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I went through a period of alienating myself. Through which I learnt that I was taking life way too seriously. Now I think to myself, I can get value from hanging out with any person on the planet, even someone I dislike, there is more intense inspiration in the things we hate than in the things we like. Pretty much everyone you meet is Blue pilled, I only found it hard to be around them because I felt the urge to “show them the truth” or whatever, once you let go of that and accept you cannot c…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:50 AM
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I’m gunna tell you some advice, I know it’s gunna be difficult to take it but one of the core teachings of TRP is to be “brutally honest in your self reflection.” The way you criticise everyone else and think only you are right just screams to me that you’re trying to rationalise being scared of approaching or being rejected by women. Your mindset is incredible toxic. If you read this and feel attacked and defensive: THAT MEANS IT’S TRUE. Trust me I’ve been in your position before, just consider…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 07:40 AM
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The mental side of it is great but I had a parasite for years which really fucked up my digestive system, lots of food sensitivities etc. I think I’m gunna have to use carbs as an energy source while I heal because the Giardia has messed with my fat absorption. Why are you doing it?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 11:09 PM
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Pretty sure op acknowledged she’s was trying to make him jealous
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 11:48 PM
2

Bro, listen to how you’re talking about it. You need frame. You need boundaries to operate inside. If a girl is ghosting, she’s showing low interest, that isn’t behaviour that deserves to be payed attention to. Fuck, have you even read the sidebar? Go read humansockpuppets how to manage your bitches now. To answer your question - you shouldn’t check the girl on that kind of behaviour unless she has moved up in the hierarchy and you’ve invested more in her. You’re only asking because you’re alrea…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:20 PM
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I love having girl friends, it’s good to get used to making girls comfortable and making them feel like you aren’t judgemental. The things they’ll admit to you then... fascinating
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:07 PM
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Have a lurk on the zerocarb subreddit. The general trend for people who adopt that diet is they drop fat quickly and gain muscle even without exercise, combine that with lifting. Personal experience with carnivore diet: underweight and malnourished for years, anxiety, depression, chronic fatigue. All improved drastically, I’ve never felt better. Other zerocarb red pill guys know what I’m talking about
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:00 PM
1

She probably isn’t cheating, but she’s getting attention from her ex. Boundaries are established before the relationship, this might have to be a case of slyly slipping it in conversation about one good girl you were seeing who you regretfully had to end it with cos she was talking to her ex
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:40 PM
19

I do carnivore diet, no carbs. It’s been a fucking miracle for my hormonal acne. Like a baby’s bum
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 10:22 PM
3

That was my point. He becomes a prince, the motherfucker, not a king
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 08:36 AM
1

If a queen marries a regular guy he’ll be a prince, if a king marries a regular woman she’ll be queen
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 09:19 PM
3

This is hilarious why no upvotes
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 08:44 AM
10

I think you can answer that yourself
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 08:59 AM
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Removing all carbs from my diet was the best thing I ever did. Adapting to running on ketones instead of glucose can be pretty rough, but the mental clarity/energy, better dental health, lack of anxiety/ myriad other benefits I’ve experienced is so worth it. Zero carb zen, it’s a thing
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 05:05 PM
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Watch out for over-consuming spinach, the oxalates can fuck you from the inside and you might never realise. They can cause joint pain, connective tissue damage, renal damage, all sorts of gastrointestinal issues, (they’re strongly linked to autism, like soy (extremely high oxalate), gluten and the casein protein in milk) and they deplete your essential minerals. 3 spinach smoothies could contain about 3 grams, which is the bottom end of lethal dose range. :- Some 50 year old guy in Spain had so…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 03:04 PM
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He said lactose, the sugar in milk. They probably add regular sugar after the lactase has broken down the lactose. A lot of people, myself included, instead have an issue with the proteins in milk (A1 beta Casein etc.)
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 02:51 PM
0

You have an unhealthy view of yourself and sex. Follow FootballFan’s advice
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 10:45 AM
6

One finger wouldn’t go in? Maybe she has a freakishly tight vagina and had bad past experiences
/r/askTRP20/12/19 01:50 PM
2

If it bothers you, she will sense that and then it’ll be a problem. Stop giving a fuck
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:31 PM
1

The weight literally falls off and I’ve never felt better in my life. I am also running on a student budget
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:24 AM
2

Yep. I eat only beef and get about 3500 calories a day. Have a lurk on that subreddit
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:20 AM
2

Just fatty beef
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:25 AM
3

Treat it like a shit test and pin her down harder, some girls enjoy the struggle
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:24 AM
0

Try carnivore diet. Plants have some of the worst triggers for autoimmune and inflammation - oxalates being one you should definitely avoid, if you eat lots of spinach, chocolate, sweet potatoes, soy, nuts they need to go ASAP. Check zerocarb subreddit for some testimonials on arthritis.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:22 AM
0

Check out zerocarb on reddit
/r/askTRP17/12/19 08:13 AM
6

Just wait for her to reach out, move on. You did alright but you should have led with the last message - saying you’re busy and to let you know when she’s available after
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:21 AM
1

They’re just girls man, you know they aren’t special now
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:35 PM
1

People generally mistake infatuation for love, but all that is is low self worth and no life purpose allowing another person to fill holes in your psyche. You likely just have a healthier view and expectations now
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:11 PM
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She was poking at your boundaries, I see how it would be annoying but you could have at least used some amused mastery and turned it into an opportunity to tease her and escalate. But she sounds like a handful so probably for the best
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:04 PM
5

Comfort kills attraction. Spending lots of time together you won’t be able to help it, this is where dread comes in
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:36 AM
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Why are you spending so much time together? Sounds like you’re probably turning beta, if she refuses sex just say you have shit to do and leave
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:33 AM
6

No. Do some research and stop regurgitating silly bits on information that have no context
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:07 AM
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You’re doing the right thing just taking time to develop yourself, return to the gym when you feel like you’re strong enough. Until then, stop eating any refined carbs, sugar, alcohol, dairy it’ll only stall your recovery
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:28 AM
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Your head is so far up her framus it’s unreal, nigga. U got work to do, but this is a pivotal moment for you
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:24 AM
5

