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What the writer is short sighted of is the fact that men are physically stronger and women coerce emotionally and mentally. A woman can bully a man into having sex with her in any number of ways using head games.
/r/AntiFeminists28/08/22 05:20 PM
2

She chose to sell sex for a high profit, but the sex was forced?
/r/AntiFeminists29/12/21 05:31 PM
5

This is so transparent. It's like a business shaming it's customers while they make lots of money (e.g. OnlyFans and Chaturbate). Besides, I thought sexual liberation was empowering for women?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen18/12/21 04:41 PM
1

Feminists: the fastest path to power is claiming the highest victim status.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen18/12/21 04:39 PM
4

I've spoken to men or been the man who has gotten hit, slapped, or had dishes and furniture thrown at him all by women when they melt down. I've never lifted a finger and was the one to repair the damage. They absolutely do it because the double standard let's them get away with it. Feminism goes further than you said by hamstringing/handicapping men because that is the only way that many women can actually get ahead of men for power and resources.
/r/AntiFeminists09/12/21 06:17 PM
6

I especially find the point about marriage being slavery amusing, because feminism has liberated women to be corporate slaves for far less benefit for an entire career of decades while having so kids or family. Quite a few realize this in their 40's and then try to lock down a provider simp.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 05:03 PM
1

I would go so far as to say that for some rapists, it seems that they're well aware of consent, because it is the obvious lack of consent them excites them.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 05:00 PM
2

I have more of an issue with the guys that simp for the misandrists then the women themselves. Have some self respect.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:20 AM
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I'm glad that you mentioned manifestation. That shit is ridiculous. The answer is that their goals and narrative are the most important, not the truth. They'll lean on anything that supports their points.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 01:10 PM
3

Having grown up with feminism for most of my life, I can say that by now, dealing with feminine men in adulthood is just as annoying. Working in offices that are primarily female, alot of the men operate like women when having conversations, gossip, and office politics. Including the straight ones. It has gotten really old by now.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 01:07 PM
6

My personal opinion is that feminists today have such contempt for men, they want to stamp out anything that makes us happy. Eliminating male spaces. Movies. Video games. Comic books. Notice they just take what we like and gender swap it into a new version or make characters gay. They're not really writing their own material or new characters or stories.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 12:51 PM
12

I've gotten used to the fact that anti-male propaganda has no limits. Isn't it fun for feminists to tell men how and what we are?
/r/MensRights01/12/21 12:04 AM
12

Another good example of the fact that many women manipulate not just for personal gain, but also for sport.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 06:19 PM
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That's why this will never happen. Women have too much sway in the courts and governments know that 20% of all of the tests will show the man not to be the father, and the woman will want government support. This is why this is illegal in France.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 05:12 PM
10

Great post and thank you for writing it. Sadly today, many of us (men) are only plowhorses to our wives and girlfriends. I was once like your husband and eventually cracked and broke down because I was responsible for 90% of everything. I got very ill and it took me years to get better. Even today, the constant negative narrative about all the wrongs of men, even by my wife at that point, really played with my head. I still have to fight that programming today despite that life is much much bett…
/r/MensRights27/11/21 04:49 PM
1

Rule number one: no matter whether a woman or man does something bad, it's always the man's fault.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 04:04 PM
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Good point.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/21 04:02 PM
7

Women are so empowered that they cannot consent. They're only empowered when it's convenient to them.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/21 03:49 PM
1

FDS bans people who subscribe to several other boards. It means that their ideas are so flimsy and that they won't be able to handle any criticism, they ban people who haven't even commented on THEIR board.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/21 03:34 PM
4

So a woman gets to define mansplaining and womansplaining, but men are not allowed to participate in that conversation. Her logic is ridiculous.
/r/AntiFeminists26/11/21 03:21 PM
0

It's pretty much the lowest form of arguing to dusmiss a person with an ad hominem attack and insult them personally by saying they don't have sex. A "pick me" are women that try too hard to get men to notice them. Also aversion feminists attack for not being empowered enough. Feminists also use the term "scrote" to slander men, but it's a lame term they wish would catch on but hasn't.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/21 03:55 PM
1

She's not even enough lifting that much.
/r/AntiFeminists17/10/21 04:42 PM
7

Exactly. "Intimidated" isn't the right word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 01:17 PM
2

LMAO
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/21 05:03 PM
1

Hahaha. You made me LOL. It's an uncomfortable truth isn't it? Otherwise, you wouldn't have to attempt to impugn my character. Please. /S. :)
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/21 04:00 PM
5

I remember the last female Steelers fan I knew got double teamed by two other Steelers fans. LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 03:53 PM
7

So, who is it doing the objectivising here? Take all the time you need.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/21 03:50 PM
4

It's ironic that this poster also describes what it's like speaking to a majority of feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/21 03:47 PM
2

Well said.
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/21 05:57 PM
7

Indeed. If they believed it themselves, they wouldn't have to validate their own notions by selling them to others.
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/21 07:11 PM
5

Real women take accountability for what they eat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 06:20 PM
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This is a typical Feminist power play. If you don't have a vagina, you are not allowed to have an opinion about abortion, sexism, or whatever they decide you're forbidden from opining on. LOL nice try. Try enforcing that.
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/21 06:03 PM
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They made their bed and can sleep in it. I'm just going to go fishing and enjoy the peace and quiet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 06:02 PM
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Last I checked, I can do what I want. I pay the mortgage, so if sitting on the porch in boxers with a cup of coffee feels good, it's going to happen.
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/21 05:55 PM
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Hahaha. My super SJW sister loves to drone on about how Sweden is the prototype of a successful feminist culture. So this post is a funny switch. Consider the fact that when freedom was given to everyone, especially women, to go into any education or career in Sweden, women indeed chose traditional feminine jobs and did not jump at them chance of working in STEM. You cannot change the nature of people.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/07/21 05:50 PM
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This woman's complaints are like complaining about being hit when you step on a rake when you were the one that put the rake there. Women, generally, today have "liberated" themselves to give away sex while also having very few relationship skills nor desire to have them. So don't blame us when we sleep with you and leave it at that. You're the ones who cheapened the value of sex and give away one of your most important resources because you've been told it's liberating. Joke's on you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 05:40 PM
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Good post sir. For those of us who've been around a relatively long time and seen alot of life, life circumstances can be messy and complicated and no amount of simplistic approaches like "hold frame" are a panacea. There are more Jennies out there now than ever. For my own purposes, I think of it in terms of societal Narcissism since modern Feminism and Narcissism have quite a bit of overlap. Alot of what we see in relationships at home, at work, or in politics is driven by envy and resentment.…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/07/21 05:34 PM
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This is a waste of time and money for a military that wants to be strong enough to fight. But apparently, SJWs are eating their military from within in order to weaken it. Maybe she should have the title: Viceroy of Wokeness.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 11:17 PM
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This collage is great because you can see the crazy, hypercontrolling affect in all of them. I just listened to some old interviews with women from the 1970's where they were asked about Feminism and one woman stated that she thinks it will just lead to some women dominating women in general. She called it. Many feminists want to rule everyone and they'll never be satisfied.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/21 11:18 PM
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Poor feminist. Must be rough. I'll get the box of tissues.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen05/05/21 10:45 PM
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Feminists really want to LARP as men.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/04/21 03:48 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Rejecting women is tricky though because they lose their minds if you don't worship them throwing their FUPA at you.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/04/21 11:13 AM
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She's the mascot for a devil's food cake company. Wet ass FUPA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 11:03 AM
5

But...but...but...disagreeing with my points is violence! LOL
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/04/21 10:37 PM
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This is spot on. Feminism creates alot of standards for women that are difficult for a lot of women to cope with, so of course there is a fair amount of depression. Of course, feminists cannot accept any accountability, so it's handy to blame every perceived issue on men and "tha patreearchee".
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/04/21 10:36 PM
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This is an example of the mental gymnastics feminists do in order to absolve themselves of accountability by using the "enthusiastic consent" bullshit. That way, if it wasn't as fun as they hoped it would be, then it wasn't their fault that they did it.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/04/21 10:29 PM
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This is yet another attempt for women to try to control the narrative of how people see them whilst justifying sleeping around without any accountability. Sorry ladies...actions have consequences.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/04/21 10:26 PM
2

Chris Rock has made many good points throughout the years.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 02:13 PM
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She doesn't want a man. She wants a bitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 01:55 PM
7

This is a good post and highlights the fact that feminism tries to redefine language to weaponize it. As a man with alot of life experience, feminists gloss over the fact that some women do play hard to get and put up resistant language as part of a cat and mouse game, and a savvy person will figure out that that is what it is. Some women will play hard to get but true resistance and a "no" attitude will be pretty obvious.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 04:47 PM
2

This is gold.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/21 07:12 PM
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The fact that this was fake crossed my mind, but this is really a plausable scenario. Just speaks to the entitlement of women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/21 02:24 PM
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I'm not downvoting you and I read your entire post. I've also thought that the term P&F sounds pejorative and disrespectful, but frankly, I don't know that I care much about it. I've been around women my entire life and can tell you, they say alot of bile things about men or even one another. They project themselves to be more fragile while also wanting us to treat them like the strong empowered women they say that they are. Women have bought into the narrative of "empowering" themselves by givi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 04:53 PM
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They try to build themselves and one another up by using words like "ur a kween" and "level up!" like magic spells. Maybe instead of posting on social media all day, why aren't they learning about sector investing? LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 04:39 PM
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When she says "spoil me" she means a 3-piece and a biscuit from around the corner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/21 05:23 PM
6

