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When settling down with someone you have to be honest with these things, no? How would you feel if your wife conveniently withheld this information?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 09:30 AM
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It can work I believe but you must constantly game her, hold frame and never show any weakness. It's tiring, I know.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 07:57 PM
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If you continue to game her and don't let your value drop, she'll generally continue to feel that same drive toward you. I agree that you can extend the duration of this feeling but by how much? Months? Years? It's inevitable it will fade away at some point. If you think it will last forever you're straight up turning a blind eye to human nature. Ask every married or 3+ years couple you want. Generally speaking, the mistake that most men make in relationships most of the time centers around lett…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:48 PM
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Because who cares if I find the other person unattractive as long as my friend is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 02:54 PM
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Me and my friends shit talk eachother for breakfast. Way more than what most people would deem normal. However we also unconditionally love and support one another. We never deprecate eachothers dating choices unless they're unhealthy/toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:34 PM
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I love how you can't tell the difference between banter and observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:30 PM
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I love how this "friendship" of yours is inherently toxic and your comment is literally you coping back and forth, rationalizing and prettifying the situation while turning the blind eye. When a friend gets into a relationship, you always are happy for him/her and never make such comments, unless the relationship or other person is toxic. You and your friends, clearly don't give a shit about eachother's happiness. You want eachother's 24/7 exclusivity and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:05 PM
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I acted insensitive about something plus a lot of small stupid shit. Basically she thinks I don't care about her.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:15 PM
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Yes I see. I also believe that by apologizing you lose next to no value, since the fact that you owned your mistake shows maturity and will earn you respect. You'd want the same from the other person in the relationship too. It's more of a human rather than a woman thing.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 10:50 PM
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You are correct, I forgot the golden rule of trp, never talk more than you should/give unnecessary Information. Should I just wait for her to hit me up now?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:37 PM
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I don't know man, first time she acts like this. It honestly worries me because she always acts very maturely. Maybe I was wrong about her. We'll see.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:54 AM
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Make other plans— I wouldn’t hang out with someone who threw a fit like that. Yeah you're right Why wouldn’t you just bring your LTR to your mate’s party? I don't want to
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:31 AM
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I'll probably just do this, but it sucks cause I probably won't see her tomorrow If I take that approach. She will be expecting me to hit her up and when I don't she'll get even more upset lol.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:29 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:41 PM
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There's a difference between vulnerability and weakness Yes, being vulnerable means exposing your weakness. There's a direct correlation. But later I started to divulge more of my weaknesses snd it slowly killed attraction As I mentioned before, disclosing your weaknesses with women can be tricky. You mustn't be a little bitch about it, but instead, own it up. Show her that you are still strong despite your weak sides and that you're working on fixing them. On the other hand, if you show her tha…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:15 PM
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Yeah good point. There are plenty of ways of avoiding it and that's what I did so far. I'll just go yolo and try it. My findings could always help the community aside from myself.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:45 PM
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Just don't be an emotional bitch about it 100% agree. I strongly believe that you can still be volnerable, talk about your feelings, show weakness etc, as long as you don't have a defeatist autitude and you own it up. That's my biggest concern actually. I could never show weakness. But from many conversations I had about this with female friends of mine I realized that women actually like it, they want you to be a human, not a robot. As long as you don't show them that you are in dispair, you ar…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:43 PM
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This seems so tiresome. I tried it once and didn't work out (mostly because the girl was toxic, so I had to end it). I just want to let myself enjoy it and stop thinking about maintaining mystery or the long term strategy or how to game her. I'm confident with myself and I know that just by being myself I can maintain mystery and keep the upper hand. So yeah, I'm thinking of actually letting my guard down for once and tell her how I feel. Maybe this will be my mistake but I don't care at this po…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:08 PM
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I understand. Thanks for your input!
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:01 PM
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Yeah I'm really good looking, like, model tier. When we go out women comment about me and stare. But is that enough? Red pill doesn't seem to think so from what I've read.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:59 PM
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You didn't read my post, did you? I KNOW she 99.9% isn't different, I KNOW she 99.9% is NOT a unicorn. But I don't care. I just want to try having feelings for once. I got bored of meaningless sex and sub 80 iq thots.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:58 PM
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"DGAF" is like a philosophy, which in time can be your state of mind. For me is living life to the fullest, being happy and being myself. Of course, that's kind of subjective. If you see everything as a game, you start liking it the better you become at it. And by game i don't mean only flirting with women you want to fuck. I mean living for the game of life, every interaction you have with other people. You create a character and you build it. I enjoy casual, deep conversations, meeting new peo…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 12:29 AM
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Oh, in this case yes.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 04:21 PM
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This. The OP probably made a mistake, I believe he meant "psychologist".
/r/askTRP02/06/19 01:57 AM
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I don't think that's a good idea. Yeah, you should make it look like you are interested, you don't give a shit and you're not needy. But not replying for 20-30 minutes is fucking annoying and it can piss the other person off. As long as your texts are on point, short and the conversation doesn't last for ages then you are good. You mustn't text her all day, that shows you have nothing better to do. If you take a break from texting then all good, but if you send every text every 20 minutes then t…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:29 PM
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