She’s ceramic Plate material
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:22 AM
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You should have tried enjoying your night without her, talked to other people there, she would come back and you act like nothing happened; communicating through your actions that none of her childish emotional shit fazes you. You broke frame and showed her your word is unreliable, she probably feels a lot of dread and she might be scared enough to break up with you out of fear. Not sure what you can do to save this, I don’t think you’re ready for an LTR
/r/askTRP14/12/19 08:19 AM
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Lots of foods are inflammatory. I had horrendous inflammation and pain in my shoulders and ankles for years, gym was not an option. I only eat fatty beef right now, my body feels like I’m 10 years old again, all pain is gone as well as a truckload of other chronic mental and physiological issues. I would have never known that diet was the issue unless I tried a pretty restrictive zerocarb carnivore diet. Never eating carbs again. I can finally put on weight after years of malnutrition
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:07 PM
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That book was written when marriage was secure and the wives were in their role - hubby takes her for granted. Would have been comforting for them feeling appreciated after being worried they’re not good enough
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:00 PM
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I was “skinny” with a “fast metabolism” but that shit is bullshit. Turns out I had low stomach acid and intestinal damage from shit like gluten. I wasn’t digesting or absorbing properly. I did zerocarb (carnivore diet- zerocarb on here) as an elimination to figure out the problem foods and I started putting on weight for the first time in my life. The standard “balanced” diet is not as healthy as we’re led to believe. An elimination diet might be something to look into; food intolerances can fuc…
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:47 PM
2

Overactive minds so keeping the mystery will be very effective
/r/askTRP13/12/19 10:32 PM
1

They give shitty advice so they can keep customers paying
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:05 PM
4

Stop bragging about your chaddy daddy
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:51 PM
5

She forgets, you forget
/r/askTRP08/12/19 12:44 AM
7

Make some meaning
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:38 PM
5

You’ve lost already then. Read the fucking sidebar man
/r/askTRP07/12/19 02:15 PM
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She didn’t offer to reschedule. You should have not replied unless she rescheduled. If she does, great. If she doesn’t, move on; she’s not interested enough
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:10 PM
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Terribly. You come across as extremely needy
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:58 PM
2

He’s married land whales he’s bp
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:03 AM
3

Most likely by displaying value/preselection at the party and not letting her coldness get to you which it seems like it already has
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:00 AM
1

It was the answer to what he ended the post with. Something like “I don’t want to portray a bad boy image”
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:05 PM
0

No, you do
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:11 AM
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You have already lost I’m afraid. The only way you could potentially get past this is by genuinely not giving a fuck, which you clearly do, so focus on your DGAF mentality
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:10 PM
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What kind of a question is this? You want to show all those sides, but this won’t matter if your game sucks
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:56 AM
2

Get her to teach you how to chauffeur her around instead.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:17 PM
4

Carnivore diet made my game improve like nothing else. I also have digestive issues and autistic tendencies. Something interesting I found is that low stomach acid can give people pretty much any food intolerance (because it allows undigested food into the gut) and people with autism generally have low stomach acid. It’s a horrible negative feedback loop. I’ve been sipping water and apple cider vinegar with my meals to supplement stomach acid, I’ve found things like gluten, salicylates and oxala…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 09:05 PM
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Fatty meats. 80/20 ground beef, beef tallow, duck fat, heavy cream, butter. I easily eat 3k calories a day with 0 carbs. I don’t think small amounts matter too much
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 10:07 PM
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Lost my shit at Fahrenheits
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 06:14 AM
1

What
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:35 PM
1

Yes I have some annoying autoimmune issues due to food intolerances so I’ll be slowly reintroducing foods and monitoring how they affect me
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:13 PM
1

I’m doing carnivore as an elimination diet. I suspect I react badly to egg whites among other things. I’ve reintroduced egg yolks recently and will try whole eggs soon
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:40 PM
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Who cares if she plays the victim? If she plays the victim and you let it affect you she’ll know she can control you. Just do it swiftly, no emotion, no ‘ifs’ or ‘buts’, you’ve made a decision and that’s final
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:31 PM
0

1lb of Steak or ground beef with extra beef fat and egg yolks
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:23 PM
5

“No I was staring at the girl next to her” points to a child
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:04 AM
3

You’re still making an excuse “because it happened at a kids birthday” just ignore that bullshit or amplify.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:03 AM
1

Set the filter to top posts and search key words like attraction, frame etc.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:46 AM
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She’s trying to beta bait you.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:57 PM
8

Ghost she’s losing attraction
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:53 PM
3

Look into carnivore diet, you’ll lose weight quickly
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:07 PM
1

So.. his daughter is really beautiful and won a beauty pageant 78 years running? Is that what he said?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/19 07:56 PM
32

I have autistic tendencies but you are on another planet, brah
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 09:53 AM
107

“What are we, 14? People eat ass nowadays” hahahahahahahaha thats good
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 09:54 PM
10

Be vague about your goals though. Once someone knows all your aspirations, values etc. It devalues them and makes you less mysterious.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 07:18 PM
16

What exactly were you saying to her throughout the day? I mean how are you “subtly” hinting what you’re going to do
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 09:22 PM
5

You’re worrying about not being the centre of attention instead of trying to enjoy yourself. Or in rp terms: you’re not outcome independent, DGAF or have abundance mindset. Your mindset needs to change. Even if you were attracting attention girls would probably smell the desperation on you, whereas if you didn’t give a fuck and were having fun people would gravitate towards you
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 08:31 AM
7

I would advise against that. It sounds like a threat. You can communicate that same message without stating it overtly
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:56 PM
1

Yeah I was gunna suggest seeing a dietitian. I read a paper recently that suggested almost all health problems - especially skin conditions - can be fixed by a change in diet. Most people are consuming some kind of food that causes them issues. Carnivore being the safest that eliminates all trigger foods
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 09:18 AM
2

It’s not your job to cheer her up. Be her rock. She want’s to feel emotions, don’t try and fix her moods. If she’s complaining about her family, agree with her and comment on how “annoying they are” or some shit
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:47 PM
2