This is true. Women often take criticism of all women personally. Double standard.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/03/21 05:22 PM
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Kevin Samuels pointed out recently that Cosmo has always been a female centric propaganda mag selling women the Sex and the City type lifestyle in order to sell products. Not only is the magazine biased, but routine stories were made up. Cosmo is a joke.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/01/21 04:15 PM
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She is the poster child for this sub. How many times did she was "where"? Such a long rant about what SHE wants, and she says she'll "love you back". Hahahaha that doesn't mean shit and likely a lie. She'll love what she gets, but not the provider of those things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/21 04:02 PM
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If you really listen to the beginning of her rant, she's projecting in a Narcissistic kind of way. She wouldn't be highlighting people being power hungry unless she already saw the world that way and it probably hungry for power herself. Her arguments are obviously lacking real reasoning and more like pouring gas on an emotional fire; her argument is primarily emotionally driven which is no surprise. Show me someone who make wild, emotional accusations about other people, and you'll see that the…
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/21 03:59 PM
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You are 100% right and so is Dave Rubin. I haven't read his book, buy now likely will. My personal opinion is that if women foist the dominant narrative, and their primary weapons are shame and guilt, that's exactly what gets thrown at anyone who even LOOKS like they don't agree with them. When you realize FOGS (Fear Obligation Guilt and Shame) are all weapons and tactics and you ignore them, it takes the wind out of their sails. They quickly name call you or label you some horrible thing, you c…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/01/21 03:26 PM
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When a man doesn't want her, he's sexually dysfunctional and when a woman won't get with a guy, she has high standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 03:14 PM
1

You're right. The system is poisoning peoples' minds, and especially women. Feminism is part of it, and it's mixed into all kinds of other narratives being sold to the people. Once you become aware of this, you start to realize that alot that is posted on various forms of media is one narrative or another, and feminist / women now dominate that narrative.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/01/21 03:12 PM
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Kevin Samuel's does a good job explaining why this happens. Women don't realize what a liability they are for men when they have kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 03:06 PM
5

I've been surprised by how many women on OF snd Chaturbate can only keep up the facade for so long before eventually going into feminist rants of one kind or another and they rarely realize that they're alienating their audience.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/21 03:04 PM
1

Wouldn't you know, I was on Twitter this morning, and this person posted exactly what I postulated in my original response. https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1346486298735947776?s=19
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/21 04:43 PM
1

Your comment had a plot twist at the end which was hilarious. Good on that guy. He obviously has the mojo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 04:56 PM
1

I knew that this sub would come through. This link won't open on my phone, so I will open from my PC later today. Thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/21 04:54 PM
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I really don't give two $h1ts about swimming in that pool. I'm just pointing out the the fact that I got an auto-ban notice after the first time posting in WAATGM. It's worth stating that the fact that since they feel that they have to autoban, it reduces their credibility. Many of the points discussed over there don't hold up to objective scrutiny, so FDS has to be heavily moderated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 05:29 PM
2

Thanks for the response. Glad to hear that there is come kind of compensatory calculation that someone did. I'll see if I can find it as well. I have also seen this video which is part of making me wonder how much money compensated for shorter stature- and the video points out that a man has to be in the top 5% (maybe even top 1-2%) of national earners to compensate for even a meager drop in height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 05:16 PM
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It's all about attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 05:00 PM
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Side point here: it's funny that FDS users can post here when FDS auto-bans WAATGM users so we cannot post there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 04:59 PM
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I rarely post on here, but this post causes to me ask a good faith question or two. Background: I'm in my 40's. My son is almost 19. I didnt really discover and start living TRP until about 4-5 years ago, but by then, alot of my blue pill tendencies had imprinted on my son and today, even if I try to drop small red pills related to red flags in his otherwise OK seeming girlfriend, he responds as though what I am saying is somehow extremist or sounds too much like sexism. I can tell you, I'm a pr…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre03/01/21 04:17 PM
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This makes me wonder how much money it takes to add inches to a man's height. What compensatory math do women do in their heads: 100K adds an inch to a man's height. $150K adds two inches, and #$200K makes him 6' tall? I know that this isn't a real thing, but it's funny to think about. The reverse would be true for tall men who are basically homeless and earn no money, but women will say that "he has that sexy homeless vibe" and he still gets laid. LOL I actually heard a woman say this the other…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 03:54 PM
1

Especially free labor. Namely real labor plus if we're to buy the feminist notion of emotional labor, then basically all the time we have to give.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 03:38 PM
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This is a perfect illustration of how different institutions really are biased and pander to whoever controls their income or holds threat of lawsuit over them. Or simply threatens violence and riot. It doesn't take long right now to see legal situations where the circumstances are obvious, yet the courts cowtow to the dominant narrative, in this case being feminism. Feminists are the quintessential bullies: they use threat of force, but when fought back against, run to the very institutions the…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/20 05:46 PM
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Grandma: "Oh, honey. I remember in my day, it was alot hard to have a train run on you. We could only do that behind the corner store."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 04:57 PM
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I've been red pilled for some years now, but the process of seeing something new still happens. I work in a division of a company that is about 75% female. In today's age of web meetings, I was invited to a mandatory Zoom "happy hour" and the commerce of attention was never so obvious. I said 5 words there before I quietly ducked out but the whole event was nothing but lower level employees either doing whatever they could to get some kind of attention or giving or higher level employees doling …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 04:47 PM
3

In 10 years she can tell her cats how exciting of a lady she was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 04:40 PM
3

I have a couple that I'm good friends with and they're (anecdotally) two of the most physically aggressive women in their relationship. There is all this bandying about about how porn teaches men that it's OK to be aggressive whilst these friends regularly engage in all kinds if kink play that involves hitting, slapping, punching, etc... much more so than any relationship I have known that includes a man.
/r/MensRights19/12/20 04:10 PM
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I don't know. If I didn't have anything better to do at that moment, I might just keep dropping red pills on her to see how long it takes for her to go away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 04:08 PM
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This was a hilarious read. He's feeding her one red pill after another and she keeps hamstring the point to keep him involved in the conversation. She complains that men don't want to get to know her as a person, but she's basic as hell. Worse in fact if it took her to age 52 to discover herself and come to the cliche' conclusion of "I now know what I deserve" (same thing you hear on FDS). I've had plenty of discussions with women late 50s and 60s who still say they are discovering themselves as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 04:07 PM
5

Goes in the bookstore under titles such as "How to Please your Dominatrix Better", "A Guide to Narcissist Victims - Remember it's all about me!"
/r/MensRights18/12/20 03:06 PM
3

The men are banging the womens' best friends while the women are working. Then having a nice cappuccino at the cafe.
/r/MensRights16/12/20 03:25 PM
4

That's more like it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 03:08 PM
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She is not 45. Easily mid 50s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 03:29 PM
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It's probably multifactorial. Men realize they havr alot to lose and women are also competing for a smaller percentage of men and/or selling themselves online to make bank. I just heard a stat this morning that women average twice the sexual partners as men at younger ages, so they're just playing the field.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 03:27 PM
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This is only going to compound the net tax payment to the government, so the government doesn't care. They get more money and they're pleasing SJWs by pretending that the gender wage gap is real. Win win for them.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 03:24 PM
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How people fall down the OF rabbit hole I don't know. The models only post teasers on there anyway and want to upcharge you for new content all the time. PH is free. I guess it's the "pretend relationship" people think they're going to get texting the models.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 03:16 PM
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Her gender bias is as inflated as her credentials. You can see her gaslighting right in the brief quotes in the OP above where she states something like "mens' shame.is not the same as womens'". How could she possibly know that? And how does someone measure shame objectively to compare different experiences. I doubt that is easy to do if possible. She seems like a credentialed scheister.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/20 05:18 PM
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FDS is the Pravda of female empowerment.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/20 05:15 PM
9

I was going to comment here the same thing, but you put it very well. Could it be that accusations of manipulative men is just a projection of female manipulators? Hmmmm. Makes sense to me.
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/20 05:13 PM
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Let's point out one thing for everyone to see. Whether you're reading the Gift of Fear which tells us that predators use pity and victimhood to victimize other or you're familiar with Narcissism and Sociopathy where they also use pity and victimhood to predate, the conclusion is still the same. The worst predators are the ones we cross paths with every day that look nothing like what they are. They smile, they're charming, pretty, fun to be around. They're so good at hiding in plain sight, that …
/r/MensRights13/12/20 04:56 PM
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Bahahahaha. This post is one of the few that made me laugh out loud. Listen up women out there. Men invented the internet and none of you were even remotely interested until social media got invented. Then you proceeded to move yourselves, all your friends and family, and some homeless people in here with all of us, and then you systematically keep trying to kick us out, cancel anonymity, create safe spaces and the like. Much like gyms were for men until women showed up, complained, and forced u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/20 04:50 PM
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Is this also indicative of people who just lack empathy for others? Women lacking empathy for men. Or Democrats laughing about Republican tears or vice versa?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/12/20 04:40 PM
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There is irony here in case you didn"t catch it. I believe that gaslighting like this is often buried in these kinds of outreach programs. The irony is that telling people a "fact" about themselves (boys of abusers will become abusers) is, in itself, a common manipulative and abusive tactic used to infiltrate the mind of a person. Tell them enough times, and they'll believe it. So unfortunate that a seminar on abuse also includes gaslighting as abuse during a sad presentation highlighting a vict…
/r/MensRights12/12/20 04:32 PM
6

The biggest lie was that 2021 would be better for everyone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 04:14 PM
2

It's also because the messaging is confusing. Toxic masculinity is simultaneously rapey misogynists and also men who need to cry and let all their feels out. Which no one care about anyway.
/r/MensRights12/12/20 04:09 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/20 04:02 PM
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The horse is a deal breaker. Horse women are crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 03:12 PM
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Yup! Attention is the currency and you had better pay alot. In the mean time, she may barely know your last name and have no real idea ehat you do for a living except if it had a fancy title and you make good money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 01:22 PM
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Good lord. Boner killer. Pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 01:07 PM
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This woman is a hot fucking mess. Talking about weird shit that doesn't make sense. And who wants a "grunge tank". Her sense of humor sucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 03:13 PM
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It's hard to raise 5 kids working two jobs: OnlyFans and Chaturbate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 02:57 PM
5

