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Recap: be yourself without doing anything is reserved for vaginas. Be yourself as a man means lifting, reading, learning, and pushing yourself to become the genetically best version of yourself that you can create. I am fucking working day in and day out at this. Every night my back and legs are killing me from my time at the gym. My resume is something I'm rather proud of. I get compliments on my appearance, even from people I never hear compliment others on theirs. ...but no girl wants to fuck…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:32 AM
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You have T levels that they can only dream about and (in their opinion) you piss that advantage against the wall. Pardon? I don't follow. Them saying 'Be Yourself' is an invitation to actually DO SOMETHING RAD. My idea of rad is TRP's advice: better powerlifting totals, awesome credit score, culturing the mind. But it hasn't helped a lick when my game is fucking awful and I'm resentful. But sure, generic advice can't work for everyone.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:26 AM
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If you're right, then the implication is that I'm not actually good looking. Probably true. Welp. There's another thing I suck at.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 06:27 PM
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Do you have hobbies? If not, get some. I love my hobbies. I throw myself into them because I gain enjoyment from them. Maybe I'm trying to make up for the enjoyment I wish I could gain from other people but don't. Go to a bar or do above said hobby you enjoy and chat with everyone and lo and behold there will eventually be a girl that might be into you. Ah there it is. Even on TRP you can still find the old "just be yourself" chestnut.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:56 PM
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It seems like maybe you're giving off a "fuck-off" vibe to them. Yeah probably. I'm likely coming off as kind of a prick, better than other people and bored by them. Not entirely sure how to change that (if I even should) but at least understanding is the first step.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 04:53 PM
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If you haven't done X, I seriously doubt you can have a good understanding of the desirability of it, one's ability to restrain themselves about it, etc. You just don't know because you don't have the experience. Your post is a rambling point that strongly implies people shouldn't have sex outside marriage, yet you also steer clear of directly saying why you think so. The result is telling people "this is how I think you and I should act" without giving them any good reasons
/r/TRPOffTopic10/03/17 12:33 AM
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18 days since PMO, 9 since MO. Touched myself again very recently but just dead it seems. Saw some softcore stuff and got a halfie, but aside from that nothing has actively gotten me up. :(
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:48 AM
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So I try for the assertive/dominant/commanding, and it gets ignored. Should have done the "let's meet" suggestion. Shit. I can't even implement the right strategy at the right time. shit. TBH Thank you for some great feedback.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:43 PM
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I do in fact have a shirtless pic among my photos. But what's the point when I don't get laid so no girl cares what my body looks like anyway. And I'm good with messaging less. But jesus H Christ it's hard enough having enough personality and convo pushing skills for two when these vacuous chicks have nothing to contribute. How the heck I'm supposed to build chemistry I'll never know. And I've been as legitimately busy for a long time now, and it hasn't gotten me anywhere. So shit, man. That's w…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:39 PM
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https://postimg.org/gallery/20t579f1e/3ae7d27d/#.WFwKAfCVx3I Well then please continue being candid about these.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:18 PM
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Believe it or not, I've been seeing a CBT psychotherapist every single week including yesterday. Been seeing a psychiatrist every few months and have been taking my antidepressants religiously. That's why I don't know where else to turn. If I'm still in the pits and I'm seeing a professional, maybe the masculine wisdom of the guys on here is something I haven't tried yet.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:06 PM
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Are you even sure you're creating attraction with these girls? You sure they're in to you? Make sure you do what you can to get them into you
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:55 AM
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She needs to open you anyway, and Bumble kinda sucks because most girls won't do that, so nothing will likely come of this. Accept it. At least there's nothing for you "to do"
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:53 AM
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Tell her "Listen, on second thought, it's a bad idea for us to pursue this while we work together."
/r/askTRP20/12/16 05:08 AM
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Serious criminal activity Addiction/substance abuse Serious mental illness
/r/askTRP19/12/16 11:26 PM
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OP doesn't even describe what he was wearing or why the girl was complementing his clothing. Leaving that info out makes the title clickbait-y TBH. This ain't MFA here but some info on that would be cool The "flipping the boring questions" concept is new to me. Can anybody give me further reading on that?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:16 PM
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Internalized third-wave feminism is the reason people would downvote this thread. By denying the reality of how simple, incontrovertible causal relationships exist in a complex world, people are virtue-signaling that they would rather deny the truth of this topic. After all, women have traditionally had social interaction be more integral to their societal role than men. Thus, they are more sensitive to information and narratives going against their preffered interpretation of events. So when th…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:59 PM
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Take or find a good picture that include a straight-on, level view of your face. Go in Paint or whatever and crop out everything that's not your head. Then Google Image search "men face shape" and compare.