Once you realise LTR = HARD work for a steady stream of sex, and plates = steady stream of sex from minimal work the BP yearning for relationships quickly dissolves
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:02 AM
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I agree. Being overt and brutally honest is what helped me, too, develop DGAF attitude. I would advise against explicitly confirming your sex interest to her. I think, however, that a genuine “we should have sex” would diffuse your chances. I tell girls shit like “we should fuck right here” and it works a charm because it’s done in a way where it couldn’t be taken as sincere. I do think it would be a good exercise for beginners to develop DGAF but it won’t maximise potential results if the aim i…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 10:56 AM
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The Autist Method “We should hook up” needs to change. There’s 0 mystery or intrigue. It’s a fundamental of game to never overtly state your interest in fucking: ASD/LMR. You could say something that heavily implies that you want to fuck without actually saying it. I understand your method is to game as little as possible and weed out the definite lays but why is everyone trying to get the best success rate or the easiest method? Failure and embracing failure is essential. Learning the ancient a…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 07:42 AM
2

This is more of an example why you never stick your dick anywhere moderately near crazy
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 02:47 PM
1

Yeah there’s no point making excuses like I said. I don’t know your bros story but I’ve been in the same situation in the past, I’m glad it happened but ultimately through it I learned that I’m the only one that drive to improve should be coming from
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 01:32 PM
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Your bros wife probably (like all women) was insecure and “fixed” him - something typical of people with low self worth. The point is she still needed his value to increase. If he stayed a lazy slob she wouldn’t have been attracted to him. Either way there’s no point making excuses, better to improve yourself than have someone make you
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 06:49 AM
1

Read how to manage your bitches, and how to train your bitches on the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 06:19 AM
6

Solid. Yes building and maintaining self esteem and confidence should be at the top of everyone’s agenda
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 11:48 AM
4

There’s this fantastic device called google where you’re guaranteed more information than any one person can provide
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:41 AM
1

“I feel like it’s heading into a relationship” what the fuck? No Stop being such a pussy. YOU dictate the state of the relationship
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:54 PM
0

Are they shit tests you’re failing to recognise? You should be hitting on them, teasing them, being flirty at all times. Buuut you sound like someone of low smv who hasn’t read the sidebar and thinks it’s disrespectful to flirt, which it is to women if you’re not attractive
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:43 PM
3

Stop victimising yourself
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:37 PM
3

If a man needs to verbally reinforce his boundaries it shows he is a man who can’t set boundaries. Me personally if she said that shit to me I would ignore her for a week. Saying “what makes you think you can behave like this?” Is a no no. Show her through your actions that that kind of behaviour isn’t allowed. When I see her next she’ll have to do something for me: cook me dinner, suck my dick. Something to earn her position back
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:32 PM
6

Dd/lg girls need a bit more comfort than normal
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:25 PM
-1

Women can’t love the same way men do. Get a boyfriend
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 09:09 PM
1

It was the comment on the post
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 03:48 AM
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Depending on the crime the punishment will vary. Maybe it’ll be a soft next with her trying to arrange something with you once or twice before you agree. Maybe you leave the room to do something else and she finds you. If she’s still acting in an undesirable manner after, repeat the process Usually when she seeks out your attention and acts in a way that pleases you, you give her your attention as a reward. No. Don’t talk about it
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 07:28 AM
4

Give up then? Stop looking for someone to hold your hand while you hamster why you’re staying in a relationship with an utter cunt. Bitch tried to kick you out the car and threaten to throw your stuff out - you either: Leave and never look back Or You stay. By doing which you show her that you’re a pussy who allows a bitch to disrespect you She sees you as beta. Stop wanting to be alpha “in her eyes.” Wtf, man? Be the alpha of your own life, take back power and walk the fuck away
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/19 08:55 PM
1

Especially if you’re older you want to be the amused master that just “gets it,” confident and dominant man who has his shit together. Sounds like you come off a bit too friendly, be more sexual
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 08:10 PM
1

I’m not talking about your appearance
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 07:17 PM
-2

Not sure there was anything you could have done. You weren’t as attractive overall, improve your attractiveness
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 01:48 PM
1

You don’t ask
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:48 PM
1

What more do you think “getting serious” will bring you other than the sex and awesome personality you’re already experiencing..?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:41 PM
1

Women should only ever compliment a mans life, not be the focus of it. You can be red pill aware and successful with women even with women as the focus. Women should only ever compliment a mans life, not be the focus of it.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:33 PM
2

Looooooooooooooool I can’t believe you commented that after reading this post. Hoorah
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 08:07 PM
1

Just wouldn’t consider her for a ltr
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:50 AM
2

Don’t classify yourself as anything. There’s important things to learn even if you don’t have doctor diagnosed nice guy syndrome. I think you need to try to be more honest with yourself when you reflect
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:04 PM
2

In a different post you called her your ‘gf’ and said that she’s told you she wants to fuck other men..
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:00 PM
21

Your dog can turn on the oven? That’s incredible
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 07:50 PM
1

Have you read no more mr nice guy?
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:44 PM
4

Are you new here?
/r/askTRP20/06/19 11:02 PM
1

She could have asked her friends to try it with you to see what you’re like, approach with caution
/r/askTRP20/06/19 07:50 AM
13

That’s called distraction, not fulfilment
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:46 PM
3

You’re clinging on by your teeth. “This isn’t working for me anymore” would “work” much more effectively. If it doesn’t work, you move on and that’s that. Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:05 PM
-1

That isn’t a&a it just sounds like your jealous. Just ignore shit like that
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:52 AM
4

Did you mean to write this in your diary?
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:13 PM
0

Ask her out, when she hits you with IHAB again ignore it or a&a
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:00 PM
3

Seems like she left the door ajar. Continue like it was a shit test, don’t pretend to be her friend
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:21 AM
1

She isn’t a virgin
/r/askTRP18/06/19 12:34 AM
2

Cuddle your McFat wife, cypher
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:14 PM
1

Your idea of what females want is based on photographs they like on Instagram, get a grip. Forget about girls. Improve yourself for you. Make your life interesting for yourself, go to the gym, learn new things (conversational skills, people skills.) Can you see how you talk? You say you’re not making excuses but you list things as if they’re absolute therefore static. You can improve your vocal skills, hit the gym, practice conversing with people. If you haven’t read it read How to win friends a…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:44 PM
1