She has that evil and bitchy resting face. She knows she's an asshole because she chose to add a halo and wings to her pic (which also means she's immature). The last 3rd of her ad was a pre-emptive, repetitive scold about baggage. That also means she's bitchy and a nag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 02:39 PM
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Classic projection of women onto men. Women have been bitching about being objectified by men for as long as I can remember, but 1. Women objectify men alot. 2. Women objectify themselves (as Fripiou eloquently said) and one another way more than I've ever seen men objectify women. Women project alot of their issues on everyone else and once you know that, it's alot easier to navigate the bull$hit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 02:19 PM
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This is ridiculous. You ever notice that the woke don't invent their own, new intersectional female characters, but they acquire already existing characters to appropriate them. 1. This is a double standard when cultural appropriation is screamed about, but then they try to do this. 2. Woke people lack the creativity to create compelling characters of their own, so they have to appropriate already existing characters, make them female, in order to get attention. Name me one entertainment or cult…
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/20 02:07 PM
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Upvote!
/r/MensRights02/12/20 05:41 PM
8

Your co-worker is right and like many men, I had to learn the hard way. I speak from decades of experience. There were some benefits to marriage, like maybe it was about 25% positive, but the negatives far outweigh the positives. Especially if you marry someone emotionally unstable. If I had stayed a Bachelor, I would have gotten laid plenty enough and have a decent house paid for. I vluding a cool workshop and some nice toys. Those things luke care, comfort, support, etc... thateveryone says ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 05:39 PM
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This may sound extreme, but living by this saying, no matter what, is the way to go: if you want peace, prepare for war. What I mean by this is that if you're in a relationship, no matter how it is going, always have back-up plans to keep yourself safe. For example, always have your own bank account with money saved in it for your own emergencies. Have a bug-out bag with work and normal clothes in it, tooth brush, etc... if this guy had planned ahead, he could have just gotten a hotel room for a…
/r/MensRights02/12/20 03:40 PM
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At least her last sentence is spot on. As we all knew, she doesn't know what she actually wants or needs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 03:15 PM
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Your last sentence nailed it. It's one thing to bark orders and another to work along side your team. And lead by example.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 03:13 PM
24

I believe this out of hand for the same reason Queens pushed for more wars that Kings. Real Queens, not Kweens.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 03:11 PM
18

I can account for this. The only times I've ever seen drama created over the idea of "settling" was from women. They'll even shame men for "settling" as though he must have done something wrong in her view. Why would I be gas lit to think that living a simple life where most of my stuff is paid for is settling? LOL. On that note, if a women gets with a dude, and she starts to get the idea that she settled, she will push that guy hard in his career and at home. Like driving a horse until it dies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:52 PM
9

I find that if women are in charge, things are at least chaotic if not a complete mess. Loaded with drama. This goes for marriage too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:48 PM
115

Pirates of the Caribbean: No Blokes to Get Woke
/r/MensRights30/11/20 12:34 PM
5

She's so classy though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 12:41 PM
2

This illustrates that: When you offend a woman, you offend all women.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre14/11/20 05:11 PM
7

IMHO...yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 04:50 PM
35

She's already assigning chores before anyone can respond. That bodes for a good future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/20 04:46 PM
1

Bingo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 12:26 PM
8

Exactly. She wants someone to make an effort at figuring out her behavior when it's probably totally emotional and illogical. And dramatic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/20 03:23 PM
11

I like how women assume they are the arbiters of what is normal and acceptable, and are condescending about it above all.
/r/AntiFeminists31/10/20 03:15 PM
1

It doesn't matter what we do because a guy will get criticized for it. Talk to women too much? You're a creep. Stay quit? You're a line wolf and won't mentor women (despite potentially being called a mansplainer). The only consistent thing is: criticism.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 02:56 PM
56

I agree. The only way to do this is just silently do your job and avoid as many one on one situations with women as possible. I do this not because of anything I learned online...it's because women at work have actually lied and put my reputation on the line for their own selfish reasons. Which is too bad because I am in a role to mentor more women than men at work. And when it is said that feminism is about women's issues, this is up for debate depending on who you talk to. The feminism boards …
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:56 PM
218

This comment is spot on. Work is work. Yes, I have altered the way in which I interact with women at work to ensure transparency (open door meetings) but first and foremost, I'm there to do a job. My workplace ends up being about 70% female for some reason so avoiding women is tricky although being on webcam for 8 months has helped. My job isn't managing other people's low self esteem or feelings. I get paid to do actual work.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 02:50 PM
4

Women are their own worst enemy by falling prey to the need for excitement and tingles. Even women who eventually come around to decide to "settle down" for a boring provider resent the fact that he doesn't entertain her like a clapping monkey. I've seen so many interviews on women's video channels lately justifying why they prefer the hood rats, gangsters, and otherwise dangerous guys that provide zero stability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 02:49 PM
1

But they're so oppressed! LOL
/r/MensRights06/10/20 02:45 PM
4

Double standard #507. Where are the people spraying her with bleach on the train? Oh yeah, men wouldn't do that because we're busy working and doing important things.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/10/20 02:43 PM
7

This is the gospel truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/20 02:39 PM
14

True story.
/r/MensRights05/10/20 02:30 PM
1

This is textbook Narcissism.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/09/20 02:27 PM
1

This is a good example that cancel culture is a leading weapon used by feminist proponents. Free speech is not allowed and anything that does not agree with their narrative gets silenced. Getting banned from r/feminism is not hard to do Eva if you make a cogent point.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/09/20 02:24 PM
4

Good post. Anyone who has been in abusive relationships with women knows that it's not a gender issue, but an abuse issue.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/09/20 02:15 PM
5

Am I the only one that got hung up on her use of the word "mammy"? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%3fterm=mammy&amp=true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 03:42 PM
20

I just heard a story in YouTube where an abuse line for men to report being abused is always forwarded to a feminist group that only counsels male abusers to stop being abusers. It's fucked up. Then this group reports how many calls they get to imply that many men call for help to stop being abusers even though at least 1/2 of the callers hang up when they realize what happened.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/09/20 03:31 PM
14

Exactly.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/09/20 03:29 PM
33

Steve Harvey wrote a book at one point and the reality is that the guy knows how to run game and tell people what they want to hear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 03:17 PM
1

FUPA pop was catchier than Panniculus Pop. LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/20 02:27 PM
2

This ad is like she's ordering off of a menu of men. Like take-out Chinese. It's a good thing she loves "curvy", but no doubt, her guy shouldn't be fat. I'll take myself snowboarding and glad she's not there since she doesn't like Winter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 03:21 PM
3

The more that the sad violin music should be playing in the background, the harder I laugh. https://images.app.goo.gl/UXW9LN82F6HWstig7
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 03:17 PM
3

Her saying "we girl" makes her sound like the Lucky Charms Leprachaun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 03:12 PM
16

I'm calling this music "FUPA Pop". Entitlement for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 03:11 PM
15

No shit. Good for you. I've always wondered why so many couples think that the "hall pass" argument is funny when basically your mate is telling you that if their dream celebrity was in striking distance, that of course they would fuck them. It's rude and fucked up. I understand that we all find some celebrities to be unbelievably hot, but I never tell women this because the first thing they say is: "I'm nothing like that woman. Why did you choose me then?" Then they start acting insecure. They …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 03:08 PM
18

A hallmark of Narcissistic women is to lock you in with sex as soon as possible. Listen to Admiral Akbar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 01:29 PM
6

According to Lahren, this man has alot more "going on".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 01:24 PM
11

Good pun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 01:11 PM
4

Genau!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 06:53 PM
1

Winner, winner, chicken dinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 06:54 PM
3

She wants someone willing to learn. LOL. She's literally hiring you for a job to be her mate so she can train (indoctrinate) a man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 01:05 PM
3

She wants a man to have long conversations with because she is going to repeat herself over and over. She repeated "bbw" and wanting a "yes man" in case the reader has a concussion and misses it the first time. Maybe her Visa expires in two months.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 08:41 PM
0

Exactly right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 08:35 PM
2

Anymore, seeing that many emojis is a complete fucking NO, no matter what her text says. It's not cute or playful - it's childish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 11:54 AM
4

This is a borderline with Narcissistic tendencies that leads with her vagina.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 11:35 AM
7

Your quote "...they start to resent his confidence independence...". That's a big point right there. Women want a steed then want to tame him into a plow horse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 11:33 AM
5

This is exactly the sentence I copied to paste but you got it first. This is the concluding sentence although it was somewhere in the middle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 11:29 AM
22

In Germany, they're called Arschgeweih or "ass antlers".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 11:25 AM
31

Spot on.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen22/07/20 11:20 AM
11

Women's brains reward generosity! BAHAHAHAHA. How does that happen? They want generosity, but they'll rarely reciprocate.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 03:08 PM
4

Rule X is more important now than ever. Women troll for attention wherever they can get it (generally speaking). Allowing a woman to know you find her attractive is the leverage she will use to begin manipulating you (or at least try) one way or another, whether on a date or at work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/20 02:52 PM
1

Totally. They use the strategy of: if we post a zillion propaganda posts every day, people will believe it. Repeat bullshit often enough and their target audience will buy into it.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 08:31 PM
2

FDS automatically sets whole groups of people to automatically get banned if they comment on other subs. I got banned without ever commenting there.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 08:24 PM
1

Welcome to the club. It sucks but at least the coffee here is good.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 03:31 PM
7

I chose that number somewhat arbitrarily. Personally, I don't mind a woman with SOME meat on her bones, or better yet, good muscle mass (e.g. crossfit) even when it weighs more. As long as she's proportional and not like an apple with four pencils stuck in it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 04:48 PM
19

This is what I appreciate about men in general more and more as I get older. One guy can say, "Hey man, you're fat." The other guys responds, "Yeah I know. Anyway, did you hear what SpaceX did yesterday?" We give no fucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 04:45 PM
6

LMAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:51 PM
1

Maybe he wrote a message "help me" in blood after she cut him. It's all about context. Whatever happened to "listen and believe"? Of right, that doesn't include men.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 02:48 PM
42

Imagine a guy saying "only 120lb or lighter female who likes lifting, cardio, and eating healthy". You will hear the screams of the female collective off in the distance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:45 PM
1

6' and + men who love Taco Tuesday should apply. Like, alot of tacos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:41 PM
9

Let's think about this for a second. Labeling this misogyny is insinuating that misogyny starts with men and women internalize it. This interaction is between two women, and men are getting dragged into this anyway. Zero accountability for women just being assholes. Misogyny is technically the hate of females. Calling someone fat and hating them are two different things. Insulting? yes. But hating? no. "Hating-on" her? OK, but it's not the same as 'hate of a gender'. Let's just call this what it…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen10/07/20 02:32 PM
5

Hear-hear sir. It's insane how women will shame the fuck out of you when they approach you and you say "No thanks". Their brains short circuit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:13 PM
8

https://images.app.goo.gl/NPYF8hFYUcw1SzMy7
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:10 PM
2

Her umbilicus is sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:08 PM
4

Due to pizza regret assault.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 02:04 PM
19

LOL. I knew this was coming. They're trying to identify all of the things they do and call them wotk like emotional labor. Breast feeding isn't a job - its a biological function. It's not a paid job as much as it is part of the creation of a healthy child.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/07/20 02:31 PM
2

Bingo! It's manipulative and abusive.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 02:40 PM
2

Wait...they really say "you could not have done that without feminism."? Holy shit. That's some self aggrandizing bullshit. Like, you can't succeed without feminism but you can't truly succeed with feminism? That is some indoctrination.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/20 02:39 PM
43

All this talk of privilege is damaging on both sides. The whole concept of "check your privilege" is really just an attempt to tell people to police themselves and back down and let someone else take the available opportunities. Honestly, this is the first time I have seen a woman being upset being told she is being privileged. How do you think men feel when we hear this bullshit all of the time? If a guy is moderately successful, it's dismissed as privileged and not due to all of the hard work …
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/20 01:50 PM
7

No kidding. It always seemed funny to me, as the sole wage earner, when my S.O. buys me a gift off of my Amazon list with the income I make. The only thing it saves me is the 3 minutes it would have taken me to order it for myself.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/20 04:17 PM
40

My thought as well. It's just discrimination, not "positive".
/r/MensRights06/07/20 04:14 PM
2

Much appreciated!
/r/AntiFeminists05/07/20 06:50 PM
10

Typical red-flag including: 1. Poor writing including terrible spelling and punctuation. 2. Makes all the usual comments they all make. Basically, "My kids are my world". 3. Liberal use of an image filter. 4. If she works "to much" [sic] how can she have time to be a good parent much less hook-up with a guy to be her ATM? By implying that she works too much, that means she wants to work less, and that is where you come in as her potential match.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/20 06:07 PM
1

For those of us who don't know, what kind of sub was r/thefairersex?
/r/AntiFeminists05/07/20 05:46 PM
1

Ironically, the vast majority of the insults I hear about men being gay, toxic, etc... are coming from women. They're using the tool of shame when applying these labels when it serves their purposes. To illustrate this fundamental difference, I was picking up my son from his high school one day and a fight broke out in the parking lot. Two men got into a fight over the traffic flow. Two men ran to the scene and broke up the fight. One woman ran to within 20 feet of the two fighters, stopped, and…
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/20 06:31 PM
3

I completely agree. It's one power we can should assert.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 04:23 PM
2

I was wandering around Reddit yesterday and reading random posts on a sub about people who think they have Histrionic Personality Disorder (drama queen level attention seeking). One poster said that she goes out of her way to be look sexy to get as much attention from men as possible....but even she admitted that not all male attention is the same. She said that she loves attention from Chads, but even her attention seeking personality disordered self gets a bit creeped out if she gets attention…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 03:39 PM
3

The pop a bucket of popcorn and sit back and watch women reeeeee because you won't date them. LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 03:33 PM
2

Men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 03:25 PM
2

You are correct sir.
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/20 03:10 PM
7

I've been warned twice on the sub from.making comments to the OP because they judge me as a non-feminist. You can however make nested comments on that sub.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/07/20 02:50 PM
1

I agree with all of your points although I didn't know about the backgrounds of the writers you mentioned. It would make sense that their vehement ideas can be informed by by their state of mind and view of the world. Especially a victim stance.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen04/07/20 12:11 AM
1

Yup. I heard about it maybe 6 months ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/20 12:07 AM
7

The person who will pick up the shitty tab for her lifestyle is the 4 year old. She's clearly advertising that she is a horrible parent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 04:08 PM
18

I appreciated that this post highlighted all kinds of typical female misbehavior. One double standard is that in one of his examples, the woman played a falsehood by using other womens' clothes, a rented car, and lying about where she lived. Women reeeeee when men would do such a thing enough that in India, a woman can file a rape claim if she decided to sleep with a man under the belief that he was more successful than he actually was. So there you have it. If a woman is fake, she's being strat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 04:03 PM
3

Good points. I would add to your point in your second paragraph. In addition to tightening the focus on specific types of men (women wanting more CEO positions but not lower rung jobs that many men also do) I would say that as the feminist movement made traction on certain issues, they identified new territory to target in order to get more and more favor and advantage. That's how we get to the point now where women today are offered boat loads of money and advantages from school to family to ca…
/r/MensRights03/07/20 03:49 PM
1

Bahahahaha. Sometimes life and satire seem like the same thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 03:34 PM
19

Unfortunate but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 03:33 PM
4

What's interesting here, despite the claims that feminism is about equality to help both genders is that Narcissism and Feminism have alot in common. Both selectively focus on the negatives of others while solely focusing on the positives of themselves. The inability or decision to selectively focus on only certain things to paint one party as bad and their own party as good is strategically self serving.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen03/07/20 03:15 PM
52

This is true. One profile of a male model listed shit like being convicted of sexual contact with a child 3 times, but she turned 16 shortly after so.... one of the many women who responded with "everyone makes mistakes" said that she understood because she "stole a gumball when she was little". Just wow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/20 03:09 PM
1

Regardless of whether it's the "Patriarchy" or not policing men to "not share their feelings", many of us know that it is collective women who simultaneously state that men should share their feelings (shed their toxic masculinity) and then also shame men for sharing their feelings and causing them to do "unpaid emotional labor".
/r/MensRights02/07/20 02:35 PM
28

It means she's off her meds and still had access to her phone. I remember years ago, at work, we got a company wide email of word-salad (which is what this is - you can look it up) from a woman much like this where she also proclaimed her love for one of the Vice Presidents and also went on some tangents about supernatural experiences with auras and peoples' energy fields. I screenshot that shit before I knew I.T. would delete it. Turns out that she was rolled out of the office on a stretcher an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 02:30 PM
9

Thank goodness there are serious consequences for perjury. The unfortunate reality is that before this, she was willing to support a false narrative in favor of all women despite it harming Johnny Depp. Her decision to back-off likely only proves that she's more than happy to lie until she is personally at risk, then self protection trumps trying to support a sexist narrative.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 02:24 PM
8

The only six things installed in her is malware and 5 babies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 01:49 PM
1

I got I to a ridiculous debate on a feminist sub because I pointed out all of the various behaviors and subtypes of feminism which indicate that there is no "one definition" of feminism, so they hit me with a dictionary definition of feminism to check mate me. It was a waste of time.
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 01:26 PM
4

At least she said "bad teeth is a deal". So Austin Powers could have her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/20 01:23 PM
2

She actually stated that the cat is "lucky" to be getting fixed so that it no longer goes into heat and has a libido. Apparently the woman's sex drive is enough that she wishes she could just delete it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:34 PM
6

LMAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:32 PM
2

What the fuck does this even mean? The mental gymnastics here are astounding. This reminds me of something I learned a while back: feeling consistent confusion when confronted with someone's ideas is a red flag for attempted mental manipulation.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/20 06:29 PM
1

Add to this how much street cred Keanu Reeves has gotten from women for dating an older woman.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 06:24 PM
3

This sub needs a stickied post on: the vocabulary/abbreviations of feminism to list the growing collection of terms they invent, alter, and use like magic spells. We could create a Bingo card with these terms. Additional examples include: Emotional labor HVM Internalized misogyny LVM Mansplaining Manspreading Manspreading while jogging Scrote Toxic Christianity (yes, this one was used about two weeks ago) Toxic masculinity Womxn
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/20 06:22 PM
2

The profile pic isn't bad. It's very chaste /s. She must burn alot of calories running to church.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:09 PM
6

That's an even better point. Thanks for the clarification. That means the term is getting misused more than I realized.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 06:07 PM
5

Me either. I'm not one to be bossed around by anyone at this point. If anything, it tells me about the person trying the coersion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 06:05 PM
11

This is where word choice gets applied to the exact same situation when the genders are reversed. It's a double standard. The feminist side is quick to use the term pedophile defined two ways: men involved with women below 18 (legal def) and also for older men who date far younger women (emotional definition): say a 40m who gets involved with a 25f. They have zero problems throwing around divisive words this way, but avoid them when protecting females who do the same. Word choice is a major part…
/r/MensRights01/07/20 04:41 PM
3

I only use the word "deserves" as a generalization because I see women often using this term when justifying what they feel like they "deserve" for no other reason than that they are female. And often a "Kween!".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 02:31 PM
1

Indeed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 02:21 PM
7

Well, in her mind she's entitled to a 190cm guy with a grad degree. That's what she "deserves".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 02:08 PM
8

Correction: "...while she goes out DRINKING to protest the pateiarchy". She drinks often.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 02:06 PM
26