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:39 AM
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Why do they call her a fuckboy?
/r/seduction14/12/16 01:37 AM
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When people tell me I'm smart and handsome, my head gets bigger.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:59 PM
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The first obvious downside is that you won't be able to procreate. Might you eventually want to have kids, and how will that factor in?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:22 AM
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It would be good for everyone if you could either make peace with your housemates+brother or at least earn their respect. HOW to do that is difficult, but it's a worthy goal.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 01:12 AM
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This article was specifically referring to political shit tests as gatekeeping for sex, specifically. Unless my reading comprehension is bad, that's a different scenario from the sidebar stuff.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 01:02 AM
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LOL. OP, have you ever encountered this shit test? Like, you're making out and getting hot and heavy, start grabbing each others shirts off, and she goes "BUT DO YOU OPPOSE RAPE CULTURE AND THE PATRICARCHY?". lol no Because this isn't a real shit test. It's a made up problem that people with too much time on their hands (including that author and you) are writing about online. Come back when this really happens IRL.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 12:06 AM
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This is a different way to think about it if you're still confused
/r/askTRP13/12/16 12:00 AM
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If you're one of these people thinking "what the heck are patronizing motivational posts doing here", you're probably unlike most readers of this sub. Those of us subscribed, reading, and trying to change things about ourselves and our lives are struggling - to different extents. But that nature of trying to change is difficult. With difficulty comes discouragement. And that's why this post is necessary: it speaks to the people here which involves people trying to improve and thus guys strugglin…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:49 PM
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How did you know what you want to be? I think the trick is 1.) Identify what you already know about who you are and what you want and 2.) Not expect to know everything about yourself or what you want. This means you can't expect to identify all your desires or values or objectives, but you can certainly identify some. This gives you a good starting point, and by working towards those and life experience combined you'll clarify your ideas about the rest.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:21 PM
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Richard Lewis, an entertaining SJW opponent, debunked this piece in a rambling but fun video
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 03:18 PM
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I dunno, man. Who do you want to be? Clearly you know some of the things that'd make you more attractive. But only you can know what you value.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:28 PM
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please give me some tips.. Get on a computer and read the sidebar. Cha-ching, biggest help you can get!
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:54 AM
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She's way into you, but you've only seen each other once? The bigger question is how and when you get to see her next. Why the heck are you trying to figure out the ground rules with a chick you've only seen once? Lol
/r/seduction29/11/16 04:52 AM
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A few things You're quite deep down the introspection rabbit hole here. There's nothing inherently wrong with deep thinking or introspection, but we have to keep it in context. Some of this thinking is abstraction without usefulness, or the sort of stuff that doesn't matter once you stop thinking about it. "Why do people act in X way/treat me like Y" questions are hard. In the field of psychology it's hard enough to know why in a controlled setting, let alone life. The point is that if it's hard…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:50 AM
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Please learn to use the "Enter" key if you want anyone to read what you typed.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 12:56 AM
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I suspect the fapping to porn has much to do with this. Have you ever tried cutting porn out of your life? Asking since I've been in this exact situation, and that's what caused it and more (like ED) in my case.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:53 AM
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Highly recommend finding a decent Brazilian jiu jitsu gym near you. You will definitely not even be the oldest, and it will make you feel good about yourself. Oh and you'll definitely get humbled, get you in shape, and teach you some appropriate aggression.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:46 AM
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Had to check again to make sure this wasn't a GayLubeOil post.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 03:53 PM
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I think your question is impossible to answer. Maslow's hierarchy of needs dictates that we all have needs even if we are physically satisfied. But would any particular person need an LTR? Would it be a luxury or a necessity? What's the essential difference between a need and a "want"? You can argue about this stuff all day long, but none of this discussion is really productive when such a question can only be answered on a person by person basis.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:55 PM
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When a girl is sucking your cock, it feels very good physically. However, your mind doesn't see it all the same. There's a difference between "she's sucking my cock because I paid her" and "she's sucking my cock because she thinks I'm hella sexy and wants to please me".