If you genuinely want the best for yourself you’ll be able to just stop
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:36 PM
2

She is above you if you’re writing a post about it. The usual soft next. Or perhaps you don’t treat her enough like a child
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:25 AM
1

Look past the surface, men’s value is in their utility. Make yourself useful (to yourself) and an independent, spin plates and you will have the pick of the basket. You’re just making excuses so you don’t have to deal with rejection. Read the rational male, no more mr nice guy, you can find them easily online in pdf format. I can’t stress how important reading is when you’re starting your journey
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:18 AM
1

Probably a 6-7 face
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:10 AM
2

It reads like someone looking for incentive to shoot up a gay bar
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:04 AM
8

Who cares? Stop trying to get some material to memorise so you can feel equipped to defending whatever opinions you have. Nobody cares
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:02 AM
2

“I do all the things that I pretty much have no choice in, so I’m far from lazy” What you’re lacking is purpose
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:00 AM
2

When you feel lonely and you don’t know what to do with yourself, use that as a reminder to do nice things that help you improve like reading. I’ve been in the same boat, man, I think it’s because of a weak connection to ourselves, this is something that takes time and effort but is much more rewarding than the short term distraction of smoking. You’ll get there
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:21 AM
1

“Please help me rationalise my laziness”
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:15 AM
2

Yes. But the way op is talking about it is from a female point of view. The pale red head alpha with irrational self confidence and strong frame will win against the pretty boy. Pretty boy probably induces instant tingles but these fade when she finds out he’s a pussy with no frame. Attraction is having a stronger frame than her. Not being good looking is a potential hurdle, though truly not giving a fuck and passing shit tests it brings will flatten that hurdle. I’m not denying physical attract…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:12 AM
1

Read the recommended material
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:52 AM
2

I’m assuming because you’re on the red pill you know how female attraction works, if so, how the fuck can you be jealous of “beautiful” men? It’s like some negative feedback loop. Insecurity and jealousy is ugly on a man. To be attractive you need to stop giving a fuck about bullshit
/r/askTRP16/06/19 05:34 PM
2

He stormed off like a 5 year old and you acted like a toddler in retaliation, nice. Don’t chose retard friends
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:15 AM
10

Why do you think she’s cheating?
/r/askTRP16/06/19 07:54 AM
1

You did it for you, remember that. You’ll get over it soon enough, it’s normal to feel like that just ride it out. You did the right thing, being in that relationship would result in nothing but resentment and would affect your growth
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:59 AM
1

Read no more mr nice guy, pussy. Kisses xo
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:54 AM
5

Walk up to her and jab your fingers into her eyes, that’ll do it
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:00 AM
1

What you’re hoping people will tell you to make you do those things will do nothing unless you have the self discipline to just do them. It’s hard at first but momentum is essential. You need to make yourself your own passion. If you can’t commit to bettering yourself you better start with little things to improve your self worth. The more you do the easier it becomes, starting is the hardest part. You can do it. Yourself. Stop searching for a magical short cut. It takes work
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:54 PM
1

Yeah just move on, that will give you the best outcome. Focus on your own shit
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:52 PM
2

Yeah she seems insecure.. that and you’re both young and you probably don’t lead her well and deal with her insecure bullshit properly - stick around do some more reading, use the search function, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:14 PM
46

She wants to conquer the other woman, pretty common for a girls fantasy that involves another girl (usually the other girl is beneath her e.g. she rides the other girls face, you use her as a fucktoy while you’re committed to her.) Obviously seeing her man fuck another girl in front of her is maximum tingles and then she wins at the end of it. If her fantasy involved another guy that would be a major red flag
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:32 AM
4

10 years is a long time, fuck that. Yeah you’re right, I’d be at the end of my tether after that long though. Would have ended it after she cheated sucking dick in a car park
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:00 PM
3

You didn’t agree and amplify, you just made a joke to a girl without context, obviously she wouldn’t get it. Stop being autistic, try and look at it from her perspective before you say shit. For example: if you’re going to tease her about her location relative to yours (assume she doesn’t know where you are) - she’s going to be confused. You should make it clear that the joke is because she lives a few km north of you then you can tease her “is it cold up there?” Etc. Autism patrol, signing out.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:14 PM
3

Fuck other women. Be up front about it to your wife, you need to take care of your own needs, she isn’t helping you. Why else would you be monogamous to her?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:03 PM
2

You seem like a smart guy, all you’re missing is self discipline. As in: stop wishing because you already have everything you need to make things happen. Good luck mate
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:03 AM
2

Self improvement and higher self worth will help with addictions. Russel brand wrote a good book on addiction. In your case though I’d get a throwaway ltr you can fuck. In the mean time do everything you can to go cold turkey on the porn and focus on finding something productive you can concentrate on
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:00 AM
1

Most guys have weak boundaries. You gunna blame the girl for leaving some retard for a higher value man who approached her?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:01 AM
-6

Leaving a relationship for you isn’t a red flag, cheating is.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:31 PM
1

Read the recommended material on the sidebar
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:27 PM
1

Well are those plates the most red flaggy after you’ve vetted them? I wouldn’t see a girl being comfortable in her sexuality as a red flag necessarily. It’ll also depend on how alpha you are. Like if some bitch telling you to use her like a toy and spit in her mouth and you haven’t exhibited any alphaness, that could be a sign of that bpd hypersexuality. But if you’re alpha, she feels comfortable and you’ve been rough with her already and it’s in a sexual context, probably not a red flag, the ma…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:24 PM
3

Abundance - the effect of which is - you don’t care what happens. Literally not giving a fuck what happens to your ltr has the desired effects of 1. Not caring 2. Not caring The more you don’t give a shit, the more you won’t give a shit what happens, the stronger your frame will be and the more she’ll be attracted. Having insecurities like this is a lose lose situation. It will end badly unless you get rid of them
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:11 PM
1

The post I mentioned tells you exactly why you should never argue.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:39 AM
2

Could be linked to your diet. Food intolerances can affect hormones
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:33 PM
1