Agreed. The word "run" was phrased in an aggressive way. This is a huge red flag for her generalized aggressiveness and bitchiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/20 02:05 PM
17

Upvote. Older women at my work get away with murder. One of the posters on a feminist sub said that "decent men do not need to worry about being wrongly accused of something". That is patently false.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 02:00 PM
3

Forgive me for being out of touch, but what was r/GenderCritical? Was this females against trans-females because they were men?
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:56 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:54 PM
2

Where is the overlap between left feminism and espousing Marxism?
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:52 PM
2

I agree with not silencing them. Allow their arguments and assertions to be heard by all. Unfortunately debate is difficult when several of the subs ban a person from wanting to debate ideas by dismissing it as misogyny or hate speech. Some subs automatically ban a person if they comment on another sub that they don't like. This means that the forums turn into echo chambers.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:50 PM
1

This isn't consistent throughout Texas. This practice does exist but varies from medical practice to medical practice. Usually a doctor's office may choose to do this because they fear being sued by a man's wife enough that they want the legal defense.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 12:23 AM
10

This says it all.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/06/20 08:25 PM
1

If you're asking for the definition of what an HVM is, it seems that there is no clear definition. I would say that all of your terms do apply here insofar as: if a man's behavior is providing anything a female needs (actually wants.and feels entitled to) then he is high value. Equality in giving both directions doesn't seem to qualify. Rather, as long as the male is providing the majority or maximal amount of provisioning (emotional, financial, etc...) then he is a "High Value Male". I'm only d…
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/20 04:52 PM
3

They're trying to relate it from the looks of it. It seems as though they're collecting keywords to apply specific (altered) definitions to in order to increase the number of words that can be used as weapons. Alot of this fight is taking place in print and online so words are used as weapons. So far I have seen new terms added to their lexicon or they take existing words and expand the definitions.
/r/AntiFeminists29/06/20 05:56 PM
3

I think that we can boil this post down to one simple thing: if a word exists and it relates to sexism, it will eventually be defined as something that harms women. I'd like to call this Dean's Law. LOL
/r/AntiFeminists29/06/20 04:53 PM
6

This post is in direct contradiction to the other argument about simping that has recently hit the feminist related boards. That argument that men only label men as Simps because it is a way to shame the men who would otherwise be HVM (High Value Male) that strive to be giving to women.
/r/AntiFeminists29/06/20 04:50 PM
7

LOL. Not going to happen.
/r/AntiFeminists29/06/20 04:47 PM
1

This is a really interesting point and I'm glad you mentioned it. Logically, if toxic masculinity exists, than by the same rules so must toxic femininity. If internalized misogyny exists, then so must toxic misandry. So what I take away from what you're saying is this: toxic masculinity evolves from men and harms women. It is inherant to men. Misogyny comes from men, and a woman with internalized misandry is just inwardly applying hate that comes originally from men. In either case, the toxic ef…
/r/MensRights29/06/20 01:32 PM
2

If you don't like punctuation, don't bother. BYE
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 05:39 PM
10

Agreed.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 05:35 PM
17

Well, yes. I just phrased it that way to emphasize the single directionality of it.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 05:12 PM
2

If you're not Dutch, you're not much! LOL
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:26 PM
6

You nailed it. How can anyone listen to this double-speak and not go completely crazy trying to make sense of it. They're basically trying to apply two completely different sets of standards on men: chivalrous and feminist. Apparently, all that really matters is applying all of the standards that provide them the upper hand.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:24 PM
185

Because these women are arguing with feelings, not facts all in support of a double standard.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:17 PM
53

Exactly right. I haven't really cared for the guy much, but he's stepping up and making the right call on this.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:15 PM
5

A logical conclusion to your posted comment would then result in this: societal reinforcement and repetition of sexist ideas such as toxic masculinity would result in some percentage of men internalizing the messages that their masculinity is toxic and they would act accordingly. So the assertion that addressing toxic masculinity is about helping men be better is false. They're saying that by applying a critical claim that some parts of masculinity are toxic will motivate men to be better. Essen…
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:13 PM
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Because doing so would require women to accept accountability, and that is not going to happen. The ironic thing is that I was raised in feminist culture and very much all for equal gender rights. Technically, I still am. However, it was specifically the tactics and strategies used under the guise of feminism that demonstrated that it's not about equality - it's about flipping sexism. Feminism isn't fighting for equality; it's fighting with reverse sexism.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 04:06 PM
9

It hit me in this post how women are constantly bandying on about "settling". I've never heard a man talk about this. Let's say that I make a decent living and I want to buy either a Lamborghini, Vector W2 Twin turbo, or a Lotus. Shit, they're out of my price range although I keep going to the dealership and sitting in the floor models. OK, I guess I'll look at getting a Porsch 911. Shit, still pricey no matter how much I tell the seller that I deserve that car. Don't they see how empowered I am…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 03:52 PM
1

What was your wife's rationale?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 03:42 PM
4

What...the...fuck???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 03:39 PM
2

This is a good point. If we're all beautiful, no matter what we look like, the King of Queens should be doing underwear ads. He's not fat - he's full figured and there is more of him to love! Feminists will happily call him a BBM (big beautiful man) and I'm for certain the women over at r/FDS will call him a HVM (high value male).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 03:37 PM
1

50% Mexican, 50% Ecuadorian, 100% loco. Her profile says so. Where do I sign up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 03:31 PM
13

I'm going to chalk this up to "female-own-group preference". Then the logical question would be: would they apply their logic to believe a male victim as well?
/r/MensRights28/06/20 12:12 AM
3

This statistical analysis is supported by actual math calculations, no doubt? LOL
/r/MensRights27/06/20 11:32 PM
3

He's apparently not listening to the feminist narrative that states that men are emotionally stunted thus causing women to have to do "unpaid emotional labor". So what about the claim that toxic-masculinity results in men not being more in touch with their emotions and sharing more. Which way is it then?
/r/MensRights27/06/20 04:24 PM
104

"Free healthcare" for all. (=advocates for women's health). Men paying 70% but denied legit care.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 04:14 PM
3

Makes total sense and it led to an informative discussion about how you both saw the value in one another's incomes.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 03:29 PM
7

I, for one, really enjoyed this post. Being given the opportunity to analyze a texting string is good practice for us.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 03:28 PM
4

This same sort of thing happens when you expose a Narcissist for who they really are. You show the world how manipulative and bullying they are, so they naturally melt down and bully you for exposing their tactics.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen27/06/20 03:14 PM
10

Getting into a feminist relationship becomes a fundamental power struggle about everything that matters and some things that don't.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 03:05 PM
3

Yeah she did, but if it were me, I probably would have continued with the conversation as well to simply see where it went and to see how many of the typical tactics she would use before the end. Just out of curiosity.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 03:02 PM
2

You got me with "...can get alot of productivity out of a woman." A discussion about this is something I would love to hear. I'm a bit skeptical. LOL
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 02:59 PM
9

The tone of this texting session was interesting because you remained pretty firm about your positions and opinions on your side of the conversations and she was dancing around you, trying to figure you out. I really appreciated how you basically didn't budge except for going ahead and talking numbers. She couldn't budge you so she gave up. She's looking for someone pliable and malleable.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/20 02:55 PM
1

Exactly right. I've had to take measures to be less engaging at work because of a stupid (outright lie) rumor by a woman I was responsible for training. She was telling other females that I was giving her preferential treatment and going out drinking with her after hours. I don't drink anymore. I immediately hit the nuclear button and had HR launch an investigation and I had to clear my name. Good career reputations don't come easily and must be defended sternly.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 06:36 PM
1

It's interesting that the same things a legit financial abuser does are almost identical to the things that have to be done to protect oneself and family from going into the poor house or being taken advantage of.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/06/20 06:31 PM
30

This makes alot of sense, but it seems to me that women take this sane arrangement and always spin in to be something like "Goddess worship" that she must really be the ideal body type because she got him. Its absolute self delusion. He dates down, so she assumes her SMV is much higher and that "all women are beautiful no matter their body type".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/20 03:29 PM
3

This is a good point. Men are going to have yo stand together to make a dent in this kind of bullshit if we are to be able to deal with how well women tend to coalesce around social issues.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 03:25 PM
7

Agreed but unfortunately these fights play out in two realms: real court and the court of public opinion which has been heavily coerced to view allegations as guilt. Hence so many accusations coming out on social media but not through the police and the legal system. I'm I tested to see where Bieber's case goes from here and thank god that guy is so organized to have counter evidence.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 03:22 PM
2

Nailed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 03:30 PM
21

The shape of that tattoo tells you where those breasts are heading.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 03:12 PM
16

Seems to me this is yet another double standard: women deserve praise but men don't. It just seems to me there is a tendency for the female contingent to want attention for things that are not even theirs. Logically, I doubt that single mothers are really also doing fatherly things since they're not fathers. Otherwise you wouldn't see young guys watching popular YouTube Channels like "Dad How Do I?" If they had fathers around to teach them how to do stuff. Their mothers, by and large, are not te…
/r/MensRights22/06/20 02:14 PM
1

This is an obvious double standard. These are everywhere.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 02:05 PM
3

If I'm not mistaken, this post unknowingly highlights the value of men, fathers, and father figures. Having to play a role of both father and mother is difficult because when the father is absent, the benefits of having had that father around become clear. To both the former SO as well as the kids.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 01:55 PM
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She's lying. The statement "wedding ready" is double speak. She's passing it off with plausable deniability (oh that was a friend's wedding) but she wouldn't have posted that on a profile without a fundamental reason. She's trying to signal her value: plug and play bride.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/20 01:42 PM
13

In response to you and the OP (well done) the thought that occurs to me is that not only is this dynamic a major problem generally speaking, but then for those of us who prefer to be professional in the workplace, these dynamics take place at work make workplace relationships a living nightmare. Especially if a woman is assertive and sizes you up at work and makes it known. It can make life alot harder if you shit where you eat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/20 04:41 PM
14