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:28 AM
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Good post. Thanks for explaining that. I too have found the comparisons to female genital mutilation to be quite convincing.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 08:35 PM
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So tonight apparently CNN is livestreaming their election coverage. And Wolfie Blitzer & co are feeling mighty uncomfortable. The agitation was palpable. As a matter of principle, I try not to cherish revenge; with that said I couldn't help but enjoy watching the people visibly squirm. As a point for our newbies here, educate yourself about body language. Look up a book at your local library, watch a televised poker match, or whatever resource you wish . . . but learn some body language. When yo…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:47 AM
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My own father said this to me, in the "well if I'm cut then I guess you should look like me" way. I don't blame him, but it doesn't mean I need to buy into that way of thinking. How did your "Now I don't think so" way of thinking come to be? I personally rejected the "because we've done it this way before" line of thinking, but that alone doesn't provide a good prescription for the future. What influenced you to siding against circumcision?
/r/askTRP09/11/16 07:17 AM
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its seem to me, given a choice between a misogynistic, and an misandrist, we'd pick the man. seems to be Americans still value male leadership, irregardless of the faults, over a conniving woman. Don't put too much stock in this. Hillary will likely win the popular (total number of votes, period) vote or come very close. As a practical matter, nearly all presidential elections (regardless of candidates) are quite close percentage-wise, so drawing conclusions about society from this is . . . fool…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:05 AM
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Not all of us here are Trump supporters. While this sub and community indexes high for alt-right and Trump voters, there are still various political ideologies represented here. With that said, the more important thing is that Hillary lost. Regardless of the merits or flaws of Trump, keeping Hillary and the prospect of her awful social policies out of power is the biggest win here tonight, whether you're a Trump fan or not.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 06:33 AM
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You're thinking I'll describe to you how good it is, but I'm not going to play that game. You know it's good, and you know you want it. And once you get it, you'll understand and be able to enjoy it. Does it require plenty of hard work and reshaping of one's self? Yes it does for us recovering AFCs. Is it worth it? In more ways than just the pleasure of the experience it. Only great effort can lead to a great payoff. But I'm not going to sit here and describe how good it is so you can motivate y…
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:24 AM
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You should stay away from posting stuff on the internet when you are feeling blue and pessimistic. Nobody will like what you're saying, and it won't even be true.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 02:44 AM
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Why are you asking about HIIT? Is it because you want to lose weight and you enjoy cardio more than lifting? Because if you like cardio, do it. If you like lifting, do it. But eating right is the real key to weight loss.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:14 AM
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Yeah sex is good. Very good. But be warned it's not like masturbation, and it's not like porn taught you. Fucking with another human is a new experience, and no matter how much you've fucked yourself you won't be prepared. That's ok. You can't learn to drive on a highway from just playing Mario Kart. Oh, I've watched a whole bunch of porn too. I regret it now because I discovered it gave me erectile dysfunction. So if you get with a real girl and you literally cannot have sex because of lack of …
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:08 AM
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Without being a sarcastic tool, is York escalation something I should read up on, or is it Autocorrect gone awry?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:15 PM
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This post's title is bad; this is a shame because the content of this post is useful and oft-forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:30 AM
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I've talked to my parents because I was venting to them and they suggested I talk to an RA though I'd rather solve it with him, he's just not cooperating. Do any of you have any advice on my situation? And why are you here if you're telling us the advice other people gave you? You gonna talk to the RA or not? But based on the way you asked someone else, they gave you advice, and you didn't act on it, it probably doesn't matter what we say since you won't act on our advice either.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:47 AM
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If you're improving yourself as a man, this trip is neither a referendum on your worth nor an opportunity to be squandered. In other words, if you hit a grand slam it's great, but if you strike out it doesn't mean much. Honestly, neither your background of BP relationship nor your future is too unique. Most of the guys here are AFCs or BP converts. So if you have specific questions, those may help you more. Ask away.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:32 AM
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See most guys come to find TRP because of lack of sexual success. Thus, there's more emphasis and attention on sexual strategy and seduction. So when a guy comes here and says "yeah I fuck" he's in the minority. When you come here and say "but I want a relationship" . . . why are you asking here? There's stickied threads and the sidebar and the recommended books and the search bar . . . but you're not set? What do you want from us? What exactly do you want to know?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:20 AM