Have you been submissive or feminine?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:29 PM
2

Go for the ones with the least red flags
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:24 PM
3

Yeah. Why not? So long as you can handle it. However, dem bitches be crazy and could potentially be a risk to your life
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:22 PM
3

If your girl is being unpleasant to be around, DON’T BE AROUND HER. No I will not give you an example, do some reading on this sub, all the information is there Why don’t you start with the ‘always DARE, never DEER’ post
/r/askTRP09/06/19 10:17 PM
4

Stop hanging out with her and thinking on her behalf. Do some shit for yourself because she’s too comfortable and you’re too invested. If she sees you as higher value she’ll be spoiling you and not thinking twice. She sees you as too much of a beta provider, you need to dread her more and be more aloof.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:42 PM
3

“She would always get angry at me” No, you had a weak frame, and still do. No wonder you haven’t gotten laid since November. Fuck someone else, man. Dis bitch is only trouble for you
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:40 PM
3

NMMNG
/r/askTRP09/06/19 08:01 PM
1

Would the comedown sex be worth her being miserable to be around?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 05:02 PM
1

Mate... she’s on a comedown, why would you want to be with her?
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:19 PM
2

No ones cucking you, you’ve got oneitis over a bitch you haven’t even fucked
/r/askTRP09/06/19 02:07 PM
1

Sounds like you’re half way red pilled anyway. Though you could benefit from knowing why girls behave like that, and more self awareness
/r/askTRP09/06/19 12:28 PM
2

What are you talking about? Of course it matters what you say
/r/askTRP09/06/19 11:27 AM
6

Why? Edit: I’ve just read your previous post on uni and depression, reminds me of myself before I found trp. This sub will help you improve your life, mate. Also you can be good looking but a beta nice guy and you WILL get exploited not only by girls, but people in general
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:03 AM
1

I think she’s trying to make you her bitch cos she’s insecure. Not worth it. What this situation needs is boundaries, let her know what isn’t acceptable
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:22 PM
1

I’d call her out. She sounds annoying. Basically tell her you’re not interested in any non sexual relationship, the old “let’s just be friends.”
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:20 PM
4

Yeah, I agree better isn’t the right word. Though, there is utility in accepting the idea that women always pick the “better” man. It’s not objectively true all of the time but I think it’s key when coming to terms with the fact that hard work is necessary. And it’ll keep you on your shit.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:13 PM
2

Text her telling her who it is, tease her/ private joke if you can. I like to just remind her who it is soon after I’ve got the number, then leave it up to her to reply. Then I know she’s interested
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:57 PM
1

You know what people are going to tell you. Stop searching for reassurance and start putting in work
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:50 PM
13

It’s a good thing, but stop being autistic. Don’t explain yourself. Treat it like a shit test and have fun. “I just can’t figure you out” You: “Same here, I think I lost my instruction manual”
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:46 PM
197

She’s telling you the truth, be thankful. Also she’s probably met someone better than you. If you can accept that and take responsibility for your beta behaviour, then you’re in the right place; read the sidebar. I find it so baffling that people still act beta once they’ve understood just how female attraction works. It’s honestly mind blowing. Read up on it
/r/askTRP08/06/19 11:19 AM
1

You’re complimenting her during “sexy time” but you’re only fingering her...? You say you’ve tried comforting her and relaxing her but you didn’t say you tried withdrawing all your attention when lmr kicks in. “i.e. it’s not me” - it is.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:11 AM
1

Move on and sort your silly betaviour out.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:08 AM
2

Shut up man. Come on. First of all, no. We can always change and improve. Saying “who I am” is a weak excuse. It takes work to improve, you need to be willing, that’s the first step, and the hardest. Second: OBVIOUSLY they’re dumping you. It’s very easy for girls to sense insecurity. “I do have low self worth because girls dump me” - look at how retarded this is. Your self worth is dependent on girls, this causes you to not be attractive and get dumped, which makes it worse and you more dependen…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:01 AM
3

The process isn’t about accepting the “harsh reality,” mate. Reality is harsh. The objective is to improve yourself so you’re equipped to thrive. It’s quite simple, you have low self worth. The more valuable you perceive yourself to be, the less external validation you need. You sound like someone not committed to improving them self.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:16 AM
14

Just delete everything
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:03 AM
1

You serious
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:34 AM
1

Read NMMNG
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:07 AM
1

Go away
/r/askTRP31/05/19 11:05 AM
3

It was in her car bro. He should have apologised and offered to clean it for her
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:53 PM
2

Read no more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:51 PM
1

You’re already in BP fantasy land
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:07 AM
3

Round two gorilla fuck longer
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:11 AM
2

It’s shitty if you’ve drawn the short straw, but victimising yourself WILL NOT help you. If you’re a pain in the ass to be around and, judging by this post, you are, you’ll have no success with anyone. TRP is a tool you could use to accept responsibility over your life, treat yourself well, improve your self worth, improve your health, improve social skills, confidence, cultivate IDGAF attitude, amused mastery etc etc. Money is a smv booster seat. It doesn’t really matter in the equation because…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 06:50 AM
8

The lengths some fatties go to justify not leaving their mom’s basement
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 06:21 AM
2

Plenty on the sidebar. Take her to do something you’ll know you’ll enjoy, have a great time yourself, do what you wanna do. She’ll have fun. Don’t be anyone or do anything you think she wants
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:23 AM
3

I know you think you have a mega-brain but do you actually hear the things you say? My guess is you’re IQ is 100 and you think your way of thinking is unique because you’re too much of an egomaniac to comprehend that other people might think things too
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:20 AM
2

What makes you think she thinks you give a fuck about her stomach? And does she know that you think she thinks you think she’s got a scrotal stomach? Do you think that making some bitch slightly less self conscious is going to get you laid? If so I think you have a bit of a kerfuffle on your hands If you’re attractive and don’t give a fuck, why would she. Stop being lazy and trying to change things around you, put the work in on yourself you fat fuck. Kisses X
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:17 AM
1

I know someone very similar to you, judging by your post history. You’ve got serious work to do my man
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:59 PM
4

I can’t figure out if you’re taking the piss You’re mental
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:53 PM
3