You have written a Grand Opus sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/20 04:36 PM
3

Correct. My spidey sense is telling me she wants the freedom of having him away from home 30 hours a week.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 04:41 PM
3

Winning at life sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 04:19 PM
12

I'm still trying to figure out which breast she's referring to. Left or right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 02:57 PM
5

This is one way to bank that cash and maybe retire by 65. But her criteria rules that out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 02:51 PM
2

Did anyone notice she wants him working at least 30 hours a week. Probably outside the home. But why? Hmmmm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/20 02:49 PM
1

Yes, DM is great. All of your comments are on point as far as I am concerned and I will read the links that you provided. Much appreciated.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/06/20 06:48 PM
3

Thanks for this comment. I'm happy to confirm that your response is right on the money. My wife is a combination of borderline with Narcissistic features and this even was the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm also writing this for the benefit of other readers who may have done the same thing and married a borderline. It's a nightmare. As of that moment, I took over most of the finances and put my foot down. Her response was the confirmation I needed and told me what I had been suspecting f…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre18/06/20 03:19 PM
1

LMAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 02:35 PM
5

Endlessly empathetic = emotional tampon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 11:19 PM
8

But wait...she said she's a "non gun enthusiast" which could be that she's enthusiastic about all gun alternatives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 11:15 PM
5

LOL.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen17/06/20 11:12 PM
0

H0ly $h1t.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 06:11 PM
1

Got it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 05:26 PM
5

Why does she says "Carole killed her husband?" WTF?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 01:38 PM
2

This is instructive and could be it's own post. Thanks for taking the time to provide examples. Your note of scleral show is relevant, especially with the last examples of crazy eyes. The engaged, furrowed brow widens the eyes and shows intensity through muscular engagement while the thousand **** stare and lushy face show different levels of relaxation in the facial muscles. The lushy one seems flaccid and discombobulated while the thousand **** stare is more of a type of resignation/dead insid…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/20 09:10 PM
3

LOL. I'm trying to imagine the spectrum of facial-tells where lushy-face, crazy eyes, and thousand c0ck stare falls onto.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/20 10:51 PM
7

200 first dates is a major red flag denoted by the crazy eyes. I've seen that look - it is trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/20 01:39 PM
8

I agree. Who cares about educated unless that education is being applied in specialized fields that you mentioned. Maybe educated means good conversation, but not in this case. If we have to be told she's educated because her profile does not demonstrate it, then that's an issue. If someone is smart, you'll realize it; they don't have to tell you: I'm really smart. It's alot more satisfying to see someone applying their education and making meaningful impact in the world than just having gotten …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/20 01:36 PM
1

Badonkadonk. Full figured.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/20 01:13 PM
5

This is an interesting point in that many of the feminist discussions on Reddit boards include alot of recommendations to read feminist literature, but not references to good, peer reviewed scientific literature documenting the impact of the philosophy on the kinds of social issues or societal functioning that should be getting better according to their decades long arguments.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/06/20 10:35 PM
4

They tell on themselves all the time. They can't help it. There was no viable reason for her to mention wanting a $million but she threw it in there anyway, so of course money and resources are on her mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/20 02:26 PM
9

It's easy to get banned on the feminism boards if you have a dissenting opinion. As to whether your hypothesis of events is correct, that's what the autopsy report would shed light on.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/06/20 10:13 PM
1

Copy that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 03:40 PM
11

Beware the women with a Zoo at home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 02:01 PM
3

What is a Bloopie?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 01:56 PM
1

Women projecting yet again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 01:54 PM
2

I believe you're right although didn't thing of it this way. The whole idea of "men think with their dicks" is just a mirror reflection of women always leveraging their vaginas as the ultimate fly-trap for men. Even with starfish sex, they believe it just magically attracts and hypnotized men. Not true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 01:53 PM
13

She's never going to volunteer information about how her shit testing and demands increased because that means accountability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 01:45 PM
1

Hahaha. Move on...nothing to see here gents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/20 01:42 PM
5

You ever met women that seem to be like "one of the guys" and hangs out with mostly guys? I wonder if they are originally this way, or if this is learned behavior to just have alot more orbiters. Stay away from the "I prefer to hang out with guys because it is less drama" line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 03:02 PM
6

And random side note that seems to go along with this scenario - a dependable red flag is if a woman or any of her friends have to blow into a breathalyzer to start their car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 02:58 PM
12

Truth. Seen it many times: woman marries as high of a status guy she can get, then get's her passion and tingles producing side-dude by trying to find another guy in her "status" range. Now she can claim to be pulling resources from two men. You can bet she's bragging to her friends about it. Word to the wise: if your girl tells you slutty stories about her friends (cheating, threesomes, insatiable sexual appetite) she's doing it too. Birds of a feather...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 02:55 PM
8

This is the second time this morning already reading about the females' self defeating strategy. They're compelled by tingles to get one thing when reason says they should go for stability and security. This emotional "strategy" is cognitive dissonance because they want opposite traits at the same time (as you said - Alphabux). No wonder they're never happy. Searching for hollow unicorns on rainbows and complaining when they can't find it. Maybe they ditch this fantasy and replace it with the on…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 02:49 PM
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I hadn't thought about it like this before: women enter the job market to compete with men for jobs. The job market for men shrinks in the sectors where women are looking for marriageable men while at the same time women complain at the lack of such men. Seems like a self defeating strategy to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 02:42 PM
16

There are primarily two kinds of women: those who beat you down right from the beginning and those you get into long term relationships with and they often play the "long beatdown game" to wear away at you and your resources until your threadbare. Either path eventually leads to the same realization.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/20 02:39 PM
10

I'm one of those guys that has enough self control and if I don't want to orgasm, I won't. If you really want to see the bare-knuckle kind of indignation a woman will show you, have sex with her and don't orgasm. I tell them that the sex is great. Often it is. But if the circumstances are such that she's fertile or a condom breaks, then I would just hold back. [I'm now snipped]. When I was younger and working out alot more, I would love to just go at it for as long as she could keep up. Only a f…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/06/20 04:26 PM
3

Pressing F to show Respect.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/06/20 04:16 PM
3

I realize that now. I appreciate you calling me on it. Won't happen again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 04:08 PM
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I edited it once, but now edited it further. Thank you. Let me know if there is still an issue. This error will not happen again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 04:03 PM
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Done. This error will not be made again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 04:00 PM
8

Thanks for this post. This spot on. After 20 years of marriage, I finally decided that the "rule" I was inculcated to believe that "my income belongs to the family" was going to change. My wife's initial move to take on the task of paying the bills eventually evolved into me asking for permission to buy things. So last year, I decided to keep my performance bonus. I busted my ass at work - it was a good bonus. I also rerouted a percentage of my paycheck to a private account for my own discretion…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre06/06/20 03:57 PM
3

Holy shit! I'm sorry guys. I didn't realize I did that in the moment. As soon as I figure out how to edit my post, I will take that down. Thanks for holding me accountable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 03:40 PM
14

I know a woman that works as a sex worker and was thinking about it? She has a worthless college degree in something like interpretational dance or whatever. Four kids. Different dads. I've spent 25 years constantly trying to keep current on my computer skills or trying new things in the workshop to get better at building things. Fixing my own car when something goes wrong. Basically doing what a man does - solving problems by learning and overcoming. This woman though? Takes the easiest way pos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 03:08 PM
11

I was going to say this, and fortunately you already said it. Women LIE so often and effortlessly, even about non-essential shit. Always be skeptical.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 03:01 PM
20

Only fans is a joke. This woman is young, dumb and hanging herself with her own rope. Lying about her motives and maligning her audience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/20 02:58 PM
1

I second this. So fucking true. Feminism is replete with double standards. And if you don't align with the ideology, the common response is to shame anyone who doesn't agree.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/20 02:48 PM
1

It would make sense that women are attracted to psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths - all of which are in the Cluster B of personality disorders on par with what another commenter identified about dark triad traits. Dark triad is just a combination of behaviors that closely relate to Cluster B people. This article chooses to apply a gendered lens to what is more largely understood to be how abusers attract, brain wash, and victimize people - this is both male and female. This article is jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 10:12 PM
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Men aren't intimidated by power. More projection. I personally loved getting together with educated and ambitious women. But intimidation was never part of the dynamic. Women are the ones mostly obsessed with power and control so they assume we are too. Men don't think this way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 02:44 PM
4

On point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 02:41 PM
3

They're trotting out the same tired arguments. Repeating the same points over and over is just conditioning. And many of these points are straight up projection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 02:40 PM
3

"All of the discussions are about, rights, rights, and more rights. None of the discussion is about responsibility...". Responsibility is a tool of the PATRIARCHY! Reeeeeeeeeeeee. Actually, this is a great point and highlights what I would consider the tyranny of the female.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 02:15 PM
2

"Words are magic spells". Totally agree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 04:45 PM
6

Security via superiority and control?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 04:17 PM
5

Maybe that's what thot posts need. Someone can start a business as editor for thot posts in order to make them readable and cogent. BAHAHAHA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 04:16 PM
8

This is a question I struggle with myself by asking myself if I would have chosen MGTOW before my early 40's. In short, you have to do what is right for you. I can say, though, that I do not regret having committed to a 25 year relationship and raising two kids except it up until 3 years ago as a beta. Niw that I'm older and don't have to regret not having kids, I'm satisfied that I did it. Now I'm in a good place to be able to either: 1. Avoid new relationships with women in order to avoid the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 04:15 PM
4

I'm far from an incel and will be MGTOW for a long time. Becoming MGTOW was directly a result of a history of many long and short term relationships and hookups. This is what taught me the nature of women when I was raised indoctrinated in feminism and being a plowhorse for them. They take and take until you break, so MGTOW can be life-saving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:18 PM
6