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but I defintely need to rewatch the oneitis video to help me take her off this pedestal I keep placing her on. I doubt that's what'll truly help with oneitis, but hope it works for you.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:10 AM
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Ever seen The Matrix? Do you know what "the red pill" was in that movie? It was an offer to see the world as it really is. Likewise, this "Red pill" is a way of destroying the lies society tells about various things. What you do with your newfound knowledge is up to you. There's nothing "blue pill" about relationships including man/woman romantic ones. We're here to eliminate the misinformation, not tell you what to value. You want to have long walks on the beach and candlelit dinners? Go for it…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:55 AM
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Can you give us any lessons he demonstrates? Any takeaways here to benefit our own game and our own selves?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:48 AM
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I have developed enough rapport with this girl I am interested in to finally ask her out and did so earlier today. This girl is a solid 9 so I was surprised when she said she'd love too. So here arises my dilemma; my approach was ubër beta and I dont know if shes just being nice or not. You don't need to worry about why she said yes. It's a waste of your mental energy. Obviously she said yes because she's attracted. You can idly wonder how much she's attracted, but it doesn't matter. Focus your …
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:39 AM
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The other poster nailed it. You would do well to become more attractive and improve your game. You have a good start, and now it's time to step it up even more.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:21 AM
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I think there's a number of stand up comedians that excel at making ordinary things sound interesting. Dave Chappelle and Louis CK for instance are not only funny but make astute observations of the world. Look them up. If you want to model interesting people to emulate, try Mark Manson, Mike Rowe, CM Punk (Phil Brooks), Christopher Hitchens . . .
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:15 AM
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Give us an example of such a situation. That would help clarify the sort of advice you could use.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 04:06 AM
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Don't get me wrong, there are countless knuckleheads on this subreddit that can't tell useless posts from good ones. So please don't base your sense of the quality of your post on the general feedback from the plebs. Just because they downvote something doesn't mean much. And yeah, these TRP readers are hard to convince. They're even hard to convince when the thread is about something that seems counterintuitive. So if you do make a thread like this again, just have to put a great deal more effo…
/r/TRPOffTopic31/10/16 04:43 AM
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If you're a podcast listener, check out Holiday's interview on Econtalk, a fantastic show.
/r/RedPillBooks30/10/16 03:04 AM
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You're the thick skulled one here, I'm afraid. You tried to take the concept of "frame is important even when fucking someone you paid to do it", which is a provocative statement. With a thesis that outlandish, the onus is on you to make your case. And I don't think you were as convincing as you thought you were. Thus, people completely didn't understand why you thought the frame was important there and basically said "yeah never would frame be less important than for a girl you already paid". I…
/r/TRPOffTopic29/10/16 04:50 AM
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Thank you for the uplifting words. I think you're right; this is what I needed to hear. Now the path is before me; time to walk down it. :)
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:10 PM
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I appreciate the specific advice. Looks like my library has a copy too!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:07 PM
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Well shoot. You come along and say "yeah you don't have genuine self confidence". You're probably right since you know more here than I do. So now I find out I don't even have self confidence. Crap. Well your diagnosis is quite useful tho. Time to figure out how to internalize what you're saying.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:43 AM
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What is the first rule of fight club? What is the second rule of fight club? Don't fucking talk about it, you dolt. Why on earth you know the rule but you're considering breaking it is beyond me. Look, you'll come across as a warrior for an ideologically unacceptable cause if you are publicly an MRA. Thus, if you are going to do the presentation on some MR topic, make it very issue-specific. Talk about men's lack of reproductive rights or alimony laws or something like that, but don't branch out…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:29 AM
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She even publicly proposed to him. Ok this one is new to me. LOL if it's true. But seriously, Vince is a control freak. Lots of people didn't want to work with him forever. Not a surprise Paige is just the latest one, and it has no RP ideas behind it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 11:34 PM
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My first TRP account here, first post in a TRP sub after a 1+years of lurking I have enormous respect for you, the mods and prolific writers, and your very difficult decisions you've made. It takes a great deal of integrity and personal resolve to hold fast to your ideals, even when the consequences are unpleasant. However, what you describe in this post, as much as I may admire it, is exactly the reason I will likely never be an involved member of this community. Your vision of what TRP can and…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:32 PM
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