You’re fucked
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:43 PM
3

He’s being a pussy bitch, A&A and amused mastery If you want some helpful knowledge in dealing with people, especially sour cunts like your roommate, read how to win friends and influence people, you’ll learn some important stuff. Also people in general will try and bring you down to their level when they see you improving, they’re insecure fucks just brush it off
/r/askTRP29/05/19 10:34 PM
24

You’ve got oneitis nana na nana na Edit: unless you drove her away with beta behaviour she’s found someone else who is more available
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:50 PM
12

Cry about it on reddit
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:48 PM
4

Jesus Christ. Why do you care?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:47 PM
11

That is not the mindset you want. It still smells of seeking women’s approval. Have you read no more mr nice guy? It should be: “I’m approaching her to have fun and assessing wether or not she’d would make any addition to my life”
/r/askTRP28/05/19 12:03 PM
2

Are you chad
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:59 AM
2

How do you mix up your you’res and your yours
/r/askTRP27/05/19 11:55 PM
1

Have you thought about...... fucking other girls?!
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:55 PM
2

Doesn’t seem like she’s getting comfortable in the usual use of the word. Seems like she’s just getting attached. From what you wrote it doesn’t seem like you’re giving off commitment vibes apart from seeing her frequently. Cut down on contact or time you see her if you need
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:03 PM
3

Look at you!
/r/askTRP26/05/19 05:01 PM
0

Why are you even asking this right now? You aren’t even close to playing her, worry about it then but you need to get there first
/r/askTRP26/05/19 04:49 PM
2

“A mate”
/r/askTRP26/05/19 12:47 PM
11

If your dicks even slightly soft she’ll notice a difference. I once got bored while Ltr was riding and went soft so I had to deal with that insecure shit for a sec. fucked her face for a minute then I was good to go. Fuck 69ing Take control more and for your own pleasure, not hers, you’ll both have a better time
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:04 AM
1

Doesn’t that go against the side bar?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 12:01 AM
4

Don’t kiss her then. Tease her like you’re about to kiss her and pull away, basically just push/pull with kissing. Continue this as you’re escalating, rubbing her clit etc. Flip her on her front and continue teasing her body until she can’t take it anymore, the longer, the hornier she’ll be = better the fuck Read some of VasiliyZaitsev’s posts, he gives a good run down
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:21 PM
4

Demote her
/r/askTRP25/05/19 07:13 AM
1

Smile more
/r/askTRP25/05/19 07:10 AM
3

Should have treated it like a shit test
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:22 PM
5

What the fuck do you think it means?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 06:16 PM
5

Forget hinting anything sexual, you can get down to that when she’s at yours. Yeah your response is alright, just tell her you prefer studying at home and to come over tomorrow. Lead her with confidence, if she declines without trying to reschedule just move on
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:42 PM
2

Push her in a nettle bush
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:33 PM
1

Jesus Christ are you mentally retarded? Run for the hills nigga
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:28 PM
2

Why would you tease her about her performance? The phrase you’re looking for is shit test, are you scared of a little shit test?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 09:45 PM
0

You do not need to ask this question. Do you know how a search function functions?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:19 PM
1

Stomp your feet and ask politely, that’ll get their panties soaked
/r/askTRP23/05/19 04:19 PM
1

What I’m saying is stop trying to get one back at women for it being unfair. Nothings fair. The idea is self improvement, trying to get to a point where you’re confident enough to deal with those situations and not give a fuck anyway. Your whole question screams insecure beta who’ll make excuses so they don’t have to take responsibility. Of course it happens. Something happened to me recently with my LTR present, it was the most major fuck up and we both witnessed a project of mine fall apart be…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 02:57 PM
1

Stop being a whiny little bitch and learn to be emotionally resilient. There’s nothing wrong with a guy who expresses his emotions so long as he can obviously deal with them properly and has a plan and doesn’t cry and victimise himself. Life is unfair. Stop looking for excuses.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:05 AM
2

Could be anything from: Putting on a camp voice and commenting on what the girl you were checking out was wearing Or Saying you were actually checking out the man/old woman next to her Or Saying you’ve never looked at anyone else’s ass but hers in an overly sarcastic tone and a smirk Or My go to: saying “yeah” with a shit eating grin like I know she’s up to something Or in this guys case his girl is insecure she might just need some comfort in the form of him amusedly chuckling at her and giving…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:19 PM
1

First of all I think this girl is a waste of time and the relationship is pretty much down the drain already. She’d probably try extra hard to penetrate your frame if you suddenly started passing her shit tests. I check out girls obviously in front of my LTR. When she calls me out and I can’t be bothered for any jokes I just say “yeah.” Like it’s a normal thing for a guy to do. Which it is. Depending on the moment my responses vary. Read up on shit tests and be creative. Your weak frame is more …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:47 PM
1

It wouldn’t be a problem if your frame didn’t crumble. Just continuing to stare isn’t agreeing & amplifying. A&A makes her insecure bullshit into an absurd joke. You haven’t read any of the material available to you here, have you?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 01:41 PM
34

“My girlfriend shit tests me and I fail” If it’s only enough for her to “notice” then you’re probably trying to hide it, in which case you’re basically telling her it’s bad behaviour - you’re not owning it. You’re a man, of course you’re going to ogle some ass, and girls are insecure but you’re allowing it to be a problem.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:53 AM
16

You’re good. If she reaches out to you again try set up a date. If she flakes next. If you escalate/push/pull with no success - next. Yes that is your beta mindset. In your head you need to get over the fact that girls don’t deserve your attention, therefore it isn’t something that you should feel guilty about for simply not giving
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:51 PM
6

Amused mastery is like viewing everyone as children. Treating men like children might not go down well if it’s condescending. Treat women like children, view everyone as children
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:24 AM
1

Okay I see what you mean. Having struggled with similar things in the past I understand the frustration. I think the main thing to try and practice is being mindful and present in conversation, that way you’re really listening and you can pick up on things you can make jokes out of or lead into topics people have fun talking about. Everyone’s humour is slightly different, playfully teasing is a good way to induce a funny conversation. But before you go into anything I think the mindset “I can ha…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:04 PM
3