One YT channel posted an article the other day where an economist explained to a woman asking for gold-digging advice why she was a bad financial decision for multiple reasons. It was priceless. High investment in a quickly depreciating asset. Like I said in a previous post, I may be willing to hang on longer if she learned some useful skills including how to give a phenomenal BJ and could pretend to be enthusiastic about it once in a while. But that is far too difficult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:13 PM
5

TFM
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:09 PM
15

Women talk of freedom but they prefer security over freedom every time. Maybe what they really want is the freedom to get security at all costs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:07 PM
2

Is it possible for women to end up as net tax payers truly?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:06 PM
11

In the upside, we finally have a narrative written with good spelling and punctuation. That's refreshing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 03:02 PM
4

Both the ideas of "pragmatism is better" and "men are less afraid of being wrong" are generally true IMHO. You want shit to happen, ask a guy. Want to talk about it endlessly and ruminate about details, as a female.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 02:57 PM
15

And I opted to spend much more on a wife who doesn't know how to give a good blowjob or learn how. Congrats, I failed! LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 02:50 PM
14

Bingo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 02:47 PM
1

You said it all in one sentence. Bravo sir.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/20 02:44 PM
8

She's a victim of Voltage privilege.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:58 PM
6

Holy shit. She said that she is a "victim of couple privilege". An invented term to avoid saying: she's entitled. Fixed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:57 PM
9

She respects nothing more than a good roast. Pork roast is my guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:53 PM
4

Truth. If I had a nickel for every time a woman of any age said she's finally discovering herself. These women are usually clueless or trying on a new personality like a chameleon to shag you out of your resources.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:51 PM
10

Bearded man here doesn't like water-balloon jugs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:46 PM
1

Bahahahaha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/20 01:44 PM
1

This is the reason I'm here. The number of places where men are constantly criticized outnumbers places exponentially where men can focus on our issues. Look at FDS - have you seen the sheer amount of low quality, high quantity output they have posted? It's not not IMHO that men are worse than women, therefore they have more to write about. Their volume of propaganda is directly proportional to their efforts at shouting, ceaselessly from their bullhorn to push their narrative without taking a br…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/05/20 05:42 PM
3

Spot on OP. Well stated.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/05/20 05:32 PM
2

This quote stood out to me: "Their actions would say otherwise; they would not be trying this hard to outlaw things that devalue them sexually. They would not care this much to do such things because they would have other value to fall back on." This is a way I havent thought about it before but resonates with me as very accurate. In the movie Swordfish, John Travolta's character makes a point about "misdirection". "What they eyes see and ears hear, the mind believes". Feminism in general does t…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/05/20 04:30 PM
3

You, sir could be my doppelganger. You said you got blamed for anything and everything...tried to fix It with love and affection. COUNTLESS MEN FAIL DOING THIS OUT OF IGNORANCE. Hail the red pill.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/05/20 04:17 PM
5

Women in general are emotional decision makers and thus can make horrible judgement calls when basic reason is called for. I used to think this was just a cultural trope, but year after year, I see my wife, mother, and sister all make repeated and bizarre choices that work out poorly. My mother is in her 80's and my sister resents the fact that my mom takes my advice over hers most of the time. My sister says it is because I'm a man and my mom is sexist and defers to men. Actually, my mom likes …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/05/20 04:14 PM
3

This is a great post OP. I'm going to get on my usual soapbox and point out the usual Narcissism highlighted in these articles for all to see. Women that do "date down" here also expressed their need for being superior. One woman's quote said "She's in control at home including what color to paint the dining room. If she couldn't do that, what would she be in *control" of". She said the critical part right there. Many women today are either intrinsically controlling or encouraged to be so by the…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/05/20 04:07 PM
1

Women have tried to enter and take over male spaces now for a long while on the spirot of gaining equality, but it is unclear double standard. They guilt and shame men for male spaces, try to infiltrate them, then in the same way, create female only spaces and are indignant if men don't stay away (see certain Reddit boards). If society doesn't have as many rites of passage for boys and men anymore, its helpful for fathers to create these for sons (and daughters too) to give them a measure by whi…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre30/05/20 03:48 PM
5

Shocking. Ever date an empowered woman that likes rough trade or ravishment fantasy behind closed doors? Many guys probably have.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/05/20 12:19 AM
5

I would take this a step further and comment about the women that withhold sex because it hurts their partners. Having dealt with this form of control and then finally realizing it, it was dumbfounding. Some men do this too, mind you, but that's another point. Purposely withholding things that are important to their mate is such a mind fuck. When you get desperate and keep asking for even vanilla sex, then they spin it and say "You're not entitled to my body". Yet I still pay all of the bills. W…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/20 12:17 AM
3

I know that I tend to beat this drum in several of my post responses, but alot of her hamstring is Narcissistic in nature. All of the talk about "leveling up" is evidenced by all of her examples of outward props and signs of status: the career, high income, nice clothes, etc... This type of thinking assumes that if she displays all of the accutriments of "success" and thus status, that this signals to the world what she is entitled to. It's emotional thinking and as many have pointed out here, n…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre29/05/20 08:30 PM
17

Touché.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/05/20 04:01 PM
1

Doesn't own a car, so if you live up to the max of 2 hours away, you'll be doing all of the driving. So she had a long list of deal breakers but has nothing about what she does want. No positives. What this says is that she is a negative thinker and time with her will be listening to her bitch about everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 04:00 PM
8

What she needs a bodyguard trained to slap the Tinder out of her hand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 03:35 PM
1

Now you have to write an essay to toss her salad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 03:33 PM
53

Toxic masculinity. This idea takes negative male traits, bundles them all together, and labels them. The same could be done with femininity.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen29/05/20 03:28 PM
2

Give me a little bit to find some and post them. Stay tuned...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/20 01:02 PM
9

Huh. I have to think about that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 05:52 PM
69

A-fucking-men sir. This is 100% correct. By the way, she said she'll never realize their dream of having kids one day. Hard to do that when you're not fucking in the first place. I remember trying to cope with what was turning into a deadbedroom in 2004 and suddenly my wife was into me again for a while. She got pregnant. She told me 14 years later that she only did that because she wanted to get pregnant in order to have a second kid. Women can feign interest, but don't be fooled. If your woman…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 04:36 PM
3

"I think you have to actually get burned to assimilate the knowledge fully." Great point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 03:15 PM
2

She could also be codependent and therefore attracting borderline and narcissistic men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/20 03:13 PM
7

This show is a nasty dumpster fire. There is a commentator in YouTube that does regular criticisms of it and it often highlights how dishonest these women are in how they operate in relationships.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/20 02:21 PM
3

Yeah. I would agree. In fact, from what I understand, some game challenges require the use of chat to coordinate strategy between players, or an achievement is impossible to complete. Between people who know each other, should be no issue. For people who join random and anonymous players to create a raiding party, people need to be prepared for the fact that there is potential to join up with assholes.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 09:07 PM
4

Good points.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 08:49 PM
33

BlackDogRamblin is right on. Simps virtue signaling to simps. Anyone, male or female, that writes about putting your expectations or happiness in the hands of other people, especially if those people may not be invested in any way, is why therapists are so busy. Teaching our daughters and sons to be self sufficient and self satisfied is first and foremost. If they choose to get into committed relationships and be in service to one another, that is a whole 'nother thing entirely. Being in service…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 05:16 PM
2

She's applying a bold double standard right out in the open for everyone to see. So she's saying that the same crime for a female victim is worse because women get more injured from the same action. This implies, from a feminist, that women are not as strong and able to cope, ergo the perpetrators (male) require harsher punishment. So what about a female that rapes another female? Does the perpetrator then get a harsher sentence? Food for thought.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 04:17 PM
1

Good pun.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 04:13 PM
1

What a shocker in today's world. Switching to a female lead may be OK as long as the writing and story telling is as good or better than the original. Stories rebooted with female leads often lack depth and good writing.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 04:12 PM
2

This quote is an absolute double standard and the lae should not be being selective on restricting the definition of rape for male victims compared to female victims.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 04:09 PM
5

My son plays online alot and says that assholes there insult everyone. Random chat feature on raiding parties is a potential cesspool and not any kind of safe space.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/05/20 04:07 PM
1

Hypergamy in action. They can't help it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/20 03:50 PM
2

Damn. Same for me. My wife pursued me initially years ago. It shows initiative since women are supposed to be equals to men. Unfortunately, a woman that wants you to want her is often the woman that is constantly leaving herself open to being wanted by as many men as possible and sometimes other women just for the attention. Remember: attention is the currency of the female.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:30 PM
3

There comes a time after sleeping with or being in long term relationships with enough women that it just isn't that interesting anymore. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. But that new arc welder in the garage? That is the fucking bomb and won't bitch at you when you're building cool shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:26 PM
13

It's only chasing if Karen thinks you're tall enough, make enough money, have good social status. Otherwise, its harrassment or stalking (as @devenburns31 points out).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/20 04:19 PM
6

I do not want a relationship with someone that cannot spell or punctuate a simple profile. Good luck teaching your kids normal English.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 07:06 PM
32

This is like if someone advertised a used car by saying: the car is full of flies, head gaskets are cracked, and someone died in the backseat. Come and get it! Cost is 10% higher than blue book because I just know this car is awesome!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 04:11 PM
4

Indeed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 04:36 PM
14

Actually, I'm a big guy, so I crush the soles of my shoes every day just walking around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 04:35 PM
0

She may be a sarcastic bitch, but look on the bright side: she doesn't have a FUPA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 01:34 PM
115

Sole crushing. LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/20 01:22 PM
3

Truth is a weapon of the Patriarchy, so no doubt. I, for one, will not back down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:53 PM
1

Yuck. Seeking divorced or widowed man with grown children in order to eventually get whatever inheritance was intended for his kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:29 PM
3

So happy to be learning from you gents. Finally a sub where truth is spoken and not tamped down by SJWs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:25 PM
8

