DedicatedDad74 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Question about debt		DedicatedDad74	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 03:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	To all my brother on this sub In my case, the other man raising my kids is my STBX's girlfriend. Just had a row this weekend after my daughter complained to me that mom said the girlfriend was another parent. Nope. I am their dad. All day, every day. Full stop.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/20 04:57 PM
2	Question about debt This post sent me over the edge. Couldn't stop thinking about it. Not sure why this seeped in when others bounced off me, but I have a consultation with an attorney in the morning. Thank you. Serious. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/20 03:06 PM
1	Question about debt She works part-time, but could easily work full-time - her job is always asking her to work more days. She chooses not to because she hasn't had to.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/20 07:29 PM
1	Question about debt Unfortunately, I'm not. This has come up for me a lot lately. I've recently discovered that she was dating the girlfriend as early as two months after our son was born (which is a full 8 months earlier than when I found out about it) - and probably long before.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/20 03:28 PM
1	Question about debt I do. I think about these decisions all of the time - what's best? What's the path of least damage to my kids? Which path will they best be able to thrive? Which path can I walk without losing my mind? or my integrity? Currently, I'm picking the low hanging fruit and managing the administrative pieces: getting the financial ducks in a row, establishing separate bank accounts, documenting conversations, moving items in the house into our respective areas (I live downstairs, she lives upstairs), d…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/20 03:26 PM
1	Question about debt I don't disagree, and I am keen to end this scenario ASAP but what am i supposed to do? I am not going to abandon maintaining a home for my kids. I am not going to move out and live, where? in my car? and just continue to pay the bills.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 08:46 PM
1	Question about debt Yes, I've often thought her girlfriend carries the most amount of risk in all of this. There are other examples. I've been quite shocked, actually, at the lack of forethought in a lot of how things have gone down. To be perfectly honest, her lack of basic foresight and financial responsibility concerns me greatly about how things for my kids will be managed, which is another of the many reasons I've ground my heels in and refused to give up any control of finances or schedules until the divorce …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 05:22 PM
1	Question about debt The most I'd want is the $3000 back.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 04:32 PM
1	Question about debt Thank you. I wasn't planning to hold on to the cash but to pay the debts off immediately, but I appreciate your advice.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/20 04:30 PM