One of the key points in How to Win Friends is that you find out what the other person likes talking about and get them talking about it. They should be doing 80% of the talking. It’s one of the things TRP teaches. Being concerned with “having something to say” is a rabbit hole. You want to succeed in your interactions, that book teaches you that if you’re trying to be interesting no one will be interested, you want to make the other person feel interesting. Try and get out of your head and make…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 02:49 PM
2

Yeah, you’re skinny and you know you are so why wouldn’t you agree and amplify? They can smell the insecurity a mile off. So long as you give a fuck about it, it’ll matter to you. It honestly baffles me that even after understanding what shit tests are, people still give a fuck what people say to them, it’s all a fucking game have some fun man. Xo
/r/askTRP20/05/19 10:43 AM
17

I don’t think you solidified anything, mate
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 11:13 PM
41

You’re failing your friends shit tests. If you’re too much of a bitch to A&A your own friends’ banter, how are you going to pass a bitches test Sidebar. Kisses xo
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:01 PM
22

Don’t do your homework
/r/askTRP19/05/19 06:30 PM
15

You don’t know it’s a hate crime, drunk bitches do dumb shit
/r/askTRP19/05/19 08:29 AM
1

May be her ASD. Or attention seeking. Either way doesn’t sound worth it
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:05 AM
1

You would have fucked if you had treated her like a plate
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:08 AM
2

You look autistic answering seriously anyway. It’s more of a compliance test which is your opportunity to tease her. “Guess where I’m from?” “You look like a [shitty place that no one likes] type of girl.” And smirk
/r/askTRP18/05/19 09:02 AM
1

Stop communicating overtly, you look pouty already. Bad behaviour = lack of attention. Have you been here before? Just ignore her text if she asks and if she acts bitchy stay cool and change the subject or calmly remove yourself
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:56 AM
2

Okay Ainsley, if you fancy the things she’s asking for, why not? If it means going out your way or it lots of money, tell her no
/r/askTRP18/05/19 07:59 AM
1

I hear you brutha. Consider it a conscious second birth, it’s not fun being squeezed out a vagina, covered in shit, but you gotta get through that stage nonetheless.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:51 PM
1

She’s got you right where she wants you. As your mother I think I should let you know... you should have fucked her by now. Stop being a little bitch! Do you even know what the red pill is? She should be willing to hop on your dick because you’re willing to walk away when she wastes your time
/r/askTRP17/05/19 08:03 AM
2

People think religion started as a means of getting large groups of people to cooperate by having a purpose that they all shared. The marriage thing goes against our nature but it makes sense in the context of keeping order and ensuring children are nurtured properly. I wouldn’t say religion is part of the feminine imperative but it certainly benefited it. Obviously you’re angry about this and are searching for something to make you feel better, don’t. Dealing with this shit will make you grow. …
/r/askTRP17/05/19 07:48 AM
1

Go away idiot head
/r/askTRP16/05/19 03:00 PM
6

The plates that are worthy of LTR won’t be fucking other people. You wouldn’t LTR a plate who has those red flags
/r/askTRP15/05/19 08:56 PM
2

I’m sure you know how to escalate already. Be dominant with her, tell her what she’s gunna do. As it’s your first time you might want to -after you’ve escalated enough and she maybe has your penis in her mouth - tell her she’s going to swallow your cum like a good little girl and she’ll get her reward after. That way you’ll be able to give her a good dicking and not have to worry about cumming too quickly. While you’re waiting to recharge I suggest teasing her to the point of frustration, the lo…
/r/askTRP15/05/19 09:33 AM
0

You’re probably right. If you’re being fulfilled by your goals that’s a good thing but you don’t want to end your social life completely, stir the pot once in a while. It’s all about balance
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:38 AM
2

“Do you speak English?”
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:02 PM
13

Are you sure it’s abundance or are you just scared to fuck these girls so you talk yourself out of it?
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:07 PM
13

Don’t tease girls about shit that could make them more insecure.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:04 PM
1

And no more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP12/05/19 08:21 PM
1

Yes. You’re past the most important step though. I advise you read how to win friends and influence people, it’ll help you understand how people work, yourself included
/r/askTRP12/05/19 08:21 PM
2

It’s attention seeking behaviour. You’re doing it to try and gain back control. Realising this is good
/r/askTRP12/05/19 01:07 AM
7

Your problem is you’re trying to get people to like you. Obviously you want to feel appreciated but you’re going about it in the wrong way. People don’t give a fuck about you, they care about themselves. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People, seriously. You sound like it’d help you a lot. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/05/19 01:01 AM
1

Plausible deniability. Look it up
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:13 PM
1

Take a large net and some pepper spray out with you. It’ll make holding onto them a whole lot easier once you catch them
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:17 AM
1

Take a large net and some pepper spray out with you. It’ll make holding onto them a whole lot easier once you catch them
/r/askTRP11/05/19 10:17 AM
24

I struggled with this. A sociopath doesn’t care, but they play the game to win and they play it well. Being interested takes work and practice before it becomes second nature. Tell yourself that every single person has interesting things about them. It’s easier to have fun and find ways to enjoy interacting with anybody when you feel good too. I keep repeating this phrase: All reflection and no action leads to depression/cynicism. All action but no reflection leads to a burn out You don’t have t…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 07:05 AM
3

Now you accept that your life’s meaning is dictated by you and you only. You’re doing fine, just ride it out. Things will become more enjoyable than they were, mark my words. When you acknowledge the world for the shit show it is, it makes the things that actually matter to you more meaningful
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:21 AM
12

These comments are retarded. Make a joke/pressure flip
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:00 PM
1

It’s normal for people to be stressed about exams. It’s probably too late to say anything but if she’s still being a cunt then obviously just leave
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:18 AM
1

So when are you shooting up a mosque?
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:12 AM
1

How successful have you been with women lately? It could be a momentum thing. Nothing wrong with taking a break but focusing on your goal and reflecting whilst you’re not seeing any might leave you depressed. I saw this phrase recently and I posted it on a different post too, something like: Action without reflection leads to exhaustion. Reflection without action leads to cynicism(/depression)
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:00 AM
2