This, my friends, is someone admitting that they have a diagnosable personality disorder up front. Fuuuuuuuck that. Anyone who mentions the word drama in their profile is a definite "avoid at all costs". They'll consume as much of your time with emotional bullshit as possible and you'll wonder how they found the time to pierce their nose, dye their hair purple, and attend a #metoo rally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:21 PM
1

Years ago, when I was spinning a couple of plates, a woman who looked like this hit me up for sex and I said no. She was actually a cool person but I work out and like at least a moderately fit woman. It's just my taste. The thing is, she was absolutely confused as to why I wouldn't take her repeated offers. Women think their pussy is a magical guy trap. Some of us guys do have preferences and don't just fuck anything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:17 PM
3

Her face barely moves in order to show any real emotion. Like others have said, fake tears. Too bad she spent her time looking sexy all the time and didn't learn programming or some other useful skill like changing her own oil. Women generally take for granted a man who spent many of his teens and 20's learning one boring or dirty skill after another in order to save money and be productive. When is the last time a wamyn said that she appreciated that her guy knows how to do 50 or 60 things that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:13 PM
6

Come on man! A Kween knows her own value! You have to respect self-empowered wamyns. Take her word for it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:06 PM
3

She might have done herself a favor learning english, grammar, and learning to proof read her posts before putting them online. A guy is going to read this dumbass writing and think: she's a ditz.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:04 PM
9

This is true. A dull looking woman with a good soul and personality can also be totally sexy, especially if she's at least a little freaky. Personally, I'd be happy with an average looking woman with no makeup and a good personality than an especially attractive woman with no soul.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 03:02 PM
2

Savage!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/20 02:52 PM
4

Peter Griffen said fat sex was great because there are boobs everywhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 01:56 PM
49

This woman is an absolute twat and we can see her hamstering right in her post. At least she admitted bad judgment but often times you have to listen for those small moments when a woman tells the truth and isn't really thinking. Then she tries to back up immediately. Those are the moments that will slip by except, like was said above, this guy will never forget this. When women like this say shitty things them try to be sweet and nice to make it up, that repeat cycle causes an eventual trauma b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 03:40 PM
6

"Every woman I meet is selfish and doesn't wanting me spending money on other things. You don't own my wallet. I am a free person who can spend money where I please and gain experiences." Cue the female reeeeeeeeeeeeee.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 04:35 PM
4

Thanks for mentioning this. Many of the women I know ask me "How are you coping with quarantine?" My answer: "Fucking great!" In 6 weeks I have upgraded my whole workshop, started building in a welding station, built and installed a moving bookcase, restored the drill press back to new condition. Plus I work 60 hours a week from home. Boredom is for the boring mind and small talk is one of the first signs of this. I can't stand small talk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 04:31 PM
10

You have written a Magnum Opus sir. You covered just about everything in one post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 04:25 PM
1

She's so bored and has so little going on upstairs that she can't even pretend to try to say something interesting or pretend she has different motives. This is probably why she likes small talk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 04:19 PM
19

BINGO! Stating that him paying groceries and bills is just normal and expected speaks to entitlement. Narcissists and entitlement go together like thots and chads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 11:13 PM
7

Not funny in a humorous way but does highlight the ridiculousness of the usual single-mom propaganda. They had two subtle points in the video: 1. She tried to sell it as a good thing that after a night on the town, the guy could play video games all night with the kid instead of coming home to have sex as though this is what real men really want. And what caring mom wants her young kid to stay up all night gaming? 2. She was making points about why single moms are great, but then contradicts thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 07:59 PM
3

Evidence. Evidence. Evidence. Even if in a no-fault divorce state. A good rule to live by is ABR - Always Be Recording on your phone for key conversations about the relationship while playing dumb. Sooner or later the stories will become inconsistent and by documenting them in some way, it becomes easy to confirm what was said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:29 PM
3

She says she doesn't know her weight because it's basically "another number to not feel enough about". Actually, it's the reverse. That number easily exceeds the sexually attractive standard for 5' 1/2" tall. As Neighbor said "Grrl power!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:24 PM
25

Yup. Casts Pearl's is right on. Notice the OP repeatedly does not take accountability for making bad decisions. So no, finding a quality man is going to be tough. If she had a habit of picking emotionally difficult men, she needs to work on herself through a good therapist and figure out why she picks tension filled relationships. But good therapy is expensive so unlikely to happen living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:19 PM
2

IMHO women seek security and men seek freedom. Women aren't satisfied so when they "level up"(tm) they want to monkey branch to even more security. The funny think is that whenever I hear the word security, I just think of the Anvil personal security group from Punisher.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:06 PM
3

This point right here. Truth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:02 PM
9

Hell's yeah! Lit as hell. There is going to be alot of material to pick from on weekends. On a related note: The articles shaming men who won't wife up a sex-worker calling him insecure are part of this movement. Remember men: sex work is work! Just sweatier and more STD potential than the "emotional labor" women say they do and want to charge for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:00 PM
3

That's what I thought. She said she's "decently attractive by society's standards" but this means nothing since women overrate themselves consistently. She's probably porky or has an annoying personality (e.g. she's in a sorority). And by the way, I'm going to sound like an asshole, but we could start a whole subreddit to just spell, grammar, and punctuation check posts from dating profiles and feminist rants. That's the actual sign of how well educated they are when they claim that they're empo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 02:53 PM
1

No, not pump and dump. I see your point but I suppose there was important nuance missing on the point of sociopathy or similar use and discard. The way I read the OP was for a woman who keeps using a guy until she runs through what he had to offer and then kicks him to the curb which could be months or years. This apparently shows my bias. IMHO, Cluster B use and discard would typically be a one sided situation that would include exploitation over time and even include some dishonest coersion in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 11:34 PM
23

As someone who has had training for some years in how to identify Narcissists and people in Cluster B of personality disorders, it's pretty evident that anyone who calls disposing of people a fetish is higher on the Narcissistic spectrum. Maybe even a sociopath or worse if they obtain joy from using and discarding of a man. Women in the current year are Narcissistic in my book until proven otherwise which is why WAATGM will have material to write about for years. One of the things a Narcissistic…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 04:25 PM
5

Well said sir. Sourcing social data from 25 years ago to prove a point won't pass the skeptical sniff-test of anyone familiar with how published data works. To further support your point, feminism has had a massive impact on family law and public perception of how relationships work just over the last 5, 10, and even 15 years in a way that resembles clown world. I have women in my family and want them to be happy and successful but not through the typical Narcissism of finding someone to leech o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 03:58 PM
5

So she sourced a 25 year old article as proof of a current point? LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 03:31 PM
18

Symbolically, two thieves got crucified on either side of Jesus, so each breast probably has someone else's money tucked under them which won't easily fall out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 03:25 PM
1

You make a good point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 03:18 PM
8

Don't forget that enlightened banter of FDS that labels these "real men" (who asked them what a real man is?) As a "HVM".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 03:14 PM
5

One time, I had to have the HR department at my company investigate and write-up a chubby woman who loved Disney movies because she made up stories about how we went out drinking together and implied a relationship. I puked in my mouth when I got wind of it. You don't even have to find them in OLD apps. Beware of adult female cartoon lovers - they're mentally 8 years old and will cause you drama even if you have to work in the same department.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 03:11 PM
6

This is correct. The words "My womb was filled" implies that she was a bystander when some dude put a baby in there by his own actions. Classic language to avoid accountability. And BTW, don't you guys get sick and tired of the "King" and "Kween" monikers? Women love to dub themselves as royalty while I rarely hear men delusional enough to identify as a "King". Deslusional and shows entitlement IMHO.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 03:06 PM
8

"All the do is lie, lie endlessly": TRUTH. I learned this the hard way. Growing up as a naive simp early on, you have to become a "woman whisperer" to tune into the fact that women are almost always bending the truth about something if not outright gaslighting you. Not all women, but most in my experience. As a guy with a 25 year relationship, you eventually learn that your wife always has an agenda and massages the narrative to get you to behave the way she wants. Fuck that noise. Now I just li…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 03:01 PM
4

I've only been visiting this sub for a few months and I can say for certain that Kweens don't know how to use English. If the OLDs hired someone to correct all of the spelling, grammar, puncruation, and word usage errors on posts, they would have to have whole departments of edits working night and day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/20 04:01 PM
3

Probably corpulent too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/20 03:45 PM
1

It doesn't seem organic at all but I couldn't put my finger on what it was. Alot of the posts and comments seem contrived.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 01:59 AM
98

When I was in my mid-20's, I made the joke that women only want one thing: everything. More than two decades later I realize that I wasn't far off considering I was young and dumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/20 04:40 PM
17

This last sentence nailed it. Their definition of HVM is about a man bringing them time, money, energy, attention and looks for them. As opposed a HVM with character, values, confidence, and cojones. FDS profiled one HVM that let his wife keep all of her own earnings and access his bank accounts whenever, wherever. Also driving her and her friends to the bar to have drinks, wait patiently in the car outside, and if he had to come inside the bar if they were late, would happily buy his wife and h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 02:41 PM
21

There are probably lurkers from r/FDS but my guess is that we don't block them from commenting here like they do to anyone from this sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/20 03:01 PM
2

Notice that what she is actually jealous of isn't the relationship but the fact that a man is buying a women a car or working 60 hours a week in order to pay for the wedding. She says she is sick of being alone, but the examples she gives are of men provisioning for their fiances. It's all about what men provide, not for who they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/20 04:36 PM
2

She's already at the multiple cat stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/20 04:28 PM
25

Same thing happened to me when I made my first comment. It seems that r/FDS won't risk anyone calling them on the exact tactics mentioned in this sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/20 04:44 PM
2

This is correct. Apparently the Salam carries some religious significance but can be used by Muslims and ChristiansWiki alike.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/19 06:00 PM
2

Exactly. Classic female avoidance of accountability. "If I get drunk, it's my best friends fault!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/19 02:25 PM
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