediately shows lots of interest its great just not for too long.
/r/seduction16/02/13 11:03 PM
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Probably fake. And yes Dimon is more than just a banker.
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:07 PM
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I actually don't like wearing red, at least until I remembered I have a red shirt which looks great on me. Time to buy more red shit.
/r/seduction10/11/12 11:35 PM
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I think/know its me not actually making a move [enough] times to get any results. Sorry results sounds wrong when talking about success with women, but ya know..
/r/seduction28/05/12 08:54 PM
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No my personality is fine, I have AA which is why I'm here. I only exemplify my looks as I know it doesn't/shouldn't matter, I've said this is the OP.
/r/seduction28/05/12 02:17 AM
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Re-reading what I wrote and I guess I did come across "like a douche" which I wanted to avoid. All good words here, thanks.
/r/seduction28/05/12 01:15 AM
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Why do you doubt, may I ask? Everything you said I completely agree with. Although I didn't know how risky a girl surmises asking a guy out would be, but I guess it makes sense to be cautious. I won't use dating sites, as I want to be comfortable IRL.
/r/seduction28/05/12 12:20 AM
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:) no, no one has to believe me, I'm only here for advice.
/r/seduction28/05/12 12:16 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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