Give yourself a break, man. You need to actually enjoy your journey. Working on your goal and reading philosophy is all fine but it could be the end of you if you’re not having fun. If you put your goal/purpose before your own wellbeing and happiness of course you’re going to be depressed. A purpose is fundamental, but it’s still separate from you. It isn’t more important
/r/askTRP09/05/19 10:49 AM
1

Soft next
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:01 PM
2

You can start anywhere, it doesn’t have to be approaching girls. Just do and say things that someone who doesn’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of them might. You have to force yourself initially, though you get used to these things - you stop caring. The best way is to start with little things and work your way up. Do it for you, too. Do it for your own entertainment and for your own improvement. If it’s about you you take responsibility and accept failures as part of the process
/r/askTRP07/05/19 11:39 PM
2

You’re making good progress, keep improving, man. Wanting to look after the girls might be a sign that your self image is still poor. You’re thinking “what can I do for them” instead of “what will they add to my life”. You’re probably still intimidated by the hot ones. They’re still just girls who want to be looked after by a masculine man. But they just have more of a guard up because they’re hot, that guard sorts the men from the boys
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:48 PM
3

Voluntarily put yourself in uncomfortable situations and embrace it. After a while you can do anything and not give a fuck. ‘Get comfortable being uncomfortable’ has application to any corner of existence
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:38 PM
1

All your interactions seem weird. Why would you tell her boyfriend you made out with her? I would have taken it slowly, obviously. Building rapport and being relaxed and NGAF
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:32 PM
3

It isn’t a fucking race man, slow down. You’re not going to fuck anyone moving at that speed
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:41 PM
9

Your messages are painful to read. Sidebar
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:28 PM
3

Plenty of good movies around, new and old. Stop watching blockbusters, they appeal to the majority so obviously they're full of blue pill bullshit. Aim to be indifferent to the world, DGAF
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:07 PM
1

Thought about moving to a bigger city?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 09:24 AM
1

Sociopaths are very aware that they’re different from others, just maybe not of a label. I’m interested in the fact that there was no “I do X”. When referring to his own behaviour he said “I’m told” a lot. I’m just making assumptions but I get the impression of little remorse and a lack of a strong sense of self
/r/askTRP06/05/19 08:58 AM
1

I'd say lose it with a 7 at least. You won't hate yourself for either fucking Jabba the Hut or prematurely ejaculating on Selina's thigh.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:30 PM
1

I get what you're saying. Do you recognise these behaviours in yourself? When people tell you does it make you think "yeah I do do that" or can you not see it in yourself. You seem slightly sociopathic to me, but not that self aware.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:26 PM
6

Everything you did was the worst possible thing to do. Why are you trying to make her feel sorry for you? That's pussy behaviour. ​ Also you should have treated it like a shit test - if it works and you pass, great. If not, you know she's not interested and move on
/r/askTRP05/05/19 09:05 PM
2

Kill em
/r/askTRP04/05/19 11:29 PM
2

Boring
/r/askTRP04/05/19 07:44 PM
1

Only as edgy as all your broken plates
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:41 PM
3

(Depending on the girl being LTR material or not) You should expect commitment, though never demand it. If they don’t commit they aren’t worth it.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:21 PM
2

If you’re fucking hot girls surely he’d know about them and shut up. If you’re fucking hot girls you wouldn’t have written this post
/r/askTRP03/05/19 09:16 PM
35

If he’s such a good friend why can’t you be honest with him and tell him you don’t fuck dungeon dwellers
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:16 AM
88

You’ve identified that you can see the problem in retrospect; work on being in the present. When you’re more aware of what’s going on you can practice what you’ve learned here about push/pull, teasing, kino etc.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:13 AM
1

Stop investing your identity on external labels. Your values are unique and don’t need to align with any person or group. Who cares?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:49 PM
1

She should feel comfortable enough with you to open up sexually. Sounds like she has a bit of a thing for humiliation. Do you call her things like “my filthy little whore”? Most of sex is mental. She’s giving you an insight into what gets her going, use it, stimulate her mind more
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:27 PM
6

To the “you need me” bullshit I would just ignore
/r/askTRP01/05/19 09:23 PM
5

You might have NPD, possibly BPD. I’m pretty sure guys can have borderline
/r/askTRP30/04/19 06:44 PM
1

Not in the same way they are important to women
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:56 AM
5

“I’m more invested than my plate and I’m scared of losing her”
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:10 PM
1

Looooooooooooooooooool
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:30 PM
2

Cultivate options.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:19 PM
2

She will find you attractive if you approach her with confidence. You’re too concerned with your looks, they aren’t very important
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:15 PM
5

Someone endorse this contributor
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:31 AM
5

What did you make yourself exceptional at?
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:24 AM
1

Read everything you can on frame, yours is weak
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:12 AM
2

Bark aggressively in their faces
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:00 AM
6

You must be implementing trp in your life and improving. “All reflection and no action leaves you depressed”. You must be improving and getting results or you won’t grow. Apply trp to your life, take responsibility. This is a hard thing to do but tell yourself your girl would be initiating if you were attractive enough. Get some momentum. You may be in a situation where you need to throw yourself into the deep end- break it off and start spinning plates. You’ll see improvements quicker
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 03:32 PM
6

Call a meeting with her and the guy she fucked. Make a circle holding hands and lovingly embrace each other, tell them both you forgive them, sit in the corner and smile into your girls eyes whilst he rails her from behind. If you don’t do this she’ll never know that you’ll be able to get through it
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:13 AM
1

You’re the centre of your own universe. Sounds like you’re living too much in the future, looking for a purpose there. There is no magical purpose lurking in the future, just the prospect of creating your own with constant hard work. Of course you’re going to be depressed if you’re always speculating over the final product (there isn’t one). Short term goals, mate. I had a similar problem, you need a bit of healthy ego, you can’t get rid of it entirely. Embrace your selfishness. Appreciate the p…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:46 AM
1

You’re not attractive to her, easiest to move on
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:13 AM
1

You ain’t attractive
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:11 AM
1

I think in situations like this it’s best to soft next until she initiates
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:17 PM
5

You’re too invested
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:42 PM
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